Strangers Share What It Feels Like To Be THEIR Age
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What does it feel like to be your age? That's the goal of today's video. I will be asking strangers on the streets of Montreal how old they are, what their ideal age is, what it is currently like to be their age, and much more.
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I’m 84. When I was 23 I thought I was so smart I was on top of the world. When I was 25 I was completely deflated. The world was ending. What was I going to do with my life? When I was 34 I said to myself, this is the best era of my life and it certainly made a great stab at it. When I was 44 I suddenly had a physical problem. I had a slipped disc and couldn’t do any of the things that I had always done. But gradually I did and more. But in my 40s I felt older than any other time in my life even now when I was 50 I thought this is great I don’t look 50 I feel good but five years later I decided to retire and then I had to look after my mother and my grandchildren. I saw myself as very old. But when I was 6I I bought a computer and through it I Met people and traveled the world by myself. Well when that was over I had a 12 year period of bouncing around in Florida becoming an old lady beach bum and then graduated to a condo. Now that over and I’m 85 I don’t feel 85. Another era has begun. I learn more about things I didn’t know about. I have discovered You Tube and once again I am off to every corner of the world.. I can’t physically do as much as I used to do course but my mind is sound and I am enjoying this life very much . I have had many eras in my life and everyone of them been differen and I on have enjoyed every one of them thoroughly.
This is awesome.
Love your comment! Have you made any plans for yourself, for when you need help with day to day stuff? I would like to do that, us women get memory loss around 80. I want to get ready. Can't figure it out at 52, how about you?
Thank you for sharing Lorna, wishing you many more exciting era's to discover.
love this!!
Exact opposite then all the sudden everybody was stupid to me and I think I'll want to die.
Tips from a 44-year old:
(If possible)
1. Find a job you really like to do
2. Find someone you want to be with and who can stand being with you
3. Listen to your body. If it's telling you that something is wrong it's usually true
4. Keep your close friends close. It's really hard to find good new ones
All excellent advice!!!
@Johan Larsson
1. I found a job (career) that I loved and through it I have lived a life of poverty and austerity. Political decisions that I could not control destroyed that profession.
2. I found someone that I wanted to be with and he told me the same.
We married and in the 18th month of the marriage, he found someone else to be with.
3. My body yells at me everyday for having spend long hours on my feet trying to make a living.
My advice:
Life is a series of steps that will always, as design, point us in the direction of God.
This is achieved in many different ways in each person, however, there is a pattern that has developed in humanity that is very effective in creating circumstances that help us realize our finiteness that will ultimately result in compassion, tenderness, honesty, bravery, for your fellow man, and most importantly the recognition that God is our Creator, and we can never escape death.
Very few people find a job that they actually like. I came close. But I enjoy life more without dealing with other people and their problems.
@@NEMO-NEMO reminds me of the guy the rabbi asked what he wants to accomplish in life rather than bible study. The reply was, at the end I will engage in bible study but first I must buy, a new car, and afterwards? reply, a private plane, and afterwards? reply,
see the world, afterwards? reply, I'll engage in bible study.
Rabbi answered, I can save you all that time, here, I have a shortcut for you, study the bible now.
Facts
I’m 61. Don’t listen to some of the older or acting older adults. Growing older is a privilege. Many don’t get the opportunity. We had our turn to be in our 20s and above. To any younger person reading this, try and cherish each phase of your life. Each decade has its pros and cons. At 61 - I’m trying to figure out what my next chapter is now that my kids are grown. But how lucky am I to still be on this confusing, messy, amazing planet. You’ll figure it all out. Just stay open to opportunities - learn to take more risks and practice emotional resilience. Enjoy the ride. It’s all been a gift so far.
"How lucky am I to still be on this confusing, messy, amazing planet." - this really touched my soul ❤ thank you for sharing your thoughts.
Sooo riiighttt
@@mar_tina I just saw your comment from 5 months ago! Lol. How meaningful to know at least one person may have benefited. Love and light.
Def listen to oldsters and keep what sounds rt fr you. Those who don't learn from hist, fail a lot more as the saying goes !
At age 24 I quit smoking cigarette cold turkey. Three months later, I was traveling solo across Canada on my bicycle. I did many other adventure travels later. I'm now 39 and I realize I won't have the opportunity to do these things many times again. Here's the greatest lesson I learned while travelling across Canada: I was in northern Ontario facing crazy, depressing winds for days. I wasn't able to do the distance I was supposed to. Then one morning as I start pedaling I realize there's no wind at all and think "AH, this is how fast I can go when nothing prevents me from moving forward freely in life! Wow, what a lesson!" Then I stopped to have a quick snack and right then and there, the actual lesson hit me: There was wind that morning, only, the wind was in my back, pushing me, helping me. But I never felt it. The lesson: In life, you don't feel what helps you, you only feel what is against you. It requires attention and wisdom to be able to see all the forces in your favor helping you.
Amazing lesson, thanks for sharing it. Wishing you absolute bliss and contentment in your life.
Great wisdom! Our growth in life depends on how we choose and create better choices, as well as how we appreciate all people who help us grow.
Awesome! U rock🇺🇸🇧🇷
Joh, that was amazing. Brilliant lesson, so simple yet powerful, tx
At 39, you are probably still young enough to see the cure of aging. Scientists are saying that anyone under 50 will probably see it (and they said that just before I turned 50, so I just made it onto the train lol!)
"The days are long but the years are short" is one of the best quotes I've heard in a long time! Amazing video, keep it up!
I think time is like a roll of toilet paper, it goes faster near the end! 😲
Actually life is the longest thing you'll do.
@@daveyt4802 I totally agree. It seems that as you get older, the years pass by faster. I just asked myself today, where did 2022 go?
@@Dennis0824 There's an explanation for why we experience life faster as we get older. As we age, each year is a smaller part of our life, than it was when we were younger.
@@Dennis0824 yeah, I'm only 17 but time is already speeding up for me, it feels like I was just 15 yesterday and 2020-2022 went by SO fast probably cuz of the pandemic as well
This 74 year-old agrees: the body ages but it’s the mind that can keep you young. Great vlog.
Thanks Paul!
As a 62 year old man , I can say as interesting as this is to me , I can see how being younger and watching this can really do harm mentally, causing anxiety and depression. When I was younger I never thought of these things and I think you really shouldn't think of this as a developing adult. Live your life, enjoy , hold onto nothing. Be good do good and let life be. Looking back causes regret looking ahead cause anxiety. Live in the moment.
“If you are depressed you are living in the past. If you are anxious you are living in the future. If you are at peace you are living in the present.” ~ Lao Tzu.
I just turned 60, and Yes, that's so true. Good advice
I cannot say I get it. How could it be harmful to younger people watching to find out from a bunch of older people that life is actually pretty good when you are older? Could be comforting if anything. Apart from the aging body which everyone knows about 🙂
So True!!
Well said one day at a time
Worse Regret!! Not putting myself before others. Self care is crucial! Others can disappoint. Doing to much for others is not always rewarding. Love yourself first!!!
Yes, I spent the best years of my life giving/doing too much for other people. My daughter and my grandparents were the only one who seemed to acknowledge it. Now I'm pushing 60 and have the energy my grandfather had at 80.
At 23 you're hugging your Dad. That's a blessing of being younger, hug your parents more and forgive them for mistakes, they're only human. At 53, last Christmas, I was with my Dad when he passed away at 84 yrs old. We were extremely close. He was my best friend. One of his lines was, "Life is like a roll of toilet paper, the closer you get to the end the faster it spins." Hahaha It sort of goes with "The days are long but the years are short." Love your videos. My advice at 53 is the old saying, "stop and smell the roses."
❤
yeh forgive their mistakes. it's also good to have space from them so you see them objectively. i didn't and now that's not possible.
NOW is the best age.... and do your best to make it that way❤️🙋🏻♀️
Best Advice!!!
Well said!
Not gonna lie, shed a tear after watching this. I'm 42 and I always panicked about getting old, however each moment in life should be enjoyed, so just live the moment
oh, enjoy, forgive, and be light-hearted because you will be my age, hopefully, and you need to still have a healthy body and mind so you can still have life to look forward to. Be kind to the people that deserve your kindness. I'm a little mean in that sense.
There are two certainties in life; death and taxes. There is nothing you can do to avoid either. The important thing is to set goals for yourself. Accomplishing goals is very satisfying. Once you achieve a goal, set a new one; keep learning, and keep growing.
Oh my lord! I had the same experience. I just sat down crying because I know I’m at a turning point in my life and it’s hard to choose knowing it’s on me to dictate my own life. I have to make a decision
I’m starting to think that having less of most things is probably better
No need to panic, enjoy life :)
I am a 59 year old man. If you say the best age is 23, well it was not the best time for me. I was thrown out of the house, had just graduated from university, had no money (but no debt), living alone in a semi-basement with a futon on the floor. I had just started a new job in real estate and did not particularly enjoyed it. I don’t agree either that the best time to settle down with someone is at the age of 26. I was still immature at that age to get married and start a family. For me, the best years began when I met my wife at the age of 42. We bought a nice house together, I was not interested in dating other women. We travelled to many beautiful places. Today, I am fortunate enough that I don’t need to work anymore, I only accept invitation to go out with people that I really enjoy the company, I have a lot of free time, can pretty much do or buy whatever I like. I was able to keep in good shape so I hope the years ahead will be good. My best advice to people that are 23 is don’t worry, things ALWAYS work out at the end if you work at it. Also, don’t get involved in worthless arguments with people, be a good person and be patient.
I absolutely agree with you. Suggesting that a particular age is the best at which to do a particular thing is to put unnecessary pressure on some people. And usually it's not true. Things work out differently for different people and usually it's best not to rush into anything. Just live in the moment and enjoy every second of it
i love this comment!!
I'm 61. That study finding that 23 is the best age - not worth the paper it was written on. My 20's were a disaster. Then life got really tough. Clarity started a bit into my 50's. At 60+ I have clarity. Being young sucks. I wouldn't go back for all the tea in China.
Totally agree! I'm 71. I didn't kick the need for the societal approval that being in a couple brings till I was 65. Life is good.
I love this person. God bless you.
Ageing is a gift from God
I am writing down that closing statement, sir.
Yes, I feel very free, content and at peace in my 60s.
56 totally agree! Each decade has had amazing things. I'm looking forward to my 60s, 70s, and 80s!
Makes me realize how valuable is to live in the present moment instead of getting frustrated about how fast our life go by. Keep up the good work brotha!!
Thank you man!
If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it! FB
We look back in life because we don't know where we are heading. The one who is absolutely clear will be excited for future to unfold and never look back how fast it went.
When I was 23 my friend from school got killed in a car crash. Im 52 now and I think about difficult years Ive had since then, years that he never had. When youre young youre anxious and dont know how to value life or yourself> Take the time to get to know people and you will know yourself. When you are sad and depressed go out and help others or take care of animals. This simple act and the gratitude you receive will nourish your soul more than any drug.
I’m in my 70’s and I feel the freest of my whole life.
Turning 30 was the most depressing birthday because of my mindset. I thought that I was getting old, and my imagination looked forward to the rest of my life just getting older and going downhill.
😀 I was so wrong. My favorite decade was my 40’s, you have gained some wisdom and you still have the energy of your 20’s, at least I did. 50’s were wonderful, 60’s were great.
My 70’s took a minute to adjust to, but they also happened during COVID, so we were all thrown a bit.
It’s 2023 and I am experiencing the greatest peace, love, and joy of my life. I think that it’s because at this age, I am single and on a fixed income, so it’s not about money. At this age, my focus is so outward, loving God, loving people, enjoying the most simple things in life, and being so thankful.
Be encouraged young man, you have many decades of your best years ahead of you. 🥰
Thank you brother. I’ve never financially supported a content creator but your content - this one in particular - really touched me deeply.
Keep living with your eyes and heart so open and I believe your next 30 years are likely to be more fulfilling than you imagined.
Thank you so much from a 53 year old American living in Sweden who is grateful for having come in contact with you today
Thank you so much Tony. I'm glad this video could do this for you. You're amazing!
I’m 25 and at this point in my life I feel pretty content
15-24 was a whirlwind but now I honestly feel like I’m only going upwards from here and it’s exciting
@@Sprouht you only 23?😅
This series of videos is a work of art!
My 30s were better than my teens and 20s because I did a lot of work on myself through a serious commitment to therapy. This also pre-loaded a lot of self-understanding that caused my 40s to be even better, my 50s still better and now just turning 60, I have every reason to think they will be even better too. I recommend anyone in their teens/twenties to get into some serious therapy and self-work to be able to make the most of the decades ahead. But if you're older than that, it's never too late to find a good therapist and start working on yourself. I'm so glad I did that in my teens/20s. It has paid off big time.
I'm 23 and doing therapy. I completely agree. Only after a year I can see big changes and I'm happier than I've ever been. I hope more people are going to realise this in the future!
I am 29 and I feel way more confident then 10 years ago. The older I get the more I feel I become what I am supposed to be. Can't wait until I am a 80 year old guru
I (19) always feel like I don't need therapy because my mental health problems are not serious such as a little social anxiety so I don't have friends and I speak not as much as other people would usually do in my age
Hopefully soon I'll be able to bring myself to call a therapist.. because I'm feeling not too well but I always feel like it's a part of life or sth
I’m with the lady who said the fifties are AWESOME. I know who I am and what I want and I don’t care what other people think about my decisions, how I look, what I wear, how men see me, it’s amazing! Plus I’ve been through therapy, I’m happy, not struggling financially like in my younger years. I’m (relatively) healthy and my kids are pretty much grown and self-sufficient. It’s the most satisfied I’ve ever been.
I wasn't "aging" negatively until my mid-40s when I had to give up running, an activity central to my sense of self. Bodily pain at 40 that used to come and go is now chronic and "managed" at 50. My advice for anyone is don't take for granted your ability to move through the world pain-free. Pain will impact your ability to travel and enjoy life, and you will hit limits within a short amount of time. The other challenge is losing connection with the culture that once catered to you in your youth. At 50, I have very little in common with most 25 year olds... if you can, try to bridge that divide, and spend time with younger people... and the main reason why is that we're all in this life together, and can learn from each other.
I’m in the same situation. I had to stop running in 2020. Chronic knee and ankle pain. Plantar fasciitis. I ran for years. It was the best mental health activity. Now i go for walks, and hikes, but it’s not quite the same. I am grateful to be able to still move. I knew one day my running would stop but i thought it would be much further down the road. I’m recovering from a sprained knee right now but I’m thankful i can get around mostly on one crutch. I don’t take anything for granted.
Have you tried cross training on a bike or more physical and conditioning exercises?
@@Tigerbrown44 Running is a beautiful thing, and it's true, once a runner, always a runner... even when we can't run! For those who get it, as you do, nothing more needs to be said about it. There is no replacing it, and walking and hiking are just different activities all together. But we move on and find some other way of engaging with life and feeling connected with our bodies, am I right? Cheers.
@@runningbeard7380 you are right. I’m going to run again one day. Maybe not as far and as fast. And it will be glorious.
The peak of my life was at 27, I took a risk and moved overseas. I’m 33 now and I still feel amazing. I think taking action and prioritizing what works for you will keep you floating through life..
May I know how you choose a degree to do & career? I'm trying to do that & I feel so lost
@@autumn399me too and I’m older, and still a uni drop out
You're so good at getting perfect strangers to open up to you in a meaningful way. Great video.
Thank you so much Daniel!
Canadians
Being positive is the secret of keeping yourself young and don’t get upset about everything ,life is beautiful ❤️
I feel age doesn’t matter as long as you are happy and how you carry on life
I just watched your video, and I'm glad it showed up in my feed. I can't help but comment. My fifties and sixties were my life's best, most fulfilling, and happy decades. However, at age 69 I lost my husband of 46 years. I started my seventies as a widow. I'll be 73 this year, and, so far, I just feel my seventies are the end; it's over. I knew what to do when I supported my disabled veteran spouse and was always busy. I don't think I would feel my life was over if he was still here. I lost my companion and don't want another one. Besides that, however, I strongly feel that most of what I did in my life was meaningless. Raising my family, two children, and caring for my husband is what had meaning. Nothing beyond that really matters. I really haven't learned what life is about...except to love those around me the best that I can. Keep up the great videos. Great topic, and it seems meaningful!
I very much remember turning 30.
I was sad. I felt like since I was no longer in my 20's, I was old!
And of course, now that I'm 72, I realize how much I lost by feeling that way. I now feel like, you should just live in the moment, not in the number!
I'm 17 and used to think that people become boring once they turn 30, but a youtuber named Danny Ducan has proved otherwise bc he's 30 and still does a lot of things that a typical fun teenager would do 😂😂
Very well said
To those who feel old or label others as old anyone over 13 yrs old : you are sad if you think that. My wife is a therapist and said that only the ones who missed out on life their youth and are mentally filled with toxicity feel old under 50. Is it a sad reality.
@@iiCounted-op5jxTo those who feel old or label others as old anyone over 13 yrs old : you are sad if you think that. My wife is a therapist and said that only the ones who missed out on life their youth and are mentally filled with toxicity feel old under 50. Is it a sad reality.
My mother is 97 years old, yes sir!!! Still, even with physical limitations due to her age, mentally, she's much, much younger! She just loves having conversation with her great-grand-childrens... and her grand-childrens about their every day lives... So yes, definitely, life is a mind set... and the more the older people interact with younger ones, the better it is for them... (not talking about Alzheimers here of course)
My mom is 83 and so fun and dialled into everything going on. Knock on her door any day without notice and she'll answer looking fabulous - makeup, stylish clothes, jewelry. She's way more glamorous than me and we all love her for it.
Yeah Nah, at 59 life is less stressful. Kids grown, kind of know how to look after themselves. You must have dogs in your life, they give so much love. But they also teach the family about the cycle of life. Learn how to bear grief and finally accept loss. Try and stay healthy, the older you get you lose the fear of ageing. Peace Love from Australia ✌🏼🇦🇺🌏
Same. 23 is peak. No way..
I’m 38, physically and mentally in the prime of my life, I’m probably one of the few folk out there who are genuinely happy.
I have zero interest in material vanity and purposely live as simple and as stress free as possible.
It was a journey getting there but so worth it and I wouldn’t change anything about that journey.
Stay happy people!
I am one of those few too 😅. I enjoy sleeping on the floor and can live as simple as nomads 😅 there was a time when i worried so much had gathered so much stuff but instead of happiness they gave me stress 😩 I throw away and gave away so much stuff and live a very minimalist happy stressless life now 😊
We are all so different. I was penniless at 23 and crazy curious about the whole world. Life began at 50. At 80, I am invisible.
Just be loud and obnoxious. Easy to get attention if you want it. But even at 37 I often feel invisible
I totally agree. You’re on stage, and the spotlight is on you between the ages of 30 to about 45. Then you feel invisible for a few years before realizing the benefits of being invisible. 🤓
Being invisible does have its advantages.
But you aren't invisible to yourself! Do your things you like and enjoy!
I'm 65 and although I would love to look younger, have faster reaction times and have a body that was strong and fit, I wouldn't trade the person I've become to get it.
We live in a culture that worships youth. The expression "Youth is wasted on the young" is so true! I can honestly say that I'm probably the happiest I've ever been now in my sixties. If you take care of yourself ( body, mind and spirit) these can be the best years of your life because you've figured out so much about how to live life and learned so much from your mistakes and experience. There's a deep appreciation and a preciousness that comes and an ability to live much more in the present. But everyone's life and experiences are different. My 20s and 30s and even 40s were stressful and often tumultuous. I say it gets greater later. Just enjoy whatever age you are. They each have their blessings and pitfalls.
I'm 65 and agree with every word you said. I spent too much time worrying and stressing over things that weren't within my control when I was younger, it took me a long time to find my limitations and accept them. Now I'm as happy as I was when I was 23.
You killed it with this video. "The days are long, but the years are short". Loved that one.
Your dad was absolutely right. Each decade of living provides us with hints that make us better on how we live the next decade.
I'm 67.5 years young. I feel great physically. No pains and lots of energy. Mentally I'm very happy with what I have become. Looking forward to as many years as I can get.
Thank you very much for your comment. I’m 19 years old, and you seem exactly like who I’ll want to be when I’m at your age. These insights from older folks have been inspiring to my young, naive brain.
@@casmar2042 Yep. Life is wonderful. Don't sweat the small things in life. When we're young we're sometimes overwhelmed by it, as well as excited by what the future may have in store for us. We may not even be sure what we want from life. All of that is a lot to handle, and most of it of no concern. My recommendation, just go with the flow. It all works out in the end. It really does.
Each life is unique. Do your best. You may not get the ideal life that you envision now. But, you will get the life that you work hard to build. Keep learning. Find a career that you like and be the best that you can be at it. Stay away from smoking, alcohol, drugs. That is just a dead end.
Once you get to my age, hopefully earlier in your life, you will find out that family, relationships, health, happiness and kindness are the critical qualities.
Learn wisdom from the Stoic philosophers. From Socrates, "Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle".
Only stumbled upon this now. Good stuff. That 57yo lady mentioning she cares much less about what other people think hits super hard, especially in modern day and age when so many people care about appearances. I wish more younger people understood this.
I've recently turned 30 and it feels like I'm lost and scared. But It also feels like I'm getting more resilient and mature.
Thank you so much for these interviews.
I'm 43, I know I'm have experience some stuff that others will not want nor need to experience.
I'm thank God for where I'm now. These are the major event that made me a stronger person:
1st decade - witnessed domestic abuse at home. My father passing.
2nd decade - immigrated to the UK. Being bullied for not being able to speak English. Being sexually harassed by step dad. Being cheated on and broke up with my boy friend who I lost my virginity to.
3rd decade - completed my degree. started my first full time job and career. Met the love of my life.
4th decade - bought a home with the love of my life and moved in together, got married to him. Divorced him without children. Got baptised and served on my first mission trip.
5th decade - know that I am a child of God, loved and highly favoured by God. I have hope in Jesus and his salvation.
May the spirit of joy, love and peace fill everyone's home, neighbourhood and community this Christmas. 🙏💖
Please read Qur'an to understand Jesus as well
Great testimony
Everything you went through was very difficult and you have overcome it, I congratulate you, but it is my duty to tell the truth about this matter, may Allah guide you.
We are all servants of Allah and Jesus Christ is also a servant of Allah, not his son. Just as Allah created Adam from dust, He also created Jesus without a father. the fact that he created Jesus without a father does not show that he is his father, on the contrary, it is proof that he is capable of anything and will do whatever he wants to do. It is shirk to think that Allah is the father of Jesus. God is one and omnipotent.
"The state of Jesus in the sight of Allah is like the state of Adam. Allah created him (Adam) from dust. Then he said, 'Be!' and gave birth." (Âl-i imrân, 3/59)
"When the prophets gather before him on the Day of Judgment, God asks, 'O Jesus, son of Mary! Are you the one who says to people, "Take me and my mother as gods other than Allah?"' Jesus says: "I forgive you from all kinds of shortcomings. I cannot say anything that is not true. If I have said it, you already know it. You know what is in my heart: I cannot know what you do not reveal. Surely you are the only one who knows the unseen and the hidden things. .' " (Maide, 5/116)
I wanted to share these verses with you in the Qur'an.
Just had a 3 hour talk with my dad about getting old. Wanted to see more perspectives on it, and you gave me just that. I’m 22 and he’s 59, and everything we talked about was mentioned in this video. The idea of age being a mindset and that these years are just chapters in our book. I was feeling like you, like life was at its peak, but I really do have a new look on this whole thing. I really enjoyed this video man thanks for this.
I’m turning 61 in a couple of months, but I feel and look better physically than I have in a long time. At age 57 I had weight loss surgery, and within two years lost 230 pounds and achieved a weight that I could only dream about. I’m also on testosterone replacement therapy, so I feel like I have the strength and energy of a much younger man. My only regret is I didn’t do this 30 years ago when I was a young father and could have had more energy to play with my kids. But at the end day there’s no use thinking that way, the main thing is to enjoy this incredible gift that I’ve been given. My advice to young people in their twenties who don’t know what to do with their lives: if you don’t have children and family responsibilities, take some risks, dare to do something adventurous. In any event, enjoy each day as it comes.
I immigrated to and grew up in the Bay Area, California. I've wanted to create a salon of female elders who I could ask these exact same questions to. You've done (and continue to do) the work for me and for the rest of us. Thank you so much!
I discovered that once I broke that barrier of worry and just let it go and live life in good faith, every single time it just kinda worked out. My biggest regret will always be the time I wasted holding myself back.
I'm 55. The hardest birthday of my life was 29. It felt like the end of my 20s and even though I had an MBA and a "good" corporate job, my life felt empty and I felt lost. Turning 30 felt like a new beginning; I began to explore and experience life - and I never stopped. I've had plenty of ups and downs along the way but I can honestly say, I really love being 55 - and I want to live a long, healthy, happy life so taking care of myself in all of the ways is a top priority - right alongside enjoying the journey.
Great video man. At the age of 27 I feel great and know the best years are still ahead. The only thing that I sometimes dwell on is that I wish I would have pursued my dreams and passions at an earlier age. If I had one piece of advice for people younger then me it would be do what you want and do it NOW! Don't wait for that perfect time because it wont come.
and the older you get, the more responsibilities you have! Thanks Evan.
Yeah, a steady job and career growth take up your time. Raising kids possibly?
Another Bt of mine advice …don’t dwell on the past. Change things if you can but if you can’t don’t worry about it just forge on ahead. Worry won’t change a damn thing.
One of the hardest lessons in getting older is accepting that there's no going backward, there's no magical elixir that will keep you forever 25 or 35 years old. There's an infinite number of ways to hide from your own life and evade the inevitable... we can binge watch show after show, self-medicate, just "disappear" by not engaging with our own life. Living is terrifying because death is the inevitable end of living. If you avoid "living" maybe you can avoid death? Of course this is not so, but what does "living" mean? It means accepting that our time is limited, that as we age we lose bits of our lives along the way... and experiencing life NOW is all we have. That means putting a lot more emphasis on sitting with your family or friends and just existing together, having conversations, enjoying their presence in the here-and-now. My dad and I did not speak throughout most my 20s, but eventually, we grew closer, and shared a love of hiking. Although I value those hiking trips to Colorado, what I missed out on most was just sitting in his kitchen on a random weekend, drinking coffee and getting to know him better. It is the every day mundane things that can make up a life and make it worthwile. I realize I'm on a long ramble here... but I can't emphasize enough how important it is to communicate and listen to the people in your life and just really try and understand them.
ah sorry to tell you, at 27 the best years of your life just passed. Thats why good childhoods are such a gift, those will be the best days of your life if you have good parents.
I'm 40. When I was younger I was a lot more reserved/shy, afraid to speak up and cared too much what people thought of me. As I have gotten older I might still be quiet, but not shy anymore and can tell I am starting to not care what other people think anymore. In the past when people smarted off at me it bothered me, but now I smart right back at them and let it roll off a duck's back. The body is getting older, but the mind has gotten wiser.
I am 55 - when I was 23 i was going to take the world by storm, lived in NYC had a job, apartment, and enough money to buy food rent and beer, other than that - meeting women !! ! Fast Forward 32 years - I have had, and continue to have, an amazing life. Although my wife died of cancer recently, I have an amazing child, beautiful home, a lot of loving family and friends, my health is (I think) excellent. Keep living because being sedentary and stress will kill you
I am so proud of you, 23 and you are doing AMAZING! Keep reaching the highest, anything is possible. You got this xo
great editing skills! i loved your series on interviews with people of all age, especially the older ones. I'm 23 too and I've been trying to navigate life and find out what makes me happy. After a year of therapy, and a bit of research, I'm feeling way better about the experience of life, and I've grown to enjoy most days and be really grateful for all I have, no matter how many things I don't have yet or I've lost, which is something I thought not possible. I was always thinking: "if i had this ..., i would be happier". bullshit. friends and loved ones really help to make your days truly extraordinary, not gonna lie. I wish you loads of success, you seem like a very motivated, ambitious and down to earth guy, and I hope you reach your goals and become very known on youtube. I thought you were already when I first started seeing your youtube shorts.
Wow what a great way to make people reflect on aging. I absolutely loved the different answers of all your people interviewed.
I'm 62 and basically my happiest. 23 was not that great. With age comes realizing your real self and being comfortable with who you are and appreciating that.
Loved your vid, I am a 73 y/o Latina who went back for degree at age,35. Finished at age 40 and became a writer/developer who designed programs to help youth and community development. At same time I helped run non-commercial radio stations, currently I am Vice President of a Latino Radio Network. Became a beach bum for2 years in Seal Beach, in my mid-fifties, retiring at age,62. Now finally living in Retirement apartment with other oldies, but feel 10 years younger and I am enjoying my life. Btw lived in LA for over 35 years, now living in my hometown. Enjoy your life, follow your dreams and don’t let age define you.🎉
Wow as a community radio enthusiast, your comment caught my attention. Glad you followed all your dreams. Regards from Cape Town, SA
@@ngalahansel6066 thank you for your comment, I started out as a volunteer after divorce at age 34. My friend who started this is a Zapoteco.
What I got from this was appreciate the age that you are at right now as much as you can. Each age and stage of life has it's own potential and wisdom. That man that is 45 years old and said he would like to be 35 right now I started tearing because I actually will be 35 hitting my mid 30's in few months and probably when I am 45 I will say the same thing as him. So appreciate where you are in this moment.
Honestly when I found these shorts I couldn’t stop watching them, and also consider the same question myself. One of the best and realest things/subject matters I’ve seen in a very long time, I hope there’s more to come. Thank you.
Keep doing videos like this. These videos are so insightful and you have an old soul! 💯💯💯
This deserves more views 🥹🥹 love this series. Keep making more please!
Thank you so much! Your interviews / conversations with older people in parks, cities of the World... are incredibly inspireing and full of wisdom. Im a ZEN Buddhist at the age of 55. I had in Germany my civil service time (instead if army 10:11 ) from the age of 19 to 21, studies at university from 21 to 27, 2 years in Spain and Marocco, 3 years work as an insurance agent, then I turned back to university to study Teacher at public schools, worked in it with pleasure from 35 to 50, then I was liberated from the job for beeing a
"Housewife/ Houseman", to help my children wirh school, cook for the family and so on...Now I want to go back to work, but not as a teacher. For me every singular step was a pleasure to develop myself. Life is a lifelong Love Affaire, if we want to. Thanjs a lit for your genious conversations. I m often impressed by the deepness of the answers!!! Cornelius from Germany
This is seriously such a great message. I've been thinking so much about aging and making the most out of life. It's great to hear first-hand experiences from people!
Glad it helped!
Dude Awesome video! Second video I’ve caught and you are putting out excellent content. Definitely continue on with it. What great experiences. I’m 43 and watching this because I’m in a scared ass stage and probably haven’t done yet what you’ve accomplished. Thanks for this and all the stories from those interviewed. For the 57 year young woman, gorgeous you are and loved how you had that enthusiasm, gives me hope still.
I’m 71 I have no regrets I love every experience I’ve had good and bad and thank GOD for them all 🙏🏻
I'm 61 and just retired a couple of months ago. Your video was very meaningful and inspiring to me, as I am now redefining myself and coming to grips with who I will be the rest of my life. I really enjoyed what your father said, that he takes life in 10 year increments. I feel like I'm at the beginning of one of those increments now. It's scary, but it's life. Body is creaky so very important to keep it moving and functioning. My Dad told me to focus on one thing to keep me engaged. He chose finance back when he retired, but for me he suggested health. Great advice!
I am 37 and I definitely feel that my best years are ahead. I watched a few of your videos and they made me realize I am living an extraordinary life, really. I am so thankful for every day on this wild, crazy, colorful, joyful, beautiful earth.
A thought provoking vid- thank you! I'm 65, feel like I'm 25 but with a way better brain and understanding of life. Your bod deteriorates but your mind and heart get better with age. Can't believe the image in the mirror- that's an old guy! I feel a lot more settled than when I was younger, and am able to handle the constant plot twists life throws at you. Really like what the one lady said- you stop caring about what others think. That's powerful. Again- thank you for this vid!
Will! - I'm 69! For some reason , from my youth I have viewed 70 as the official beginning of old and endings. But I think that you and the study you mentioned just changed my entire perspective of what old means. Not sure how or why, but that fear of aging just vacated me! Here's hoping...and thank you young man! Keep doing what you've doing 'cause it's working! Follow your ❤️
Great. You are never too old, keep that in mind. (I am 22)
I'm approaching decade 4 and here's what I know so far:
- The truth will indeed set you free. It might make you uncomfortable to admit, but it's better in the long run. If you're not being honest with others, respect yourself enough to be honest with you.
- In order to get friends you have to learn to be one. First with yourself, then with others.
- Nothing is personal. People do what they do because of what they believe to be true about them. It has nothing to do with you.
-The energy you emit is what you will attract. It's all starts with you. If it's in your life, more often than not, you created it.
- Love is the most powerful energy there is.
Earlier today was the first time I had come across your videos and now I finished watching about 20 of them. Really like your content. I was also happy to see you taking shots in my home town Budapest. Keep up the good stuff!
My thirties were the best decade of my life.
In my twenties, I cashed in my retirement savings and did a grand tour of Europe.
My one regret is not buying a remote piece of land and building a cabin on it.
Life is unpredictable and it is comforting to know you have your own place to go to.
especially with the current exhorbitent rents and cost of buying a home.
Love the content of your videos. You excel at getting people to be open and receptive to your questions via your relaxed, respectful and kind demeanor. I was amazed by the studies that say 23 is the optimum age. My head instinctively nodded in agreement as 23 is my reference point for the happiest, most joyous and “alive” time in my life. That said, I am 72, going on 73 in late May. Life becomes increasingly better and rich with meaning each passing year. Many dreams have been fulfilled and continue to come true. I think most importantly, I am at peace within my being. But I do miss my Mother and Father.
This was REALLY a good idea.
I have an appointment on Wednesday to have a lump examined and I've been panicking and I came upon your site.
My advice to myself would have been ..you did it right...I was a comedienne so I was around a lot of funny bright people,I was married once but that ended and I saw no reason to repeat that part of my life,in my later years I took care of my family,my mom and friends,and I retired to a small town where I continued to try to do "good deeds".
If my diagnosis on Weds. Is dire,I will have completed a very satisfying life.
23 is not the peak. Continue to challenge yourself daily and every year is better than the previous.
Thanks! Your video was enlightening. I experienced a profound sense of myself while listening to everyone's stories. I appreciate that so many were willing to share and I believe that everyone can learn something about themselves from these stories.
Why is your comment different from mine?
I am 71 and so very happy. As a matter of fact in many ways I'm the happiest I've ever been. As you age, there are so many people to love, so much to learn, so much to cherish and be grateful for. I am blessed. I wish the same to each of you. Explore each day, week, month, year with relish. Expect challenge. It all adds up. Blessings!
One of the best videos that I've watched in months. Thank you for bringing this one.
I like your videos, you ask limited but intelligent, sensible questions, and the key here is, you ask that set of questions to so many people, it's refreshing to hear from your subjects the varying answers to the same set of questions, brilliant production..
very much agree, these type of vids are my favourite as it actually gives honest insight into other peoples lives
My best years ... ? I was an awesome little girl, a phenomenal teen, a mind-blowing young adult, a spectacular professional and awesome in middle age, and I’ve been sensational in the decades that followed ... The past few years of my life have been better than ever so if you want to live a great life, love the truth, reject all lies, embrace the happiness in your heart and soul and mind and body and enjoy your magnificence.
Yes, we do stop caring what others think of us but only because we’ve learned to love ourselves and know in our hearts that we are great just the way we are. It’s an amazing freedom. Getting older isn’t frightening, it’s a blessing! Every day gives us more opportunities to meet more wonderful people, see more beautiful sights, read more books! We never stop learning and growing in our minds, we only become more confident, secure and loving (hopefully!). Embrace life at every age!
Im 23 as well and struggling a lot in life, maybe it's my perception but these videos are giving me a broader perspective in life so thank you for that
I’m happy being 63 & a half & I can’t wait to get to 64! I speak my thruth when I say I absolutely love growing older! Why? All ages I was more grown up. At 20 I was more like 30…………Hated 40 felt horrid, felt a little lost. But 50 & 60 were amazing! Now I’m financially independent & I do only what I want too do, wear my collection of clothes, only drink champagne 🥂 🍾 when I choose alcohol. Love my family & a few close friend’s, love my dog’s!
Many people including me seem to have a problem with 40 or 40s, but I don't know why. So, to all in their 40s: Be patient! For me, the 50s were the best decade.
@@featherstone5838 I love being 63 & 3 quarters! I’m naughty 👿 but extremely nice 😊 & I don’t care about much. I just relish the good left of life!
It does not matter how old you are,
for me, as long as I have my health,
I am super happy!! Folks, try not to be
afraid of the future. Whatever happens,
it's going to happen whether you like it or not. We are all going to die anyway.
So, live your life to the fullest. Life is too short to worry about and be unhappy. Plz enjoy life and be nice to each other!!
Im 23 and struggling to remain content with my career change. Moving into a new career was scary for me and honestly with school i still have doubts but.. I think it will work out. The experiences are amazing and I love to hear the experiences here! Very encouraging to hear the lives of others!
Your content is unmatched! I love what you are doing, bringing real, honest content to this platform which is enlightening, relatable and can make one feel less isolated. I would also like to add, although age can play a factor in this life and used as a barometer as to where we "should" or "could" be, I think what's more defining is what it is you are doing with your life and how you feel about yourself and for age to take a backseat to this. You seem quite happy to be doing what you are, be it traveling and having the courage to go up to strangers and ask them these questions and getting the reception that you are. Bravo!!!! I say don't put a number on it....just keep following your desires and it's anybody's guess which age or decade will be your best!!!
I teach senior fitness. Aging shouldn't be feared, if you keep your muscles strong and flexible. Weakness, frailty, and repetitive falling accidents aren't inevitable aging outcomes, if you take preventive measures to maintain your body. Thank you for this video. I uploaded it to my site. You did a marvelous job. Comments are inspiring and educational.
I'm 63 years old. I truly believe that the best things you can do for yourself are to eat a mostly healthy diet...treat yourself now and then.....DEFINITELY have a workout program and maintain it throughout your life. Always keep learning. Read as much as you can whether books or online and watch videos that teach you various things. Like I said, I am 63. Yes, it freaks me out. Many people are now dying its seems all around me. But I feel good. I feel healthy. I certainly do not feel 63! I believe I look pretty good too...Most people don't believe me when I tell them I am 63 years old.
I love these videos. They give me insight. It kind of freaks me out that some folks in their 40s look older than that.
Life is not a linear trek. It has ups and downs, good, bad, and everything in between.
I am super proud of you, a 23 y/o guy who is interested and listening. Aging can be described in many ways, and each person's experience is unique. We are all as individual as our fingerprints. So are our journeys.
I am 63, but somehow don't always look that old. When I was 17, people thought I was 12. Lol
When I was 22 and married, an Avon lady came to the door and asked for my mother. 😂 And so it continues...
But looking "younger" is not everything. I have gained wisdom and knowledge. Still feel 17 on the inside. My joints say otherwise. I lost my parents early, and then my son. He was 23, same age as you. I believe grief is a major contributor to physical pain.
Please stay positive, and keep doing these interviews. Your life is going to get richer with age, in so many ways, and there is nothing to fear. It's all unknown at this point, what tomorrow or next year holds.
I recommend that you find a balance between moving forward (physically, mentally, and spiritually) and your best assets will be: 1. KINDNESS to others and to yourself, and
2. ADAPTABILITY as you move through this thing called LIFE.
You are doing such an amazing job with these videos! Thank You for sharing them. 💛
Unluckily life is not only how you face it in terms of attitude or mindset... It definitely helps, but you need some familiar stability and some money around you... I love your channel.
I’m 58, I feel I spend my life trying to collect stuff, and now I’m trying to get rid of it. I love my 50s ,I’m looking ahead with dread but I know I’m going to like it because I appreciate my family first and things last. I’ve learned losing old friends is is so painful.
Ditto. I am still young enough to do things, smart enough to know what to avoid. I can appreciate the simple things now.
Too many Possessions just end up owning you
Oh... wow! Thank you very much for this video! I fully understand your feelling! I'm 23 too... I don't know what to say....
Just thank you! I feel comfort and support. Ah.. Why do i want to cry? 😭 I'm touched
Your videos are beautiful. There is so much great advice and knowledge. Aging is not scary, you just gain perspective and experience.
I am 41 years old. During my teenage years, specifically from 15 to 22, I constantly worried about what others thought of me and how they would perceive me. This concern persisted until I turned 23, at which point I felt that this period was the pinnacle of my life. Despite this, I still had apprehensions about the future and what it might bring. It was when I reached 27 that I began to realize that I was getting older. The following decade, from 28 to 38, seemed like a blur because I was engrossed in my work and dedicated to my daily gym routine. However, when the COVID-19 pandemic struck and lockdown measures were imposed, I finally had the opportunity to reflect on past events in my life. Now, at the age of 41, I am actively researching and seeking to understand how it feels to be older so that I can mentally and emotionally prepare myself for that stage of life.
Yup, i was very happy at 69. I'm even happier now at 74. I think the reason is that i've been blessed with good health and i have a strong Christian faith. I struggled a lot when i was young and worried way too much. We let things go as we get older.
You are mature and asking yourself important questions at just 24.
I wouldn't worry if I were you, you are asking yourself the right questions. You ponder, and you have the perfect mindset to appreciate life.
It's rare. Especially at your age.
This is wonderful
Your best years are definitely in front of you. Awesome channel. Thank you. 🙏
I think you should do longer interviews. I see this, and I think man... I have so much advice and so many things I could say.
Would love to see different people of different ages having longer interviews.
Yeah. Would love more indepth discussions from those guys
Without a doubt, I am happier now than ever in my life - and I just turned 60. I worked since I was 12. I've endured a lot of emotional loss, accidents, etc. but I'm now retired, celebrating my 5th wedding anniversary (we were both widowed), and enoying all the toys and experiences I could never afford before. We play in the pool - my 63 year old husband has no trouble being aroused - hey, its our own pool! We grow a lot of veggies and fruits and plan on traveling soon. We're happy. We learn a language daily and play 'brain games' often. Life is good! Don't give up hope at age 23.
Best videos on you tube right now, great ideia. Those interviews give us lot of insights in what and how to leave in order to make the best of our lives! Bravo!
Godspeed Sprouht. Thanx for the smiles.
I’m 60. I’ve enjoyed your series on aging (the shorts and this longer episode). I just retired from teaching elementary school in USA. I am reliving my early twenties again, when I was caring for my daughter. Now it’s 3 grandsons (8,5 & 1). Child caring years, for me, are the best years in life. Your interviewee said it best, “The days are long, but the years are short.” I savor every day, every moment, with my grandsons, even if it’s been a particularly long day, because the older you get the more aware you are of the years being short. It’s a mathematical ratio. Each year becomes a smaller portion of your lifespan as you age. 1:23 vs. 1:60. I remember thinking as a teenager, being a “kid” was sooo long ago and becoming an “adult” was an almost unimaginable distant future.
Here’s another thought to keep in mind: You always know when it’s the first time you do something, but you never (usually) know when it is it is the last.” No one is promised tomorrow. So savor those times with your loved ones. Tell them you love them. Don’t rush out without without a proper goodbye, a hug, a kiss. Momento morí.
"I remember thinking as a teenager, being a “kid” was sooo long ago" is so true I'm 17 rn and it feels like my childhood was 100 years ago but the last 3 years of my life have flew by
Thank you, I love this sharing
Im 37 and i look like 20s
Some of my best life i have been discovered been living overseas, and the other big cities, also travelling to see the world, what i really thanked to myself is not getting married in my 20s. Now im a Lawyer and i think im ready to discover more of my best life. Good luck anyone ❤️💪
“The days are long and the years are short.”
Thanks for this❤
these videos are amazing. This culture does not respect older people and the transmission of knowledge between generations has largely ground to a halt. These videos do a great job of filling that need. Thank you!
Turning 30 in one month, well let me tell you, I've been doubling my daily collagen intake and depressing for no God damn reasons... I've watched this type of videos before though today they're resonating at a deeper level. Thank you! Gotta get up and celebrate my life.
My thirties was great decade - a nice balance between youthful stupidity and maturing self confidence. Enjoy yours!
When I turned 28 and crept closer to 30 I panicked as well. I’m not sure why women specifically panic when they approach thirty.
I am 36 now. Let me tell you, thirties are phenomenal! I laugh that I even thought turning thirty was a big deal.
In your thirties you are still young but also mature enough to be taken seriously by people older than you. Your career can really take off. Manage your money well and you will set your set up for a solid and secure future.
Do the work to learn what matters most to you. Then align your life, friendships, decisions with that.
In my 60's... ENJOY, you're a spring chicken! I'm definitely more fit than most my age, but won't lie -- I, naturally, looked better in my youth. Having said that, I appreciate life A LOT more now and regret discontinuing some of the activities I loved because I was "too busy." My mother died in her sleep at home in her 97th year with the sharpest mind, sense of humour etc. Yes, she was physically frail, though still agile, but her curiosity and love of life stayed with her till her final day this last May.
I started following you because you go out and ask people how old they are and how it feels to be that age. I was always embarrassed to ask this question to older people because I didn’t want them to feel old or offended but very much was curious how it felt to be that age. Since I was a child I always wonder what it felt like to be older. I started wondering when I was 5. My brother was 17 and I thought he was old and felt bad for him. Then I was 17 and I felt kind of old and wondered what it was like to be in the late 20s, it looked so old. Then I got to be in my late 20s and had so many things that I wanted to do but didn’t do anything. Then my thirties came and I felt great. At about 37 I started having panic attacks when I would go for a run. I went to the dr and he couldn’t figure it out. I started gaining so much weight no matter how much food I cut out. I’m now 45 and still can’t run much or lift weights because I run out of breath. I now feel old. I feel old because now I see how the body ages, the mind does not age but the body does. I now wish that I would have taken it easy on my body instead of abusing it to work hard and always be at peak all the time. I never did drugs but I abused caffeine because I went to school in my thirties and held 2 jobs. I slept 4-5 hours and was always on the go. Take care of yourselves, we are vincible.