Woman Discovers Husband is Murderer Weeks After Marrying | Handsome Devils
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Paul Mack sweeps Margie Danielsen off of her feet in a shower of flowers and chocolates. Margie thinks he’s the one. But when she sees his picture on America’s Most Wanted, she realises her husband is actually a fugitive wanted for murder.
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She sees that he's on America's Most Wanted, she has feelings of evil vibes coming from him, finds out that he is using a false identity.....
But she decides to confront him and needs more evidence.
Uh, what's wrong with this picture?
@Julia Borisik Right.
She's not very bright
She's in denial because she doesn't want it to be true
@@elizabethparsons1071 this story has so many ridiculous twists, I’m not even sure I believe it
What’s wrong is that she is stupider than hell!!
No way would I merge my bank account with someone who had to pawn a freaking necklace.
Most will agree with you, there’s always a few desperate women that do anything for a man. Hell No, not me!
You would if you had the survival instincts of a DoDo bird. I believe God actually protected this woman
😆 😆 😆 😆 sometime I love hearing women's thoughts. 😆 🤣 😂
@@tracyshaffer4510 don't lie tracy
Thanks for the laugh….lolololol
I'm speechless...how many clues did this women need?
Ik
Exactly
My thoughts too... he's too pushy and controlling.
Clues dont work with no brain
I think she couldn’t believe it.
The fingerprints thing is exactly what she should have done when she saw him on the most wanted list on tv. She could have spared herself all the things she put herself through for those weeks. She's alive out of sheer dumb luck
Spot on! The Sherlock Holmes arc was an idiotic thing to do. YOU run!
what an idiot
Love is blind?
And saved money on a private investigator.
Her intuition is actually really strong, she just wasn't good at listening to it.
Nailed it! That's why I actually really like stories like these being told because it helps people, women in particular, to realize how important it is to listen to your gut the FIRST time it tells you somethings off.
Lack of knowledge. It was in the 80' when everybody was partying.
I disagree wholeheartedly. She's as dumb as a box of rocks.
It’s not even intuition, there was so much literally in front of her and she was just choosing to ignore it.
She was very naive and believed everything he said to her. Ignorance is bliss...
She leaves her girls’ daddy because they “got married too young,” but would not leave a man she sees on America’s Most Wanted? Curious
Females like her don't get many chances with males like that.
She deluded herself out of desperation. You don't even have to watch it in full to see she is "ditzy" in ways.
I know right??!!! Unbelievable!!! Not understanding this woman at all. She had 3 daughters. What was she thinking.
I thought it’s as you get older you become wiser but in this situation it’s as you get older your standard gets lower 😂
@@Tweetycew1 I looked this guy up and this story isn't how it really happened. Paul Mack was caught because a woman in Ohio recognized him on America's Most Wanted and then had seen the TV show about him being a chef at the restaurant. She called the tip line and told them he was in Salt Lake City. I'm sure this story is for her to "save face" about how naive she was. She was his 8th wife. The whole part about his capture is made up. She had nothing to do with it. Paul Mack died in prison in 2018 at the age of 75 so he never did get out.
@@djg5950so this story is completely made up about how he got caught. She is pathetic enough that she tried to save face and be the one that saved herself and her girls. So sad.
She has doubts and fears but gives him full access to her accounts
She’s pathetic
She saw evil in his eyes and married him with 3 daughters ? WTH lady?
He broke into her house and lied about having pawned a necklace.
Lol
This woman was hungry
Seriously cannot believe the police wanted to wait until the following morning before making an arrest when there was NOTHING stopping them from doing so the second he came home from work.
That is complete lunacy
I know !!! 😳
😊08
Rl0
A judge might the reason the police had to wait until morning. I don't know.
That's what I was thinking. It's madness. What a risk to take with 4 innocent lives.
Agree. Surely there must be an emergency procedure for acquiring a warrant. If not there should be, like now. Letting this woman walk back into harms way, and leave her daughters in danger as well, was beyond irresponsible. Very lucky for them and of course for everyone concerned that they survived it. All of that drama caused by the police having to chase the guy down was beyond ridiculous. Could they not park their cars out of sight, ring the doorbell or knock normally on the door so as not to raise an alarm. Hopefully the police were willing to admit this to themselves after the fact.
As soon as he refused to tell her where her kids were, that should've been it. Over. Right there
Exactly!!!
It was! She sent her kids away and got him!
Yep! I would have called the police as soon as he wouldn't tell me where my children were.
Absolutely!
she knew it was time to be strong for her kids?????
She’s very lucky her daughters survived her time playing detective instead of calling Americas Most Wanted when it aired.
@pamelaleigh Yes! You are absolutely correct! I still don't get her reasoning putting those kids in danger that way. 😎
And who knows, there might have a big reward for him, that she would have received if she called immediately
@@anglofrancaiseyvonne9349 Great point!
EXACTLY!
That was my FIRST thought, too! It was like DING DONG! Give the 2 social security numbers to America's most wanted and she would have had a confirmation if he was the killer!
Call me Sean Paul should be the main red flag right off the bat. Lol.
😂😂😂 right? Cuz Why he got two first names?
Yeah lol
Honestly 😂
learn not to be this woman who would put her children in jeopardy. As a parent your foremost priority is the safety of your children.
This woman's desperation to have a man literally put her children in jeopardy. So many red flags. MAN
She's desperation personified. Disgusting and an unfit parent.
Yep. Desperate and naive.
Extremely poor judgment 😮
The power of the D
Absolutely 💯
He broke into her house and she still married him!!?? Incredible! Shame on her for putting her own wants above protecting her daughters.
true. And even when she knew who he was, she went around "investigating" knowing she'd write a book later and sell her story to TV networks...rather than calling the police. It's a more exciting story to sell.
This story sounds fake. I can’t imagine a woman being this naive.
Some women are just lonely and will marry any man that shows interest. She should have called police after seeing him in tv but she chose not to.
at the very least breaking into my house is stalking....at maybe a teenage you could be dumb enough to see it as romantic but as an adult you should see it as it is ...dangerous boundary crossing...
Insanity
She is a perfect example of dismissing her intuition in favor of what she wanted....to be with a man.
Sometimes it's better to be alone.
Interesting commentary that women are held 100% for being in the wrong relationship or that she picked the 'wrong' guy. The lies and romancing the guy does isn't considered inappropriate or entrapment.
It's hard to find the good ones when the evil ones are so many and manipulative.
@@DorothyMNeddermeyerPhDWhen you have custody of minor children it IS 100% on you to ensure their safety.
How desperate can women be to ignore truth right in your face?
The thing is you never notice when inlove
Exactly.
@lesiemehle1901 Or maybe she believed men should lord over women, that men are superior to women. If it's between her suspicions and his words, his words come first.
As women, we need to *stop* ignoring red flags. Edit: before commenting "men too," check out the thread-- it's been addressed many times & I meant what I said.
Women ned to stop believing in the BS that is Prince Charming. A large percentage of males are, at heart, not very nice people who easily put on masks, especially in front of women. After 7 decades on this earth, this is what I have seen, and at times experienced. I worked in a male dominated field back in the 80s while in my 20s. What an eye opener! Male partners overwhelmingly unalive their female partner, or to a lesser extent abuse them once they get that ring on her finger. It seems to be getting worse, every single day, there is at least one story of a male killing a female, whether his partner or a stranger. Better to just have a child or adopt a pet if you need to love something.
Only woman?
@@synewparadigm seriously! Plenty of men are victimized by women who are the living embodiment of red flags just like this dude was.
Everyone, not just women .
@@whosaidthat9265 Exactly.
It is amazing to me that she did not get murdered. I never yelled at the tv so much.
Yep. I wanted to put my hands through the screen and give her a good, good, loving shaking.
😂😂😂 seriously!
This woman wanted to be killed stg!
Me too ! I kept shouting: why are u so dumb af?
@@Campfire30 see that’s what my biggest problem was. U can b a dumb ass on your own time but when you have kids.., you’re responsible for their welfare. I wouldn’t even let that man near my dogs (bc he’s sketch and I’m not that big of an idiot and don’t play helpless victim)
But yeah she’s definitely lucky nothing happened to her kiddos! She gave that man every ample opportunity to kill them all.
@@districtnerfco.8390 fr ! Or she’s literally the dumbest most gullible person I’ve ever seen. Hopefully she’s wisened up over the years…. Hopefully…
I am so impatient with this victim. Doesn’t she have any common sense? Didn’t she have a gut feeling about this situation? How desperate can women be to ignore truth right in your face?
Victim my @$$. She's an idiot desperate 4 🐓🍆🥒🥖 pathetic and disgusting !!
Many of us watching friends neighbors, relatives worship a conman. are asking "Don't they have any common sense?"
she's so ignorant she sleeps with him when she knows he's a serial killler. Why not make an excuse to go to your mother's house for the night or SOMETHING. She's probably the dumbest woman I've seen on any crime show. She's not a victim, that's for sure
walking a mile in somoes shooes.. we dont really understand it before it happens to ourselfs.
@lilliansperlingmadsen4662 especially when it involves a master manipulator. They're very good at what they do and they always target vulnerable women.
Y'all don't know how many times i rolles my eyes in this episode.
@queendevi2492
PLEASE: Use "You" NOT "Y'all", when talking, especially when writing. You is sufficient. Although it is commonly used online, the contraction of you + all, makes the speaker sound uneducated.
@@user-tf9yy5uq9pI’m sure they would consider that if writing an essay. This is just the internet so no big deal.
She repeatedly ignored her own suspicions. She let her desperation take over her decision-making. She's lucky to be alive and her girls are lucky also. It will never end, no matter how many stories are told, some predators will find an easy mark.
It’s always the desperation. These women get so desperate that they let their own kids get victimized . She’s lucky THAT didn’t happen smh 🤦♀️
@@Lmlm8168 smh. Very gullible
Naive AND smart. How many times do we all ignore the gut instinct?!
@@bgtsy this is true . I don’t ignore anything anymore . Same with my husband, bc I’ve been right so many times. I say I feel weird about something or something is off or I think something might happen: we go with it lol.
The things he did initially that kept making her feel good kept causing a feel good chemical release in her brain and body, then the big letdowns, just like addictions do, which is why people often do get back together with someone like this, just like an addict slipping with an addiction, it may take many attempts to break free or it just might end their lives.
So she stayed with a man who wouldn't tell her where her children were
Disgusting
BIG FACTS
My thoughts exactly
Very observant woman
And made the comment, that’s what happens when you ask too many questions.
Yeah, I can't get over this person. Not the brightest bulb. Seemed attracted to danger. Would rather be with a dangerous than be safe and sound.
This woman has the IQ of a doorknob.
She's a lucky fool. Three daughters, he's on America's Most Wanted for murder and she's literally playing games. If she wanted to know who he was, ask the police, they seem to know. She was really playing games.
The unnecessary risks that this lady took makes me think that she’s the luckiest person in this planet
It must have been the s*x.
And the dumbest ...
These were the red flags: Charming. Tragic background story. Lovebombing. “Missing family.” Moving too fast. Too many gifts. Refusing to take no for an answer. Entered house and breaking boundaries made to seem innocent. Hoovering after initial breakups. Daughter “killed.” According to sister, he was “perfect.” Planting the pawn ticket (yes that was a planned manipulation, he guessed correctly that she would snoop in his wallet). Takes over finances-financial abuse. Don’t confront psychopaths. So glad she survived.
Most who love bomb are not devious/murderers. It's not taking no for an answer🚩, calling her after she said it was over🚩, and all the rest that are huge red flags.
And for God's sake once you find out he is the murderer you go back to that house for the night? At the very very least invite a friend over and say that they had nowhere else to go so they were going to spend the night.. my goodness sakes.
@@InterestedCitizen everyone who love bombs is devious. It is in fact a manipulation tactic used by psychopaths and narcissists, which are both cluster b disorders. There is no love in lovebombing.
I once read a book called The Sociopath Next Door, which was written by a psychologist. She said that it was hard to tell early on whether someone was sociopathic, but she said that if someone tries to gain your sympathy or pity early on, you should take notice.
Absolutely nailed every red flag that could be nailed.
This woman has rocks for brains.
If she has that much.
Rock for brains?
Nope.
She’s insane, I think.
But I could be wrong and you may be right.
I still say she was desperate. And maybe he was that good a lover.
Lol 🤣
@@jdstep97 I agree with you. This woman was lonely and desperate for a relationship - a man. She was very attracted to him. She did not want to believe he was a murderer but I think deep down, she knew he was. She played with fire there; it could have all gone very wrong - for her and her daughters. She did get him arrested though. Was he out of jail in 2015?
She's wiping away tears that aren't there.
He was on the America Most wanted but the Police wanted to wait until the next day to get him?????
Strategy😂
@@Mws556😅
I’d be really suspicious of his “ my whole family died” story. This woman is infuriating…YIKES
It’s nice to have never been a victim isn’t it?
@@natalies4375 I have been a victim you have no idea…. Be careful who you are talking to because you never know who you are speaking to . I will leave it at that.
@@molliwilson5639 only one way to solve this. WET 👕 CONTEST!!!
@@natalies4375 that is pathetic.
@@natalies4375 THIS is not a case of victim-shaming. Your comment is irrational. I'm a woman who had been through hell and know very well how evil partners (men and women for others) behave and there are many red flags that victims miss. This unsympathetic "Lifetime for Television" woman's decisions are ludicrous. Playing amateur sleuth and confronting him? 🤦♀️ All she had to do was send some discarded tissues, a used glass, ANYTHING to the authorities with a note that a friend thought that her new husband had a resemblance so here are some fingerprints on a glass he used. That's it! He was caught by fingerprints, FFS! If I was that woman's friend and thought that she couldn't, I would have paid a visit while he was out and picked those up. She could have snuck a peak/taken a picture of his driver's license, gotten info from HER bank about her own account co-signer. Putting him on her bank account at her age and with children is incomprehensible. Taking her to task for very specific decisions past a specific point is more than fair. The only extent of playing sleuth should have been just grabbing quick fingerprint and DNA. She didn't need a private investigator with a retainer with FBI/police at her disposal.
There’s something seriously wrong with this mother! Who takes chances like that with young Children in the home??
YOU.
Exactly right . Seriously wrong!
Far too many now days. Blind too desire.
Not only that I got sick of her trying to wipe away invisible tears like this was so upsetting recounting the story.
Nothing wrong with her, love can blind you, marriage being the eye opener
The most ridiculous "victim" ever. She's sharing her story thinking she's some kind of hero? Wow.
She's selling her story, I've seen this one before, she's stoopid
Right, I can't stand watching the rest of the story.
God looks after babies and FOOLS!
How many believe that its their imagination rather than believe such evil of someone you love? Thats what manipulative , evil people do to their victims!
Thank you for making me feel so wise and stable!
Many might think this lady is empathic but the reality is this is what codependency looks like. Codependency kills, sometimes slowly (putting up with an abuser and then u get heart disease or cancer from the stress) or it kills through a psychopath. This lady and her daughters are blessed to be alive, she ignored countless red flags. A good saying is "doubt your doubts." Blessings to all the single ladies out there trying to find "love." Love yourself first.
Yes! Somebody gets it. When you are raised with the ingrained idea that your job is to please everyone else and rate everyone else's opinion above your own, you teach yourself to override your instincts. Your feelings can't be right because you can't possibly be right. That would be betraying your built in pattern. So - it takes repeated and high level red flags to make you act. And even then you feel guilty for going against him. Abusers know one the moment they see one.
You mean don’t doubt your doubts.
@@G.G.8GG yep! a predator knows its prey!!
@taylorpresley4604
You said: "A good saying is: doubts your doubts". I really have to disagree. I'd say: "A good saying is: never doubt your doubts". Your doubts are your intuition. As women, we need to honour our intuition. It is there to protect us, not always from marrying a killer, but perhaps from getting involved with him in the first place.
I'm sorry, but she is the most infuriating victim ever. She is ridiculously lucky that her and her daughters are alive. GO TO THE POLICE OH MY GOD.
Agree hard to listen to her voice. Breaks into her house then she meets up with him?
I'm sitting here shaking my head in disbelief. Red flag after red flag, alarm bells ringing and she still confronts him instead of going to the police. Swallows a pill he gives her, goes back home after learning he's a murderer... god almighty.
@Tilly. Infuriating is correct! I don't know why she insisted on being a detective! Maybe she had a death wish 😎
@@chriskelly9476 For sure! Maybe love really is blind 😎
EXACTLY! And now wanna be victim.
This woman is crazier than the murderer!
ikr....it was painful hearing her talk
This woman was not a victim! She willingly ignored every sign and then willingly married him. Well, I guess she’s a victim of her own stupidity. 🤦🏽♀️
For real though. The amount of red flags he gave her was unbelievable. Still she married him and brought him to live with her and her girls. Like she is so lucky after everything nothing happened to her or her girls. But lady how do you function in everyday life???
Haha! I completely agree.. people like this woman are willing to be ignorant. They actually make it extremely easy for predatorial men to take advantage of them.
When you are involved in relationships with a con man. They are very convinsing in making you doubt yourself.
@@allysonbricknall8808 there's one thing about making you doubt but having a whole briefcase you locked from your spouse it's a big read flag!!
@@DiAnaPadill I can't believe I was a victim of this kind of abuse. You have no idea how calculating and convincing these men are. My daughter has recently escaped a 14yr relationship with a guy like this, obvs not a killer. All her family could see it. He convinced her to stay away from us. They destroy you.
She knew something was wrong but she went ahead and married him and put herself and her kids in danger. Awesome insight. This is some special kind of intelligence.
She even took “some strange pill” he gave her, AFTER it was clear she didn’t trust him😅
Yep, and let him control her finances.
Her Super Power is Stupidity.
Insight ?? awesome?? Nahhh....more stupidity and .... I can't believe how you and your children live still...sorry honey but this is the truth
Oh completely agree and I stated something similar in my comment.... she was wearing blinders and should have known better.
This lady kind of frustrates me!
I never would have shown him the document! I would have turned him into America Most Wanted.
Kinda?
Not the words I'd use, but ya!😮
Divorces her 1st husband after having 3 children because "we were too young." Proceeds to ignore all red flags and marries a sociopath murderer. Stays with him after seeing him on America's Most Wanted. 😑😐🙄🤦🏼♀️
Shes lucky her Scooby doo detective work didn't get em all killed
I'm confused as to why she kept things going after he broke in and left workout attire in her home. Then she looks into his eyes and "all she saw was evil" and "felt more fear than ever"...and still married this man?! WTF? Was she THAT lonely? My god.
Also, it sounds like she was under pressure to be in a relationship?
Sadly a lot of people seem to need a relationship to be happy
I thought the same thing!!! He kept giving her red flags and she KEPT ON IGNORING THEM. My God, trust your instinct. Why would you keep putting yourself and your daughters in danger? Silly.
She didn't trust her own feelings, is what the problem is, above all. Made her prone to believing him. Also, way too much empathy: empathy gone awry. The perfect victim.
She’s not smart.
Can't believe she kept living in this situation with her children in order to investigate further. How much information do you need to know that this guy is dangerously toxic?!?
Well her first clue was him breaking into her home
Sometimes u play fool toget to the bottom if I show signs u Cld be next and gone
And why did she continue to alert him if her findings?😑
@@yahniqueedwards231 Because she has absolutely NO common sense. Her daughter's description of her bravery is really a sad case of cognitive dissonance. Her mother made countless terrible decisions that just escalated with severity of situation. It was all too mindboggling to hear.
I am mad as hell with her for keeping her kids in that much danger.
Lol, the actor who plays the murderer in this documentary does a very good job of looking very creepy and sinister!
He looks just like the real killer too
Miss , you are one stubborn, brave , lucky lady 😮😮😮 , am glad you and your children are ok , God is good
She's so desperate that it's hard to feel sympathetic for her. When he broke into the house she should have been done. It's her responsibility to protect her daughters.
But he didn’t steal anything. He just left gifts. It’s kinda romantic!
I thought STALKER immediately, alarm system ASAP OPEN yr 👀
Wow
For you to even just reply this as if she was looking for ur sympathy is just so... Idk.. if u able to run after the first red flag... I wish I had ur strength dayum
So true
As a mom I couldn’t fathom ignoring so much and letting this go on for so long before doing something. This woman is delusional she should have called the police as soon as she saw him on AMW. Honestly there’s no rationalizing her behavior that’s bad parenting. She’s lucky he didn’t harm the girls.
Love is blind
@@plankarkAnd dumb apparently. 😂
I agree 100 %.
Blind and dumb
No one to Blame but your dumb self. I cannot continue to watch this.
I thought I was gullible but this lovely lady wins hands down!
This lady isn’t the brightest crayon in the box. That’s for sure! How many signs do you need? Especially watching you husband on America Most Wanted. Like. Hello?!?!
Breaking into someone's house is actually against the law. It's not just "weird," "something you don't do," or "something that makes me uncomfortable."
Lol
@Sugar Spring. Yes and what else might he have done whilst he was in the house. Put cameras, snoop through her, underwear drawer, photocopy documents and so on 😎 yikes!!!
I'm a lil uncomfortable with you breaking into my house.. let's go watch a movie in the dark so I can deal with what you didn't mean to do
@@IsraelWillBeFree Hilarious and correct!
I'm surprised she kept seeing him after he's broken into her house. A woman with three girls, and she marries a guy who breaks into her house? Um...Her kids don't seem to hate her, which is the real miracle here. She sure put them in harms way.
*UPDATE:* During his interview with "Charmed To Death," Sgt. Tim Bailey gave producers a shocking update:
“I received a call from Paul Mack’s attorney, who represented him in California,” said Bailey. “And he told me that he wanted me, and he wanted, particularly, the family to know, that Paul Mack confessed to killing Annette Huddle before he died.”
*Paul Mack died in prison in 2018. He was 75 years old.* Yay
thank God he died in prison. Someone like that should never be out.
Thank you for update.
Good
Thank You for this update it should be pinned to the top of the comments.
She was shocked a murdered robbed her. The level of delusion and denial is beyond with this woman.
@29:18... She took the pill. I am done. DONE, I tell you.
lol! I commented on the same thing… she’s nuts!
Right! Talking about she was tired of hearing him tell her to take the pill. You're going to be TIRED, alright!!
The police tell her he’s wanted for 2 murders and she goes back to spend the night with him at home with her 3 daughters? Unbelievable 😳
She got the daughters out of the house
The cops dropped the ball bigtime.
She's so dumb! Unbelievable!!
She sent the daughters away but still. I think she knew he would run and maybe come back!
Didn't happen that way. She was surprised as he was when he was arrested. She wasn't the reason for it so she didn't sleep with him knowing that he was going to be arrested the next morning.
Cops ‘Take your girls and leave, we will arrest him in the morning’
Wife ‘No, let me put myself in danger one more time, its kinda my thing’ 🤦🏻♀️
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
😂
Fantastic!
right? get a hotel room somewhere and put a false name on the room for one night
I almost fell into the same kind of thing, Met an amazing man , he even proposed , but there was something off about him, I checked his wallet and there was nothing in his name, not even an ID, I Started investigating everything about him, only to find out everything was a lie, the only thing that saved me from him is that he fell sick and passed on a short while after proposing to me
Was him a serial killer?
Wow
I can't imagine the kind of regret and humiliation she has likely wrestled with in the years following. It can be so hard to listen to your gut when you 1)lack confidence 2) desire to be desired & 3)THINK you can bring out the best in people. It is quite literally miraculous that she and all her children made it out of this situation alive!
This is the most intelligent and compassionate comment on this thread.
She is infuriating but she is human and all humans are irrational. Literally, anyone can be seduced by a skilled con artist. She knew from the getgo that he was evil but the mind plays tricks. It is truly the gut that we have to trust. Never talk yourself out of your gut feelings. They are REAL.
Her instincts were telling her all along that there was something wrong with that guy, she is very lucky she didn't get caught by him while investigating him and is alive
Instincts are everything! They are why we are alive. Those of our predecessors whose instincts were wrong didn't make it. When your antenna goes up, start paying attention!!!
I thought he wld grab her for hostage when the cops came for sure. It blows my mind that they wldnt just go to work and arrest him ! They put her life in danger sure enough !
@@lindavanocker1841 yes, I agree. The cops didn’t want to cut their bait. That’s terrible. They should have said get out of there! She could have been a statistic.
@@lindavanocker1841 exactly, having everything on hand, all evidence, the police decided to wait and put in danger one more woman. Why? Why they could not ask her to call him have a lunch,meeting etc and arrest him right away?
@@lindavanocker1841 They told her not to go home, but she didn't listen.
She kept a murderer in her house with her kids because she needed more proof as to who he really was?????????????????????????????
it was 1988 when they did not have the internet to check on people BUT she did not listen to her inner voice AT ALL.
I can’t believe someone can be so self delusional. That’s the scariest part of this whole story.
Literally saw him on America’s Most Wanted and she was like “everything’s fine!” 😒
love is blind my sweetheart
@@Mohssin4147Indeed...
I do believe this woman is totally out of her mind if what she said is true. No sound person would risk their life, much less her childrens in this situation!
after seeing all the red flags she married him, that’s a true crime against her own family.
She's a terrible mother, putting herself above her children.
Creep, married a fool
One massive red flag after another and this kind lovely lady needs more evidence? Call the police!
She didn't want to believe it
Exactly! What was she waiting for? the dead women to say he killed us? one comment said what a brave woman! I kept saying what a dumba$$ she risked all their lives or at best risked her daughters not having a mom. Too many chances!
@@athena8729 you're so right
@@athena8729 And that is so sad. She put her life at huge risk. I'll have to police clear your name before getting back with you
She needed to order some IQ points for herself.
Oh yeah, I had a relationship once when I was very young where he gave me tons of gifts, always brought me flowers, bought me expensive leather jackets. It was all very seductive and I fell for it. After a year of being together I found out he was a pathological liar and cheat. Always remember, if it seems to be good to be true, it is.
It's called Love Bombing. That's what Scott Peterson did to every girl he dated.
@@lisas8244 it's also called expecting to be spoilt. That's why they get away with it. I've taught my kids differently.
Not always.
@@robogreek3157 True. Manhaters; the lot of 'em.
Heaven and Hell are real..... Is your heart right with God? We can not hide our sins from God. Jesus Christ loves you and He died for our sins. Repent of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior and you will be saved. MARK 1:15 “ the kingdom of God is at hand; repent and believe in the gospel.”
"Salvation Prayer"
Dear Heavenly Father, I come to you, to confess that I am a sinner. I have done some things in my life that I am not proud of and I repent of my sins. I believe that Jesus died on the cross for my sins and that He arose from the grave and that He is alive today. I ask that you forgive me of my sins and come into my heart.... I proclaim that Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior. AMEN.....
She should have gone to the police immediately. Silly woman she has kids.
" I am coming back to look for you one more time" . Lady! All the best and please relocate with your children. You are lucky to be alive
Someone wrote that Paul Mack died in prison in 2018 @ age 75. Sounds about right. I pray they all stayed safe from him & that they didn’t give this interview till after God had His Judgement of him.
@@catsberry4858 I hope to God it's true
If you don’t meet ONE SINGLE FAMILY member, a friend, ANYTHING…🚩🚩. If they want to marry you after a few weeks ? 🚩🚩If they BREAK INTO YOUR HOUSE WHILE YOU ARE DATING 🚩🚩 This woman is lucky her daughters survived. And weren’t victimized. Ladies & gentlemen. Please . Learn from these situations .
What the hell she went to the jail…there is something seriously wrong with that woman…why didn’t the police hide in her house that last night??
wow her daughters was young and she didn't even think to call the police when her friend said guy looks like husband and you find 2 social security cards. what more evidence? She took to many chances!!!!
And why didn’t her so called friend call the hotline?
It is astounding this woman is not embarrassed to present her story.
Weak.
That happen because you are very eager to have a husband
Am I the only one who wants the $1500 deposit back from the investigator?
I feel if you think you need to hire a private investigator, you already know the answer
I was denied a restraining order, this year (2022).
Very upset and scared.
Not true. Emotions are not enough, there has to be evidence.
I agree.
😂
What is with women letting men they barely know be around their kids?
She is a VERY courageous woman but maybe not the wisest.
She is lucky to have survived.
You are 2 for 3
This woman made every poor decision she could possibly make. She put her children in danger so she could go play detective.
Stupidity at best 😮
So she could have a man
This woman's decision making process can be seen in the first victim of every horror movie who simply has to investigate the situation even further. Why she did not call the cops the moment her daughters were missing and he would not tell her where they were and stop this silliness is beyond me. She is lucky she is alive.
She sure is a slow Learner
What a disgrace, this woman introduces a man she knows nothing about into her family of three daughters. She should be in jail for negligence and stupidity and their biological father should make arrangements for the children to be taken from her. She is every divorced Fathers nightmare.
She took way too many risks... she's fortunate to be alive
Very lucky to be Alive, how could she sleep next to a monster like this?
Aussie here, is she for real???
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Another example of the sickness of codependency....
Why did the police have to wait until morning. I don't understand that
Me neither what's up with THAT?
Probably to have a judge approve a warrant of arrest.
This woman is sooooooo naive and reckless 😮 Scarily so. Jeesh.
I’m having a hard time feeling sorry for her. Humans are given the ability to sense something is wrong and they are in danger. Wild animals don’t ignore these instincts. There is a book called The Gift of Fear. I would suggest everyone reading it.
The Gift of Fear , by Gavin DeBecker is a fantastic book. I highly recommend it.
@@keryljensen978 it really is. I recommend it for everyone. It should be required reading!
People call her naive. That's such a kind way of putting it.
I think she thought if she was a good person, she would be fine. It's common to think "like attracts like" and other myths. Also she seemed to uncritically feel like role definitions themselves define reality. Like when she said, I didn't want to lie to my husband, or he's my husband, so that's not him on the television. People do this about the word "family" also.
@butterbeanqueen8148, it's not really true that we can just feel when something is wrong. Our instincts can be wrong and we are not actually that good at detecting deception. You need more than just the fear response when a cunning manipulator is operating. It's best to investigate and get concrete, objective evidence. But she did ignore concrete evidence and she left herself and her kids open and vulnerable before she knew if she was safe.
By sharing her story this woman is helping countless women who can learn from her experience, and I thank her for that. We shouldn’t be hard on her for what she didn’t see. She wasn’t used to people so low.
Oh, but trust me, they won't.
She even said she saw the issues and kept dating him haha
Yes indeed she is helping a lot
She is't helping anyone, people who are as naive and blind to the obvious as she was won't be capable of learning anything from her experience as the will think they couldn't be that dumb
Oh, you think these people would learn?
She has a very strong guardian angel, that's for sure.
You have a lovely house, he has an apartment. You're lonely and vulnerable, he's aggressive. You say NO. He can't take NO for an answer. You call his name, he doesn't answer. He wants joint bank account. Bad signals! Control...control...control!
Never ignore your intuition.
That’s not bravery. That’s just stupidity! Can’t believe she’s on here telling it as if she was a hero. Omg!
Putting all her children in danger 😢
Seriously I seen no bravery just stupidity
I agree with you
I'd be embarrassed to let people know I was that gullible
Desperate woman
She would take him back
Ugh
She is supremely and stupidly naive! How can anyone be that clueless?!?
I cannot believe that after she went to the police, they decided she would go back home, spend the night with him and the police would arrest him in the morning. He easily could have taken the girls as hostages. Did he really drive out with the car? Did the police not have the driveway blocked? And then, a suspected murderer who behaved guilty was free for at least some of the three years, loose and able to harass her!
Woman!! I can’t believe you went through all that instead of going to the police! I’m glad you and the girls are safe. Don’t ever take that kind of chance again! You’ll end up like his past individuals!🙏
If my kids come up missing and you say “I’m not telling you.” I would have been at his job with that steel in my purse. What you’re not going to do is play with me and my babies.
Exactly... No way I would've stayed home and waited
Exactly!! I don't have kids, but in my head I was like, dude, I'll put a bullet between your eyes so fast!
Nope. She was waiting to get her or her kids get killed first!
Heaven and Hell are real..... Is your heart right with God? We can not hide our sins from God. Jesus Christ loves you and He died for our sins. Repent of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior and you will be saved. MARK 1:15 “ the kingdom of God is at hand; repent and believe in the gospel.”
"Salvation Prayer"
Dear Heavenly Father, I come to you, to confess that I am a sinner. I have done some things in my life that I am not proud of and I repent of my sins. I believe that Jesus died on the cross for my sins and that He arose from the grave and that He is alive today. I ask that you forgive me of my sins and come into my heart.... I proclaim that Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior. AMEN.....
@@youtube_chaplain shut up troll
Every time they said "sean paul" I couldnt help picturing the singer 😅
Uughhh…. watching this today and I couldn’t finish it. Just too many red flags and yet didn’t go to the authorities. Putting the family at risk. Smh
I was so scared yet am.nt even done with the full documen
I’m on her side, but lawdy. Once you are in the territory of ‘2 dead peoples security cards’, ‘ hired p.i.’ , ’questioning where daughters are at’ this is the rule and I cannot stress this one enough: DO NOT EAT ANY OFFERED PILLS. PRETEND. SPIT THEM OUT. PRETEND TO PUKE AND FLUSH THEM. WHATEVER. DO NOT EAT THE PILLS.
And get their name off of your bank accounts
It's pretty easy to forget that we have not been in a position like hers. I always HOPE that I would react in a way that is in keeping with how I view myself, but the bottom line is, I just have no idea what I would do or how I would behave unless I am in that exact situation with that exact history and back story.
@@helianabanes4875 I’ve been in a position like hers. Even when you are in this alternate sphere of crazy thoughts and shifting reality responses, do not eat the pills. If you listened to her keystones of personality- being strong for her daughters, hoping for a lovely life, being a good person, they reflect points of her self autonomy, and definitely her naïveté, which contributed to how far this situation got. Letting that autonomy go will create permanent damage in the harm we do to ourselves in the future, looking back on retrospection. Her justification of ‘I just wanted him to stop asking’ having already set up the cover of not feeling well should have made a very large flag of self preservation come up and she should have just gone with that. If she was concerned enough to play sick, do not take the offered unknown pills. This lady had strength I bet even she didn’t know she had, and that shone through after that horrific incident. In all the crazy, she would have shrunk back to her keystones, but ignored them. Sure maybe you can’t say what you would do, but from my personal experience, when everything was not right and upside down, being extremely vulnerable (I was underage) I didn’t know everything and made a ton of mistakes, but when the coercion to take something physically into myself that didn’t want to take, I found a way not to. This lady was grown. Even with extreme gullibility, do not eat the pills.
@@moskie325 hate that you have been through something similar, happy you made it through!
@Moskie. I agree with you! I'm astounded when people tell me they have joint bank accounts! It's just craziness and I'd never do it!😎
The thing with the daughters would have been enough to send me running. Maybe she should work for the police as an undercover agent.
As for the pill, I was thinking it could be cyanide. It could have been anything. I would have spit that out.
Why are some women so in love with the idea of marriage?
Many codependent people out there..
She lived in Utah... nuff said.
It’s how women have survived for millennia. 🫤
Brainwashed
Desperate
But she doesn’t need to investigate him herself. The police do that. That’s what they do, people with suspicions of any kind can call them!!
Who hires a private investigator?
When pure innocence meets sheer evil.
When pure desperation and stupidity meets evil.