Guys talk about LOVE vs. MONEY? [Dating, sugar mamas, chasing passions] ft. Joma Tech
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Joma’s advice is gold. Pursue your passion WHEN you’re financially stable. Otherwise, you’ll be making decisions based on your emotions and you’ll eventually get exhausted. It’s so refreshing to hear after listening to all these gurus telling you to drop everything and pursue your passion and 99% of the people end up becoming broke. Work smart instead! Loved the collab!
I agree with him. I had this conversation at the gym 3-4 weeks ago with my friend that if I want to date freely and do the things I want, I need to not base it off my financial situation. Whenever I went on dates I count how much I can spend and it became stressful. Everyone has a different goal for financial stability but being able to reach it soon is different. Some people do get lucky and some (like me) don't.
What's a good amount for that in NYC? I'm thinking $1-2 MM is the point where you won't need work to pay your bills and stuff. But $300k-500k is also a lot to lean back on.
@@sushiluvrluvzme Exactly, I'm afraid to start dating women I find attractive. I'm so afraid that most girls will find it a dealbreaker when they find out I'm studying and don't earn much yet.
No he switches back and forth
Exactly
As a blk bro, I've been watching y'all channel for a min. Your interests, life experiences and family dynamics are similar to that of the middle class blk urban cultural dynamic and just shows how we are more similar than different. Keep it going bros!
This is the collab I did not expect, but I am totally for it.
yasss jomabro lovers unite~
I feel like asian parents play a big role guiding our passions and career choice… being mentally and emotionally strong enough to challenge or carry that out is a feat in itself. Here’s to everyone finding and pursuing their true passions in 2022! 🥂🎊🎉💸💸💸
Wish my parents were like that. A lot of Western parents are too careless then expect their adult children to suddenly value hard work, stability, and education.
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Happy 2022.. Jason and Dr John Yoo!! May your craziest dreams come true too!!! 🥰🥰
Joma's story is so relatable! Having your "typical" Asian parents growing up and engraining that kind of mentality into our upbringing is so true. The more "independent" you get in life with a good career and everything, the more relaxed they seem to become. All they want is for their kids to be well off, and most of the time the path they know is the traditional go to school and get a good job. Also with love vs. money, the older I get and the more I experience, it's not really about the endgame wealth, or the prestigious job, but more about the fire and drive for thigns in life. Given that trait, yes one may not make it on attempt 1, 2, or 3, but you just need 1 to hit and you're gold.
As a viewer who watches J Bro & Joma’s content on regular uploads, this is such a great collab please invite him over for more talks! It’s really refreshing to see this serious side of Joma instead of the funny awkward guy he is on his channel hahaha. His advices are really solid & insightful and the synergy between J Bros & Joma is really just *chef’s kiss*.
@Joma please invite them over to your channel as well - perhaps Joma in NYC or 6 Strangers. Would really love to see it 🤍
Huge respect to all 3 of y’all i’ve seen the growth from when John left his old work place & talked about opening his own dentist clinic, Jason chasing his masters as well as Joma who started his two new channels - Joma in NYC & 6 Strangers alongside with growing his main channel - Joma Tech. It’s amazing to see how far y’all have come. Keep it up! ♡
I'm always proud when I see young men such as myself developing and uplifting themselves!
Thank you for bringing Joma on; I didn't expect this collab, but the 3 of you are some of my favorite UA-camrs. This gave us the introspective, wise side of Joma we knew he had but hadn't actually seen; this video adds so much sense to how he grew to where he is on the platform now. Keep up the great content gents
OMG. This episode is gold!!! 🔥🔥🔥 Adulting, hustling, career and life advice. You pick and J Bro will got you covered. 🙌🙌🙌
John is so good at building others up - I got inspired listening to him compliment Joma's work 😊 great questions and video!
The unexpected collab that ended up being the best! Love the advice and insights from 3 bros that inspires me so much because of their grind & honesty! you guys covered so much and this is so cool to see the perspective of people I look up to on love, career, money, passion, family talk! Joma being "interviewed" is more entertaining than him being "the interviewer" 😄
Cool collab! I like the way how Joma phrased his thoughts and opinions so clearly. Very mature and real, love to see more collabs in the future!
I can't tell how much i'm loving this show ...like seriously you guys are opening talks about topics that hit the brain and heart rocket 💙
JOMA the THIRD J BRO. THANKS FOR SUPPORTING TECH UA-camRS. :)
Such a relevant conversation. I love medicine but I also enjoy making creative content. Even in medical school/residency I’ve been able to write novels, but I feel like both parts go hand in hand - I’m a better writer as a doctor and I’m a better doctor because I’m a writer. Really humbling convo!
It's so true that you have to be able to afford your passion financially first.
Love the topics in this episode! It's a healthy mix of relationship and career which is somewhat different from the exclusive focus on relationship and intimacy stuff with female guests in earlier episodes. Would love to see more career related conversations with girls in the future so we could see more about the differences in perspectives and approaches at the workplace from both genders!
A podcast would be incredible 👀
thanks broo for the hype- 2022 new year's resolution for us !
Yous are one of the coolest , most sensible, most practical guys in the heart of NYC. Stay fresh 😉
I would love to see Joma serious side more, he really nailed the advices
I think this might be my favorite video from Jbros. It's rare to hear advice that is original and not repeated by everyone and this video is the former.
I agree with Joma and John that women can more overlook the physical. No matter how long the other party has been pursing them for, women don't often "settle" for someone they have no emotional connection or interest in. Instead, "settling for a backup" is a mindset more prevalent among men.
7:44 really hit it home for me. Just got out of a relationship of 6+ years just a couple of months ago. As I got older, I realized I want someone who's ambitious and passionate and works hard towards achieving their goal(s). I find that really attractive.
Joma is touching upon so many good points. Good to see him talking about dating and work in a serious and insightful manner for once. Hope to see more of this collab.
I 💯 agree with Joma. Gotta start watching his videos now. I'm in the situation rn where I prioritize love and passion than money, As for me it is harder to find and as long as you're not lazy, money could be everywhere. Inner happiness is more important than money. I can't spend the whole day with 💩 job or environment with toxic people, that time is hard to pass. I would rather accept min. pay, if I'm happy, less stressed, passionate and with good company/environment, that would make time faster cos im enjoying and be excited for the following day.
새해 복 많이 받으세요. Kudos to each one of you, may you have all your dreams come to life. 💚 화이팅! 👊🏻Aja! Till your next video. 😍🤗👏🏻
This is one of the real UA-cam influence channels
I thought joma is the weirdest person but from this video, i can see that he is actually a quite normal person LOL
Me too! 😂😂
Have been watching Joma and the Jbros for sometime now and it's so good to see them come together. Really loving these sit down talks !
I remember seeing this on your story and was waiting for it to come out -- this was worth the wait 🔥🔥 love the perspectives about how money plays a big part in all parts of life: romance, career, passion are all intertwined with financial stability. Can't pour from an empty glass so gotta secure the bag first! Definitely want to see more content from these 3 J bros
This video is very insightful J Bros! Thanks for inviting Joma to share. I can relate to this too. Although I don't have the passion like you guys haha. I just feel like I want to do something else aside of my current job, but I need it in order to live comfortably at least, for now. My dream is kinda small like just being able to own my own apartment ;p so haha and what a good message to welcome 2022!
I’m gonna be honest, Joma collabs/features is primarily how I discover most of my non Joma YT content
Great to hear Joma's perspective. I'd never heard of him before but will check out his channel. Happy new year to all!
Yay, this is finally out! Can't wait to see more collabs of Jbro x Joma and his insightful wit! Next up could be Jbro's guest act at Joma tech and podcast? 😅
Thank you guys for this unexpected collab because it was great! Personally, I had to face dilemmas in both areas, but thankfully I'm focusing on my career and personal growth. I'm inspired by you guys & these topics were helpful to listen to! Cheers to you guys and everyone in this New Year of 2022!🥂🎉
WoW! it's awesome! Last video of 2021, talking about money, passion and a lot... best way of expressing gratitude and new hopes for life!! KUDOS J Bro and Joma!! Happy New Year ahead...!! wishing you all and looking forward for even more fun talk for the next year...!! Waiting see you in the NEW YEAR 2022....🎊🎉🥳🥳😊😊
lovely to see the other side of joma
a very interesting, intellectual, and entertaining man
WOW! Did not expect this one! Love the collab!
Joma is a top shelf guy and he's spoiled with choices here. No need to worry. Moving on~
Really needed this eye opener. Right now I’m struggling to choose between staying at my current company job working 12 hrs 7 days a week or go into the beauty industry after I’m done with my schooling. Currently going for my cosmetology license I won’t be done till the end of December 2022. I still have along way to go but its something that always crosses my mind. I know it’s going to be a struggle already if I quit my job right after graduation, but its a challenge I’m willing to take to purse my passion since getting my cosmetology license isn’t easy, while working full time and being an evening student part time.
Hands down! One of the most insightful talks about passion & money. Go J Bros & Joma 🙏🏻
Joma can be the 3rd J Bro. Please have him again for more videos
Wow! This video deserves more than a million views. I definitely learned a lot. Thanks guys!:)
I’m honestly hope they would have their own podcast.
Joma .
Where is evelyn and fred
Omg 😱 i got this randomly.
I know joma after watching evelyn ha UA-cam videos
The hair guys... beautiful * chef's kiss *
I was just thinking about this collab yesterday and here we go! Great content, pls invite Joma back for future episode
The collaboration I didn't know I needed. Good to see the big boss Joma pursuing his passion ins a strategic manner
Love the talk. Thanks for sharing it to the community.
Damn JoBros COLLAB! NYC’s the hub
Hahaha “I realized I’m kinda maturing” - love the brutally honest self reflection
should've been titled "23 minutes of admiring joma". just absolutely loved seeing this side of joma.
Thanks for having Joma on the show, really loved this video as well guys ♥
I actually know someone who is finally dating a mutual friend of ours who chased her for 2-3 years. She finally gave him a chance and I think she’s much happier in this relationship than the others but I wouldn’t call it settling I’d say it’s more switching focus from physical attraction to emotional connection.
Ohmo. The crossover that needed to happen
What a great video Bro's. Keep up the great talk!
Oh my lord, all these sharing hits homeeee! I truly appreciate all these sharing. It's so interesting hearing new perspectives and relating to some pointers. I love it!
Great collab! Totally agree that we have to financially stable or secured before pursuing our dream and passion. Just like in a relationship, for Chinese, we often say we have to choose between "bread" and "water" as we cannot develop and support a family with "water" only. Anyway, wish you both and Joma have a wonderful and prosperous 2022!
Manhood.. bread & butter decisions..it takes a man with loads of passion, guts, determination and discipline to be a self- made entrepreneur/youtuber. Great guys are.. 👍🏻☺️🥰
Finally 💕💕💕💕💕💕 love your videos guys !!!! Wishing you all the best for this 2022 ✨✨
thanks for sharing! may we all be able to find our passions in 2022! happy new year! 🎉🎉🎉
It makes sense, pursuing passion when your stable.
I will always choose love. Money is nice but your person really makes you happy.
A few yrs ago I used to be all about passion even if I lost money and gained nothing from it. Now, I need to be financially stable before going for my passion. In 1.5yrs it changed.
alright, we need to have joma join the j bros! lol really enjoyed this video because I'm currently in the process of working toward my professional career but really want to get into youtube!
I never thought I would say this “Joma is very matured and wise”. 🙌🏼
love this collab i learned a lot from your perspectives
totally agree that you have to be stable first at yourself before you commit to anything
Thanks for the interesting video! I have an alternate/additional(?) perspective about money vs passion that I'd like to share!
I don't think the "Once becoming financially stable (aka get rich quick), you are more likely to become successful/find meaning in doing something you enjoy by following your passions, even if unconventional (e.g. UA-cam or an artist)" mentality is generalisable, and perhaps you agree, but this is UA-cam so there are some who might take it at face value and so here is my take. I think this mentality is applicable to a specific subset of those who share a core trait of self-discipline and have already demonstrated this in society by way of a previous or current job that has brought about financial stability.
I think there should be an emphasis on self-discipline, or good work ethic, as a trait that underpins the above mentality. Though I guess it goes without saying!
To illustrate my point with an example, let's consider a person with an unhealthy habit that is possibly as a consequence of a lack of self-discipline - gaming addictions, subpar spending habits, procrastination or disorganisation to the point of being significant enough in your life to be counterproductive to your ambitions. Such a person, regardless of how little or how much money they earn or have, will still struggle with these habits if they do not resolve the underlying problem or have self-discipline. At face value, getting rich quick or becoming financially stable enough to not only pursue your passions but do it successfully cannot first be achieved without this core trait. And fair enough, there may be reasons for the emergence of these unhealthy habits because life and suffering gets in the way. I think we need to be careful when encouraging the pursuit of a passion without giving more credit to the hardworking, aim-for-higher mindset that has been so instilled in us particularly by our immigrant parents (although I'm not saying their ways of upbringing are always right).
Tldr; Before money, or passion, one needs to build skills of responsibility and self-discipline which translates to a good work ethic. Because without these traits as a foundation, money will not take you anywhere, and passion will not manifest into something meaningful. Life is hard, pursue your passions with determination and hard work! Thanks for hearing my thoughts☺️
This is actually so true!
So intelligent, enjoyed this episode. Again, complimentary duo
Joma’s advice on balancing money with passion is 💯
Mygosh. This couldn't have come at a better time (although this was from alst year and i'm just watching this now). Love you, JBros!!! I hope to see you in the future!!! Also love Joma in an instant!!!
You guys motivate and inspire me to grind hard and play hard!!!
So many gems here!!!!
OH SHIIIIIIIZZZZ JBros and Joma collab!! More por favor
I really enjoy watching all three if u interact with each other. :) awesome video…!! Please upload more !:)
omg having joma here is ICONIC
I love talks like this….thanks for the video :)
Hope to see more collaboration of you three..Joma is so hilarious.. Nice hair , John and Jason..😊
Happy New Year everyone!
We'll have to do this again soon. Stay blessed.
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Loveeeeee to hear whatever Joma says, so on point. I've no idea who he is but I'm a fan now. 🔥🔥
The collab I didn't expect. My two fav ytbers
Hi Jbro, 👟🧢
🎊️Life is short, dream big & make the most of 2022!💐
Cheers to the new year!🥂🍾
thanks for the shoes and baseball cap
Never seen this channel, but I like the vibe they give off, def gonna be subbing for a few videos to see how it goes!
In my case, i choosed favorite working,even though the money of job was small,now a little bit i can earn more and this government recognized my work. Just i can save a little bit, no house, no care now, but i am happy because of doing my best passions. My clients loves me. And i love them. This love ,too, give me a comfort and joy. Just money follows each person's passion and love. You,J bro 's works make me good heart and remind of last days. Thank you and i wish to go on my journey with love and passion. I hope to love more~~~~♡ my english need more studying. Hahaha
Thank you . From korea small town.
So sweet
I LOVE JOMA!
Finally! A more realistic comment about passion, career, and money.
You guys should do a video with your parents
There's this guy that has been chasing me for 10 years now (I know, it's a long time) and this whole time we've just been friends though I know that he really likes me and he's told me that, but has also respected my decision on not wanting to be more than friends with him. I recently started to reflect on many things and had just that thought: "well he's caring, loyal, hard worker, super nice and so many many qualities, why don't I just try?", and It sounds kinda harsh to say it's like my last resort or like second option or even "settling", and I suddenly had that thought and after thinking about it I realized no, it's not settling, I think I have actually started to have feelings towards him, so I agree with Joma, it's more like I started to develop feelings for him because I have to be honest, I was never attracted to him physically but it's his personality, mindset, and all those things that weigh more than his physical appearance. And it's actually been 12 years of chasing me, I was 13 when I met him and he told me he liked me, and he was 21, now I'm 25 and he's 33 (we met at church btw). He says he loves me, and if it's not with me than it's no one and says it in a very calm and confident voice 😅. And I don't think it's an obsession because he's never had any weird obsessive behavior and never forced me to do or say anything, we always just hang out and talk about all sorts of things. Anyway, it's just something I'm going through these days, thinking if we should date or just continue as really good friends because I can imagine myself with him but at the same time so scared of making the wrong decision since I don't like taking risks I'm always analyzing EVERYTHING! 😅. And yet I'm also just ok with just waiting and see what God has for me. And if it's this guy he has for me then I guess I'll know eventually, cause I don't know "how" you "know".😅🤷🏻♀️
Wait hold up he said he liked you when you were 13 and he was 21
@@linayr8 yeah haha, I know it sounds weird but we started to get to know each other even better by the age of 14 or 15 and have been friends since (he's always looked way younger than his age, even now at 34 he looks like 27) Asian features I guess 🤷🏻♀️
These are the sort of bros anyone would like to have
Love your video’s and thank you for sharing with us ❤️
Happy new year 🥳 wishing all the happiness in the world
Stay safe and healthy 🥰
Happy new year 🥳🥳💜
Hope yall have a safe, healthy and happy new year!! 😊 🥳✨💛
love this collab
Ay love this feature! Joma and JBros!
Here I am watching this at 3am! Hehehe. Very insightful video. "Get rich quick" LOL that's easier said than done. Do something that gives you fulfillment, then the money will come.
Happy 2022, all the best wishes and stay safe.
We love extra Joma, keep ‘em coming
It must be nice knowing that you have a passion and actually excelling in it. I would definitely choose security over anything even if I did happen to find my passion. I feel like once I make what I find interesting to do my main job, I'll start to like it less because it became my main job.
be frequent brosssss
Nice that you provide Korean subtitles!
Not sure to watch this 23 minutes video since I have to go sleep earlier, but once I click play, I finish it and feels like 10 minutes only.. Nice discussion.
hahah thats awesome to hear , thank you Aini!
wait.. did joma say he left his job?
The vibes here are immaculate 🤌
Joma is so amazing, setting the atmosphere