I legit learned this IS key right here!!! Never let yaself see u texting more than he is or longer responses or text two before he texts one,its nuts how good this works, it's changed my life and literally I can see the interest switch hands the second I don't respond for 6-7 hours every so often.nuts!!!
True. Men are extremely delulu and even if you are just being a good conversationalist, they will take that as you being more interested in them than you really are.
@@Thatsher21not always true. Men have insecurities too. I have been told later I broke hearts as they assumed I was not that into them and moved on as they really wanted to date me but assumed I was not that into them.
Thats what i dont understand about this life,why do we have to tactics on how we deal with people cause when you are genuinely open and straightforward u become a playgroung for clever ones.😮😮
I’m 60 n that’s what I do lol 😂 n he just seems so confused on his face he now looks far away, lost,he way out there in left field lol . Long time cougar.🤗
This is true. I do this naturally and feel guilty, but then when the guys start putting in more effort in its nice. Even and especially with the men who usually alway get what they want indeed :)
its risky , i tried this and pulled away but didnt say anything and he got pissed....told me hes been cheated on before and hurt and because of that i have to initiate messaging or contact...idk anymore feels like hes illogical but he also has adhd depression and anxiety so idk
He has a second channel for men that has basically all the same titles. I came here after finding that out. I really wonder what the goal of having seemingly contradictory advice is, if not to just milk both genders for money
Sadly, a lot of times it’s human nature and that’s how we operate as a whole even though it sounds unfortunate. Most of it is based on dark psychology.
Cuz ppl r fucked in the head. I don't like playing games but we really do have to or we'll get taken advantage of, heart ripped out and left to cry ourselves to sleep.
Always keep your text messages shorter than his. Never show more effort than he does.
Thx!!
I legit learned this IS key right here!!! Never let yaself see u texting more than he is or longer responses or text two before he texts one,its nuts how good this works, it's changed my life and literally I can see the interest switch hands the second I don't respond for 6-7 hours every so often.nuts!!!
True. Men are extremely delulu and even if you are just being a good conversationalist, they will take that as you being more interested in them than you really are.
Facts
It’s more interesting to show some extra sometimes
Sounds exhausting and makes me not want to deal with people
Literally I’ll just stay single forever
@@madori8909 yes... it's called manipulation, indeed.
@@romaniamyland6191it’s not manipulation, it’s self respect
Same
It’s annoying when you really want them to go away and they won’t. Ugh 😂
Guuurrrrlllll you just said a word here. I’ve been there!!!!
It’s like, boy BYEEEEE already. 😂
Ask them for huge amount of money
I know!!! Lol
I put a dude in prison for stalking me for 5 years girl I know all about that life. He broke restraining orders 6 times 😭
Oh my god. If you like someone then be with them. When you love someone, playing power games is counterproductive. Just love each other.
That’s boring for people who had a fuc’ed up childhood…
@@user-gu6vf3je1d not for all people with effed up childhoods. I for one have had enough dysfunction. No more.
Women and men aren’t the same and this is exactly why women get played
Same I always get ghosted or bread crumbs grew up with narcissistic parents. I just try to respond different to trauma
But you won’t be respected, a lot of people don’t get it but everything he’s saying is true. I’ve observed all this in my life
Love these types of videos, behaviour and psychology mix!!
These are all things I’ve done naturally and yes they work🙌🏿
I mean, I had a guy that I really liked do this to me last year and I said "okayyy, byeee" so it def doesn't work on everyone
Don't text them back right away be hesitant when they want you to do something there gonna try harder If you act like you don't really care.
Alex, you're getting better and better! Thanks! I really needed this message today!
Noone with emotional maturity has time to play these games!
But some ppl actually say ok bye when you seem at least slightly hesitant 😂
That only means they’re not for you.
It’s always easy to say bye to someone you aren’t that interested in
They want it easy, they never liked you to begin with. Best to move on
I’m some people ☺️
I am that person, by the time they come back I am onto the text
Sometimes when you are hesitant, instead of trying harder they just leave 🤷♀️
Because they never really liked you to begin with. That’s the point.
@@Thatsher21not always true. Men have insecurities too. I have been told later I broke hearts as they assumed I was not that into them and moved on as they really wanted to date me but assumed I was not that into them.
@@Pinkflamingoismyfavoritecolor.he just wasn’t that into you. Men keep trying when they want you
@@chiobabe2180exactly, men can be insecure but when they like you they'll chase you no matter what
He wasn’t truly interested then.
Father Alex you are 100% right✌️💯💯🤩
Thats what i dont understand about this life,why do we have to tactics on how we deal with people cause when you are genuinely open and straightforward u become a playgroung for clever ones.😮😮
I’m 60 n that’s what I do lol 😂 n he just seems so confused on his face he now looks far away, lost,he way out there in left field lol . Long time cougar.🤗
You go!!😂
Same girl my guys always at least 5 yr younger
Yeah use your ex you are still attached to as a tool for the new guy detachment
Yep
Haha that worked for me
School me,I don't get it
Your hair is so cute
I just like ok cool say less … then then he was like I miss you .. did this yo a guy the other day 😂
Hmmm...I did that with one guy I met on a dating site and he was mad and moved on.
Wasn’t interested after all.
This is true. I do this naturally and feel guilty, but then when the guys start putting in more effort in its nice. Even and especially with the men who usually alway get what they want indeed :)
I'm very hesitant when a guy expresses his feelings for me.
Ya'll, stop hating on Father Alex! He did his research.
That’s not a healthy person you’re messing with them you guys. A secure person doesn’t play all those games.
An avoidant won't attract the bees queen either. You attract only your mirror. A secure person won't engage with any of other types
Thank you as always.
That girl that didnt want you to leave the country, did you look her up when you came back?
Women are so hard headed in these comments
I appreciate you soooo much. You have saved me from myself. I would like to help with videos I will email you.
Im convinced he watched this or some shit
Another informative Video ! 💯
It's almost sounds like push and pull
Genius ! Totally great
its risky , i tried this and pulled away but didnt say anything and he got pissed....told me hes been cheated on before and hurt and because of that i have to initiate messaging or contact...idk anymore feels like hes illogical but he also has adhd depression and anxiety so idk
Red flag; he doesn’t have a right to demand that of you, he’s playing the victim
I push away because I'm avoidant 🤷🏾♀️
Oh well 😔
Same, I'm an avoidant woman
Playing toxic games 🙄
He has a second channel for men that has basically all the same titles. I came here after finding that out. I really wonder what the goal of having seemingly contradictory advice is, if not to just milk both genders for money
What's the name of his other channel, does anybody know?
@@Kima89 "Mindful Seduction"
Great video!
Soooo good
Wish I would have known these tricks 10 years ago 😂😂😂
I appreciate you ❤Alex
So accurate.
So true ❤
@father Alex. It is HADOUKEN!!!
6:18 😂!
❤❤❤
I love you, but stop swallowing saliva every minute
🎸
That’s a lot of psychological stuff
WHY👵🏾
Sadly, a lot of times it’s human nature and that’s how we operate as a whole even though it sounds unfortunate. Most of it is based on dark psychology.
Cuz ppl r fucked in the head. I don't like playing games but we really do have to or we'll get taken advantage of, heart ripped out and left to cry ourselves to sleep.
@@Gina-d7qread somewhere that you “either play the game, or get played” 🫢
Exactly i just watch videos to convince myself but keeping myself isolated coz its more obvious yo me now how shitty people are@@Gina-d7q
6:19…
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