Life after Miscarrage | 6 Months Update after Miscarraige with Bilal and Shaeeda | Our Summer Day
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
- Welcome to Bilal and Shaeeda's UA-cam channel! Join us as we take you on a captivating journey through our lives on 90 Day Fiancé, 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?, and 90 Day Fiancé: Pillow Talk. In this vlog, we will be giving you an update on our lives after the heartbreaking experience of a miscarriage approximately six months ago. Additionally, Shaeeda will be sharing a glimpse into her summer day, allowing you to see what a typical day looks like for her.
On our channel, we aim to provide an intimate and authentic look into our lives, sharing both the highs and lows that we have encountered along the way. We believe in the power of storytelling and hope that by opening up about our personal experiences, we can connect with our viewers on a deeper level.
The past few months have been a rollercoaster of emotions for us as we navigated the difficult journey of coping with a miscarriage. We will be candidly discussing our healing process, the challenges we faced, and the support we received from our loved ones. Our aim is to shed light on the often-taboo topic of pregnancy loss, fostering understanding and empathy among our viewers who may have gone through similar experiences.
In addition to sharing our post-miscarriage journey, Shaeeda will be your guide as she walks you through a summer day in her life. From the moment she wakes up to her daily routine, you will get a firsthand look at her activities, interests, and the things that bring her joy. We hope this segment will not only give you a glimpse into Shaeeda's life but also inspire you to make the most of your own summer days.
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You will fall pregnant sweety don't stress,my sister gave birth to her first born at 43 last year. BISHAE❤ will eventually come 🙏 ❤❤❤
Awww thank you and that definitely gives us hope. We put our faith and trust in God, it’s all in His timing. ❤ Blessings to you ❤
It will happen when you least expect it and your back yard is beautidul great weather plants are beautiful i love out doors its so relaxing hold on dont give up when u want to thats when a miracle happens
You need to relax and watch God works, he is able to do above and beyond ❤❤
Yes my mom had her last child at 45yrs now my lil sister is going on 10 !! I recommend shi to go the natural/naturopath way !! I’ve seen Dom and Naka (UA-camrs) been through a tough pregnancy journey ,like it soo amazing and inspiring for women who’s wanting to have babies and now we’re waiting on the gender 🎉🇹🇹🏴
I also got pregnant at 43 that's 2014 and today my child is almost 9 years old.
You will, you will ❤❤❤
Shaeeda so busy in target she forgot her wallet i can imagine the panic 😂😂😂 girll get a big handbag from the cupboard and use it. We seen u always purchasing handbags dont lose the purse again
Get a coach bag they have big bags they have messenger bags that are big on the inside
She has one but doesn’t use it 🤦🏾♂️🤣
You two are so cute together. God will DEFINITELY BLESS you both with a sweet little baby soon.
Thank you so much ❤
Nothing happens before it’s time! Relax!!! Stress will prevent you from getting pregnant. Praying for you & your husband.🌺
After I lost my first child, I decided to stop worrying about getting pregnant again and just let nature take its course one way or the other. When I stopped stressing about it, I got pregnant again in a few months and had my beautiful baby boy. A year later I had my sweet baby girl. Just relax and you will have your baby. Sending love.
why is he pooping in the house? take him for a walk or let him out in back yard to do his business!!!! also dogs need to feel part of the family so he should be allowed in living rm or to sleep with you or watch tv in your lap...
😂😂😂
God did not create dogs and cats for human profit and pleasure. They carry parasites, bacteria, and viruses in their feces, urine, saliva, fur, and paws that cause mental and physical illnesses in humans. This is not new information, and it's in the Bible and Qur'an. Muslims know it is Haram to live with dogs.
He poops at night when he comes inside sometimes. He takes walks etc he is part of the family
As a mama of 6 and having lost 4 babies, I feel confident that you will be blessed with your new family addition. ❤❤❤ sending prayers and love for a positive outcome in your journey.
Thank you so much!❤
Love you so much from Namibia❤
For someone who did not like live plants, you certainly have a green thumb. Your flowers look amazing, Soo many blooms! PS : the pregnancy will happen when you least expect it. Keep the faith!
Ya rabi please give our sister and her husband a pregnancy and a healthy baby 🤲🏼
Ameen ❤🥲
Please let that beautiful dog go to another home where he is really wanted. You can’t really call yourself a Dog Mom when he or she is constantly tied up or in the “apartment”. It’s only fair.
Best wishes to you both
Who said he wasn't wanted. He seem to be well take care of, not in a places that unclean. He seems to be well feed, not neglect at all his spot seem to be well clean.
And who said he is tied up all day because he definitely is not?! Fox is cared for better than some people unfortunately. Just because we don’t kiss our dog in the mouth doesn’t mean he is not very much loved 🥰
Is he around the family all day and just in the garage at night?
@@bilalandshaeeda but he lives in the cellar???? He can't be in your home where you are ?
@@RyanaB23 still weird if they lock him in a garage all night !!
Just don't think about it, it will happen when the timing is right. Right now, just get to know each other better, travel and do those things that make you happy. Your both in my prayers!
Always the same Shaeeda, when you stop trying it will happen. Relaxation and love, you are destined to be parents. Love & light. ♥️🇬🇧♥️
Hey guys! Shaeeda did you get tested for MTHFR? It causes infertility and miscarriages, you also shouldn’t take folic acid if you have it, instead methyl folate. I had and I had to take anti coagulant injections through out my pregnancy. I really hope you look into it and get tested asap! It’s much much more common than anyone thinks. I suggest getting tested for it and any blood clotting factors! Wishing you all the best and inshaallah soon allah will reward your sabr and beautiful heart with all that it desires💗
What worked for me is that I stopped focusing on what was not happening -becoming pregnant - and focused on what I had - a great husband , good job and beautiful home, - that probably left me less stressed and so I was quite surprised and very , very happy when I found out I was pregnant. Best wishes to you - hope the same will be true for you 🙏
Wow, I'm on the same boat! Really needed this as a reminder to let go & allow things to happen ❤ Truly appreciate you sharing! Sending you so much love 🙏🏻
Happy Sunday to you both
Everything will definitely happen when god say so don’t worry ❤
By the grace of God/Allah when you do become a mother, you will be a fantastic mother❤❤❤❤💯🇬🇧🇬🇩 Relax enjoy love making and you will see changes 😊❤
Awww thank you for this comment and we will let go and let God as they say. Allah is always in control.
I really enjoyed this video. The music in the video rocked! I'm praying that the Lord will bless your family exceedingly and abundantly. Y'all will make a video announcing your pregnancy! I am naming and claiming it for y'all! ♥
Thank you so much!
I understand about sex. It becomes a must, but only at certain times of the month. I also remember taking iron medication and anything that might help get pregnant. Back in my day, I kept a daily chart on ovation and temp. Almost was scheduling sex. I was so lucky and ended up with 5 boys. My personal miracle. Two was born to another mother and she chose to walk out and leave them. I was lucky enough to become their mother.
Awww 5 boys ❤wow
I had my cycle for 6 months end up sick, went to the ER what I thought was the flu and I was 6 months pregnant. I wasn’t trying to have a baby at all. Yes women actually can have a cycle while pregnant it happen to me. It stopped at 7 months. Just relax don’t focus so much on it. God’s will! My stomach didn’t grow either
Oh yes I have mentioned dis to her in the beginning, doctors are not Allah remember that bbgirl plzzz RELAX swtie 🙏🙏🤲🤦🏽♀️Bismillah🤲
I'm 59years old now and I had my daughter when I was 43 after battling with fibroid.
Do not worry Allah will bless both of you very soon with the fruit of the womb .love you both ❤❤❤
MashaAllah Allah is the best of planners
Pretty dog, pretty plants and pretty patio! 😍I hope that Fox gets to have company around him, I'm sure not he's not tied up in the garage all day(?) The backyard seems like an ideal place for him to sleep in his dog house, but only you guys know if that's best for him or not given that their may be various dangerous creatures, elements, etc. to be avoided. Oh, and thank you also for kindly giving us a "project baby" update as it's most certainly a sensitive topic and I'm praying for your desired achievement on this topic and if you don't mind my advice, I'd highly recommend IVF as so many couples (even in their 50s) have been getting successful results from this process! 💓
Thank you and no Fox definitely doesn’t stayed tied up all day lol.
@@bilalandshaeeda You're welcome luvz, I know you treat him greatly-not (literally) on a leash all day, lol I just wanted to know if he had access to company cuz they get lonely too. However, knowing how caring you are towards others and things I'm sure he's the envy of many a pooch! ☺
@@nikkirockznikkirockz8551 a dog is dirty in your eyes. So he poops and pees in the garage and you have to clean it up daily. Wasn't he even tied up in the garage
🌺ENJOY your husband and marriage…RELAX and travel before the kids come…make special memories of just you two and new life will come when it is least expected 🥰💜🙏🏽
Great advice thank you ❤
Don't worry I lost 1 bby at 6mths and was scared to have another my husband and I kept trying and nothing no luck and when I least expected I was pregnant..I'll come everything is in God's time
Well, it’s been six months your body has had time to heal. I’ve been following your story all along and I pray that everything works out for the two of you you take care, and when it happens, you take care of yourself and your baby to be good luck to you.
Thank you so much!🎉
You look beautiful 😍, I wish you guys well.. and sprinkle lots of baby dust your way.
What’s meant to be will be. You are in good hands, God and your husband.
Happy Sunday beautiful couple❤ ❤greetings from Florida!! Sha, I am happy to hear you got your wallet back. I agree you should carry a handbag when you are out shopping. I carry a crossbody handbag that is always with me...Also, I pray 🙏 that you will be blessed with a baby 👶 soon. Take it easy and don't stress yourself. It will happen soon. Thanks for letting us into to your life. You and Bilal have a wonderful week!
Plus sweet potatoes and other foods that helps
When you do good; good follows you. You're amazing ❤
Exactly thank you hun ❤
🌺The dog needs to be around you all to feel loved..not tied up in a basement or garage space…give him away to a family that will include him in their home if your not going to be inclusive 😳
Dogs are forbidden in Islam. It's Haram to live with them. People can change the Bible to suit them, but the Quran can never be misinterpreted and revised to become like others. Pretty soon she will be showing her hair and body.
He isn’t tied up in the basement! He is only tied when I’m cleaning his dog room because he will run to attack the neighbors dog and I’m not trying to be sued. When I’m done cleaning I remove the leash.
🌺Glad to hear that…pets love to be with the family & bond🥰
Is he still alone in the basement though? Why isnt he in the main part of the house with the family. Dogs dont care about having their own “apartment” they want to be around their people.
I agreee.... I'm upset just watching it. That poor dog
I'm praying for y'all to get your bundle of joy soon❤️
we're still waiting on that house tour🙂 I wish y'all did a father's day vlog too I'm now so addicted to this Chanel. Love you guys and the 2 beautiful kids
Gosh I cooked up a storm for Father’s Day! I wish I would have Vlog about it ❤
Shaeeda first saw you on 90 day fiance and always felt you have this mesmerizing beauty about you❤ may you two be blessed with a healthy baby 🌸🥺
Ameen Thank you so much
Stop it , relax, aren’t you a Trinidadian. Where is your faith also
I think most of great it like a mission… you are right. - I don’t recall any pleasure while attempting to get and remain pregnant.. I was so hyper-focused.. I lost sight of why I wanted children in the first place. Again, I was in my early 20s and wish I had your wisdom but once I gave up - it happened and it wasn’t an easy pregnancy or birth but worth everything. My son from another mother and his wife tried for 10 years .. they did not have the financial resources to do more than one round of IVF - it wasn’t successful but 6 months later an anonymous angel blessed them with the ability to have the 2nd IVF. Their son was born the day his Daddy said he would be (the same date he lost his best friend/brother and my son - and people question if there is a God). The wildest thing was 3 years later they got pregnant naturally and she was born on my son’s birthday within 5 minutes of his birth time). I pray God blesses you but again remember this is not a sprint and your insight into remembering to enjoy the process will resonante with every woman who is or has struggled. Much love and prayers… For the dog ….. Natures Miracle!
I went through that, 2 miscarriages. It’s very stressful. Hey I had my daughter at 40, and my son at 42. You will get your babies in due time. Trust GOD’s time.
My sweet girl I have lost 5 angel babies nothing crushes a couple more than loosing a baby or more than I baby hang in there sweet girl this grandma 👵 will be praying 🙏 for you both ❤❤
5 Angel babies awwww 😢this break my heart.
@bilalandshaeeda your both young and have a beautiful lifetime of love I pray 🙏 a beautiful healthy baby will come along soon for you both god be with you ❤️ 🙏
I loved you on 90 day fiance you were my favorite couple your love journey was beautiful god will bless you both I believe that ❤️ ♥️
Mama of 5 angel babies
You are a loving couple. Just keep the faith, and the pregnancy will happen when the Lord is ready. You were lucky to find your wallet. Blessings and have a wonderful week❤
Thank you so much!!❤
- DHEA is major not to be confused with dha. Talk with your obgyn about this one to check what dose is right for you.
- CoQ10
- Calcium
These will help help with egg quality etc.
Good luck.
I had a miscarriage in December 2022 and am now 5 months pregnant btw I am 40.
Track you cycle like it’s no body’s business. Good luck 😉
Don't be stressed out love. Let's
nature take it's C. God's timing 🙏 love. God is always good. He knows better. Just have faith. Don't even think about it just enjoy the moment. Just the moment. Keep the love going. Keep shinning. Stay blessed. Lvu guy's.
Did u check ur tubes? Hsg. Honestly if I were u guys I wld start fertility treatments especially if u have dor which I think u did. Think about it we also have to b realistic regarding egg quality n amt of eggs over 35 goodluck hun
Leave Every Thing To GodMy Sister Try Try Finely She Have Beautyfull Baby Boy
I have been thinking about you guys lately I am glad I found you'll. You're rainbow baby will be here next year 😊You two are such a classy couple everything happens for a reason remember that darling🙌🏾
3:36 I'm not sure what she did but Kourtney Kardashian had been trying to get pregnant as well and had some difficulties and then became pregnant and is so far having a successful pregnancy. I'm sharing this because I want this for you and your husband. Sending prayers for a healthy pregnancy, healthy mother and father and baby. God's will 🙏🏾
It will happen when you least expect it. When I was with my ex we tried for almost 2 yrs and when we stopped trying I got pregnant and had my beautiful son at 42 yrs old. So there's still hope for you ❤🙏🏼
Shaeeda, thank you for sharing your life story with us, your followers. Anyone can see your heart is pure. If it is meant for you and Bilal to have a baby, it will come in time. Do not stress.
The baby will come God willing, but the wallet, all the purses u have will hold any size wallet u have u don't need a larger purse, stop putting so much other stuff in it.
A larger bag with more stuff in it will eventually take a toll on your shoulder & back.
The Dr is not God,Dr told my niece she would not have children, after going through chemo and radiation, she have two daughters,another niece was told the same thing,she have a girl that 10 and a boy thats 2. I had a son and I was told I would not have anymore children, but I did have another son,seven years later. Keep the faith, he does not fail. ❤❤❤
Good to see you again sweet girl when you stop trying you will get pregnant don't worry about that take your mind off it and you will see ❤❤❤
I think so too ❤
Father in the name of Jesus you're soon to return and we pray for discernment in these last days,your word warns us to be not conformed to this world but the renewing of our minds and no one can serve two masters so Lord forgive us for our carnal mind and living in the flesh please guide all your children to live holy and repentance daily b4 your coming amen,have mercy on us all.
If its not in gods will it won't happen but if you keep wanting a child, are you happy if you gave birth to a "special" baby. Special as in a baby with birth defects.
Get a workup with your doctor or specialist a.s.a.p
Just to rule out any anomalies between you both.
And take it from there. We all need some help from
Time to time . love and hope to you both. Sandra Jo
First sorry about your miscarriage. I am you are not treating it had job to get married I think it is healthy for you that way. God is good always he will see you through. I am so excited that you are doing content what you do around the house. I hope you continue. Also I would like to see your outfits more because I think you are so beautiful. Pride is.
I pray you get pregnant in Gods timing and what really helped me was
Ashwagandha I’m 13 weeks now 💞
I totally understand the act of pretty much taking the joy out of making love with your husband and turning it into a job for them… I did the same thing with my husband when I wanted a second child… And I wanted this second child so bad that I would literally time our relations on that certain time of month and it just became an enjoyable for both of us
May Allah SWT bless ur family barakah
I had a miscarriage back in 2019 here I am now trying to put my 2 year to sleep.. have faith nothing is impossible for god..
Nothing is impossible for God indeed
It will happen be patient. Enjoy your time together. My aunt got pregnant after she got her tubes tied. 😂 so just go with the flow.
You're a Caribbean woman find you some cloves and nutmeg best fertility treatments for your eggs bless your heart sweety
When u let it go u will conceive a child worrying will have an impact on desire and pleasure let it go seriously it will happen I can relate with the frustration😊😊
Sending you allllll of my baby dust. ❤
Alhamdudillah you found your wallet. Love this video.
Drink aloe water too. Your blessing is coming, beautiful.
Do you like garlic. Because garlic helped me get pregnant. 🙏
Also on another note … please can we see what your hair looks like without the covering ! Lol ha ha but I would love to know how you look 👀
Thank you so much for sharing your story just leave it in God hand ✋️
I completely understand you. 😢❤😊
It is well shi. God knws best n trust God that u will conceive naturally.
Shaaeda, freeze your eggs, just in case that can give you an option in the future
I am so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I know how bad you want a child. I pray that God gives you your heart desire. 🙏🏽🫶🏽
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I believe after the age of 40 IVF is an option many women explore. Things just get harder as you age but thankfully you have all of the necessary parts for everything to eventually work. I’m very sure you will get your baby, however, it sounds like you need assistance.
Also for your precious doggy, it’s possible to use pee pads. You can put them inside of a pee pad holder and train your doggy to use the bathroom on it so that the pee and poop is not getting everywhere in the doggy area.
I just got a puppy in April and it works well for her.
Best wishes to you! ❤
Thank you so much for this gives us hope and yes Bilal always puts the pee pads down for him they do work very well.
Ya Allah Ya Rahman please bless my sister shaeeda and her husband with a healthy babies , Ameen❤
Try noor vitamins
They have hala vitamins and prenatal care too sister
And just as an aside, when it comes to ovulation and pregnancy tests, more expensive does not equal more accurate!! Dont be afraid of the cheapies from the dollar store!❤
Thank you 🙏🏽
Get a pet and direct your love to the pet and less stress on getting pregnant and it will just happen
Please walk your dog twice a day!? It's incredibly disturbing that you haven't litter trained him and he poos in his living space. That's not fun for cleanly animals like dogs.
He can’t walk for long he had severe arthritis, he collapses frequently when he walks hence why I cut back on his walks. He is an old dog
You have to relax. Just do the do and not make it the focus of your romance. I already had 2 children and I got pregnant at 35 and it was not planned or expected.
Yes you’re so right ❤
Please make sure you are taking fenugreek, orca water, Eating eggs, cut out sugars and most importantly SURAH MARYAM!!!!! May bless you with triplets sis❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks for the tips!❤
Fenugreek is good for women breastfeeding I feel Maca would be better for boosting fertility.
Have you tried the ovulation kit on Amazon?
As you said Shaeeda, to much emphasis on having a baby. Trust me, if you relax, it will happen.
Yup that’s it
It really surprised me when you said you would leave bilal if he didnt give you kids within few months and look at you now, still there. We dont know if you stayed for the right reasons cuz we dont know what happened after all those episodes that made you change your mind
Don’t take anything we say on television seriously-
If you have a dog they need to be out in yard period.
Shaeeda please freeze your eggs 🥺🙏🙏🙏🙏
From experience the more stress one puts on themselves to concieve the less it will happen..
Let it go...relax ,find other things to occupy your mi d &life.
Thank you 🙏🏽
You will get pregnant soon .I think when you ll go in Bali.Bali is magic❤️Good luck🤗
Thank you so much for this 😘
Please let the dog roam put a kennel in back yard if u dnt want him roaming every where dnt put leash on him he will be obedient if u just show him please im.a dog mom ,lover he ahldnt be in a basement by himself it's not good and it's only if so give him to somone that will allow him to run free inna beautiful yard
He roams you all are just seeing a small fraction of his life. He is only tied up when I’m cleaning his dog room then he is released. He has severe arthritis hence why he doesn’t walk for long
I though u we’re going to tell us that u were 6 months pregnant 🤰🏼 is better not to mention anything until u are 6 months or 7 months pregnant because is bad luck to mention that u are pregnant just give us the news when u are about to give birth that’s my opinion blessings 🫶🏻🤞
Keep me in your prayers
Poor dog, im afraid it is either tied up in the garden or down in the basement 😢. If you dont like having your pet around you at home you should not have it at all.. terrible life
He isn’t tied up. Only when I’m cleaning his dog room. You all only saw a fraction of his life and jump to conclusion. I will never harm an animal
Hibiscus make you have your period
Dont put your mind on it too much just enjoy ur marriage delete all ovulation apps have sex becos you love your man having a miscarriage is proof that you can have a baby
I need the ovulation app to keep track 😔
Stop trying and relax and it will happen.
Yeah, sage Bilal's OCD energy 😂
i told you to get geritol take it as prescribed it’s a guaranteed supplement for pregnancy my sister was wayyyyyy older than you.
Geritol okay thank you sis will look into it
Hang in there, hoping for the best for you
May Allah SWT grant you Sabr and Tawakkul🤲
Alhamdulillah Masha Allah ❤❤
My daughter was married ten years with her husband and she had ten miscarriages and so her and her husband had embryo transfer and she done it 3 times and she has now two girls and a boy . Try a embryo transfer
What a story! I’m so happy for her now ❤️
Have you tried Progesterone?