Former member of 'Incel' community speaks out about dangerous misogyny I Nightline

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  • Опубліковано 13 сер 2019
  • A new BBC documentary highlights the subculture consisting mostly of men that began as a community for providing comfort and evolved into one that led some individuals to real-life violence.
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    #Nightline #Incel #Misogyny #ElliotRodger #Prejudice #IslaVista

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  • @cgh7337
    @cgh7337 4 роки тому +7838

    On looks alone, it would seem girls would be attracted to him. He must have scared them away w/ his personality.

    • @tarachristie933
      @tarachristie933 4 роки тому +455

      @Akhnai The Indon I think he meant Rodgers

    • @NiceOCGuy1981
      @NiceOCGuy1981 4 роки тому +151

      @Akhnai The Indon yeah I agree. If you ain't got the looks, you can't get through the front door. You can have the greatest personality ever, but at best platonic friendship, which is all fine in dandy. The thing is it won't ever lead to romance if you don't have good looks. Plus, there are great looking guys out there who have awsome personalities. So, that basically makes women melt.

    • @TheBlankInk
      @TheBlankInk 4 роки тому +506

      @@NiceOCGuy1981 wrong.I find personality the main thing that can make me attracted to a man.He doesn't have to be hot.He could be average.And many people are like that.A friend o mine doesn't have the looks either but he did manage to get a gf (and a good looking one)sooo 🤷‍♀️

    • @NiceOCGuy1981
      @NiceOCGuy1981 4 роки тому +79

      @@TheBlankInk then it means he is a better looking guy then you thought. Average is not enough. Above average to very hot will get you in the door. Yes, personality keeps you interested, but it's like are you going to choose the average guy with great personality or the good looking guy with a great personality. Hmmm, difficult choice.

    • @TheBlankInk
      @TheBlankInk 4 роки тому +418

      @@NiceOCGuy1981 I'm going to choose the guy that I connect with better.Looks are secondary.Not everyone is as shallow as people like you :)

  • @nameless9867
    @nameless9867 4 роки тому +8156

    The problem is not the rejection they get from women the problem is that they become bitter after they are rejected. It’s normal to be rejected

    • @smartfart9003
      @smartfart9003 4 роки тому +537

      The incel struggles go way, way beyond that. You're talking about guys that get rejected over and over again with little hope for that changing. Think about how that beats someone down. Then understand that their problems go far beyond just that problem. Hence occasional extreme reactions and misogyny.

    • @LaScorpious
      @LaScorpious 4 роки тому +291

      @@smartfart9003 what do they expect to happen if they pick the wrong female? That's right rejection

    • @smartfart9003
      @smartfart9003 4 роки тому +56

      @@LaScorpious If your mother was the wrong female.

    • @LaScorpious
      @LaScorpious 4 роки тому +176

      @@smartfart9003 I had a seizure reading your comment.

    • @ashleelmb
      @ashleelmb 4 роки тому +441

      Rejection isn't nice. It can break you. It's broken me and now I don't bother trying anymore. And yes, I'm angry because I'm dissatisfied. But I'll never go out and harm anybody. Thats the difference.

  • @anaionescu8913
    @anaionescu8913 2 роки тому +341

    Katherine's father seems like an amazing person. He went through one of the most horrific things you can ever experience (losing his child) and came out the other side grateful that more people didn't die. We salute and respect you, sir

    • @Jake-jy5rr
      @Jake-jy5rr Рік тому

      Yay got what she deserved 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @NickB1967
      @NickB1967 6 місяців тому +3

      Katherine Cooper's parents seem very thoughtful and level headed, in spite of their terrible loss. If Elliot Rodger's parents had taken some parenting advice from Katherine Cooper's parents, I can't help but think everyone would have been much better off, and none of this would have happened.

  • @Xxrocknrollgod
    @Xxrocknrollgod 2 роки тому +25

    He can be done with the blackpill , but the blackpill is not done with him 🤣

    • @cooliest2267
      @cooliest2267 2 роки тому +9

      Hahahaha facts many men go Mgtow and avoid it but it's still inside them

    • @AbuBased731
      @AbuBased731 Рік тому +2

      @@cooliest2267 *MSTOW
      Man Sent Their Own Way

  • @justusing6192
    @justusing6192 4 роки тому +3290

    Imagine crying “women are so meeeaaan” then going out of your way to bully them and embarrass them online. Weirdos.

    • @dawi
      @dawi 4 роки тому +152

      Women have way too high standards. Catfishman pretty much only targets below average women. Average women have way too high standards and are seeking after male models.

    • @justusing6192
      @justusing6192 4 роки тому +254

      Daw lmaoo he looks real dumb doing it tho because only people laughing along are the incels desperate for attention everyone with a normal brain who doesn’t blame a whole gender for their problems thinks he’s a massive loser...these are women he doesn’t know and is judging them solely based on their looks...he’s pathetic.

    • @v1nigra3
      @v1nigra3 4 роки тому +29

      Just Using I dunno sounds like any standard feminist to me

    • @emanualcarr7408
      @emanualcarr7408 4 роки тому +41

      Imagine being a woman like Aileen Wuornos who killed men. Does that same energy apply to women who do the same?

    • @WorthlessDeadEnd
      @WorthlessDeadEnd 4 роки тому +53

      @Just Using I didn't know what you were talking about until I got to the catfish man at 6:38. He obviously has some very deep rooted issues with entitlement and Freud knows what else.

  • @icewolf6062
    @icewolf6062 4 роки тому +4797

    I’ve said this before I’ll say it again. I’m fat. I’m not handsome. All that shit. No girls look twice at me. THIS SAID. I’ve found girls into me still. Having good humor. Being a genuinely nice person without expecting anything back. Being able to laugh and have genuine good conversations with goes a long way. WEARING DEODORANT

    • @MrCmon113
      @MrCmon113 3 роки тому +206

      I've had professors at uni tell me that they are not above average in intelligence. People really hate to ackowledge their own priviledge and instead create myths around their own awesomeness they created out of nothing.

    • @giorgiogazzola5972
      @giorgiogazzola5972 3 роки тому +409

      I think a lot of these incels and dudes with nice guy syndrome have their hearts set out on women who are completely out of their league. I'm hardly a Calvin Klein underwear model so I'm realistic about what kind of women I can pull looks wise.

    • @LoveAndSnapple
      @LoveAndSnapple 3 роки тому +249

      @@giorgiogazzola5972 Oh my gosh, yes. They wear the “nice guy” cloak and expect that one attribute to make up for the fact that they have zero confidence, zero sex appeal, euro fashion sense (if that matters to some women), and zero likability. All under the guise that they won’t beat you like “those other guys” do. Because all alpha men beat their wives/girlfriends apparently? Ironically, when they don’t get their way they shoot you the whole place causing death and destruction.

    • @AyeeElyy
      @AyeeElyy 3 роки тому +9

      I’m really hot, like I used to model and I hear it a lot and I also know it. I love, love, love! Fat men and not super pretty. Like u should see the men the women in my family have gotten with. We get made fun of but we also like to stab so

    • @giorgiogazzola5972
      @giorgiogazzola5972 3 роки тому +169

      @Eliciel Cajigas Nobody is systemically forcing them to go for anyone. I also find it ironic that you call these women egotistical and superficial when these incels are only pursuing them because of their looks.

  • @carlthomaswilliamsjr.2995
    @carlthomaswilliamsjr.2995 2 роки тому +541

    I feel bad for the people who lost their loved ones to these creeps...nobody deserves to die like that.

    • @wiwisjxkalnz
      @wiwisjxkalnz 2 роки тому +31

      We need more psychiatric hospitals

    • @ubahfly5409
      @ubahfly5409 2 роки тому +26

      "Nobody"? Well, I disagree, respectfully. I make an exception for the creeps themselves. In fact, if Rodgers had just started w/ himself first, he'd be a hero in my book!

    • @michaeljosephjackson2364
      @michaeljosephjackson2364 2 роки тому +5

      What is creep?

    • @syari5884
      @syari5884 2 роки тому

      They got what they deserved

    • @PaintingWithTears
      @PaintingWithTears 2 роки тому

      @@ubahfly5409 Well he's not a hero and never will be. He's a murderer.

  • @bazbouz85
    @bazbouz85 2 роки тому +296

    I am 36 years old and I have always been single, I have never been in a relationship. I have been affected since childhood by a very rare genetic disease that handicaps me physically. Despite this, I have no hatred towards women. I understand very well that being in a relationship with me can be complicated because of my physical situation, and I don't blame women. My situation is different from most incels, but they should see things differently instead of being so negative. They don't have any major health problems that prevent them from finding someone. Even if they have had women in the past who have behaved badly with them, not all of them will. Some may not agree, but I think these guys should change their mindset, if at all possible.

    • @barneyronnie
      @barneyronnie 2 роки тому +7

      Maybe you should think about a boyfriend. Gay guys can be very patient and understanding. Just a suggestion😉

    • @angelit161
      @angelit161 2 роки тому +77

      @@barneyronnie wtf seriously bruh

    • @pm7823
      @pm7823 2 роки тому +18

      I got really close with a friend who had muscular dystrophy. We was in a wheelchair and had limited ability to move his arms and couldn’t move his legs anymore. I considered a relationship with him because we were really close and I cared for him. I decided to not pursue a relationship with him because he got mad at me that we weren’t already in a relationship yet and sort of came at me with a lot of the same rhetoric the incel community has. I called him out on it, but he didn’t quite apologize for treating me less than a person… he kinda took all his frustration out on me and instead of seeing me for me…. As I saw him for him… it made it really hard to connect with him after that. THAT is why I didn’t pursue a relationship with him. Because he let this fear and anger and sadness become bigger than what we actually had together and he put that roadblock up and couldn’t get over that. This was pre-incel online communities too. I can only imagine what rabbit hole he might have fallen through had this happened today. Unfortunately he passed away a few years ago.

    • @petercdowney
      @petercdowney 2 роки тому +5

      Exactly. I'm 23 years old, and most if not all people will at that age be wise enough and mature enough to understand that relationships are more about compatibility than they are about being good enough.

    • @drbruh3567
      @drbruh3567 2 роки тому +1

      Hope you can recover from your illness!

  • @AB-pr4uc
    @AB-pr4uc 3 роки тому +2391

    "but I'm a nice guy" says the dude who basically thinks women are sex ATMs

    • @candacecasey5634
      @candacecasey5634 3 роки тому +142

      Yeah it's sick

    • @anoukf9455
      @anoukf9455 3 роки тому +255

      Yup, and just because someone is a nice guy doesn't mean they are entitled to sex or a relationship.

    • @mattyy101
      @mattyy101 3 роки тому +23

      @@anoukf9455 It's much easier for women to get laid than dork guys but I think if I controlled a guys dating apps I could get em atleast a shot

    • @bbytiia
      @bbytiia 3 роки тому +1

      @Venusaur...

    • @asinine8143
      @asinine8143 3 роки тому +178

      @ً no, a woman sleeping around doesn't make her any sort of object. she's a person who just so happens to like sex, like most people. nothing wrong with that as long as she isn't hurting anyone in the process 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @Impiousmember
    @Impiousmember 4 роки тому +3948

    I didn't know "incel" was a thing. I spent a few years "alone" never made me hate women for that though.

    • @phoenix5054
      @phoenix5054 4 роки тому +51

      d3tach4blejesus During those years, didn’t you get laid? Did you yearn for relationship or a date but didn’t get one? If not, you are not an incel.

    • @misschevious123
      @misschevious123 4 роки тому +251

      @Eliciel Cajigas you've made your self worth dependent on your sexual encounters, and you talk about getting laid like a conquest, which completely denies that women are humans and not just objects, soon to be a notch in your bedpost to boost your ego. the problem isn't rejection and attractive men/women only seeking other attractive men/women, it's your deep rooted misogyny and distorted view of women as conquests rather than people.

    • @Impiousmember
      @Impiousmember 4 роки тому +22

      @@phoenix5054 actually no I didnt laid I was focusing on being a single dad after my ex left me with 4 month old twins to raise on my own. Tried to engage a relationship once or twice but girls didnt want a guy raising two kids on their own. I didn't end up dating until they were 5

    • @oil1252
      @oil1252 4 роки тому +16

      Incel is not about hating woman you idiot

    • @genieglasslamp5028
      @genieglasslamp5028 4 роки тому +55

      @@oil1252
      But it sure does attract women haters. Wonder why?

  • @hansgoober35
    @hansgoober35 Рік тому +17

    “Subculture of men and some women”
    Come on, it’s pretty much exclusively men

    • @volcel1986
      @volcel1986 Рік тому +3

      femcels do not exist theyre either a fed or attention seeking wh0res

  • @sillyskye
    @sillyskye 3 роки тому +210

    "girls are not sexually attracted to me"
    i can see why

    • @abolisher
      @abolisher 2 роки тому

      Because all he thinks about is sex and doesn’t respect women. what a loser the fool should have pursued a healthy goal with the mentality he had about women maybe he would have gotten somewhere..

    • @Mogger400
      @Mogger400 9 місяців тому +15

      Proving incels point

    • @nora_evans
      @nora_evans 5 місяців тому +3

      ​it's not always about looks. You find more hot gf and average bf couples than chad and average gf. Can't you see it? And if you're a chad but hate women, most women will not be attracted by you

    • @thesunisbright
      @thesunisbright 4 місяці тому

      master is the owner of the incels website. he is being investigated by the police. stay away from that forum its nothing but trouble.

    • @KingPepeThe3rdJr
      @KingPepeThe3rdJr 2 місяці тому +4

      @@nora_evans Thats some bs, If you look good enough personality doesn't even matter Richard Ramirez and Jeremy Meeks proved this. We don't believe your virtue signaling bs

  • @nabil9772
    @nabil9772 4 роки тому +1450

    Incels are basically angry “nice guys”.

    • @ascubis6647
      @ascubis6647 4 роки тому +24

      Yep.

    • @Legittuber
      @Legittuber 4 роки тому +15

      Exactly you said it best right

    • @LittleMissSunshineHA
      @LittleMissSunshineHA 4 роки тому +134

      Nabil theyre the ones who think "im nice to you! so i should be able to have sex with you!"
      🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @greeneyesracyfox3476
      @greeneyesracyfox3476 4 роки тому +6

      Ascubis
      You mean because they aren't serial killers and they blow some steam online only right?

    • @Tomorrison28
      @Tomorrison28 4 роки тому +16

      To an extent yes. They were lied to by parents, society ect. But you can change that "nice guy" b.s. these guys refuse to improve

  • @hamtoad7159
    @hamtoad7159 4 роки тому +3113

    Tbh, I don’t think an incel is just someone who can’t get a partner. If you just can’t find a partner, that doesn’t make you an incel. But if you radically hate women bc of it then you’re an incel.

    • @thestoneddog
      @thestoneddog 4 роки тому +148

      Not being able to find someone is all that is needed to be incel. Thats all it means.

    • @hamtoad7159
      @hamtoad7159 4 роки тому +327

      thestoneddog ok but what sets those who simply can’t find someone apart from the raging misogynistic psychopaths that make up most of the incel community. They don’t deserve the same title as normal human beings.

    • @CassidyStarke
      @CassidyStarke 4 роки тому +136

      thestoneddog
      If rejection is all it takes for you to hate a whole gender that takes up around then half of the worlds population, that would be the reason women don’t find them attractive.

    • @looksmax4207
      @looksmax4207 4 роки тому +11

      Ham Toad the definition is involuntary celibate... if you can’t get sex you’re ince

    • @emuriddle9364
      @emuriddle9364 4 роки тому +9

      I agree. We're under these not-so-fun circumstances.
      But, the difference is how you interpret the issue.

  • @rawrismahname
    @rawrismahname 2 роки тому +236

    Mad respect to the dad. Lost his daughter at the hands of a hateful madman and sends a message of loving, understand, and helping people who are at risk to turning into another madman.

    • @SinisterScoundrel6562
      @SinisterScoundrel6562 2 роки тому +9

      Help is all these guys need. Not a blind eye turned towards them, that's why these tragedies occur.

    • @Jake-jy5rr
      @Jake-jy5rr Рік тому

      She deserved it

    • @joeydoherty368
      @joeydoherty368 Рік тому +5

      @@SinisterScoundrel6562 Most of these men don’t end up killing people, so I don’t think a blind eye turned to their problems is an excuse. No one Elle’s is responsible for your actions once you are deliberately hurting others. That said, I of course think these men need help primarily mental health because there are lots of guys that are not attractive to women who aren’t stuck in this mindset.

    • @EJxSB
      @EJxSB Рік тому +2

      @Soldier of Allah ok..

    • @houseofmatrix6174
      @houseofmatrix6174 Рік тому +3

      My heart goes out to the father. The women in society treat guys terrible and used them

  • @mikioni
    @mikioni Рік тому +53

    "Take a shower bro"
    "go outside bro"

    • @seijakarjalainen
      @seijakarjalainen Рік тому +12

      PLA ricecels before being shipped of to Taiwan or India 'We did all that'

  • @pleasedont1283
    @pleasedont1283 4 роки тому +1878

    These guys are too superficial to notice the “unattractive” women who would love to date them. They are too superficial for “unattractive” women but are angry at superficial women?

    • @Beatriz-hs8eu
      @Beatriz-hs8eu 4 роки тому +592

      They're mad because the girls they want only want hot guys, but they also only want hot girls

    • @sylvanathornton2119
      @sylvanathornton2119 4 роки тому +162

      Yup. This pretty much sums it up.

    • @sylvanathornton2119
      @sylvanathornton2119 4 роки тому +104

      @@multicrogamer -- What do you mean, as men you must date down? The only way a 3 in the face man can date down is if he goes for people with actual deformities. Reality is, most men are not that physically attractive. Not surprising, since men don't have endless makeup and beauty routines that and haven't had it hammered into them for centuries that they need to be beautiful. It's not a bad thing, it just is what it is.
      Just at the gas station today, I saw 4 women with toned, fit bodies. Did I see 4 men with the equivalent 6- pack bodies? Heck no. Mostly dad bodies. Yes, there were also overweight women, but they had plenty of equivalents in males. What was missing was the equal to the hot-bodied women. Where are they?
      Plenty of women of all sizes with pretty or even beautiful faces. Once again - where are the male equivalents?
      I'm totally straight, and even I see way more attractive women than men.
      So where are all these men that are supposedly dating down when it comes to looks?

    • @hmhm856
      @hmhm856 3 роки тому +51

      the thing is that guys are not picky. Guys have too much testosterone to be picky. Testosterone makes up crave woman. So how can someone who is craving also be picky?
      For a guy to find a woman attractive, all she has to do is be a 4 out of 10 in the face. And even if shes a 3 or less, she can still use her body or a part of her body to attract guys.
      Woman on the other hand do not have too much testosterone, so they crave men less. For a woman to want a guy, to allow him to enter into her flirtzone at a minium, the guy has to be a minimum a 7 of 10 in the face (Maybe even an 8 at a minimum). Also, if guys have nice bodies but ugly faces, the woman will NOT want them. For guys, its about having a handsome face with not so many turn-offs (like being short, bad hygiene, etc). Also, a guy CANNOT create attraction with a woman; if she does not find you handsome in the first second she sees you, then she will never crave you erotically.

    • @jasmineali5699
      @jasmineali5699 3 роки тому +23

      Exactly. They feel entitled to attractive, social women. Porn makes it worse because they watch "attractive" women having sex and think they have a chance. A man reason why porn shouldn't be watched by men.

  • @Soof.99
    @Soof.99 4 роки тому +2185

    the catfish guy really called a girl fat when he's out here catfishing people ?????? I-

    • @Heena6790
      @Heena6790 4 роки тому +312

      Not to mention the fact that he isn't skinny either.

    • @larazenobiademicoli607
      @larazenobiademicoli607 4 роки тому +153

      Yeah he’s definitely overweight

    • @Soof.99
      @Soof.99 4 роки тому +202

      Eliciel Cajigas having a preference is one thing and that’s fine but going out of ur way to catfish someone for no reason at all but to call them fat and ugly when ur also fat and ugly is sad and honestly a waste of space

    • @shravani5286
      @shravani5286 4 роки тому +119

      I think he's projecting his insecurity on her. Doesn't make it okay He's still a shitty person.

    • @SFab-xv2tt
      @SFab-xv2tt 4 роки тому +41

      What a loser lol he lives a terrible life

  • @volcel1986
    @volcel1986 Рік тому +18

    you cant escape the blackpill

    • @Rob8n_
      @Rob8n_ 12 днів тому

      Make sure that the blackpill collects you

  • @Amalineth
    @Amalineth 4 місяці тому +7

    You can become a former member of incel community, but could not become non-incel.

  • @Wearableputty
    @Wearableputty 4 роки тому +2348

    Lol “came about in the late 90s” please. These guys always existed it’s just now we have the internet so they can voice their opinions and we can hear them.

    • @lulu-vp2yc
      @lulu-vp2yc 4 роки тому +83

      @@blessedevelyn339 ok incel

    • @blessedevelyn339
      @blessedevelyn339 4 роки тому +45

      @@lulu-vp2yc You cannot shame me. I am already at the bottom of the barrel.

    • @blessedevelyn339
      @blessedevelyn339 4 роки тому +38

      @None-Of Your-Buisness No one knows I think like this in real life. I am happy and charming everywhere I go. No one suspects it.

    • @NightcrawlerXO
      @NightcrawlerXO 4 роки тому +57

      Anythingnew 2 they notice, that’s why you don’t have girls you like you back. Cuz they know your a creep

    • @klrn7869
      @klrn7869 4 роки тому +36

      @Joseph Bruh xD, you are really insecure arent you? Going just to insult womans because you cant get one and you are salty.

  • @AJManol
    @AJManol 4 роки тому +2296

    These guys seem to be profoundly entitled, whiny brats.

    • @AJManol
      @AJManol 4 роки тому +211

      Dark Abyss And the cure for that is being man enough to get outside, get a job, and stop leeching on others and wallowing in self pity.

    • @Lovelain777
      @Lovelain777 4 роки тому +83

      @Majin Gojira I feel like the main reason these incels couldn't find a partner is because they are so obsessed and focus too much time on their flaw and rejection that leads to them being more aggressive in wanting to be with a woman. And you add their disgusting view on woman on top of that. Yeah truth hurts HUMAN are attracted to attractive people but you can't blame someone else for your lack of understanding and ignorance on gender equality. Im not saying incel should go work out get a six pack and just bang any sex worker. No. It's abt finding your purpose in life. Get a job find a hobby do charity anything at all just be a normal human being and change their view on woman as maybe just maybe that's the biggest factor as to why it so hard for them to get one. At the end of the day we are all human. With the same need. Attention and affection.

    • @AJManol
      @AJManol 4 роки тому +36

      chirographum There’s actually a LOT you can do for your looks to improve them. Do you think Instagram models were born that hot?!

    • @AJManol
      @AJManol 4 роки тому +40

      Majin Gojira They “all have jobs”? Doubtful.
      If you’re just looking for a “hot chick to bang”, then yes, you must as be vapid, shallow and very attentive to your appearance like the girl who would get wasted and bang some guy behind a dumpster. Like attracts like.
      But if you’re just looking to get laid, maybe shoot for a girl in your own league?
      I know I’m not bagging a Chippendale model anytime soon. And I’m okay with that because I’m not willing to invest that much into my appearance to look like what that kind of guy is into.
      There are unavoidable hierarchies that have existed as long as there have been sentient beings. Pouting that they aren’t fair doesn’t change them.
      I’m reasonably attractive and men seem to like me. What I look for is stability, common sense, common interests, a sense of humor (especially about themselves), and the ability to earn at least as much as I do so I’m not supporting him. Basic reasonable stuff.

    • @CN-wt2bj
      @CN-wt2bj 4 роки тому +18

      Yeh of course it's always males that are to blame for everything.

  • @Jim90117
    @Jim90117 2 роки тому +48

    The problem with being an incel is one of values. You shouldn’t value a relationship to a point where it makes you severely depressed and/or homicidal, that to me clearly says you’re not happy with who you are as a person anyway. Work on yourself, improve your living situation, face some hard truths about life. It’s easy to play the victim, don’t do it.

    • @debunkingfaddiets
      @debunkingfaddiets Рік тому

      Hahahhaa try telling that to the modern women and their active massively endowed girth chumps who literally dedicate their entire existence to bullying, shaming, degrading, dividing, emasculating, dehumanizing and publically humiliating these men over everything from their penis size to sexual abilities to being virgins to how often they get laid/girlfriends blah blah blah.
      Then you's gaslight, project it back onto these men like why are these men so frustrated and pressured into getting laid before they are barely old enough to grow a beard?
      Surely its not because us modern women literally spend all day bullying these men for being virgins and branding them worthless derogatory terms like "Incel" small D losers based on things these men can never help or change about their bodies.

    • @debunkingfaddiets
      @debunkingfaddiets Рік тому

      Of course these men aren't happy with who they are lol
      They are literally being bullied 24/7 for their penis size by most modern women and their massively endowed girth chumps.
      Something you can never help or change about your body, then you's just gaslight when this dividing and dehumanization of men based on their penis size to sexual abilities results in suicidal mentally ill men.

    • @Mogger400
      @Mogger400 9 місяців тому +4

      Cope

    • @axstinbeats6655
      @axstinbeats6655 6 днів тому +1

      You can’t run from the black pill

    • @crustykeycap5670
      @crustykeycap5670 6 днів тому

      @@axstinbeats6655what does the black pill have to do with this comment

  • @SenorCinema
    @SenorCinema 2 роки тому +10

    Saying women are cruel and mean isn’t misogyny, it’s just an opinion

    • @penny4thought168
      @penny4thought168 2 роки тому +13

      No, that's misogyny. You're saying women are cruel because they're women, and no other factor. While it's an opinion, that is also misogyny.

    • @penny4thought168
      @penny4thought168 2 роки тому +2

      @Jimmy How old are you kid?

    • @penny4thought168
      @penny4thought168 Рік тому

      @Turtlebeachboy 47 Okay kid. Now get back to class.

    • @AMM-1817
      @AMM-1817 Місяць тому +2

      You’re saying someone is mean based on sex. That’s misogyny. It’d be an opinion if someone said “Cate is mean.”

  • @RhapsodicXStyle07
    @RhapsodicXStyle07 5 років тому +2008

    If the catfish guy had no problem with doing that stuff to random people then its no wonder why people don't like him.

    • @LaScorpious
      @LaScorpious 4 роки тому +131

      When he goes to jail he wont have the balls to fight with the other prisoners

    • @buddha5446
      @buddha5446 4 роки тому +62

      @@LaScorpious Yeah, because he'll have plenty clapping his cheeks.

    • @omosummer840
      @omosummer840 4 роки тому +11

      @@buddha5446 😂

    • @percycat213
      @percycat213 4 роки тому +94

      He sounds very emotionally stunted, like a 12 year old or something

    • @oil1252
      @oil1252 4 роки тому +6

      Because people hate even if he didn't do it

  • @tessmoney
    @tessmoney 3 роки тому +2354

    Children need to be taught healthy coping skills so they are able to process disappointment.

    • @mayfieldnorris4280
      @mayfieldnorris4280 2 роки тому +7

      What are these skills?

    • @ichoosemysanity6467
      @ichoosemysanity6467 2 роки тому +91

      Oh trust me my childhood was 80% disappointment I definitely have the skills.

    • @danwilliams2551
      @danwilliams2551 2 роки тому +83

      @@mayfieldnorris4280 So imagine someone you're not attracted to hits on you, and you turn them down. You don't expect to be responsible to for their hurt feelings, right?

    • @snowforest6487
      @snowforest6487 2 роки тому +34

      @@danwilliams2551 we also need to teach females to be more open too, even some female matchmakers quit matchmaking because they couldn't handle the obscure standards of women, we need to teach men to be able to handle rejection and teach women to be open minded

    • @Red-yy3gz
      @Red-yy3gz 2 роки тому +140

      @@snowforest6487 no we don’t, just teach people to handle rejection.

  • @tammysclips
    @tammysclips Рік тому +71

    Normal people can accept rejection. It's part of life. We've all been attracted to someone who wasn't attracted to us or wanted a job that we didn't get. These men scare the hell out of me! There's more to this than not getting laid something very dark.

    • @MyDuckSaysFucc
      @MyDuckSaysFucc Рік тому +5

      Exactly. What scares me is the wildly successful content creators here on UA-cam and other platforms that directly cater to people like this - mentally ill who could go off at any time. You can even see it in this comment section. Men generalizing about women, men demanding attention and sex from women, or else they will get violent. Extremely scary, makes me not want to date.

    • @TheWho58
      @TheWho58 Рік тому +1

      People with autism are not normal

    • @ineedaname8250
      @ineedaname8250 Рік тому

      You’re wrong. That’s all there is to life. Having children. If I can’t have children and pass down my genes, then I am biologically a failure.

    • @debunkingfaddiets
      @debunkingfaddiets Рік тому +1

      We all experience rejection and arent everyones cup of tea.
      The difference is, especially in the past 5-10 years, you modern women and toxic feminism want to infest society with dehumanizing rhetoric rejecting, bullying, body shaming, emasculating, dehumanizing, dividing and publically humiliating these men based on things they cant even help about their bodies from penis size/girth has to be this minimum size now, height has to be over 6ft, ohh but I can overlook height a little bit if you are a "short king who is packing heat downstairs", but if you are a 5 foot "short king" who isn't packing heat downstairs then you're back to being a worthless loser, I overlook and reject, no matter how nice your personality is, blah blah insert toxic average womens mentality.
      You women scare the hell out of me, how yous have managed to normalize and make this culture of bullying, shaming, dividing and judging/grading the entire male genders value and worth based on their penis size to sexual abilities/prowess
      Then expect this bullying, disenfranchisement not to result in mental illness, body dysmorphic disorder etc.
      From the same gender who can't barely handle minute inert body related comments like being told they have too much make up on, thats traumatizing and can cause eating disorders, body dysmorphic disorder in women, but hey these women penis size shaming you publically to all their friends isn't dehumanizing or bad for mens mental health lol

    • @debunkingfaddiets
      @debunkingfaddiets Рік тому +1

      Theres more to getting laid, says women who bully men for being virgins and right down to being "involuntarily celibate". Branding them losers for this.
      How the hell women and toxic feminism has managed to achieve bullying men for something so outright ridiculous is absolutely warped.
      But then its par for the course with women bullying and shaming men for things they can't help, penis size shaming is another key integral component of this "incel"/below average male shaming rhetoric as we see everywhere these days.
      If you were a male sitting churning out non stop breast size shaming rhetoric, you'd be instantly branded a misogynist and cancelled, yet these women are encouraged, validated, egged on to penis size shame the next poor below average bloke in the social group all over a group snapchat just to devalue and drive these men to frustrated body dysmorphic socially isolated mental illness all because ohh i'm sorry these men don't have big enough penises or girth to appease the majority of you soulless penis size obsessed modern women lol

  • @deonambrose
    @deonambrose 2 роки тому +15

    I applaud these Men for leaving the Incel community.

    • @babalarassrah
      @babalarassrah 2 роки тому +8

      and being a member of simp community

    • @claireelizabeth9431
      @claireelizabeth9431 2 роки тому +5

      @@babalarassrah Treating women as real people doesn't make you a simp lol. A simp is someone who places women on pedestals and treats them like goddesses

    • @deonambrose
      @deonambrose 2 роки тому +5

      @@babalarassrah You don't have to be a "Simp" to get a woman. If you believe that treating women badly will make them gravitate towards you, I disagree.

    • @homosapien2332
      @homosapien2332 2 роки тому

      @@claireelizabeth9431 They left and became validation seekers from mainstream media.

    • @claireelizabeth9431
      @claireelizabeth9431 2 роки тому

      @@homosapien2332 Lmao incels are the most desperate for validation simps I've ever seen 😂

  • @JoeyJ0J0
    @JoeyJ0J0 5 років тому +2380

    Its nice to have a group to talk to but these groups just make you feel more lonely and angry. Glad I got out

    • @cootermonger
      @cootermonger 5 років тому +348

      Good for you I hope you will find happiness

    • @balenciagalifestyle2361
      @balenciagalifestyle2361 5 років тому +11

      Brian, lol 😂!

    • @JoeyJ0J0
      @JoeyJ0J0 5 років тому +444

      @@goldenboy06 I had it a few times this year I guess, Even if I didn't it wouldn't matter, Incel is a mental state, you can be a virgin and not an incel

    • @PakoVero
      @PakoVero 5 років тому +77

      @@JoeyJ0J0 Yes, and you can eat meat and be a vegan

    • @goldenboy06
      @goldenboy06 5 років тому +37

      Joey JoJo ummm no it’s a state of being...not a state of mind or an ideology.

  • @darksideofthemood
    @darksideofthemood 3 роки тому +869

    what bugs me i that most of these guys don't look bad at all. they're regular folks i'm sure lots of girls would find attractive if they were not stuck in this toxic mindset they suffer with.

    • @ezra5788
      @ezra5788 3 роки тому +48

      They are low testosterone beta males who are addicted to pornography and basically have no life. Not many girls would be attracted to guys like that.

    • @sofiaguerrero0969
      @sofiaguerrero0969 3 роки тому +130

      It doesn’t matter if the incels are attractive. As soon as they start referring to other guys as “chads” and talking about shaving their jaws and noses and obsess over male celebrities because they want to be them, you see their true colors. It’s terrifying- I’m glad they’re not in a relationship lol

    • @Luckelux
      @Luckelux 3 роки тому +31

      They are men and women who don't understand women and women incels who don't understand men. They are very impatient people who don't know that self awareness is the key to dating.

    • @paulameninato8948
      @paulameninato8948 3 роки тому +107

      The issue is they want girls that look like models when they're just average-looking.

    • @JohnDoe-ct2sr
      @JohnDoe-ct2sr 3 роки тому +26

      That just shows how high women standards are you cant even be an average looking guy nowadays

  • @chuckcochran462
    @chuckcochran462 Рік тому +30

    Don’t be a free agent in life. Let the blackpill guide you.

    • @NovasDrenn
      @NovasDrenn Рік тому +7

      @guzmedu to nobody liking you

    • @chillout8320
      @chillout8320 11 місяців тому +2

      @@guzmeduto the truth

    • @LegiuneaAM
      @LegiuneaAM 10 місяців тому

      if we all followed the blackpill logic the human race would not continue

    • @mrfake675
      @mrfake675 9 місяців тому

      Satan = black pill

    • @frankc3080
      @frankc3080 7 місяців тому

      ​​@@chillout8320chuck and chillout, you know what your missing in your life?BALLS. I bet there are several dudes in the world that look just like wlliot and alek can get girls and dates cause they took the initiative and tried and failed till they succeeded
      The black pill is lazy, excuses and self absorbed
      How do you turn these lovable losers into Casanova? Whoever can do that I'm sure he does or can earn a fortune off it.. literally can change many lonely bros lives. But I think these are 1 percent bros like the tim grovers or dan penas

  • @GigachadVTuberEnjoyer
    @GigachadVTuberEnjoyer Рік тому +24

    I like how the normie news calls "incels" as if they are talking about al quada

    • @geraldtherat618
      @geraldtherat618 Рік тому +17

      Yes, it is pretty sad. Since most violence is committed by chads and normies.

  • @cocogomez2278
    @cocogomez2278 4 роки тому +3641

    My heart and prayers go out to the father who lost his daughter Katie.

    • @plnbdy
      @plnbdy 4 роки тому +39

      Agreed there.

    • @catwin7061
      @catwin7061 4 роки тому +144

      And mother

    • @Gelato41_
      @Gelato41_ 4 роки тому +36

      Soemone had to pay....

    • @fastandy9
      @fastandy9 4 роки тому +150

      @@shannondove96 you need help shannon

    • @LaScorpious
      @LaScorpious 4 роки тому +89

      @@shannondove96 shut up incel crybaby

  • @dianatorralbo7690
    @dianatorralbo7690 4 роки тому +688

    Have they ever considered being a decent guy just for the sake of it despite of women rejection?

    • @alex-rs6ts
      @alex-rs6ts 4 роки тому +44

      We live in a capitalistic world based on competition where the rewards are everything. We don't do ANYTHING "for the sake of it".

    • @dianatorralbo7690
      @dianatorralbo7690 4 роки тому +126

      @@alex-rs6ts Being nice and kind it's free, and helps to wash your spirit from resentment. Deep in our hearts we are still those little kids that just wanna play and have fun with the others. When you spread kindness you vibe better with the world.

    • @sylvanathornton2119
      @sylvanathornton2119 4 роки тому +46

      Yeah, no. That would require some actual effort. Being a decent human being...what are you thinking? lol.

    • @cameronvadnais4388
      @cameronvadnais4388 3 роки тому +27

      Hate heals. Keep your peace love and b.s. to yourself.

    • @adenishola144
      @adenishola144 3 роки тому +2

      Nooooooooo I've nvr been nice.....I've just been mean to every women I've met....

  • @aroundthebout
    @aroundthebout 4 місяці тому +5

    He wanted his 15 seconds of fame and he got it. Now nobody could care less about this guy.

    • @j.d.s.8132
      @j.d.s.8132 3 місяці тому +3

      Exactly. Ratted out his own community that cared about him for people that hate him.

    • @Randomlad56
      @Randomlad56 13 днів тому

      @@j.d.s.8132 Such is the fate of a snake, skinned and turnt into the boot that stomps on their former brethren, a sad fate indeed, the one they chose! 😆

  • @martyjohnston397
    @martyjohnston397 2 роки тому +34

    Scary. People need to find love for themselves. Plenty of fascinating and fun things to experience in this world. If your entire life is built around what a person thinks about you then I feel terrible for you.

    • @thesunisbright
      @thesunisbright 4 місяці тому

      master is the owner of the incels website. he is being investigated by the police. stay away from that forum its nothing but trouble.

  • @Nehway
    @Nehway 4 роки тому +1027

    I remember some “incel” responding to a UA-cam comment I made on a self love video. He was saying that I was no more than a 5-7, how my jaw was short, my chin was “bad”, how I wouldn’t stand out at all; I didn't even ask. Take your insecurities to a therapist and stop hurting other people.
    *Edit:* there are angry incels in this thread scroll while u can.
    *Edit 2:* The comment I made was in response to Breeny Lee, the UA-camr, asking us to rate the quality of our *LIVES* on a scale from 1-10. I rated my *LIFE* a solid 8 because while I'm doing fine, I could be living better. The incel took it upon himself to downgrade and equate the rating of my life to the rating of my looks, including the unwarranted criticism, when that wasn't even the point of the exercise to begin with.
    To the people coming for and insulting my appearance, refer to the last sentence of my first paragraph.

    • @AmandaFromWisconsin
      @AmandaFromWisconsin 4 роки тому +310

      I don't understand the whole numerical ranking system for women. I mean, it's all so subjective, anyway. A woman that's stunning to one man might be just average to another.

    • @michaelmcgurk4163
      @michaelmcgurk4163 4 роки тому +59

      nehway I know right those people no right to judge normal people

    • @clintostwald435
      @clintostwald435 4 роки тому +133

      Your face is beautiful and you have beautiful big cheekbones

    • @Dan-sn5wv
      @Dan-sn5wv 4 роки тому +84

      My nigga clintostwald trying to get some poontang in the comment section.

    • @radicalman6972
      @radicalman6972 4 роки тому +40

      nehway people who are like that end up paying by karma I knew this one guy who has super racist and he would be racist about the color of my skin and he was a gay closeted overweight coward who would trash people for feeling proud about their appearance

  • @Ifollowrivers
    @Ifollowrivers 4 роки тому +545

    Right, so incels kinda forget that there might be girls out there that are interested in them (without their knowledge), but they're too self-absorbed to notice.

    • @oaksessence
      @oaksessence 4 роки тому +90

      Nah...they firmly believe that any woman that could be intetested in them is at least two points uglier than them and hence worthless, according to the scale they use to rate everyone. Because woman have "high stansards".They can ' t even see the simple truth that in many couples the woman is the good looking one.

    • @kalevquigley5686
      @kalevquigley5686 4 роки тому +2

      Aye long live O' Niels!

    • @nittyfrog7576
      @nittyfrog7576 4 роки тому +26

      lmao i call bullshit, how am i self absorbed if i think that no girl is interested in me due to my looks? this is just honestly not being self absorbed

    • @chriswendi3825
      @chriswendi3825 4 роки тому +27

      nitty frog because it might not be your looks, bud. Most times they focus on superficial/physical properties too much rather than their personality. Sure, looks do play a part in finding a partner and anyone who says otherwise is simply wrong but it doesn’t play as big of a part as many incels believe it is

    • @Ifollowrivers
      @Ifollowrivers 4 роки тому +55

      @@nittyfrog7576 I feel like incels focus WAY too much on looks. You only like Stacys and you think that anyone who's not a Stacy is ugly. You're basically hypocrites.

  • @luisarnold3454
    @luisarnold3454 2 роки тому +41

    I read somewhere that incels are typically those who had a bad relationship with their mothers. Which, if you hear this anywhere, you should ignore it. These men are not victims, as a dude who had an abusive mother, and no longer speaks to her, it does not result in that mentality. These men were taught from an early age that they can get whatever they want, that women are there to serve them and if they don't get what they want or a woman denies them, it results in the whole "nice guy" personality showing. Now they can break free from this, but many choose not to because then they have to deal with the fact that its not a fault of the women for not liking them, it's their own personality that's at fault. And it's easier to just put the blame on something else.

    • @dragonfox2.058
      @dragonfox2.058 2 роки тому +3

      Flat out malignant narcissists

    • @dragonfox2.058
      @dragonfox2.058 2 роки тому +1

      @Ryzø not so...all yer doing is WAAAAAH. Grow up! drop the "froids" thing might help

    • @justawlwwholikesshygirls5704
      @justawlwwholikesshygirls5704 2 роки тому

      @Ryzø agreed but. It doesn't mean you won't ever get a girl. Sure, level based attraction exists. People are attracted to hot people. They don't fall in love.
      Stop hating your own damn face and height, and start being a functional human being

    • @time8745
      @time8745 2 роки тому +2

      Thankyou so much , this is one of the very few comments I have found that actually points the finger on these incels .

    • @omgimover4075
      @omgimover4075 Рік тому +4

      That’s exactly what I was thinking. That these men were over coddled or spoiled by their mothers but reality hit them like a ton of bricks when they became adults. The world doesn’t work that way & you can’t have everything you want. So in essence rejection is something they can’t handle because they never had to deal with it before.

  • @draketheblackpillerrobinso3334
    @draketheblackpillerrobinso3334 2 роки тому +11

    Er was a victim of this cruel world and was the one and only victim on that day.

  • @royjones8312
    @royjones8312 4 роки тому +837

    Girls like it when you're not weird, and referring to oneself as an " Involuntary Celibate" is just weird. As is going online to complain about it; just stop being a weirdo.

    • @nomansson4628
      @nomansson4628 4 роки тому +10

      Stop assuming. That stuff wasny even around when he did this

    • @irene5298
      @irene5298 4 роки тому +79

      Ikr just put in some effort not to be a lonely creep

    • @christinamcclurg2951
      @christinamcclurg2951 4 роки тому +5

      Nicely put Roy. I agree.

    • @tonybalony1811
      @tonybalony1811 4 роки тому +12

      No Man's Son The point still stands you weirdo.

    • @ih8foids932
      @ih8foids932 4 роки тому +29

      Girls like it when you're hot.

  • @tytytut435
    @tytytut435 3 роки тому +412

    This lockdown made me understand why human can behave like that. Loneliness combined with self hatred is a recipe for disaster.

    • @Exiria
      @Exiria 3 роки тому +29

      Get help

    • @Rob-ws2kh
      @Rob-ws2kh 3 роки тому +11

      @@lustrousandlovely6847 you really aren’t very smart are you

    • @playboyclabi4634
      @playboyclabi4634 2 роки тому +5

      seek help you sicko You dont see people going out shooting each others cause its lockdowns nor for any other reasons either. Truly are some monsters out there

    • @Andrea-qx8pq
      @Andrea-qx8pq 2 роки тому +4

      Same. The lockdown almost turned me into a seria killer.

    • @tytytut435
      @tytytut435 2 роки тому +7

      @@playboyclabi4634 nahh I’m good now that lockdown ended, but I felt a glimpse of what maybe caused some people to act like a monster. I guess when it comes to insanity people have different thresholds, and those “monsters” have very low threshold.

  • @Pestbringer89
    @Pestbringer89 8 місяців тому +8

    The ADL is one of the least serious organisations out there and should never be asked about a topic.

  • @anthia1156
    @anthia1156 3 роки тому +61

    I am a woman and maybe now at 46, I am considered by many as "being old", but I am genuinely confused by this. In my experience becoming an adult during the crazy 90s, it was known and understood amongst us girls that looks for a guy were definitely secondary to: fun to hung out with, trustworthy, able to hold a conversation, a bit adventurous, having dreams etc
    I don't know what happened in the meantime and we now have all these young men (and many quite fine looking in my opinion) who believe they are not desirable or not worthy. I wonder if they stay online all day and night and they hate remotely on situations and people they haven't even tried. Have they put themselves out there? Have they understood that working on your personality is the best way to everything: a good woman, a good job, a loving social network?

    • @hj-xb2tr
      @hj-xb2tr 2 роки тому +3

      I'm also 46 and feel that this was always an issue (like so many other areas of life, you just see SO much more of it since the internet age). But it's probably getting worse, because the reliance on digital communication is going to make young guys even less experienced w/ real world communication....not just with women they're interested in, but with everyone. And that'll make it that much more difficult to become socially adept it. For those of us who aren't "naturals" in this area (and most guys aren't), it is vital to be around people enough to learn how to handle these situations. Dating and otherwise

    • @samstarba4569
      @samstarba4569 2 роки тому +3

      I have a more physiological take on this: Nowadays, people spend a lot time in front of their computers and phones, and do not have enough of exercise. This can mess up sleeping, eating, hormones etc., and consequently lead to feelings of depression, fatigue, and unattractiveness.
      Furthermore, men's testosterone levels are all time low in Western countries. Having low testosterone levels tend to cause low mood and insecurity in men.
      So basically many young men (and women) feel unattractive, and act accordingly around people which makes others view them negatively - and the cycle continues.
      I have personally met many guys who look and seem nice but don't have any "fire" or interest in their eyes. They looked like extras from Walking Dead.
      It's hard to get interested in a man who doesn't seem confident and interested himself.

    • @anthia1156
      @anthia1156 2 роки тому +1

      @@samstarba4569 you are absolutely right! Everything goes down to science eventually and it is well known that habits can alter physiology and vice versa.

    • @st4r444
      @st4r444 2 роки тому +3

      The 90s. Where people used to be open to talk to eachothers and be freiends because there's no internet or social media or smart phones. No one had high standards or worried about 6 figures, 6ft, 6 packs. Just good behavior and genuine

    • @st4r444
      @st4r444 2 роки тому +3

      @@samstarba4569 why do you have to be outgoing, fit and exercise? What's wrong with someone being out of shape?

  • @fabriceizzo2922
    @fabriceizzo2922 4 роки тому +834

    They tend to feel entitled to the most unrealistically perfect women in the world.
    When you hear them describe the type of women they are looking for, you will be like "dude, really?"

    • @HalaXxMe
      @HalaXxMe 4 роки тому +183

      Cause they never have been with a real woman, they just see them in movies lol

    • @zuhairreza
      @zuhairreza 4 роки тому +28

      On point!

    • @rabbitx7638
      @rabbitx7638 4 роки тому +32

      Fabrice Izzo Women do the same also.

    • @v1nigra3
      @v1nigra3 4 роки тому +6

      Isn’t that like every woman??

    • @S_T_fania
      @S_T_fania 4 роки тому +71

      @@v1nigra3 not really more not at all
      they are far more many attractive women with "unattractive men" than vice versa

  • @ellaella5537
    @ellaella5537 4 роки тому +820

    My goodness, that poor father. Yes, her death most likely saved many other deaths.

  • @mikioni
    @mikioni Рік тому +44

    Chad = good personality
    ugly man = bad personality

    • @NBackTA
      @NBackTA Рік тому +12

      Br°0øtal

    • @Randomlad56
      @Randomlad56 13 днів тому +1

      Shits brutal, but such is the life of an adventurer ☺️

  • @xyeB
    @xyeB Рік тому +13

    Fakecel paid actor

  • @someoneyouprobablyknowandl9964
    @someoneyouprobablyknowandl9964 3 роки тому +864

    Incel: Women reject us without even talking to us! If they'd only get to know ---
    Woman not conventionally good looking: Hey there...I think I actually like y--
    Incel: Ewwww, go away!

    • @someoneyouprobablyknowandl9964
      @someoneyouprobablyknowandl9964 3 роки тому +149

      @GAMP: Sicker than your average kigger nilller Oh please. Incels are nice guys with even more extreme issues.
      It isn't POSSIBLE that a person exists who can't get a date at ALL. There are people with fucking physical deformities who are getting dates.
      They aren't rejected because of anything but their personality.

    • @the-based-jew6872
      @the-based-jew6872 3 роки тому +58

      @@someoneyouprobablyknowandl9964 put down the blue pill son.

    • @user-zy4wv7yx1z
      @user-zy4wv7yx1z 3 роки тому +110

      @GAMP: Sicker than your average kigger nilller "many women are just broken" 😂 ok incel. If all the women appear broken, then that's because it's you pal, you're the problem here.

    • @sergeantmarbles7918
      @sergeantmarbles7918 3 роки тому +32

      @@the-based-jew6872 You’re not red pilled your just another Nice Guy.

    • @rossothecrimson7
      @rossothecrimson7 3 роки тому +104

      The incels came to your comment like moths to a flame.

  • @kendrabernot814
    @kendrabernot814 4 роки тому +1850

    God you can just see how broken that dad is. God bless his soul....

    • @KallusGarnet
      @KallusGarnet 4 роки тому +15

      yes the poor dad if only if he had an incel son all of this would have been avoided?

    • @empressqi1722
      @empressqi1722 4 роки тому +94

      @@KallusGarnet stfu you lowlife

    • @nathanheath1328
      @nathanheath1328 4 роки тому +2

      Agreed

    • @sanignacio1999
      @sanignacio1999 4 роки тому +4

      good dads raise no thots lmfao

    • @acidFreak420
      @acidFreak420 4 роки тому +34

      That's why never make fun of people who cannot find partners. Don't date someone you don't like but just don't make fun of them or insult them. It may cost life of innocent people.

  • @mjallen1308
    @mjallen1308 3 роки тому +42

    When I was in middle and high school, kids and girls made fun of me, called me names, called me ugly, told me no one would ever want to be with me at all - even as an adult it’s still something I struggle with. Ppl wonder why I’m self conscious about my looks. I’ve never been violent towards anyone or mean towards anyone. I get along with everyone. I don’t get what violence or killing ppl solves. I’ve been in relationships and I’ve been married, but I still struggle with being self conscious about my looks. It’s awkward for me to receive compliments from others and I don’t believe them or I feel like they’re just lying, trying to make me feel better. But at the end of the day, killing someone else isn’t going to fix that problem. What kills me is some of these guys are not only attractive but they’re white on top of that. I get where they’re coming from but some of them I don’t. I know what it’s like to be rejected, to be the butt of jokes, to wish that I was better looking - but none of those things could ever culminate in violence bc what does it solve? All of those same feelings will still be there the next day but I’ll be in jail.

    • @Leverett946
      @Leverett946 2 роки тому +3

      It’s not only rejection they have superiority complex

    • @chrisbrown-jw4ce
      @chrisbrown-jw4ce 2 роки тому +2

      I am not sure why you feel so self conscious about your looks and maybe it is some of the earlier bullying or issues that has not resolved, I have had issues due to childhood trauma and for years I felt like everyone was faking when they were nice to me or friendly but it is really from within or how you feel about yourself I still have some work to do but am sure one day as I improve I will believe how people respond to me also.

    • @silvermochi3273
      @silvermochi3273 Рік тому +1

      Control 😢

    • @normanbell-br7nf
      @normanbell-br7nf 10 місяців тому +1

      You're a thinker

    • @Mogger400
      @Mogger400 9 місяців тому

      @@Leverett946 Not really they have inferiority complex. Subhuman mindset.

  • @charlescoleman5509
    @charlescoleman5509 3 роки тому +17

    Love the father. Really appreciate his rationalizing of an irrational situation.

  • @brittanyv6594
    @brittanyv6594 4 роки тому +548

    PSA: NO ONE IS ENTITLED TO WOMEN'S (OR ANYONE'S) ATTENTION, SEXUALITY, OR LOVE.

    • @Xcoming2
      @Xcoming2 3 роки тому +44

      but women are entitled to a man's bank account.

    • @pepsicxla
      @pepsicxla 3 роки тому +75

      @@Xcoming2 y'all see men who think their wealth is all they're worth surrounded by gold diggers and blame the whole population of women. you do realize there are deadbeat and gold digging men too, right?

    • @dudethisusername7285
      @dudethisusername7285 3 роки тому +23

      @Eliciel Cajigas jesus christ u r sad

    • @user-zy4wv7yx1z
      @user-zy4wv7yx1z 3 роки тому +26

      @@Xcoming2 Who said that? You're just another incel making stuff up.

    • @user-zy4wv7yx1z
      @user-zy4wv7yx1z 3 роки тому +37

      @@dudethisusername7285 sad indeed. If he used all this time working on his personality instead of hating women, maybe an actual woman would talk to him.

  • @fransmaroki
    @fransmaroki 3 роки тому +155

    i am pretty ugly also, id rather be alone forever, then feel entitled for someone to pick me or hurt or act people because they chose not too, listening to that father who doesn't have a daughter anymore breaks my heart.

    • @mechanicalengineerturbo
      @mechanicalengineerturbo 3 роки тому +20

      How many people died in that shooting? 4 men and 2 women. Who are remembered? Just one fucking girl. What about the boys killed? Nothing. That shows you the anti-male bias in the mainstream media. I just think that this too much drama just for sex. Hell, pay for an escort and be done with it. You get a chick you want and can bang her however you want. Why settle for a relationship then?

    • @peaxhes4487
      @peaxhes4487 3 роки тому +34

      @@mechanicalengineerturbo NO ONE ASKED NO ONE

    • @mechanicalengineerturbo
      @mechanicalengineerturbo 3 роки тому +12

      @@peaxhes4487 Can you refute my point?

    • @peaxhes4487
      @peaxhes4487 3 роки тому +29

      @@mechanicalengineerturbo YES I CAN I JUST DON'T CARE ABOUT YOUR OPINION ENOUGH JUST STOP BEING NEGATIVE

    • @cometcore9821
      @cometcore9821 3 роки тому +10

      @@peaxhes4487 reeeeeeeeeeee

  • @WHATISUTUBE
    @WHATISUTUBE 8 місяців тому +7

    >former member
    so he had sex?

  • @Aeternum_Gaming
    @Aeternum_Gaming 2 місяці тому +4

    all i ever wanted was to feel loved. i wanted human connection. i didn't ask to be ostracized, and demonized by society simply because im not 6 feet tall, 6 figure income, and 6 inches. men are tired of being lonely. all i ever wanted was a family to protect, and provide for. yet society says *I'M THE EVIL ONE*

  • @ireallydontknow8616
    @ireallydontknow8616 5 років тому +399

    I think it quite ironic that the catfish guy is getting revenge on girls because they don't like him only they are really are not going to like him when they find out he did some shit like this

    • @frankiel3767
      @frankiel3767 4 роки тому +17

      Well if they won’t like him either way, he may as well get something out of it like some cat fishing humor

    • @JoinTheProgress
      @JoinTheProgress 4 роки тому +3

      +ireallydont know Its actually very fulfilling and does entertain the rest of the incel community that thrives on it, quite a bit. It's a form of karmic justice, not sure why you can't see that.

    • @CassidyStarke
      @CassidyStarke 4 роки тому +60

      Join The Progress
      Karma on women who did nothing to him?
      He called a woman who didn’t do anything fat but cries when women won’t date him.....?

    • @CassidyStarke
      @CassidyStarke 4 роки тому +9

      Join The Progress
      Hmm wonder why🤔

    • @AmandaFromWisconsin
      @AmandaFromWisconsin 4 роки тому +17

      Join The Progress - You’re an idiot.

  • @greg2961
    @greg2961 4 роки тому +506

    The father is a truly decent man. He doesn't want revenge. He shows empathy and compassion to his daughters killer. The world would be a much better place if their were more people like him.

    • @gersonencarnacion3744
      @gersonencarnacion3744 3 роки тому +32

      He cant seek revenge because her daughters killer commited suicide after the shooting spree but yeah I think he would still react the same if the killer was still alive.

    • @shurik3nz346
      @shurik3nz346 3 роки тому +52

      Murderer: I killed 69 people
      Judge: nice. I forgive you. I’m compassionate.

    • @justanotheryoutubecomment3558
      @justanotheryoutubecomment3558 3 роки тому +10

      I think he’s angry and turning that anger into productivity

    • @takeemout4357
      @takeemout4357 3 роки тому +9

      No I think in some circumstances it would be worse because then people wouldn’t feel any repercussions.

    • @user-qr6sl8zd4j
      @user-qr6sl8zd4j 2 роки тому +5

      @@shurik3nz346 you are misinterperting what someone means by compassion/forgiveness

  • @why4299
    @why4299 Рік тому +16

    This makes me so sad for young people. Especially women.

    • @debanikgoswami4834
      @debanikgoswami4834 Рік тому +5

      I used to be an incel. I work quite hard to improve my social skills and made a lot of friends .

  • @asthenamesuggests9513
    @asthenamesuggests9513 3 роки тому +9

    What's so sad is they literally make an identity of their inability to get laid, as if it was the only good thing on earth. They failed to see most people who have relationships or get laid on regular basis are not even focused on getting laid. These people have jobs, hobbies, and more importantly, LIFE.

  • @kevinrby1982
    @kevinrby1982 5 років тому +812

    WTF!! The 'catfish guy' is deeply disturbing. I work with students who have ED (emotional disorders). He need a Emergency Evaluation before his verbal harassment becomes physical and violent.

    • @sneedfeed3179
      @sneedfeed3179 5 років тому +14

      Brandon ahahahahhaha

    • @ddgslegs2606
      @ddgslegs2606 5 років тому +10

      @@sneedfeed3179 He was funny asf

    • @sharongibson3673
      @sharongibson3673 5 років тому +26

      The cat fish is a waste man , he needs reabilitation

    • @aparnarajesh
      @aparnarajesh 5 років тому +1

      @@sharongibson3673 if catfish guy humiliated someone's girlfriend or sister, men will exposed catfish guy's identity to pubic

    • @balenciagalifestyle2361
      @balenciagalifestyle2361 5 років тому +5

      Brandi not true! The only way one will think it stand for erectile dysfunction is if they have erectile dysfunction!😉 so it seems that instead of making comments on UA-cam you need to go to a doctor and see why you can’t get your shit to stay up! Then wonder why your an incel, but can’t even please a women! Grow up your comment was unnecessary! First thing ED stands for in normal people’s mind is Emotional Disorders!

  • @teamcoalhapcharcoal
    @teamcoalhapcharcoal 3 роки тому +640

    Some people just refuse to accept responsibility for themselves. It's so much easier to point the finger than it is to assess yourself honestly and change for the better.

    • @bikeshop2002
      @bikeshop2002 2 роки тому +24

      I don't think everything that happens in life is 100% under one's own control. I think there's value to voicing anger at specific things that are wrong with society. The problem is, they do nothing to help change or improve the system. They're just bitter that they're not on top of the existing pyramid.

    • @GaryHighFruit
      @GaryHighFruit 2 роки тому +13

      "Some people just refuse to accept responsibility for themselves."
      ... and remember to keep the focus on men.

    • @jonathanv5171
      @jonathanv5171 2 роки тому +1

      So you should be responsible for yourself regardless of whether these people can not? Sex is not like, for example, those who drive a car for all people should be responsible from the beginning for their life for sex and it is not possible to opt out of it like those who do not drive a car, for example. The responsibility for driving a car come after these people can handle it and if they also have chosen it

    • @mreis221
      @mreis221 2 роки тому +4

      THIS

    • @ryandeschanel6925
      @ryandeschanel6925 2 роки тому +3

      Plastic surgery is pretty expensive, though.

  • @froggo7215
    @froggo7215 3 роки тому +15

    You know it's easier to learn how to dress and look attractive and working on your behaviours rather than Killing people. Killing other people doesn't solve your problem. It doesn't even help w your anger.

    • @jeremys3951
      @jeremys3951 2 роки тому +2

      Lmao dressing nice won’t make an ugly guy get laid

    • @froggo7215
      @froggo7215 2 роки тому

      @@jeremys3951 well this people believe girls go with nicely dressed and fit men, and I say so do it. Clothes aren't in genes.

    • @scifirealism5943
      @scifirealism5943 2 роки тому +1

      If that was true I wouldn't be a virgin at 27.

    • @homosapien2332
      @homosapien2332 2 роки тому

      @@scifirealism5943 True, these fucking people are fucking laughable.

    • @aproudhater9158
      @aproudhater9158 Рік тому +1

      It's the same women who term us incels reject us every moment at times, continuosly making fun of boys beacause of his laugh, personality, hygeine, looks will end up making him like this and then u gonna cry fr

  • @rolf.m.h.5560
    @rolf.m.h.5560 2 роки тому +12

    It has something to do with early childhood, not with being unappealing to women. There are many men which are not handsom, but don't hate women, even if they find it hard to get a girlfriend. An overgrown sense of rejection in the infancy which hasn't been rectified later on might explain it.

  • @tukkerbear
    @tukkerbear 4 роки тому +434

    Self-pity and deflected blame.

    • @hankhill7780
      @hankhill7780 4 роки тому +4

      Guinea pig

    • @beanieman7138
      @beanieman7138 3 роки тому

      Hmm strange country🤔

    • @controlmore8618
      @controlmore8618 3 роки тому +4

      @@tromboner6061 feminism is not about victimhood. It's about realising that you're in an abusive relationship with the society. It's about consciousness. How would you go about defending yourself if you didn't even know you're being fucked in the ass? Being conscious is not victimhood. Feminism is about power.
      Far left progressive feminists aren't feminists.

    • @controlmore8618
      @controlmore8618 3 роки тому +5

      @@tromboner6061 you've never read a single piece of classic feminist literature. Can't judge what you don't know. Probably never even spoke to a feminist. So what's your point? What do you judge, media coverage?

    • @tromboner6061
      @tromboner6061 3 роки тому

      @@controlmore8618 "You are with an abusive relationship with the society"!!!
      Yea that speaks a lot about what feminism is about.
      Thanks. Ppl like you just concrete my beliefs

  • @game_theory2547
    @game_theory2547 5 років тому +448

    These young men value the opinions of women way too much.

    • @peng2621
      @peng2621 5 років тому +13

      GAME_ THEORY got nothing else

    • @balenciagalifestyle2361
      @balenciagalifestyle2361 5 років тому +44

      Because that’s what most “boys” think that’s what life is all about!

    • @jillh7934
      @jillh7934 5 років тому +33

      Bob Smith a "catastrophe??". The real crisis is 3 women a day being killed by men in this country. A pregnant womans number 1 cause of death is murder by her male partner! Thats insane and unacceptable

    • @jobwesleycoxjr5103
      @jobwesleycoxjr5103 5 років тому +5

      @Bob Smith that isn't it. That's more your personal problem

    • @jobwesleycoxjr5103
      @jobwesleycoxjr5103 5 років тому

      @@jillh7934 exactly!

  • @12345heyden
    @12345heyden 3 роки тому +75

    Why don’t incels just get into relationships with other incels? Lol

    • @takeemout4357
      @takeemout4357 3 роки тому +18

      It’s mainly all men.

    • @gerald1495
      @gerald1495 3 роки тому +2

      hilarious.

    • @pt6731
      @pt6731 2 роки тому +3

      @@takeemout4357 how about that femcel reddit post lol fds

    • @arjunnair6023
      @arjunnair6023 2 роки тому

      Incels won't date someone with low enough standard to date other incels.

    • @scifirealism5943
      @scifirealism5943 2 роки тому

      Because incels are all men.

  • @JohnYoungcook72
    @JohnYoungcook72 Рік тому +13

    Dude isn't even an incel. They just paid an ugly guy and gave him a script jfl

  • @braindead2828
    @braindead2828 3 роки тому +191

    Catfish boy: girls never want to go out with me and I have no clue why
    Also catfish boy: *calls girls fat and catfishes them for no good reason*

    • @bichnga9955
      @bichnga9955 3 роки тому +3

      he proved the true nature of women

    • @MrCmon113
      @MrCmon113 3 роки тому

      Spanning the cart before the horse...

    • @gauravtributes5023
      @gauravtributes5023 3 роки тому +5

      Your username suits you.

    • @bichnga9955
      @bichnga9955 3 роки тому

      @Godded Modded hypergamy

    • @voltinator
      @voltinator 3 роки тому +1

      Your example doesn't make sense. The behavior was due to being rejected by the attractive girls. It's not his behavior that was rejected in the first place.

  • @1stwonder788
    @1stwonder788 3 роки тому +320

    We’ve always had incels, they were just called Serial Killers

    • @anonymousperson8301
      @anonymousperson8301 3 роки тому +38

      Ted Bundy was actually quite the ladies' man.

    • @jasonlee6227
      @jasonlee6227 3 роки тому +43

      I think that's a serious exaggeration. Most incels are not serial killers.

    • @rickmortar7886
      @rickmortar7886 3 роки тому +37

      No, serial killers were often charismatic and likable. That's why people were lured in. Incels, on the other hand, have a repelling quality.

    • @theheartbreakkid783
      @theheartbreakkid783 3 роки тому +3

      I haven't killed anyone

    • @Cbd_7ohm
      @Cbd_7ohm 3 роки тому +1

      No idiot.

  • @RandomGuy-yi2ym
    @RandomGuy-yi2ym Рік тому +7

    Stop calling yourself a man if you can't handle rejection

  • @arjunnair6023
    @arjunnair6023 2 роки тому +10

    You can never solve the incel problem, the way our society is setup nowdays. Incel population will keep growing more and more.
    It wasn't much of a problem in the past when arranged marriages were still a thing. But nowadays dating market is extremely skewed against Men. The only option to solve the incel problem is by creating some ultra realistic VR where incels can live a virtual fantasy life. You need to give these young men an outlet to let out thier frustration. And VR technology is something that can let them do it without hurting anyone and without being a danger to society or to themselves.

    • @penny4thought168
      @penny4thought168 2 роки тому

      That's pretty fucked up. Sounds like those men should be out in a mental hospital if they can't control their urges

  • @christinamcclurg2951
    @christinamcclurg2951 4 роки тому +1575

    My heart goes out to Katie's parents.

    • @oil1252
      @oil1252 4 роки тому +9

      Screw her parents

    • @strawberri_yogurt3240
      @strawberri_yogurt3240 4 роки тому +102

      oil screw you you disgusting human

    • @willowwhisps1339
      @willowwhisps1339 4 роки тому +75

      @@oil1252 I'm sorry you feel this way. I hope one day you can get the help you need. I hope one day you can find peace with yourself

    • @oil1252
      @oil1252 4 роки тому +12

      @@willowwhisps1339 and I hope that one day you will realize that the world isn't happiness and rainbows

    • @willowwhisps1339
      @willowwhisps1339 4 роки тому +78

      @@oil1252 the world is what you make it, that's the beauty of personal perception. It won't be happy all the time, but that doesn't mean you can't be an optimist. I think it's important to be happy with just yourself before you form romantic connections. If you ever need support I'm here. I've said it before, but I hope you are able to find the strength to get help and the peace to love yourself, even if there are people who don't. You deserve it.

  • @alexragas6818
    @alexragas6818 4 роки тому +211

    imagine hating women this much....

    • @beanieman7138
      @beanieman7138 3 роки тому +10

      Few generations ago, the world fought in the 2nd world war to stop the massacre for ideologies.
      This is when people got no more better reason to fight:

    • @anubisgod23
      @anubisgod23 3 роки тому +17

      Basically feminism for men ae

    • @bbytiia
      @bbytiia 3 роки тому +31

      @@anubisgod23 how small is your brain?

    • @user-zy4wv7yx1z
      @user-zy4wv7yx1z 3 роки тому +25

      @@anubisgod23 wrong, 100%. You clearly have 0 idea of what real feminism is. You sound like an incel youself

    • @anubisgod23
      @anubisgod23 3 роки тому +8

      @@user-zy4wv7yx1z Correct 100% actually. Not my fault you are too delusional to understand something so basic

  • @psychologyofwellness1917
    @psychologyofwellness1917 9 місяців тому +8

    I went through a severe depressive period in my life back in 2016 and 2017, and it brought my awareness of being single front and centre, because of how lonely I felt during that time. I never used to care before that, and actually quite enjoyed being on my own, while having close friends. During this period though, I became fixated on relationships, and because I was in such a bad headspace already, each rejection reinforced my persistent negative self-talk, and felt like a gut punch. It was already difficult for me to put myself out there, because I am socially awkward AF, and neurodivergent. And yes, at times, I did envy others who seemed to have no trouble dating at all.
    But despite that, I never once hated women, or had violent urges in response to rejection. These people (incels) do not know how to process emotions like disappointment without covering it up with anger.

    • @tazmanian1033
      @tazmanian1033 9 місяців тому +4

      Exactly 💯 good on you for not hating others despite the loneliness that you endured. That is what bothers me about incels; they hate women and people in relationships all because they are having a hard time finding a relationship themselves

  • @sarakelly3214
    @sarakelly3214 3 роки тому +7

    That father is amazing to be able to see that the other girls were saved.

  • @EXPLOSIVEXPLOSION
    @EXPLOSIVEXPLOSION 4 роки тому +296

    These guys have such a bad bad bad perspective on life and especially on women. That’s their main problem. If they weren’t so set in their ways and BITTER they’d have a much better chance attracting someone.
    ...but it’s just the way they think and it’s sad

    • @sylvanathornton2119
      @sylvanathornton2119 4 роки тому +2

      Exactly

    • @multicrogamer
      @multicrogamer 4 роки тому +9

      They look on life which is painful to adopt and "normies" are actually scared of viewing life in this way.
      Looks are everything, however you view it as unhealthy cause you are probably above 5.5 or top 40% of people in looks so you don't have such problems.
      If you were close to being incel you WOULD FEEL THE SAME?
      WHY DO YOU ASUME THEIR MINDSET IS WRONG?
      Have you had their struggles?
      Such bluepill. I don't hate women. I hate game and "cards" i have been delt.
      I won't ever hurt another human cause that's retarded. It's not their fault for not liking me or for me being unattractive.
      All i can do is not play anymore (rope). Which is what peple actually encourage incels to do in some ways by shunning them even further.
      You can say that my outlook is fucked up but i can say that you don't need such outlook cause you are blessed by things out of your control. Who is right? We can't confirm. Maybe it's better to have more optimistic outlook but ask yourself how we got here? We are also humans with thinking brains and problem solving things and blackpill seems to explain intergender dyamics up to a point.
      Low IQ people won't know what's problem and theey will confuse people with actual brain prefrences for height and attractive faces. That's your typical grandiose killer. Realise that this is not NORM.

    • @EXPLOSIVEXPLOSION
      @EXPLOSIVEXPLOSION 4 роки тому +6

      Meow first of all, looks count, but they aren’t everything. Personality goes a long way. Did you not read my previous comment? Secondly, you can change your looks to an extent. Start working out, start grooming yourself (eg style your hair, thread your eyebrows, wear cologne, dress nicely NOT douchey, etc). If you do all that (given your style doesn’t suck ass), you’re bound to attract SOMEONE you’re interested in.
      I’m only 5’6” but I’ve had gf’s before. And that was before I even started working out or had any tattoos or a decent job lol

    • @EXPLOSIVEXPLOSION
      @EXPLOSIVEXPLOSION 4 роки тому +5

      And I am terrible at talking to girls too. My older brother has had multiple girls cry over him. And has had way more than me

    • @multicrogamer
      @multicrogamer 4 роки тому +4

      @@EXPLOSIVEXPLOSION I need to ask you this, you don't have to answer. Where do you live? In some countries it's easier for men since they aren't so westranized with ridicouls options women can get from dating apps.
      What you actually said is looksmaxing thus confriming blackpill theory. Gym, grooming , haricuts ect is everything related to looks, but where is personality change? Look , wheny ou meet people you are attracted to their looks and you hope they have sane head (personality).
      Looks are ultimate treshold. WIthout them you can't simply attract somebody. Looks can be tought off as health. Since usually beauty is healthy so it's actually not shallow as most people say.
      Also i find it weird that you had sucess with 5'6 feet. I think if it's right then most incels are overdramatizing height but i am not convinced that's true.
      Also i don't see your comment nor do i want to convicne everyone. I just ranted about blackpill. You need yourself to believe it or live it.
      Yeah outlook on life improves your mental health but outlook won't attract people. It will only allow you to not feel shitty. But if you are hadnsome you can still feel shitty or be a jerk and yet 50% of girls will want you. That's bottom line where i draw importance of looks / health.
      I don't know if you want to keep debating. I guess i should stop doing this to people who already set their mind.

  • @jonathandavidholmes
    @jonathandavidholmes 5 років тому +59

    Catfish guy may not realize this, but he is setting himself up to have some angry brothers , uncles, friends or likewise stomp his ass one day. Never know who someone else knows at home.

  • @FarzanaHaq1
    @FarzanaHaq1 Рік тому +6

    If you as a female are being abused or a victim of domestic abuse please report it to 999, these people are truly mentally sick and don't understand normal humans or how to communicate with one.

  • @Blackpiller4life
    @Blackpiller4life 5 місяців тому +8

    Baldcel in the thumbnail

  • @Viciokas100
    @Viciokas100 5 років тому +500

    The catfish man is hella creepy

    • @davidpacheco3070
      @davidpacheco3070 5 років тому +32

      I though he was hilarious to be honest lmaooo

    • @balenciagalifestyle2361
      @balenciagalifestyle2361 5 років тому +70

      David, I’m going to take a strong guess that your an incel! Get laid!

    • @Drobo01
      @Drobo01 5 років тому +5

      he seems like a happy guy. i would like him to be my friend.

    • @davidpacheco3070
      @davidpacheco3070 5 років тому +4

      @@balenciagalifestyle2361 I'm a hot white Hispanic guy... I get tons darling.

    • @harrisn3693
      @harrisn3693 5 років тому +1

      @@Allison_Hart Indeed, but in the age of multiculturalism, many guys who dont fit what the media portrays as attractive tend to work 10x more just for people to understand them for who they are as people. Lets be real, most people nowadays tend to be pretty shallpw as they think they all can be Elon Musk's wife in a heartbeat.

  • @ManiBobani
    @ManiBobani 4 роки тому +112

    I think they just hate extremely attractive men but ok.
    Side note: I’m tired of people getting murdered

    • @ManiBobani
      @ManiBobani 4 роки тому +4

      Stacey Campbell lol facts

    • @deviljho4260
      @deviljho4260 4 роки тому +5

      Stacey Campbell you’re confusing the nice guy community with the incel community.

    • @blast2686
      @blast2686 3 роки тому +2

      @@snoocherific139 chads and staceys

    • @MrCmon113
      @MrCmon113 3 роки тому +1

      @@snoocherific139
      Jesus Christ, you are fucking dumb. Secretly? Why?

    • @karithema9ician657
      @karithema9ician657 3 роки тому +2

      The dude in the car was better looking than ALOT of men no homo he looked like a damn Disney teen star or something 🤦🏾‍♂️ he was just fucking WEIRD😂😂😂 he couldn’t fix that he was too far gone tbh

  • @TheLyricsAnalyst
    @TheLyricsAnalyst 2 роки тому +10

    Poor dad, such a heart of gold. RIP to his daughter

  • @georgejohnson5904
    @georgejohnson5904 2 роки тому +6

    I don’t understand why people who go the mass-murder-suicide route almost never target people who actually deserve it

  • @Noah-SMCOC
    @Noah-SMCOC 5 років тому +233

    This is what happens when you allow social media to raise kids. Because once they go out into the real world, they can't cope. They can't handle pressure. They can't socialize offline and develop meaningful relationships with people from the opposite sex. Or even people of their own gender for that matter. That leads to loneliness, depression and anxiety. Next thing you know, these kids start getting involved with dangerous communities that promote violence, aggression and nihilism. Which then leads to situations like mass shootings, harassment, physical assault or even suicide.

    • @frankmcdankster7940
      @frankmcdankster7940 5 років тому +24

      Oh look, another armchair-therapist.

    • @Noah-SMCOC
      @Noah-SMCOC 5 років тому +34

      @@frankmcdankster7940 Excuse me? Is there a problem? Do you have something you'd like to say to me?

    • @balenciagalifestyle2361
      @balenciagalifestyle2361 5 років тому +12

      Frank Mcdankster, how old are you?!

    • @dickkickem
      @dickkickem 5 років тому

      www.reddit.com/r/Braincels/comments/8rmhg1/why_inceltears_is_full_of_shit_and_i_had_to/
      www.reddit.com/r/Incelselfies/comments/ag9eqz/male_attractiveness_compilation/

    • @ricardomartin6961
      @ricardomartin6961 4 роки тому +5

      Ok boomer

  • @aidsisfun5214
    @aidsisfun5214 3 роки тому +67

    "The child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth" - old African proverb
    boy does that prove true almost everywhere nowadays.

    • @nora_evans
      @nora_evans 5 місяців тому

      But it's not about orphans ' - '
      It's about that guys' fear of rejection and not getting hot women. When in reality many and many not hot women struggle to date anyone, but they don't start a violence parade towards men

  • @ileanamuntean7338
    @ileanamuntean7338 2 роки тому +10

    Everybody gets rejected many times in their lives. We are not entitled to have our pick of the opposite sex and be accepted unconditionally.

    • @scifirealism5943
      @scifirealism5943 2 роки тому +1

      Correct.
      But incels know this they just don't care.

    • @chadgaston8615
      @chadgaston8615 2 роки тому +1

      Tell that to Chris Hemsworth or Chris Evans.

    • @chadgaston8615
      @chadgaston8615 2 роки тому

      @@scifirealism5943 Know that most females would drop their panties for Chris Hemsworth? Sure we do.

    • @Opal5674
      @Opal5674 2 роки тому +1

      @@chadgaston8615 If those men gave up the psycho creep vibes Rodgers did they would get rejected plenty. Rodgers wasn't even an awful lookin guy but his way if speaking and the vibes he gave off were nonono.

    • @scifirealism5943
      @scifirealism5943 2 роки тому

      @@chadgaston8615 they are the top 1% of men.
      Unless you are suggesting being a multi-millionaire A-list actor is commonplace.

  • @SH0RtyS0f1y
    @SH0RtyS0f1y 3 роки тому +6

    The fact that these innocent people have to have their names and deaths Associated with the psychopath is sickening in its self

  • @ameliasmith4292
    @ameliasmith4292 4 роки тому +197

    That catfish man gotta get put away, he mad weird and sad

  • @n0yn0y
    @n0yn0y 3 роки тому +68

    I wasted my teenage years sitting in front of my laptop, complaining on r/incels. Then, I went to college, made friends with girls, spent less time sulking online, and I actually got a girlfriend. Now, I look back and read some of that junk that I posted and cringe

    • @mississipi1103
      @mississipi1103 3 роки тому +5

      Congratulations ! I am a femcel and the sub has just been banned ... It's time to change

    • @basedblackpilled3810
      @basedblackpilled3810 3 роки тому +5

      That subredit was banned long time ago...you are a massive liar

    • @user-zy4wv7yx1z
      @user-zy4wv7yx1z 3 роки тому

      @@basedblackpilled3810 blackpill? What kind of new incel mumbo-jumbo is that?

    • @basedblackpilled3810
      @basedblackpilled3810 3 роки тому +5

      @@user-zy4wv7yx1z blackpill is science, probably too much for you to handle. I cant blame you.

    • @mississipi1103
      @mississipi1103 3 роки тому +18

      @@user-zy4wv7yx1z pseudoscience and biased studies to justify Incels insecurities and mysoginy.

  • @user-fr1fi1uy1z
    @user-fr1fi1uy1z Рік тому +15

    I'll never feel bad for someone who doesn't even see me as human

    • @geraldtherat618
      @geraldtherat618 Рік тому +10

      Ok

    • @corpedatlanta
      @corpedatlanta Рік тому +3

      @@geraldtherat618 Ok lonely male

    • @geraldtherat618
      @geraldtherat618 Рік тому +6

      @@corpedatlanta How would you know that?

    • @corpedatlanta
      @corpedatlanta Рік тому +3

      @@geraldtherat618 “ok” - Seems u don’t care or have any regard

    • @mikioni
      @mikioni Рік тому +8

      @@corpedatlanta are you angry?

  • @angelinacamacho8575
    @angelinacamacho8575 2 роки тому +10

    Thing is is that these kinds of people think that they DESERVE someone because are nice people who do good things but there is a difference between being good and being nice. Good people are usually genuinely nice but nice people aren't always genuinely good.

  • @Rokujou1
    @Rokujou1 5 років тому +311

    Man...this is sad....man taking that forever alone meme to an extreme.

    • @purplegum1383
      @purplegum1383 5 років тому +3

      🤣

    • @mowen7590
      @mowen7590 5 років тому +5

      Rhyming to a crime

    • @Luminon357
      @Luminon357 4 роки тому

      Why are you making fun off them?

    • @Rokujou1
      @Rokujou1 4 роки тому

      @@Luminon357 get off this 8 month old post

    • @Luminon357
      @Luminon357 4 роки тому +1

      @@Rokujou1 You are no better then incels if you don't help them

  • @88yaz88
    @88yaz88 4 роки тому +117

    "Nice guys" gone too wild

    • @88yaz88
      @88yaz88 4 роки тому +13

      "Gone too wild" as in when Men get dangerous/violent/do hate crimes against women because they get desperate and then not even the sluts want them or their mom was just a whore. I feel sorry for them really. Ive met a few incels in my life and everyone of them think just like you.^

    • @munku121
      @munku121 4 роки тому +4

      @@88yaz88 Nope. Unlike Incels, I don't believe in hurting people just because I get angry. That, and I don't feel any shame over still being a virgin.

    • @munku121
      @munku121 4 роки тому +2

      Also, now that I've calmed down some, I apologize for insulting you like that. That was rude and immature of ME. I just get wiled up about these types of "topics". I'm sorry.

    • @tomtucker9720
      @tomtucker9720 4 роки тому +2

      Honestly if you best feature is that you are a nice human being, obviously no girls will want to date you, cause you are boring as fucked. Those nice guy are always so cringey

    • @raesmith2164
      @raesmith2164 4 роки тому +5

      @@tomtucker9720 Genuinely nice people are amazing to be around and to admire and love, but r/niceguys believe that they get sex tickets just because they put in some "treat like a human being" tokens into an imaginary machine.

  • @SaturnineXTS
    @SaturnineXTS Рік тому +4

    Just because that mod left the forum and rejected the label because of the association with the community, doesn't mean he stopped being an incel. What an incel really is is in the name - a person remaining in involuntary celibacy. You don't need to self-identify as one or even we aware of being one - if despite your best efforts you can't get laid in approximately 6 months, you are one. That counts for people stuck in dead marriages too.

  • @olivep3485
    @olivep3485 2 роки тому +19

    "Silver lining" That poor wonderful soul of a dad. My heart just aches for that family.

  • @mrbojangle6118
    @mrbojangle6118 4 роки тому +172

    Elliott Rodgers was seriously creepy.

    • @prettyflygamer
      @prettyflygamer 4 роки тому +17

      It was pretty funny how dumb he was tho lol

    • @ShyGuy83
      @ShyGuy83 4 роки тому +8

      He's like a villain I would have seen in an episode of Power Rangers or a Power Ranger-esque show in the 90s.

    • @bicolouredprawn
      @bicolouredprawn 4 роки тому +4

      @@gingerellacookie5641 No. That just let's people like that off the hook. "The Devil/demons made me do it." People have to take responsibility for their own actions.

    • @gingerellacookie5641
      @gingerellacookie5641 4 роки тому +1

      bicolouredprawn .it does exsist but I won't argue with you

    • @AgentAlbani
      @AgentAlbani 4 роки тому +5

      He’s been though worst luck in his school years. If only his parents pay an attention to him of his problems and solve it. He would been an alive.

  • @omairsh8
    @omairsh8 3 роки тому +19

    "If someone crossed the line and threatened real violence they would be banned from the incel community"
    Yeah SUUUREEE

    • @howdypartner3403
      @howdypartner3403 3 роки тому +1

      Probaby the reason why the whole community got banned from reddit lul

    • @purrfection2208
      @purrfection2208 2 роки тому +1

      "Real" violence. They are clearly ok with threats etc.

  • @Matthew2077
    @Matthew2077 2 роки тому +3

    oh whatever, go look at the real communities. All they do is talk about bone structure and facial features. There's more hatred towards their community than their community gives to women.

  • @beymeester5593
    @beymeester5593 2 роки тому +4

    To the father at 4.45 I salute your strenght sir. You truely honor your daughter MANY blessings