Influencer + Hustle Culture + Self Hate / Tang Talk 2
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- Опубліковано 31 тра 2024
- This is my second podcast episode with my guest @ChristieMcFit discussing about being a content creator vs influencer, hustle culture, self hate.
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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 - Intro
01:32 - Influencer vs Content Creator
03:54 - Wording is everything
05:15 -Challenges being a content creator
07:15 - All of us are somebody, be secure with our insecurity
08:00 - Asian adopted by Irish-American parents
09:31 - Representation matters
13:20 - The reason why I moved to Los Angeles from Oklahoma
14:00 - Hard meeting genuine friends
15:20 - Ageism
15:38 - Hustle Culture
20:02 - Integrity
24:52 - Burnout
25:54 - Self Care/ Self Love
25:45 - Pretty Privilege
29:40 - Male Privilege
30:50 - Height Privilege
32:45 - Asian Female Privilege
36:50 - Privilege
38:45 - Exotic
47:00 - American Born Chinese
53:35 - Ethnicism
56:50 - Asian dancer
1:01:30 - Reality Show is toxic
1:07:23 - Is our race our identity?
1:12:40 - Overt vs covert racism
1:17:45 - Asian Creators
1:18:20 - Asian men
1:26:00 - Misogyny and Misandry
1:28:50 - Angry Asian Men
1:33:00 - Strong women and female stars
1:34:00 - Boys don't cry and Music
1:39:00 - #More2Me
I loved how you intertwined the dictionary definition and nuance meaning throughout every topic discussed. It was such a great theme to tie in to the psychological factors that influence all
our experiences.
Thank you for tuning in to watch my second podcast Tang Talk with my guest Christie McFit. I want to share some of my experiences with you and be vulnerable with you. It means the world to have you connect and share yourself with me in the comments as well. Hope you enjoy this episode ❤Love
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Thank you so much guys, for bringing up the subjects about being Asian in US. Because of you guys have voice that general public will listen. What makes me hurt most is that people usually very nice to me and being friendly to me, but once they jealous of me of something, then call me with all kinds of hurtful Asian jokes....then tells me that I am too sensitive. Gaslight....
Thank you SO SO Much for talking about your experience about being Asian. i don''t get to meet people who go through this matter. I felt not alone....
Thank you so so so much for having me, Guy. I’m so honored & grateful to be able to call you my friend 🫶 I always love our REAL talks! You are such an inspiration to all & an amazing role model.
You're the best!❤❤❤❤ I am so glad we are friends and so glad we went on our Haidilao date and started this amazing friendship ❤❤❤❤
This is such a beautiful and vulnerable conversation!
Some thoughts:
- I didn’t know you moved to LA to find freedom. Beautiful.
- I find Lady Gaga very inspiring as well.
- “Be secure with your insecurities”…great message!
- Pain turning into purpose…YES! I love your purpose of showcasing Asian men in a new light full of self love.
- So lucky you took me to the hot pot and taught me how to use chopsticks!
- Yes…it’s so important to look back on what we’re creating and be proud!
- Thanks for sharing your reality show story! Important to be this real! I’m so glad you got yourself out of that depression. I can relate.
- “When you give everything and get nothing in return” - ooof I can relate. I loved “rejection is redirection.”
- “The only conditioning I need it is in my hair” 😂
I love the way you’ve broken this episode down into sections and the setup 💜 Felt like I was there in your hair chair! Can’t wait for more of TangTalk!
Love the conversations. Both of you are so eloquent.
I love the genuine conversation between the two of you. Love it
Love you
🥺🫶 thank you
Love this conversation 💕 💕💕 Thank you for sharing!!! Feels good to know that there are others that have dealt with the society that has stereotyped us and now in my 40s I'm proud to be who I am.
You are so welcome!❤❤ it’s amazing to love ourselves and be confident in our skin
I hope you enjoy the whole video Phoi❤️❤️ we go deeep and Christie is a sweetheart.
Definitely so important to know we are not alone in our experiences! Thank you for watching 🫶
Okaaaayyyy Loving this podcast! Congrats and much success to your new journey ❤🎉
Thank you so much!!and miss you so much
Miss you 😘 this is sooo good Guy! Ttys!!!
That is so true! About people telling you to have confidence when you get ,They want it, then end up being the one's that try to put you down, Werid🌞🌈🥰❤🧡💛💚💙💜
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Thank you both, that was really interesting and informative. Hope you'll do a Part2 soon...👍🤗💜✌️
I really enjoyed this thank you ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🌞🌈🙌👋
so glad that you are putting out these podcasts, i really enjoy them i'm on my own for a week as my partner richard has gone to australia so i'm enjoying listening to you have these discussions even more you biggest number 1# fan here in new zealand i'm sending you loads of virtual hugs GUY TANG i adore you more than you'll ever know!
So happy you love these ❤. They are great to watch and listen as you work around the house and drive
.....and even though i am so far away from you i long to give you true ever-lasting life-long friendship i would never ever ever want to do anything that would hurt you, i love you for how you really are unconditionally
I appreciate you so much ❤ and thank you for watch my new podcast ❤❤❤
Thanks for sharing, Guy. Candid and important convo! --solidarity from a fellow Asian guy!
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Great discussion ❤ and honest one too. as a Asian woman I adore Asian men. And everyone experiences are valid. And even when I go on social media it so damn disrespectful how men mostly white men have fetish for Asian women but look down on Asian men. I get so disgusted. And it completely illogical to think dating someone from your own race as dating a family member it really dumb. Anyone who thinks that clearly have biased and stereotype, self hatred of their own people.Ton of people date people of the same ethnicity and it doesn’t remind them of their siblings. And people like that need to realize just because you experienced racism and stereotypes from others doesn’t mean you dissociated yourself from your heritage and people. If anything people need to stand up for themselves instead of trying to fit in with people who made them feel inferior.
Such an intelligent and important conversation!
Love the genuine conversation! More like thiiiss
Thank you 🙏🏼 more to come
Very natural conversation 💯
It’s real
Guy makes it so easy 🥰
I can tell and I hope to see more of y’all together! Maybe a vlog?!?! ❤️❤️❤️
I always wondered if there is other people that didn't grow up around big bodies of water that we're also scared of swimming creatures I don't even like to go in water because of snapping turtles closest thing we have to a shark or an alligator same thing to me🤭
I also think it's super annoying being treated like you should look like everybody else! In school I was an ugly duckling. Say hey. All the bigger nosed women in the world we are still beautiful I do have a lot of damage from childhood. But my husband is a sunspot🌞💪 in this world and he loves me dearly.
People look at me like I'm privileged. People have treated me quite inappropriate my whole life. I was just a scared very dyslexic child now am an adult dyslexic woman.
Notes/Highlight: Acknowledging one another privilege so one can respectively move forward and talk about it.
I feel like high school needs to be redirected. Need to see the timeline of life. In a few weeks to 4 years with, with apparent figure. Then you were in school which seems like is going to last a lifetime but in reality it doesn't. Finding what you want to do in life in school is a must some people get to go to college and after that you have sixty to eighty years of what you chose. So Choose Wisely. I got lucky and art has always been a natural thing for me being dyslexic. I tried to tell our daughter that in the end the people you hang out with some school you probably won't even talk to you when you're 40 and it sucks because they make school like it's important with all these Clicks in groups and people that get to treat you like crap because you're not the same as them. Plain rude
I love excuses people make in reality they make no sense at all🤦♀️
I enjoyed this 💜
Thank you 🙏🏼
Interesting talk. There is some stuff I agreed with, and some I didn't.
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Thank you 🙏🏼 so much ❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼🌻🌻🌻💚💚💚💚
Hello Guy you look great
Your the best hair stylist and a Great signer wow you have many talents I would like to talk to you about my life hen you have the time let me know thank you u❤
Yo!!! The kink ideed is a childhood trauma thing i feel. Ted bundy brutalized women because he was fatherless and his mom wouldn't disclose one single detail about his father to him. 👀👀
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I need to say here, that as an Australian citizen living in Australia, the word c u n t is by no means a nice nice thing to be called. People who are in a place of lowliness use the c and f words because they actually mean to insult others. 😢😮 So please don't tell folks that it's a normal way that people in Australia communicate. I find it highly insulting.
You’re absolutely right, ❤Thank you for your first comment on my channel, it means so much and I recognized and acknowledge you 💯 ❤❤️ . I was told by many of the young Crowd while I was there and they share with me it means “cheeky” in an endearing way. Thank you for your respected perspective. I want you to know that I never meant to explain that’s how they communicate, I meant to say that’s what I was told by some of the people while I was there but they were also a younger generation and they were teaching me on what is cool among their generation ❤️we are always learning something new. In the US so many of us call eachother the B word but they never say it to adults but more so to their friends to be playful and cheeky among younger millennials or genZ. I understand that and now we are learning how gen Aplha talk on social media. With words like Mid, Base, simp. I didn’t even know what these words meant until a 18 year young man taught me what these words meant.