THE WORST THINGS I EVER BOUGHT £40,000 WASTED ON STUPID THINGS! PLEASE DON'T MAKE MY MISTAKES!

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  • @PatriciaBright
    @PatriciaBright  5 років тому +1975

    Hey beautiful people...so today I'm owning up to some of my spending mistakes...this was kinda painful but we live and learn! Don't make the same mistakes I made!! Leave me a comment on your worst spending mistakes xx

    • @rochelleneita6384
      @rochelleneita6384 5 років тому +14

      Patricia Bright lool girl you killing me 🤣🤣🤣🤣 do a give away I’m sure some of us would love some of those stuff. Love you btw

    • @4teenpages
      @4teenpages 5 років тому +2

      Yasss! 🙌

    • @amanahjacky8177
      @amanahjacky8177 5 років тому +1

      Sis u have all that money to buy all does expensive things😍

    • @alesial7705
      @alesial7705 5 років тому +13

      You should try selling some of these! xxx

    • @jbuitrago572
      @jbuitrago572 5 років тому +9

      Patricia Bright girl Poshmark some of those items and recoup some cash money honey! At least it’s something and not just sitting in your closet losing more and more value overtime. Something to think about 😘 some else can give your items a loving home.

  • @Angel-td9yk
    @Angel-td9yk 5 років тому +4231

    "Please dont make my mistakes" well I dont have £40,000 so thats a bit of an obstacle...

    • @misscafreen9748
      @misscafreen9748 5 років тому +24

      Laika 😂😂😂

    • @tifftreads
      @tifftreads 5 років тому +4

      LMMfao

    • @Omangozika
      @Omangozika 5 років тому +6

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @fabulouslifeinchrist1349
      @fabulouslifeinchrist1349 5 років тому +5

      lol. don't swipe the card either...with credit you can do that. I cry if I have to spend more than $150 for a wedding dress or bridesmaid.

    • @niiayi
      @niiayi 5 років тому +4

      Wow. A lesson to learn but I won't spend so much of such things even I have billion of pounds or dollars in my account. I will do charity with it

  • @michellegove
    @michellegove 5 років тому +2733

    Sell those shoes, sell those bags, sell that dress. Not the same value but you get money back 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @naakai6397
      @naakai6397 5 років тому +82

      Exactly! I'd sell them on the second hand brand name sites.

    • @natttym7534
      @natttym7534 5 років тому +28

      Michelle Gove she would make big bank

    • @laurapardoe5347
      @laurapardoe5347 5 років тому +6

      Deffo sell that designer ish x

    • @GardenSnakeArt
      @GardenSnakeArt 5 років тому +18

      If you sell things on Poshmart (or whatever the name is) she would make bank

    • @estherbenard9750
      @estherbenard9750 5 років тому +2

      I would like to buy your phone.

  • @emmawells7049
    @emmawells7049 5 років тому +2573

    i love how candid you are about prices because so many youtubers don't ever say how much they pay for something! thats why you're the realest!!!!! love u x

    • @SummerTyme2023
      @SummerTyme2023 5 років тому +17

      So true 🤗

    • @Massiw_rnb
      @Massiw_rnb 5 років тому +5

      Exactly

    • @stevi2577
      @stevi2577 5 років тому +1

      Soooo true!!!

    • @Anu-hi9jh
      @Anu-hi9jh 5 років тому +2

      Emma W I don’t understand where she gets the money from, UA-cam won’t get anyone so much money right, what is her job?

    • @emmawells7049
      @emmawells7049 5 років тому +2

      @@Anu-hi9jh youtubers can make a lot of money through brand deals and stuff like that

  • @Emma-yc3mq
    @Emma-yc3mq 5 років тому +2447

    Patricia: "we're gonna start from the lower priced purchases."
    First item = 2000 pound dress

    • @Fridate
      @Fridate 5 років тому +22

      Emma exactly!!! Lolllll

    • @chandaoton
      @chandaoton 5 років тому +4

      Emma Girl Right. @Patricia I’m aiming for your vibe. Yes Girl Goals! I’ll try to learn from your lessons. ❤️

    • @timishablackwood7711
      @timishablackwood7711 5 років тому +2

      Emma Lmfaoooooo

    • @Polkadot2
      @Polkadot2 5 років тому +3

      😂😂😂👊🏾

    • @nneki1
      @nneki1 5 років тому +1

      Init tho😀😂😂

  • @Jessicabakesandmakes
    @Jessicabakesandmakes 5 років тому +533

    I’d be wearing that damn dress to the supermarket, on the school run, my dentist appointment. Getting my coins worth!

    • @kayfay2535
      @kayfay2535 4 роки тому +3

      Jessica Green lool

    • @niko4305
      @niko4305 4 роки тому +3

      Jessica Green lmao 😂

    • @ForeverFarrah
      @ForeverFarrah 4 роки тому +1

      😭 haha

    • @judithadam
      @judithadam 4 роки тому +25

      Jessica Green SAME. Watch me do the laundry looking fly af

    • @darinaangelova2882
      @darinaangelova2882 4 роки тому

      You'll just damage the dress and look ridiculous everywhere.

  • @stacey1725
    @stacey1725 5 років тому +2899

    And here I am feeling guilty about the £30 I just spent on Chinese food.

    • @ChablesTable
      @ChablesTable 5 років тому +10

      same smh lol

    • @erikadee8668
      @erikadee8668 5 років тому +14

      I feel you

    • @MaryJane80
      @MaryJane80 5 років тому +73

      Me 😩 I can even hear my mom saying she can buy food to make for the family for a week or so 🙃

    • @lashonay
      @lashonay 5 років тому +2

      Lol...ikr

    • @nellygenova5103
      @nellygenova5103 5 років тому

      Stacey Same🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @teasheras91
    @teasheras91 5 років тому +1042

    This video just called me poor in every language, accent, and dialect.

  • @anya3149
    @anya3149 5 років тому +730

    I lost my receipt for a Walmart cat collar. Cost $3. Still frustrated since my cat won’t wear it and wish I could return it and get those 3 bucks. 🤷🏽‍♀️😂

    • @ArianaBerkeley
      @ArianaBerkeley 5 років тому +3

      it's $3 tho, not much to fret about hun x

    • @netsanetmartine9548
      @netsanetmartine9548 5 років тому +3

      Ur spoiled cat indeed aim some famous items perhaps gucci 😂😿👔

    • @natalianajera4461
      @natalianajera4461 5 років тому +4

      Lol you can return it without a receipt and get store credit!! Get something you need

    • @hneebrn
      @hneebrn 5 років тому

      Natalia Najera I was just going to tell her that too!

    • @fruitygarlic3601
      @fruitygarlic3601 5 років тому +27

      @@ArianaBerkeley Some people have valid reasons to be cagey about their money; we don't know what's up. There's no need to be condescending about it, hun xx

  • @d123-v5e
    @d123-v5e 5 років тому +2180

    **4.99 shipping** me: oh hell nawww
    pat: I spent £2000 on a dress lol

    • @fashionandluxury101
      @fashionandluxury101 5 років тому +38

      Me too, I hate paying shipping!!!

    • @foundgrace82
      @foundgrace82 5 років тому +19

      Lolest its the first thing i check before buying to see if there is free shipping 😦

    • @bambi7563
      @bambi7563 5 років тому +8

      d alb that’s me during sales I’ll be like damn I’m getting all my this for 20 bucks?😻🤔 Wait there’s $5 shipping didn’t I see free shipping somewhere..? Oh wait that’s said free shipping on $75 or more :/, damn well let me just look see what there is but I probably won’t end up even placing an order now. And then ten minutes later me with like a $100 cart cheering bout the free shipping and all the deals I just got as if I actually saved myself some money. Btw I’m talking more like bout payday and not the days before payday cause ya know, $$$ lol

    • @juliewamona
      @juliewamona 5 років тому +2

      😂😂😂 I hate paying for shipping I swear

    • @rossg.7807
      @rossg.7807 5 років тому

      d alb lol 😂😂😂

  • @ladyshamssx9442
    @ladyshamssx9442 5 років тому +1511

    My girl said she’s gonna start low and we got £2000. Screaming 😭😭😭

    • @RasolleC
      @RasolleC 5 років тому +1

      😂😂😂

    • @Elena-pn1pw
      @Elena-pn1pw 5 років тому

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @re8974
      @re8974 5 років тому

      I know right. Thought it would be like £200 for a start

  • @lamu947
    @lamu947 5 років тому +2114

    patricia losing money on stupid things, gets back all the money by making a video about it. :D

    • @favouronuoha9687
      @favouronuoha9687 5 років тому +51

      As in lmao, UA-camrs go vacations, eat, clean etc and still makes money by filming it

    • @elenadodi4318
      @elenadodi4318 5 років тому +10

      I was searching this comment 😂

    • @ThatGuyAB
      @ThatGuyAB 5 років тому +2

      you check!!!!!!

    • @bambi7563
      @bambi7563 5 років тому +27

      helene johnson that’s not how it works, you don’t needa be signed to a company to make money in every video like how would that even work that makes no sense. She’s able to add however many ads she wants and choose between skip-able or not and choose between lengths and as long as UA-cam doesn’t demonetize it for some reason she will get paid for every video and gets more money the more views. Please stop spreading false info by speaking on things you don’t know pretending you know it

    • @hallylovesfood6802
      @hallylovesfood6802 5 років тому +2

      LOOOOOL the entrepreneur mindset

  • @tangy7554
    @tangy7554 5 років тому +1391

    *Now you should do a “Most Worth It Luxury Purchases” video!*

    • @ChristinaFaith1
      @ChristinaFaith1 5 років тому +4

      Some One yes!

    • @quyenhuynh678
      @quyenhuynh678 5 років тому +1

      Please do this!

    • @CherisseHayes
      @CherisseHayes 5 років тому

      Please!

    • @Rasheedaxo
      @Rasheedaxo 5 років тому

      Why ? Lol

    • @IcedLipGloss
      @IcedLipGloss 5 років тому +5

      @@Rasheedaxo why else? to get her perspective on which designer purchases were worth the money to her...duhh

  • @blognienloves
    @blognienloves 5 років тому +713

    I really love that you are such an open book about your finances/expenses/regrets etc. as no one really talks about I feel like it's hard to learn about these things, so big thanks for making these kind of video's! So helpful!

    • @Familymademealsnow
      @Familymademealsnow 5 років тому

      Hi
      .

    • @eyekandy3000
      @eyekandy3000 5 років тому +1

      I’m personally offended that she’s flaunting her millionaire status...jk- I’m just jealous 😂

    • @Familymademealsnow
      @Familymademealsnow 5 років тому

      I will be ok girls.. Sometimes it is ok to watch and just click like 👍 like 👍 like. Jijijij

  • @TheDonDIVA
    @TheDonDIVA 5 років тому +318

    I hate when I buy clothes..have no where to wear them to..then once I finally have somewhere to go I don’t like the clothes anymore 😩

  • @II.am.Gold.
    @II.am.Gold. 5 років тому +1978

    i dont even have money to accidentally buy things 😂

  • @widneygay5206
    @widneygay5206 5 років тому +520

    This video called me broke £40,000 different ways. But, listen I'm glad a black woman is successful and making it. Get that money!!

  • @KINNOHA
    @KINNOHA 5 років тому +2757

    "Never buy anything you can't afford to buy twice"

  • @ljaanisoo2244
    @ljaanisoo2244 5 років тому +875

    She payed 1375 for shoes and then my broke ass has to think for about 30mins to decide if 100 bucks is too much for a pair of sneakers that I want😂

    • @elaceyc6853
      @elaceyc6853 5 років тому +69

      L Jaanisoo I legit spent an hour recently at Target trying to decide if I want to buy $29.99 sandals. In the end, I just got Natty Light.😂

    • @sams3015
      @sams3015 5 років тому +11

      And thats pound sterling so its even more than 1375 in US Dollars

    • @raeannhoward2231
      @raeannhoward2231 5 років тому +20

      I think 60$ is a lot for shoes

    • @ljaanisoo2244
      @ljaanisoo2244 5 років тому

      @@raeannhoward2231 for me aswell but I'm still underage so my mum buys them for me when I really need them

    • @leahmcdermott4189
      @leahmcdermott4189 5 років тому +7

      Deadasssss ME though. This morning I got a steal and just bought two pair of Nike sneakers for £110. Hours and hours later and I’m still thinking if it was worth it lol. I keep thinking that’s £110 I could have put in my savings account 😂😂😂. Life of a broke chick. Patricia’s got the baggggg 💰.

  • @Stephani33B
    @Stephani33B 5 років тому +3592

    “Don’t make the same mistakes as me” DARLIN, I couldn’t even if I tried, I don’t have the budget 😂
    IMAGINE gettin 1k likes...whatever Idc 🙄☺️😂😂

  • @LidoolAmy
    @LidoolAmy 5 років тому +407

    You should do a video talking about the opposite!! Luxury items you love/don’t regret buying

    • @ngumabi
      @ngumabi 5 років тому +2

      Great idea 👌🏾

    • @sarahthomas3907
      @sarahthomas3907 5 років тому

      Yesssssss

    • @Memkoh
      @Memkoh 5 років тому

      yeesss! such a wonderful idea

  • @bbria28
    @bbria28 5 років тому +293

    Y’all she did not make a 13 minute video roasting herself ALL so she could save our souls 😭😭😭. Yes black queen 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @eleanorwollweber3393
    @eleanorwollweber3393 5 років тому +694

    Patricia: okay let's start with the small purchases
    Patricia: so I brought a £2000 dress

  • @afrik.a515
    @afrik.a515 5 років тому +1963

    “30,000 pounds floating around”..Patricia darling, adopt me

  • @jeannewambo5150
    @jeannewambo5150 5 років тому +691

    Can someone teach me how to generate enough money to make these kinds of mistakes? Should I start a youtube channel, too? or drop an album?! Thank you in advance!

    • @DarleneOctavia
      @DarleneOctavia 5 років тому +14

      😭😭😭😭I'm literally doing both right now lol

    • @aliciafields-worldtravelle8248
      @aliciafields-worldtravelle8248 5 років тому +15

      The amount she paid for that convertible is reasonable though..it costs twice as much in Kenya.

    • @rokanaakbanaduak6395
      @rokanaakbanaduak6395 5 років тому +11

      @@DarleneOctavia I subbed u..best wishes on ur journey

    • @DarleneOctavia
      @DarleneOctavia 5 років тому +7

      @@rokanaakbanaduak6395 That's so sweet of you!!! Thanks so much 💖💖💖

    • @williamscatherine28
      @williamscatherine28 5 років тому +1

      What you said. Wzup

  • @Ruki.aktar06
    @Ruki.aktar06 5 років тому +667

    I’m sorry Patricia those sock boots look like sock boats 😂 depop them sis

  • @peggood8979
    @peggood8979 5 років тому +788

    “It’s a shoe. It’s a shoe. It’s a shoe. It’s a shoe. It’s a tight.” 😂😂😭 Thank you for your honesty ALWAYS Patricia and a good laugh 💚

  • @hannahshuff3294
    @hannahshuff3294 5 років тому +725

    “Let’s start with the lower end”......
    Pulls out 2,000 pound dress
    Me: that’s the “low” end???

    • @RoussaElsey0515
      @RoussaElsey0515 5 років тому +6

      Hannah Shuff right ??

    • @martinebraamsmusic
      @martinebraamsmusic 5 років тому +10

      😂 I was shook as well haha. But everyone has a different budget.

    • @ForeverFarrah
      @ForeverFarrah 4 роки тому +1

      Looool

    • @LewisBrain
      @LewisBrain 4 роки тому +2

      That was out of her personal purchases. The car was £30k I don't even get that a year.

    • @sinchasin3611
      @sinchasin3611 4 роки тому +2

      Yes, because she is wealthy. It’s relative.
      It depends how wealthy you are. Maybe the high end for her would be another billionaires low end.

  • @michellegove
    @michellegove 5 років тому +738

    This caption called me broke 😭😭😭 let me just watch!

  • @abbdabs_
    @abbdabs_ 5 років тому +79

    “Please don’t make my mistakes”? HUN, I wish I could make your mistakes!

  • @TheBaybeeJess
    @TheBaybeeJess 5 років тому +313

    imagine having 30k floating around ! Lord i see what you're doing for other people

    • @nowwhat1434
      @nowwhat1434 5 років тому +4

      😂

    • @Chiyembekezo
      @Chiyembekezo 5 років тому +5

      Hahaha 😂😂😂 some of us are in a blindspot I swear. Lol.

    • @MzMahoganyHoneyBrown
      @MzMahoganyHoneyBrown 5 років тому

      Nemuu Ray just google highest paying jobs

  • @KENDAISE420
    @KENDAISE420 5 років тому +794

    And I'm here feeling guilty for spending that $8 US at Popeyes for dinner😭😭😭.

    • @goldgiwa4580
      @goldgiwa4580 5 років тому +2

      😂😂😂😂

    • @Cierrareadsandwrites
      @Cierrareadsandwrites 5 років тому +16

      Never feel bad for spending money at Popeyes. It’s worth it.

    • @AJ-mz9ie
      @AJ-mz9ie 5 років тому +1

      Lol.

    • @Truebeauty189
      @Truebeauty189 5 років тому +2

      Kizyann Rogers FACTS LMAO! I just felt bad for spending $40 on dinner 😩😭

    • @Candicedickinsonllc
      @Candicedickinsonllc 5 років тому

      you’re like the 99% of us 🙄 not very special lol

  • @macym.5450
    @macym.5450 5 років тому +541

    I felt the pinch when I bought a $30.00 charger😂

  • @vk-ph4kh
    @vk-ph4kh 5 років тому +547

    "it's a tight, it's not even a shoe it's a legging" 🤣😭😭🤣 this comment had me rolling.

    • @ciiru1872
      @ciiru1872 5 років тому +3

      😂🤣😂 me too

    • @Massiw_rnb
      @Massiw_rnb 5 років тому +2

      Fr tho

    • @rubaidaallen2764
      @rubaidaallen2764 5 років тому +3

      Patricia is too much. Love her!!! 😂😂😂😂

  • @Candaicelovesjesus
    @Candaicelovesjesus 5 років тому +218

    I refused to get fries because it wasn’t a part of the special....🙆🏾‍♀️🙆🏾‍♀️

  • @yvonnedollface
    @yvonnedollface 5 років тому +229

    You need to put the dress on depop and get your money back sis 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @miriamyeboah5455
    @miriamyeboah5455 5 років тому +253

    Patricia just called me broke in 47 different languages

  • @KiaraMadisen
    @KiaraMadisen 4 роки тому +24

    the sock boot part killed me...this video made my day and hyped me up to save my money 👏🏼

  • @denetralittle9797
    @denetralittle9797 5 років тому +350

    Patricia: We are going to start with the less expensive items.
    Also Patricia: The first item it a $2000 dress!

  • @Omalicioustoyin
    @Omalicioustoyin 5 років тому +871

    The Nigerian in me is converting every amount to naira and I’m just sweating 😓😓

    • @Rawlings.
      @Rawlings. 5 років тому +13

      Toyin Hahaha true story

    • @abiboo7707
      @abiboo7707 5 років тому +3

      Toyin omg just what I was thinking lol

    • @Missforexcharts
      @Missforexcharts 5 років тому +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @kemiadekunle4543
      @kemiadekunle4543 5 років тому +3

      😂😂😂 god almighty...

    • @sea7544
      @sea7544 5 років тому +28

      Girl! I'm hollering cos all I'm thinking is... rent, school fees, a heart, a kidney. In Maria my heart is paining me

  • @CarineFavour
    @CarineFavour 5 років тому +113

    I was at H&M today. They have 50% sales. That's how i buy my 3€party dress🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @ClaudiaArteaga
    @ClaudiaArteaga 5 років тому +438

    And here I am: regretting those $35 I spent last week on some sandals 😂😂 SHAME ON ME

    • @Elormdiva
      @Elormdiva 5 років тому

      Claudia Arteaga 🤣🤣🤣

    • @Rachel-su3ir
      @Rachel-su3ir 5 років тому +2

      Same haha

    • @addie-bowbadie5348
      @addie-bowbadie5348 5 років тому +11

      I visited goodwill and got 5 items for 20 dollars and felt guilty 😂

    • @Solmom03
      @Solmom03 5 років тому

      Claudia Arteaga LOL!

  • @avonelledavis1728
    @avonelledavis1728 5 років тому +333

    I think it was Jay-Z who said that you can’t afford something if you can’t buy it twice. I’ve been trying hard to live be that honestly. I’m not doing all that well though 😂

    • @thatflightattendantchick1903
      @thatflightattendantchick1903 5 років тому +40

      Avonelle Davis My dad always says that if you can’t pay cash, you can’t afford it.

    • @sophiaatn5339
      @sophiaatn5339 5 років тому +26

      I need to start selling drugs tbh

    • @Misskwu
      @Misskwu 5 років тому +2

      Sophia ATN Lmaoo 😂😂🤣🤣🤣

    • @ellax325
      @ellax325 5 років тому +2

      @@sophiaatn5339 asdfghhjl you're killing me 😂😂

    • @kinkykoils6176
      @kinkykoils6176 5 років тому

      @@sophiaatn5339 omg..lol 'm dying.

  • @minaturalbeauty8146
    @minaturalbeauty8146 5 років тому +186

    Patricia you could start renting the dress out that way it becomes an investment!!

    • @ladylin3026
      @ladylin3026 5 років тому +37

      Nahh someone would ruin it... Ppl don't care about things as much when it's not theirs unfortunately ..

    • @itpaynesme
      @itpaynesme 4 роки тому +10

      Melinda Thornton add a bond to it maybe idk, there are a fair few businesses out there now that are literally just renting outfits

    • @AngelaShiflet
      @AngelaShiflet 4 роки тому

      @@ladylin3026 true

  • @io.7504
    @io.7504 5 років тому +213

    1000+ POUNDS ON SHOES?!?! oh patricia someone take her credit card 😭

    • @Stephani33B
      @Stephani33B 5 років тому +3

      I O. I volunteer 🙋🏾‍♀️ I’ll take good care of it, I promise 🤞🏾😂

  • @SJ93622
    @SJ93622 5 років тому +181

    and then there's me over here with a £5 foundation sitting in my online basket for 2 weeks

    • @k.d.1520
      @k.d.1520 5 років тому +9

      Sian this is so relatable . I’ve had 12 dollar makeup brushes in my amazon wishlist for like 2 months

    • @SJ93622
      @SJ93622 5 років тому +3

      KD Jones I reckon we just need to go for it !

    • @minty9675
      @minty9675 5 років тому

      Preach!

    • @EndeGO.P
      @EndeGO.P 5 років тому +4

      Its the shipping that makes you second guess everything

    • @etoile-chichinnam-obi2701
      @etoile-chichinnam-obi2701 5 років тому

      Guilty 😁

  • @SHANICEHIGGINS
    @SHANICEHIGGINS 5 років тому +202

    you: 2000 pound dress
    me: don't even have that in my bank account

  • @adaflorescu3443
    @adaflorescu3443 5 років тому +121

    I constantly spend money on makeup and then I barely use it. This is my constant spending mistake

    • @jamiecazlin1
      @jamiecazlin1 5 років тому

      Why don't you use it?

    • @kathrynp8080
      @kathrynp8080 5 років тому

      I think many, many of us are guilty of that one 😧.

    • @merryespinosa4893
      @merryespinosa4893 5 років тому +1

      Im on my transitioning state with Retinol. I want my skin to be at a stable state so that in the end I can wear snatched makeup. Btw makeup expires. I have saved so much money and my skin is safe. Peace and love 🌎🥰

  • @whatsername9061
    @whatsername9061 5 років тому +124

    And I'm here feeling bad about the $5 I spent on snacks

  • @CARATMom
    @CARATMom 5 років тому +45

    This was great advice and life lessons. Cars depreciate in value the day you drive them off the lot. Thank you for sharing your aha moments. Move away from “purchases” and move toward “investments”.

  • @vycford3
    @vycford3 5 років тому +202

    I appreciate the honesty. Thanks.

  • @RW-yt7ro
    @RW-yt7ro 5 років тому +681

    God I love seeing successful black people spend Frivolously ,WHO CAN AFFORD TO , MAMA WE MADE IT ,I can live vicariously though you .... 😂😂

    • @aliyahlolz
      @aliyahlolz 5 років тому

      #GOALS 🙌🏾

    • @RW-yt7ro
      @RW-yt7ro 5 років тому +2

      Kiera my comment wasn’t me saying the point , I was just saying it’s nice to see a black woman able to make all the expensive “regrets” and even have the money to make the as she call them regrettable purchases 😁

    • @aliyahlolz
      @aliyahlolz 5 років тому +1

      @@kiera4844 You must have missed the point of my comment. I know buying a new car is absolutely frivolous. I aspire to make enough $$$ to be able to make or not make that decision myself one day.
      edit: sorry you weren't even talking to me lol

    • @sosexymagazinerobinwatkins8467
      @sosexymagazinerobinwatkins8467 5 років тому +2

      @@aliyahlolz I agree with you. I don't consider a new car to be frivolous why should you have to act poor when you're not why should you have to play down your assets why can't she be comfortable? Obviously she's worked for a long time and she has struggle she has a wonderful accounting mind and she made sure that she paid her house she paid her house off at 30 years old that's phenomenal we all can do that if you follow her lead i'm not too proud to take in good information and apply it

  • @zoedufour9937
    @zoedufour9937 5 років тому +92

    When she said we'll start at the low end I was thinking £5-10 😂

  • @ladygabrielle36
    @ladygabrielle36 5 років тому +62

    Lmaooooo that quote threw me off “what we have is a depreciating liability” 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @ClariceDS93
    @ClariceDS93 5 років тому +97

    Patricia remains a MOOD!!😍💃🏾✨
    Lord please bless me with these kind of dilemmas. 😩😭🙌🏾

  • @mins0219
    @mins0219 5 років тому +38

    'Some days boujee, some days take the Volkswagen Polo' - Patricia, 2019 👑💎

  • @Houseade
    @Houseade 5 років тому +225

    I waste money all the time too... on food tho. 🤷🏾‍♀️😂

    • @oliviag8323
      @oliviag8323 5 років тому +2

      Saaaaaaame!!! Especially when you together with bae😂🙈

    • @Houseade
      @Houseade 5 років тому

      Gontse Malapane ahhh yea. It’s not over until you eat more than them 😂😂

    • @sharday_3892
      @sharday_3892 5 років тому

      Thas literally where allll my money goes.. I’m bouta order somethin now 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @collegegirlKillerk
      @collegegirlKillerk 5 років тому +1

      This is so †rue and it adds up. I check my bank statement like “who is eating all of this” lol

    • @TheBlaqueLilly
      @TheBlaqueLilly 5 років тому +4

      I'd be rich if I didn't have taste buds 😭

  • @Lauren-wp5vc
    @Lauren-wp5vc 5 років тому +266

    Rich people problems 😂 but I like this honest vlogs really xxx

  • @yogabeantt
    @yogabeantt 5 років тому +9

    Very thankful for this type of content. Sometimes we don’t realize how a frivolous purchase may affect us in the long run.
    I love when you do content like this. Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @redribena9749
    @redribena9749 5 років тому +398

    Legend has it, if your early enough, Patricia will heart your comment 😍

  • @candicewaits9271
    @candicewaits9271 5 років тому +34

    I appreciate your frankness and honesty when it comes down to this kind of thing. That lavish lifestyle does come at a costly price. It's nice to have something to treat yourself every once in awhile, but make sure you can handle that cost.

  • @tamikajoseph6127
    @tamikajoseph6127 5 років тому +70

    Resell that dress. Consign it... Ppl will want that.

  • @htth9460
    @htth9460 5 років тому +19

    Just a tip for that $2,000 dress..I would go to a tailor and have it made into a two-piece top and skirt.. BOOM! and if you gained weight you can add more mesh/ fabric for more room!

  • @pinkroseperson256
    @pinkroseperson256 5 років тому +95

    She’s out here spending $40,000 meanwhile I’m wondering if I made a mistake commissioning some art for $50

  • @BeautyOfFat
    @BeautyOfFat 5 років тому +170

    “It’s a shoe, it’s a shoe, it’s a tight’ 😭😭😭😭

  • @the_modern_alchemist
    @the_modern_alchemist 5 років тому +246

    Send some of that £40,000 my way😭, I’ve got to pay off my student overdraft

  • @KristyV02
    @KristyV02 5 років тому +45

    Girl?!?! 2100 for a purse? I don't even wanna pay $21!!! Damn.... That's just me though. Lol.. If you have, use it! 😂

  • @Vanessa-gg8db
    @Vanessa-gg8db 5 років тому +308

    Well my dumb money mistake is spending my whole paycheck in a hour 😂

    • @gillianwills9049
      @gillianwills9049 5 років тому +26

      Buy a house, your whole lifetime's earnings, gone with a few signatures...

    • @LexaKarlynVlogs
      @LexaKarlynVlogs 5 років тому +13

      @@gillianwills9049 + furniture, utilities, throw in a couple of kids and a van 👋🏽💰 😂

    • @justentertainingtv9686
      @justentertainingtv9686 5 років тому +5

      Sorry but if this was a preppy white girl everyone would say she's vain and showing off, Patricia has just made a video to boast about the expensive things she's buys in a very sly pompous way.

    • @sherryda2018bb
      @sherryda2018bb 5 років тому +56

      Amelia stephenson Instead of learning a great lesson about waste, you working on your primary job of envy....you win.......🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @kelseyoakes803
      @kelseyoakes803 5 років тому +2

      Why not downsize to like a tiny house, canal boat, etc that would be my dream lol

  • @tay8397
    @tay8397 5 років тому +556

    “Buying a new phone every 8 months”
    Um sis who

    • @judelush
      @judelush 5 років тому +81

      i only upgrade when my phone breaks "how the other half live eh!"

    • @euro_babe
      @euro_babe 5 років тому +4

      @@judelush same!

    • @JustAnotherLondoner
      @JustAnotherLondoner 5 років тому +20

      Same I upgrade every 2 years or so, but only if my phone starts to break😂

    • @kaitlynnscruggs3711
      @kaitlynnscruggs3711 5 років тому +1

      You can get iPhone upgrade programs through your phone provider. I get a new iPhone every time a new o e comes out. Def worth it

    • @graziam.5886
      @graziam.5886 5 років тому +7

      I can relate, I bought my phone in 2013 still brand new, still with me!!!

  • @rethas3341
    @rethas3341 4 роки тому

    I love how transparent you are. Love the tips. Somethings people need a wake up call and I needed that. 🙂❤️

  • @scarletwitch9918
    @scarletwitch9918 5 років тому +216

    You know what I smelt....... depreciation 😭😭

  • @sugarspice3797
    @sugarspice3797 5 років тому +321

    Patricia: how i wasted 40 thousand pounds
    Me: cries in poor 😂

  • @lovetolaugh5287
    @lovetolaugh5287 5 років тому +43

    😭 your videos are so funny 🤣
    That dress wouldve cost me £2,001 because im buying a bottle of Febreze widdit! *That dress is going BACK!*

  • @MatildaCleland
    @MatildaCleland 5 років тому +229

    When she mentioned shoes i just knew it was Balenciaga 🤣🤣🤣 they have shoes that are a bit errrmmm... this keyboard keeps messing up... 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @Elsje147
    @Elsje147 5 років тому +228

    Patricia: regrets buying a Mercedes-Benz
    Also Patricia: buys a Porsche

    • @EE-zd6xh
      @EE-zd6xh 5 років тому +22

      I think she regretted the convertible that wasn't a family car.

    • @TheMschan330
      @TheMschan330 5 років тому +6

      Her point was that leasing the car is a better option than buying it, so the Porsche is probably leased.

    • @lindawilliams2164
      @lindawilliams2164 5 років тому +3

      @@EE-zd6xh Exactly, and it was a convertible in a climate where you won't get much use out of it. Impractical

    • @michellegove
      @michellegove 5 років тому

      I think both the Porsche and the Range Rover were leased! Pat is savvy now!

  • @elenabarti9910
    @elenabarti9910 5 років тому +13

    When she said "what we have is a depreciating liability IN MY CLOSET" I literally died

  • @tiffanyn.torres8993
    @tiffanyn.torres8993 5 років тому +330

    **Disregards all advice in vid**
    When can I expect these items on your PoshMark for purchase?? 😂

  • @RSAchick125
    @RSAchick125 5 років тому +97

    Preaching Truth! 🙌🏼
    So many people are spending ridiculous amounts of money & getting themselves into debt just to “Keep Up With The Joneses” 🤷🏼‍♀️
    Just to impress people you don’t like who don’t care!
    Invest that money in your education, your financial future, your business idea etc 👌🏼

  • @Adegail_
    @Adegail_ 5 років тому +51

    £30,000 floating around EH !?🤣 I receive it 😅🙏🏾

    • @SOI-wl2lo
      @SOI-wl2lo 5 років тому

      Adegail Amen! For real lol 👌🏽

    • @debbyluxe
      @debbyluxe 4 роки тому

      Manifesting that too!

  • @whythetroublethough9
    @whythetroublethough9 5 років тому +21

    I love this Anti-Haul:D Through social media people get really hooked in trends and think that their need a lot of items but it really can become a really toxic mindset. Where it doesnt tie in in what we really want.

  • @MatildaCleland
    @MatildaCleland 5 років тому +298

    You could auction them Patricia 😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣
    Or just give them away 😅😅

    • @ithilgreenleaf8184
      @ithilgreenleaf8184 5 років тому +5

      Lmao nah don't give them away, but definitely resell them!

  • @sherryhan3784
    @sherryhan3784 5 років тому +6

    love Patricia ! shes so funny and relatable!
    Thank you for being such an open book and allowing us to learn from you.

  • @modupeedwards8778
    @modupeedwards8778 5 років тому +61

    OMG u soon going to 3 million subscribers. Well done patricia u deserve it xxx

  • @lhurve
    @lhurve 5 років тому +279

    Heyyyy 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
    A video I can relate to 100%
    Edit:
    Wait... £2000 pounds????? On a dress you wore for 5 hours?!?!?!
    Patriciaaaaaaa 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️
    Also y’all just happened to have £40,000 lying around?? Lord.... I see what you’re doing for others 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @Ruthlesspast
      @Ruthlesspast 5 років тому +2

      LHURVE DAVIES hahaha 🤣🤣🤣

    • @lhurve
      @lhurve 5 років тому +20

      Zeinab Ozigi my ability to relate flew out the window 😂

    • @millsymills6967
      @millsymills6967 5 років тому +11

      I upgraded this year from an iPhone 6 to an XR! 😂😂 I refused to give up my 6 until it was necessary.

    • @hawonur4266
      @hawonur4266 5 років тому +1

      millsy mills SAME! Lol

    • @АннаТатаринова-ы8с
      @АннаТатаринова-ы8с 5 років тому +2

      It’s so strange 4 me because 2k£ for a dress it’s not 2 much. Patricia was spending thousands of pounds on complete shit from romewe and other Chinese sites. And such a dress “for once” is a memory. I am not subscribed to the Patricia instagram, but even I actually saw her photos in this dress! Designer dresses cost much more, I would be surprised if she spent £ 20k ​​on one dress. she just pays so much attention to it, but it doesn’t amaze me ... I’m more surprised at how much she cares about it, it’s a pity that she regrets such a purchase

  • @carolynw8614
    @carolynw8614 5 років тому +32

    I'm just shocked, as an American, that u can buy a Mercedes for 30K? Wow, try double here and up!

    • @HerVideos1969
      @HerVideos1969 5 років тому

      Right!!

    • @kxo8929
      @kxo8929 5 років тому +11

      It is still cheaper than in the US due to the import of a Mercedes but I will just mention too that she is speaking in pounds (so it was more like 38,000 USD).

  • @AskMiko
    @AskMiko 5 років тому +42

    Rewarding ourselves for hard work when its put into perspective is a key lesson - we only live once... when we observe some purchases may not have been worth the emotional high; learning not to make the repeat mistakes is a lifetime of lessons. Good video! Learned a lot...

  • @nistha9953
    @nistha9953 5 років тому +283

    Gucci n fendi for me is NEVER classic
    I repeat NEVER 😅😂😂
    Thanks for the likes 😅

    • @miguel_Fam
      @miguel_Fam 5 років тому

      nancy amen sis amen

    • @user-kl2vp
      @user-kl2vp 5 років тому +4

      nancy well the old fendi WAS classic

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali 5 років тому +14

    Thanks Pat! Hahahahaha this was a good laugh. We may not afford to spend the amounts you did but we can certainly relate! Impulsive buying tendencies affects most of us! 😃

  • @lifeisablessing247
    @lifeisablessing247 5 років тому +75

    The older I get the more I shop for classic styles. I find that I get more for my money when I shop classic.

    • @earthstar7534
      @earthstar7534 5 років тому +8

      Yup yup yup, I quit all fast fashion also. I shop a couple of quality items in classic lasting styles each year.
      Quitting all fast fashion actually saved me money on clothes over the course of the year because I think about what I'm buying and how much I will use it.

    • @Shakyion
      @Shakyion 5 років тому +4

      Me too! I hate the fast fashion

    • @cassiemaie9308
      @cassiemaie9308 5 років тому +2

      Ditto. Prefer to spend more on classic than fast fashion.

    • @nissango
      @nissango 5 років тому

      @@earthstar7534 How did you quit? Where do you shop now? I really want to get out of fast fashion but I have no clue where to go for quality stuff

    • @abiobelarijack2472
      @abiobelarijack2472 5 років тому +1

      I'm so working on this. Hold on, let me go return those pink Nikes I won't get much use out of🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

  • @cherrymocha77
    @cherrymocha77 5 років тому +127

    Thumbnail: **exists**
    Hands: Cupped together
    Also Hand: Holding the dress
    Me: Sis, it don't add up...

    • @mthefangirl4956
      @mthefangirl4956 5 років тому

      Cherry Mocha bitch i-
      I didn't even notice now I'm confused

  • @susanw9023
    @susanw9023 5 років тому +14

    Jousting with the Balenciaga boots. That took me out 😂😂😂

  • @elk5711
    @elk5711 5 років тому +18

    When you said that your car had depreciated by 12,000 in a year, I got shivers! Obviously, new cars lessen in value as they are used more but 12k is rough!!

  • @Mitzuoyan
    @Mitzuoyan 5 років тому +39

    Idk if Huawei is all over in uk (esp with the spying controversies) but if you're just buying phones for a good camera, Huawei P30 might just be the final phone you're gonna purchase. It's literally satellite surveillance level of quality so yeah,,,

  • @smariagray3050
    @smariagray3050 5 років тому +2

    When I say I appreciate the honesty Patricia, I mean it! This is sooooo real. No matter the amount of money I have, I could spend or allocate or even save money so much wiser. I love when you do financial videos. Keep them coming PB 💕

  • @SheenaReine
    @SheenaReine 5 років тому +82

    If you hate that Gucci bag you could send it my way 😏 it matches a skirt I have lol.

    • @kikikiki3216
      @kikikiki3216 4 роки тому

      Same thing I thought girl, that bag is fabulous

  • @MrIhasblog
    @MrIhasblog 5 років тому +102

    Bad idea doing a clay mask while watching Patricia. I can't stop laughing 😂

  • @maecyberz1830
    @maecyberz1830 5 років тому +15

    Her: spends 2,000 on dress
    my mom at the mall: I don’t know are you sure you want the $80 dress I think we can find one online for cheaper

  • @ameliastroud8557
    @ameliastroud8557 5 років тому +99

    Guilty of wasting money on clothes that I probably never end up wearing 🤦🏽‍♀️🤣

  • @emilymcnabola5972
    @emilymcnabola5972 5 років тому +78

    Here I am at 16 learning from other people's mistakes so I never make them in the future

    • @theunderpants84
      @theunderpants84 5 років тому +1

      Emily McNabola you’ll make your own mistakes my dear. Not saying this to scare you, it’s just fact.

    • @toriwissinger1075
      @toriwissinger1075 5 років тому +3

      It's okay to make those mistakes though. I'm not saying to put yourself 40K in the hole. Please don't do that! But if you can afford to treat yourself once in a while, absolutely do it! It's good for mental health, self esteem, and you only live once.

  • @winifredHarry
    @winifredHarry 5 років тому

    I have been using the same c300 class for the past 5 years n it still looks like new. You are so right, pay cash for car it’s saves you money in the long run