She's just as misguided as the dudes she's attempting to defend. Their default setting is "choose better"--as if we're just bitter chicks who have been burned by them as well. She should have just sat there and ate her food.
How? Yanie made her assume that saying BM don't care, to me that includes her own father bcuz Yanie blanketed ALL BM instead of saying some. This whole conversation confused me. Why is it's a BM fault bcuz a white woman don't like her biracial children. Sound like yt problems to me
@Tara First of all, you need to look up the definition of assumption. Assumptions are made by the person doing the assuming, not the person the assumer is making assumptions about. Secondly, there is no need for Yanie to say some, not all, because no phenomenon is 100% and she is speaking truthfully and statistically(something that can be proven) about the collective of Black men. Lastly, how is it possible for a white woman to instill Blackness in a Black child? It's their fathers responsibility.
@@janine3330 I know exactly what assumptions mean, you created that assumption in her when u said All Black Men. And secondly you should've said you were speaking statically, it's nobodys job to read your mind. If your gonna speak so matter of fact do just that. Outside your dad every other BM you've experienced must've treated u bad, it comes off bitter.
I don’t think she meant that she was fatherless I think she meant she was talking about her own just experience in general and because she said black men don’t care!!!
@@soniabrown7151 She specifically said "if you think black men don't care then that is an opinion about Your Specific Father" in reference to Yanie and her comment
@@soniabrown7151 um EVERYONE has a father lol no one of Us is fatherless. Some of Us grew up without Our Father's being active in Our Lives. But We LITERALLY all have Fathers... Tf 😂
Oop. If it don’t apply, let it fly! And statistics don’t lie. She’s inserting her personal experiences and glossing over the reality of many black children.
I’m so glad you responded! I defended you under this post. It was clear she was coming for all the BW who said BM don’t care when y’all were clearly agreeing with what she said. It was weird. She just wanted to feel like she could flex.
I knew it would come to this eventually. BM and WW’s children putting their parents on blast. But once again, not BW’s concern. Moving along 🤷🏾♀️💅🏾👩🏾🦯
@@rihannahaiti5570 this is why we need to stop embracing these cryracial women as one of us when they’re not. She needs to take up all of that hostility towards Becky and Tyrone and not BW
@@charice1216 I never have. No issues with them, but they are not us, they are them. The others keep the gate closed and then they pander to us and try to weaponize us in their fights against the gate keepers that never let them in.
She contradicted herself by assumed that Yanie's dad was absent because Yanie was blk, but then went on to defend BM. Some of these biracial women think that their issues are more important than BWs.
@@pettybetty1791 oooooooohh “use punctuation” no grammar nazi it’s UA-cam… bare minimum only. Secondly throwing around insults trying to piss me off will not work your clearly a troll 🧌 😌 and I’m ignorant but your the one using a generalization and then not having the decency to try to back it up with an example and or statistic. Hmmmmmmmmm Also darling what I think your referring to with your original comment is the (everyone is the protagonist of their own life view) and while that is to some degree true, there are many “protagonist/people” who are more than capable of again looking at facts, statistics and even using empathy to “perceive” someone else issue as greater than their own. Be blessed.
She needs to really look at the statistics. Most biracial children with black fathers usually aren't raised with the BM in the family. Her daddy doesn't change the stats, he's an exception to the rule.
I have a wonderful Black father. He’s amazing. But even he says Black men are dangerous and many are lazy and don’t want to provide for their families. Even he says that. 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
My dad says the same thing! He can't stand how lazy they are he hires Hispanics because of this very reason. He tries to give Black men a chance by hiring them for service but he regrets it every single time and Hispanics always do a great job. 😭
@@RealTalkWithYanieas someone who grew up in San Antonio, tx predominantly Hispanic, I've seen it first hand! They'll be lined to get work at 5 am meanwhile the others are "on the block" or pouring in from the strip club smh
The jokes write themselves. She was asking bm to pick non-racist white women. Then decided to reflect the behaviors of her racists mother by stereotyping and belittling you . The irony lol
It's interesting she said this considering every day in that app it's a biracials complaining about their racist non Black moms, complaining about how their Black dads weren't in their lives, or talking about how their white mom put them up for adoption and how they grew up not having anyone to teach then about Black culture. And they love trying to default to that "You don't have a dad" stereotype and notice how people only ever apply it and try to insult Black women with that stereotype, they never do this when it's a biracial woman.🙄
@@Sunny-tc3ul Idk, but she made many assumptions about BW. When people asked she tried to deflect. She regretted mentioning her mom didn't like her and her Yt family was racist.
I’m so confused. Why is she offended yet she called out the issue lol. You’re just stating the facts. Seems like she’s delusional about her own family dynamics but okay 😂
Because she put her racist mother on blast and her father, but got very defensive when people called it out. I think she has mental issues, she stated it in one of her videos
Definitely some cognitive dissonance that’s why I can’t be on TikTok lol. I’d already be in TikTok jail for dragging all these folks this is how they all think‼️
Her one little daddy doesn't change data. I was raised by my mother and father, and they were married. My ONE household doesn't change the overall truth. They. Do. Not. Care.
Prime example why I never respond or comment on those videos when it come to BM, non BW and Mammies/Pickmes. People post these type videos then get in feelings when facts are stated. 🙄
My very black father who was married to my mother till death they did part…said and I quote: “These Black Men These Days Ain’t 💩! Baby you have my sympathies cuz ain’t nuthin out here for you.” That was 15 years ago, and it ain’t got betta! Pops, facts was spoken on that day! Rest in peace 🕊️
My daddy and mama said the same thing when we had a conversation a few months ago. I had asked them would they be ok if I decided to look outside the box so to speak.
My dad is West African and thinks men who don't marry their children's mother and raise their children together have a mental disorder😂😂 My parents conceived me before they married but my dad told my mom (she's American) they were getting married because he can't imagine his child not sleeping under his roof! My parents will be celebrating their 30th anniversary this year.
Lol, that girl is complaining about you and discrediting you for speaking from 'personal experience" then proceeds to talk about her 'personal experience'.
She thought she was doing something by assuming your black father wasn’t in your life because you are fully black Yanie. She saw herself as better because she is biracial and assumed your father wasn’t in your life because you’re not. I say this as a mother to a biracial child (I am a black woman). Some of these biracial kids by black men think they are better and think their black fathers are more likely to be better to them and stay in their lives. The statistics prove that isn’t accurate. So yeah, these men don’t care for any of their children GENERALLY. Biracial or not
I think there’s a huge difference. Usually biracial children with a black mother, are more balanced. I think it stems from the energy of the conception. For example, the topic in which the girl initially was talking about. Bm do indeed impregnate women who are r@cist. I know this for a fact. So these children are conceived in a mutual hate. It’s unfortunate but there’s a huge difference.
In my experience most people think they are better than FBA 🇺🇸 from fatherless homes with two FBA parents. The entire world 🌎 does even if they have a similar situation. Thats my two sense. That Mu Lat Toe was speaking how most of the world including some FBA🇺🇸 people views FBA 🇺🇸. It doesn't shock me one bit. The TRUTH doesn't care who speaks it.
I come from a 2 parent household. My parents was married until my father died. He was a great father and my best friend. Most of these black men dont care about their children. Their actions shows this and they speak this too.
I really don't like how she assumed your father was not in your life. And the tone of how she said she has a father like she is/was somehow superior to you. Like you Yanie my parents were married before they had kids. My father has always been in my life, did not mean he was the greatest at parenting.
Some of these women do this micro aggressive behavior on purpose. They love drawing ppl into their mess and flipping the script. I have learned to leave them to their world.
She assumed your dad wasn’t in your life because that’s the narrative about Black men, which didn’t come from thin air. The biracial knows that black men being in their kids life is one in a dozen.
I wholeheartedly believe she did all that because you’re a BW. Because ain’t no way, you commented on the point she was speaking about but then she back tracks and defends BM. Right after complaining about them. Her YT side was trying to defend her Kangs! 😂
The fact is black women raised in cohesive families are better able to be non biased in these situations. I have a loving set of parents but I can see very well that a good number of black men are half raised. The irony is not lost on me that she can say she is putting aside her own personal experience to speak on behalf of others but didn’t want to give you the same courtesy. How very colonizer of her 😂😂😂
Black men are disputing those stats all over their channels saying they DO NOT abandon their children, that more Black fathers are actively present in their childrens lives.😲 What stats are they pulling up?
There is some article/study that was done maybe 10 years ago about how BM are supposedly the most involved fathers. However, that was a Self-Reported study (so the men filled out the questionnaires themselves). Also small sample size.
@@ogolden8315 the most important part of that article that they always miss is that WHEN they choose to be in their kids lives, they are the most active fathers. That article did not negate or soften the fact that they are still MOST LIKELY to abandon their kids. So 3% of them actually being decent fathers is a moot point. These males demonize education so much I think animals have more sense than them now 🥴
@@almamater9346 - it’s the same way that they misconstrue marriage statistics. You often hear them citing the statistic that black men marry black women 80% of the time, while conveniently ignoring that the same study shows that only 30% of black men actually get married in the first place. They’re going to miss the main point if they don’t do anything else 😂
WW are most definitely very jealous and very spiteful is what I have observed throughout my entire life in having various interactions with them from professional and personal experience. They have been touted as being the top tier of women in comparison to other women in other groups. So when they come in contact with another nonwhite woman that is equally if not more beautiful/pretty than them they go bonkers. They always want to be the center of attention and get first dibs on males. I didn't say all of them though.
WW have greatly contributed to misogynoir historically out of jealousy and the need to stay “on top”. They also have stood idle while it took place by other groups of men including their own. That is why I’m a womanist. Not a feminist.
I noticed people try to attack you if you have an opinion on something assuming that you’re coming from a place of hurt all the time. These things are facts!! Same with me, people will assume I didn’t know my father or that my mother had multiple BD’s when my parents were married. My siblings & I all come from the same man but whenever I speak too, it leads to the same thing 🙄 the ones that automatically jump to the whole “you were fatherless” conclusion show their bias immediately with that statement
This proves how threatened other women feel about the black woman they can't hide their jealousy because we can't even agree with them on the same subject when we bring up statistics and this is why my multiracial daughter will grow up to be humble and wholesome because her mother is black!
I'm a white British woman. I'm astounded by what black women have to contend with. You get attacked from every direction. Obviously, I had no idea. Is this an American thing or worldwide? Btw, I find the rhetoric towards you disgusting,especially when it's from black men. I'm sorry you have to deal with it and respect to you for it too. I hope thing's change for you all.
This is why we have to call them what they are. She attacks mostly BW and makes up all types of assumptions. She's just jumping on the biracial wo me train.
Yanie I think us with Dad's will say the reality vs. our own experience which is the correct thing to do but it will always be met with "your bitter" and " you hate black men" "that's your experience" 🤦🏾♀️. No sis I have a Dad, brothers, uncles and other men around me I love. But I don't love giving a group of men a pass because a minority of them are decent. Like Yanie said many don't care that your white momma hates you 🤷🏾♀️ sorry.
THIS, because my mom and dad have been together since she was a teen and married since their 20s. I am still able to acknowledge my reality being a minority
If at any time you speak the truth these days you’re automatically met with “you’re projecting“. Babes, I’m allowed to say “a thing” and it be true without it having to do anything with me. Anytime you say anything it MUST automatically come from someplace of bitter, butthurt, jealously, place of lack and trauma. 😂
I remember my biracial friends telling me their mom was racist and calling them the N*word and I just couldnt understand it. I still dont understand, because it's so messed up to be hateful towards your own children. Smh
I have friends in Europe (UK especially) and they say that majority of the Biracial-Black kids that are in their version of the foster care system have Black sperm donors. Also have a few social worker friends in the US…. Same thing. Increasing amounts of biracial-black kids with majority black daddies also.
Right! I have a black father my e whole life in home , provider, mom has always and will be a stay at home mom, but you are correct as a collective. They are down bad.
the mocking of “feelings” 😂 I’m sorry, I laughed through the rest, moral of the story… we’re glad your daddy loves you and you might know a few others but the numbers say otherwise.
@@hild-demongoddess7498 yup she sure is, she can use her “friends” as an example but I’m not buying it. She was definitely talking about her own mother.
@@hild-demongoddess7498 😂😂😂😂 yup, then she ran to the internet to beg black men to stop getting racist pregnant and then under the same breath bash black women that agreed with her. I honestly don’t know why black women keep supporting biracial women that clearly don’t like them 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ at this point I don’t even blame them, I blame the black women who won’t stop. This is not our fight, they are the product of the self hate from BM and the fetishization from WW end of story.
Trying to shame black women for the failings of their absentee fathers will never not be weird to me. XYs will admit to preying on fatherless girls and women but then get in their feels when a woman refuses to be vulnerable around them.
I don’t have much empathy for my sister but when it comes to her being a 17-year-old preyed upon by an adult XY who’d already fathered several children, I can’t help but empathize with the girl who never realized her dreams because of a dusty bastard… I can’t stand her for allowing that same XY mistreat her daughter. I love my niece to pieces and will always be honest with her about these clowns. I tell her all the time keep her head and standards HIGH! If he can’t meet them, send him back to where he came from.
I was raised by a single black dad and my experience was great but I know damn well my situation is rare and most of these 🥷 do not take care of their children and you a fool to think otherwise.
I’m so glad you responded! I defended you under this post. It was clear she was coming for all the BW who said this when y’all were clearly agreeing with what she said.
Yanni this is why you don’t talk to mixed people 😂😂 as a black women they just don’t get certain things or you can’t reason with mammies either. They don’t look at the majority, they look at the few minorities or their situations to speak about the majority.
The picture of your parents is beautiful, daddy looks like he really cares about mom. It is sad to say that there is a large section of us black men who do not want responsibility for ourselves or the people around us.
She kinda proves your point they don’t care when she goes on about how biracial children are abused by their non-black mothers though. If these men cared, why are the children experiencing this abuse? They don’t care and that is the truth. I have plenty of examples in my line including uncles and a good friend currently in therapy because of the trauma.
Why did she start the conversation then if she couldn't stand to hear other perspectives, even ones that _agreed_ with her?? I honestly am having trouble determining if that hypersensitive pettiness is more from her WW mother or her BM father....🤔
She’s on here complaining about blk men impregnating racists ww, you agree with here and say oh well they don’t care……now she’s trying to take shots at you. Weird
Yanie put her in her place!! It's crazy how the internet tries to shut black women up on "black father" & "black men". By alluding to our high fatherlessness. They don't care! It's as simple as that.
My uncle impregnated a ww 4xs. Yes out of wedlock, on welfare & he was extremely abusive to her. Eventually he went to prison for a case involving another male, he was released 7yrs ago and has been a completely different (positive) person and has been trying to build relationships with his adult children. Side note: The ww works for the welfare office for over 16yrs
Yikes. His kids don't owe him anything. A lot of dusty, absentee dads come back trying to "make amends" when they are older because they are looking for someone to support them or give them an ego boost at the end of life. Absolutely not
So... why would i... as a black woman care about a non black woman's issues with black men? She clearly has her own bias because she assumed that your dad wasn't in your life. Lol.... LOUD & WRONG🤣🤣
I’m biracial, I fortunately can’t relate to these other biracial women who are on TikTok crying lol they do the most. I’ve never had these types of issues from being biracial, the racist non-black mother and stuff. My father did pass one month after I turned 13 from cancer and because of losing him I can say that I’ve solely preferred dating black men up UNTIL my early 30’s, now I’m seeing things a lot different with them.
And I’m one of them. Black father absent af and then I chose to have kids with TWO of them. Guess how that turned out. She has no idea what she’s talking about. 😮I lived those statistics my whole life
My parents were not together, yet I was born IN WEDLOCK. After they divorced, MY FATHER was extremely VERY PRESENT in my life. I knew my Father, good and bad, he was there. BUT he truly is very much an EXCEPTION to the rule.
I have yet to find a bi racial with a black father not have some sort of identity/mental issues. You rarely see bi-racials with black moms on social media making these videos. They just seem way more well adjusted in their identity and who they are.
This conversation reminds me of my responses to people, who loudly wonder where are the fathers of the children that were abused/killed. The bio fathers don't care, in most of those cases.
She tried it and she showed her own bias by assuming your father wasn’t in your life. 🤦🏾♀️
Right like how are you just going to assume 🤔 that goes to show whoever she’s around filled her head up with some bs
She's just as misguided as the dudes she's attempting to defend. Their default setting is "choose better"--as if we're just bitter chicks who have been burned by them as well.
She should have just sat there and ate her food.
Opps... let's see if she send an apology and or a new video of a more humble her😑
The irony, I wonder why she thought yanie didn't have a father 🤔 what could have possibly given her that impression?
And she looked doofy with the camera zooms like she really thought she made a point lol.
She tried to flip the script on you, Yanie, and like a real intelligent Black woman, you flipped it right back. 💯
How? Yanie made her assume that saying BM don't care, to me that includes her own father bcuz Yanie blanketed ALL BM instead of saying some. This whole conversation confused me. Why is it's a BM fault bcuz a white woman don't like her biracial children. Sound like yt problems to me
@Tara First of all, you need to look up the definition of assumption. Assumptions are made by the person doing the assuming, not the person the assumer is making assumptions about. Secondly, there is no need for Yanie to say some, not all, because no phenomenon is 100% and she is speaking truthfully and statistically(something that can be proven) about the collective of Black men. Lastly, how is it possible for a white woman to instill Blackness in a Black child? It's their fathers responsibility.
@@janine3330 I know exactly what assumptions mean, you created that assumption in her when u said All Black Men. And secondly you should've said you were speaking statically, it's nobodys job to read your mind. If your gonna speak so matter of fact do just that. Outside your dad every other BM you've experienced must've treated u bad, it comes off bitter.
@Tara If you understand what the word means then you would know that ALL CULPABILITY for ASSUMING is on the person who is doing the Assuming! 💯
@Tara To make a statement about something dosen't mean that that is your experience or that you have experience some trauma. DON'T ASSUME!
The fact she could assume you didn't have a father bc you are a black woman literally confirms your point
I don’t think she meant that she was fatherless I think she meant she was talking about her own just experience in general and because she said black men don’t care!!!
@@soniabrown7151 She specifically said "if you think black men don't care then that is an opinion about Your Specific Father" in reference to Yanie and her comment
@@soniabrown7151 they’ll ignore that bc it doesn’t fit their narrative.
@@soniabrown7151 um EVERYONE has a father lol no one of Us is fatherless. Some of Us grew up without Our Father's being active in Our Lives. But We LITERALLY all have Fathers... Tf 😂
She was telling the truth
Oop. If it don’t apply, let it fly! And statistics don’t lie. She’s inserting her personal experiences and glossing over the reality of many black children.
This part
It's crazy how people will ignore statistics just to prove their point
Black and half* Black 😔
Black _and_ biracial children. Broken homes follow these men wherever they roam.
@@ccb6013 very true. They’re abandoning the biracial at a higher rate 😯
I’m so glad you responded! I defended you under this post. It was clear she was coming for all the BW who said BM don’t care when y’all were clearly agreeing with what she said. It was weird. She just wanted to feel like she could flex.
Girl, thank you! I was like wait till I get home 😂
Yep! She wants somebody to care about Her complaints about BM, but she doesn’t want anybody to listen to ours 🙄
@@nicki1197 That's how a lot of Biracial children are
@@RealTalkWithYanie 😂 That’s Right
@@destinymcgowan5328 exactly, with black males. Biracials with black mothers actually have better heads on their shoulders.
I knew it would come to this eventually. BM and WW’s children putting their parents on blast. But once again, not BW’s concern. Moving along 🤷🏾♀️💅🏾👩🏾🦯
She attacks a lot of BW, she thinks she's better because she is biracial. BM thirst for her and she's with a Yt man.
@@rihannahaiti5570 this is why we need to stop embracing these cryracial women as one of us when they’re not. She needs to take up all of that hostility towards Becky and Tyrone and not BW
@@charice1216 this is soooooo true.
@@charice1216 I never have. No issues with them, but they are not us, they are them. The others keep the gate closed and then they pander to us and try to weaponize us in their fights against the gate keepers that never let them in.
😂😂😂
As a black woman, this is none of my business. 👩🏿🦯
Bloop this tho 💯
Not mines either 💅🏾
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Stevie Wonder with it.
😂😂😂
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She contradicted herself by assumed that Yanie's dad was absent because Yanie was blk, but then went on to defend BM. Some of these biracial women think that their issues are more important than BWs.
They are not allies. BW have to stop thinking they are.
@@pettybetty1791 always is entirely false and you said all that to say nothing 😂
@@pettybetty1791 oooooooohh “use punctuation” no grammar nazi it’s UA-cam… bare minimum only. Secondly throwing around insults trying to piss me off will not work your clearly a troll 🧌 😌 and I’m ignorant but your the one using a generalization and then not having the decency to try to back it up with an example and or statistic. Hmmmmmmmmm
Also darling what I think your referring to with your original comment is the (everyone is the protagonist of their own life view) and while that is to some degree true, there are many “protagonist/people” who are more than capable of again looking at facts, statistics and even using empathy to “perceive” someone else issue as greater than their own. Be blessed.
@@pettybetty1791 you talk a lot but say nothing. Move along lol
@@pettybetty1791 so what part was misleading to you? You’re typing but you are not being coherent about what you are trying to say.
She needs to really look at the statistics. Most biracial children with black fathers usually aren't raised with the BM in the family. Her daddy doesn't change the stats, he's an exception to the rule.
_If_ she's even telling the truth about her father.
Is her Father really active though in her life????
Right she said he “cares”. But was he in your life though? 🧐Did he marry your mother though? 🤨
She's a stripper and post videos at work and glorifies how much tax free money she makes and how jealous women are of her and her money.
It’s giving “they care about us biracials idk know about y’all blacks” 🤦🏾♀️ the statistics don’t lie..
That picture with your dad is so cute 😊
I have a wonderful Black father. He’s amazing. But even he says Black men are dangerous and many are lazy and don’t want to provide for their families. Even he says that. 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
My dad says the same thing! He can't stand how lazy they are he hires Hispanics because of this very reason. He tries to give Black men a chance by hiring them for service but he regrets it every single time and Hispanics always do a great job. 😭
@@RealTalkWithYanie I’ve heard that from other Black men business owners IRL and YT.
perfect description of my nephews
My daddy raised me with this knowledge
@@RealTalkWithYanieas someone who grew up in San Antonio, tx predominantly Hispanic, I've seen it first hand! They'll be lined to get work at 5 am meanwhile the others are "on the block" or pouring in from the strip club smh
The jokes write themselves. She was asking bm to pick non-racist white women. Then decided to reflect the behaviors of her racists mother by stereotyping and belittling you . The irony lol
It's interesting she said this considering every day in that app it's a biracials complaining about their racist non Black moms, complaining about how their Black dads weren't in their lives, or talking about how their white mom put them up for adoption and how they grew up not having anyone to teach then about Black culture. And they love trying to default to that "You don't have a dad" stereotype and notice how people only ever apply it and try to insult Black women with that stereotype, they never do this when it's a biracial woman.🙄
They will now 🤷🏾♀️ I make sure to list wvery positive stat about blk women everywhere I can.
She stated her mom and her entire family is racist and then she attacked people for mentioning it.
@@rihannahaiti5570 really? Oh so that confirms her father was not married to her mother.
I never thought about that. That’s crazy!
@@Sunny-tc3ul Idk, but she made many assumptions about BW. When people asked she tried to deflect. She regretted mentioning her mom didn't like her and her Yt family was racist.
I’m so confused. Why is she offended yet she called out the issue lol. You’re just stating the facts. Seems like she’s delusional about her own family dynamics but okay 😂
Agree. She was projecting. Hard.
This!!!
Because she put her racist mother on blast and her father, but got very defensive when people called it out. I think she has mental issues, she stated it in one of her videos
Definitely some cognitive dissonance that’s why I can’t be on TikTok lol. I’d already be in TikTok jail for dragging all these folks this is how they all think‼️
Lol exactly. Mixed ppl problems
Her one little daddy doesn't change data.
I was raised by my mother and father, and they were married. My ONE household doesn't change the overall truth.
They. Do. Not. Care.
Girl, all she has to do is look at the majority of the Black community and the pathology of the Black men.
She doesn't wanna do that, though. Not anybody else's problem
She’s not going to do that than, that will “off” her narrative of how she view bm from her own personal experience.
She feels she's different because she's biracial
Prime example why I never respond or comment on those videos when it come to BM, non BW and Mammies/Pickmes. People post these type videos then get in feelings when facts are stated. 🙄
My very black father who was married to my mother till death they did part…said and I quote: “These Black Men These Days Ain’t 💩! Baby you have my sympathies cuz ain’t nuthin out here for you.”
That was 15 years ago, and it ain’t got betta!
Pops, facts was spoken on that day! Rest in peace 🕊️
Lmfaooo I love your dad! Keeping it real 💯 RIP
My daddy and mama said the same thing when we had a conversation a few months ago. I had asked them would they be ok if I decided to look outside the box so to speak.
My dad is West African and thinks men who don't marry their children's mother and raise their children together have a mental disorder😂😂 My parents conceived me before they married but my dad told my mom (she's American) they were getting married because he can't imagine his child not sleeping under his roof! My parents will be celebrating their 30th anniversary this year.
@@bossytweed6664 some west Africans are trash 🗑 too..😒
Lol, that girl is complaining about you and discrediting you for speaking from 'personal experience" then proceeds to talk about her 'personal experience'.
She thought she was doing something by assuming your black father wasn’t in your life because you are fully black Yanie. She saw herself as better because she is biracial and assumed your father wasn’t in your life because you’re not.
I say this as a mother to a biracial child (I am a black woman). Some of these biracial kids by black men think they are better and think their black fathers are more likely to be better to them and stay in their lives. The statistics prove that isn’t accurate. So yeah, these men don’t care for any of their children GENERALLY. Biracial or not
I think there’s a huge difference. Usually biracial children with a black mother, are more balanced. I think it stems from the energy of the conception.
For example, the topic in which the girl initially was talking about. Bm do indeed impregnate women who are r@cist. I know this for a fact. So these children are conceived in a mutual hate. It’s unfortunate but there’s a huge difference.
In my experience most people think they are better than FBA 🇺🇸 from fatherless homes with two FBA parents. The entire world 🌎 does even if they have a similar situation. Thats my two sense. That Mu Lat Toe was speaking how most of the world including some FBA🇺🇸 people views FBA 🇺🇸. It doesn't shock me one bit. The TRUTH doesn't care who speaks it.
some biracials are fighting for their lives on that app 😭
🤣🤣🤣💯💯💯
Ikr😂🤣😂
Biracial people are on tic tok saying in a baritone voice👇🏽 "all my life I had to fight"🥺
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It’s sad. I would feel bad for them if they weren’t so disrespectful towards BW..but then again, nobody ever feels sorry for us🤷🏽♀️
They really are! It’s wild.
I come from a 2 parent household. My parents was married until my father died. He was a great father and my best friend.
Most of these black men dont care about their children. Their actions shows this and they speak this too.
You kept it mature and classy, Sis. Keep it up.
I really don't like how she assumed your father was not in your life. And the tone of how she said she has a father like she is/was somehow superior to you. Like you Yanie my parents were married before they had kids. My father has always been in my life, did not mean he was the greatest at parenting.
She's probably lying. She does sexual innuendo videos and shows that she's a stripper etc. The girl is just an attention seeker.
Mutual Fetishist won’t let it end. Bragging about being a sexualized animal
It's truly a sick pathology...
Period ❤ Get her in line! I love how you got her together with statistics. Moving right along
Some of these women do this micro aggressive behavior on purpose. They love drawing ppl into their mess and flipping the script. I have learned to leave them to their world.
It’s Karen behavior. She’s half a Karen.
@@hild-demongoddess7498👏👏👏
You should also tag her in the video about the dude with 7 mothers and 7 kids. In that video, telling everybody, he doesn't care
She try to say he not the norm. However that's not true.
The comment I was waiting for👏🏾😀
Facts over feelings. If ppl did their research, they’d know that these comments are accurate asf.
BM don’t care!
She assumed your dad wasn’t in your life because that’s the narrative about Black men, which didn’t come from thin air. The biracial knows that black men being in their kids life is one in a dozen.
I wholeheartedly believe she did all that because you’re a BW. Because ain’t no way, you commented on the point she was speaking about but then she back tracks and defends BM. Right after complaining about them. Her YT side was trying to defend her Kangs! 😂
The fact is black women raised in cohesive families are better able to be non biased in these situations. I have a loving set of parents but I can see very well that a good number of black men are half raised. The irony is not lost on me that she can say she is putting aside her own personal experience to speak on behalf of others but didn’t want to give you the same courtesy. How very colonizer of her 😂😂😂
Black men are disputing those stats all over their channels saying they DO NOT abandon their children, that more Black fathers are actively present in their childrens lives.😲
What stats are they pulling up?
There is some article/study that was done maybe 10 years ago about how BM are supposedly the most involved fathers.
However, that was a Self-Reported study (so the men filled out the questionnaires themselves). Also small sample size.
@@ogolden8315 the most important part of that article that they always miss is that WHEN they choose to be in their kids lives, they are the most active fathers. That article did not negate or soften the fact that they are still MOST LIKELY to abandon their kids. So 3% of them actually being decent fathers is a moot point. These males demonize education so much I think animals have more sense than them now 🥴
@@almamater9346 - it’s the same way that they misconstrue marriage statistics. You often hear them citing the statistic that black men marry black women 80% of the time, while conveniently ignoring that the same study shows that only 30% of black men actually get married in the first place. They’re going to miss the main point if they don’t do anything else 😂
@@jasminejones4272 they’re talking on terms of the “bm who get married” and the bm that do. 80% of them marry bw🤦🏿🤦🏿
Her failure to see how the black community look is her big fail
WW are most definitely very jealous and very spiteful is what I have observed throughout my entire life in having various interactions with them from professional and personal experience. They have been touted as being the top tier of women in comparison to other women in other groups. So when they come in contact with another nonwhite woman that is equally if not more beautiful/pretty than them they go bonkers. They always want to be the center of attention and get first dibs on males. I didn't say all of them though.
True , it may not be all or even most..but I've seen quite a bit...alot
They act this way towards BW more than anybody
No matter how rich or poor they are, no matter how they look, privilege runs deep, and the entitlement and hatred definitely show.
WW have greatly contributed to misogynoir historically out of jealousy and the need to stay “on top”. They also have stood idle while it took place by other groups of men including their own. That is why I’m a womanist. Not a feminist.
That’s unfortunate! 😂lol. Because I’m going after any fine white man i see.
As a black woman. I will stay in my godamn business and out of things that don't concern me. I am gonna stay feminine energy away from dust 🤣🤣🤣
Yanie pulled up the stats! Okurt!👏🏿👏🏿
Her energy is very telling. Hidden bias are on display...🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
I can agree that blk people aren't a monolith....but her tone...her TONE!
A checking was needed.
I noticed people try to attack you if you have an opinion on something assuming that you’re coming from a place of hurt all the time. These things are facts!! Same with me, people will assume I didn’t know my father or that my mother had multiple BD’s when my parents were married. My siblings & I all come from the same man but whenever I speak too, it leads to the same thing 🙄 the ones that automatically jump to the whole “you were fatherless” conclusion show their bias immediately with that statement
The TRUTH doesn't really care who speaks it, even if it comes from the mouth of bastards & whores..unfazed.
The stats don't give a F about her feelings. The collective doesn't care about their children.
This proves how threatened other women feel about the black woman they can't hide their jealousy because we can't even agree with them on the same subject when we bring up statistics and this is why my multiracial daughter will grow up to be humble and wholesome because her mother is black!
Mixed myself! And I’m so BLESSED that my mother is a black woman… I shudder to think if she was a WW .
I'm a white British woman. I'm astounded by what black women have to contend with. You get attacked from every direction. Obviously, I had no idea. Is this an American thing or worldwide? Btw, I find the rhetoric towards you disgusting,especially when it's from black men. I'm sorry you have to deal with it and respect to you for it too. I hope thing's change for you all.
Home girl literally contradicted herself when she replied to your comment 🤣
This is why we have to call them what they are. She attacks mostly BW and makes up all types of assumptions. She's just jumping on the biracial wo me train.
Yanie I think us with Dad's will say the reality vs. our own experience which is the correct thing to do but it will always be met with "your bitter" and " you hate black men" "that's your experience" 🤦🏾♀️. No sis I have a Dad, brothers, uncles and other men around me I love. But I don't love giving a group of men a pass because a minority of them are decent. Like Yanie said many don't care that your white momma hates you 🤷🏾♀️ sorry.
This!!!
Right? Not everyone in this space invested. Doesn't mean we don't know.
THIS, because my mom and dad have been together since she was a teen and married since their 20s. I am still able to acknowledge my reality being a minority
Exactly 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 they swear everybody speaking the truth is hurt and fatherless. Weird af.
If at any time you speak the truth these days you’re automatically met with “you’re projecting“. Babes, I’m allowed to say “a thing” and it be true without it having to do anything with me.
Anytime you say anything it MUST automatically come from someplace of bitter, butthurt, jealously, place of lack and trauma. 😂
I remember my biracial friends telling me their mom was racist and calling them the N*word and I just couldnt understand it. I still dont understand, because it's so messed up to be hateful towards your own children. Smh
I have friends in Europe (UK especially) and they say that majority of the Biracial-Black kids that are in their version of the foster care system have Black sperm donors.
Also have a few social worker friends in the US…. Same thing. Increasing amounts of biracial-black kids with majority black daddies also.
So basically Tyrone abandons Becky and she gives them up for adoption?
@@hild-demongoddess7498 Something to that effect. Especially, when they want to start afresh w/o the stigma.
@@ogolden8315I've heard that. Which is sad.
Ok, but who sleeing with these black men? These women shouldnt be so easy. Ladies, have coochie standards!
That’s bc they’re mostly products of Jamaican descent
Full black woman here 🙋🏾♀️ whose parents are going to be married 40 years this year 🥳🥳🥳 so this is none of my business 🤭🤭🤭
These half breads are a trip and love to put themselves on a pedestal like it’s some how better for them when it’s clearly not
I guess their basing things off of their perceived privilege due to their moms being white.
Right! I have a black father my e whole life in home , provider, mom has always and will be a stay at home mom, but you are correct as a collective. They are down bad.
the mocking of “feelings” 😂 I’m sorry, I laughed through the rest, moral of the story… we’re glad your daddy loves you and you might know a few others but the numbers say otherwise.
If her father cared about her, he would not have chosen her racist mother 🤭 his decision is what created what she is going through.
So shes talking about HER mother?🤣😭
@@hild-demongoddess7498 yup she sure is, she can use her “friends” as an example but I’m not buying it. She was definitely talking about her own mother.
@@soblessed3157 exactly. Her WW mother probably said Somthing slick a few times unknowingly.
@@hild-demongoddess7498 😂😂😂😂 yup, then she ran to the internet to beg black men to stop getting racist pregnant and then under the same breath bash black women that agreed with her. I honestly don’t know why black women keep supporting biracial women that clearly don’t like them 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ at this point I don’t even blame them, I blame the black women who won’t stop. This is not our fight, they are the product of the self hate from BM and the fetishization from WW end of story.
@@soblessed3157 exactly! Biracial women especially ones with WW mothers are NOT our allies.
Trying to shame black women for the failings of their absentee fathers will never not be weird to me. XYs will admit to preying on fatherless girls and women but then get in their feels when a woman refuses to be vulnerable around them.
This!!! Like why are we being shamed for the actions of grown males that abandoned their responsibility!? Whew very weird indeed.
I don’t have much empathy for my sister but when it comes to her being a 17-year-old preyed upon by an adult XY who’d already fathered several children, I can’t help but empathize with the girl who never realized her dreams because of a dusty bastard… I can’t stand her for allowing that same XY mistreat her daughter. I love my niece to pieces and will always be honest with her about these clowns. I tell her all the time keep her head and standards HIGH! If he can’t meet them, send him back to where he came from.
@@shakirasmith6454 Child people just collectively hate black FBA 🇺🇸 women & girls...
I was raised by a single black dad and my experience was great but I know damn well my situation is rare and most of these 🥷 do not take care of their children and you a fool to think otherwise.
You handled this situation well and explained your points clearly.
I’m so glad you responded! I defended you under this post. It was clear she was coming for all the BW who said this when y’all were clearly agreeing with what she said.
The way that 🪃 came back at her…Embarrassing!
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And these biracials are literally all over social media fighting for their lives, how tragic!
Those biracial statistics were way worse than I expected..thanks for the brutal truth Yanie! Your parents are beautiful..
Let’s talk about how she’s not a black biracial I’ve noticed ones that don’t look or present black they have a very diff expereince
No lies
Especially with white mamas
Sure, let's talk about it. I'd love to hear your take on the topic ❗️
I’m a biracial black women with a black mother and a half black father and i see no lies in what you said lol
She looks more black to me. She’s definitely not white passing. I’m confused on what your sayin.
Yanni this is why you don’t talk to mixed people 😂😂 as a black women they just don’t get certain things or you can’t reason with mammies either. They don’t look at the majority, they look at the few minorities or their situations to speak about the majority.
Mixed people with black fathers. They are delusional.
I just LOVE a classy READ, with FACTS NOT FEELINGS. & babyyy you 📖 read her DOOOWN! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Well, you got her together real quick 🤣🤣
The picture of your parents is beautiful, daddy looks like he really cares about mom. It is sad to say that there is a large section of us black men who do not want responsibility for ourselves or the people around us.
People should stop putting their personal business on social media you are giving people an open invitation to bully and judge you.
THATS FUCKIN RIGHT YANIE!! YOU SET THAT SHÌT STRAIGHT 😍❤️
She kinda proves your point they don’t care when she goes on about how biracial children are abused by their non-black mothers though. If these men cared, why are the children experiencing this abuse? They don’t care and that is the truth. I have plenty of examples in my line including uncles and a good friend currently in therapy because of the trauma.
Why did she start the conversation then if she couldn't stand to hear other perspectives, even ones that _agreed_ with her??
I honestly am having trouble determining if that hypersensitive pettiness is more from her WW mother or her BM father....🤔
Yani you look a lot like your Mom and she very Gorgeous 😊😊❤❤
Not my problem. These biracial tears are very refreshing.
She’s on here complaining about blk men impregnating racists ww, you agree with here and say oh well they don’t care……now she’s trying to take shots at you. Weird
I love when you read. Like it’s not a debate when facts are facts 🤷🏽♀️
Gathered! 💅🏾
RIP to my awesome Daddy. Growing up, the jealousy I got was enough to help me understand that men like him are rare.
But bm don't care?? or was she projecting?
So her feelings got hurt because even though you agree with most of what she said, she got in her feelings? How strange but not surprising .
This reminds me of the movie "Mommy Dearest" that I watched as a kid. The mom cut off her daughter's hair as a form of punishment.
Yanie put her in her place!! It's crazy how the internet tries to shut black women up on "black father" & "black men". By alluding to our high fatherlessness.
They don't care! It's as simple as that.
My uncle impregnated a ww 4xs. Yes out of wedlock, on welfare & he was extremely abusive to her. Eventually he went to prison for a case involving another male, he was released 7yrs ago and has been a completely different (positive) person and has been trying to build relationships with his adult children. Side note: The ww works for the welfare office for over 16yrs
Yikes. His kids don't owe him anything. A lot of dusty, absentee dads come back trying to "make amends" when they are older because they are looking for someone to support them or give them an ego boost at the end of life. Absolutely not
I agree my father was a wonderful father. As an adult I realize growing up in a two parent home was a luxury.
I know so many biracial friends who only live with their mother. So what you are saying is very true
So... why would i... as a black woman care about a non black woman's issues with black men? She clearly has her own bias because she assumed that your dad wasn't in your life. Lol.... LOUD & WRONG🤣🤣
She definitely tried it on YANIE! And YANIE came with the facts!
They really do inherit their black fathers mindset.
I’m biracial, I fortunately can’t relate to these other biracial women who are on TikTok crying lol they do the most. I’ve never had these types of issues from being biracial, the racist non-black mother and stuff. My father did pass one month after I turned 13 from cancer and because of losing him I can say that I’ve solely preferred dating black men up UNTIL my early 30’s, now I’m seeing things a lot different with them.
Ok……….
@@TomBrady-rq6zb ok what? No reason to say anything with no viable rebuttal or actual comment. Thanks though 💜
Amazing🎉❤ thanks for sharing your Story, dont mind the person that said "ok" they are being just bold😅
And I’m one of them. Black father absent af and then I chose to have kids with TWO of them. Guess how that turned out. She has no idea what she’s talking about. 😮I lived those statistics my whole life
She was having a caring moment she had to try to act like she had something she thought you didn’t.
I'm so tired of this black man noise I'm going to mind my business and keep taking care of my beautiful black 13yro daughter❤
It’s ironic because that specific clip of her is only her opinion of her father and the father of people she knows.
This is what happens when your try and burn people you don't know ish about. It backfires!!!👏🏾👆🏾
Your parents are stinkin adorable 30+ years❤❤
Right!!!
That's her own insecurities and confusion showing.
My parents were not together, yet I was born IN WEDLOCK. After they divorced, MY FATHER was extremely VERY PRESENT in my life. I knew my Father, good and bad, he was there. BUT he truly is very much an EXCEPTION to the rule.
I have yet to find a bi racial with a black father not have some sort of identity/mental issues. You rarely see bi-racials with black moms on social media making these videos. They just seem way more well adjusted in their identity and who they are.
Welp this is none of my business, I hope y’all have a wonderful day at work tomorrow!
Those stats are INSAAAAAAAANE 😮😮😮😮😮😮😮
🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️… why she said it’s embarrassing? That’s the least of the problems! It’s HARMFUL to the children being born into that family.
What has always tripped me out is how biracial women try to convince black women to stay with black men…😒
This conversation reminds me of my responses to people, who loudly wonder where are the fathers of the children that were abused/killed.
The bio fathers don't care, in most of those cases.
She might be projecting. I think she knew your statement was true..why so defensive?👀
I think she got offended. Maybe she thought yanie was being insensitive…or unempathetic?
People hate reading stats when it comes to black men.
@Yanie you got her together .She doesn't really know what she's talking about, the confusion is Real.
Lmao if they care, why is she asking in the first place? 🤦🏾♀️