SAHARS ADVICE EP.3

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  • Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
  • Here's the most requested video for you guys I hope you loved it! Thank you for everyone who submitted their situations I hope I could've been somewhat helpful. If you have another situation you want the chance to be answered you can comment it here as well & when I film the next one I'll pick some from here. LOVE YOU!!!!
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 136

  • @kateeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
    @kateeeeeeeeeeeeeeee 3 місяці тому +151

    we need an updated makeup tutorial… literally gorgeous

  • @ari.the.berryyy
    @ari.the.berryyy 3 місяці тому +102

    Is no one talking about her drop dead gorgeous hair?! ❤

  • @hearts4dazaiii
    @hearts4dazaiii 3 місяці тому +64

    sahar you're like an older sister, your videos feel super comforting 😭💕💕

  • @hearts4dazaiii
    @hearts4dazaiii 3 місяці тому +48

    this is quickly becoming my favourite series 💕💕

  • @anna_swiftie_1989
    @anna_swiftie_1989 3 місяці тому +27

    i’m so glad u answered my question!! my 2 best friends have recently been getting along and in fact they had a sleepover last night!! (i did not go cuz i had plans) but ya i’m so happy!!!! ❤❤

  • @Mitttins
    @Mitttins 3 місяці тому +28

    This video felt like cozying up in a warm bed after a chilly day outside 🩷✨

  • @parkerallee3269
    @parkerallee3269 3 місяці тому +18

    we need a bri and sahar video about the pros of being single/finding happiness when single (like making your own happiness with out a partner)

  • @NoorAhmed-tq6fn
    @NoorAhmed-tq6fn 3 місяці тому +11

    Can we ALL have a moment to appreciate the actual GROWTH of her hair like it looks "enchanted" but im so frickin proud that her and her hair have come this far!!!!!! Love u AND Bri

  • @nishathsabiha
    @nishathsabiha 3 місяці тому +14

    Aww omgg saharr I'm so proud of youu the difference in ur confidence and just ur emotions after ur break up to now is such a huge change and u look like ur glowingg

  • @thisismeswifting13
    @thisismeswifting13 3 місяці тому +8

    Sahar is my comfort UA-camr 💗 she’s just such a girls girl and it makes me feel so welcome ✨🫶

  • @elizabeth_4real
    @elizabeth_4real 3 місяці тому +4

    hii sahar!!
    i think the reason why taylor wrote the prophecy is because all the guys who she’s dated haven’t worked out in the past and she means that she feels/felt unlovable and problematic, and that she’d never find the love of her life

  • @abiotics6098
    @abiotics6098 3 місяці тому +14

    pov: you needed this

  • @Barbs2051
    @Barbs2051 3 місяці тому +7

    Sahar youre literally the older sister i wish i had i really like these advice videos :)

  • @Maryam4726-l9p
    @Maryam4726-l9p 3 місяці тому +2

    I love these advice vids!!
    Ok so... I know you talk about strict parents a lot on your channel so I thought you would be able to give me pretty good advice. So I have Asian, religious parents who are very strict in both religion and protectiveness. I am 17 and basically for most of my life, I've been pretty good and followed the rules because I love my parents and would never want to disappoint them. This means good grades, following the religious rules and never lying about where I'm going or anything like that. I just want to emphasis here that I do believe in my religion and I think it is important but some rules are just hard for me to follow. One of the main ones is that I'm not allowed to listen to music and even though I didn't like that rule, I have followed it for most of my life because of them but i personally don't feel it is that important. Then around 2 years ago, I came across some Taylor swift clips and I was genuinely enchanted (pun intended) and within a few weeks I was a full blown, obsessive Swiftie. I now have an extreme dilemma of listening to music behind my parents backs through annoying methods like incognito and private browsers. I also have to buy merch that isn't too obvious. The worst thing is that I had no way of going to the Eras tour which i am DISTRAUGHT about. Also, music is my main thing but I also have a friend who has lots of parties but I always have to refuse because it is too risky. I once went to one of her parties, masking it as a sleepover but I felt really overwhelmingly guilty the entire time and wasn't able to enjoy myself. I just feel so lost and trapped because no one else understands how I feel and I'm in the middle of the situation and unable to fully commit to a side of either full rebellion or full obedience, making me feel bad either way. I also want to note that I can't tell my parents this cuz they would be sooooooooooooo disappointed in me if they found out as they are really religious and think I am a really good girl. What should I do?
    I love you, your Swiftiness and your channel btw xx

  • @Bethrezen333
    @Bethrezen333 3 місяці тому +1

    Your advice is actually really good! i like how wholesome this is; what a difference compared to the shorts

  • @chowmalfoy
    @chowmalfoy 3 місяці тому +3

    Girl your advice is always so good and so entertaining, btw your hair looks so perfect and you literally fit that color blue so well xx

  • @user-pv4do1og8y
    @user-pv4do1og8y 3 місяці тому +3

    BBG UR LITERALLY GLOWING! STUNNING 💖💖

  • @kimmarieugenti5495
    @kimmarieugenti5495 3 місяці тому +1

    Sahar you a truly my comfort channel. Like I will look forward to your videos every weekend. Also I have an dilemma, so I’m in a group of 3 but sometimes we have 4 people all together but I don’t know what to do because my “friends” will go and hangout all the time without me but when I try to talk to them about it they always shut me down and say I don’t have to be invited to every. They leave me out all the time. But I’m also at that age where everyone already has a specific friend group and you can’t really change it. I don’t know what to do. Love you Sahar ❤ and you are my inspiration and my motivation.

  • @melonandmoocie
    @melonandmoocie 3 місяці тому +2

    i love watching sahar’s videos they’re so comforting ❤️❤️

  • @WeAreNeverGettingBackTogether
    @WeAreNeverGettingBackTogether 3 місяці тому +1

    i actually SCREAMED when i saw this on my subscriptions page!! I NEED A PART 4 ALREADYYY

  • @AshlynLopez7
    @AshlynLopez7 3 місяці тому +2

    Tysm for answering my question! Super helpful❤️

  • @adorbs0711
    @adorbs0711 3 місяці тому +4

    btw my fav ttpd song is down bad , like the whole album but down bad and Florida!! hit me a lil too hard

    • @allgem9615
      @allgem9615 3 місяці тому

      ikr!! same 😁 i love those two and my boy only breaks his favourite toys sm 💕

  • @Barbs2051
    @Barbs2051 3 місяці тому +3

    The makeup is absolutely gorgeous

  • @Tigra1v1
    @Tigra1v1 3 місяці тому +5

    Hi Sahar, for your next Sahar’s advive video I would really appreciate if you could help me with my situation: so me and my best friend started liking the same guy at the same time. As I wanted to tell her about it she was faster so she told me first and I didn’t say anything about it. The guy has told me he loves me on several occasions and my best friend has told him she likes him but he just doesn’t like her back. I don’t want to be a snake but me not being together with him isn’t going to make him like her so…what should I do????!!!! Please guys make this get recognized!!!!!!! 😢😢😢😢😢

    • @pearlmadaan
      @pearlmadaan 3 місяці тому

      Just talk to ur bestf and tell her the truth

    • @Tigra1v1
      @Tigra1v1 3 місяці тому

      @@pearlmadaan I can’t because my best friend gets mad at every little thing

    • @hasmikjasmine26
      @hasmikjasmine26 3 місяці тому +1

      @@Tigra1v1i honestly don’t know but if it doesn’t work out i think that she should be happy for you

    • @hasmikjasmine26
      @hasmikjasmine26 3 місяці тому

      but don’t drop ur friend bc of a guy

    • @Tigra1v1
      @Tigra1v1 3 місяці тому +1

      @@hasmikjasmine26 I would never, I love her so much

  • @HopeOladipupo
    @HopeOladipupo 3 місяці тому +3

    i love sahar’s advice 😊 sahar i love you pookie ❤️

  • @maddieeeee-lt2ee
    @maddieeeee-lt2ee 3 місяці тому +2

    Favorite UA-camr core

  • @SWIFTIESTAY143
    @SWIFTIESTAY143 3 місяці тому +2

    hey Sahar!! first of all, I love you so, so much!! you are such a big inspiration and have changed my life in an amazing way!! so, I'm a high-school student, and I have had a LOT of crushes on guys, but not all of them were as important. there have been, like three or four massive crushes, that I would've thought would be my future husband or smth. the first one, I developed while I was still in middle school, and I still kind of like him today. well, I told my friend that I liked him, and she got his number and started talking to him constantly. the boy was giving me mixed signals, so I wasn't sure, but then she told me that he called her hot and said he wanted to date her. I cried for literal hours over this. the second crush I had, I confessed my feelings to him before summer break, then when we came back to school, my friend was dating him. then, I started to like one of our mutual friends, and he was related to another friend of mine, so I asked the other friend if he liked anyone, and he said he liked the friend who kept stealing ny crushes. she constantly flirts with every guy I like, and she's way prettier than me, so I'm not surprised, but it's really affected me. then, I got another crush, and this one, I was serious about. well, she started flirting with him and even wrote lover on his cast when he broke his arm. she's had a bf through this whole thing, too. she always brings up my insecurities and makes me feel like I'm less than I actually am. should I cut her off, or stay friends with her even though she's always with the guy I like?

  • @sohina8083
    @sohina8083 3 місяці тому +1

    comfort channel frfr lysm

  • @aestheticmango17
    @aestheticmango17 3 місяці тому +2

    Okay hi Sahar I love your channel so much and I need some advice. So there was this girl who was kinda in my friend group but kinda not. Let’s call her Sarah. So Sarah kept having a bunch of problems with people in my friend group (but mainly one friend). Like seriously overreacting to the tiniest things. Being really really rude to us and doing things to like deliberately hurt my friend. She also would randomly distance herself from us all the time just so we would go back to her and pay attention to her. Then one of my friends (let’s call her Marie) had enough and told her she didn’t really want to be friends with her anymore and two other friends of mine agreed. And now Marie keeps trying to deliberately exclude Sarah from everything we do. Like avoiding her when we see her at school, moving seats in class, bringing up plans when she’s around and yesterday we were hanging out and she was like “let’s post one selfie so Sarah can see”. And I know that this girl did some bad stuff but it was the kinda thing I thought we could figure out. I just feel really bad and guilty about leaving her out even though when she is there she causes problems. I have brought this up to Marie but she just tells me “she can’t do what she does and think she’ll still have friends”. So please any advice because I have no idea what to do.

    • @Foolish_one1989
      @Foolish_one1989 3 місяці тому +1

      I HAVE THE SAME SITUATION. Look so if you don’t get along with someone it’s ok u don’t have to be their bestie but there is no need for being rude. I think you should talk to your friends about it and if they don’t wanna change then that’s their choice. Just make sure you are always kind towards Sarah unless she is like mean or something but also don’t feel forced to include her because she is getting left out. If you like her go ahead and be her friend!!! But if you know she is trouble I suggest just being kind to her but not a SOLID STRONG FRIENDSHIP unless Ofc that’s what u want

    • @aestheticmango17
      @aestheticmango17 3 місяці тому +2

      @@Foolish_one1989 yesss thx that’s what I was thinking I’m just still not completely sure abt her. I feel like if she apologised I’d be happy to go back to normal with her but every time she says anything it sounds sarcastic.

    • @Foolish_one1989
      @Foolish_one1989 3 місяці тому +1

      @@aestheticmango17 SAME😭😭😭 just remember to be kind and when you feel comfortable maybe you can talk to her about it. Good luck!!!❤️❤️❤️

  • @Lilysmusic444
    @Lilysmusic444 3 місяці тому +2

    BLUE IS YOUR COLOUR BABES

  • @parkerallee3269
    @parkerallee3269 3 місяці тому +1

    and you are my comfort channel

  • @charleejohnson-mw4pd
    @charleejohnson-mw4pd 3 місяці тому

    The best older sister I'll ever have❤❤

  • @sumikokwok2122
    @sumikokwok2122 3 місяці тому +1

    First off… LOVE YOU! Your advice is honestly so solid 💜
    ✨ Story Time ✨ (I’m in college) Ok so I dated this guy for like 7 months and one of my friends in particular seemed to act differently around him. I thought it was odd but brushed it off cause I trusted him. We ended things cause we realized we wanted different things from life and each other in general. Then 1 month later my friend matched with him on a dating app. It was weird at first cause she’d invite him to our friend group’s birthday and holiday parties cause that’s what I did after seeing him for 3 months (altho she basically brought him right away since she already “knew he’d get along with everyone”). So just wondering… what are your thoughts? Like technically I was the one that ended things. So do I really have a right to be upset? But honestly what upset me more was that she chose to go on a date with him on my bday instead of coming to the party my other friends had planned. HE even left a present with one of my bffs while she didn’t and instead texted me a pic of them on said date thanking me for understanding

    • @kimberley210
      @kimberley210 3 місяці тому +1

      Girl i know im not Sahar but skipping your birthday to go on a date with your ex and then sending you a picture of the date is so weird. What i got from your comment was that you and your ex ended on good terms but i think she still shouldve asked you how you felt about bringing him. I think its really understandable you are upset about it

    • @sumikokwok2122
      @sumikokwok2122 3 місяці тому

      @@kimberley210 Right?!? Thank you!

  • @shunpofx
    @shunpofx 3 місяці тому

    anxious attachment being attracted to fearful avoidant is so real

  • @RandomCommenter219
    @RandomCommenter219 3 місяці тому

    Omg I screamed when I saw this on my fyp! I love these videos. Sahar is literally my therapist at this point 💗

  • @sleepydais.
    @sleepydais. 3 місяці тому +1

    i love theese videos sm girl 💋 ur advice is always so comforting and js makes u feel good ❤❤ lovelovelovee!!!!!

  • @MrsMadhaviDaka
    @MrsMadhaviDaka 3 місяці тому

    AHHH sahar u r so cute and adorable and i love u sm i love watching ur my comfort channel fr. Idk when ur gonna do another one of these episodes but i rly need it rn because a little over a week ago this guy told me he liked me and i told him i liked him back because well i did. thing is all my friends hate him and ig for good reason because he’s very very toxic kinda fboy vibes yk he did sort of yell at me until i cried once. But he was so sweet when he told me he liked me and were going to different schools but he said he wants to hang out and not lose touch. But then he sort of completely ghosted me? Like i’ve been trying to get him to call me for a week and he keeps saying tomorrow and then just doesn’t call and above that we don’t ever text abt our relationship or hanging out like he literally just complained abt how he was sick once when i literally know he’s been hanging out w his friends. And this sounds rly bad but why can’t you make time for me if u seem to be able to for everyone else? So what shd i do now he hasn’t been texting or calling for like 2 days now but ik he’s online i’ve talked to his friends so literallt what am i supposed to do? Thank u sm i love u pls helpp me 🙏🙏

  • @VictoriaGoldsburn
    @VictoriaGoldsburn 3 місяці тому

    hey sahar ty for the video u are my comfort youtuber

  • @AislynScarlett
    @AislynScarlett 3 місяці тому +1

    hair is absolutly gorgeous i love it!!!

  • @Foolish_one1989
    @Foolish_one1989 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi sahar! You are literally me comfort channel I love you and your content so much!❤️ I wanted to ask you for advise. A few months ago my best friend embarrassed me infront of several classes from my new school and teachers. That weekend I was supposed to hang out with her but I never did since I blocked her. Now several months later I unblocked her for some reason and she’s reacting me things like “ I don’t know why you got so mad or what I did but I already said sorry why are you so disappointed“ she said we should meet up and do things together again but I can’t imagine that especially because we can’t even look each other in the eye at school. What do you think? Also it’s not the first time she does something like this and also not the second time. I gave her enough chances and now I’m stuck. Thanks for making these types of videos keep up the amazing work!!! I love uu❤️❤️❤️

  • @hellohi5-
    @hellohi5- 3 місяці тому

    Finally the wait is overrrrr🎉.... and why is she so prettyyyyyyy!!!❤❤❤❤

  • @Abby-oh5py
    @Abby-oh5py 3 місяці тому

    Girl just gotta say your glowingggg😍

  • @user-ns5uo3fg1f
    @user-ns5uo3fg1f 2 місяці тому

    love you so much girl, more sahar's advice episodes please

  • @user-pv4do1og8y
    @user-pv4do1og8y 3 місяці тому +1

    Love waking up to your videos!

  • @Maya_Papaya26
    @Maya_Papaya26 3 місяці тому

    Love you Sahar 💜 thank you so much for this

  • @elizabethwang8115
    @elizabethwang8115 3 місяці тому

    thank you Sahar! my comfort channel 🫶💕

  • @Its_Mickey10
    @Its_Mickey10 3 місяці тому +1

    My crush is in love with his girl best friend and completely ignores me whenever shes around. Idk what to do about it

  • @Leah.13.Swift.
    @Leah.13.Swift. 3 місяці тому +1

    Hey sahar! First of all I love you so much! Ok so I’m in 8th grade and me and my trio have been friends for 6 years and at first they would bully me but eventually they stopped and we have had the best friendship ever since! So lately I feel like they are excluding me, but I’ve never said anything because I’m scared. Also there was this boy that liked me and I liked him and we would text everyday and then one day he stopped. And recently one of my friends( from the trio) is kinda acting like she likes him and he’s acting like he likes her, so I feel like that’s kind of making us jealous of each other and our friendship is fading if that makes sense? the friend that might like my crush doesn’t really talk to me when this other girl is there and that seems kinda weird? So basically how should I deal with my friends and with my crush? Btw I love Taylor swift too ❤

  • @Listenintosza
    @Listenintosza 3 місяці тому +5

    Who else loves Sahar?❤
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  • @polanunez423
    @polanunez423 3 місяці тому +1

    Hey Sahar! How are you? I hope you're good or even better. I LOVE you and your channel!!!! 💋✌🏼❤🌸 You're channel is my only and my fav comfort channel! Now here's what I would be so thankful for you're advice on:
    First of all I have moved to a new country far from my home so I don't always understand what these boys were saying but I do speak spanish it's more the teen slang or something like that anyway there are these two boys one is in my grade in my school who pretty much flirts with a few of girls in our grade including me so me and my friends think that he doesn't really like me but because I don't know for what reason I started to like him, I try to stop liking him but then I see that he starts flirting with another girl and I think I get a bit jealous. And then when I am sure he doesn't like me I am in a group project with him and after the group project is over and almost everybody has left he starts telling me over and over like 100 time that he truly likes me and then he asks me if I like him but I didn't know what to answer so I said maybe because it didn't really feel right to say yes because I didn't know if he is really telling the truth. I said maybe not only because I wasn't if he really likes me but also because there the second guy that lives in the same building estate as me . He has a dog and I also have a dog one time when I as taking my dog out and he was taking his dog out that's how we met, but that first time we haven’t told we just said hi to eachother but then a few days after we met again he came up to me and started talking to me. Then he let his dog out and our dogs played for hours while we were talking, I have to say that it was really nice talking to him , all of my guy friends that I have were always so mean or annoying and this guy isn't like that he's nice, kind, funny, makes sure I'm okay like one time my eye started to really hurt and he helped me until I was fine. The night after we talked for hours he texted if we can be friends , I said yes. He also asked for my instagram the first time we talked. We met up often . I like him , I'm just not sure he like's me back even that everytime we see eachother I feel like there's a connection between us. One time I also catched him starring at me. I don't know he this next thing means anything but he also likes my posts or my tiktoks everytime I am in them. PLSS Sahar , I beg you I need your help.

  • @Grace2055
    @Grace2055 3 місяці тому

    Yayyyyyy my favorite person uploaded.This like such good big sister advice and since my sister in in basic training right now this is so nice 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

  • @avamay2274
    @avamay2274 7 днів тому

    UR GORGEOUS BTW LOVE UR ADVICE

  • @monamona_07
    @monamona_07 3 місяці тому

    YAYYY OMG A NEW VID ! i absolutely love this series please PLEASE do more in the futuree love you sahar

  • @GRWM_girl246
    @GRWM_girl246 Місяць тому

    Sahar you are so amazing beautiful and like the best person in the world i love you so much!!

  • @ch3mtr4ils
    @ch3mtr4ils 3 місяці тому

    my favorite type of video ever

  • @paytonb313
    @paytonb313 9 днів тому

    LOVE THE MAKEUP

  • @Violet-Sky-4580
    @Violet-Sky-4580 3 місяці тому

    That blue looks amazing on you😍

  • @rachelsilver13
    @rachelsilver13 3 місяці тому +1

    hiiii i love you sm!

  • @marcusfresko99
    @marcusfresko99 2 місяці тому

    I would say you going to find the right one but keep searching!

  • @lisalitchinko1223
    @lisalitchinko1223 3 місяці тому

    you're so pretty ily

  • @user-yg5rs8ye9k
    @user-yg5rs8ye9k 3 місяці тому +1

    God loves you all

  • @user-mh6by3qs1e
    @user-mh6by3qs1e 3 місяці тому

    Heyyyy i love youuuu sm. Uve inspired me in so many wayss.

  • @mytimetalk5317
    @mytimetalk5317 3 місяці тому +1

    OMG I really enjoyed this!!! was wondering though
    What can I do if my best friend gets close with a person who did me dirty(even though she knows everything about the drama) and now I feel really uncomfortable and I get this icky feeling whenever I'm around her?
    Is this normal, what should I do about it???

    • @user-sw5nt8dl5x
      @user-sw5nt8dl5x 3 місяці тому +2

      Shes not your best friend then fake friend

    • @mytimetalk5317
      @mytimetalk5317 3 місяці тому

      @@user-sw5nt8dl5x U think I should distance myself from her?

  • @ananyabn452
    @ananyabn452 3 місяці тому +1

    Can u do a "what I eat in a week" vid! ❤

  • @autumn_readss
    @autumn_readss 3 місяці тому +1

    first!
    love ur vids ❤

  • @angelicamadrid2253
    @angelicamadrid2253 3 місяці тому

    PLEASE PLEASE do more of THINGS GIRLS SHOULDN'T BE INSECURE ABOUT i love those 😊😊😊

  • @user-mh6by3qs1e
    @user-mh6by3qs1e 3 місяці тому

    Heyyyy im naira n i love youuuu sm. Uve inspired me in so many wayss n helped me get through so much ❤❤ love the hair n makeup… blue is soo ur colour!
    My parents are going through a rough patch n i might move to a new country with my mom for her job. Im excited for the new better lifestyle. The city is amazing n everything but ive always had trouble making friends n im scared for this new beginning. My best friend n i will loose touch n i mean ill be joining a high school its gonna be hard. I havent been a new girl since 5 yrs im scared😅

  • @grace36774
    @grace36774 3 місяці тому

    SO EXCITED TO WATCH I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS SM!! 🤍🤍

  • @Jasmine25064
    @Jasmine25064 3 місяці тому

    Hi Sahar! So I really struggle with discipline as a full time engineering student. I deal with school okay but I can't seem to get myself to study/work on my own projects because there's always some deadline I'm chasing. For the small part of my life that I'm not, I find myself doing nothing despite graduation knocking on my door but I still haven't decided what to do with my life or even what internships to apply to. I feel like the stress puts me in a freeze mode where I'm just stuck unable to do anything. How do you balance school, work and personal life? Btw your videos have such a comforting big sister vibe! Sending love 💗

  • @kylie8659
    @kylie8659 3 місяці тому +1

    i need some advice: i’m a high schooler and 2 years ago i was s*xually as*aulted multiple times by this guy. i had a really hard time recovering, especially last year when he was still in one of my classes because my school refused to punish him at all. he now goes to a different school and i’ve been doing fine, i thought i was over it. in the past few weeks a different boy who is 18, multiple years older than me, has been complimenting me and the other night at a dance he came up to me when i was with my friends and said i looked like i needed a dance partner. my best friend got him to go away, and this boy has a reputation for being very creepy. is it really a big deal, or am i just overreacting because of my previous experiences? if it is a problem, what should i do about it?

  • @Sofiii_b11
    @Sofiii_b11 3 місяці тому

    We need a hair care routine!!! Also love you smmm❤

  • @liamliaaa-ez9di
    @liamliaaa-ez9di 2 місяці тому

    hii sahar i love your vids sm!! soo basically what i want advice on is last week i met this guy who we'll call evan. so he's basically the cousin of this guy i know who i'm not friends with really but we have mutual friends so yeah, but me and evan were hanging out a lot cause we were at this summer camp, and i started to develop feelings for him, but then i found out he has a girlfriend. yeah i really like him a lot and idk so yeahhh thanks saharrr love you

  • @samiyi4896
    @samiyi4896 3 місяці тому

    *Good advice, mature sound takes* ❤

  • @user-kt1bt9ue8x
    @user-kt1bt9ue8x 3 місяці тому +1

    Sahar could you please make a google form tho? For ppl who would like to stay anonymous but also don't have insta?

  • @grace36774
    @grace36774 3 місяці тому

    YOUR SO PRETTY

  • @summermadzz
    @summermadzz 3 місяці тому +1

    hey sahar, i’m going through smt really bad with friend drama rn and idk what to do, here it is:
    so we have this one girl, let’s call her G. so, at first, i was friends with G. but then, all she would talk about was people’s looks and how ugly they are, and their bodies especially. so, i don’t want to be friends with a person like that. so i wasn’t friends with her for a couple months. but then, people never saw that side of her so they hated me for not being friends with her. so i became friends again, only because everyone told me to. but G would fat shame, let’s call her S every day, to her face and behind her back. and i would ‘side’ with G not about the fat shaming, but just about not liking S because i didn’t want people to be mad at me for not liking G. Ok so basically then we all weren’t friends with G anymore bc we actually stood up for ourselves and S, and weren’t friends with G at all. (btw G had a sidekick named D). Ok, so my best friend lets call her B, was the person that i trusted. she was my person that i talked to about everything. so about a week ago, B started sitting with G. we were like, okay i mean that’s a little weird because B hates G but whatever. Ok, so fast forward a week and B totally isn’t talking to me anymore. like completely ghosted. and on top of this, i hear her talking shit about me every single day at lunch from my other friends. so anyway, G, D, and B all made a powerpoint presentation of texts that i ‘said’ about S that weren’t true, and showed it to S. that was so messed up. and on top of all of that, B is going around telling everyone, like everyone that i am a manipulative liar who sucks at being a friend. so basically idk what to do now

  • @nasfolder
    @nasfolder 3 місяці тому

    2:30 i cut a friend off bc she was dating a guy 10 years older than her(she's 15) and even after i warned her she didn't listen so i just understood how my words don't matter to her so i cut her off. It's honestly disrespectful how she'd rather chose a man over our genuine friendship.

  • @ellison8578
    @ellison8578 3 місяці тому

    love you sahar!

  • @rahmakazem
    @rahmakazem 17 днів тому

    My favorite girl🫶✨

  • @hershey-wuz-here
    @hershey-wuz-here 3 місяці тому

    IVE NEVER BEEN SO EARLY OMG

  • @mais.1161
    @mais.1161 3 місяці тому

    Sahar I need you opinion on this! I’m thinking of going on a working holiday abroad (I live in Japan and we have a visa for that, 1 year at most). And I can’t decide if I should choose Canada or UK😭😭😭

  • @sabrinawong4011
    @sabrinawong4011 3 місяці тому

    Hi Sahar! So.. my crush is going to high school and I’m still in middle school😢 and i would like to find ways to move on and be happy again. Also, all the rage is making me want to have the BIGGEST GLOW UP OF ALL TIME!!! Any tips for howto move on, glow up, and be happy again? Ilysm and your videos are bombbb❤❤❤

  • @KikiL-eh7jq
    @KikiL-eh7jq 3 місяці тому

    Live laugh love slay Sahar❤

  • @kimberley210
    @kimberley210 3 місяці тому

    Hi Sahar,
    I love you so much and I love these advice videos.
    So me, my best friend and one other girl are a friend group (there is no duo in our trio it works really well when were together) the other girl isnt in our class but her best friend is. We are friends with her and some other girls in our class but i feel like they don't like me. I miss school kinda often so there are always inside jokes i dont get and they dont really try to make conversation with me. My best friend always includes me but i haven't told her i feel like they dont really like me.
    I dont know what to do cause im friends with them and my friends are friends with them. They're never rude to me but i just don't think they actually like me.

  • @kaka.o_1952
    @kaka.o_1952 3 місяці тому

    hey sahar i love you sm youre my fav english youtuber and i wanted to quickly share my situation with you

  • @Zoya_Frickin_Patel
    @Zoya_Frickin_Patel 3 місяці тому +1

    Where are the earrings from??

  • @liyinchong4493
    @liyinchong4493 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @01iviaaxoxxo
    @01iviaaxoxxo 3 місяці тому

    hey sahar!! love you so muchhhh!! i need help with this!!: ok so basically one of my best friend’s has been rlly mean and talking shit behind this girls back and i didn’t mind it at first bc the girl was kinda mean to me a while back but now it’s getting out of hand. what should i do? idk how to tell her to stop?

  • @KikiL-eh7jq
    @KikiL-eh7jq 3 місяці тому

    Ok so smth that I need help with is my friendship. The girl who used to be my bff was friends with this other girl who tlkd bad abt me all the time and she knew it but I never bothered to ask why she didn’t care bc she was my bff and I didn’t wanna ruin our friendship. Basically they would also always make me feel left out and tok abt plans where I wasn’t invited, and if I ever tried to make plans for all of us they would say their busy. I found out that the other girl (the one who gossiped abt me) was talking ppl not to tlk to me bc I’m “rude”. I finally tlkd to my bff abt it bc it rlly bothered me. After all my friends blocked me on everything and never spoke to me again and at school they would always avoid. What did I do wrong?

  • @shagunkanwar2532
    @shagunkanwar2532 3 місяці тому

    Hey Sahar, so like i have a childhood friend from the last 16 years. We had broken connection some time ago but got back together. He has a crush on me and he admits to it every time and i literally do not know if i like him or not. Its kinda awkward that he brings it up or flirts everytime even though i said i'm not ready for a relationship yet, not with anybody. i don't know what to do because i can't give him up, he's like my comfort person. I had liked him a lot in the past when he was dating literally everybody else except me and i made it clear too. What do i do? also love you Sahar, you're the sweetest person here. I would love to meet you someday~ ❤

  • @adorbs0711
    @adorbs0711 3 місяці тому

    first of sahar i love you , im the oldest I'm fam n listening to feels like having a older sis thank youuuu sooo muchhh for unfucking my life

  • @ailazzza
    @ailazzza 2 місяці тому

    Hi Sahar, I would like you to help me with my situation. I'm in high school and a few days ago I found out that my classmate told my friend that I look slutty and almost naked(there's nothing extra in how I dress, usually it's just crop top and low-waisted jeans/pants) this really bothers me, cause literally all the other girls dress the same, but he told this only about me. the worst thing is that I never wanted to be disappointed in this guy, because we're in good relationships actually, never thought I'd hear something like that from him. I'd be really happy if you told your opinion on this. love you soooo much💕

  • @MiaPeinkofer-vo1ey
    @MiaPeinkofer-vo1ey 3 місяці тому +3

    hey Sahar I was wondering if you could give me some advice about toxic friends because it’s hard to know which ones are the real ones after she tried to ruin my life can u help? love youuuu ❤️

    • @Foolish_one1989
      @Foolish_one1989 3 місяці тому +2

      Omg I feel u my bestie for 6 years embarrassed me infront of like 100 people in the beginning and now she’s back saying we should be friends again even if she ignores me 24/7 my advise: ur better of alone girl don’t waste ur time on toxic people trust me it’s hard but it’s for the best

    • @MiaPeinkofer-vo1ey
      @MiaPeinkofer-vo1ey 3 місяці тому +2

      I know it can be really hard

  • @Zoey_Discopsoon
    @Zoey_Discopsoon 3 місяці тому

    Hey I have a situation maybe you want to help me out. So there is this girl I was friends with but she doesn't really match my vibe so I don't want to friends with her anymore because she is really working on my nerves but I don't know how to tell her since I'm the only 'friend' she has.
    I love you soo much! and Honestly you have really helped me!

  • @lia-f7g
    @lia-f7g Місяць тому

    heyyy sahar i love you soo much!! so basically the other day i was hanging out with my friend group, two of them girls and three guys, and i overheard one of my guy friends talking to my girl friend and like she was saying something about being like a good wingman or something idk stuff like that and he was like motioning in the direction of me and the other girl so i think he likes one of ourus but like idk there are clues that make me think its me but i also think it could be the other girl we were with and i wanna ask the girl friend who it is but i feel like she probably wont tell me which is reasonable since i wouldnt want her telling anyone who i liked but yea i think i might like the guy too though like he's really cool and Idk what to do cause i dont want to like get attached or tell him or something if its the other girl but also he's lowk shy and probably wont say anything and i dont wanna miss my chance so idk. thanks in advance sahar love youuu! (guys pls like so this gets noticed)

  • @layla.l.tk.29
    @layla.l.tk.29 3 місяці тому

    hey sahar I’ve been watching u for sooo long on your tiktok but ANYWAYS can u give me some advice because I like this guy and I’ve been working up the courage to tell him and I told my friend to tell him (she hasn’t yet) but somehow his friends found out about it and were saying things like “oh who would even like him like respectfully” when they shouldn’t even care like that’s my business not theirs and I don’t know why their talking about him like that when they’re literally friends with him.. any ideas on what I should do im stumped.

  • @user-ns5uo3fg1f
    @user-ns5uo3fg1f 2 місяці тому

    hey sahar, i love you so much and i enjoy watching your videos. so i have a problem with my friend, I had cut all of my friends off due to different reasons and i was alone for a long time then i started getting along with this girl and she is cool and we have a lot of fun, the problem is she is a lot smarter than me and she knows a lot about different stuff and i don't, i was okay with it but i think she is insecure and she uses different opportunities to point out that she is better than me and it hurts my feelings, should i cut her off and if i do i feel like i can't get get along with anyone since i've cut all of my friends either because they have been toxic to me or because they don't invest in the friendship as much as i do. what do you suggest i do

  • @grace36774
    @grace36774 3 місяці тому

    PLS DO A MAKEUP TUTORIAL UR MAKEUP ALWAYS LOOKS PERFECT 🫶🫶

  • @veronicamozee
    @veronicamozee 2 місяці тому

    You gotta ket her learn. My ex use to nit like my friends and i let him keep me from hanging out eith them a lot. Hes gone and noe i would never do that to my friends over a dude again. But i have no friends or boyfriends so thats not sn issue. But i had to learn the hard way. Sheesh!

  • @juishinde4689
    @juishinde4689 3 місяці тому

    Idk why I always miss these question stories😭 idk if this will get to sahar rn but like I really need some advice. I introduced my girl bestfriend and my guy bestfriend and I didn't think they'd get so fucking close so quickly and she knew I used to like him and he still means a heck lot to me even now as a friend and I did let her know that due to their friendship I didn't wanna be replaced by either one of them or feel left out but they keep getting closer each day after I told them I wasn't okay with them being so damn close but I told them they could still talk and now she just wouldn't stop mentioning him in random convos and atp it just seems like she's trying to make me jealous by showing me how close they are. Idk what to do I don't wanna lose either of them