Maybe you need to walk away

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  • @BjornAndreasBull-Hansen
    @BjornAndreasBull-Hansen  5 місяців тому +260

    Dear friends, for all of you who have asked, yes, those two beautiful creatures are my dogs. About my novels and which languages they are available in, as always you will find information and links on my website www.bull-hansen.com Also, you have asked about my woolshirts. I get them from a UK (Cheshire) based, veteran owned company called Modern Woolcraft and they are handmade. www.etsy.com/uk/shop/ModernWoolfare?coupon=BJORN They will give you a 10% discount if you use the code BJORN

    • @dlg8409
      @dlg8409 5 місяців тому +11

      I have Just found u today. So Happy Mate. Stay healthy and who you are, wise Viking 💪🙏

    • @TheScarletSorceress
      @TheScarletSorceress 5 місяців тому +31

      Please publish in English; I know sooo many people that would enjoy your novels.

    • @martinwatson5438
      @martinwatson5438 5 місяців тому +10

      Greyhounds. Beautiful calm and peaceful dogs. Just right.

    • @jennc8554
      @jennc8554 5 місяців тому +3

      First of all , Thank you for what you do.where can one get that pullover your wearing?and today I found piece by spending time in nature as always.

    • @Voting-does-nothing
      @Voting-does-nothing 5 місяців тому

      What is the 'M' badge you have on ?

  • @Hfftgbfrschjm
    @Hfftgbfrschjm 5 місяців тому +169

    "If it costs you your peace, it is too expensive" - Paulo Coelho

  • @efraim3364
    @efraim3364 5 місяців тому +634

    never be afraid to walk away from negative, energy draining people, even if its someone in your family

    • @Lousialee-hm3gu
      @Lousialee-hm3gu 5 місяців тому +34

      I had to do that and it was painful at first but then it was ok, no more pain after the initial wrench.

    • @2ndarymotion
      @2ndarymotion 5 місяців тому +51

      ESPECIALLY if it is someone in your family.

    • @jykl608
      @jykl608 5 місяців тому +13

      @@2ndarymotion but... its my wife the thing that destroys my peace. By the time we separate I will be too old.

    • @bloodeaglepvp437
      @bloodeaglepvp437 5 місяців тому +15

      walk away but still honor them even after it all - family can die before u do. and ud regret not riding or dying with them after they gone. i come from a family of problems and grudges - ive had to seperate from my siblings for many years and we still do sometimes if needed. every situation is different ofc.... but my point stands as contrast - absolutely agree with removing urself from negative family members and love at a distance if needed yk.

    • @georgycolson6743
      @georgycolson6743 5 місяців тому +2

      Yes❤

  • @Kittunz
    @Kittunz 5 місяців тому +588

    Peace of mind is true wealth.

    • @Kjertinge
      @Kjertinge 5 місяців тому +19

      Exactly. Sure money and being financially secure is a peace in itself. But true peace cannot be bought. It needs to be built from within.

    • @Londonechoes
      @Londonechoes 5 місяців тому +8

      As well as Health, having both is a cheat code

    • @AbsolutelyNOW
      @AbsolutelyNOW 5 місяців тому +5

      💯 truth

    • @johnturtle6649
      @johnturtle6649 5 місяців тому +13

      The first wealth is health.

    • @Official_Wise
      @Official_Wise 5 місяців тому +2

      ❤ True!

  • @rorschachguy2055
    @rorschachguy2055 5 місяців тому +24

    *Most people die at 28, we just happen to bury them after 70.*

  • @gailhoffmann9498
    @gailhoffmann9498 4 місяці тому +39

    Many years ago, I walked away from people who caused drama, drained my energy, and tried to coerce me into living their helter-skelter existence. I now have peace and tranquility. 🙂

  • @Asitis369
    @Asitis369 4 місяці тому +34

    "Anything that makes you weak, physically, intellectually, and spiritually, reject as poison" ~ Swami Vivekananda

    • @karkasnatschka5779
      @karkasnatschka5779 Місяць тому +1

      bad advice...keeps you in your own narrow sphere...you need to feel weak to build more strength, you need to feel inferior to have the impulse to rise above your present state, etc...

  • @creativebynaturestudio
    @creativebynaturestudio 5 місяців тому +168

    If your Absence gives me peace. Then I have lost nothing.
    A wise man said

    • @Meghanslappy
      @Meghanslappy 5 місяців тому +4

      Maybe it was said by a wise woman.

    • @CastleHassall
      @CastleHassall 5 місяців тому +4

      they didn't miss you either

    • @ladyfl0wers
      @ladyfl0wers 5 місяців тому +2

      ​@@CastleHassall😂

    • @cjc5478
      @cjc5478 2 місяці тому

      @@CastleHassall what

  • @somethingorotheridunno
    @somethingorotheridunno 5 місяців тому +212

    Things that bring me peace:
    Walking in nature
    Birdwatching
    Gardening
    Painting
    Drawing
    Woodcarving
    Petting a cat or dog

  • @MrKFNeverGiveUp
    @MrKFNeverGiveUp 5 місяців тому +368

    Nature is a natural antidepressant/anti-anxiety.

    • @davido3109
      @davido3109 5 місяців тому +8

      booooooooooommmmmmmmm!!!! Namaste!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @Lousialee-hm3gu
      @Lousialee-hm3gu 5 місяців тому +17

      I definitely need to get out in nature. I miss it so much after growing up in the country.

    • @montanastranger
      @montanastranger 5 місяців тому +5

      Amen to that !!

    • @waynehendrix4806
      @waynehendrix4806 5 місяців тому +5

      Unless you wake up under a bear. I think actually living in nature would stress most people to cardiac arrest. Never too late to adapt however.

    • @jaykayverse8548
      @jaykayverse8548 5 місяців тому +2

      For me it seems to depend, if there are a lot of bugs flying around me then it'll probably have the opposite effect. But I think I understand what you mean

  • @michellescott3496
    @michellescott3496 5 місяців тому +701

    When I had baby number three, my husband and I decided that I would be a stay-at-home mom. It was really hard giving up a second income and we do have to make sacrifices, but it does bring me peace to know that I am here for my kids always. Not stressed out and trying to squish everything in.

    • @primaballerina84
      @primaballerina84 5 місяців тому +36

      Excellent choice! I am working a bit harder-smarter to make it possible for my wife to stay at home, we're waiting our second child right now.
      If she wants to work she can, but I am grateful she chose to focus on our family 🙏🏻❤️

    • @HaiteLibbies
      @HaiteLibbies 5 місяців тому +41

      Children are your wealth ❤

    • @8-bite393
      @8-bite393 5 місяців тому +8

      Same here…

    • @tonyjones5302
      @tonyjones5302 5 місяців тому +14

      ​@@HaiteLibbies I'd have to disagree

    • @douglasstrother6584
      @douglasstrother6584 5 місяців тому +33

      The days are long, but the decades are short. The kiddos will be grown before you know it.

  • @NCrdwlf
    @NCrdwlf 5 місяців тому +231

    My wife and I found leaving all the stuff behind freed us of a lot of worry and stress. We stopped feeding the beast. Sold it all and moved to a small coastal town into a small cottage. We’ve never been happier . Initially we were going to put an addition onto this as it’s 800sq feet. Instead we just got rid of more stuff . Small house small town and time with our animals . It’s all we need .

    • @MajorDrama1
      @MajorDrama1 5 місяців тому +7

      💥💯😎 We took the same path.. Still working on the stuff however! ;-)

    • @mydancinglife730
      @mydancinglife730 5 місяців тому +1

      Pacific Northwest?

    • @kirkroberts3795
      @kirkroberts3795 5 місяців тому +4

      People cannot sit still one minute

    • @NCrdwlf
      @NCrdwlf 5 місяців тому

      @@mydancinglife730 NC

    • @SIERRATREES
      @SIERRATREES 5 місяців тому +3

      Well done. best wishes.

  • @annettestephens5337
    @annettestephens5337 5 місяців тому +194

    I have found that avoiding the news and today’s society’s ‘norms’ is helping me lead a more peaceful life. Walking with my dog in nature is time well spent.

    • @trydowave
      @trydowave 5 місяців тому +2

      Wise words

    • @JesseP.Watson
      @JesseP.Watson 5 місяців тому +4

      I second that. Live in a van, on a mountain, doing what I love, that brings me meaning... and the longer I spend out here, the happier I become and the more delusional the claim that any of the stuff apparently of importance in current affairs appears... we don't have to spend our lives bothering about what's going on halfway round the world or to countless people who just can't work out that this is a beautiful world and a beautiful life worth living... so, these days, I just have no time for it really, there's too many beautiful views to look at, too many birds to appreciate, too many interesting projects to put together, too many new ideas to realise. 🙂 If only more people would realise that, but, they have to learn it themselves. Protect your own peace of mind and think about what's in front if your eyes. ...If a war comes, for example, these days I just don't care unless I see a tank rolling over the moor here, its just more of some other person's foolishness, it'll always be there so why waste time on it, you can't fix it but you can let it be and do something wonderful yourself.

    • @brandonstaples7300
      @brandonstaples7300 4 місяці тому

      Agreed 💯. The news is so geared to instill fear into the hearts of everyone for profit. That makes me sick to the core!!! 😡

    • @frederickmuhlbauer9477
      @frederickmuhlbauer9477 4 місяці тому +3

      I agree and always loved to do that but my dog was killed by a speeding car last Friday I sure miss that guy He was so sweet and loyal

    • @JesseP.Watson
      @JesseP.Watson 4 місяці тому

      @@frederickmuhlbauer9477 I'm sorry for your loss Frederick, he is surely burying bones between the stars. ✨

  • @debraparker1550
    @debraparker1550 3 місяці тому +22

    I'm 65 yrs old and building an off grid cabin. It's never to late to go for your dreams. Just go for it. It's very hard, I never thought it would be easy. I have terrible back pain. I just do what I can at my own pace.

    • @roydavis5613
      @roydavis5613 2 місяці тому +1

      @debraparker1550 This sounds wonderful. I would really like a cabin like this. Know how you feel about back pain, can empathize !

    • @ethereal_333
      @ethereal_333 25 днів тому

      I’m 50 and that’s my dream. But don’t have the money or means to do it. Wish I did! 😢

    • @debraparker1550
      @debraparker1550 25 днів тому

      If you have drivers license consider doing Door Dash Delivery to save toward your dream. It's so easy and fun.

    • @debraparker1550
      @debraparker1550 25 днів тому

      @@ethereal_333 I had taken advantage of all those stimulus money's that came 3 years back and purchases my property 5ac for 12,000.
      Now I Door Dash Deliver to suppliment my retirement. It's so easy and fun way to save toward your dream.

  • @1961kickboxer
    @1961kickboxer 5 місяців тому +56

    I walked away from 2 abusive relationships ,not worth the drama ,best thing I ever did .

  • @gud2go50
    @gud2go50 5 місяців тому +78

    I believe what you have said is true. I was just walking my poor old dog ( she is 14 and has been sick lately ) and thinking to myself at my age of 63, how tired I am of the world around me and at how withdrawn and hateful people are now. I have decided to stay to myself and pro-sue hobbies I enjoy and to worry less about this bitter place. I always make an effort to say hello to people I come across on my walks, but have found that most of them just stare at me and say nothing. Especially the younger folk. I have been turning off the news a lot more, because it started making me feel physically ill to watch anymore. I am now determined to pro-sue that peace you are talking about. I have come to realize that we are all just passing through this place anyway. Especially with the number of people I knew who are now gone. It is up to me to enjoy the time I have left here. Thank you for sharing this with us all and I know what you are saying is true.😊

    • @lindas5964
      @lindas5964 5 місяців тому +13

      Yes I’ve noticed people are very different now (after Covid) and look at me strange when I try to be friendly so I am a hermit now and am happy. I have many interests and a loving husband and 2 little dogs. I am content and peaceful. 😊

  • @harmlesscreationsofthegree1248
    @harmlesscreationsofthegree1248 5 місяців тому +22

    Solitude is bliss. I was very sociable in the earlier part of my life and now nothing brings me more peace than being quietly alone in my own space. I still like people, but I like my own company more.

    • @marifewillis5840
      @marifewillis5840 Місяць тому +4

      Isn't solitude the best? I love, love, love it 😊

  • @FactsCountdown
    @FactsCountdown 5 місяців тому +162

    I wish I could live in accompany of people like you.

    • @ingela7723
      @ingela7723 5 місяців тому +9

      Same here ❤

    • @eg6074
      @eg6074 5 місяців тому +8

      Me too 😌

    • @samscarletta7433
      @samscarletta7433 5 місяців тому +3

      Call it in. 😁

    • @DoctorWonka
      @DoctorWonka 5 місяців тому +21

      Perhaps we can! There have got to be others in our area who feel the same. We need to find ways to connect! Especially NOW.

  • @sombra6153
    @sombra6153 5 місяців тому +104

    Break modern society down into three groups - those who value peace, those who desire security above anything else, and those who like to bother the first two groups.

    • @hangthemhigh
      @hangthemhigh 5 місяців тому

      great post !

    • @PeterTaviawkNews
      @PeterTaviawkNews 5 місяців тому +1

      💯

    • @xeniko1226
      @xeniko1226 5 місяців тому +6

      There’s also people who value truth over everything.

    • @ljones98391
      @ljones98391 5 місяців тому +6

      @@xeniko1226 Truth is very hard to find these days. Liars and marketers abound it seems.

    • @Steph1
      @Steph1 4 місяці тому +2

      The third group is called the government 😅

  • @deenanick3772
    @deenanick3772 5 місяців тому +109

    Ignore the haters, they're not worth your time.

  • @MySplatterInk
    @MySplatterInk 5 місяців тому +3

    Never forget to forgive💙

  • @marcusp905
    @marcusp905 5 місяців тому +81

    Unconditional love of a dog ❤

  • @Kat-ko4hj
    @Kat-ko4hj 3 місяці тому +5

    Move with the flow of life …and absolutely get rid of toxic people…. Thank you..the dogs are lovely .

  • @SIERRATREES
    @SIERRATREES 5 місяців тому +21

    I cant really get to the wilderness, but rather, I seek out pockets of nature and tranquility in my city environment. It still works.

  • @diannehardwick950
    @diannehardwick950 5 місяців тому +84

    It took me until I was over 60 to find peace. I now live by the sea, retired, and have never been happier.

    • @TakeTheRide
      @TakeTheRide 5 місяців тому +8

      I left drama & family behind, moved to the Blue Ridge Mountains Carolinas, from Texas, and live out in the woods by myself. Don't even have curtains on my windows. People think because I'm a female, I should be scared out here; I say why? Retired as well. Nature is my friend; the only complaint I've heard is when I get too close to a mama bird's nest; then I give her the space she needs. Zero drama. I am so happy here. Glad you found your happy spot too.

    • @VivBeyer1111
      @VivBeyer1111 5 місяців тому

      🌴☘🍓🍉🍍👍💛

    • @SIERRATREES
      @SIERRATREES 5 місяців тому +2

      @@TakeTheRide Sounds great. It must be great to be in nature like that. I'm in a city, and try and find the pools of tranquility where I can ( the local park, a cathedral and a botanical garden. ) There are a few nice people here and there.

    • @TakeTheRide
      @TakeTheRide 5 місяців тому +1

      @@SIERRATREES I would strive to get out of the city and own your own piece of land. Choose where you spend your money wisely. What will you do if the electric grid ever goes down and you're not growing your own food? What will you do if you can't get water out of your tap? Please think about that. Become self-sufficient away from City services. Figure it out. For your own safety.

    • @terrypeters8682
      @terrypeters8682 4 місяці тому +2

      I too am 60 and walked away from a company that had created a situation that made it impossible to complete the work load. Peace and freedom are very unusual things for me.

  • @PMK7734
    @PMK7734 5 місяців тому +361

    Dogs always add to the peace regardless of their shenanigans.

    • @Kjertinge
      @Kjertinge 5 місяців тому +39

      Cats too for me :)

    • @Gordan19758
      @Gordan19758 5 місяців тому +33

      Cats are magic creatures, and I am not kidding they really are.

    • @Rylanor_The_Unyielding_31
      @Rylanor_The_Unyielding_31 5 місяців тому +4

      @@Gordan19758 🙄🤮

    • @flawseeingeye
      @flawseeingeye 5 місяців тому +13

      hell naw dogs are always trouble 😂😂😂

    • @Spoonfed78
      @Spoonfed78 5 місяців тому +7

      Too true, most peace ever get is alone in Aussie outback with my too dogs. More connections there than an entire city of people and tech

  • @SummerOf1987
    @SummerOf1987 5 місяців тому +46

    Yes. Today I literally walked away from a toxic place.
    That felt nice.

  • @clairebourassa5943
    @clairebourassa5943 5 місяців тому +40

    I can’t live without nature. I need my daily dose of trees, water, watching the animals. It’s my happy place 😃❤!

    • @mdjones905
      @mdjones905 5 місяців тому +3

      🇺🇸🦜🐶🦉🦅🌵🙏🏻

  • @ibas3543
    @ibas3543 5 місяців тому +137

    Also walk away from Dramaqueens.Women who are never satisfied and happy no matter how much a man provides, who complain all the time about everything, who are easily bored when nothing "interesting or exciting" happens any five minutes.
    Avoid women who consider peace a boring thing.

    • @sxwrtr918
      @sxwrtr918 5 місяців тому +35

      I am female, and I completely agree.

    • @MrRoughknuckles
      @MrRoughknuckles 5 місяців тому +7

      aye.

    • @Summerbreeze537
      @Summerbreeze537 5 місяців тому +9

      My son's girlfriend left him with no car and no place to stay because he was unemployed. His fault for his predicament. My husband died sovI invited him to stay with me. She came with him. Madre de Dios! What a mistake!

    • @luxaeterna3246
      @luxaeterna3246 5 місяців тому +12

      99,999999 % of young women

    • @RunDoe
      @RunDoe 5 місяців тому +8

      It’s funny reading this- what if your man & kids disregard you? Teenagers & a man who refuses to open his eyes=major life dilemma.

  • @sebrura
    @sebrura 5 місяців тому +114

    I moved away from the city and live a calm life by fjords and moutains. Nature is right outside the door. I run a few businesses from here. No one tell me what to do, I am not anyone’s slave. I am in control of my own life.

    • @Starstorm111
      @Starstorm111 3 місяці тому

      Hi, I’m dreaming with something like this, I’m 32 female… would you mind to share what king of business? I struggle to imagine what kind of job I could do if I was living in nature..

    • @sebrura
      @sebrura 3 місяці тому

      @@Starstorm111 Hi there! I run a tourist business plus some other stuff. I live in a small rural village with beautiful nature and surroundings, so it’s popular amongst travelers. I offer accommodation and guided trips. 100 % control over my life and time :-)

  • @LilyBean82
    @LilyBean82 5 місяців тому +103

    Without going into a long story, I made some very drastic changes in my life that have set me on a path of peace. I divorced from a long relationship that was stagnant. I changed my fast food diet and over time have reached the point where I eat mostly whole foods. I started caring about my fitness. My mental health is miles away better than it ever was before because I made those scary, enormous changes. I hope others will do the same if they are feeling stuck and depressed.

    • @Lousialee-hm3gu
      @Lousialee-hm3gu 5 місяців тому +10

      Your comment is yet another in here that is truly inspirational. Well done to you for making the changes you needed.

    • @LilyGazou
      @LilyGazou 5 місяців тому +7

      Sleep hygiene helps too. Keeping the same hours every day.

    • @kathleenhill5838
      @kathleenhill5838 5 місяців тому +4

      Changing the diet to more plant based and cutting out the ultra processed food has made all the difference in my world. I lost 58 lbs. in 11 months. Feeling amazing and wanting to start gardening with retirement coming soon. I see more peace coming in the future as my surroundings change and I keep watching this channel.

    • @Gordan19758
      @Gordan19758 5 місяців тому +1

      Chapeau 👏 maybe some yoga as well and I am speaking with experience. ✌️

    • @LilyBean82
      @LilyBean82 5 місяців тому +3

      @@kathleenhill5838 I keep a small garden in an urban area and it has provided so much great food. Tomatoes, zucchini, yellow squash, peppers, cucumbers, etc.! I hope you are able to do it!

  • @CarolusRexxx
    @CarolusRexxx 5 місяців тому +149

    Thanks from Sweden. We live in troubled times in so many ways. It’s hard to find a peaceful mood and place.

    • @Wuwei72-o5n
      @Wuwei72-o5n 5 місяців тому +11

      Not hard just expensive.

    • @andrews127
      @andrews127 5 місяців тому +11

      Am I right in suggesting that one wouldn't recognise Sweden these days..

    • @Gordan19758
      @Gordan19758 5 місяців тому +5

      Thanks to the EU 🥴

    • @hawkstrike18
      @hawkstrike18 5 місяців тому +2

      Lol ppl pretending they want peace and then proceeding with pushing certain views that cause further conflict...
      And in the video he says excuses are worse than hate. If you can't stop hating and promoting the reasons behind it, what change are y'all talking about?

    • @sonofacheron
      @sonofacheron 5 місяців тому +7

      @@hawkstrike18 what are you babbling about?

  • @skyd.2084
    @skyd.2084 5 місяців тому +42

    Staying away from most people 🙄😖💯

  • @nangray56
    @nangray56 5 місяців тому +22

    Gives me peace just watching you.

  • @cedoman1
    @cedoman1 5 місяців тому +50

    Walk away from ALL of it.. there is only 1% - 5% of us that are old souls and don't fit in with the rest of the manipulated people on this planet .. always well said Bjorn.. thank you

    • @jackromero7324
      @jackromero7324 4 місяці тому +1

      1%-5% ?? That's not very enlightning. My hopes of meeti g someone like me are grim now. 😂😂😂😂😢

  • @HadesInfidel1776
    @HadesInfidel1776 5 місяців тому +105

    🇺🇸🇳🇴THE WORLD NEEDS MORE REAL MEN LIKE YOU! ❤🤍💙

    • @Gordan19758
      @Gordan19758 5 місяців тому +3

      With common sense. I'm born in the 70's and grew up with the values and norms back then but many people of my generation seems to have lost it.

    • @konkylie-3000
      @konkylie-3000 3 місяці тому

      @@Gordan19758 the young today cannot miss what they have not experienced or known. Sad but true.

  • @Manchesteru999
    @Manchesteru999 5 місяців тому +2

    Neurosis comes from our unseen and unfelt selves. Karl Jung. Modern life doesn't allow for this, time in nature and simplifying life seems to be the portal. Great vid bjorn. Kevin from Ireland

  • @christopherlee6417
    @christopherlee6417 5 місяців тому +19

    "People are their own victims" highly accurate piece of wisdom.

  • @justintran3265
    @justintran3265 5 місяців тому +19

    There’s always that one person at work trying to destroy your peace, they’re everywhere.

    • @Ingerid772
      @Ingerid772 5 місяців тому +3

      Rotten eggs are everywhere . Misfits

    • @AaronGallo-vb2rn
      @AaronGallo-vb2rn 4 місяці тому +1

      Amen to that!

    • @sunnymeee
      @sunnymeee 4 місяці тому

      Excuses like this make you miserable forever

  • @alaskabornheathen8902
    @alaskabornheathen8902 5 місяців тому +91

    Quit my job last week for similar reasons. I already do some independent work and live within my means. So I’m not worried about the job. Negative manipulative hypocritical people with double standards. I just had to leave.

    • @DavidAKZ
      @DavidAKZ 5 місяців тому +3

      Wishing you well. Much love.

    • @supp282
      @supp282 5 місяців тому +1

      I wish i could do the same

    • @benjanos
      @benjanos 4 місяці тому +1

      I wish you the best of luck, you will do great. I won’t be far behind….

  • @mohamadkebbewar6827
    @mohamadkebbewar6827 3 місяці тому +3

    I find peace in writing and reading.

  • @StevenDunlap-lq2np
    @StevenDunlap-lq2np 4 місяці тому +11

    How many times I have put just enough in a pack, taken a map and my compass and charted a course through an unknown wood I do not know. My best memories have been out there. The stillness of a morning, the feel of a fire, the smell of food cooking and even the adrenaline rush of being caught in a storm are my happiest memories. It took a long time, I am now 71 years old and a man who finally walked away

  • @nickgettins6606
    @nickgettins6606 5 місяців тому +29

    It's the nurturing of inner peace that is the cure for stress,anxiety and depression.

    • @Lousialee-hm3gu
      @Lousialee-hm3gu 5 місяців тому +4

      Thankyou. I think that's the most succinct definition I've ever heard for how to deal with those issues.

  • @robertgross1655
    @robertgross1655 5 місяців тому +29

    🎩Hi my wife and I got out of the rat race in 1997. Sold our cottage, gave up our jobs and bought a narrowboat. I then trained as a forrester. But in 2011 got laid off, and haven’t worked since. Due to medical problems. It is a better life and would never change it. Though now we are both carers for aged parents. You can’t beat waking up to bird song and seeing nature at its best.

  • @user-qb8qm4mp5n
    @user-qb8qm4mp5n 5 місяців тому +48

    There will always be people who want to disrupt an individual's peace and take away their freedom.

    • @betsybarnicle8016
      @betsybarnicle8016 5 місяців тому

      It's like they get points when they manipulate and annoy others.

    • @Ingerid772
      @Ingerid772 5 місяців тому +4

      They are jeuloise and scared .It challenge their bubble.

  • @DebraHockett
    @DebraHockett 2 місяці тому +3

    I love this video… it speaks to me… Volumes. I am a recent widow who lived off grid, off the mainland USA. I had a year with my husband before he passed. Unfortunately I had to come back to the mainland because of necessity for full oxygen. I miss the life we had, peaceful, quiet & away from chaos…. I am looking for this once more….a simple life…this video inspires me… I learned so much from my husband

  • @theguynextdoor4978
    @theguynextdoor4978 5 місяців тому +43

    Completely agree with you. I've been 40 years on this planet, and I'm too old for energy vampires and unnecessary difficulties. Nature, traveling, my well-being, and a handful of close ones matter the most. Money creates fewer worries, but it's not the key to happiness.

  • @LydieBaillie
    @LydieBaillie 5 місяців тому +11

    That's so essential to surround yourself with people that are peaceful and uplifting. Also go where you are well treated.

  • @ethereal_333
    @ethereal_333 25 днів тому +1

    I have a very toxic person in my life. Close family. It’s literally killing my soul either way. I can’t walk away because I love her so much. 😢

  • @peter-johncase5372
    @peter-johncase5372 5 місяців тому +41

    Peace is essential for maintaining a decent quality of life. As I get older, I have realised the importance of finding peace. Thank you Bjorn for all your channels and the great content and chats.

  • @lulufulu4867
    @lulufulu4867 5 місяців тому +31

    Bjorn I am the same age as you and had similar 1980s upbringing. My “heart attack” came in the form of breast cancer six years ago. This was followed by a very strong call back to nature, which I answered. Only to find that the nature I found myself in was being exploited beyond belief. They tried to push me out when I stood up to them, but they found a brick wall. It would have been easier to walk away, but leaving the river, the trees and the animals in the care of evil people was not an option. This is where I will make a stand, this is where I will succeed or fall.

    • @Ingerid772
      @Ingerid772 5 місяців тому +1

      You will never ever fall !

  • @whouwit6392
    @whouwit6392 5 місяців тому +6

    Life on Earth is short and precious. Dont waste it making someone else rich who you dont even like. I did that for 11 years

  • @quantumac
    @quantumac 5 місяців тому +30

    Retirement brought me a new level of peace. No more crazy projects. No more crazy deadlines. It took a while to get here, but I paid my dues along the way. Now I do what I want, when I want, how I want and take as long as I need to do it. Life has slowed down to something far more realistic and manageable.

    • @betsybarnicle8016
      @betsybarnicle8016 5 місяців тому +3

      Haha, I just retired a few months ago, and now I'm overwhelmed by my own list of home projects.

    • @gregv3181
      @gregv3181 5 місяців тому +3

      6 years until I’m 62 ready to stop working full time and only work partial week. The peace of having a morning to myself and my wife is pure joy. Working for ungrateful, unorganized and chaotic people is a drain. Thankfully taking a two week vacation on the Oregon coast where we will truly separate from the daily grind.
      Real peace is found when my will is aligned with God’s. Serving others who truly need the help and appreciate it is a feeling work will never provide.

    • @betsybarnicle8016
      @betsybarnicle8016 5 місяців тому

      @@gregv3181 Make sure you have extra wagon axles and that your mule doesn't break a leg, or Mary could get typhoid. (Oregon Trail game)

  • @JohnBarnes-jg2uu
    @JohnBarnes-jg2uu 5 місяців тому +7

    You're correct in what you say. The world is geared for us to not be at peace. Over population, false economic pressures, false ideals and programming by the media and internet. The art of living is rapidly being lost. My way back has always been to return to nature. I truly hope you find and hold on to your peace.

  • @linakiriy3301
    @linakiriy3301 5 місяців тому +16

    If someone hurts you, it's better to go away. The video is nice.

  • @InvisibleVisible793
    @InvisibleVisible793 5 місяців тому +47

    I have no kids, no family. The one man I loved for 25 years, died 18 years ago and I have peace and happiness because I choose it every day.

    • @betsybarnicle8016
      @betsybarnicle8016 5 місяців тому +13

      I also have no children or husband, but my extended sibling family keeps trying to drag me into their dramas. I try to explain that I'm happy in my life situation and choices, and they need to address their own life choice consequences.

    • @mydancinglife730
      @mydancinglife730 5 місяців тому +5

      Yes, peace and happiness are a choice...be well

    • @SIERRATREES
      @SIERRATREES 5 місяців тому +4

      So beautifully put. Choosing peace everyday.

  • @petrimurphy6152
    @petrimurphy6152 4 місяці тому +2

    Peace is worth more than gold. Amen.

  • @lofilevelling7830
    @lofilevelling7830 5 місяців тому +15

    There has never been a time where i have acted in anger and not regretted it. I still cant seem to control it.

  • @kathleenralston2192
    @kathleenralston2192 5 місяців тому +2

    If you can't get out into nature, you can often build a place for nature at your home. These tiny spots of wildness will draw wildlife. You may not have deer or bears in your personal "forest," but you will probably have birds, squirrels, frogs, dragonflies etc. In the asphalt and concrete world, the wildlife need these pockets of nature.

  • @OttawaInHD
    @OttawaInHD 5 місяців тому +13

    Peace and freedom is priceless, but they made currency the number 1 most important in life

  • @carol-annlamothe7295
    @carol-annlamothe7295 4 місяці тому +2

    I find peace by living alone with as little contact with people as possible. I had two beautiful cats that I loved tremendously. They both passed away. I'm afraid to get another pet due to my age. I don't want to leave them to, whatever. I'm enjoying your videos. I'm happy you have two lovely big dogs. Stay well. 👌

    • @7Aum
      @7Aum 4 місяці тому +1

      🌞💚🤗🌿

  • @jennil7797
    @jennil7797 5 місяців тому +10

    Happy to see your two beautiful dogs again!
    What stole my peace? City life, feeling forced to engage in the continuous and disrespectful oversight on myself and other highly trained and experienced teachers and feeling we had to continuously socialise with people with whom we had little in common.
    My husband and I escaped 25 years ago, moved back to our rural past and to grow food to sell. Our income went down by two thirds. We hardly noticed.
    All those years of making money in jobs where we received no respect ( except from the amazing kids!), all so that we could afford to live in the place that was causing us so much stress- what a waste!
    What a drain on our mental and physical health it was too. My husband is now 82, today he is scythe mowing our hay field.
    If your life is not satisfactory to you, change it now!No excuses are valid. You only get a few decades, don't waste them.

  • @jeanetteharris2211
    @jeanetteharris2211 3 місяці тому +1

    I found that I was giving giving giving, working to give, not appreciated, nothing in return, no rest. They were basically USING ME TO LITERAL DEATH. And got really mad and BANISHED me when I stopped giving them everything I had . (I'm fine with it) Now I'm focused on restoring my health (I'm 53, never had a vacation) and getting myself moved out to the remote mountains. Which is where my heart is...
    Blessings to you Bjorn, love hearing your thoughts and ideas.

  • @Lousialee-hm3gu
    @Lousialee-hm3gu 5 місяців тому +23

    I love the sounds of small birds singing in the woods and the way it echoes through the trees. the sound of the the wind blowing through the leaves and the rippling of a river. Perfect!

  • @KayPierce-qi9ov
    @KayPierce-qi9ov 5 місяців тому +8

    Treasure your life before you get too old to do what you love to do. I have reached that point, but still hobble out to the back pasture and sit and enjoy the birds and think of the joy I had when riding my horse in the woods or walking my dog. Sunset of life comes up quickly. Also do not let idiots get you into an argument. Peace and quiet and beautiful sunsets.....yes!

  •  5 місяців тому +13

    It is true, Bjorn. Long story short, I'm deprogramming myself over the past 2 years. Way less screen time, way less phones, way more nature. Thank you from Renton, Washington, USA.

  • @fintan9705
    @fintan9705 4 місяці тому +5

    Earlier this year I decided to quit my job as an industrial maintenance technician and begin working the small farm I was privileged to inherit from my parents, it was the best thing I have ever done, no more pressure and stress of the sort I had to deal with on a daily basis, there is stress and pressure but it's different, working with livestock has it's stressful times but it's more fulfilling and rewarding, more real. I often just stand in the middle of my farm and observe nature and my stock and I think of the generations that have worked this land and walked these fields before my time, there's a real feeling of deep connection to my forefathers and it brings a lot of peace and contentment, and now I also have the time to indulge my other passion which is working on the classic cars I've acquired over the years.

  • @sarahhale-pearson533
    @sarahhale-pearson533 5 місяців тому +7

    What a beautiful place. No wonder you are so calm and grounded. We need to choose to seek out these places, both outside and in.

  • @Evil9jim
    @Evil9jim 5 місяців тому +16

    I can't remember where I heard this quote, but I try to live by it and it goes along well with what you're saying: "If it costs you your peace, it's too expensive"

    • @maireadmaguire7509
      @maireadmaguire7509 5 місяців тому +1

      That’s brilliant 🙌🏼

    • @SIERRATREES
      @SIERRATREES 5 місяців тому

      A great maxim to live by. I haven't always. I used trade the peace for a stressful job, but got paid well, which is maybe ok if you can plan an exit. Looking back, I could have improved the situation with more mindfulness and leading a purer life outside work.

  • @ryanreay4167
    @ryanreay4167 5 місяців тому +13

    The truth spoken plainly by my Norwegian Big Brother. I love your setup with your tent, cabin, and tarp. Hearing the wind in the trees is so peaceful. I've had to walk away from many family and friends the past couple of years after a lifetime. Peace is coming, a little at a time. The realization that the direction one has taken in life has been the wrong one is not easy to accept, and making big changes is even more difficult. Thank you for bringing me peace in times of trouble, Bjorn.

  • @markgeorge9063
    @markgeorge9063 5 місяців тому +3

    Yes Bjorn, I agree.
    From the time I was 18 until 24, I lived on top of a mountain. In Alpine forest. Authorities made bets on my survival. I had a primitive dwelling, off grid.
    I found a relationship with the Gods !
    And the meanings of life !

  • @TakeTheRide
    @TakeTheRide 5 місяців тому +22

    I, a woman, bought a couple of acres in the Blue Ridge Mtns & moved halfway across the U.S. by myself. Zero drama. Animals & nature give me peace of mind 24/7. I love living in the woods alone. Writing, music & photography are my passion. Come visit Bjorn. ~ Just a cello player.

  • @LibertyDino
    @LibertyDino 5 місяців тому +45

    "The opposite of love is indifference"
    I am less than two months away from moving out of the city.
    I've lived through horrors that gave me heavy ptsd but just focusing on moving towards healing and nature and peace is my main drive rn.
    Whoever reads this, with clear goals and figuring out yourself you can take a lot.
    Use that potential strength to get yourself to move towards a better place.

    • @ianstuart5660
      @ianstuart5660 5 місяців тому +3

      Indeed, thank you. Best wishes on your move!

    • @LilyGazou
      @LilyGazou 5 місяців тому +4

      Thank you. I needed that encouragement right now.

    • @libertybell7145
      @libertybell7145 4 місяці тому +1

      I'm moving in a month.
      I'm going alone

    • @ianstuart5660
      @ianstuart5660 4 місяці тому

      @@libertybell7145
      Very best wishes!

    • @Jewelmind
      @Jewelmind 3 місяці тому

      Yes, everyone deserves the best

  • @jocey33
    @jocey33 Місяць тому +2

    Thank you Bjorn, I love spending my mornings listening to your down to earth wisdom. Cheers my friend!

  • @terrijones1167
    @terrijones1167 5 місяців тому +28

    Just had my peace rattled. Every cell in my body discombobulated....thanks for posting this...I was trying to calm down and the notification popped up❤

    • @NotLawBDO
      @NotLawBDO 5 місяців тому +5

      My peace has been rattled for a few days now and im trying to find it again.

    • @Lousialee-hm3gu
      @Lousialee-hm3gu 5 місяців тому +3

      @@NotLawBDO You will. There are some excellent relaxation videos online that are free. Many are the sounds of nature with no music which I often prefer. Take a look and you might find something to help.

    • @NotLawBDO
      @NotLawBDO 5 місяців тому +1

      @@Lousialee-hm3gu I’ve been binge watching a lot of psychological and seinen anime which is therapeutic in it’s own way but I like nature sounds too, thx a lot :)

  • @NewEarthHealingwithJennifer
    @NewEarthHealingwithJennifer 5 місяців тому +3

    Hello Bjorn and all here.
    Peace chosen, and choose again in each now moment. Thank you very much for your wonderful presence here.

  • @doubtingthomas73
    @doubtingthomas73 5 місяців тому +1

    Great Video Bjorn! Like you, I feel most at home in the woods. Life tends to keep me away from it, though. I shudder to think of life without freedom & nature. "The wisdoms in the trees, not the glass windows." Have a Blessed Day All!

  • @AdianGess
    @AdianGess 5 місяців тому +90

    Thanks Bjorn, I'm still plodding on, moving to a new village soon. Keep trying moving forward.

  • @justinhubbs5716
    @justinhubbs5716 5 місяців тому +1

    I thought it was just me......the other evening I went up to my favorite place......I sand with the birds talked to a family of moose , respectfully and watched all the snow come flowing through the trees and streams as water yes water snow melts people

  • @masterpeace4598
    @masterpeace4598 5 місяців тому +5

    The peace and enlightenment you find on top of the mountain, is the peace and enlightenment you brought with you

  • @neveragain1111
    @neveragain1111 20 днів тому +1

    Life is beautiful the less you choose to have. The family (greyhounds/whippets) are beautiful, best dogs in my opinion ❤

  • @livinnfl
    @livinnfl 5 місяців тому +27

    As I sit here listening to you, I find that you are echoing my feelings. Nature is the salve for our troubled souls. My camp is in the hot, humid woods of N Central Florida. The air is thick with songs of nature.
    Thank you, Bjorn for sharing.

  • @WolfsongSA
    @WolfsongSA 5 місяців тому +19

    Congratulations on the publishing of your novel

  • @BAm-vp2pn
    @BAm-vp2pn Місяць тому

    "If someone steels peace, walk away"! That's what I needed to be told just now! It opens my eyes in regards of people around me extruding negative energy. Thank you for your wise words!

  • @12xcsg
    @12xcsg 5 місяців тому +3

    hey brings me to tears even just thinking about sitting there with you in that camp in complete silence and peace for hours, thx for the video

  • @gail-elizabethengland7853
    @gail-elizabethengland7853 4 місяці тому +1

    It's refreshing to hear a wise man share what he's learned in his lifetime. Thank you!

  • @wensomme2024
    @wensomme2024 5 місяців тому +3

    It's so nice after a long, long hard working day, to come here, to sit peacefully and listen to you and your wisdom and reminders of so many truths regarding our lives. It's easy for us in our world to forget many of these fundamental roots to our being.
    Wonderful video, as with your others, thank you.
    We still have and hold the power of choice and healing don't we.

  • @naomimay82
    @naomimay82 5 місяців тому +1

    Yes, finding peace is so very important for health and well-being! I have been doing what I need to find peace and health, and it has been a great journey. I spend more time outside in the sun and with my bare feet on the earth. I grow plants and a garden. I read lots of books and spend time reading my Bible. I focus on healthy food and wear only linen or organic cotton. I feel more relaxed and at peace than ever.

  • @susiestogsdill5075
    @susiestogsdill5075 5 місяців тому +11

    Bjorn you are so right! I've been stepped on so many times that I finally figured this out. I refuse to invest in any more people who do not invest in me back, or who don't appreciate me. Too old for that s***🤣

  • @ronels1216
    @ronels1216 5 місяців тому +1

    Agree wholeheartedly. I moved away from the city in 2021 after spending my whole adult life there. Moved to a seaside town and have never been happier. I also went freelance on a whim after working for bosses for nearly 20 years. I also walked away from a lifelong friendship for my own peace as well as from a family member. Self care is paramount.

  • @magdalenaholt2967
    @magdalenaholt2967 5 місяців тому +21

    How noble your dogs are!!
    Thirteen and a half minutes of wisdom. Thank you.

  • @lynnelliot7256
    @lynnelliot7256 5 місяців тому +1

    I know what you mean about inner peace. I drive an hour away to the place by the beach where i used to live, i walk on the beach and let all my troubles go out to sea. I would still be living there if the govt didnt allow rents to escalate so i could no longer afford to stay since i got on the pension. I had to move back to the city and sharr a place with young ones, which is nice but noisy, messy and not at all what i hoped for in retirement. I look forward to your videos, thanks🌻☺️🥴

  • @donaldgardner1216
    @donaldgardner1216 5 місяців тому +4

    You are so right I live with my dog and will stay happy in my own littel world.

  • @robertkirk4387
    @robertkirk4387 4 місяці тому +1

    I hear what you are saying Bjorn, I have made changes, Unwittingly, so not through poverty but having to be more frugal with what I do have.
    The fact is It is having less that has brought me more peace, I have No car or credit cards I have no bank account and no phone.
    I already live in the countryside and am surrounded by fields in which to walk my dog, watch the birds and breath the clean air.
    The less I seem to have the better I feel, though I do have a weakness for nice walking boots.
    Thanks for your time mate, keep up the lovely channel.

  • @krisk.8257
    @krisk.8257 5 місяців тому +4

    Thank you for this. This was very powerful for me to hear. I find myself feeling stuck. In a rut. I need to find courage. I know it’s not out there. It’s within. ✌🏻

  • @artistsmeetfilm6491
    @artistsmeetfilm6491 5 місяців тому +1

    Nature will always be my only home, I find the rest too restricted on so many levels. Sadly places arent as safe, as a kid I wandered all over but sadly kids today wont know that freedom. We fail to want to protect things like we used to. I will never understand why. I remember telling my friends the day computers entered the classroom that there would be no escape from the chains coming from the reach of new technology and I was labeled crazy for a long time, but here we are running for the hills...

  • @andrew-ij1or
    @andrew-ij1or 5 місяців тому +8

    Your right, tough choices to make, when you feel trapped in a situation your make yourself angry and can cause stuff to happen to you.

  • @ObservantPiratePlus
    @ObservantPiratePlus 5 місяців тому +16

    Bjorn, the trolls and haters are just unhappy and taking it out on someone who has taken the steps to find their peace. They are taking the easy way out, the lazy way, doing what they're told. You are a beacon of Freedom, Bjorn. Never change that.

  • @richardruggiero9897
    @richardruggiero9897 5 місяців тому +2

    During the plandemic New York state went insane, it wasn't easy but I had to leave. I loaded up my van and traveled the country looking for a sailboat I could live on. After looking at a few I fell in love with a 47' Wauquiez. I put into port after encountering 100+ knot winds in the Gulf Stream, there I met someone who had a project which needed help and next thing you know I'm running the demolition on a billion dollar hotel project in Florida while living on my self-sufficient boat.
    Now I have a whole new life and walking away from NY was the best thing I ever did.
    You can do this too, don't be afraid to start anew.

  • @Ranchpup33
    @Ranchpup33 5 місяців тому +30

    Bjorn, I value your opinion and insight. Please don't let the negativity in the comments section affect your positive message. Stay strong. Much respect from Idaho, USA.

    • @barbburns2122
      @barbburns2122 5 місяців тому +6

      Agree.
      Pity the folks who are so negative.
      The ' box ' is what drags them down.
      Plant some flowers, bushes, trees or just PLAY ! Might help ' change your negative attitude '.
      Plant trees for future generations.