music taste is like attraction lol
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super mario galaxy my beloved
i'd use the new 1989 cover but the jury is out on if I'll like that the same way B)
i'm not dissing demisexuals i promise that i genuinely relate and its just a very good word to describe this lol
#owiebrainhurts
it feels like WORK to get into something new even if it’s something you know you would like if you just listened/watched. it’s so much more satisfying to just listen to something you already know the words and rhythm to ! one of the only things that can get me to start listening to a new artist is it being recommended by a crush 😭
My sweet spot in the middle is going through the discography of artists I like. Maybe you only usually listen to Bohemian Rhapsody, but you put on the whole album. Maybe you put on their next album after that and if it vibes, it vibes. For me, it saves brain bandwidth of having to queue up songs I know I like (why don't I make a playlist? we're being lazy, not efficient is why)
Same
But instead of crush, it's random people in the comments who listens to the same songs that I have 😂
Or UA-camrs who use some cool background music
Like watching Nathan Zed has recommended me some cool music.
I probably wouldn't have started listening to Radiohead's Kid A album if I didn't watch his videos
@@remyhavoc4463CRINGE RADIOHEAD ENJOYER (affectionate) (me)
Ugh same
@@remyhavoc4463I HATE KID A, cant imagine anyone actually sitting down and listening to that slop
FINALLY someone described it!! im autistic and i mostly had this as an issue when i was in school; what i mean is that the only thing that saved me from not knowing how to spell as a little baby kid was probably getting a special interest in etymology out of nowhere because otherwise i just wouldn't care for reading and writing whatsoever lmao
Thanks for sharing. This was my experience for most subjects at school
Ar ar ar autistic 😂🫵😂😂😭🔫
your animation and narration spark so much joy
The pixelated lines and minimal color palette remind me of flipnote hatena and miiverse art-styles, it's a really lovely animation style :) V nostalgic
@@user-ob6gc3io6i imo the drawing style / color palette makes it feel like living needlepoint :D
Is tiring for everyone to try new things, but I always listen, first because I'm a musician, and second, when someone shares with you something they enjoy and are passionate about, and have the trust to share it with you, that's just something so meaningful.
I really feel this, i kind of feel disrespected when someone im close enough w to recommend something i like just blatantly does not give a shit. Like yes obviously it takes effort, thats why them listening would mean smth?
This
FACT. Like really THINK ABOUT what it means when someone desires to share something they love with you.
I don't think there's words in the English language that can describe how simple, yet beautiful. Impactful, and loving it is when people think about you while they enjoy something they love.
That is a gesture I WANT to respect. I want to give that thing they love my attention, be vulnerable to it, because if I do like it than me and that person will have a deeper bond. I'll grow as a result, gain perspective, practice learning to love instead of resisting. If I don't like it? Well i can appreciate that the other person thought of me. I can appreciate that they love it so much.
This perspective single handedly cured all issues I had with getting into new media. As I practiced being willingly vulnerable to new things, the unknown became just as exciting as the familiar. I realized the only thing that ever stopped me from giving attention to what was new, was the narrative I thought to myself. It was the justifications I gave to those thoughts that I thought where an unchangeable part of my identity.
I let those justifications, and narratives go.
i can relate to both of those statements
Im in a weird spot where i obsessively seeked out new music 24/7 for like 3 years straight but now it's gotten to the point where my music catalogue is so big that I don't want to listen to anything new anymore lol
I have the EXACT same problem lol. When someone recommends something to me I just can't be bothered to experience it on my own. The only thing that helps are believe it or not: spoilers. If my friends want me to get me to watch an anime or something they better link me the coolest scenes from said show. I get to see the cool bits, then I get invested, which gives me enough energy to go watch it on my own.
Same here.
I had accidentally got myself to watch a 20 min long anime recap of "welcome to Demon school Iruma kun" and liked the premise and characters enough to watch up 2 season two, and I have the first couple volumes that got localized recently lol
This is why I'm not huge on "anti spoiler" culture. If I don't care about something it's usually hearing about how dope it gets or some cool moment that turns me on. When people rec me something then refuse to tell me about it because they don't want to "spoil" it then that means I'm probably just NEVER going to watch it because you didn't hook me.
this is SO relatable on so many levels. i dont know if its an autism thing like you mentioned but it will take me insane amounts of reccomendation to even just watch/listen to any kind of media. but if i ever do, i will immediatly get obsessed and make my whole personality around it lol.
you are so underrated btw!! im so glad i stumbled across your channel youre amazing!!! keep it up!!!
LOL this is me, I find something I like (which is hard) and I get HOOOKED on it. I used to really like this series called Wings Of Fire back in 2022, I heard some songs on the radio that I loved to death at the time, looked them up, and "oh, its Harry Styles". That's been my only interest since February...
Can relate, everyone told me how good Silent Hill 2 was and i thought pfft how good can it be, played it, obsessed with it and the soundtrack. Same with NiEr: Automata. LOOVE it and i thought it was just overrated before i played it. Also loved the soundtrack in NiEr, especially the desert music. Aaand kinda same with children actually. I’m 31 and until a couple of years ago i never wanted to have kids, and now i have a newborn and i LOVE it, i’m obsessed with how fun and cute it is to have a mini me. And for some reason with everything ”new” i like (since most of it is like stuff that people have liked for yeaaars) i want to recommend it to everyone but they are like ”yeah? I know, it’s great” haha.
Wow i talk a lot.
I don't think it's autism, generally people don't like listening to new music
@@stefanoartuso001No we mean, to a level that seems abnormal compared to everyone else. To a higher degree. It's not just, oh I don't wanna listen to new music. It's , I will never in my life play that album I know I will enjoy unless you force it upon my ears - and it's NOT a hyperbole. While I don't deny it could be something other than the tism, it's probably not normal
@@stefanoartuso001look at the first two replies in this comment and tell me they are written by neurotypical people (and i mean that in the most positive way those ppl are amazing)
I am EXACTLY like this about most media, to the point that my friend figured out that if they wanted me to consume something, they could somehow associate the characters I am most autistic about with it and there was a 90% chance I would get into it. Even now, LONG after I have been made aware of this, even when I know exactly what they’re doing every single time it happens, it still works Every. Time. Without. Fail. Tailored recommendations and an essay on every reason I would love this thing? Nope. Literally just say “hey wouldn’t it be cool if this character was in it. Here’s how I think that’d go”? I am alllllllll over it. Every time. It’s both annoying and beautiful. I feel like a pavlov dog
I 100% relate when someone says "you will seriously love this it is exactly the kind of thing you like!"
my brain just goes:
Nooooooo I don't want to I want to listen to lemon demon for the 1000th time nooooooooooo
It kind of feels like a chore in a way
Yess oh my god, It’s so frustrating because I know I probably will like it but it really does feel like a chore
for me it helps if they put it on in the background in a discord vc or something :)
Learn how to challenge your own thinking. The narratives you tell yourself about yourself are half the resistance you will face. Notice what you thought as you read this, do you have to be static? Did you see what your brain just did? Change is possible, you just gatta catch yourself. People aren't static. At least, as far as being vulnerable to the unknown, I'm sure you can learn to do it even if it takes more work than a nuerotypical.
I have adhd and autism, I was able to do it. I now feel just as excited to experience what I never have, as I am to experience what is familiar for the 10,000 time.
That said, listen to king gizzard shanghia (live in chicago)
why is it relatable to me even though i dont think i have autism or adhd
I come from a unique situation where my entire family (both parents and both siblings, as well as myself) are all on the spectrum, but we're all entirely undiagnosed. My parents just never knew anything about mental health and didn't even understand what "autism" was, beyond some vague description which was basically "people who aren't all there". All they knew was that they were geeks and related to eachother well. As such, I grew up my entire life thinking that wanting to try new things constantly or leaving the TV on or anything are all very weird and unusual, that it's normal to just find what you like and stick to it. You might think that public school would make it obvious to me, but really, it just made me think, "Damn, it's so sad no one's allowing themselves to be themselves at school. :("
I only found out that I wasn't entirely normal through my partner about one year ago now, who came over to our house and was absolutely shocked by just kind of... everything. How we live, how we all basically eat the exact same food every single day and make super good use of buying in bulk from CostCo because we're just that consistent in our diets that we can stock up and it pays off. How we all spend most of our time on separate computers with "family time" being entirely voluntary; if you want to be downstairs around others, you can be, but there's no "dinner time" to speak of. Even still, it feels weird to even describe all of this as weird, but after he showed me numerous examples, including visiting his own family, I have to admit it's abnormal.
It's still wild to me people aren't like my family, and actively enjoy trying new things EVERY SINGLE DAY. Like, it feels fake. Like they're all just pretending to like it, only doing it because they think it's normal to like it. Y'know?
Oh that explains why i get weird looks for eating the same thing for dinner every night.
I’m autistic and I was like for for the first 14-15 or so years of my life, only recently have I actually been actively seeking out new things, because I realize, damn, there’s some really cool shit out there that I want to experience, and what started that snowball effect was a game called night in the woods that I played 2 days before my 16th birthday, up to that point I played games but not actually real or story / narrative focused games, always played roblox and some stuff on my 3DS, but when I first played NITW I played it the entire way through in a single night, and it forever changed me, I’ve been obsessed with it ever since since it was the first time in a long time that I had played an actual game, a truly phenomenal game, shit made me bawl fr, and that was nearly a year and a half ago
You can still find new stuff to indulge yourself in, without losing the stuff you already like or pretending that you like it, eventually I will hopefully find a game that means even more to me than night in the woods does but that doesn’t mean I’ll have to dump it from my memory or have how i feel about it diminished in any way
I love eating the same food again and again until I'm sick of it.
For a while now it's been spaghetti mixed with olive oil and grated cheddar cheese. It's really good and I haven't yet reached the disgust stage.
It's like gnocchi I can just eat it always constantly and in quantities unimaginable to the average person.
Now that I think about it, food is maybe one of the few places where I'm *really* averse to trying new things.
Pretty much all media have me wanting to try everything but food is just the opposite, I just want a plain, reliable thing with a consistent texture and taste.
Also damn your household sounds really comfy. I'd love to be at home without feeling like I'm being evaluated and judged for a performance and need to be perfectly coordinated to expectations.
oh. why does that sound nice
pda autism! ^^ I have it too. it stands for "pathological demand avoidance". meaning, demands feel like a threat to your brain, so it does everything in its power to avoid it. when you have it, anything can feel like a demand. even things you like, like drawing - or basic tasks, like brushing your teeth.
so that’s what’s wrong with me i understand now
As someone who is demisexual, my taste in music is definitely like my taste in people, I've got to have listened to five songs or more before I consider liking them (although there are exceptions). That's when I find someone new I listen to their entire album
If I Dont listen to a song on repeat for a day then I Dont like it xd
Same here bro I always listen to their whole album the thing is the artists personality and behaviour also plays into it once I listen to them
omg same!!! i’m also demisexual and this is why when i like an artist i usually end up adding their entire album to my playlist 😭
Kinda the same, but I have to like 15 songs so I can say I like them
It can actually be an anxiety trait too, because you know exactly what’s going to happen in the show so it’s comforting for you because you have control of the situation in a way! For me when my anxiety was at its worst I was OBSESSED with BBC Sherlock, I watched it over 20 times. but now I’ve recovered, I have favourite tv shows that I do enjoy rewatching, but I don’t have to have it running 24/7 like I did with Sherlock, and I’m happy to branch out and watch new things. 😊
As a person who exclusively listens to Tally hall, Lemon demon, Will wood and video game ost’s, I am not willing to try anything new my friends recommended me.
I’m autistic and demisexual and I’m the same way.
People had recommended Steven Universe to me since 2015. I kept refusing to watch it. In 2021, I finally watched it, and now, it’s my all time favorite show. I’m so pissed with myself because I missed all of the hype of watching new episodes as they aired, making theories, and bonding with other fans in the process, and I’m the only one to blame. It’s unironically one of my biggest regrets.
I think the reason behind my hesitation to try new things is fear of the unknown. This fear has been confirmed rational multiple times. For example, several weeks ago, my friend and I saw Elemental in theaters. It caused me to have a public meltdown. Tomorrow, we’re going to watch another movie in theaters. Not Barbie. Not Oppenheimer. *The Mario movie.* We already saw the Mario movie in theaters when it was new and we both enjoyed it, so it’s a safe bet.
I’m so sorry about this, but I was editing my comment to add another paragraph when you gave it a heart, and I didn’t realize until after I confirmed the edit, so can I please have the heart back?
Hey if it’s any consolation you really didn’t miss much with the Steven bombs as it would be like a couple episodes related to plot then like weeks without new content just to get a filler episode next. It was honestly kind of a mess and wasn’t as fun as you might expect. The fact you got to watch episodes in order at whatever pace you go at for your first time makes it so much more enjoyable. These are just my opinions by the way if you feel differently then you can disregard what I’ve said.
@@raptorboss6688 Thanks for the reassurance.
Sorry if this is rude, but from a fellow autist, what about Elemental caused that?
@@nezzled It hit too close to home.
I have actually the opposite problem: I can't watch something I've already watched because I already know the story. It has to be something I really like and I haven't seen in a long time for me to actually want to see it
i never really thought about it, but you've put how i feel about music **exactly** into words!! i never really got it because my friends would recommend music that i never ended up listening to because it just felt... well, basically how you described it. it felt like a huge effort that i just could not get myself to follow through with, which didn't make any sense because objectively speaking listening to a three minute song seems pretty easy. which makes me feel kinda bad because i love recommending stuff to other people! maybe because i want validation that my taste is amazing and great?? idk. but anyway, amazing video :-)
I think literally every human being enjoy recommending stuff to other people. It's just so fun.
Maybe there could be some sort of psychological phenomenon where some people are more open to enjoying new things while others have to be nearly forced.
I sometimes am a little reluctant toward listening to new music but I never feel like I have enough good songs in my collection. Which gives me enough reason to listen to something new given the opportunity
i listen to those "playlist that feels like *blank*" videos on youtube and whenever a new song pops up im like "uhbskudhfk uaaaaaaaaaaahuhh fine ill listen to it" and it becomes one of the songs i listen on the daily
Practically dangling a fish hook with that 1989 thumbnail and 1989tv coming up so soon
No it’s always a pleasure for me to get into something new it feels like I’m expanding my brain with new ideas and “flavors” never seen before and sometimes it’s the most abysmal thing I’ve had the displeasure of crossing paths with
Appreciate the homies that put you on to new music , especially something from a different genre than what you usually listen to. It's always cool to find out new stuff
THIS IS LITERALLY ME
GRAAAAH
I need to get around to bullying my brain into teaching myself how to code
Oh my gosh this describes me perfectly. My mom is the exact opposite though, she’s always like “why do you always want to watch an old movie you’ve seen a bunch of times instead of something new, that’s so boring.” but like to me it’s the opposite of boring. I might even say i’m bored watching new things sometimes because it’s much more exciting and stimulating for me to be looking forward to something i already know i’m gonna enjoy, or like waiting for a particular scene that i really like.
nah thats so true though it takes me so long to absorb media when told it took me like a year to watch arcane and its now one of my favourite series. not to mention omori which took like a year and a bit for my brother to convince me to play simply because a new pokemon game had come out and I couldn't think about anything else for that year, and now I recommend them to anyone who will listen. so, while I recommend arcane and omori, what you should really take from this conversation is listen to worlds end valentine. its from omori and its my second favourite soundtrack behind tee hee time but tee hee time is kind of ear bleeding so I understand if you don't want to listen to that but worlds end valentine convinced me to play omori simply because it was such a banger
also toby fox undertale and deltarune music is top tier fr
your art is just so perfect to me like
look at the colors! the characters! the slight pixelness!
i love it so much this is so comforting
I feel this way about hobbies. Its so difficult to try a new hobby, esoecially since there's so much "set up" and foundational knowledge that needs to be had for me to actually enjoy the hobby.
Most underrated artist on this platform, I hope you one day become as famous as theodd1sout
to be able to do this as a career would be an absolute dream come true 🙏
Agreed😮 im so in forever now this was GREAT
this vibeo mnade me happy im gonna share it with my friends bbb your are art is cool i like it
this video is awesome because i’m not the one who doesn’t listen to new music, but the friend who listens to multiple new albums a week and is annoying to my other friends about the ones they’d likely love, to which they never listen for basically exactly what you talked about. also, great animation! can’t wait to see this channel grow over time
bro we're the exact type of person. be my friend i need new music
Yeah, I'm the complete opposite of this video too. I listen and watch new things almost daily. Watching the same series twice feels like a chore. I already know what happens, I need something fresh to get engrossed.
Yeah I kinda get like that but mostly with movies and albums, not so much individual songs as I like listening to new music regularly.
oh my god i thought i was the only one who didn’t feel like expanding my horizons 😭 it really depends on my mood. sometimes, even when my favorite artist just dropped a new album i have to muster of the courage. i think part of it is that i just don’t want to not like something my favorite artist dropped so i get scared… anyways
I have the opposite problem. I have to restrict what I allow myself to discover because I know I'll get sucked down a super deep rabbit hole and not be able to do anything else well for a month. Affects work, school, and leaves me with a bunch of guilt.
Applies mostly to videogames, but also shows, artists, and UA-camrs.
You have to restrict what you allow yourself to discover because you know you'll get sucked down? Rather fitting
It comes from a paralysis of choice, we are constantly overwhelmed by the vast quantities of media and other types of content made available to us via the internet. Faced with so many choices, it's easier if not impossible to not stick to things we already know, unless driven by an external motivation (say, like your friend putting on Sex Education, or your crush liking Taylor Swift).
I can relate to this. I have a much more "anything-goes" attitude towards music because I like it a lot more than TV or movies and it's less of an investment, but when it comes to those things specifically, I always make sure what I'm getting into is going to be worth my time or something I'd be into.
With music, there's way too much stuff that sounds somewhat interesting or like I'd eventually listen to it, that I just keep lots of albums on a list of things to maybe eventually check out (that I often never do), and it's even worse with TV and movies, partially because sometimes I'll find something I want to watch *right now* but I can't for whatever reason.
I also get this feeling a lot that I'm enjoying something the wrong way or that I "don't really get it" because I see how everyone else reacts to it. A part of that is that I listen to so much different music - on my rateyourmusic account I have almost 1000 albums rated from genres as wide as technical death metal to dance pop and ambient - that when I listen to something and it doesn't immediately click it feels like something is wrong with me in particular or if I don't get into a genre I'm not "cool" or whatever.
Like, it genuinely took me a solid year to get why people like Charli XCX as much as they do. I put on HIFN on a whim recently and for whatever reason it clicked for the first time. Part of that is probably because I've been listening to so much Carly Rae Jepsen and Ariana Grande that I can appreciate what differentiates Forever from Anxious or Into You. But before that I just felt like a bozo who wasn't seeing the unmitigated genius and thought it was just OK.
@@Billiamwoodsi think the best way to understand the appeal of a new genre you're not familiar with is to expose yourself to it gradually, in a way that it doesn't sound completely strange to your brain, going from less to more adventurous (expressions of that new genre that also take elements from a genre or genres you already like as a starting point, for example: new age, modern classical, minimalism - if you want to get into ambient music and you come from classical music), just as you described with your charlie example.
ugh i have an entire list of tv shows and movies that I MYSELF want to watch, but i cannot commit to watching anything fully unless someone is with me making me watch it. like ill watch re runs from the closer all day but watching a 2 hour movie by myself? in my dreams. but this put into words is great and slightly lowers my thinking its just a short attention span
i am neither autistic, not demi
BUT I RELATE TO THIS SOOO MUCH
its so hard to try new things, although a little easier than the way you described it ^^"
also LOVE THE ARTSTYLE!!!
TRUEST VIDEO EVER. ive had folks recommend stuff to me before and ive never gone through with it except for a couple select times. i have hyperspecific interests that i hate breaking from and it rlly takes being forced, baited, or interested to get me to find something new and fixate on it.
I might have adhd (don’t have a diagnosis though) and sometimes it’s hard to watch something new, even if it’s from a franchise I’m hyper-fixating on. I just procrastinate getting started until I finally do and become obsessed again for weeks lmao
this is so relatable i do this all the time with movies. i have a list of rewatchable movies that i watch again and again and it gets on people's nerves because they'l want to watch something new and i'll suggest stay (2005) with a 26 on the tomatometer as if i don't watch it every week 😭😭
Oh my goodness! I have the EXACT same thing!
I am demisexual and autistic, and i have a problem getting into new stuff, and when i do (for example) find new muic i like its acidental because i clicked on a playlist with songs i like and then it started autoplaying lol
this video REALLY got me started thing about everything and made me feel so not alone in this, thank you so much!
Ps this is the first vid i saw from you and i rlly like your videos and artstyle!
No because this hits the nail precisely
I have ADHD and sharing my favorite media with others is like. A love language? So refusing to engage for me feels kinda personal. Like you don’t like or trust me enough to give it a try. I know that’s not really the case but it’s a STRUGGLE (it’s only made worse due to RSD).
Idk if I can totally relate, but I can feel some of your pain. It’s not that I only stick to a few things, but that there are just some genre’s of music I CANNOT get into no matter how many times my friends get me to listen to it. Like, I am not a metal head, I will never be a metal head. Despite being able to enjoy everything from Drum and Bass to Rock to 30s big band music, I will never enjoy metal. It’s not like I’ve never tried, two of my good friends are complete and total metal heads that literally listen to nothing else. And they have showed me their favourite songs
But it just never clicks. I don’t know why.
But I’m also a bisexual aromantic fuck so maybe that’s just the kind of person I am.
omg i relate so much! some genres just feel like static or something, just because the very defining characteristics of those genres aren't in my tastes. (metal is one of those genres for me as well)
also, it's so cool to see another big band enjoyer! where would you recommend i go to find more of it? i only have like 3.5 big band songs so far and i really want more because it's just so good!
@@TheFlyfly yoo! I recommend listening to Frank Sinatra’s “Nothing But The Best (2008 remaster)”. It’s kinda what got me into big band. I also recommend The Pied Pipers, and their album “What Is This Thing Called Love?”.
Have fun!
If I don't go out of my way to find new music that sparks the same feeling of hearing a song I love for the first time, I get bored and stop listening to music altogether. Also i think not trying new music can be linked to fearing wasting time on something that could be bad.
This may partially explain why I'm not at scared to listen to new music, even if I hear it's bad. In the worst case scenarios, I'll either get a good laugh at just how awful the music is, or have plenty to discuss and argue about online with others if I find the album mid, or boring, or overrated.
@@Goallpeashootersyeah honestly, when you think about it, it's way easier to try new music than it is to try out a new movie or tv show. Especially these days with how accessible music is. I don't have to go to a theatre or even have to sit down to listen to new music.
1:26 This frame is a visual masterpiece
I'm so happy someone put into words what I've been frustrated with for SO LONG
I have ADHD and yes. Yes. LOL. What sucks is that I love recommending stuff to people while knowing full well I am terrible at taking recommendations and I don’t know why I am like this or how to stop.
I'm autistic and I relate so much to this. I typically never watch/read new things unless I am already doing that.
I read the title and thought you meant what music you liked defined who you liked and I was so confused. “No I am not attracted to a fiery, auric, jungle dragon or a cosmic, god-eating, worm that rips holes through space.
I forgor the “
Omg I never heard of someone whos had this issue before! It takes a good amount of prompting to make me want to listen/play/try anything new. Whenever I play a new game theres a good chance I already got spoiled of some of it cuz I had been exposing myself to it for so long for me to finally play it lol. And listening to new music is hard too, the vast majority of the songs I listen too are from animations ive seen on youtube aoifnwaoinfawaf
lmAO this is how I started to properly listen to lovejoy, I saw an animatic using one of their songs 💀
thats why i like the bondage that i have with several close people around me, because part of that bondage is only the two of us to take a walk and listen to a new album on headphones (taking turns for who picks and most of the times the one picking chooses a very important album for him/her)
in my opinion, thats a different level of communication that ive recently found and in some ways it actually transcends normal talks, because you share with the other person in a sort of indirect way what you relate to or what you hold dear onto and you dont need to verbalize it - you just give her/him the same sounds and compositions that evoked emotions in you for her/him to feel them
i probably explained something that most of you have thought about how is working, but that type of communication is still hard for me to wrap my head around and one i trully cherish
Yes I have a bit of the same problem it’s also like with socializing I’m a bit of a hypocrite with it like one time I’ll but into a conversation and make a new friend or just sometimes I will have this long period of not talking unless I am spoken to and with movies and tv shows sometimes I will jump into a movie or tv show and I will literally mentally and physically MAKE MYSELF WATCH IT- and if I like it then I won’t force myself it’s like making eye contact with people you gotta physically and mentally force yourself to do it even though it makes my eyes ache and gives me a headache and my social battery dies in an absolute INSTANT 🤯💥💥
Same the vast majority of my interests are whatever my brother has got me to do
lmao my sister would say the same about me, she got some of my interest hand me downs
I've always struggled to explain my music taste to other people so thank you for doing exactly that (Super Mario Galaxy is awesome)
I relate to this so much! I can only listen to blink-182 and angels & airwaves because I arbitrarily said blink was my favorite band once (they did have a few songs I was a fan of), then I decided to actually listen to all of their stuff and got hooked. then someone told me the guitarist had another band that they described as "space rock" and I said hey I like space and I like the guitarist, let's give it a shot. I can only listen to those two bands now.
this is extremely relatable to me and i've been thinking about it lately wondering if anyone else has felt the same , i'm glad there are other people that are also experiencing this ! getting into new music or a new game or even picking up a new hobby is always hard because sometimes it feels like i'm being pretentious
also love the mention of my favorite phoebe bridgers song lol
I feel like this. I like music from video games I play. Nothing else.
LITERALLY THIS IS LITERALLY ME
whenever i add a new song to my playlist i have to be forced to hear it
i first heard virtual insanity when someone performed it at a school thing and then i couldn’t get it out of my head
if someone just told me to listen to it i would never have done it, and i haven’t listened to any of their other music just that one im too scared
idk why but when someone tells me to listen to a song I’m fine,
I go listen and give my feedback.
But when they tell me to watch something then I’m like:
*…….eeeeehhhhhh-*
“what if I don’t have time?”
**proceeds to play roblox all day**
(I’ll prob only watch smth another person recommends if it’s with another person)
0:39 relatable
I'm literally exactly the same, except for when I find a song I like I'll completely scour the artist's albums and singles and add everything I like into a giant playlist lmao
the Discovery album making a quick cameo made me unreasonably happy for this reason exactly :]
I have a 'small' Daft Punk obsession
i really REALLY like the style and pacing of your videos as well as topics! your content is really enjoyable!!!!!!!!
about music as an attraction i might sometimes start to hate some song because of a person or like some song because of someone and it feels kinda weird but cool in its own way
i love your vid. I shall now qoute this 'I DONT WANNA'
idk why your voice seems so hyper yet so soothing!!!!! Im in love with your animation style.
I need to consume _more_
Omg ues^_^ owies.voices in a nutshell
I'm the type of person who doesn't like to take suggestions or recommendations so this is so relatable! A few exceptions are from those who I have a strong connection bond, like my cousin, etc...
I AM KINDA SIMILAR especially with the ‘new things needs energy’
wit music when (IF!!) i become obsessed w a new artist/album it always turns out that a while before (normally 6-12 months) i listened to one song/tried to like them but didn’t IT ALWAYS HAPPENS whether intentionally/unknowingly
i think i become obsessed bc i’ve broken the ‘unfamiliar’ part of it kinda
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so truuuuuueeee
wait i’m so glad this was recommended to me. not only are u super underrated but as an adhd-er i relate to this so hard. i never really approached these thoughts, just lived with them. i’m so glad i’m not alone in this :’)
I find it easier to get into new music if someone used it in an animation or a playlist based around a Fandom I already like, it kind of gets me to be like " hey this reminds me of that thing I like, therefore I now like this"
OMG SAME!!! The songs I'm obsessed with the most are songs linked to some fictional characters or movies that I love so much😭
This is how I try to enjoy new things. When I'm watching or listening to something new, I try to look for things I can relate to something I really like.
I just came home at 2 am in the morning, and exhausted me, and lemme say that you made the story so relatable yet it made me crack up a laugh! :D
I relate to this but especially with books, I loveee reading but I only read a few books because of this and even if I read a new one I get bored if it isn't perfect immediately
I cannot even begin to understand anything remotely similar to this mentality.
Thank god I'm not alone. I watched this video and cannot imagine having all of my interests be like this. "Would I still like '1989' even if Taylor Swift didn't make it?" should be an unbelievably easy question that anyone should be able to answer about just about any artist/artist output.
the 1989 being by someone else bit is so real as a folklore evermore girlie
such a unique and pleasing video style! love the look, the editing, the art and it was just entertaining overall! :D
0:46 no but this is so relatable ; - ; I love watching the shows and movies that I already like and sure ill watch a new movie if i feel like it but i'll almost never get connected to it the way I did with the ones I already like.
THIS IS LITERALLY ME-
I FEEL AWFUL TELLING PEOPLE IM NOT GOING TO CHECK OUT THE PILES AND PILES OF STUFF THEY TELL ME TO. I KEEP SAYING "I'll listen/watch/read when I can!" AND NOW IM SITTING HERE WITH A LIST OF LIKE 20 MULTIPLE-ENTRY MOVIES, 30 SHOWS, AND LIKE 200 SONGS THAT IM NEVER GOING TO CHECK OUT. HOW DO YOU EXPLAIN THIS TO SOMEONE??? HOW DO YOU SAY "Sorry, I don't want to." WITHOUT THEM THINKING ITS RUDE??? PLEASE I NEED HELP :(
"I have massive social anxiety over one issue: I'm not someone who can be recommended media. Social anxiety is garbage and I have been too stressed to get this thought out to you, but that's just how it goes and the only way to get past it is to admit it. Instead, let's expand our friendship in some other way!" [insert your own suggestion for a bonding activity]
@@minerman60101 THANK YOU!! This is extremely helpful :D
Yeah I’m the opposite, I CRAVE new interesting things and rarely rewatch media, usually only after a couple years of forgetting.
I also Love sharing new things with people. Problem is a lot of my friends are like you, and I love them, but if I didn’t thankfully have one friend out of my 5 that DOES try out my stuff and I try out theirs….
I would fucking. SPIRAL.
this is like me kinda, one of my greatest pet peeves is when i try to share new things to new friends just like how they do the same to me but when i do it they reject it. it really upsets me sometimes.
0:10 ya this is my brother with games lmao
it’s crazy. these days I have been like, planning…to try new stuff. I feel like most people don’t do this. Like, actually PLAN to then EXECUTE the act of broadening horizons and experimenting with new interests.
I literally only listen to ost’s lol
So… to bait you into watching anything your friend just needs to tell you it’s a bit like super Mario galaxy
this is so relateable anytime my friends ask me to watch a show just cuz its "so good" imma just send them this video specially since ive had family members angry at me for only trying out new stuff after i personally saw the appeal of it from a certain point of view
ur animation style is so adorable omg i love this
I think it's more of that trying something new is uncomfortable because the brain generally doesn't enjoy change. It's why many artist stay in their comfort zones and don't improve although they may acknowledge that it does so. Perhaps for you it is on a higher level however this init of itself doesn't seem to be that uncommon. For me, I usually try things to see why other people like them, not because I'm interested in that thing itself.
never felt more connecting to a talking cat in my life
I'm the complete opposite. I'll listen to anything that's in a genre i like, and I'll be attracted to anyone that's my type. Music is my person autistic hyperfixation and I'm constantly listening to or playing music.
I felt that, I have two definite types, and anyone who falls into them is an immediate yes, and I love the City Pop genre and will listen to basically any song in that genre that I come across lmao
I do like to stick to a few favourites, the ones that play in my head all day, 4 AM, Watashitachi o Shinjite Ite, Stay With Me, Mystery Girl, Sunset Road, etc. I could go on lmao
sounds like pathological demand avoidance (pda autism) to me. I would know cus i have it.
sou assim com interesses também, fico reassistindo coisas 187373 vezes mas não crio coragem pra ver algo novo hajajakka
I tend to get into songs whenever I associate them with something, to the point where it's sometimes the only thing I like from the artist. Sunflower from Spiderverse is a prime example, the song is typically completely not my genre and has Post Malone who I despise. But because it's in Spiderverse and used well, I like it. It's why my music playlist has a lot of old rock, because all of it is referenced in JoJo's Bizzare Adventure.
One thing that doesn't help me trying things out (besides potential executive dysfunction and forgetfulness) is that I already had experiences of getting recommended things, having those things be called Divine by communities I relate to, but then trying them out and it just completely not being my thing.
this is relatable on an emotion level, i am crying, i feel SEEN
It's an actual phycological phenomenum and basicaly is that people like things they know, things they can predict, it's much easier understanding and predicting a song you already know or one wich armonical structure is the same as others you already know (aka most pop music of the age) than trying to comprehend new unpredictable patterns
Of course as people is people there's exceptions, if not, ther wouldn't be jazz music
Everything you've said has practically reflected to how I typically see myself consuming the stuff I look or listen to. I love listening to weird niches of music and sometimes it's hard to put so much effort to listen to something new, especially if it's a friend's favorite thing. I find it more difficult because I'm too stubborn and those negative feelings attach negative connotations to those kinds of songs. But with enough assimilation, I begin to dig it
Imho demisexuality is the "normal" sexuality. I can't easily imagine anyone being legitimately romantically/sexually interested in a stranger, let alone fathom why so many people actually get ANGRY that I desire... friendship bonds and commitment with my buck fuddy?
It’s hilarious how this vid explains Demi-sexuality better than some specifically made too.
“Don’t date your friends” is completely wrong.
Only date someone you’d consider a friend.
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Owie- 2023
you put my exact feelings into words!! consuming new media is exhausting and i'd rather jump straight into the fancontent
I love how this vid is straight to the point.
I relate to this but it's more so that if I'm gonna get into anything new I need to learn everything about it, listen to a good bulk of songs, etc. I over complicate it but really it helps me form genuine interest in those things, however the things I like end up staying within similar or cross referenced genres. I can't say I've really tried anything 100% new yet. Especially when it comes to music, it has to have a certain feel to it or I will not enjoy it, the only way new stuff gets introduced is someone sits me down and plays their music for me, or they ask for my music then later switch it to theirs (pretty much bait and switch) but that is usually effective
This video was highly entertaining (and relatable lol)
great stuff
Super Mario Galaxy ftw
also, if you are in the middle of a hyperfixation and/or JUST got out of it: no new media, no matter what
brain rot gotta take its toll and i have to become human again to rejoin society and media
LITERALLY same. It took two my friends pretty much peer pressuring me into downloading among us a couple weeks ago for me to even consider playing (Id never played it before when it was popular because I didn’t wanna). Now it’s the only game on my phone that I use daily. Sometimes I think that my tastes are all influenced by people in my life introducing me to things, but now I realize that my other interests influence them. I think this vid is gonna bring out the entire autistic side of youtube someday tbh