WHY DOES IT HURT MORE WHEN WOMEN CHEAT??? DROP A COMMENT!!!

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 543

  • @fallinstr2098
    @fallinstr2098 2 роки тому +77

    Like they say, A man’s ego is as fragile as a woman’s heart

    • @wmhhealth2018
      @wmhhealth2018 2 роки тому +1

      I agree wholeheartedly.

    • @BingalingDaDream
      @BingalingDaDream Рік тому

      I can't cosign that. When a man's heart is broken, it destroys him from within. He feels lower than an ant on the ground and doing simple tasks become hard to do. Men feel like failures when their woman cheats on them. All these folks talking surface level.

    • @shantaeevans9471
      @shantaeevans9471 Рік тому +1

      ​@BingalingDaDream so do women

  • @JamesKlynn
    @JamesKlynn 2 роки тому +164

    Men and Women both need to learn that you can’t “Possess” anyone, it’s impossible to do. It doesn’t matter how much love or feelings or kids are involved. People belong to themselves only.

    • @SuperTruthful
      @SuperTruthful 2 роки тому +3

      Truth

    • @i_am_gohan9232
      @i_am_gohan9232 2 роки тому +1

      Facts

    • @thatguy2.09
      @thatguy2.09 2 роки тому

      Nonsense. You're not a real man. Zero testerone.

    • @DJSouthFlorida
      @DJSouthFlorida 2 роки тому +8

      Bs, I got my game from my uncle Larry who was a pimp across 110 street. You can’t tell me nothing.

    • @legendxryal
      @legendxryal 2 роки тому +6

      @@DJSouthFlorida dawg I’m fucking crying 😭😭😭 🤣

  • @ihavealotofnames
    @ihavealotofnames 2 роки тому +53

    It doesn’t hurt more. Y’all just convince yourselves that it does so you can continue with your cognitive dissonance. And the generalizations are what’s messing us all up. We don’t take the time to learn a person. We just grab whatever lens it’s convenient to use on them and move accordingly. And for individuals who are oversexed and just looking to spread whatever energies through whomever, y’all are multiplying the issue for everybody.

  • @Kai_El
    @Kai_El 2 роки тому +48

    I'll make this simple. If I want to cheat and I'm married, I need to divorce who I'm with to do my thing. I made a choice and commitment to someone and if I want to breach that shit then I need to be man enough to handle it so it doesn't get messy. That should apply to women as well. If you claim to not be someone's property or belong to anyone then don't make promises you can't keep

  • @nikiedmonds6236
    @nikiedmonds6236 2 роки тому +13

    I think men are actually more sensitive than women when it comes to matters of the heart...it's like when men get sick and act like babies...same thing in love and heartbreak

  • @lemontharris2042
    @lemontharris2042 2 роки тому +78

    In my opinion, we as men think that it will never happen to us so we’re really never prepared mentally when it happens and our emotions are jacked.

    • @billpeart4809
      @billpeart4809 2 роки тому +10

      I disagree only guys with no experience or who are naive think it cant happen to them I look at it as part of the game like when your in the streets you know what your getting into you know there’s a chance you will either end up getting bodies or go to prison for a long time and you accept that as part of the game cuz you know what your getting into just like relationships when your dealing with a woman there’s a chance you might get cheated on or she might leave it comes with the territory what you should have said is you get emotionally jacked and are not mentally prepared speak for yourself

    • @billpeart4809
      @billpeart4809 2 роки тому +5

      There are way worse things that can happen to you in life then getting cheated on or dumped there’s people going through starvation and wondering where there next meal is coming from or have family members dying from illnesses in my opinion if you can’t handle a woman cheating on you or leaving you your a weak man I say that respectfully you won’t be the first one to be cheated on and you won’t be the last it’s not that serious

    • @billpeart4809
      @billpeart4809 2 роки тому +2

      Don’t take what I said as disrespect I’m just being real with you I hope you don’t take it the wrong way I’m just stating my opinion my opinion doesn’t have to have dominion over you that’s just the way I see things

    • @lemontharris2042
      @lemontharris2042 2 роки тому +4

      It’s all love Bill! I appreciate your opinion! Respect ✊🏾

    • @billpeart4809
      @billpeart4809 2 роки тому +1

      @@lemontharris2042 respect 100

  • @crowded_spaces
    @crowded_spaces 2 роки тому +77

    Saying it hurts more downplays your actions when you do it. Men gotta realize what they feel in that moment is what women feel. You can learn from it and do better or you can use it as an excuse to continue to be a shitty partner.

    • @franklinvibes7701
      @franklinvibes7701 2 роки тому +4

      Not true. But I understand what you're saying

    • @eyeinsee
      @eyeinsee 2 роки тому +2

      Its not about it hurting more, women handle it better.

    • @eib3137
      @eib3137 2 роки тому +10

      @@eyeinsee you sure about that?

    • @Ilovechicago100
      @Ilovechicago100 2 роки тому +2

      I don’t see the difference. Cheating is still cheating. Men fall in love too and leave for the other woman when they cheat.

    • @eyeinsee
      @eyeinsee 2 роки тому +7

      @@eib3137 I’ve never seen infidelity drive a woman to suicide…not to say it never happens but I’ve never seen it. But i know at least 2 dudes that took it there

  • @hoodygod110
    @hoodygod110 2 роки тому +25

    It doesn't hurt more it's the ego that makes you not believe it could happen to you and when it does your angry not hurt

    • @Mir2Nastyy
      @Mir2Nastyy 2 роки тому

      It does because most women have to actually feel for that guy emotionally in some form to let him inside her body. Literally a woman is letting a man inside of her temple keyword inside to be “penetrated” that’s completely different from a man doing the penetrating.
      That’s why men will get lust over a woman while a woman will start to fall in love for that man emotionally because women already have feelings for a man they start cheating with!

  • @thereallesliec5232
    @thereallesliec5232 2 роки тому +104

    It doesn't hurt more when women cheat, you've just been socialized to think so. Women go thru alot of pain dealing with cheating, but we've been socialized that we are supposed to accept it. That is really all. It hurts both male and females.

    • @ToasterForLife
      @ToasterForLife 2 роки тому +10

      I believe women accept it more because subconsciously or consciously they know it's not natural for a man to be with one woman for the next 10, 20, 30 or 50 years. And as soon as a man loses his edge, inner-dog, and mojo, the woman is turned off. Men and women are wired differently.

    • @MoonMoon-fx1op
      @MoonMoon-fx1op 2 роки тому +26

      @@ToasterForLife stop with the excuses. You'd be surprised at how many women want to try new things as well

    • @underconstruction778
      @underconstruction778 2 роки тому

      If only people really knew how much women cheat.

    • @Lab4ny34
      @Lab4ny34 2 роки тому +4

      I'm surprised you don't have more likes Leslie. Like you, I think feelings, trust etc gets broken when we cheat. Some might handle it better but we ALL still hurt.

    • @LifeofMJGS
      @LifeofMJGS 2 роки тому

      I get what you're saying and as a man, I in now way condone cheating But I think why it is believed that it hurts more when a woman cheats to a man is that the woman is allowing someone inside her body. And then we have analogies like "Beating that pvssy up" or "Tearing my shit up" or "Nigga reached my soul" and these analogies are all from women. As a result a man will literally hear that his woman cheated and sit there imagining the face she's making, the moans she's making, when it slipped out she put it back in or if the guys dick was bigger than his. There is also the fact that a man will cheat just to bust a nut, but most times a woman cheats for far more reason than just sex so that man feels inadequate.

  • @klsounds
    @klsounds 2 роки тому +25

    at this point idc anymore just enjoy what you got and if it works great...if not keep it pushing till you got a loyal one..but believe in yourself

  • @ACIEOFFICIAL
    @ACIEOFFICIAL 2 роки тому +27

    Basically it doesn’t hurt any less be honest Men don’t care that women get hurt or about their feelings. They’re not even that mad that she gave it up what’s the problem is she’s been slowly taking the emotional attachment she has to you and investing it elsewhere. Once a woman is gone emotionally it’s over and niggas know that.

  • @truthistruth4186
    @truthistruth4186 2 роки тому +44

    It only hurts because people lie to themselves. You don't love your girlfriend or wife if your cheating on her. It's very simple. You're with her for convenience. An if she's cheating on you she doesn't love you. She's with you for convenience. All it takes is 1 minute to break up with someone and go live the life you really want.

  • @ELITEPSYCHE100
    @ELITEPSYCHE100 2 роки тому +3

    If u EVER take BIGGA off I’m gonna stop watching 😆😆😆😆

  • @Lemozeene
    @Lemozeene 2 роки тому +46

    I don't think it hurts more, we just have no idea exactly how women feel when we cheat..

  • @heavygantt
    @heavygantt 2 роки тому +66

    The answer here is simple...Because for a Woman to "Cheat" she typically has to have feelings for the other man 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @consciousmeka3740
      @consciousmeka3740 2 роки тому +12

      I never cheated but women cheat for revenge not feelings.

    • @hectorsanchez5818
      @hectorsanchez5818 2 роки тому +12

      Hurts more because we know we lost her forever cus we won’t take back and if we did it’s never the same

    • @catchwreck928
      @catchwreck928 2 роки тому +6

      @@hectorsanchez5818 word men and women are different

    • @jasonbland8880
      @jasonbland8880 2 роки тому

      @@consciousmeka3740 naw its definitely feelings involved for women to cheat they don't cheat with random dudes unless they are straight up hoes

    • @ysl_443ysl
      @ysl_443ysl 2 роки тому

      @@consciousmeka3740 false…… revenge is part of it but who she cheats with 9/10 is somebody she been wanting to fuck….. usually a coworker or another nigga she’s been entertaining but never fucked(until the guy cheats). If you ask me though entertaining people just to have a backup is cheating all together

  • @eyeinsee
    @eyeinsee 2 роки тому +74

    A pimp told me no matter great your status may be it’s always a woman’s choice to be with you or give you some, its never up to the man. Truth is men are sexual scavengers well take what we can get. So when she gives the 🐱 away to another man it was pure choice to do so…and that hurts.

    • @truthiscensored
      @truthiscensored 2 роки тому +9

      Well that pimp only deal with 304 99% of the time and the average woman is not a 304...Can view all women from the perspective of a 304...
      Same way all back men aren't dope dealers and have a dope dealer's perspective

    • @eyeinsee
      @eyeinsee 2 роки тому +22

      @@truthiscensored Master Key can open any lock but a lock that opens for any key is broken.

    • @issa2666
      @issa2666 2 роки тому

      Facts

    • @Msboochie2
      @Msboochie2 2 роки тому +2

      @@eyeinsee Ooh that is a good one. I like that.

    • @thatguy2.09
      @thatguy2.09 2 роки тому +4

      Theres layers to it. I.e. naivety, self control, inexperience with handling attention, rape etc

  • @jennyh9269
    @jennyh9269 2 роки тому +12

    It is about emotional maturity. In human growth and development some ppl miss those steps that you need to deal with situations in life as we grow in life.

  • @kennethking9478
    @kennethking9478 2 роки тому +14

    When I hear these people, I really realize how Great of a MAN I TRULY AM I FEEL SO GREAT IN MY STATE OF MIND. THANKS SO MUCH!!

    • @steph5494
      @steph5494 Рік тому +1

      Right...to refer to women as 🐶's and then to say they are "putting the leash out" is very disturbing. Makes you wonder if they really even like women. Wow.

  • @Truu5StarLifeDriver
    @Truu5StarLifeDriver 2 роки тому +24

    I LOVE listening in on this type openness from Men!

    • @Msboochie2
      @Msboochie2 2 роки тому

      I listen and learn, but I can't say I enjoyed it. This conversation was full of dysfunction and lunacy. I need to show my day, so she knows what kind of men to stay far away from. Bigga is old and should have some sense of decency by now, but is insecure as hell. I mean, I can see why he would feel insecure but still. His big ass talking about hiding under cars, that is pure insanity. Why does a grown ass man have time to stalk women? That other dude was right about Harlem women and men. I went there with a friend and I felt like I was on another planet in an alternate universe. My friends man was always telling get where she could and could not go.. There were men beating up their women in the street. The little kids outside alone at night, wearing designer but living in the projects. People loud and rowdy all night. I took my little self back to Queens with the quickness.

    • @jayc5756
      @jayc5756 2 роки тому

      👍

  • @Thecornerdojotv
    @Thecornerdojotv 2 роки тому +21

    It doesn’t hurt more it’s just men aren’t taught how to process emotions like women do so we tend to go toxic instead of progressive

    • @BrownsvilleBaby_Est
      @BrownsvilleBaby_Est 2 роки тому

      I Juss hold all that in and keep my guard Up.

    • @michaeljasper709
      @michaeljasper709 2 роки тому

      We only feel bad if we have feelings for her & genuinely don’t wanna cheat & afterwards we know we fucked shit up

    • @Ilovechicago100
      @Ilovechicago100 2 роки тому

      Exactly

    • @michaeljasper709
      @michaeljasper709 2 роки тому +1

      @@Ilovechicago100 that’s how it happened for me the one and only time I did I was trying to be something I wasn’t luckily the one I actually cared for did eventually forgive me and we moved on

    • @TheSomethingnew1
      @TheSomethingnew1 2 роки тому +3

      This is exactly it. Nothing more, nothing less lol. Women are also given the space to do so.

  • @Paces2
    @Paces2 2 роки тому +11

    hurt MORE? this part of the problem. constantly downplaying how we feel make us wanna step out sometimes.

  • @hazebanga
    @hazebanga 2 роки тому +4

    CAN WE RETIRE THE WORD BITCH? WHERE'S THE RESPECT????

  • @alldetected3106
    @alldetected3106 2 роки тому +44

    It's because we're the ones getting cheated on. We're experiencing that feeling. Women feel the same way when we cheat.

    • @MaroonRose3216
      @MaroonRose3216 2 роки тому +14

      You get it. Some people like to pretend not to have common sense.

    • @gamecrazyoo1
      @gamecrazyoo1 2 роки тому

      @@MaroonRose3216 some people really don’t know female nature and it’s in their nature to want the man who other women want . While women might feel horrible when we cheat but they also become more invested, they appreciate more not in all cases but generally when a women finds out her man is cheating the relationship can be saved from her eyes and the guys eyes . But if a girl cheats not only does it’s seem unredeemable by societal standard but also from both of the partners eyes . When girls cheat they become just as invested in the other guy as they are their man if not more they aren’t being dominant they are being dominated and the average guy cannot mentally accept their partner being submissive to another man

    • @cycling9945
      @cycling9945 2 роки тому +1

      Especially if they love you

    • @itsascaryworld9788
      @itsascaryworld9788 2 роки тому

      It’s all about that affection. Women know how to love, men don’t it’s that’s simple.

    • @soleil838
      @soleil838 2 роки тому +2

      Right! Like *gasp* it sucks doesn’t it?

  • @Kscomelli
    @Kscomelli 2 роки тому +5

    I say the best advice to women is to keep yourself busy. When a MAN steps up to you who is consistent with his concern for you and shows you love through both action and verbally. Stay single while he is trying to figure out what he wants. Don't wait, keep dating and keep them options open until the both of you are ready to be exclusive. Ladies, always know that if it is meant to be it will be when it is supposed to be.

  • @Foreign84
    @Foreign84 2 роки тому +6

    Who said it hurts more lol!? Man if a woman cheat it is what it is lol

  • @lotuslifecreations3360
    @lotuslifecreations3360 2 роки тому +21

    Because when women checkout it’s mentally. We are naturally givers so when we aren’t being given the equivalent to what we give or close to it that disconnect starts with the mental.

  • @truckbuilt_4748
    @truckbuilt_4748 2 роки тому +4

    In NYC history, queens isn't nearly as relevant as Harlem. In the streets, in music, in art, in getting money. Foh

    • @tadah21
      @tadah21 2 роки тому

      Esso was reliving some trauma,😂🤣 but the story of rap/hustling/streets cannot be told without queens dudes period. Historically

    • @tayb838
      @tayb838 2 роки тому

      Exactly 💯

  • @011177
    @011177 2 роки тому +7

    i love this podcast, it is just so new york

  • @dustcore
    @dustcore 2 роки тому +7

    20:22 had me dying !!! How you do your guest like that 😁😁😄😄😄

    • @Blah_blah810
      @Blah_blah810 2 роки тому +4

      The whole vibe changed when the girls came in lol

  • @reelvisionfilms3114
    @reelvisionfilms3114 2 роки тому +3

    Don’t NO MAN Want The Thoughts Of His Woman Cheating Knowing That Other Man Sex Was Better Than His When She Cheated That’s Why It Hurt Men More When She Start Comparing Size It’ll Make A Grown Man Cry 😭 😂😂😂🤣

  • @brian4rmthewood
    @brian4rmthewood 2 роки тому +2

    It doesn’t hurt more, men usually just can’t handle a woman treating them how men treat women.
    Call it weakness.

  • @marv-nt9166
    @marv-nt9166 2 роки тому +14

    Notice how the energy changed when the women came into the room. They all say they are the realest but they modified the convo not to implicate themselves. But what wasn't said was that The notion of cheating has many levels and is based on how we were raised.
    For men, it's about ego and The notion that we got somebody else's girl. We saw it here. None of them will say they were simps, ever got played, or were cheated on. With ever story they will always come out on top.
    We have been taught when it comes to women that they have something that is special, and you don't give that special thing to everyone. We tell our daughters this, and we reinforce this In our sons to watch over and protect the girls.
    Then we are told men are no good dogs, only wanting one thing, not worth much, and your father ain't all that much better than any other man. And brothers have been told this about males too, so men operate from this belief.
    No one wants their mother, sister, or any female relative to be known or believed to be a “slut” or a “ho.” A woman can't have a healthy sexual appetite because if she does she betrays the belief of “that special thing.”
    So when women cheat it hurts more because of the uniqueness of that “special thing.” Men believe it too so they want to believe that they too are “unique” and “special” because she gave it to him. So it stings more when a woman does it vs. a man.

  • @MyDogSteppedOnaBeee
    @MyDogSteppedOnaBeee 2 роки тому +31

    Women show their commitment in a relationship with their fidelity.
    Men show their commitment in a relationship with being a provider and protector.
    Men and Women ARE NOT the same!

    • @SuperTruthful
      @SuperTruthful 2 роки тому +8

      Most women are not going to put up with infidelity and that is part of being in a committed relationships it's monogamous. That is true men and women are not the same but the rules regarding being monogamous are the same.

    • @askiahrichardson8911
      @askiahrichardson8911 2 роки тому

      True

    • @tajthegreatone9326
      @tajthegreatone9326 2 роки тому

      💯

    • @lakeishagalloway6840
      @lakeishagalloway6840 2 роки тому +2

      I think the love comes in when you effortlessly willingly give both. And it’s not a problem. I think you found love when you know you don’t want no one else no one else can compare. That comes naturally it’s not forced.

    • @loucypherdamorningstar
      @loucypherdamorningstar 2 роки тому

      @@SuperTruthful
      Yet they put up with it if they get gifts and special treatment directly after finding out about the infidelity.
      They are getting more out of a relationship on average than fidelity.
      Which is solely what men on average are getting from relationships if they are even truly getting that.
      Also, if the only thing women were getting from a committed relationship was fidelity, they would complain and probably wouldn’t be in that relationship long.
      The rules regarding monogamy should be the same, but they are not.

  • @DGFilmsNYC
    @DGFilmsNYC 2 роки тому +5

    Graph said they don't want to be on camera LMAO can you edit it out LMAO that was one of the greatest queens moments in history LMAO

    • @queenearth7808
      @queenearth7808 2 роки тому +2

      Knowing damn well the camera is rolling. smh 😆

  • @descolabandz8855
    @descolabandz8855 2 роки тому +2

    cause you the one putting your all in!!🤣 they don't do 💩 but look pretty!!!

  • @thatshim4724
    @thatshim4724 2 роки тому +2

    Has to be the male ego. We like wont happen to me I’m the flyest ninja out here.

  • @Creolegem
    @Creolegem 2 роки тому +4

    It doesn’t hurt more it’s just you don’t know how shit feels until you, yourself is out into that position….

  • @Didirocku
    @Didirocku 2 роки тому +21

    Cause women are emotional.. when they cheat their emotion goes with it. They’ve put time into talking and putting more into a person. Women don’t just cheat their feelings go with it. They put everything into it. When they cheat they’ve left

    • @eib3137
      @eib3137 2 роки тому

      This is a huge lie most of us men have been conditioned to believe.

    • @TheSNOTTBALL
      @TheSNOTTBALL 2 роки тому +7

      And to top it off that other man knows everything about you

    • @eib3137
      @eib3137 2 роки тому +2

      @@TheSNOTTBALL highly unlikely because the dude she cheats with rarely knows the boyfriend exist.

    • @Man_eee
      @Man_eee 2 роки тому +1

      🎯

    • @TheSNOTTBALL
      @TheSNOTTBALL 2 роки тому +4

      @@eib3137 not in my experience. I've been on both sides. The other man gets all your information. And he uses it to better position himself. It's how it goes.

  • @ELITEPSYCHE100
    @ELITEPSYCHE100 2 роки тому +2

    Bigga “ that’s some sad shit” 😆

  • @dlong719
    @dlong719 2 роки тому +3

    It's about PRIDE!!! To keep it 100!!! If yo lady does that and its known!!! That's a punch in the gut 4real!!! Makes a man question himself!!!

  • @JBGryffindor
    @JBGryffindor 2 роки тому +5

    It only hurts when you only able to get one girl 😂

  • @dms718
    @dms718 2 роки тому +2

    I'm not watching the video. But the answer is simple: We live in a patriarchal, toxic masculine society. We believe women are weaker and dumber than us, when it's actually the reverse. We talk tough but women can see the weakness in us as soon as we open our mouths. BUT...I don't think you can cheat on people...just tests...we're not monogamous beings to begin with. The only thing you can count on from a human being is that one day, they will disappoint you.

  • @ashleyamanda9939
    @ashleyamanda9939 2 роки тому +6

    if yall say its because “women are suppose to be better and smarter” my next response is yall never apply that narrative to everything else we do, its always were “emotional & irrational” with everything other than cheating back 😭

  • @lashawnstewart2043
    @lashawnstewart2043 2 роки тому +3

    The difference between men and women cheating is like the difference between first and second degree murder. Men cheat, it's a crime of passion. Women cheat, it's premeditated.

  • @christinebryant8354
    @christinebryant8354 2 роки тому +1

    You don’t have a 🎤 you can hear her😂! I don’t go back & forth with women. I like that brother! Personal I just want to hear the guys. Should’ve left them outside. She already sound drunk!🥃

  • @LitBoxTv
    @LitBoxTv 2 роки тому +3

    It hurts more when you put in more. That goes both ways.

  • @billpeart4809
    @billpeart4809 2 роки тому +3

    Waiting only 2weeks or a month to get into in a relationship is way too soon a girl can’t get that much access to me that quick giving a girl the title of a boyfriend or wife is a special position she has to earn that title in the meantime im just smashing I have to properly vet a chick before I get into a relationship 2 weeks or a month is way too soon

  • @redhoode.n.y.6314
    @redhoode.n.y.6314 2 роки тому +6

    This convo was insane!! And i Love it 😂😂😂

  • @jayc5756
    @jayc5756 2 роки тому +2

    Is it Fab girl Emily?
    Jim girl Chrissy?
    I'm tryna think about others thats still together now 🤔

  • @mikeyj7824
    @mikeyj7824 2 роки тому +3

    Women will fatten you up for the kill from day one if you let them. So, whatever they do it's only going to hurt if you let them gas you from jump. Whatever they tell you about you, or your relationship let that go in one ear, and out the other, and only trust what you can verify like you would with anybody else.

    • @SuperTruthful
      @SuperTruthful 2 роки тому +1

      same goes with men can't trust them as far as you can throw him and just know everything a male says is a lie until it's verified.

    • @NEEKZ81
      @NEEKZ81 2 роки тому

      🎯🎯🎯

  • @jenjen3254
    @jenjen3254 2 роки тому +4

    Absolutely do not want to hear any woman's opinion/thought during the show unless they are the guest.

  • @williamcarney8243
    @williamcarney8243 2 роки тому +4

    it definitely hurts more because we don't how control our emotions and we act out with violence

  • @indigobeauty1
    @indigobeauty1 Рік тому +1

    Cheating doesn't hurt Women as much?! the lack of accountability is insane. Just say you lack empathy 😩

  • @jeffreywoodlin9754
    @jeffreywoodlin9754 2 роки тому +1

    And 4 "EITHER SEX - MALE Or FEMALE" In A "STRAIGHT SENSE" Or A "GAY SENSE",If "SOMEONE" Cheats On "U" and "U" Really Love "THA PERSON" It Hurts Bcuz "U" Put Yout All Into "THA' PERSON"!

  • @49erNell
    @49erNell 2 роки тому +3

    Yo Math just did that..."So we was talking bout rappers whose girlfriends you smashed" yoooooo 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @officialonyxobsidian
    @officialonyxobsidian 2 роки тому +4

    It doesnt hurt more. It hurts, whether its men or women, but Men & women tend to cheat for different reasons. A woman cheating is deeper because it tends to be emotional, Men cheating is more physical, emotions arent involved. If a woman cheats, youve lost her. Better to leave.

  • @kevin084life
    @kevin084life 2 роки тому +1

    Math always wanting niggas to snitch on the podcast 😂

  • @DreamCEE-nm8wv
    @DreamCEE-nm8wv 2 роки тому +3

    When Math Segways back to the conbo after the ladies walking in 🤣🤣🤣😂 everybody had they head down trying not to laugh!!

  • @blakeblake95
    @blakeblake95 2 роки тому +4

    Even tho men cheat (and it’s not good at all) but we cheat with no feelings attached women cheat with feelings for the other guy

    • @sherriew36
      @sherriew36 2 роки тому +1

      Nope.

    • @SuperTruthful
      @SuperTruthful 2 роки тому +1

      cheating is cheating and it's all wrong feelings or no feelings.

  • @barjunkies1
    @barjunkies1 2 роки тому +1

    My op is it hurts more bcuz women run off emotions and wit dat being said they won't jus look at it like sex they will get emotionally involved so they will start doing relationship stuff fo tha dude cooking visits at wrk dates etc while a dude will jus look at it as some side ass women get dicked down they instantly start falling n love men conquer women so wen a women allows a another man to conquer her emotionally physically and spiritually it's a diff effect jus my op it's more but this a short op

  • @Grinchthanksgiving
    @Grinchthanksgiving 2 роки тому +1

    Where does this narrative come from? Unless you can magically turn into a woman then change back into a man, you’ll never be able to compare the feeling of getting cheated on. This argument doesn’t even make sense

  • @Gatheryourselve2getherNOI
    @Gatheryourselve2getherNOI 2 роки тому +1

    In marriage it hurts worst then anything bc it's a Covent w/ God. But a chick with too many guys on her roster, I don't care what she do or u do, she can't pair bond. Control when and where u fuck a chick is the true mastery of this ish tho. Bc if she really want u, she gon ride for u but if she has tooooo many guys on the line up, she can't pair bond it's not worth ur time.

    • @SuperTruthful
      @SuperTruthful 2 роки тому

      That's bs males don't want women who are sexually experienced cuz y'all asses may not be able to satisfy her. Be up on your sex game and keep it tight.

  • @Stonecoldalston
    @Stonecoldalston 2 роки тому +1

    All about Ego most men can't take what they dish out

  • @Mr1and14orth
    @Mr1and14orth 2 роки тому +3

    Lmao yoo Esso is wild 🤣 🤣

  • @leomabry5231
    @leomabry5231 Рік тому +1

    Would hurt more to me, always will hit different if yo girl cheat on you

  • @playboyprincess4436
    @playboyprincess4436 2 роки тому +2

    📢SMTG TELLS ME NONE OF THESE FEMALES Y'ALL TALKIN BOUT ARE BLACK😒!?!?

    • @MrCharmingPoison
      @MrCharmingPoison 2 роки тому +1

      😂

    • @playboyprincess4436
      @playboyprincess4436 2 роки тому +1

      @@MrCharmingPoison AM I LYING THOUGH?😀🤷🏽‍♀️... IT'S NY TOO... MOST LIKELY LATINO... STR8 BEANS & RICE MY G #IMMA FINE BROWN 👸🏽

  • @truthiscensored
    @truthiscensored 2 роки тому +8

    This is why the Bible says to Marry a virgin, then you won't have these problems...but the times we live in, modern western women and society kinda makes that impossible today
    When it comes to your girl being with another man BEFORE you got with them

    • @SuperTruthful
      @SuperTruthful 2 роки тому

      Both males and females should be virgins from biblical teachings.

    • @laurenelise12
      @laurenelise12 2 роки тому

      In order for men to have sex, a woman has to be giving it. Are you asserting that men should be asexual until they’re married? I doubt it. So this argument is flawed. And ridiculous. Lol

    • @SuperTruthful
      @SuperTruthful 2 роки тому

      @@laurenelise12 yup, if he wants a virgin he should be a virgin. not asexual abstaining

  • @fairplayterrific147
    @fairplayterrific147 2 роки тому +1

    New York Cats Be Wilding!😄 Much Props From South Florida...

  • @91tumtum45
    @91tumtum45 2 роки тому +2

    All possessiveness ain’t created equal… #possessiveness
    Men don’t see women’s motives well #survivalmode #pleasure #justdontgiveafuck

  • @cycling9945
    @cycling9945 2 роки тому +2

    Math just did the most Brooklyn shit girl walks in we was talking about the rappers girlfriends you smashed 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

  • @tmglizzy9639
    @tmglizzy9639 2 роки тому +2

    That shit might hurt alil but fuck it, I was cheating the whole time

  • @SomajDaGoat
    @SomajDaGoat 2 роки тому +1

    It hurts more because most men aren’t trained emotionally. We spend our whole lives training ourselves physically while women are being trained emotionally. That’s why women mature faster than men because they are more emotionally grown. For example if a woman physically hits you we don’t look at it as a big deal because we are physically hardened to endure more physical pain. But if we hit a woman once the damage done to her is way worse. Now reverse that, a woman is more emotionally grown so she may be able to deal with the emotional damage you deal to her. But if she hits you back…….

  • @billpeart4809
    @billpeart4809 2 роки тому +1

    Getting cheated on or dumped is not that big of a deal to me there are way worse things that can happen to you then getting cheated on or dumped people are dying from illnesses and going through real struggles in life dudes who get butthurt over a woman are soft to me what’s crazy is there are guys who are killers who act so tough around other men but when it comes to they’re women they act softer then a baby’s but I never understood that I have a friend who offed himself and his girl over cheating and another friend who’s serving a life sentence because he caught a body over a female and even though they’re my boys I think what they did was soft and simpish if a girl cheats on you just leave her dudes get cheated on everyday b you’ll be ite you tough right respectfully

  • @juniorn8279
    @juniorn8279 2 роки тому +1

    It hurts her too probably just as much

  • @007chiseo
    @007chiseo 2 роки тому +2

    I think it hurt more for us men because when a women cheat she has to have some type of feeling's or emotional connection with the dude that she cheating on you with because a women is not just gonna let any dude get up in her it has to be some kind of connection there. Like maybe dude compliment her more then her man does, maybe they went to school together or something but it has to be some type of connection as for men if shorty pretty and she got the fatty for most dude's thats all it takes for him to shoot his shot. Dudes don't care if she lives with her parents,if she broke,got a job nothing. Its oh shorty bad and she got the fatty. Most females won't even entertain a dude living with his parents, no job etc etc so thats why I think it hurt man more when the women cheat because we know it some type of emotional connection there for her to even entertain that.

  • @lisawilson4332
    @lisawilson4332 2 роки тому +1

    All cheating isn't sexual.

  • @dont.argue.under.my.comment
    @dont.argue.under.my.comment 2 роки тому +7

    Graph is clearly talking about some of Fab and Dipset old work

  • @brixandblooms
    @brixandblooms 2 роки тому +1

    Its a loaded question. You can't feel her pain and being a self serving creature you only feel your pain. Who said it hurt more when women do it? That's straight bs. Betrayal hurts. Period.

  • @TTSantiago821
    @TTSantiago821 2 роки тому +1

    OAN.....women , don't have your man out here looking crazy. You should tell your past and be upfront once u get 2 that point so no one outside can come up to either or yall with some craziness and he ain't know. Especially if u in an industry or close proximity with people and you have been "dating around".....not being a slore but dating, u need to disclose that. Men should also not have they woman out here looking crazy under the same circumstances.

  • @nickp.2828
    @nickp.2828 2 роки тому +2

    It feels different for the man because they're entering your woman! The entrance into her world

  • @dugnice
    @dugnice 2 роки тому +2

    Hurt *more* than what?

  • @likefatherlikeson1899
    @likefatherlikeson1899 2 роки тому +2

    I don't think it "hurts more" for men when women cheat. I just think Our Ego gets shattered, along with the emotional pain dealing with the reality that you'll probably never trust thst person again. Depending on who you are and where you're at mentally at that time as a man, it could be a lesson learned or devastating going forward

    • @winz1
      @winz1 Рік тому

      Then it hurts men more, feeling yes equap. Ego is gone your not the man in her head n that's my friend can crush a man n his entire existence

  • @Deucetv510
    @Deucetv510 2 роки тому +1

    Wit A FEST ON 😂🤣

  • @Skywalker721
    @Skywalker721 2 роки тому +1

    This is a wild HS conversation. Women from every major city act the same way & are on the same type of time. None of them are special. Bigga has been with his women since HS. He’s from a different era & doesn’t fully understand how women are moving today. It’s a nasty game out here.

    • @fadercreek
      @fadercreek 2 роки тому +1

      Facts he from the super old school he has no idea

  • @miguelhargrave7405
    @miguelhargrave7405 2 роки тому +1

    Women can tolerate more.. in my lifetime I witnessed more of them forgive cheating from guys. Not saying they won't get back on the low or eventually leave- but they will give niggas another chance typically. Dudes pride be too big to think of the idea of another man wit ya old lady- even if we done mad dirt we can't take the same treatment. It's some ppl who exceptions to the rule but as men and women We jus wired different I guess.. as well as conditioning in society I'm sure adds to it .. it's crazy

  • @dmtrspen
    @dmtrspen 2 роки тому +1

    BIGGA STARTED SPAZZING BRUH

  • @chilltown82
    @chilltown82 2 роки тому +2

    the reality is that a real women wont cheat and if a lady does cheat then it shows that she does not love herself

    • @ACIEOFFICIAL
      @ACIEOFFICIAL 2 роки тому

      Facts, she’ll just leave and stay gone.

    • @SuperTruthful
      @SuperTruthful 2 роки тому +1

      so when men cheat they don't love themselves either right?

  • @sebastienc.2257
    @sebastienc.2257 2 роки тому +1

    It hurts more as men because we have bigger egos. Simple.

  • @goldteethpoohproductions2707
    @goldteethpoohproductions2707 2 роки тому +2

    I think when it hurt from women it comes from a sense of love and feelings etc
    When it hurts for us it's like "Damn another nigga inside my girl"
    Damn another nigga making my girl moan etc
    So yea that can play with your mind lol 🤣🤣🤣

  • @toyrobinson2922
    @toyrobinson2922 2 роки тому +1

    Because us men can't get the visual of it out of our heads

  • @marlonmcdonald1414
    @marlonmcdonald1414 2 роки тому +1

    The reality is love yourself and accepting whoever you building your life with.

  • @zacheeyaleedaniels6748
    @zacheeyaleedaniels6748 2 роки тому +1

    The thing is if a man cheats, there's usually no emotional connection involved. But when a woman does she's usually considering the other man as a potential partner. She usually tells him yal business and all. A man don't invest all that in a random fuk

  • @jecoliasjems2529
    @jecoliasjems2529 2 роки тому

    She’s super masculine and doesn’t make sense. When women are in the barbershop and company of men they should be silent unless they ask to speak or are spoken to. You should be studying the men like a fly on a wall. Which is why I watch podcast.

  • @010_dam
    @010_dam 2 роки тому +2

    300k salute hoffa !!! You deserve it

  • @truthiscensored
    @truthiscensored 2 роки тому +1

    In this day and age, every man need to assume that his "girl" was a 304/stripper before she met him...cause these days you NEVER know and she won't tell you how many eggplants she had...
    She will only tell you her past BFs...and you will have no clue she had a few basketball and football teams in her

  • @jeffreywoodlin9754
    @jeffreywoodlin9754 2 роки тому +1

    It All Depends If "U" Really Love "THA' WOMAN"!

  • @Kamariya33
    @Kamariya33 2 роки тому +1

    A man's whole identity is defined by his wallet and his junk and men are the givers, therefore it hurts them more when a woman cheats. The imagery of another man going up in his woman is unfathomable.

  • @SpinnTraxxMusic
    @SpinnTraxxMusic 2 роки тому +1

    In most instances a man can cheat just because the opportunity presented itself. There can be no attachment or even attraction but because it’s there we may just take advantage of it. Our typical thought process when a woman cheats is there was attraction and interest in the person she cheated with. We know what she has done with us and we can see her doing those same things and more and actually enjoying it, while we may not even give the woman we are cheating with anything other than a “couple of pumps” or whatever it takes to get off and were done….
    Because we don’t think like women, it’s harder for us to believe they can cheat with no emotional attachment so we tend to believe it’s deeper than just sex like it could be for us.

  • @rookis25
    @rookis25 2 роки тому +1

    There is a bubble around every man, if you violate that bubble you get touched. Some men bring that woman inside their bubble, vice/versa.

  • @jonsense4937
    @jonsense4937 2 роки тому +1

    don't cheat. stay loyal to one. period