Don't Shut Me Out.. [Boyfriend Roleplay][Fear of Being Intimate][Going Slow][Date Comforts You] ASMR

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  • @nazwakayde
    @nazwakayde 6 місяців тому +449

    10:20 "Im not talking about sex. If it happens, it happens. If it doesnt, thats okay too. I just want you to come over and share a bit of my life with you" sadly, not all guys are like this 🥺❤

    • @eva9092
      @eva9092 6 місяців тому +43

      i've been to a guy's place twice, we were alone at his place but it was so nice that there was no pressure for anything, just chill conversations. We don't talk anymore but this part of the audio made me remember that nice moment, and K makes it even sweeter

    • @eva9092
      @eva9092 6 місяців тому +1

      ​@Angelin.25. I'm sending you much love Angelin, hope you're feeling better with your cold❤️❤️

    • @nazwakayde
      @nazwakayde 6 місяців тому +2

      @@eva9092 Im happy you knew a guy like that Eva, we crave those chill conversations and it's sometimes all we need, hope more guys understand that. I also hope you find someone else who is the same, and even better one day 💗

    • @eva9092
      @eva9092 6 місяців тому +1

      @@nazwakayde thanks nazwa, and you're absolutely right♡

    • @mansisinghchauhan7370
      @mansisinghchauhan7370 5 місяців тому

      So true

  • @nazwakayde
    @nazwakayde 6 місяців тому +723

    Here's to all the shy listeners here, know that someone out there will understand you and accept you just the way you are ❤

    • @alicebizzarri02
      @alicebizzarri02 6 місяців тому +7

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @minettetopeteperez7780
      @minettetopeteperez7780 6 місяців тому +5

      🥹🥹

    • @xcassyx2516
      @xcassyx2516 6 місяців тому +28

      keep being your (our) shy wonderful selves! but let's not be totally closed off from others or else the good ones will also slip away 🥹❤️ we got this

    • @alicebizzarri02
      @alicebizzarri02 6 місяців тому +6

      @@xcassyx2516 i love this so much! And you are so right, i agree with everything that you said🥹❤️

    • @nazwakayde
      @nazwakayde 6 місяців тому +4

      @@xcassyx2516 100%! Theres so much magic within you, you gotta share some of it to the people around too 💓

  • @Hopefully8554
    @Hopefully8554 6 місяців тому +106

    Its cute that he get flowers and wipe dirt in it , let us sit on his hoodie and also having this conversation and comforting the listener .

  • @thelittlecupcake2591
    @thelittlecupcake2591 6 місяців тому +46

    13:44 only the shy ones will understand how important this last quote is.
    “Thank you for letting me in.” 🥺💖

  • @Hopefully8554
    @Hopefully8554 6 місяців тому +275

    0:29 K:"Okay Miss Goldfish memory over here "
    Excuse me ?

    • @alicebizzarri02
      @alicebizzarri02 6 місяців тому +15

      Hahahah yes i was like pardon me?🤣😭

    • @YourFavSc0rp1oooo
      @YourFavSc0rp1oooo 6 місяців тому +14

      like I have a bad memory but its not THAT bad-

    • @Tiffanyandtoe
      @Tiffanyandtoe 6 місяців тому +9

      Lmao, right? Did not need to be called out within the first minute.😭

    • @abigaillechleitner8174
      @abigaillechleitner8174 6 місяців тому +4

      Goldfish or dory? That's the question

    • @bingpot967
      @bingpot967 6 місяців тому

      Dw, you'll forget this sassy comment soon :)

  • @janhaviharshey
    @janhaviharshey 6 місяців тому +152

    If only guys were this gentle and understanding 😭😭

    • @salvisilver1196
      @salvisilver1196 4 місяці тому +3

      Thats why u don't date guys u just listen to K hahaha

  • @cookiepie22
    @cookiepie22 6 місяців тому +20

    The emphasis he puts whenever he speaks to the listener about something serious yet being soft gives me shivers everytime.

  • @nazwakayde
    @nazwakayde 6 місяців тому +154

    When Nutmeg is mentioned, the audio goes from a 10/10 to an 11/10 ✨

    • @alicebizzarri02
      @alicebizzarri02 6 місяців тому +7

      Yes i love it when he mentions her! I don’t know why it makes me feel happy 🤣🥹❤️

    • @nazwakayde
      @nazwakayde 6 місяців тому +2

      @@alicebizzarri02 I guess we just love dogs, and the mention of Nutmeg even more 😆❤

    • @nazwakayde
      @nazwakayde 6 місяців тому

      @Angelin.25. Yess I agree with you Angeline, having him mention her from time to time feels more realistic! We can never forget about Nutmeg ❤

  • @Miharuryo
    @Miharuryo 6 місяців тому +10

    5:01 I didn't realize I started crying at this moment
    This is what I like about these kind of audios, you get to heal a small piece of yourself each time.
    I didn't expect to end up crying but thank you, it was really comforting. I hope I'll be able to let deserving people in. Love your audios ❤

  • @CorpseyBoo
    @CorpseyBoo 6 місяців тому +34

    It is quite beautiful when men truly love and care for their woman

  • @abumble2862
    @abumble2862 6 місяців тому +13

    This audio, the recent "first time" audio and a couple of other similar audios from K have made me feel better. I love the comfort and the openness. Thanks K💚🍀

  • @Veesbees1
    @Veesbees1 6 місяців тому +42

    0:30 "ok miss goldfish memory here"
    MY FRIENDS ALWAYS SAY I HAVE THE MEMORY OF A GOLDFISH STOP

  • @sierra146
    @sierra146 6 місяців тому +30

    9:08 “can I give you a hug?”
    Yesss 🥰❤️

  • @GlitterGothBunny
    @GlitterGothBunny 6 місяців тому +4

    These audios are so sweet. As a super shy person that everyone has always kinda just made fun of or thought I was weird or dumb it's nice to think maybe someone wouldn't mind me how I am.

  • @Hopefully8554
    @Hopefully8554 6 місяців тому +40

    I like when K make audios about the shy listener .

  • @jewelyamanaka
    @jewelyamanaka 6 місяців тому +6

    Another "Shy Listener" audio 😭. Thank you so much. This is the sweetest and most delicate thing ever.

  • @ramenyxx
    @ramenyxx 6 місяців тому +6

    1:52 "thats your exasperated smile" stop throwing fancy words at me, i dont know what thEY MEAN- 😭😭

  • @AnekinSky
    @AnekinSky 6 місяців тому +10

    I really appreciate this audio. I’m extremely shy and I’ve stopped myself from dating remotely anyone because of how scared I can get about stuff like this. Beautiful video, thank you 🙏

  • @bratbatos
    @bratbatos 6 місяців тому +5

    oh wow i come back SO often to that other video where the listener is also afraid of intimacy and stays at his place to watch a movie with a blanket... thank u so much for a new one on this topic 🥹💕

  • @putri8304
    @putri8304 6 місяців тому +8

    I just looked up to the playlist that he made, THERE ARE 10 UPCOMING VIDEOS😭 omggg what a dedication 😍🤯

  • @alicebizzarri02
    @alicebizzarri02 6 місяців тому +34

    10:44
    “ i wanted you to come over because i want to share a little bit of my life with you”
    🥹🥹🥹

  • @hollygolightly1479
    @hollygolightly1479 6 місяців тому +11

    The gentleness and tenderness in K’s voice made me just 🥹🥺🥹🥺❤️

  • @isa_ya1
    @isa_ya1 6 місяців тому +37

    Ok, I think I'm going a little crazy over here. Reason with me! Do you remember the Valentine's Day video (this year's)? If I'm not mistaken, K said something like "those are the saddest roses ive ever seen, but all the stores were closed. But it was that or steal it from someone's garden" and then "it wouldn't be the first time", and when listener asked him about that he said never mind... and now this scene is happening, but he told us that listener has a golden fish memory (in that video we've just watched)
    (I'm struggling with English here, sorry)
    So, if my (unnecessary) theory is correct, this video happens in at the same time-line the other one and also happens before the Valentine's day video (I've searched the title because I thought it would make me seem less crazy, but I guess I'm wrong. Title: "I'm not leaving you alone tonight")
    Anyways, I'm sorry for being weird, sometimes I re-watch old videos and the memory of the lines keep fresa in my mind😂 Have a good day, yall ❤

    • @isa_ya1
      @isa_ya1 6 місяців тому

      @@souli-a calma, eu fui respondida em português?? OIII

  • @lovelyjuliexo
    @lovelyjuliexo 6 місяців тому +14

    0:57 the way he didn’t hesitate to grab some flowers for her 😭 💕 🌼🌸

  • @ksUser1
    @ksUser1 6 місяців тому +26

    9:10 "can i give you a hug?"
    forever jealous of the girl/ex K said gave the best hugs. Also i'm convinced K gives the best hugs, but i guess we'll never know:( 🫂

  • @WeirdZara
    @WeirdZara 6 місяців тому +9

    Sometimes you just wanna talk but don't know how to say anything, you wish that you could just dump all your thoughts into their head hoping they'll understand. Im rambling 😅 but this audio was so sweet 😊

  • @msdixieblues
    @msdixieblues 6 місяців тому +2

    Meeting the dog is such a definitive moment. ❤

  • @eva9092
    @eva9092 6 місяців тому +14

    K it's so wholesome that you make audios acknowledging people who are inexperienced, shy and/or sensitive to intimacy and closeness, this type of your audios are really loved, appreciated and special for us💛💛🫶🏼

  • @misha5117
    @misha5117 5 місяців тому +3

    Is it bad that I almost had an anxiety attack listening to this out of how nervous this kind of situation makes me in real life? Because this is terrifying for me xD Like, the audio is so good that its scary real. The good thing though, is, the audio plays out a lot better than it usually would in real life. I will be using this audio to work on this fear for the future

  • @eva9092
    @eva9092 6 місяців тому +78

    Nutmeg mentioned🐶
    As i said once, she has a whole fan base here and she's not even aware😆💕

    • @Bunnylovescoffee
      @Bunnylovescoffee 6 місяців тому +1

      Did K ever mention what breed Nutmeg is?

    • @eva9092
      @eva9092 6 місяців тому +8

      ​​@@Bunnylovescoffee a Shiba Inu i believe, though her real name might not be Nutmeg😊💘

    • @Bunnylovescoffee
      @Bunnylovescoffee 6 місяців тому +1

      @@eva9092 Shiba Inu is so cute😭now I can't stop picturing about it

    • @Kasa022
      @Kasa022 4 місяці тому

      @@eva9092 oooh i don't know why, i thought it was a golden retriever! thanks !

  • @Ksbabybear
    @Ksbabybear 6 місяців тому +22

    2:25 nutmeg mentioned ! Shout out to the sweetest pup alive, like daughter like father !

    • @alicebizzarri02
      @alicebizzarri02 6 місяців тому +3

      I get so happy when k mentions/ includes Nutmeg in his audios!🥹❤️

    • @Tiffanyandtoe
      @Tiffanyandtoe 6 місяців тому +4

      Awe “like daughter like father”, that’s so cute!😭

    • @Ksbabybear
      @Ksbabybear 6 місяців тому +1

      @@Tiffanyandtoe ik right they are both so sweet:(

  • @jessicakann1956
    @jessicakann1956 6 місяців тому +5

    Listen... I'm not one to cry and be vulnerable, but.....this this made me but also made me feel better about that, so thank you, and I hope everyone is doing well, I love you all and be safe!

  • @Aurora__-
    @Aurora__- 6 місяців тому +6

    Just finished the audio and it was sooo cuteeee. Hope there are more like this in the future ❤️

  • @cee1970
    @cee1970 6 місяців тому +5

    You guys are amazing, you guys are brave. Hope you guys have a good day/night!❤️

  • @judyP13
    @judyP13 6 місяців тому +9

    i'm setting myself for failure cause i know i'm never gonna meet anyone like him irl & now my standards are like really high gosh being single sucks 😢

  • @karinap7683
    @karinap7683 6 місяців тому +40

    this one is for all the trust issues ladies 🗣️🗣️🗣️

  • @YourFavSc0rp1oooo
    @YourFavSc0rp1oooo 6 місяців тому +3

    My morning just got a whole lot better

  • @KsBumbleyPotato
    @KsBumbleyPotato 6 місяців тому +8

    Can we take a moment and appreciate this cute thumbnail? It's SO FREAKING GORGEOUS ✨

  • @ksUser1
    @ksUser1 6 місяців тому +25

    The fact that this type of behavior isn't standard is sad. Lots of guys would be upset if the girl didn't want to do anything, would pressure her or set some "conditions" & manipulate her in order to get that, so thanks for showing us a different perspective with this audio K💜

    • @abumble2862
      @abumble2862 6 місяців тому +3

      From a personal experience, it's even sadder that it often happens that the guy does all this, uses the girl's vulnerability just to be the girl's first

  • @alicebizzarri02
    @alicebizzarri02 6 місяців тому +14

    K once again healing things he never broke with his audios ❤️‍🩹

  • @commom1
    @commom1 6 місяців тому +2

    This audio is so wonderful and compassionate. Love all the things you say in this, K!
    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Bebee245
    @Bebee245 6 місяців тому +10

    Best boyfriend ever! he's patient, kind, and is willing to take things slow. He's perfect😔💟

  • @soyalesantos
    @soyalesantos 6 місяців тому +6

    can you make an audio for eating? I'm mean like a dinner, or something to eat together I don't mean like chewing, just like a date or something please, love this one btw🩵

  • @BuckettheCat
    @BuckettheCat 6 місяців тому +2

    K!!! I don’t know if this was related whatsoever to my comment on one of your previous posts but I almost cried listening to it!! Thank you so so so so much!
    It felt very sweet and close and I loved listening to it. Your voice is so calming and welcoming that it made my heart melt! Thank you again ❤❤

  • @josiem.7045
    @josiem.7045 6 місяців тому +4

    this audio resonates with me so much, i just got out of a relationship because i was scared of being intimate and letting someone in. i’m scared i won’t find someone who understands me like that, so thanks for the comfort. give extra love to nutmeg!

  • @SeraHawthornemattheo.r
    @SeraHawthornemattheo.r 6 місяців тому +9

    You know it's a good day when k posts , also am I the only one who relates to this audio ? ❤

  • @FELC1AA
    @FELC1AA 6 місяців тому +3

    I LOVE THIS SO MUCH, i am exactly like this, and i really appreciate vids like this

  • @melissadeaver6015
    @melissadeaver6015 6 місяців тому +4

    K is so adorable ❤😭 hes my life nowww

  • @kylieaquino13
    @kylieaquino13 6 місяців тому +3

    The kiss in the end ❤❤

  • @nazwakayde
    @nazwakayde 6 місяців тому +10

    Thank you for the new audio K ❤

  • @elisabeth2287
    @elisabeth2287 6 місяців тому +1

    Cried a lot while listening to this

  • @abumble2862
    @abumble2862 6 місяців тому +8

    K's soft audios like this are really always something special🥺❤️

  • @Hopefully8554
    @Hopefully8554 6 місяців тому +6

    2:27 K:"I hope you don't mind dog hair and slobber and oh don't let her eat the flower "
    Nutmeg 🙂 listening to K talking about her like this to a stranger 😂

  • @youngmi852
    @youngmi852 6 місяців тому +3

    12:42 please 🥹 this made me cry
    2:26 Nutmeg!! hope she is doing well 🥰

  • @bingpot967
    @bingpot967 6 місяців тому +1

    K: you like the flowers? Which ones?
    Me: I like the daffodils 🎶

  • @jessicawilliams7228
    @jessicawilliams7228 4 місяці тому

    nah man, i just cried, i loved this

  • @alicebizzarri02
    @alicebizzarri02 6 місяців тому +13

    5:16
    K letting us sit on his jacket , he is truly a gentleman ❤️

    • @nazwakayde
      @nazwakayde 6 місяців тому +3

      @@alicebizzarri02 Truly, truly a gentleman 😭👏🏻👏🏻

    • @alicebizzarri02
      @alicebizzarri02 6 місяців тому +3

      @@nazwakaydehis sweet acts of kindness will always make my heart melt🥹❤️

    • @nazwakayde
      @nazwakayde 6 місяців тому +2

      @@alicebizzarri02 yess, he shows us how we really should be treated ❤

    • @alicebizzarri02
      @alicebizzarri02 6 місяців тому +1

      @@nazwakayde yes ❤️❤️❤️

    • @alicebizzarri02
      @alicebizzarri02 6 місяців тому

      @Angelin.25. and we love it😌❤️

  • @kylieaquino13
    @kylieaquino13 6 місяців тому +3

    Feel like k is the typ of boyfriend i could nevr had being the boyfriend who can understand me

  • @alicebizzarri02
    @alicebizzarri02 6 місяців тому +11

    2:46
    If i remember correctly i remember k talking about going to this dog shelter in a previous audio , and the fact that he goes there regularly i think it’s so sweet🥹❤️

    • @nazwakayde
      @nazwakayde 6 місяців тому +3

      Yeeees omgg, he said he got a scar from one of the dogs too! I love hearing his personal stories ❤

    • @alicebizzarri02
      @alicebizzarri02 6 місяців тому +1

      @@nazwakaydeyeees i remember him saying it too🥹 and like you said i love it too when he includes stories of his life in audios☺️❤️

  • @ohhhshekindabadthoughistha5262
    @ohhhshekindabadthoughistha5262 6 місяців тому +2

    I need more shy listener so badly. This is exactly me 😕

  • @mynamestartwiththeletterT7115
    @mynamestartwiththeletterT7115 6 місяців тому +2

    Sometimes waiting for new audio for four days feels longer .

  • @missmichelle5407
    @missmichelle5407 6 місяців тому +2

    Such a sweet audio ❤❤❤❤

  • @vote4688
    @vote4688 6 місяців тому +8

    Such a sweet audio K, this is what respect, patience and understanding sounds like🙊🩵

  • @supremeoverlorde2109
    @supremeoverlorde2109 2 місяці тому +1

    I've always been afraid of intimacy, and the older I get, the more I worry that if I do actually pursue relationships, I'll just attract the kinds of people who want to take advantage of my vulnerability and inexperience. And the people who wouldn't would rather have someone more experienced that they don't have to "teach" and coddle. Maybe it's kind of a cynical view to have. But it's hard to trust. So I end up settling by indulging in fantasies like this now and then lol.

  • @ysaabella
    @ysaabella 6 місяців тому +8

    THIS IS FIRE😭 (as always🤷🏻‍♀️)

  • @lynn9011
    @lynn9011 6 місяців тому +3

    Wow. This audio is just so sweet. So kind and understanding. Now, where do I find you, or someone like you? (While me being a homebody is prob staying forever single)
    Also, I can't help but think Nutmeg being frustrated on the other side of the door, waiting for K to open it 😅

  • @Summ41
    @Summ41 4 місяці тому

    I'll listen to this audio for a long time 😢❤

  • @HunterOnDemons
    @HunterOnDemons 6 місяців тому +1

    Nutmeg maybe hairy, but she’s not slobbering at all. For such compromising words, she has every right to eat the flowers... and those that are still growing, too 😄

  • @CorpseyBoo
    @CorpseyBoo 6 місяців тому +8

    "Even of it feels like you're alone.. you're not"
    _oh how i love this_

  • @alicebizzarri02
    @alicebizzarri02 6 місяців тому +7

    9:10
    “ Can i give you a hug?”
    Why i feel like k would give the best bear hugs? 😭❤️

    • @miskxox
      @miskxox 6 місяців тому +3

      Ikrrrrrr and i love your comments🥹🥹

    • @alicebizzarri02
      @alicebizzarri02 6 місяців тому +2

      @@miskxox omg thank you so much you’re so sweet!🫶🏻🥹❤️ it makes me so happy to know that❤️

    • @alicebizzarri02
      @alicebizzarri02 6 місяців тому +1

      @Angelin.25. yeees exactly 😭❤️

  • @alicebizzarri02
    @alicebizzarri02 6 місяців тому +6

    12:42
    “ You’ve never been more beautiful to me than you are right now”
    When he said this i started bawling 😭😭
    K you can’t do this to me, my heart 🥺❤️😭

  • @ladylambisfragile
    @ladylambisfragile 6 місяців тому +5

    every time i receive a notification, my other side comes out :3

  • @sierra146
    @sierra146 6 місяців тому +3

    Shy listener omg that’s definitely me 🥺💙

  • @alicebizzarri02
    @alicebizzarri02 6 місяців тому +5

    Thank you so much k for this new audio , i wish you and bumbles a wonderful day ahead!❤️
    Ps the thumbnail is so beautiful 😍

  • @shalinimaleesha
    @shalinimaleesha 6 місяців тому +6

    "Afraid of getting close"
    How do you know me so well?

  • @Kiki-Doll
    @Kiki-Doll 6 місяців тому +7

    ‘I try and train her but she does get a little excited’….🐶
    Why is this me tho 😂
    K, tysm for all the amazing content! It’s always so exciting to see what you’ve come up with next. I honestly don’t know how you do it!
    Have an awesome weekend! 🩵

  • @ekmekarassimit9831
    @ekmekarassimit9831 6 місяців тому +5

    Hahaha shy listenerrr ITS MY TIME TO SHINEEE 😈✨

  • @ksUser1
    @ksUser1 6 місяців тому +15

    Hey girlfriend in laws!
    I hope you guys are taking care of yourselves daily. Mental and physical health are both important, so give yourself some time to rest too. Remember that you are special, that you are beautiful and deserving of the best!💕💕

    • @alicebizzarri02
      @alicebizzarri02 6 місяців тому +2

      This is so sweet!❤️ and i hope that you’re treating yourself with kindness and love too☺️❤️

  • @asmr_goblin
    @asmr_goblin 6 місяців тому +21

    Not me imagining how cute it would be to have a partner set my name for my ADHD-ass self in their phone as "Goldfish❤️" and be referred to as their goldfish 😭 goals

  • @habiba5994
    @habiba5994 6 місяців тому +6

    OH MY GOD I CANT FUCKING WAIT TO GET HOME AND LISTEN TO THIS AUDIO

  • @alicebizzarri02
    @alicebizzarri02 6 місяців тому +3

    1:02 - 1:14
    K picking flowers for us because we said we liked them 🥹🥹🥹

  • @julsiesss
    @julsiesss 6 місяців тому +4

    this makes me so sad actually

  • @ConfusedMythicalBird-ef5bg
    @ConfusedMythicalBird-ef5bg 6 місяців тому +1

    15:08

  • @sierra146
    @sierra146 6 місяців тому +6

    “Do you want to come in and meet the dog?” Omg yes I’d love to meet Nutmeg 🥰

  • @_frlarissa
    @_frlarissa 6 місяців тому +1

    this one hit too close to home

  • @klaula2003
    @klaula2003 6 місяців тому +2

    This is me in real life fr….

  • @thessaa.6256
    @thessaa.6256 5 місяців тому

    there will never be a man like this irl

  • @ksUser1
    @ksUser1 6 місяців тому +8

    I just recently commented that i would be afraid to get intimate and close with someone, and then K posts this audio💕 I'm counting this as my special treat🤭🫶🏼

  • @lunasi0910
    @lunasi0910 6 місяців тому +6

    K is such a gentleman ❤

  • @abumble2862
    @abumble2862 6 місяців тому +6

    We love a man who is understanding, doesn't pressure us and is willing to take it slow💘

  • @kiwisjpeg
    @kiwisjpeg 6 місяців тому +4

    he’s backk

  • @Maryan_002
    @Maryan_002 6 місяців тому +10

    In a world of boys, he's a gentleman 🤍

  • @alicebizzarri02
    @alicebizzarri02 6 місяців тому +4

    2:28
    “ Do you mind coming in and meet the dog”
    Nutmeg mention!! 🥹 Also of courseee we would love to meet Nutmeg 😭❤️

  • @Hopefully8554
    @Hopefully8554 6 місяців тому +4

    271 K 🎉

  • @aairahxx
    @aairahxx 6 місяців тому +3

    K is such a sweetheart I love it :(

  • @BellaandFaith
    @BellaandFaith 6 місяців тому +7

    HIS VOICE AHHHHH 🤤😆😫😫

  • @HazelTheAnimeCat33
    @HazelTheAnimeCat33 6 місяців тому +2

    I Have Had To Many Heartbreaks So This Was Really Comforting ☺️💗

  • @Lover_ghostly
    @Lover_ghostly 5 місяців тому

    I love you.
    This gave me so much comfort because I have a small fear of getting intimate....
    But if you read me comment
    Can you say I love u too

  • @KrayaFcknRiver
    @KrayaFcknRiver 6 місяців тому +3

    Oooh this is hard because I do tell them and then they bounce 😅

  • @CorpseyBoo
    @CorpseyBoo 6 місяців тому +7

    this is just pure gold 💛