I admire your courage to call out the truth about parents' negative impacts on children. We ALL carry wounds from our childhoods. We need to face them. We also need to face how we negatively impacted our own children. Thank you for your honesty.
I had an extremely stressful pregnancy with my third child. I found out early on that she had a birth defect and I was anxious and terrified for her the whole time. On top of that I was verbally/emotionally abused. She is actually fine, defect was easily fixed with day surgery, and she is perfectly healthy. She has to work a bit harder in school. I keep a watchful eye on her and her emotional health. She had a traumatic existence right from the start but she’s resilient and has an amazing personality. I was verbally/ emotionally abused and neglected as a child and emotionally abandoned by them as an adult. Im very traumatized but that’s not the end of my story. I cut off whoever I need to and I am healing.
Thank you for sharing your heart breaking story. It couldn't have been easy, even more so if you didn't have a healthy support system. If you are interested, I have a few resources to help people find a support system where they feel comfortable and safe sharing their experiences and asking for help. You can find more information about them on my website, I highly recommend checking them out when you get a chance :) kennyweiss.net/
You're right, I never imagined helping as many people as I have but I am overjoyed that my content has helped so many. Still, I strive to help even more people on their healing journey! :)
You are right, when my daughter was placed on my stomach after being born I said what is that alien? I now realise it was from this point I did not form a good mother daughter bond. With watching your videos and doing the mastery class I am going to change this and take what I learn and apologize to her and repair our bond for a better future for her and me. Thank you again Kenny for sharing such valuable information 🙏🏼
Ouff what an eye opening . A lot to digest Kenny . My instincts are telling me this is the way to go but my mind is putting up a fight 😯. Whenever I listen to you the tears keep coming so I know I need to push through and get on this journey. 34 years of reliving my past with a covert narcissist has taken its toll.
"what you know, you'll repeat" .... Mr Kenny you are something else.... you are one inperfect perfect gentleman.👍 The New York neighbors guy... well I realized that too in my circumstances. My Goodness 🤯
Thank u for defining trauma this way. I've always thought my childhood was "normal" only to realize I was traumatized very young. And the way u've describe it, is exacly my childhood, and my older sisters just dont get it. I understand why now, they don't want to see it based on their beliefs.
Thank you for this, so very much. I’ve been on this journey for a while, and I haven’t heard these things phrased and captured in a way I’ve so easily understood and accepted before now. You’re very easy to learn from and listen to for me, and I appreciate your teaching. I am beginning with you here and I am already being so helped by this video… many more in the playlist to go and I am excited! It’s emotional, and wonderful, to have a path and perspective to truly grow through. Much appreciated! 😁 Your humor sprinkled in, and your transparent personal honesty was refreshing.
Thank you so much for the kind words I really appreciate that. More importantly, I’m really happy to hear that you’re learning and you’re growing and you feel like you’re getting answers that you deserve. Thank you for trusting me with your journey. :-)
Oh, my head hurts. Haha. You are making so many points here, Kenny. You connected the dots so well. This is a heavy subject, yet the way you deliver the message is quite refreshing. It made it easier to digest. Thank you so much!! New subscriber here :))
Thank you so much Kenny, I’ve been searching for ´my problem’ since I was a teenager….I got touched by the shame words and fell in tears earring the collateral damages it does. Oufff I’m so lite right now I could probably fly. Thank youuuuu for having embrace your perfect imperfections, earring your videos allowed me to embrace my perfect imperfections and begin a new life, my life, the one I choose today🎉 Your hair are perfect❤
You hit a perfect point about fulfilling a need for a parent of which I have no regrets for helping my parents in later years. However, a sibling is an extension of my parents that justified my existence by making a false claim that I lived off my father for free which is not true and his excuse for dismissal of my efforts while he made no effort. My brother, does not want me at his funeral as he said he made clear to his children. He became wrapped up in the own trama that to this day eats at him and lashed out at me. Very selfish and makes it all about him. I believe is due because my father enabled his attitude while growing up in a way to lash out to my mother and her family. A grandparent fed this vicious narrative that got passed down to me in response to my father marrying my mother.
I have such a huge response to my past trauma in the current moments, fight or flight that in research I found L theanine, where I can actually not have rapid cycling during the day. You make me understand all of this. Worst Day Cycle all true.
I want you to know that I now realize what my Worst Day Cycle is, and it started when I was born. In short: I meet someone who is not present, I have an intense experience with them, they "abandon" me, I blame them or myself for the "abandonment". What keeps me in the game? Blame. Now, the beautfiul thing is this: my ego built this program because the first person who were not present were my parents; I HAD to get them to attend to my phyisical needs. My ego/body knew they were not present, so I had lots of intestinal health issues, they took care of me, then were gone. And I blamed them, or myself for the loss. AND I've repeated that program ever since. AND the only time I arguably NEEDED to do that, was the first time, because they were my ONLY caregivers. Not true any longer. Just wanted to share, cause I've been up half the night delighting in this realization.
Thank you for sharing. I’ve seen it with every person that reads my book or watches these worst day cycle videos or works with me privately. Life finally makes sense and everything becomes clear. That joy you’re feeling is the connection to your authentic self separated from the pain from the past. Once we have that we have reclaimed our authentic self and life becomes much more peaceful and enjoyable. Enjoy the journey 😁
I love watching your videos and you talk about the worst day cycle and how it influences our lives but I’ve never heard you explain what the worst day cycle is the worst day what’s the worst day and what’s the cycle maybe I missed it I haven’t seen that video yet. I wish you would explain it in your videosfor those of us who jump in and haven’t seen them all yet much love❤
I LOVED feeling my baby in my tummy from day one that I felt him move, even that first hiccup, and even when he kicked my rib so hard I hollered!! He was a "football player" practicing field goals. It was the most awesome 9 months. I would have had at least 2 more to feel that again. 2 miscarriages happened instead. 😢
Yeah, I was very aware of the little being in my belly. 😅 My partner's selfishness showed up during my pregnancy, I was terrified. I ended up moving houses 7mos pregnant, and I packed and moved all the boxes. He got the furniture moved, but nothing actually like in the house. I'm the only one who seemed to care that the rental wasn't trashed when we left. And then he didn't clean out the cat box. I was so angry with him and he didn't get it at all.
My son didn't get to come home until he was just over a month old. I stayed with him in the NICU. Some of the nurses had no business being on that floor, they were so mean. What the hell was wrong with them to be so cruel to the mother of a newborn in the hospital? I was still healing from the delivery. It was like they thought I wanted him in there so I didn't have to watch him myself, I was mortified.
I have a question Kenny please.. I have actually been "lead" to your channel, and I have just discovered why.. and one more point, I am about to start the first of your videos . My question, at any point, do you address the , I will call it.. spirit, side, or connection of our conciousness, connection between our brain, and higher self, and our emotions and beliefs and thoughts. How this manifest into Dis-ease within our bodies? I know this may not make sense to you, as it difficult to go into via a comment. Thank u so much for your channel
Emotional.mastery is so very interesting. I've been able to start practicing it in every day life and it gives me an edge I've never felt before. And it does seem to be an actual feeling. Interesting
I admire your courage to call out the truth about parents' negative impacts on children. We ALL carry wounds from our childhoods. We need to face them. We also need to face how we negatively impacted our own children. Thank you for your honesty.
I had an extremely stressful pregnancy with my third child. I found out early on that she had a birth defect and I was anxious and terrified for her the whole time. On top of that I was verbally/emotionally abused. She is actually fine, defect was easily fixed with day surgery, and she is perfectly healthy. She has to work a bit harder in school. I keep a watchful eye on her and her emotional health. She had a traumatic existence right from the start but she’s resilient and has an amazing personality.
I was verbally/ emotionally abused and neglected as a child and emotionally abandoned by them as an adult. Im very traumatized but that’s not the end of my story. I cut off whoever I need to and I am healing.
Thank you for sharing your heart breaking story. It couldn't have been easy, even more so if you didn't have a healthy support system. If you are interested, I have a few resources to help people find a support system where they feel comfortable and safe sharing their experiences and asking for help. You can find more information about them on my website, I highly recommend checking them out when you get a chance :) kennyweiss.net/
Thank you for sharing. That’s so scary and personal..🙏
Thank you Kenny , I doubt you could ever imagine how you are helping and empowering people. Let the healing begin . Thank you Thank you thank you !!!
You're right, I never imagined helping as many people as I have but I am overjoyed that my content has helped so many. Still, I strive to help even more people on their healing journey! :)
You are right, when my daughter was placed on my stomach after being born I said what is that alien? I now realise it was from this point I did not form a good mother daughter bond. With watching your videos and doing the mastery class I am going to change this and take what I learn and apologize to her and repair our bond for a better future for her and me.
Thank you again Kenny for sharing such valuable information 🙏🏼
You're welcome :)
It goes on for generations to generations. Vicious circle to break that can start with you.
Ouff what an eye opening . A lot to digest Kenny . My instincts are telling me this is the way to go but my mind is putting up a fight 😯. Whenever I listen to you the tears keep coming so I know I need to push through and get on this journey. 34 years of reliving my past with a covert narcissist has taken its toll.
"what you know, you'll repeat" ....
Mr Kenny you are something else....
you are one inperfect perfect gentleman.👍
The New York neighbors guy... well I realized that too in my circumstances. My Goodness 🤯
Thank u for defining trauma this way. I've always thought my childhood was "normal" only to realize I was traumatized very young. And the way u've describe it, is exacly my childhood, and my older sisters just dont get it. I understand why now, they don't want to see it based on their beliefs.
You just gave me the biggest EPHIANY!! THANK YOU!
Thank you for this, so very much. I’ve been on this journey for a while, and I haven’t heard these things phrased and captured in a way I’ve so easily understood and accepted before now. You’re very easy to learn from and listen to for me, and I appreciate your teaching. I am beginning with you here and I am already being so helped by this video… many more in the playlist to go and I am excited! It’s emotional, and wonderful, to have a path and perspective to truly grow through. Much appreciated! 😁 Your humor sprinkled in, and your transparent personal honesty was refreshing.
Thank you so much for the kind words I really appreciate that. More importantly, I’m really happy to hear that you’re learning and you’re growing and you feel like you’re getting answers that you deserve.
Thank you for trusting me with your journey. :-)
Thank you for your free videos. What a gift. What an opportunity to see myself and change, heal and move forward
Absolutely!
Kenny you are brilliant! Thank you. You opened my eyes to a world that was in front of me but I was missing
You are so very welcome
Oh, my head hurts. Haha. You are making so many points here, Kenny. You connected the dots so well. This is a heavy subject, yet the way you deliver the message is quite refreshing. It made it easier to digest. Thank you so much!! New subscriber here :))
Glad you enjoyed it!
Thank you for sharing ❤
Thank you so much Kenny, I’ve been searching for ´my problem’ since I was a teenager….I got touched by the shame words and fell in tears earring the collateral damages it does. Oufff I’m so lite right now I could probably fly. Thank youuuuu for having embrace your perfect imperfections, earring your videos allowed me to embrace my perfect imperfections and begin a new life, my life, the one I choose today🎉
Your hair are perfect❤
Kenny, I appreciate all you do, and all you are.
You cover all the bases…if someone wants to heal, you’ve offered it all for free
You hit a perfect point about fulfilling a need for a parent of which I have no regrets for helping my parents in later years. However, a sibling is an extension of my parents that justified my existence by making a false claim that I lived off my father for free which is not true and his excuse for dismissal of my efforts while he made no effort. My brother, does not want me at his funeral as he said he made clear to his children. He became wrapped up in the own trama that to this day eats at him and lashed out at me. Very selfish and makes it all about him. I believe is due because my father enabled his attitude while growing up in a way to lash out to my mother and her family. A grandparent fed this vicious narrative that got passed down to me in response to my father marrying my mother.
Kenny thank you so much for your experiences and life lessons! It has really awoken me and is helping my on my journey to loving myself!
You are so welcome
I have such a huge response to my past trauma in the current moments, fight or flight that in research I found L theanine, where I can actually not have rapid cycling during the day. You make me understand all of this. Worst Day Cycle all true.
In bed asleep.. up at 5.. catch you soon Love You ❤️
I want you to know that I now realize what my Worst Day Cycle is, and it started when I was born.
In short: I meet someone who is not present, I have an intense experience with them, they "abandon" me, I blame them or myself for the "abandonment". What keeps me in the game? Blame.
Now, the beautfiul thing is this: my ego built this program because the first person who were not present were my parents; I HAD to get them to attend to my phyisical needs.
My ego/body knew they were not present, so I had lots of intestinal health issues, they took care of me, then were gone. And I blamed them, or myself for the loss. AND I've repeated that program ever since.
AND the only time I arguably NEEDED to do that, was the first time, because they were my ONLY caregivers. Not true any longer.
Just wanted to share, cause I've been up half the night delighting in this realization.
Thank you for sharing. I’ve seen it with every person that reads my book or watches these worst day cycle videos or works with me privately. Life finally makes sense and everything becomes clear. That joy you’re feeling is the connection to your authentic self separated from the pain from the past. Once we have that we have reclaimed our authentic self and life becomes much more peaceful and enjoyable. Enjoy the journey 😁
This should become a more integral part of our criminal justice system
Thank you , thank you . And thank you for free resources
You bet
Hey Kenny love your story and the healing msg you share🙂👍
I love watching your videos and you talk about the worst day cycle and how it influences our lives but I’ve never heard you explain what the worst day cycle is the worst day what’s the worst day and what’s the cycle maybe I missed it I haven’t seen that video yet. I wish you would explain it in your videosfor those of us who jump in and haven’t seen them all yet much love❤
I LOVED feeling my baby in my tummy from day one that I felt him move, even that first hiccup, and even when he kicked my rib so hard I hollered!! He was a "football player" practicing field goals. It was the most awesome 9 months. I would have had at least 2 more to feel that again. 2 miscarriages happened instead. 😢
Yeah, I was very aware of the little being in my belly. 😅 My partner's selfishness showed up during my pregnancy, I was terrified. I ended up moving houses 7mos pregnant, and I packed and moved all the boxes. He got the furniture moved, but nothing actually like in the house. I'm the only one who seemed to care that the rental wasn't trashed when we left. And then he didn't clean out the cat box. I was so angry with him and he didn't get it at all.
My son didn't get to come home until he was just over a month old. I stayed with him in the NICU. Some of the nurses had no business being on that floor, they were so mean. What the hell was wrong with them to be so cruel to the mother of a newborn in the hospital? I was still healing from the delivery. It was like they thought I wanted him in there so I didn't have to watch him myself, I was mortified.
❤Thank you Kenny 🦋
I was ordered around a lot when I was a kid.
Thank you
You're welcome
I have a question Kenny please.. I have actually been "lead" to your channel, and I have just discovered why.. and one more point, I am about to start the first of your videos . My question, at any point, do you address the , I will call it.. spirit, side, or connection of our conciousness, connection between our brain, and higher self, and our emotions and beliefs and thoughts. How this manifest into Dis-ease within our bodies? I know this may not make sense to you, as it difficult to go into via a comment. Thank u so much for your channel
Not only the message to kids…. To anyone. Classic codependency issue. Unsolicited advise.
Emotional.mastery is so very interesting. I've been able to start practicing it in every day life and it gives me an edge I've never felt before. And it does seem to be an actual feeling. Interesting