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КОМЕНТАРІ • 31

  • @HTNPSullivan
    @HTNPSullivan 4 роки тому +20

    You are a very kind, caring and thoughtful person. As you know, I am in the beginning of recovering from being discarded by my partner of 11 years. Although you weren't commenting on my situation, it was nice to listen to your thoughts about being "challenged" and not being able to imagine how you will respond to a challenge until it actually happens. I am surprised by how profoundly this experience hurts and how afraid I am to go instantly from being a couple to being on my own. I am concerned about being able to pay the bills, but I am also not used to being with other people socially. This man had a way of isolating me. At this point, because of all the emotions I am feeling, I don't think I'm going to be able to see clearly for a while what it is I am supposed to learn from this. I have never encountered anyone as deceptive as this man. I certainly could not have imagined this relationship taking the direction that it has. I am waiting for him to be completely out of our apartment because it's difficult for me to focus on rebuilding my life when he is around. I am lucky that I have friends who love me for who I am, with all my faults and all my gifts, so that I do believe I will be not just OK as I move forward, but actually much happier than I was while with this person. My heart had been telling me for a long time that this person doesn't respect or value me, so his leaving is actually a blessing. It doesn't feel like it right now, but I think I will eventually be glad to be freed.

    • @jennieanderson971
      @jennieanderson971 4 роки тому +4

      HTNPSullivan Dear Friend, You are in my thoughts..Blessings to you 🕊

    • @kimberlyf.4130
      @kimberlyf.4130 4 роки тому +3

      I wish you all the best in the world as you move forward with your life. Good Luck to you ❤

  • @SydneyDelRose
    @SydneyDelRose 4 роки тому +16

    Questioning if my life is worth living tonight when this video popped up on my feed, and I immediately felt like I could breathe. Can’t even begin to express how grateful I am for your positivity, kindness, and light. Thank you so much ❤️

    • @yanghaiying
      @yanghaiying  4 роки тому +13

      You have high standard of life goal. Relax. Don't be too harsh on yourself. I am about to make a video on letting go. You will see soon. Have a good night.

    • @PinkToe6
      @PinkToe6 4 роки тому

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @devoncarterburns
      @devoncarterburns 2 роки тому

      I made a statement In the comments but saw this and felt my heart drop. I too feel as though I cannot breathe. My pain has been caused by my own arrogance. I accept my penance and will learn from my error but that does nothing for the fact that the person who pays for our mistakes Is not the person who should… the person who should have to pay Is who we were not who we become after learning our lessons… we receive second chances until It’s too late and THEN… only then once It has become truly too late do we actually become enlightened to our mistakes… and usually when this happens we become aware of ALL of our mistakes from before…
      I can only speak to my experience. I do not know what your experience Is but If I may say so… respectfully. It matters to me that you breathe. It matters to Haiying that you breathe. It matters to the people who are still In your life or people who will be In your life someday that you breathe… If you cannot breathe for yourself… breathe for others. There Is no greater joy than doing for others… If you ever question your value or life… live your life for others (who are worthy of your time). This will help you regain your appreciation and see the bigger picture. It will help you realize no matter how big the bigger picture Is… you need to be a part of It too.
      We need you. We love you. You are worth living.

  • @HeySarahGurl
    @HeySarahGurl 4 роки тому +5

    Thank you so much Haiying. This has touched my soul. Moving on from my experience has been hard but I have been able to push through. I’m looking at every day as a blessing. I help my mom take care of my grandma and the moments with the people I love are ones I am so thankful for and I’m so happy I am still here to experience. Thank you Haiying I love you I really do. Do do do do, do do do ☺️❤️

    • @jennieanderson971
      @jennieanderson971 4 роки тому +2

      ChubbiSarah Dearest Sarah, I’m very touched by your saying that you help your Mom care for your Grandma. Before I became so ill and lost my ability to walk any longer I helped my sisters care for my Mom as she was like me,very sick and was also bed bound. It was such a grief filled time 😥 But each of my sisters grew so very close to each other and to my Mom!❤️ We sat with her until she passed away... such pain and yet blessing ,knowing she was in Heaven with our Daddy and both pain free ✨🕊. This helps me now that I too am stricken, I still have some energy to play my guitar once in a while, My Son lives in Florida and I am still in Ga. I miss him and his children so much but no matter how the pain grows I will keep holding to peace and try to stay kind to people when I go to Dr Office, give little smile like Haiying says! Bless you and peace to your wonderful family ✨🕊

    • @yanghaiying
      @yanghaiying  4 роки тому +6

      You both know that this video is made for two of you. You make me a better person by thinking and doing things for you.

    • @HeySarahGurl
      @HeySarahGurl 4 роки тому +1

      Jennie Anderson you are always truly in my thoughts Jennie. I hope one day to cross paths with you and give you a great big hug. ❤️ I pray for ease and peace with you my dear friend. One thing that these pain and sad times brings us is a reminder to be close to our loved ones. In fact it’s in these times where I feel most of the love too

    • @HeySarahGurl
      @HeySarahGurl 4 роки тому

      yanghaiying thank you Haiying. I hope one day I cross paths with you in the Bay so I can tell you thank you. You truly help so much.

  • @kimberlyf.4130
    @kimberlyf.4130 4 роки тому +10

    I am a police officer and in my field I have experienced much trauma. Your words brought a peace over me, I am so grateful people like you exist in this world. Kind, intelligent, wonderful people like you Haiying make me feel like this world is worth fighting for.

    • @jennieanderson971
      @jennieanderson971 4 роки тому +1

      Kimberly Furr Dear Kimberly , I know you risk your life with the job you do, My Brother is a law officer.. Blessings to you ✨🕊

    • @kimberlyf.4130
      @kimberlyf.4130 4 роки тому +1

      @@jennieanderson971 thank you, and may angel's continue to watch over your brother ❤

    • @jennieanderson971
      @jennieanderson971 4 роки тому +1

      Kimberly Furr Thank you again for praying for my brother, All police 🚔 officers need special prayer and peace at heart 🕊 You stay safe wherever you go.. in my prayers always ✨🌹

  • @renatahowington712
    @renatahowington712 4 роки тому +10

    You’re the best part of my day!

  • @jennieanderson971
    @jennieanderson971 4 роки тому +4

    Hello Haiying, I am Soo very thankful to you for taking the time to help me with my problem with my sister, we both realized that our love ❤️ is much more important than letting a disagreement tear us apart. I have seen it happen with another family and just was so troubled that I had to know the right way to mend our strife... Thank you again for taking time to help me, you have touched me to the point of tears 😥, I believe you know me and my heart from our writing to each other! I wish happiness to you for your caring in taking videos and letting me feel like I am still walking with you and having peace 🍁 Love you My Friend

    • @HeySarahGurl
      @HeySarahGurl 4 роки тому +1

      Hi Jennie, I’m so happy we got both of our questions answered in the same video. Funny how things work out. Love prevails everything in the end. ❤️

    • @jennieanderson971
      @jennieanderson971 4 роки тому +1

      ChubbiSarah Hey Sarah, I am Soo happy to hear from you ✨ I pray all works out for you my Friend..🕊 Hope you enjoy the beautiful Autumn 🍂

  • @heathergillette1790
    @heathergillette1790 4 роки тому +2

    This video is a work of art. It's like you were painting with video. But then your thoughts and words made it even deeper. Thank you for all the creativity and thought and time you put into your video work. You enrich us all.

  • @wi1ma1
    @wi1ma1 4 роки тому +2

    I listen to you and instantly feel calm. You're like a lovely big hug for the soul x x

  • @MaiMai-eo7zk
    @MaiMai-eo7zk 4 роки тому +6

    Love your nature footages!

  • @davedogge2280
    @davedogge2280 4 роки тому +3

    Look at the colours of that park, it's like Spain in the Summer.

  • @teddyfitts7538
    @teddyfitts7538 3 роки тому

    Even though this was made a year ago it found me right at the perfect moment! ❤️❤️ everything I needed to hear!

  • @devoncarterburns
    @devoncarterburns 2 роки тому

    I was young and arrogant. I did not say the things I should have. I did not hold back my anger. I did not address my mental health. I was Indecisive. I was afraid of what other people thought. And because of It I have truly lost the love of my life after dating since we were 16. I am 24 now and we broke up 6 months ago… I feel as If I cannot breathe… I have learned my lesson and become enlightened to my mistakes… every single one of them… but In life we learn, unfortunately often when It’s too late… the person who ends up paying for the mistakes Is not the person who should. The person who should have to pay Is the person we were… I know I can find someone else. I can move on… I just don’t want to… I did this to myself and I accept my penance. It Is my fault and I deserve to reap what I have sown… I just would give anything… make any sacrifice to correct myself before…
    “How often we look back at the end of our lives and think… what a fool I have been.”

  • @TheJuansantander23
    @TheJuansantander23 4 роки тому

    Thanks for this beautiful video and landscape with amazing colors

  • @shinysworld08
    @shinysworld08 4 роки тому

    I love your wisdom. You are a true teacher. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @shinysworld08
    @shinysworld08 4 роки тому +1

    This is a beautiful scenery. This is Salt Lake City Utah? I thought it was in Asia, but it is absolutely beautiful and calming and serene.

  • @shinysworld08
    @shinysworld08 4 роки тому

    What grade do you teach. Do not struggle with your vocabulary in order to convey a message. You are teaching wisdom that the age population your trying to reach will one day look back and understand how true your words are. Your words to them are gold, but because they may be young they dont get it right now, but they will eventually

  • @lauryn6059
    @lauryn6059 4 роки тому

    I like this video