Issues with Mom (or other female) - Tapping with Brad Yates
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- Опубліковано 20 вер 2024
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Day 1 of Mum forgiveness week 💜 I added the phrase “I don’t have to heal mum’s heart to heal mine” ❤️
Thank you for this 💞
@@skyejacques thank YOU for passing on your appreciation! It was a huge piece of magic for me today 🥰
Wow THANK YOU !!
That's perfect. So spot on. Thank you for sharing this!
@@PaulMolloy thank you for your divinely-timed comment to bring me back to this one of mine as a message to my heart now 🥰
Going back to my childhood and tapping as that little girl who felt bullied, unloved, unwanted...who even questioned if my mom was really my mom...I'm holding her and letting her know...I see you & feel you ❤ thank you online uncle dad ❤😂🎉
Yes. Mom moms issues are not mine, I can surpass her goals, its okay for me to go beyond her limitations, it my birthright to be prosperous and loved.
My mom has been gone for 4 years now….I always had some serious issues with her…since I was very small…I really convinced myself I had forgiven her…till I tapped through this with your help…the flood gates opened..my goodness, this is extremely powerful..we don't even comprehend what is in the unconscious mind…and it is running the show..anyways..again I thank you for all your efforts to help!
I was indoctrinated since birth to a religion that was never my own (Jehovah's witness) and for 23 years I served my mother. Breaking the link caused me so much turmoil, I would constantly be berated for everything that went wrong in my life to the point I actually started to believe I deserved this punishment for the rest of my life...it led me to 15 years of smoking as a coping mechanism. The news of a friend passing this year made me snap, and I stared to look for real therapy to get past this. I found this channel 3 days ago and I am in amazement of how good I feel, yet ...there was still the anger gnawing at me...and it was from my mother's abandonment of me....I tried a tapping for releasing anger and that was great and the next suggested video was this one. This session was EXACTLY what I needed, I'll be doing this every day now, I cannot believe I was drawn to this, I am so grateful that you exist and also that there are others that have overcome this pain and embraced a new life, thank you so much for this, I cannot thank you enough for your work. I wish you the absolute best wish and blessing for you and all connected to you, thank you again.
Wow. I have very similar reasons for doing this tapping session. I was raised JW since birth as well and have a lot of resentment towards my mom because I have spent so much time unlearning and reparenting myself.
Today, it felt natural to say ‘these issues that Mum passed down, Mum’s pain , fear, judgement she passed down’ etc...A loving way to remove the judgement....hmm to remove the shame!!! I don’t have issues with WHO Mum is, but with what she innocently DID. Shame vs guilt! 👍🥰
“Go figure” - mother wound is the deepest and the most prevalent wound there is. It just varies in degree for different people.
I also found that comment slightly odd to hear. Parent issues are very very common
@@emichael06 perhaps a misunderstanding/miscommunication, as for the most part I find Brad’s work amazing, and very grateful to him for a free content ♥️
@@emichael06 sarcasm lol
Definitely was being sarcastic ❤❤
Ok, so this may be a little too honest for some folks, but I got waaay more energy movement by substituting a not so nice “name/term” for the word “mom.” I tried being polite and using the more distant form of “my mother“ on the first go around, but not a lot shifted.
Problem was, I hadn’t accepted how I REALLY feel about her right now after the recent revelation of yet one more very evil thing that she did to me, something that cost me a great deal on multiple levels. Changing the name phrase to suit her behavior appropriately helped a lot more. I even felt a relaxation response by the end!
So if you, like me, had a sociopathic mother (diagnosed by professionals, not “just” me), try calling things by their right names and see if stuff shifts faster. Don’t worry - the Polite Police are NOT listening all the time, no matter what “she” might have told you!!
Always feel free to change the wording to anything that feels more appropriate... or more "inappropriate" but more effective, as the case may be. ;)
“Because I have the power to set myself free.” ....wow....what a day 🥰💜😂
Thank you for this, I'm glad you had a separate one for both parents. I realized when we're young parents can seem larger than life and a lot of their thoughts and feelings and energies I have felt were trapped in me so far down I didn't know where my own thoughts begin. This helps to get rid of beliefs that I never had and just thought I had; they were only handed down, generation to generation. I feel I'm breaking the cycle and becoming my own person, little by little with each eft session:)
"Go figure".Just a hint: Do a research on Narcissist Mothers.😊
Brad: the only man who made me cry for the right reasons. Thank you
You are a gift to this world..for those who are seeking help, you are a Saviour 🧡❤️ thank you from India
Thank you so, so much for this video. I use your videos daily multiple times a day. I have a lot of issues with my mother....well I did (and maybe still have some work to do) but this video helped soooo much! I feel prepared to be around her and know that no matter what she says or how she says it, I have enough self love and forgiveness to be okay. I think a series of "mom / parent" videos would be great!
I'm speechless. All I want to say is...
Thank you so much, Dr. Yates...you are doing so much for us ... bringing positive change in this life journey. GOD BLESS YOU, Sir.
Turns out it ain't that rare Brad. Probably rarer to find people who aren't messed up by their mother/father. Sad.
hey Brad, your loa video helped me clear resistance to writing good grades, I jist tapped on my sibling issues with this one then went on a walk, and man I haven't felt this good since I was a little kid, your videos are helping me so much, thanks 1 million! The longer I follow along with your course, the better I feel, the more good I create:)
😊
wow, i knew this was going to be a doozy, (i've been postponing this one out of fear of what it would bring up....) but i yawned twice before even moving on from the karate chip point, and yawned lots during!! i've had all kinds of physical releases when tapping, yawning, crying, nausea, gas..not a a lot usually.....but with THIS, the second time through this i was actually laughing hysterically through most of it. yowser! and the third time i was coughing congestion out of my lungs and laughing. the 4th time just yawning with a bit of coughing. the 5th time...no physical anything. crazy how wonderfully Tapping clears stuff!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH BRAD!!!!!
Did you do all the tapping sessions in a row ?
Yeah gas happens for me too. Burping too, and crying but afterwards not during.
I can't believe this. It's like you are me. I'm also getting lots of yawning, occasional coughing, some burping and gas, muscle spasms, and the rare bout of crying as physical releases.
Started tapping about 2 weeks ago and at first I thought these physical releases were all in my head and that it had to be a coincidence. But man... seeing your comment perfectly describe everything I'm feeling has reassured me I'm on the right track.
Sending you lots of blessings. It brought up a lot of stuff for me too.
Hope you were able to overcome your mom related issues my friend.
@@KvngWolls oh. my. goodness. your comment here could not have come at a better time!!!!! SERIOUSLY!!!!
***first, i must say...yeah, even after a good few years of EFT/tapping, when I see/feel "off-gassing" i'm still amazed about how that works. stuck trauma energy is being released! yay!!! (sometimes i've experience it feeling like it being sucked up out through my inner chest and out the skin, ..powerfully so....which freaked me out at first, so if that "exorcism-like" release happens...just know it's not uncommon either.
@@bettneyskye Oh Gosh. Thank you so much for your reply. There’s so much info here.
I’ve got a whole bunch of questions and will be back with a more detailed response.
This helped me so much. I love that you have a video for everything!
I have issues with my Aunt , she's too judgmental towards my life choices , and that jeopardized our relationship , I feel resistance when Im around her , something about her is blocking my way to happiness , This EFT came right in time , I hope it helps me releasing that problem that Im carrying for years once and for all
I had a highly abusive step mother and there are times I just feel so angry and hurt. Although I have worked on it in the past, recently some old stuff comes up. This helps a lot. Thank you Brad!
wow, this is exactly what i needed at this time. and what i was working on recently my mum issues
This eft session feels like a warm cup of tea in winter time. Thank you!
Jeez Brad why didn't I find this sooner??
Thank you from the bottom of my heart. This one took me by surprise. I felt a big realease with this one. I realise that I have had some feelings that I had taken on from my Mom that I hadn't faced. Incredible how this works.
My sister-in-law has been overtly dominating and controlling since day 1. I have spent 8 years just feeling short of her approval. Its strange how much she reminds me of my own mother who is exactly the same. Deep breaths and tapping helped me feel my own presence today. I wanna thank the man behind this video and support his channel.
Wow I was having a sad day today and I tried that tapping involving our mother. I cought at the beginning, but close to the end, when you said Brad "I don't need mom's permission", I became all hilarious up to the end of the routine...
It's like my inner child had found it so funny, that we overlook mom's permission!
Thank you so much Brad for your generosity in sharing your gift! I have had lots of problems with my left hip and since I’ve been doing this tapping it has relieved a lot of the discomfort! I had heard that when you get one hip replaced the other goes shortly after or your knee goes it’s just a domino effect! And that a lot of times it’s coming from another source. I had heard that it might be attached to my mother “stuff” so I looked for videos to help me. I stumbled across your series. This has been truly a gift and I cannot thank you enough for what you do! You are an earth angel!😇🙏🏼💐👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Thank you so much for this. When I heard you say “go figure” I was sort of shocked because you are so blessed not to have had a mother that tried to destroy you. Mine is still trying at 91 and has made gains with family members who believe her 😢 But this is not new for me, she’s done it to all of my siblings too, for as long as we can remember. Having malignant narcissist parents is painful to say the least, but once you accept that painful reality, then life opens up to possibilities of greater fun, love and peace.
Thank you for all of the help and kindness that you work hard to generate ❤
Well this is definitely gonna be a "lather, rinse, repeat". **saving to playlist**
God bless you, Brad ❤
Only I have the power to forgive and set myself free from these beliefs and emotions that Mum passed down. I can be free, even if she is not 💕
wow. This opened a door that I didn't know was even there. The phrase, I forgive myself first. I have the power to free myself." unlocked this deeper strength. It's incredible how powerful we are. Not forgiving myself for having mom issues was shown to me on the first go of this tapping.
Thankyou ❤ I come back to this over and over again ❤
This kind man really have a video for any of my traumas God bless you
This is a amazing video. I was doing this EFT and as i was doing the EFT i started crying.
Thank you ! Right on the spot
Thank you Brad!
Tapping feels amazing. Thank you Brad.
Thank you ... This has been so powerful and emotional. I am so grateful for your EFT videos. ♥️
I'm grateful that you are tapping along with them. :)
Thank you so much!
Thank you so much for making this! Tour videos are truly amazing and life changing.
This was so perfect and right on time! So appreciate you, Brad! Thank you so much. ❤
Thank you Brad
Wow, such a coincidence, I have been having mum issues the last two days and then up pops this video!! Thank you Brad 😊 💓
This is my third session. I really desire to clear this, so I figure several sessions over the next week. We'll see how it goes. :) Thank you, Brad.
Hey Brad, thanks so much man. It’s things we don’t always think about you know? I’ve recently had dreams of both my mom and dad and sometimes we don’t realize that we are holding onto more stuff than we know. Time to clear and release!
Thank you
I've been waiting for THIS!!
Amazing Brad!!! Thank you so much. One round of this shifted things so much. I intend to do it for 30 days (just a number that feels right!).... and see what else shifts 😉🙂🙏🏽
I didnt know you have this video Brad..thank you
cool, helps a lot.
Thank you so much 🥺😥❤
loved it! I pretty much tap the same way will def include 2 or 3 of your sentences regarding allowing that I thought were very good. thank you!
Loving these morning sessions with you Brad, thank you!
You are awesome . You just POP for me like an amazing angle . Love you Brad Yates 🙏🙏🙏
Oh man, thank you so much again.
Caught me by surprise that from the first sentence I cried. Felt scary and good.
Gonna do it again.
Thank you for posting all this helpful eft content
thank you so much!
Thank you so much for this!
Thank you, I appraciate you
You're amazing!
Now to watch the video
Beautiful approach to this sensitive theme. Thank You so much, dear Brad :)
I do love and forgive her, feeling the emotions, acknowledging them and releasing them. Thank you ♥️
Sometimes it's not so easy to let go!
i felt something a little during and with that deep breathe i felt something cant explain it but i wanted to continue to take them
thank you Brad! ❤
This really helped me; thanks Brad!
This is great, thank you. It was a book on abusive mothers that recommended EFT to me ☺️❤️
Back...again. 😜 Thanks, Brad!
Thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you !
Thank you for this tapping session. Definitely felt some DEEP emotions move through. I am extremely grateful for this one Brad!
On another note, do you have one to heal the collective female friendships/sisterhood? I feel like it is time :) TY!!!
I don't know what I have along those lines - but maybe do this one but change some of the words?
What is mean be free without Mother Love?
Another great one for my toolbox
That helped A LOT. Thank you ❤️
thank you ❤
I was raised by two parents with Narcissistic Personality Disorder who leaned towards the sociopathic end of the spectrum, meaning they actually enjoyed causing me pain or distress.
Throughout my life, they have routinely made decisions that put my health, well being, marriage, and even my life at risk.
I am finding that all the COVID-19 ugliness over people who’d rather throw a tantrum than wear a mask and social distance is dredging up this old anger for me.
I really really hate having selfish people making choices about my health and well being that might cause me suffering, loss of those I love, or death!
I had a run in with one of these people just the other day. Although I stood my ground peacefully and didn’t deck the woman as I felt like, I was red hot angry!
Annnnd not long afterwards it kicked off a PTSD reaction and a shaking meltdown. Then a mystery pain appeared in my shoulder blade - which is why I wound up tapping at 4:45am on how furious I feel about these feelings of being risked. After a few nights of this pain waking me up, I thought maybe I could tap it away, even if I need a nap later!
Maybe Brad could do a video on anger at being risked to help others with this same old anger surfacing?
I'll add it to the list. In the meantime, I hope some of these may help: ua-cam.com/users/results?search_query=brad+yates+jerks
Thank you so much
So many revelations came up , Why life is so
omg brad.... it helped alot ... thank you
You did helped a lot, thank you 🙏🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕💕
I needed this
Remember folks, you owe your parents nothing. You have no obligation to them.
Thanks Brad 👍😊
The circle of hatred won't be broken unless you choose not to avoid the root of the issues so you can truly let them go. Lot's of "I's" going on here, I'm not sure how healthy is that.
+Eleazar Meza Thank you. My take on it is this: what could be healthier than starting where we really can make change - within ourselves?
Brad Yates Yes indeed.
Thank you
Brad do you for another video with issues with women for men? And low self esteem? Like your not worthy of dating etc? Thanks.
I hope these will help: ua-cam.com/play/PLiRGbxLS41RaeExE_tqvsa4kHl2MLAXjI.html
Can it be said in past tense? cos I don't feel this way anymore, but both parents were narcissists and siblings mobbed.
Is it okay to say the words silently? Sometimes I feel nothing......sometimes only a little. Does that mean I need to do more rounds? I only did one. The nice thing about having is you can do it anywhere. Thanks Brad
💯👏🏻💓 thanks, so useful!
Spot on as always 💙
Thank you very much for this Brad! One question: I have this deep belief that my mom loves my cousin more than me which comes from my childhood (although she denies it when asked). And it makes me feel terrible because I'm an only child and I feel like she should love me the most. Should I work on accepting that she loves my cousin more or should I work on making myself believe that she loves me the most?
Because we can never fully know what another person is thinking or feeling, I would encourage you to keep allowing yourself more peace regardless of what your mom may be thinking or feeling. ua-cam.com/users/results?search_query=brad+yates+loveable
@@tapwithbrad Thank you so much for answering Brad!! I will do it and keep working on with your videos. Your videos have helped me enormously and I trust and admire you so much. Thank you!
I love your videos Brad. Your statement "go figure" just shows you are a man and not a woman. :-) I think even though men can have issues with mothers, it is more likely us, women, who suffer with overcritical mothers and painful relationships. But I am sure you have met many women in your practice who had "issues" with their mothers, often even when the mother is no longer alive. Very sad but the mother - daughter relationship can be very challenging, definitely for the older generations or let's say the middle aged and older. Myself included. :-) I wish all those women out there to break that cycle of unhealthy mother - daughter relationship. It takes just one of you in each family and the next generation can feel so much better. Lots of love to you all.
literally so many of my struggles stem from my mom abandoning me .
Thanks Brad, I really need this video. Yah there are mums from hell. My narcisstic mother will have black magic done on me for not obeying her. Thanks fo reminding me that I choose the put the blame on her , now is for me to take full responsibility for my own happiness
Thanks
Thank you :)
Braddddd I forgot to complete this comment! I forgot what I meant to write this day but I’m sure it was something along the lines of, “Thanks very much again as always, Brad, for sharing so generously a great video that provides healing at times of trouble for us out there. You keep being your amazing self!” :)
Take care Brad!
It was really really heavy and strong. I cried so many times and yawning 🥱 and burping and it brought up so many things
I felt so exhausted. I need to do it again maybe so many times who knows
Anyway thank you so much 😊
About how long does the tapping take? I have mom, dad and inner child issues. Should I work on them one at a time? And for how long?
it is not a very rare issue.
Geez. Reading my damn mind.
Been fighting with mom due to personal issues. Nothing bad. We just haven't been getting along lately is all. Hope this helps. :( Can you do one of not getting along? Thanks.
I have a whole playlist called Getting Along with Others: ua-cam.com/play/PLiRGbxLS41RZBvhLlVnqPr1HIX3LYFSbR.html
Got a question. Do you have one for giving your self permission to cry? Let it all out etc? Sorry for asking. People been treating me like a burden lately and making me sound like I'm not allowed to have any feelings etc. I apologize.
I hope you find this one helpful: ua-cam.com/video/-w-dmboLYws/v-deo.html
And maybe this one... ua-cam.com/video/C8H5HLGniqQ/v-deo.html