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Definitely agree with Freesia that whoever asks for a date should pay! In my head, that's being respectful and showing that you appreciate them taking the time out to see you! But I can see why some ppl beg to differ.
What about the time where x asks y to go out, doesn’t mention it’s a date however acts at the end like it was a date? Or goes out hoping it will transform in something more than a friendship without actually saying it straight?
Poor Jason! Sorry to hear that you got Swindled.. Agree with Freesia 100%, taking responsibility of ones actions and appreciating others effort of giving their time.. Overall this episode is hilarious.. Keep up the great work guys!!
glad to get freesia back on this channel, she likes to tell the truth....and that's good, and I think the first date should still be the guy paying for it...even if the dating initiative comes from the girl. and freesia is right, as we get older we will be more attracted to personality and emotional maturity which is interesting more than just a face, but still the first attraction is on the face, after that then we can feel attracted to his emotionally and his personality if he was a nice guy, and we like to know bout him more deeper
I like when Freesia comes on the videos she reminds me a lot of my closer friends. I actually have a hard time telling if something’s a date or not so I always offer to pay but it definitely sets a more platonic vibe if you never stated that it was a date. Also side note toys exist for a reason if you have a high libido and your partner doesn’t then you really should respect their boundary and finish the deed by yourself or discuss things openly. Remember open communication is also what sparks intimacy.
1. Loveeee Freesia! 🥰 2. For older vs younger, it's all about the EQ and security they can provide. I'm like Jason, where by chance I've only dated younger and it always felt fine/normal. Like we wouldn't ever notice who was older or younger because we just felt like equals.
I love how Freesia is so level-headed!! In relation to whether the guy or girl pays I kinda agree with Freesia but I feel like there is a real tendency for guys to pay on first dates and I guess that's like a 'norm' that has carried on over the years but obviously slowly changing.
I have found that the older I get, the less I care about age. I'm 32 now and (depending on the guy) am very comfortable dating between 25-37. If we get along, are similar maturity wise, and like each other, age doesn't really matter. When I was 21 there was NO WAY I would have dated younger for the exact reasons Freesia listed. Now it's not a big deal, but again, it really just depends on the guy. Something I like about younger men is that they make me feel more...youthful, if that makes sense. I kind of miss my younger 20's self sometimes because I feel like she was more silly and carefree than I am now. I feel like younger guys bring out that same spirit in me that I miss. If I'm with a man who's too much older than me then I feel like I have to be a serious adult all the time and that's a little suffocating. I can't be silly all the time, though, so that's why maturity level is important. Just a good balance, I guess. It's no deal breaker, but it's definitely something I like.
It's different tho bc when you were 21 dating guys younger than that(20 19 18) are completely different in terms of maturity level than guys in their mid or late 20s.
@@daebak7370 Oh, I agree. That's why I said the older I get, the less it matters. When you're younger, it matters a little more because of maturity and age :)
I can attest to Freesia about maturity! I usually went for someone of my age or older and surprisingly, I'm now with someone who's almost 8 years younger than me who is very mature and we're now inseparable :)
I’m 56, when I was young I dated older men, because I liked being challenged and the intellectual aspect. Now that I’m older I like the energy of being around younger men. I’m always busy and full of energy, and men my age are wanting to nap and relax. 😂 I really think it’s about matching each other’s energy and being intellectually stimulated. All the other stuff is the easy part.
Both people paying their respective parts on a date makes the most sense to me, or like what John said, one can pay for dinner while the other pays for dessert (something like that). I think the whole idea that the guy HAS to pay on the first is so dated. I feel like it's just become natural for some people to assume that the guy will be paying because they've been told it's "courtesy". If I went on a date with a girl that cared THAT much about whether or not I paid on the first date, that'd probably be the last one.
I think the more you date the more you know what matters to you, so it always depends on the person. I really only focus on personality than body but i feel as though that is tougher to find. For me I've noticed if a guy makes me pay on the first date for anything or even makes me question me paying, I don't think he is into me. I also think sexual compatibility matters, I couldn't be with someone who had less drive than me 'passion' wise, it's like getting an appetizers when you are starving.
Agreed with Freesia on who shld be paying on the 1st date or at least perhaps going dutch but great to hear from John that the guy shld be the one paying 😅 It's NOT so much on the paying per se but it just shows forth the gentlemanliness on the guy's part esp on the 1st date! 👍😊 Enjoyed this Q&A session & looking forward to Part II! Thanks J Bro & Freesia for the honest sharing! 🔥👏
I agree with the age gap. My crush rejected me because he said our age gap is too big (eventho we share the same vibes). I'm 21, an undergraduate, broke meanwhile he's 27, master grad, an archi, have a car and soon to be Ar. If I were him too I would reject myself. 😂
Thank God. There's way too many dudes that age that would GLADLY take the opportunity to date a 21 yo or even younger while often not taking her seriously at all.
I couldn’t imagine dating myself a few years back with the eq I had then…. But that also makes me wonder if I’ll think the same thing about my new “mature” self in the future. It’s a viscous cycle out here
There’s this guy, I’ve only seen him with a mask. So just his personality, eyes and voice alone got me crushing on him . Recently by chance I saw him with his mask off…he wasn’t as cute as I had imagine, but I still find him undeniably attractive 😭
Had Grandparents who were still sexually active into their 80's and they were sonorous to tell us!!! I think adding spice to your relationship at whatever age is so important...a surprise weekend away..A night in a hotel...an romantic evening at home..etc. etc.etc.
Agree with Freesia, regardless of whether it's a guy or my friend or family member, if I invite them somewhere I'm going in with the mindset that I'm going to be paying.
I think on the 1st date guy should pay the bill as a statement he will take a good care of you.. as a girl, no matter how much money i have or how strong i am, it would be so nice if have a guy to rely on.. if i pay for the 1st date it means i dont like the guy..
The age should never matter if you are in love. Take it from a woman that is 9 years older then her husband. We have been together for 21 years. Age is just numbers. The love is what counts.
It is absolutely the person who asks the person out who pays. She's right. If not, be adults and talk about it ahead of time first without rudeness or bitterness
Nah I agree with John- most girls expect the guy to pay for the first date. I do agree w freesia that if you ask someone out then you kind of put that expectation on yourself to pay, but also like she mentioned she doesn’t really ask guys out. I’ve also never asked a guy out. I’ve paid for dessert in return. It’s just nice to see that chivalry isn’t dead haha. I won’t expect the guy to pay for all subsequent dates; it’s about give and take. First date tho sets the tone.
Any guy that said sex is not on their mind is a liar or gay lol I also agree on who gets to pay the first date, whoever ask should but it's always appreciated if the girl try to pay for her part.
as usual, loved the video! & i definitely love love love when freesia is around! she puts her two cents in on my behalf lol ALSO, i have a question for you all, i’m curious to know what you all think. How important is religion when considering a new relationship? Are you willing to compromise if there are differences?
Idk if the date paying part was my question picked to answer because I asked in John insta sticker but absolutely loved Freesia’s answer and totally agree to that, Just like society portrays older boy-young girl relationships, it shouldn’t always be the male who pays for dates and definitely if the girl is asking out for a date, she should also be able to sort her finances to treat it as a date. 💰 not just paying for dessert john. 😐 Can’t wait for part 2 👏 Freesia is a sweetheart and at the same time so level headed ♥️
I love the talk section!! It actually reflected some people? Most people's thought... at least me? Appreciation, respect, etc.. anyhow, it just a very helpful talk for me ^^
I mean it's pretty rare for a girl to ask a guy out so I always found that reasoning lacking. Personally, I find it attractive if a woman picks up the first bill. It shows a clear sign of interest, shows she's financially independent, and removes any suspicion of being used as a free meal which sets her apart by being socially considerate. Even as far as we have progressed chances are if they continue dating, the guy in most cases earns more and will pay more throughout the relationship.
Fact's, women know that they don't ask guys to go out so they use this undertone rule instead. If we go dutch on the first date, I'll definitely pay for the second and possibly third date with little hesitation.
Old people definitely get it on. There's a retirement community called The Villages outside of Orlando, FL, and they have the highest STD rates in Central Florida 🥴 When I was younger and dating guys in college, and immediately afterwards, I had no problem splitting the bill. A few years after starting our careers I expected to at least alternate paying for the dates (more of whoever asked for the date pays). Now that I'm back in school and restarting my career I have no problem letting a guy pay for the dates if he insists 😅 I never expect him to, and I always offer to at least pay my half, but I definitely appreciate when they pay. We love a man who isn't afraid of periods 👏🙌 In my experience, older/more mature guys tend to not care about periods or presence/lack of body hair. Nearly all of the younger guys I've dated (about 3-5 years younger at the time of dating) would complain about appearance and grooming at a much higher rate than older guys (3-10 years older at the time of dating).
What freesia says is true. The deeper and longer the relationship is, the less the sex is, but when sex does happen, it’s AMAZING lol. N I only say that because me n my fiancé has been together for 5yrs n at first… honestly… he almost got his *ss cheated on with his bad segg game lol. But now that we engaged, and after trial n error we’re very open with what we like n don’t like, so now we know how to keep each other turned on and get to that climax. Especially me, because at first he didn’t know how to get me their, but now he cares to try and and knows a few tricks.
I think that on the first date ech one has to pay for their things, 50/50, at least where I live we do that, it's quite normal. When you are closer to that person, you can invite them. For example, one pays for dinner and then the other pays for movie tickets. Nice video guys and Freesia ❤️
I really love her she had so mature and calm Answers. Love her laugh. And she had good chemistry with JJ. And is true girls are more emotional and moody in everything. Especially when they get older 😂. And I'm sorry but no matter the man age they always always always thinking about X. Is the reality so no to be ashamedis normal and part of be a man . No offense. Womans had a lot of things in their mind but they think about X too
John: A true gentleman, cultured and dependable. Freesia: Mature, honest and open-minded. Jason: Cool, laidback and funny. All in all, having you three is such a hot mess and hilarious at the same time! Your content ALWAYS makes my day. 🤭🤣😅🥰 Keep doing you guys!!! Love love everything you do. 🙌🙌🙌🙌
Uh oh, another long comment lmao. I agree that whoever invites should pay, and I feel like most people feel that way. As a woman if I invited you on the first date, I’d be willing to pay for the first day buttt I’d appreciate him paying the first date. As far as sex goes, statistically sex tends to get better because the couple knows each other more. I don’t believe that men develop slower than women though, I think men have a much weaker standard than women/men get to kind of age at a reasonable rate compared to their age, while women are kinda forced to age up and be mature. Also random, her voice is so calming. Loved hearing her perspective!
I never liked older men (still don't) except for once I got a crush on the father of a guy I was seeing. Even then I thought it was weird. I remember thinking "what the hell"?!
Where I'm from, splitting the bill seems very much the norm among people in their twenties. Generally the people I'm dating make the same money as me or more, and neither of us are so well-off we can throw cash around. So we either split the bill, or we get the bill with the expectation that the other party will get the next one. This is obviously different if one of us is a lot wealthier, and if we're going somewhere above one person's budget because the other person wants to, then the other person might pay. Having the guy always pay just doesn't make sense unless he's much wealthier, because guys are no longer sole providers that women depend upon. My country is very socially liberal though, so it's not necessarily like America in terms of dating culture. You might offend a woman by not letting her pay, as you might seem very socially conservative when it comes to women. Also, while you are asking for someone's time, you're also offering your own time, so that's a fair trade if the connection is mutual. If you are asking out a total stranger (irl, not on Tinder), with whom you have no pre-existing connection, then you should probably pay for it though. This is just less common dating practice than it is in America.
I missed you guys! Welcome back Freesia! So proud of John - he rides the crimson tide!!! And we thought Jason was the freaky one - you boomer! 😅 (When you're with the right person, your abs should always be sore from all the sex.) I too heard STIs/STDs run rampant in retirement homes.
I'm only 1:25 into the video and I LOVE her answer! If I'm asking you out, I have already made space in my mind to pay for you and will. If the guy asks, I want to each pay for our own. I rarely let a guy fully pay until we are in a more secure realtionship. I'm probably really weird but I just don't want to feel like anything is owed becuase he paid for me.
❤ 👔Boys or men? Traditionally, the gentleman takes the lead, so the man would provide too, starting with the first date (and all future dates too). Traditionally women bear the responsibility of domestic duties, so she would be providing too; not financially, but with her feminine love and nurturing care 👨👩👧👧💖 men and women made in different ways to complement each other
How about an older women how old do you think or how much age difference do you think a man would appreciate like I’m an older woman woman I’m 56 what would be the youngest that you think a man would be attracted to her
I agree with Freesia and I did it but in my experience I don't understand why he was getting mad and disappointed when I paid??! 😢🤔🤔 So I've never did it again on my dates.. and still don't know why
I an active 70 year old who enjoys sex on average 3 times daily with my monogamous 76 year old partner. It is good for our emotional and physical health. No job or children stress and the joy of unhurried sex is wonderful. I was a widow for 5 years and this chapter in my life is a unexpected gift.
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@@JBRODUCTION Happy New Year, Jason and John...Freesia, too. ❤
Oh man this girl is so genuine. No pretense. She's so confident in what she says and doesn't just want to play "cool". Hope there's a part 2 to it 🤞
Definitely agree with Freesia that whoever asks for a date should pay! In my head, that's being respectful and showing that you appreciate them taking the time out to see you! But I can see why some ppl beg to differ.
very cool mindset - long as both parties are on same page we are all for it !!
@@JBRODUCTION yes!!! That's the key
What about the time where x asks y to go out, doesn’t mention it’s a date however acts at the end like it was a date? Or goes out hoping it will transform in something more than a friendship without actually saying it straight?
To all the women saying whoever asks should pay, how many times have YOU actually asked ?! That answers everything I guess.
@@Rudi_Mentary723 yeah really
Poor Jason! Sorry to hear that you got Swindled.. Agree with Freesia 100%, taking responsibility of ones actions and appreciating others effort of giving their time.. Overall this episode is hilarious.. Keep up the great work guys!!
glad to get freesia back on this channel, she likes to tell the truth....and that's good, and I think the first date should still be the guy paying for it...even if the dating initiative comes from the girl. and freesia is right, as we get older we will be more attracted to personality and emotional maturity which is interesting more than just a face, but still the first attraction is on the face, after that then we can feel attracted to his emotionally and his personality if he was a nice guy, and we like to know bout him more deeper
I like when Freesia comes on the videos she reminds me a lot of my closer friends. I actually have a hard time telling if something’s a date or not so I always offer to pay but it definitely sets a more platonic vibe if you never stated that it was a date. Also side note toys exist for a reason if you have a high libido and your partner doesn’t then you really should respect their boundary and finish the deed by yourself or discuss things openly. Remember open communication is also what sparks intimacy.
1. Loveeee Freesia! 🥰 2. For older vs younger, it's all about the EQ and security they can provide. I'm like Jason, where by chance I've only dated younger and it always felt fine/normal. Like we wouldn't ever notice who was older or younger because we just felt like equals.
Why do we relate to Jason more than John 😅😅
I love how Freesia is so level-headed!! In relation to whether the guy or girl pays I kinda agree with Freesia but I feel like there is a real tendency for guys to pay on first dates and I guess that's like a 'norm' that has carried on over the years but obviously slowly changing.
I have found that the older I get, the less I care about age. I'm 32 now and (depending on the guy) am very comfortable dating between 25-37. If we get along, are similar maturity wise, and like each other, age doesn't really matter. When I was 21 there was NO WAY I would have dated younger for the exact reasons Freesia listed. Now it's not a big deal, but again, it really just depends on the guy. Something I like about younger men is that they make me feel more...youthful, if that makes sense. I kind of miss my younger 20's self sometimes because I feel like she was more silly and carefree than I am now. I feel like younger guys bring out that same spirit in me that I miss. If I'm with a man who's too much older than me then I feel like I have to be a serious adult all the time and that's a little suffocating. I can't be silly all the time, though, so that's why maturity level is important. Just a good balance, I guess. It's no deal breaker, but it's definitely something I like.
It's different tho bc when you were 21 dating guys younger than that(20 19 18) are completely different in terms of maturity level than guys in their mid or late 20s.
@@daebak7370 Oh, I agree. That's why I said the older I get, the less it matters. When you're younger, it matters a little more because of maturity and age :)
I can attest to Freesia about maturity! I usually went for someone of my age or older and surprisingly, I'm now with someone who's almost 8 years younger than me who is very mature and we're now inseparable :)
I’m 56, when I was young I dated older men, because I liked being challenged and the intellectual aspect. Now that I’m older I like the energy of being around younger men. I’m always busy and full of energy, and men my age are wanting to nap and relax. 😂 I really think it’s about matching each other’s energy and being intellectually stimulated. All the other stuff is the easy part.
Both people paying their respective parts on a date makes the most sense to me, or like what John said, one can pay for dinner while the other pays for dessert (something like that). I think the whole idea that the guy HAS to pay on the first is so dated. I feel like it's just become natural for some people to assume that the guy will be paying because they've been told it's "courtesy". If I went on a date with a girl that cared THAT much about whether or not I paid on the first date, that'd probably be the last one.
As a PA student who asks patients if they’re sexually active, it amazes me how many old patients say yes lol
"swindled" = BRILLIANT!
This episode was hilarious!!! 🤣🤣 I love you guys! This gave me a good laugh and break from studying! Can't wait for the next ep!
The funniest trio 😩
First time watching you guys, really enjoyed the genuine none filtered answers🤗
I think the more you date the more you know what matters to you, so it always depends on the person. I really only focus on personality than body but i feel as though that is tougher to find. For me I've noticed if a guy makes me pay on the first date for anything or even makes me question me paying, I don't think he is into me. I also think sexual compatibility matters, I couldn't be with someone who had less drive than me 'passion' wise, it's like getting an appetizers when you are starving.
I hope John and Jason get someone as nice as they are 😭😭😭😭
Agreed with Freesia on who shld be paying on the 1st date or at least perhaps going dutch but great to hear from John that the guy shld be the one paying 😅 It's NOT so much on the paying per se but it just shows forth the gentlemanliness on the guy's part esp on the 1st date! 👍😊 Enjoyed this Q&A session & looking forward to Part II! Thanks J Bro & Freesia for the honest sharing! 🔥👏
Well being 'gentlemanly' has back-fired TWICE on me. So its highly confusing when you say that.
I agree with the age gap. My crush rejected me because he said our age gap is too big (eventho we share the same vibes). I'm 21, an undergraduate, broke meanwhile he's 27, master grad, an archi, have a car and soon to be Ar. If I were him too I would reject myself. 😂
Thank God. There's way too many dudes that age that would GLADLY take the opportunity to date a 21 yo or even younger while often not taking her seriously at all.
@@icecreamcake6238 dang THANK GOD and thank YOU for opening my eyes to this new perspective. I'll be more careful.
This was hilarious. Love hearing from Freesia's point of view.
I couldn’t imagine dating myself a few years back with the eq I had then…. But that also makes me wonder if I’ll think the same thing about my new “mature” self in the future. It’s a viscous cycle out here
There’s this guy, I’ve only seen him with a mask. So just his personality, eyes and voice alone got me crushing on him . Recently by chance I saw him with his mask off…he wasn’t as cute as I had imagine, but I still find him undeniably attractive 😭
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This is my favourite channel on UA-cam by far!
Had Grandparents who were still sexually active into their 80's and they were sonorous to tell us!!!
I think adding spice to your relationship at whatever age is so important...a surprise weekend away..A night in a hotel...an romantic evening at home..etc. etc.etc.
Agree with Freesia, regardless of whether it's a guy or my friend or family member, if I invite them somewhere I'm going in with the mindset that I'm going to be paying.
I absolutely love this trio!!! Please do more if possible!
Finally! Can this become a saga? Love, major fan.
No way, I agree with John! A guy should pay for the date and stop the girl if she tries to pay. I guess I’m old school haha!
Only low-status, Beta, insecure ‘boys’ allows the women to pay. Ladies need to walk away from these type of guys. Date gentlemen not losers.
I think on the 1st date guy should pay the bill as a statement he will take a good care of you.. as a girl, no matter how much money i have or how strong i am, it would be so nice if have a guy to rely on.. if i pay for the 1st date it means i dont like the guy..
Who ever ask must pay. If she initiated then she pays for it. He cannot ask her to take her out and then expects 50/50.
Freesia you are so right emotion is the key!!
The age should never matter if you are in love. Take it from a woman that is 9 years older then her husband. We have been together for 21 years. Age is just numbers. The love is what counts.
I like Freesia's honesty in this video
Jason's two souls~ I' m taking a pause to LOL!
I agree with Jason...it is more about the vibe and not the age.👍
Welcome Back. Ah Freesia is so cool who dare to speak up,not everyone no matter is guys or girls bring up the sensitive topics😎😎😎🌷🌷🌷🍀🍀🍀
It is absolutely the person who asks the person out who pays. She's right. If not, be adults and talk about it ahead of time first without rudeness or bitterness
Ahhaa! Love how you guys ran into each other at Chipote and are now booked for this chat! Love it when Freesia joins.
Wow! Y’all popped in my feed and I’m glad I gave it a chance. New sub here. John is cute!!!!! 😙
Nah I agree with John- most girls expect the guy to pay for the first date. I do agree w freesia that if you ask someone out then you kind of put that expectation on yourself to pay, but also like she mentioned she doesn’t really ask guys out. I’ve also never asked a guy out. I’ve paid for dessert in return. It’s just nice to see that chivalry isn’t dead haha. I won’t expect the guy to pay for all subsequent dates; it’s about give and take. First date tho sets the tone.
Any guy that said sex is not on their mind is a liar or gay lol I also agree on who gets to pay the first date, whoever ask should but it's always appreciated if the girl try to pay for her part.
Do straight men think more about sex than guy men?
as usual, loved the video! & i definitely love love love when freesia is around! she puts her two cents in on my behalf lol ALSO, i have a question for you all, i’m curious to know what you all think.
How important is religion when considering a new relationship? Are you willing to compromise if there are differences?
This episode was nice watching it. Love 💕 Freesia's confidence, keep bringing her in your more episodes 👏👏.
Very interesting topic!!! Enjoyed it. Jason u poor thing looks like u can't get a break .....😊😊
Idk if the date paying part was my question picked to answer because I asked in John insta sticker but absolutely loved Freesia’s answer and totally agree to that, Just like society portrays older boy-young girl relationships, it shouldn’t always be the male who pays for dates and definitely if the girl is asking out for a date, she should also be able to sort her finances to treat it as a date. 💰
not just paying for dessert john. 😐
Can’t wait for part 2 👏 Freesia is a sweetheart and at the same time so level headed ♥️
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I love the talk section!! It actually reflected some people? Most people's thought... at least me? Appreciation, respect, etc.. anyhow, it just a very helpful talk for me ^^
Freesia the UA-cam unnie…couldn’t agree more 🤣❤️
Lol this channel hilarious..... watching from Jamaica
Thank you very much for making a clip for us to watch. Even though you all have a busy full-time job. Take care of yourself, JBRO. ❤️💜🙏🏻
my favourite Q+A's are always with Freesia!
you can make a video where you explain how to know what you want to do in life? as a career
“ the face becomes prettier when you are emotionally attractive” 🙇🏽♂️
I mean it's pretty rare for a girl to ask a guy out so I always found that reasoning lacking. Personally, I find it attractive if a woman picks up the first bill. It shows a clear sign of interest, shows she's financially independent, and removes any suspicion of being used as a free meal which sets her apart by being socially considerate. Even as far as we have progressed chances are if they continue dating, the guy in most cases earns more and will pay more throughout the relationship.
Fact's, women know that they don't ask guys to go out so they use this undertone rule instead. If we go dutch on the first date, I'll definitely pay for the second and possibly third date with little hesitation.
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Old people definitely get it on. There's a retirement community called The Villages outside of Orlando, FL, and they have the highest STD rates in Central Florida 🥴
When I was younger and dating guys in college, and immediately afterwards, I had no problem splitting the bill. A few years after starting our careers I expected to at least alternate paying for the dates (more of whoever asked for the date pays). Now that I'm back in school and restarting my career I have no problem letting a guy pay for the dates if he insists 😅 I never expect him to, and I always offer to at least pay my half, but I definitely appreciate when they pay.
We love a man who isn't afraid of periods 👏🙌 In my experience, older/more mature guys tend to not care about periods or presence/lack of body hair. Nearly all of the younger guys I've dated (about 3-5 years younger at the time of dating) would complain about appearance and grooming at a much higher rate than older guys (3-10 years older at the time of dating).
What freesia says is true. The deeper and longer the relationship is, the less the sex is, but when sex does happen, it’s AMAZING lol. N I only say that because me n my fiancé has been together for 5yrs n at first… honestly… he almost got his *ss cheated on with his bad segg game lol. But now that we engaged, and after trial n error we’re very open with what we like n don’t like, so now we know how to keep each other turned on and get to that climax. Especially me, because at first he didn’t know how to get me their, but now he cares to try and and knows a few tricks.
Man said “swindled”😂
Waited a while for this episode 😂, FINALLY.
I think that on the first date ech one has to pay for their things, 50/50, at least where I live we do that, it's quite normal. When you are closer to that person, you can invite them. For example, one pays for dinner and then the other pays for movie tickets. Nice video guys and Freesia ❤️
That's exactly how I'd do it too 💯💯
hahaha face is important cuz you are stuck with it... so true
The real right answer is that whoever asks on a date pays. However if they don’t offer to at least split is already kind of a red flag lol
I really love her she had so mature and calm Answers. Love her laugh. And she had good chemistry with JJ. And is true girls are more emotional and moody in everything. Especially when they get older 😂. And I'm sorry but no matter the man age they always always always thinking about X. Is the reality so no to be ashamedis normal and part of be a man . No offense. Womans had a lot of things in their mind but they think about X too
I love rhe paintings behind you people!
omg waited for y'all to do this again!! love these deep talks
John: A true gentleman, cultured and dependable.
Freesia: Mature, honest and open-minded.
Jason: Cool, laidback and funny.
All in all, having you three is such a hot mess and hilarious at the same time! Your content ALWAYS makes my day. 🤭🤣😅🥰
Keep doing you guys!!! Love love everything you do. 🙌🙌🙌🙌
Uh oh, another long comment lmao.
I agree that whoever invites should pay, and I feel like most people feel that way. As a woman if I invited you on the first date, I’d be willing to pay for the first day buttt I’d appreciate him paying the first date.
As far as sex goes, statistically sex tends to get better because the couple knows each other more. I don’t believe that men develop slower than women though, I think men have a much weaker standard than women/men get to kind of age at a reasonable rate compared to their age, while women are kinda forced to age up and be mature.
Also random, her voice is so calming. Loved hearing her perspective!
I never liked older men (still don't) except for once I got a crush on the father of a guy I was seeing. Even then I thought it was weird. I remember thinking "what the hell"?!
i had i DILF phase too so i get you honey😂😂
Loved this video !
Where I'm from, splitting the bill seems very much the norm among people in their twenties. Generally the people I'm dating make the same money as me or more, and neither of us are so well-off we can throw cash around. So we either split the bill, or we get the bill with the expectation that the other party will get the next one. This is obviously different if one of us is a lot wealthier, and if we're going somewhere above one person's budget because the other person wants to, then the other person might pay.
Having the guy always pay just doesn't make sense unless he's much wealthier, because guys are no longer sole providers that women depend upon. My country is very socially liberal though, so it's not necessarily like America in terms of dating culture. You might offend a woman by not letting her pay, as you might seem very socially conservative when it comes to women.
Also, while you are asking for someone's time, you're also offering your own time, so that's a fair trade if the connection is mutual.
If you are asking out a total stranger (irl, not on Tinder), with whom you have no pre-existing connection, then you should probably pay for it though. This is just less common dating practice than it is in America.
YESSSSS love hearing you guys talk about stuff ahahah
Hhahahaahahah I died with the okay boomer part lmao
waaa I love Freesia unnie!!haha can't wait for part 2!
Hey J BRO ❤️❤️ Just opened You tube & you're video pop up 🤩🤩🤩
I missed you guys! Welcome back Freesia! So proud of John - he rides the crimson tide!!! And we thought Jason was the freaky one - you boomer! 😅 (When you're with the right person, your abs should always be sore from all the sex.) I too heard STIs/STDs run rampant in retirement homes.
You guys are so much fun!!! 💕
알고리듬따라왔는데 넘 재미나게봤습니다아
Freesia is cool!
Thanks for inviting her again :)
John is definitely my dream husband 😂
Loveeeee it!!! ♥️♥️♥️ Still cant believe she is only 26~
한국 자막 감사해요 !! 잘보고 있오요(영어공부도!!)
Jason sets his profiles to cougars only
No Freesia first date the guy asks you out and he pays. Period .
If we go on a date, I don't mind paying or go Dutch. I don't like it when one person pays for everything in a relationship.
I'm only 1:25 into the video and I LOVE her answer! If I'm asking you out, I have already made space in my mind to pay for you and will. If the guy asks, I want to each pay for our own. I rarely let a guy fully pay until we are in a more secure realtionship. I'm probably really weird but I just don't want to feel like anything is owed becuase he paid for me.
❤ 👔Boys or men? Traditionally, the gentleman takes the lead, so the man would provide too, starting with the first date (and all future dates too). Traditionally women bear the responsibility of domestic duties, so she would be providing too; not financially, but with her feminine love and nurturing care 👨👩👧👧💖 men and women made in different ways to complement each other
How about an older women how old do you think or how much age difference do you think a man would appreciate like I’m an older woman woman I’m 56 what would be the youngest that you think a man would be attracted to her
The Title Should Be "Secret Confessions"...Lol's...!!!
I agree with Freesia and I did it but in my experience I don't understand why he was getting mad and disappointed when I paid??! 😢🤔🤔 So I've never did it again on my dates.. and still don't know why
Waiting for part 2 :D haha. I also feel like John didn't really get to answer the last question 🧐
This video kept me smiling the entire time.. Interesting but also hilarious..And John’s so cute... 😊
I an active 70 year old who enjoys sex on average 3 times daily with my monogamous 76 year old partner. It is good for our emotional and physical health. No job or children stress and the joy of unhurried sex is wonderful. I was a widow for 5 years and this chapter in my life is a unexpected gift.
he. was. really. cute. dr. john. yoo
Why you guys hanging out every time reminds me of The Three Musketeers, hahaha, I love Freesia.hahah She is cute and funny.
Age does not equate experience, knowledge, or wisdom.
Want more collab with Freesia.......she s jst awsm!!!
Ehh, you could upload the second part too now 😄 There is no need to wait
I say swindled!!! 🤣🤣🤣
It was my first time watching vlog talking about HILARIOUS things 😅🤭 however I like it. I watch the whole time laughing 😆. Can’t wait for the part 2
Best duoo 👏🏻💞