Social media has given women a false sense of value part 1

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  • Опубліковано 15 лис 2024

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  • @XolaNdlovu-ub3gh
    @XolaNdlovu-ub3gh День тому +15

    Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised

  • @Claire-rq9cg
    @Claire-rq9cg 19 годин тому +4

    Finaly someone said it. Love this so much

  • @SwagGTV000
    @SwagGTV000 2 дні тому +28

    While I understand that your focus here is how important it is for us as women to develop ourselves more intrinsically….but ladies don’t ever and I repeat don’t ever underestimate the power that comes with investing in your physical appearance
    It’s as important
    But ke awonoma ngalonto
    Thank you!!!

  • @thamimahlangabeza6639
    @thamimahlangabeza6639 2 дні тому +20

    Sihleeey, YOU TREAD WHERE ANGELS FEAR TO TREAD!

  • @rebeccalukusa3538
    @rebeccalukusa3538 2 дні тому +8

    True revenge is in mind.😊
    Well said Sihle!

  • @thando_tlng
    @thando_tlng 2 дні тому +7

    5:42 girl you hit the nail. 😂😂🙌🙌🔥💯🔥🔥🔥

  • @kholofeloleshalabe7557
    @kholofeloleshalabe7557 22 години тому +1

    Jaw dropped 😮.you are so on point.im also surprised when a hot girl gets played,but I get it now.

  • @thando_tlng
    @thando_tlng 2 дні тому +5

    Hey Sihleey❤ 4:21 well said.🙏 A real man is also a leader. A lion must be with a lioness.

  • @melodydito4723
    @melodydito4723 2 дні тому +55

    louder!! “high value woman” just because you do your lashes and nails 4 times a month?😭please heyyy

  • @MadamThandi
    @MadamThandi 2 дні тому +15

    Yohh Sihle waze wangitshela indaba zami ngiyathokoza ... i wish you can break it down futher more focusing on how one should rebrand... i am a 23 year old who's been a celibate for a while now ...trying to rebrand and build my relationship with God

  • @noziphoshongwe9523
    @noziphoshongwe9523 2 дні тому +7

    I love you my girl❤❤. Thank you for making morals fashionable. I'm so tired of this social media vanity.

  • @kagisomoatlhodi8888
    @kagisomoatlhodi8888 2 дні тому +5

    I enjoyed this so much. Not only do we think looks make us valuable but we also think looks and money make a man. Just because a man has money or looks good does not mean he will bring value as the head of a home, husband or father. Social media has distorted what VALUE really is. Infact things like kindness, respect, loyalty are so down played.
    Keep speaking your truth Sihle.

    • @JohnKumalinga
      @JohnKumalinga День тому +1

      We value fake value and devalue real value. How can we untangle from this disillusionment?

  • @revolution475
    @revolution475 2 дні тому +12

    Men love beautiful women. But chaos quickly drives them away.
    Work on your physical appearance not for esthetics sake, but for your health. Be comfortable in your own skin, look natural, because the man you're attracting is obviously natural.
    Also try and heal from past traumas, especially those childhood ones, ey they can turn a beautiful relationship upside down.

    • @allKetso
      @allKetso День тому

      No time for healing, people be jumping from one relationship to another like it's nothing 😢 its scary

  • @Relo233
    @Relo233 17 годин тому +1

    wena I am a girl but I always, i mean always agree with you😇Love you lots

  • @Nokukhanya.Khumalo
    @Nokukhanya.Khumalo 2 дні тому +8

    Hmm girl now this is a good word, thank you Holy Spirit!🙌
    This is the real definition of a high value woman. A high value woman does not fixate her value based on superficial things but substantially. Being transformed by the renewing of their minds❤
    Romans 12:2
    Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.

  • @theunlearningwoman3779
    @theunlearningwoman3779 2 дні тому +2

    I listened to this twice

  • @bonganismelane804
    @bonganismelane804 2 дні тому +3

    You such a rare breed.
    I dont like female friends but Ngingaba umngani wakho.😅

  • @siphosethumthembu9770
    @siphosethumthembu9770 2 дні тому +5

    Yeyi Sihle you are bringing it home now my darling ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @KgalaletsoBokaba-hm6kd
    @KgalaletsoBokaba-hm6kd 2 дні тому +8

    I believe God is raising a generation of young men and women who represents his kingdom.People who will be a representation of kingdom marriages ,not the facades that we have acquitted ourselves with.I also think we are busy promoting promiscuity by normalising co-parenting, meaning it is ohk to sleep around as long as we co-parent successfully from the normal baby mama/daddy situation.
    Marriages as God's holy institution for living right and bringing offspring which will be healthy adults with something to contribute to society has been overlooked so much that it dents relationship as the gateway to meanful marriages .Vanity of vanities indeed

  • @RizzMedalion
    @RizzMedalion 2 дні тому +6

    She in the kitchen again..👩‍🍳🍲🔥🔥🔥

    • @lediipedii02
      @lediipedii02 18 годин тому

      the feast!!! cooked baked and did a whole 3 course!!

  • @hazellazuli
    @hazellazuli 13 годин тому +2

    I'm all for this talk neh, but why is it "men centered" why is the value directed at men seeing us worthy? Can't we as women take value in individuality, not for men most of the times, but for you as an individual, like be an intelligent person,be valuable,work hard,invest in knowledge, in assets, in family, for you not to be seen by men so they can marry us or stay longer.....😢it's sad that everything we do as women to empower ourselves ultimately bubbles down to being a good woman to a man first 😢I don't know.thats just my take

  • @Shameual
    @Shameual 2 дні тому +4

    Truth be told ... continue with the good work😊..may the spirit of God empower you 😚

  • @keashanice2526
    @keashanice2526 22 години тому

    Came here from TikTok and I love it

  • @JohnKumalinga
    @JohnKumalinga День тому

    May God bless your good work Sihle

  • @laylabruce6364
    @laylabruce6364 2 дні тому +7

    A wise woman❤❤❤

  • @bettythemane-uf2mm
    @bettythemane-uf2mm 13 годин тому

    Amen

  • @friend_in_Jesus
    @friend_in_Jesus День тому

    Thank you again for an amazing video 🔥💯👏🏽!!

  • @nomangcelwane9955
    @nomangcelwane9955 2 дні тому +8

    Chile!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @allKetso
    @allKetso День тому

    I am 33 and still struggling with applying makeup😂😂 never played with eyelashes, and only did my nails twice, at my 21st and my graduation.
    I have no problem with going all out to look good and feeling good, but i hear you, i really hear you.

  • @noncedolungeliwefinca9713
    @noncedolungeliwefinca9713 2 дні тому +1

    Cha Sihle Ave ukhuluma 😂
    But I love it ❤♥️you always coming in hot with the truth .
    I’ll support you thru !

  • @StarLord_R
    @StarLord_R 2 дні тому +3

    she's cooking again🔥

  • @hi.its.onneile.m
    @hi.its.onneile.m 22 години тому

    "My sister you still the same"💀

  • @bettythemane-uf2mm
    @bettythemane-uf2mm 13 годин тому

    Wow this is so profound

  • @siyabongampongwana990
    @siyabongampongwana990 2 дні тому

    That prayer at the end, lol Siyabonga mfwethu. You're brave bra very brave.

  • @ReelMed
    @ReelMed 2 дні тому +4

    I like how you played with the V's and not use narcissism

  • @sihlengwenya2926
    @sihlengwenya2926 2 дні тому +3

    Yes wena Bizo tell them

  • @JayNdou
    @JayNdou День тому

    You're making the world a better place

  • @lelomm1668
    @lelomm1668 2 дні тому +4

    I was this woman in my teens and my family said i was bewitched

  • @cheranehlahla
    @cheranehlahla 2 дні тому +1

    Grill us Sihle ❤❤❤

  • @laylabruce6364
    @laylabruce6364 2 дні тому +3

    ❤❤❤sister keep cooking 🍳

  • @kram9076
    @kram9076 День тому +1

    Real revenge is in Christ, in how youve changed your values, ❤

    • @JohnKumalinga
      @JohnKumalinga День тому +1

      Should we even revenge? Isn’t it for the Lord to avenge?

    • @kram9076
      @kram9076 День тому

      @JohnKumalinga yes the Lord does it for us not to hurt others but to give us peace and salvation. Whilst we are in him we should pray for those who hurt us. Our healing is to glorify God and only to glorify God. It has nothing to do with what others do, they will have their own judgment. In Christ he will avenge to save your soul and other souls as well.

  • @Chley_kamogelo
    @Chley_kamogelo День тому

    Amen ❤

  • @michaelptthompson1433
    @michaelptthompson1433 2 дні тому +5

    LOUDER🤣📢🔊😂🔊📢

  • @kwazilucas
    @kwazilucas День тому

    Women see another girl getting something and being treated a certain way, so they feel they want a man that will do that and a man has to do all that for them and they start making it a requirement, but don't know what she did to get things there

  • @SGV_777
    @SGV_777 2 дні тому +2

    Let her cook

  • @nomangcelwane9955
    @nomangcelwane9955 2 дні тому +3

    Amen👏🙌

  • @jsNkutha-eu3iu
    @jsNkutha-eu3iu 2 дні тому +2

    Brilliant

  • @katanamainn
    @katanamainn 11 годин тому

    i love love love it

  • @yy.unlimited
    @yy.unlimited 2 дні тому +1

    Amen sister 🤍

  • @MinenhleFakude
    @MinenhleFakude 2 дні тому +5

    leave your life to please GOD not this world

  • @maps8387
    @maps8387 2 дні тому +2

    ❤❤

  • @Therealesttalkpodcast2
    @Therealesttalkpodcast2 2 дні тому

    Hey, i really like your content coz it is focused on things that are happening in our society, can in have an Episode with you if you don't mind?🙏🎙

  • @siphosethumthembu9770
    @siphosethumthembu9770 2 дні тому +3

    Sihle who do you follow on social media? As a teenager please teach us how and who and why ?

    • @tshepiso382
      @tshepiso382 2 дні тому +5

      Older women in the faith, you can ask the Holy Spirit to lead you to Titus 2 type of women to follow. Abba answers us❤.

    • @JohnKumalinga
      @JohnKumalinga День тому

      My advice: immerse yourself in the word of God as a teenager, it will transform and build you in ways that social media can never ever do.

  • @nothile
    @nothile 2 дні тому +1

    🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @SimthandileSikhwatha
    @SimthandileSikhwatha День тому +2

    Proverbs 31 women is not a real existing women. The women represents Gods people, Israel.

    • @JohnKumalinga
      @JohnKumalinga День тому

      And earthly marriage between a groom (man) and a bride (woman) is supposed to be a shadow/representation of that relationship between God and His people/Jesus and His church.
      Within that context, a woman would do well by aspiring to be a Proverbs 31 woman.

    • @SimthandileSikhwatha
      @SimthandileSikhwatha День тому

      @@JohnKumalinga a women within the body of Christ you mean, a believer?

  • @sinandelemhambi6744
    @sinandelemhambi6744 2 дні тому

    🤣😍