Destiny I relate heavily to the “warning signs” for mental health: I just wanna send my love and remind you that you deserve all the love and light you give to everyone else so turn some of it inward whenever you have the energy to ❤❤❤
I’ve been constantly watching your videos aside of it helps me to keep reading and be out of a slump, your energy and videos are making me happier with the hard times. Wishing you all the best and happiness, happy day and happy reading!❤️🌷
I can so relate to the feeling/recognizing signs of struggling with depression/anxiety/mental health, mine is more prevalent right now too, and the other members of my family who struggle with this are feeling it too. I think it’s this time of year- late winter is soooo hard for me. Winter feels like a mental health gauntlet to get through. We’re so close to spring! It will get better! Lots of hugs 🥰 ❤
It might not be burnout or depression but that fact that you’re waking up at 5am and by the afternoon you’ve already been awake for 10 hours. But idk lol. Also I love montage time!
I used to be like this. its anxious energy making you run like a hamster on a wheel from 5 am to 11pm (or later) until burn out or depression makes you slam into a wall. thats how i ended up with 3 degrees and 4 minors by 26 years old LOL thats not an achievement I swear to you. thats a scream for help
The need to nap could be your running training! When I was training for a half marathon there were days where my body just reached a limit and I was literally exhausted and had to take extra rest days. My body just couldn’t adjust to the lengthy runs as quickly as the program scheduled ❤
i love watching your videos, and i really do enjoy that you express how you’re feeling mentally because i feel like a ton of people can relate! i do also think it’s hard hearing about you struggling and not hearing if you are seeking help in any way! i am not one to say that anyone needs it and we are most definitely not entitled to know every detail about your life, but i hear how hard you are struggling mentally most days and it really does make me wonder if maybe you have considered therapy or anything of the sort to help with your anxiety!! i truly mean no harm by this comment! i always look forward to watching your videos and listening/watching the podcast, i would just love to see you feel better!! 🩷
This! My anxiety/depression got really really bad once I became a junior in high school. Everyone around me seen how debilitating it was becoming except for me. My parents took control and got me the help I needed and I’m so thankful. It doesn’t make us less than!
My love !!! Please please get yourself an amazing therapist. It’s like finding the right shoe lol but 100% worth it. I know it’s scary and hard to take that leap cause I’ve been there but very worth it. Sending you lots of love and peaceful energy ❤
I was just going to click on one of your old vlogs to keep me company while i cleaned my room! UGH perfect timing!!!! also!!!!! just wanna say that i found you from all the book content but i LIVE AND DIE for your vlogs!!! i’ve been on a binge this whole week❤❤❤ You’re great at what you do ✨🫶🫵
I appreciate your honesty about your tell-tale signs of mental health declining bc that doesn’t make me feel as crazy when I catch my own, or even anxious/isolation patterns. So, thank you for sharing that !!
des, i hope your mental health is picking up. if not, pls remember that it definitely will!! don't be too hard on yourself and know we all love you so much!! i hope you're still able to find some balance and daily joy through it all
You are inspiring! I tend to be the type who feels mentally terrible and i end up doing nothing about it and just wallowing in it... I really appreciate your willpower to just get the stuff done anyway and acknowledge that its over and wasnt the end of the world. I really hope i cant match that mindset some day!
des! i’m so glad u r posting weekly vlogs. i came to ur channel for books but ive also become a fan of ur vlogs💗 btw ur doing. so much in life rn it is so inspiring. even when some weeks didnt go as planned u always bounce back
needed this clog today. and i am so sorry you’re struggling mentally, it’s such a lonely feeling but your not alone. You have us and your wonderful family and charlie!!! But i know it’s more to that trust me but look at the positive 💓
I had a video idea for you and Sara. You could choose each other’s TBR and do a reading vlog of it!!! Love you lots, vlogs are always my favorite 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
Omg I have to tell you your videos gave me hope thank you so much they have been getting more and more relatable with all my anxiety and depression thank you so much for that ❤
Girlie, maybe see a therapist? I also have bad anxiety and depression and I just started seeing one (I also have a psychiatrist) and it's actually going well. No shame all love!
Girl haunting and hunting Adeline is like.. a really intense dark romance even for me, whom loves dark romance lol but I swear The Mind f*uck Series is a really really good dark romance. It's more so about revenge and retribution than anything and I think the romance in it is actually wholesome loll so while it is a bit dark here and there when it comes to the revenge plot, I think you'll enjoy it! Totally give it a try and then DNF if it's not for you, but I think you'll get sucked in!
I used to have SUCH bad anxiety about going to the dentist. One time in high school (before I was medicated for anxiety lol) I had to take half of one of my mom's Xanax because I was basically having a full on panic attack.
I love you but I never thought booktok would actually come to a place where you would have to make schedules and structures for when to read at what time 😭shows how this can actually become a job reading books
Hi Destiny! Omg I have hunting and hunting Adaline and I don’t know if I can work up the courage to read it I want to, but I don’t know if I’m able to. So I know how you feel! ❤
Dark romance is definitely not for everyone!!! No need to explain urself babe. I personally loved haunting Adeline but I’m still working through hunting because of how heavy it is!!
Destiny I relate heavily to the “warning signs” for mental health: I just wanna send my love and remind you that you deserve all the love and light you give to everyone else so turn some of it inward whenever you have the energy to ❤❤❤
not even gonna lie i’ve been waiting on this all day. i needed my dose of des bc i cant watch cc3 vlog yet 😭😭
girl I can't either yet!!!!!
I don’t typically rewatch videos but you’re literally my comfort youtuber
i don’t think i’ll ever understand how people don’t like cardio, i love it sm 😭ིྀ
My heartbeat go like CRAZY and I get so out of breath so I’d gladly take weight lifting
same! I hate weights though 😂
i only like cardio w my fiancé 😅
i hate cardio i also don’t work out at all though lol
Same! I’m a cardio over weight person
I’ve been constantly watching your videos aside of it helps me to keep reading and be out of a slump, your energy and videos are making me happier with the hard times. Wishing you all the best and happiness, happy day and happy reading!❤️🌷
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Yes watching videos like this help keep me out a slump too
The fact that I look forward to these vlogs every week. Your literally the only person i get so excited too see their entire week LOL
I can so relate to the feeling/recognizing signs of struggling with depression/anxiety/mental health, mine is more prevalent right now too, and the other members of my family who struggle with this are feeling it too. I think it’s this time of year- late winter is soooo hard for me. Winter feels like a mental health gauntlet to get through. We’re so close to spring! It will get better! Lots of hugs 🥰 ❤
thanks for this reminder!! i’m feeling it too and honestly completely forgot that it could just be because of winter weather😅
It might not be burnout or depression but that fact that you’re waking up at 5am and by the afternoon you’ve already been awake for 10 hours. But idk lol. Also I love montage time!
I used to be like this. its anxious energy making you run like a hamster on a wheel from 5 am to 11pm (or later) until burn out or depression makes you slam into a wall. thats how i ended up with 3 degrees and 4 minors by 26 years old LOL thats not an achievement I swear to you. thats a scream for help
Sounds like life to me. This time of the year it isn’t unusual for me to work 70 hours a week.
also she may need more rest days she might be overworking herself
The way I’d watch an entire unedited ACOTAR reread vlog even if it was hours long🙃 1 10:45 . hope you feel more rested and less burn out soon!🤍
The need to nap could be your running training! When I was training for a half marathon there were days where my body just reached a limit and I was literally exhausted and had to take extra rest days. My body just couldn’t adjust to the lengthy runs as quickly as the program scheduled ❤
i love watching your videos, and i really do enjoy that you express how you’re feeling mentally because i feel like a ton of people can relate! i do also think it’s hard hearing about you struggling and not hearing if you are seeking help in any way! i am not one to say that anyone needs it and we are most definitely not entitled to know every detail about your life, but i hear how hard you are struggling mentally most days and it really does make me wonder if maybe you have considered therapy or anything of the sort to help with your anxiety!! i truly mean no harm by this comment! i always look forward to watching your videos and listening/watching the podcast, i would just love to see you feel better!! 🩷
This! My anxiety/depression got really really bad once I became a junior in high school. Everyone around me seen how debilitating it was becoming except for me. My parents took control and got me the help I needed and I’m so thankful. It doesn’t make us less than!
YES DAY MADE ✨✨
My love !!! Please please get yourself an amazing therapist. It’s like finding the right shoe lol but 100% worth it. I know it’s scary and hard to take that leap cause I’ve been there but very worth it. Sending you lots of love and peaceful energy ❤
I was just going to click on one of your old vlogs to keep me company while i cleaned my room! UGH perfect timing!!!! also!!!!! just wanna say that i found you from all the book content but i LIVE AND DIE for your vlogs!!! i’ve been on a binge this whole week❤❤❤ You’re great at what you do ✨🫶🫵
I appreciate your honesty about your tell-tale signs of mental health declining bc that doesn’t make me feel as crazy when I catch my own, or even anxious/isolation patterns. So, thank you for sharing that !!
des, i hope your mental health is picking up. if not, pls remember that it definitely will!! don't be too hard on yourself and know we all love you so much!! i hope you're still able to find some balance and daily joy through it all
omg des I love you, you inspired me to make a booktok and bookstagram:)
You are inspiring! I tend to be the type who feels mentally terrible and i end up doing nothing about it and just wallowing in it... I really appreciate your willpower to just get the stuff done anyway and acknowledge that its over and wasnt the end of the world. I really hope i cant match that mindset some day!
I don’t know who needs to hear this today, but you are beautiful and never doubt yourself.
i love you so much Des, your videos always make my anxious days better xxx
Des blessing us with a video this Sunday ❤️
the day is 100% better when destiny posts
des! i’m so glad u r posting weekly vlogs. i came to ur channel for books but ive also become a fan of ur vlogs💗 btw ur doing. so much in life rn it is so inspiring. even when some weeks didnt go as planned u always bounce back
i genuinely love these vlogs. like some of my fave videos are these ones. ily des!!🩷
needed this clog today. and i am so sorry you’re struggling mentally, it’s such a lonely feeling but your not alone. You have us and your wonderful family and charlie!!! But i know it’s more to that trust me but look at the positive 💓
no one dare to correct my grammar i know it was terrible i was just letting my heart speak
Bestie,we need a video where Mila chooses your Tbr or what books you buy😭💕
I had a video idea for you and Sara. You could choose each other’s TBR and do a reading vlog of it!!! Love you lots, vlogs are always my favorite 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼
i literally LOVE your week/day in the life!!!!!!!💖
That dentist appointment.. i felt the anxiety!
Thank you for uploading! Was looking forward to this❤
I love when Des posts ❤❤❤
YAYYYY A DESTINY VLOG MY DAY IS MADE
most perfect video to watch while i’m anxious and sick
Been waiting all day for this vlog !!! ❤
Your body is adjusting to the 5am schedule❤❤❤❤❤ u are perfect
I really hope you are going to get better Destiny, thank for your videos that are so comforting, sending lots of love!!!
I love your videos so much! Whenever I see you post a new one I always get excited! Love ya!
daisy jones playing is so real!!!!!
Des can u pls make a full video dedicated to ur notion n how u set it up, etc
This is why I love Sundays 💘
Cleaning my room and checking off my to do list with you! Thanks for the motivation!
I look forward every week to vlog Sundays! They’re my favorite🫶🏼🫶🏼
I’ve been loving the vlogsss❤
Thank you for giving me the motivation to actually get up and workout today!
Im sooo loving the new editing style!!
Omg I have to tell you your videos gave me hope thank you so much they have been getting more and more relatable with all my anxiety and depression thank you so much for that ❤
honestly I love enjoying watching ur videos as they're so entertaining and so realistic
18:19 omg the sky is gorgeous
Sending you so much love & I hope you feel better soon🤍 Remember to take a break if you need one & we all love you through the chaos🤍🤍🤍
Yess we love a weekly vlog from our girly!! 💕
These vlogs are the best thing of every week
Ahhh love the cake bake shop!
Your weekly vlogs are my fav vids of urs!! I ALSO look forward to them❤❤
SOO excited. Gonna watch this tomorrow❤
only reason i like sundays
love you des hope this week treats you kindly 💝
Looovvveee this!!!
love your videos and I get so excited when I see one popup on my notifications!
The noise every time she took a sip took me out y’all 🤣🤣
YAYAAYYYY WOOHOOOO
I just... I just love des so much
I needed this 😂❤
Girlie, maybe see a therapist? I also have bad anxiety and depression and I just started seeing one (I also have a psychiatrist) and it's actually going well. No shame all love!
I second this! (not in a bad way obviously)
Absolutely! Starting to see a psychiatrist changed my life in ways that I never imagined possible.
THANK YOU!! This made my day! 🩷🩷
Love u Des ❤
Omg I love your open hairstyle on Tuesday 😍😍😍
I LOVE YOU SM
Yesssss ❤
Obsessed with your videos thank you for all your hard work, enjoy your Super Bowl Sunday!🫶
You’ve made my day 🫶🏽🥹🩰🦇🫧
These vlogs make my day
You should do a “only reading from my tbr for a week” or something like that
do u recommend a specific planner from anywhere
Yes another Des video ❤❤❤❤
Perfect timing ❤.
YESSSSSS
I would love to see a video about your workout routine
Ahhh how do you have so many shoes?! I loveeee 🫶💕
her boyfriend owns a shoe store! guessing he sources them for her/she’s gets them discounted🥰
If you’re more tired than normal, try getting your vitamin D levels checked! It can cause you to be way more tired ❤
Girl haunting and hunting Adeline is like.. a really intense dark romance even for me, whom loves dark romance lol but I swear The Mind f*uck Series is a really really good dark romance. It's more so about revenge and retribution than anything and I think the romance in it is actually wholesome loll so while it is a bit dark here and there when it comes to the revenge plot, I think you'll enjoy it! Totally give it a try and then DNF if it's not for you, but I think you'll get sucked in!
I love the UK cover for Emily Wilde’s series
I love all your videos ❤❤❤
I hope destiny gets into a better space mentally ❤
Icon which is Destiny Sidwell is always great to watch❤❤❤
i love the old sinjin drowning in the background🙈
I used to have SUCH bad anxiety about going to the dentist. One time in high school (before I was medicated for anxiety lol) I had to take half of one of my mom's Xanax because I was basically having a full on panic attack.
Hi Des I hope you’re feeling better ❤
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HEY DES CAN YOU TRY TO READ NATASHA PRESTON SHE IS SUCH A GOOD AUTHOR!! ❤❤ just a recommendation
Also can we get a tour or your closet, I love every outfit you wear but I cant find anything similar 💗😩
we NEED a video with mila!!!
I love you but I never thought booktok would actually come to a place where you would have to make schedules and structures for when to read at what time 😭shows how this can actually become a job reading books
Mila is so cute 😭
Also yeah no, you can throw Haunting/Hunting Adeline in the trash 🤠
hey , video
suggestion i guess . i want to see the type of camera you use and how you edit your videos
Where’d you get your bed from? It’s simple and cute
Hi Destiny! Omg I have hunting and hunting Adaline and I don’t know if I can work up the courage to read it I want to, but I don’t know if I’m able to. So I know how you feel! ❤
Dark romance is definitely not for everyone!!! No need to explain urself babe. I personally loved haunting Adeline but I’m still working through hunting because of how heavy it is!!
going through a rough breakup so that calls for a des video marathon
Girl you're taking naps cause you're waking up so early!!! It's not a bag thing!
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