'I didn't abandon my kids to go to the US. I just couldn't stay in such an abusive marriage!

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  • After many years of trying to make her marriage work, Rosemary finally decided to leave. When she tried to get her children, Rosemary says that her ex-hubby would hear none of it. He managed to brain-wash their children of how she had 'abandoned' them to go to the US
    What he doesn't say is that while she was in the US, she was sending him money for her kid's school fees, food, clothes and many others. She did this regardless of him remarrying and bearing other children. She finally got her kids and settled them in the US

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  • @christinendungu8689
    @christinendungu8689 2 роки тому +7

    Loosing 2 children is not a joke. You are a strong woman. May the peace of God that surpasses all understanding guard your heart now and always. Keep on trusting God.

  • @liliannjaublessed6652
    @liliannjaublessed6652 2 роки тому +57

    Am support here for her decision, what she passed through its not easy, mum even me back 2014 I was suffering like you but today am strong raising my two lovely daughters and I live in Cairo Egypt

  • @phoebekomu8843
    @phoebekomu8843 2 роки тому +14

    Thanks mum for bringing this to the light

    • @esthermunyui8882
      @esthermunyui8882 2 роки тому +1

      I admire this lady, she's a strong woman of God

  • @scolambugua9264
    @scolambugua9264 2 роки тому +5

    A strong woman, very composed.

  • @evawangare2066
    @evawangare2066 2 роки тому +8

    I admire the strength in this lady she is a strong woman

  • @janekuria1898
    @janekuria1898 2 роки тому +12

    Your a strong and beautiful lady. May Almighty God 🙏 bless and protect you and your children and grandchildren. May your old age be full of happiness and joy of the Lord. Psalm 35:1-5

  • @bettygikonyo7437
    @bettygikonyo7437 2 роки тому +9

    This is the most inspiring story I have ever seen,may more grace rest upon this mum

  • @evensocomeyeshua2901
    @evensocomeyeshua2901 2 роки тому +19

    Its very rare for a mother to leave behind the children she conceived, raised and loves, but for that to happen, there has to have been a painful reason, that must have tore her heart to pieces. How can a man be that cruel!! A man who hits a woman is a coward!! Especially one who hides behind the church, living a double life. I hope he has repented before God. Women (and men) lets not tolerate abuse in the hope that "things will get better" the abuser always feels empowered when the abuser sticks through the abuse. Thanks for sharing your side of the story, it is a learning tools to many going through the same. Pole sana for what you went through. keep your head up, and always remain in prayer.

  • @sophieted2512
    @sophieted2512 2 роки тому +10

    She got all the qualitys of a loyal woman ..beautiful inside out despite her challenges she has a dazzling smile

  • @leonidaus4248
    @leonidaus4248 2 роки тому +6

    Sorry mom for the loss of ua kids,,, am deeply touched

  • @carolynegakuo1093
    @carolynegakuo1093 Рік тому +3

    Cliff was my schoolmate and classmate. May his soul rest in eternal peace and so sorry for the sad journey!!!! God be with you!!!

  • @loisegitau4897
    @loisegitau4897 2 роки тому +56

    Co- parenting with a good vibe is good but to be a slave in someone's house is a NO.

  • @ConquerorPrincessPet
    @ConquerorPrincessPet 2 роки тому +19

    Nobody is like a mother, despite all the pain she made the the whole family Stand strong today.
    Respect to this lady, congrats my dear.
    May your 2 Sons rest in peace.

  • @Motivation19671
    @Motivation19671 2 роки тому +9

    You are a strong lady.may God bless you more and more.

  • @loiseikonya6775
    @loiseikonya6775 2 роки тому +5

    She is a strong blessed lady no matter what she passed through in the hands of her x husband n sister in law...i hope the sister in law who disliked her has lived to see how God blessed her...She is grateful to the co wife for bringing her kids up in a good way n they have never complained..Live long Rosemary to see your great grand kids...

  • @maggiewambui9744
    @maggiewambui9744 2 роки тому +16

    This woman is a hero ,keep going mum your life is in God hands

  • @millzn5080
    @millzn5080 2 роки тому +38

    Mum allow yourself to get rest,stay away from your ex(cut all form of communication from him and his family) and enjoy the gift of life God has given you.

    • @janeciira1646
      @janeciira1646 2 роки тому +7

      i support , good advice. She really need a lot of rest away from the toxic ex.

    • @intyrystyn
      @intyrystyn 2 роки тому +2

      well said!!

    • @nyokabiwamae8071
      @nyokabiwamae8071 2 роки тому +7

      Exactly my point.. stop visiting their home,they could be eating up your children so you can be miserable

    • @nenekarain539
      @nenekarain539 2 роки тому +2

      First of all cut all the ties with all the occult

    • @hellenkasyoka6745
      @hellenkasyoka6745 2 роки тому

      Ttrue

  • @hannahmuraguri7711
    @hannahmuraguri7711 2 роки тому +5

    So cool mum,, you are one in a million.

  • @denniszackmanvibes.4259
    @denniszackmanvibes.4259 2 роки тому +10

    Painful story and encouraging at the same time.

  • @shazvalz436
    @shazvalz436 2 роки тому +5

    strong woman you are...kagoni is this the story Ile a lady who came & seid how she raised another's woman children....

  • @bossb8989
    @bossb8989 Рік тому +6

    There’s pain and there’s PAIN. Mama Mungai has gone through the second kind. God, pls come and do what you do for such people to know joy and peace again. Amen.

  • @michaelmwaniki9097
    @michaelmwaniki9097 2 роки тому +4

    Narcissists are all packaged the same; religious, love drama, play the victim and are always attracted to the best. Rosemary, you are the best. Your kindness, your empathy, and your ability to be a human placed you in that abusive relationship. I applaud you for being so strong and allowing your ex's empty soul to feed on your kindness for so long. When you describe him, I feel like you are describing my mom. I gave up on my mom though. I was not as strong as you are, my kindness was not enough to feed her dark soul. I felt her life was better off without me. Straining to please her was killing me. Plus her demeaning me in front of my husband and my kids was just too much for me. I chose to be a devil child and be happy. I'd rather go to hell for being a bad child than experience hell on earth in the hands of the one person who's supposed to protect and care for me.

  • @trizahdelightfulgardenbakers
    @trizahdelightfulgardenbakers 2 роки тому +10

    I really feel bad that such a nice and beautiful lady like this went through all that shit. That man is a narcissist.

  • @JoyJoy-xs1vx
    @JoyJoy-xs1vx 2 роки тому +11

    Loosing 2 children after going through all that is tough,,but May God give you strength..
    I think the death of those two young men,is something to do with hizo uchawi za migori

  • @caroline2181
    @caroline2181 Рік тому +1

    After listening to this story, I pray we find the strength to walk away when a man is physically, emotionally or mentally abusing you, she had so many red flags to walk away but she struggled. May God give women the strength to walk away when it's physical abuse.

  • @gracewairimu6479
    @gracewairimu6479 7 місяців тому

    So touching

  • @joywaningprovides4622
    @joywaningprovides4622 2 роки тому +35

    Same thing happened to me my kids called me mchawai 10 years without seeing my kids they were brained washed by their daddy. But I thank God watoto wemenitafuta wakiwa wakumbwa God is wonder he fought my battle

  • @terrymichael2541
    @terrymichael2541 Рік тому +2

    Very painful, dealing with villagers it's not easy,mum u have a big heart ,may God bless you again n again 🙏

  • @eunisonc7494
    @eunisonc7494 2 роки тому +2

    You're such a gem lady and may God continue holding your hand...so sorry for the terrible experiences with your narcissistic ex husband

  • @jacklinekaaria5553
    @jacklinekaaria5553 8 місяців тому

    you are very resilient mum. A strong woman

  • @rosemuraguri9311
    @rosemuraguri9311 2 роки тому +32

    Sad and inspiring.
    I only wish women would be less dependent on men. Marriage is not a prison. If it is not working look for exit.

    • @noble7123
      @noble7123 2 роки тому +3

      this one is not dependent on a man

    • @juciyorange5135
      @juciyorange5135 2 роки тому

      Your are right. Women dont be abused by men no!!!

  • @ndungucarolyn6978
    @ndungucarolyn6978 Рік тому +1

    What a soul...God is on your side mom

  • @sarangotho1290
    @sarangotho1290 2 роки тому +2

    Ma'am Rosemary has gone through a lot,may God protect her and the rest of the kids.....no more premature death

  • @violetaseyo5005
    @violetaseyo5005 2 роки тому +2

    Women go through alot.. great lesson from the interview

  • @estherkaranja7907
    @estherkaranja7907 2 роки тому +6

    A wonderful woman, God is at the throne n still faithful

  • @rachelmwangi6408
    @rachelmwangi6408 2 роки тому +14

    Kumbe this mama wa kambo ni shetani! And the way she looked innocent during her interview with Jeremy!! MAMA WA KAMBO SI MAMA!!!!

    • @estherwanjiru2834
      @estherwanjiru2834 2 роки тому +4

      Haki huyo mama wa mama kambo na vile alikuwa anajismilisha. Its so bad.

    • @tinadany1774
      @tinadany1774 2 роки тому +1

      Ni show ya when kdm kindly ni icheck

    • @rachelmwangi6408
      @rachelmwangi6408 2 роки тому +1

      Diana check Jeremy Damaris interviews hiyo ya huyo mama title ni ‘ I married him with 4 kids after connection. They have changed my life’.

    • @monienjeri3042
      @monienjeri3042 2 роки тому +3

      Nikama the current wife wa Martin wa Janet, vile wananyanyasa Ruth wa mum

    • @florencemusei3843
      @florencemusei3843 2 роки тому

      @@rachelmwangi6408 Thanks!

  • @lucykamande1302
    @lucykamande1302 2 роки тому +4

    Beautiful lady! Fearfully and wonderfully made. No one can take your position. You are unique and peculiar. I declare that the remaining children will not die prematurely but live and to declare the goodness of God. Your husband is toxic and possessing the all characteristics of narcissistic disorder. Press on to your destiny.

  • @lucywachuka116
    @lucywachuka116 2 роки тому +1

    Very painful story, may God continue blessing you Rosemary

  • @GitunduWaNgonjo
    @GitunduWaNgonjo Рік тому

    Rosemary you are a strong woman. May God bless you for sharing your story.

  • @susanjoydavidofficial8558
    @susanjoydavidofficial8558 2 роки тому +2

    Lots of things to learn here. You are such a strong lady. More Grace

  • @sarahngugi2779
    @sarahngugi2779 2 роки тому +9

    Wanjiru are strong ladies you fought like my mum Wanjiru and you are blessed 👏🙏🤗

    • @annndirangu9536
      @annndirangu9536 2 роки тому

      You can say it again, shiroh big name with big heart and very strong faith

    • @sarahngugi2779
      @sarahngugi2779 2 роки тому +1

      @@annndirangu9536 True the strength of my mum keeps me moving they are great women 👏👏

  • @janemaina2082
    @janemaina2082 2 роки тому +3

    Your such a lovely lady..Stay strong hugs Mama

  • @annwandia1632
    @annwandia1632 2 роки тому +5

    Rosemary you're so humble I just love you 😍

  • @damariswanjiru2822
    @damariswanjiru2822 2 роки тому +16

    Shiro na venye uko msupuu. Why can't you just get married? Make the remaining days your happy moments coz hujakuwa na life. So sad.

  • @annmuthoni2954
    @annmuthoni2954 2 роки тому +9

    beautiful soul,sooo calm and collected.may God b with u.even the other woman talks highly of her.i listened to her story now is when i have connected the dots.wont say more

    • @ruthnjeri9908
      @ruthnjeri9908 2 роки тому +1

      Where the story of the other woman?

    • @janekariuki327
      @janekariuki327 2 роки тому

      Where is the story of the other one

    • @judithwaweru4578
      @judithwaweru4578 2 роки тому +1

      In Jeremy's Damaris

    • @florencemusei3843
      @florencemusei3843 2 роки тому +2

      @@ruthnjeri9908 Tafuta kwa KDM TV(I MARRIED HIM WITH 4 KIDS AFTER A CONNECTION.THEY HAVE CHANGED MY LIFE.I AM A PROUD)

    • @winicatewainaina4456
      @winicatewainaina4456 2 роки тому

      Where is the stry of the other womanzzz

  • @QueenJuneJuneMaz
    @QueenJuneJuneMaz 2 роки тому +1

    But we thank God you concurred and are a living Testimony, you are a fighter 👊🏾👊🏾.. I am so so Sorry for you loss.

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    @cynthiahenry6821 2 роки тому +18

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    • @kingsleymoore2354
      @kingsleymoore2354 2 роки тому

      OMG!!! $16k how's that possible. What's your strategy?

    • @marystone1471
      @marystone1471 2 роки тому

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    • @rolandsam1529
      @rolandsam1529 2 роки тому

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    • @josephcarl5261
      @josephcarl5261 2 роки тому

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      I trade on my own, but I've only made $2,800 in a month

    • @rachaelariana7759
      @rachaelariana7759 2 роки тому

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  • @jennyrhein3031
    @jennyrhein3031 2 роки тому +1

    She is strong woman...She has gone through alot but worn the battle . Sorry for her kids loss. Being independent help alot.

  • @juciyorange5135
    @juciyorange5135 2 роки тому

    Your such a wonderful God fearing lady. Rosemary may God bless you keep you and give you long life full of joy and your childrens too.

  • @keziamwangi600
    @keziamwangi600 2 роки тому +2

    I admire her she went through a lot may God bless her

  • @gracejohns6108
    @gracejohns6108 2 роки тому +2

    This is sad n painful. Very painful may God restore you fully. 🙏

  • @susanwatiri9597
    @susanwatiri9597 2 роки тому +4

    I think that ex husband and wife i hv watched there interview.all I can say Rosemary ignore there stories God has your identity....be blessed

  • @karennkirote7807
    @karennkirote7807 2 роки тому +3

    Hugs mom sharing the story.

  • @akishajoseph6876
    @akishajoseph6876 2 роки тому +19

    This lady is an example of strong and brave ladies in the world.. She is such a heroe and a true Christian,,, no matter the situation, hardships and challenges she went through he conquered mountains,,,, may God enlarge your territories more and more

  • @perpetuawamaitha8194
    @perpetuawamaitha8194 2 роки тому +6

    Beautiful woman.
    Amazing focused

  • @Maggieblessedtvkenya
    @Maggieblessedtvkenya 2 роки тому +1

    Kagoni this malice is familiar and my life has been turned around negatively very wicked, thanks Kagoni you are God sent how can I forget Virginia's life,God bless you

  • @estherngugi7919
    @estherngugi7919 2 роки тому +5

    Watata, I am so proud of you...

  • @lucynyambura7813
    @lucynyambura7813 2 роки тому +3

    This is so sad but be strong God will always be with you

  • @trizajohnty7106
    @trizajohnty7106 2 роки тому +2

    Educative story keep been strong

  • @margretwangari2066
    @margretwangari2066 2 роки тому +4

    It's so sad to lose a child,may GOD heal her heart

  • @janemuthoni1765
    @janemuthoni1765 2 роки тому

    You are a humble woman Rosemary.For a woman to leave her marriage, there must be enough reason. The God of justice is on the throne.keep strong & better days are ahead mum.

  • @zachariahmaithya6572
    @zachariahmaithya6572 2 роки тому +11

    An encouragement story for couples in unworking marriages

  • @marysiamanda5199
    @marysiamanda5199 2 роки тому

    A very sad story. Rosemary you are strong and more than a conquerer. God loves you

  • @gladysndungu3447
    @gladysndungu3447 2 роки тому +1

    Hugs hugs you are a strong lady

  • @agnesmuvithu5805
    @agnesmuvithu5805 2 роки тому +19

    Thank you for sharing one day I will share my story it's similar to hers.

  • @margaretngigi4721
    @margaretngigi4721 2 роки тому +20

    The siz in law and the husband actions could be the genesis of those premature deaths.And that husband was very toxic

  • @wangarimacharia1027
    @wangarimacharia1027 2 роки тому +2

    Pole sana mamiie,,,you are avery strong woman,,,keep going,,,umebarikiwa sana may God heal you and mends those wounds,,,

  • @BK-qz8cm
    @BK-qz8cm 2 роки тому +11

    One thing I keep noticing from these stories is that the regret that the narrator's have is the levels of indignities that they experienced. I am learning to clearly have boundaries🛑

  • @agoyafantastic
    @agoyafantastic 2 роки тому +1

    Wow you touched my heart I have been through almost the same

  • @evensocomeyeshua2901
    @evensocomeyeshua2901 2 роки тому +13

    In laws who meddle in marriages play a big part in marriage break ups, especially if the husband (or wife) is siding with his/her family and not standing with the spouse to build the marriage.

    • @mercymaina6640
      @mercymaina6640 2 роки тому +1

      The best medicine is to do away with them. My inlaws are angels of God ndimakaga nii. I have a life to live with my sons. Wakitaka mtoto wao wamchukue but I must love myself so much to be despised by anyone. Ndiendaga wana wao nii. Niliona wataniua na stress.

  • @Ladypeace12312
    @Ladypeace12312 2 роки тому +3

    Pole sana madam. U've gone thru pain. May you find happiness and heal.

  • @patricianjuguna2576
    @patricianjuguna2576 2 роки тому

    She is a strong woman, she has gone thru alot but God is in control of everything take hurt mum.God will reward you

  • @gracemuriithi1366
    @gracemuriithi1366 2 роки тому +2

    Rosemary you are very strong woman

  • @annnginya4710
    @annnginya4710 Рік тому

    I wish we can be able to note the red flags soonest possible,rosemary you are a strong woman keep strong and avoid that busturd

  • @margaretgichohi1642
    @margaretgichohi1642 2 роки тому +2

    Waaa a strong woman indeed

  • @catherinemakokha1400
    @catherinemakokha1400 2 роки тому

    God bless you
    Mom I am proud about you bless you abundantly.

  • @karanjajane4322
    @karanjajane4322 2 роки тому +2

    Rose u r very humble

  • @susankaranjamusic1596
    @susankaranjamusic1596 2 роки тому +5

    Wooooiii this lady amepitia exactly yenye nimepitia....pole mum I understand your pain
    .

  • @catherinenjeri5916
    @catherinenjeri5916 2 роки тому +2

    Ooh my goodness.....sad episode!!!!

  • @Pauline77203
    @Pauline77203 2 роки тому +6

    Woiii hayoo karibuu yotee nimepitiaa ... going back nisomee akii l know one day l wll talk abt it in this platform ❣️❣️❣️

  • @jay.Mungai78
    @jay.Mungai78 2 роки тому +2

    You are so beautiful mama... I must say!

  • @karanjajane4322
    @karanjajane4322 2 роки тому +2

    Wooi rose you are strong mum.
    I salute yoi

  • @marywityshyn2001
    @marywityshyn2001 2 роки тому +8

    Wow mama,what a life!God will fight your battles,ndukamake!Now live your life to the fullest,put yourself first now!You’ve put everyone else first since you married that man!Take care of you now!!!

  • @mercyk2672
    @mercyk2672 2 роки тому +3

    May God bless you Rosemary. You will receive double for all your troubles and God will give you beauty for ashes. You didn't deserve everything you went through. Looking at you, I just see a beautiful woman, full of grace

  • @jackyw1910
    @jackyw1910 2 роки тому +1

    What a soull Rosemary God bless you example of mutumia Ngatha in the proverbs. Thanks Monica urathimwo

  • @ruthruta6535
    @ruthruta6535 2 роки тому

    hugs Rosemary ❤❤❤

  • @Maryblessedgirl
    @Maryblessedgirl 2 роки тому +9

    Rosemary you need to cut ties. Pray as the sister said no child shall name you. See 2 children have died, pole sana. Cut ties, he is a narcisit. He will not change. You need counselling, it helps. Otherwise he will hurt you for long until he die. Learn more about narcisit. And also that sister, you never know what beliefs or practices they practice
    Talking from experience of an abusive marriage.

  • @monicamwangi3122
    @monicamwangi3122 2 роки тому +2

    Mama u r strong mama ...celebrate this women today..God bless this mama so his enemies can shut up ....strong mama u r..ingekuwa ni mm that sister in law,and that man could be spelling my names backwards.....

  • @MissOgake
    @MissOgake Рік тому

    Hugs mom

  • @margaretngugi8262
    @margaretngugi8262 2 роки тому +2

    Pole sana Mum for the pain you gone through.

  • @janegithaiga4525
    @janegithaiga4525 2 роки тому +1

    My dea usijali tuko wengi with the same same story na saa hii tuko america we thank God for everything

  • @wangarijane1669
    @wangarijane1669 2 роки тому +2

    Keep strong sis, only God can wipe your tears

  • @ruththuo1753
    @ruththuo1753 2 роки тому +5

    Woiii pole mama you have gone through alot🙏🙏 You are so humble and beautiful....

  • @powerstar3087
    @powerstar3087 2 роки тому

    Am a young mum learning alot on this platform,being thankful of metha ya kagoni,alot is happening bt I thank God 🙏🙏

  • @roseceasar8322
    @roseceasar8322 Рік тому

    I salute you Rosemary,you are a strong woman,that man never deserved you,those who despised you they will pay back, telling you they never lost a son,it was painful.but l tell you what ever you plant you reap,that sister in law,she will also reap what she planted bit it word spoken, action,she will harvest

  • @catemcate1660
    @catemcate1660 2 роки тому +3

    Wooi blessed woman the Lord sees from above

  • @catherinembogo3076
    @catherinembogo3076 8 місяців тому

    😭😭😭😭😭wooi Jesus I love this God who never forget his people in times of troubles❤

  • @abigaelsamuel674
    @abigaelsamuel674 2 роки тому +3

    The sister is a devil she manipulated his brother I hope she will pay it dearly. Hugs mum.. God is good.

  • @jimmyndenderu6242
    @jimmyndenderu6242 2 роки тому +2

    Ngoma citurikaga niguthinjirwo. How can a real man talk evil of his wife to their children albeit not true. God says vegeance ( God's holy anger ) is his and this unreal men end up far worse than their wives whom they have mistreated. To make matters worse some are" leaders " in the house of God thereby bringing shame to Christian fraternity. Wanjiru you are strong woman and God has more blessings in store for you. Women should not allow themselves to abused and beaten in the name of marriage. One can be happy even when single instead of staying with a demon in the name of marriage.

  • @catherinemakokha1400
    @catherinemakokha1400 2 роки тому

    Congratulations sister your story is great to me too