I'm thankful that I've grown to realize that our separation is not a punishment. It's a blessed time of individual healing. We were so off balanced before separation as my love for him was overwhelming us both. I definitely do not want to bring dysfunction to his world. I have definitely learned how to love and value myself. I've since, been healing and I understand that it was an unhealthy place to be. I am learning to trust the process and work on myself and trust that his insecurities, inability to fully trust has to heal as well. It definitely resonates that he is much slower in healing, but I trust in God's divine timing.
"Resist the urge to view separation as a punishment or failure" I don't think that's going to be avoidable for some people in the beginning, depending on a person traumas. And dependant on the level of pain. I did EVERYTHING spirit guided me to do and for that, I experienced unendurable agony for a little over two years. Impossible not to see it as anything but a punishment when you're wondering what you did wrong. I'm serious when I say, spirit had to keep me from harming myself. Rather than say "resist", perhaps better to say "Work on seeing it as, not a punishment or failure, but as part of your healing". Resist means denying how you truly feel, and that doesn't help, really.
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I'm thankful that I've grown to realize that our separation is not a punishment. It's a blessed time of individual healing. We were so off balanced before separation as my love for him was overwhelming us both. I definitely do not want to bring dysfunction to his world. I have definitely learned how to love and value myself. I've since, been healing and I understand that it was an unhealthy place to be. I am learning to trust the process and work on myself and trust that his insecurities, inability to fully trust has to heal as well. It definitely resonates that he is much slower in healing, but I trust in God's divine timing.
"Resist the urge to view separation as a punishment or failure"
I don't think that's going to be avoidable for some people in the beginning, depending on a person traumas. And dependant on the level of pain. I did EVERYTHING spirit guided me to do and for that, I experienced unendurable agony for a little over two years. Impossible not to see it as anything but a punishment when you're wondering what you did wrong. I'm serious when I say, spirit had to keep me from harming myself.
Rather than say "resist", perhaps better to say "Work on seeing it as, not a punishment or failure, but as part of your healing". Resist means denying how you truly feel, and that doesn't help, really.