Everybody should be dating in purpose and with intentions instead of playing games. That's why the dating world is so messed up now, because people have no vision, purpose, or intentions
😂 I'm 46 and I want to be married but not that bad. I don't want to be stuck in a loveless marriage. Now you should know after the 4th or 5th date if that person is someone you want to continue to date. We need to see each other at every level of emotions because I don't won't any surprises😂. On another note, do any one know the song in the background?
It's too many divorces happening for ppl to be pushing marriage after a couple of months of dating, BUT wanting to know what it is makes a lot of sense.
Exactly right. Why waiste each other's time if you don't have good intentions. I'm dating for marriage ONLY. That's what I'm looking for. I'm 54 so it's time out for FUN and GAMES...😂
IMO, dating with intent/purpose to marry should be everyone’s standard. No wasting anyone’s time, and no one getting hurt from playing house before marriage. They date with clear eyes to decide on each other forever.
Christian said, move accordingly, but he ain't one of them."😅 My question to him is....Why aren't you moving with intent? 🤔 You're not a spring chicken either 🤷🏾♀️
He has discussed that he wants more kids and wants to get married. Maybe that's why he's making the statement. Women maybe pushing themselves try to rush things. Slow down ifnit is ment for you it will be.
Guys aren’t women. The intent guys move with is definitely not the same for women. But I betchu you’re only saying this because it’s Christian. If it was some blue collar worker, you wouldn’t care.
😂😂😂😂 that tickled you but its definitely reasons to have standards/ boundaries on what you do and don't want... but you definitely got to stand on that s**t as well
"What are we doing?" ... So hard to keep from thinking that problem is that may mean it's only been 6 months or so (maybe less). Can you really marry somebody after six months comfortably? That situation rare as hell.
I agree. But I’m 32 years old. And I have been through a lot the wrong people. So, now I’m in the stage where I’m allowing God to work on me. I’m allowing God to remake, mole, and shape me. Into the woman he wants me to be. Into the woman that my husband wants me to be. So I’m trying to enjoy being single I’m single. And in my singleness, I’m allowing God to work on me. So that when I get married, I can enjoy being married while Married. So I don’t want to get married until God has dealt with me. Because I don’t want to bleed out on anyone and I don’t want anybody to bleed out with me. So, I do pray that when God send me my husband. God has remake him, mold him, and shaped him into the man that got called him to be
I'm in between....I don't want to rush it to the point I'm saying you need to let me know if you're going to marry me by the 5/6th date....however if I'm still waiting to see where this is going after one year of dating......this isn't going anywhere.
Nah, I'm up front at the jump, if your not looking for what I'm looking for, keep it pushing bruh. Real talk, God has my King and I'll wait. I never received my letter back, Ijs😊
Nah. I need to see you in different environments. Not pressed at all. Do you have anger issues? How do you handle disappointments? How do you treat people that under you? How to you grieve a loss? I’ve got questions.
I can’t keep wasting time, either tell me you love me or leave. I wasted 18 years without a ring! I will not do that again. I am 46, I am too old to be playing games. These days people don’t want to get to know you, they just want to jump in the bed with you. I am sick of the dating scene. Some man need to keep it real! Say what they feel, instead of beating around the bush.
LMAO 😂😂😂😂😂Oh you handsome king 🤴🏾you are so 100 percent right. I love his smile ! 😍😁Approaching my 37th year on planet earth in November (11/06). I know in my teens I started dating age 15 actually like 3 months before my sweet 16, my twenties were fun for discovery, learning yourself, others,and experiences. Age 25 I was like no its time to get serious I knew I would have married maybe 2 people I was dating and in relationships with by that time when I reached that age. By 29 I was settled ready to commit and now I know at this age if we are living together, having children, building a family, businesses and a legacy. "You have to commit or quit lol." 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Get your pen ready to sign the marriage license and go talk to your closest married friends and females about rings 😂😂😂😂😂💍💎💗💗💗💗😁 By the time you are in your 30s you know yourself, you know who you are and who you want to become.😊
I don't date at all. I never read about anyone dating in the King James version. I just position myself to be found like Ruth. If I want a Biblical man like Joseph with the colorful robe I have to move accordingly.
I feel like since the day I was born I knew that I wanted to be married. I really wasn't ready to be married when I got married. I had some healing to do and my ex did also. He is on his third marriage. I wasn't too excited to do that again. I still wasn't ready. I got therapy and I'm letting God work on me. At 30 you should date intentionally. Make sure you're working on you. The man who finds you will continue to help to heal you. But God!!!🙌🏽🙏🏽😍. Love from The Bahamas ❤️🇧🇸.
😂😂😂 I don't want to plan the wedding date but I do want to know what the goal is. Are you dating just for recreation? Looking to being married? Looking for booty... what is the end goal.
I'm 56 and in no rush ....I was with someone 11 years and felt no rush, after that was with someone 10 years and still no rush but it was good that I didn't my only husband died when I was 18 and Noone has made me feel I was ready to let go of his last name😢
Me 🏃🏾🏃🏾🏃🏾 after the M word is mentioned 🏃🏾🏃🏾🏃🏾 did it twice. I WILL NEVER EVER DO IT AGAIN . Waste of time n resources. I just want to date with an expiration date Lol. Go our separate MUTUALLY HAPPY PEACEFUL ways after 2 yrs. 3yrs max. After that IM Sabotaging N BLOCKING ANY ALL EFFORT. Or I will just vanish. Lol😂 GHOST MODE.
I meant to write, you will know if the Man is serious and really means to be with you exclusively, then both can plan what to do next according to God's plan for their lives. God's plan is the best plan.🙏😇
I only need ONE date to figure it out... to be exact I really only need about ONE hour of his time... if he makes it to a date, then he MIGHT have potential 🤷🏾♀️
If you really love the dude , you have to chose who you want to be a slave too, meaning really love the person and feel good in ur heart being good to them
Marriage isn't slavery. If caring about someone you love and doing things for someone you love feels like slavery to you, then you really shouldn't get married. That's a toxic level of selfishness that you shouldn't subject anyone to.
Lol I feel like everyone’s intentions should be discussed on the first date but I always let the man know it’s his job to set the tempo. That also means don’t assume we’re exclusive/monogamous until we’ve had that discussion… most men appreciate that and also don’t want to risk being one of many 😎🤎
Indeed! Time is of the essence and we date with a purpose! Move accordingly!😂❤✊🏾
But then by 45, we aren't as pressed. It's usually the guy.
Frfr
Not pressed because you're at the acceptance phase that noone wants you lol.
Spoken like a Queen!!!!! 👑👑👑👑👑👑
Cause we start to realize how much work men are
So true 😂😂😂😂😂 we are not here to waste time, play games, none of it! We are cautious though.
I definitely want to date with purpose! I want a man who will marry and stay with me, not just lay and play with me!
😂😂…”Move Accordingly, Move Accordingly…” 💯 %
Everybody should be dating in purpose and with intentions instead of playing games. That's why the dating world is so messed up now, because people have no vision, purpose, or intentions
😂 I'm 46 and I want to be married but not that bad. I don't want to be stuck in a loveless marriage. Now you should know after the 4th or 5th date if that person is someone you want to continue to date. We need to see each other at every level of emotions because I don't won't any surprises😂. On another note, do any one know the song in the background?
I'm with you!!
Lamborghini by lil peewhy
@@lifeisbeautiful9455 thanks, but that's not the song in the background.
Facts!!! Been There Done it!!!🍀🍀🍀Blessings on hitting a HomeRun ordained by The ☝🏼Master!!!🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
@@aprilmartin7212 thanks and I 🙏🏿 the same for you.
I've been on my celibacy journey. 51 years old. And beautiful. ❤
🙋🏽♀️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Preeeeach! I'm 54, will be 55 on 1/27/24 & have been abstinent 10yrs!
It's too many divorces happening for ppl to be pushing marriage after a couple of months of dating, BUT wanting to know what it is makes a lot of sense.
FACTS ALL DAY!!!!!😂😂…..IM 35 AND I DEFINITELY FEEL THAT WAY BECAUSE THAT TIMING IS EVERYTHING…
Facts. Don’t come for me unless your intentions are pure. We are not playing house without a I do and a ring.
Word I made that mistake in my early 20s
Funny, it was my husband who told me on our very first date that he wanted a wife, and he told me until he married me that I was the one.
I agree 😂I got married at 32
Exactly, I wasn't playing I got married at 21.
Enjoying life is important with each other
😂😂😂You better let them know 💯 % FACTS in my mind... don't waste my time I won't waste yours
You got it..
We need to know where we stand with the man!
Exactly right. Why waiste each other's time if you don't have good intentions. I'm dating for marriage ONLY. That's what I'm looking for. I'm 54 so it's time out for FUN and GAMES...😂
And I've been celibate since '2001 so not giving up the GOODIES until we say, "I DO" with a minister and some witnesses. GOT TO BE LEAGLE....
IMO, dating with intent/purpose to marry should be everyone’s standard. No wasting anyone’s time, and no one getting hurt from playing house before marriage. They date with clear eyes to decide on each other forever.
Christian said, move accordingly, but he ain't one of them."😅 My question to him is....Why aren't you moving with intent? 🤔 You're not a spring chicken either 🤷🏾♀️
Waiting for the right one!
He has discussed that he wants more kids and wants to get married. Maybe that's why he's making the statement. Women maybe pushing themselves try to rush things. Slow down ifnit is ment for you it will be.
@@amarie8769and that’s why gullible women like you get played nonstop
Guys aren’t women. The intent guys move with is definitely not the same for women. But I betchu you’re only saying this because it’s Christian. If it was some blue collar worker, you wouldn’t care.
😂😂😂😂 that tickled you but its definitely reasons to have standards/ boundaries on what you do and don't want... but you definitely got to stand on that s**t as well
"What are we doing?" ... So hard to keep from thinking that problem is that may mean it's only been 6 months or so (maybe less). Can you really marry somebody after six months comfortably? That situation rare as hell.
I agree. But I’m 32 years old. And I have been through a lot the wrong people. So, now I’m in the stage where I’m allowing God to work on me. I’m allowing God to remake, mole, and shape me. Into the woman he wants me to be. Into the woman that my husband wants me to be. So I’m trying to enjoy being single I’m single. And in my singleness, I’m allowing God to work on me. So that when I get married, I can enjoy being married while Married. So I don’t want to get married until God has dealt with me. Because I don’t want to bleed out on anyone and I don’t want anybody to bleed out with me. So, I do pray that when God send me my husband. God has remake him, mold him, and shaped him into the man that got called him to be
Lmao!!! 😂😂😂 No we don't Christian Keyes you play too much 😂 not 4th or 5th date it takes a little longer for me 😁
Exactly, like 1-2yrs for me! I'd rather date long than to marry wrong!
I wouldn't know Christian I was married at 21 and 27. I knew what I wanted and thought the ex husbands knew too.
I'm in between....I don't want to rush it to the point I'm saying you need to let me know if you're going to marry me by the 5/6th date....however if I'm still waiting to see where this is going after one year of dating......this isn't going anywhere.
Thats right sista. No time for playing games!🎉🎉🎉😅😂😂
Nah, I'm up front at the jump, if your not looking for what I'm looking for, keep it pushing bruh. Real talk, God has my King and I'll wait. I never received my letter back, Ijs😊
😂 well, in our defense, times a ticking’ 😂
Yes that’s so true. 😂 Time is something that you can never get back.. so move accordingly lol
he is just so beautifully handsome 😍
We sure not playing ❤❤❤❤
What up doe! Proud of man!
Nah. I need to see you in different environments. Not pressed at all. Do you have anger issues? How do you handle disappointments? How do you treat people that under you? How to you grieve a loss? I’ve got questions.
I can’t keep wasting time, either tell me you love me or leave. I wasted 18 years without a ring! I will not do that again. I am 46, I am too old to be playing games. These days people don’t want to get to know you, they just want to jump in the bed with you. I am sick of the dating scene. Some man need to keep it real! Say what they feel, instead of beating around the bush.
Move accordingly 🙂
I mean 🤷🏾♀️
I'm single until I'm married, if you catch my drift. 😏
they trying to rush and hit that buzzer beater after theyve spent their 20s on some BS. Nah, i move on my schedule
Mr. Keyes, we are not playing :)
This is why I’m still single at 37 it’s to much work
Hollering 😂😂😂🤣🤣😭😭😭😭
LMAO 😂😂😂😂😂Oh you handsome king 🤴🏾you are so 100 percent right. I love his smile ! 😍😁Approaching my 37th year on planet earth in November (11/06). I know in my teens I started dating age 15 actually like 3 months before my sweet 16, my twenties were fun for discovery, learning yourself, others,and experiences. Age 25 I was like no its time to get serious I knew I would have married maybe 2 people I was dating and in relationships with by that time when I reached that age. By 29 I was settled ready to commit and now I know at this age if we are living together, having children, building a family, businesses and a legacy. "You have to commit or quit lol." 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Get your pen ready to sign the marriage license and go talk to your closest married friends and females about rings 😂😂😂😂😂💍💎💗💗💗💗😁 By the time you are in your 30s you know yourself, you know who you are and who you want to become.😊
You are on point sir. So the question is are you in preparation mode?👀🤔😊
Don’t do us like that, lol.. maybe the 5th date, lmao, jk
No true we have to take our time not rush into anything
Say again for folks in da back😂🤭😂
I don't date at all. I never read about anyone dating in the King James version. I just position myself to be found like Ruth. If I want a Biblical man like Joseph with the colorful robe I have to move accordingly.
THAT'S MY SILLIYSILLY, BOY, YOU CRACK ME THE FUCK UP, YEAH I SAID IT, SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO WHAT❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I feel like since the day I was born I knew that I wanted to be married. I really wasn't ready to be married when I got married. I had some healing to do and my ex did also. He is on his third marriage. I wasn't too excited to do that again. I still wasn't ready. I got therapy and I'm letting God work on me. At 30 you should date intentionally. Make sure you're working on you. The man who finds you will continue to help to heal you. But God!!!🙌🏽🙏🏽😍. Love from The Bahamas ❤️🇧🇸.
I love you Christian Keys❤
You're beautiful. ❤ But ummmm yeah true! 😂😂
Intentional dating
😂😂😂 I don't want to plan the wedding date but I do want to know what the goal is. Are you dating just for recreation? Looking to being married? Looking for booty... what is the end goal.
Period 💯
We are not here to waste time sir.... lol
We looking for a good husband's/real blessed man.
Not if they divorced and ain't in the mood 4 all that marriage ish again😂
😂😂 yes! they need to sit down somewhere
You silly!!!!!!!!!!
Nope I run from the 💍
They serious😂😊
😂😂😂😂😂 so true
Super facts 😆 🤣 🔥
You got that right! 😂❤❤
Ummarah arah... lol. But where did you get the wine picture thingy?
I'm 56 and in no rush ....I was with someone 11 years and felt no rush, after that was with someone 10 years and still no rush but it was good that I didn't my only husband died when I was 18 and Noone has made me feel I was ready to let go of his last name😢
Hello Handsome. ENJOY YOUR DAY 😊
Yep
Facts
Men just wanna jump the gun to quick that’s just my take on the situation
Me 🏃🏾🏃🏾🏃🏾 after the M word is mentioned 🏃🏾🏃🏾🏃🏾 did it twice. I WILL NEVER EVER DO IT AGAIN . Waste of time n resources. I just want to date with an expiration date Lol. Go our separate MUTUALLY HAPPY PEACEFUL ways after 2 yrs. 3yrs max. After that IM Sabotaging N BLOCKING ANY ALL EFFORT. Or I will just vanish. Lol😂 GHOST MODE.
No be corrected "Divine " women date with purpose Thanks
EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤
Got to stay strong init
Christian is aging like Phine Wine!! #AKA1908
What are you women waiting for, Social Security???👵🏿👈🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
By that age, you have had enough men waste your time. Therefore, Sis is saying isht or get off of the pot.
BIG FACTS
I meant to write, you will know if the Man is serious and really means to be with you exclusively, then both can plan what to do next according to God's plan for their lives. God's plan is the best plan.🙏😇
I only need ONE date to figure it out... to be exact I really only need about ONE hour of his time... if he makes it to a date, then he MIGHT have potential 🤷🏾♀️
😂😂😂 yeeeessssss!!!
No lies!
No am not , playing
You are everything I want my son to be as a blk man Christen 😮
Ummmm because we’re too old to play games at this point in our lives. 😂
If you really love the dude , you have to chose who you want to be a slave too, meaning really love the person and feel good in ur heart being good to them
Marriage isn't slavery. If caring about someone you love and doing things for someone you love feels like slavery to you, then you really shouldn't get married. That's a toxic level of selfishness that you shouldn't subject anyone to.
Yes that is right Christian 😂💯
It's sooo true
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂
LOL Negative! I'm 42 and marriage isn't on my mind anymore.
😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤
❤❤❤❤❤❤ 😂😂😂😂
Factssss
Damn I know I haven't been on a great date cuz I have no intention on getting married
Lol you're funny that's to soon🙄 but you're right a lot of women are that way. That's why they run there date away & I don't blame them😁😁😁😁
💯😂❤
We supposed to be getting married on that day
😂😂😂
😊
Yes, time is valuable. Don't waste it, okay lol
Lol I feel like everyone’s intentions should be discussed on the first date but I always let the man know it’s his job to set the tempo. That also means don’t assume we’re exclusive/monogamous until we’ve had that discussion… most men appreciate that and also don’t want to risk being one of many 😎🤎
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