So proud of niam hlob! I wished more niam hlobs would have this type of strength!! Sister, you were so loved, you didn’t see niam hlob and her kids pain. You never suffered. But I’m glad karma got those who deserved it.
If I were the first wife I wouldn’t let my sons love ur dad too 😂. He loves ur mom and ur siblings more than the first wife. That’s what ur dad gets for marrying two wives.
As the saying goes, "You reap what you sow." Your father sowed bitterness and tears when he chose to marry a niamyau so he ended up reaping bitterness and tears in his old age. Your father chose this, everyone else was but a result of his bad life decisions! Don't fault others for not making your father's last years of life happy because he had hurt those others beyond what you can imagine since you were on the receiving end of his love, not his disregard and neglect. I feel badly that the kids always end up resenting each other because of the selfishness of a parent(s). Your father should have divorced his first wife before marrying your mother and that would have been a lot less troublesome for everyone concerned.
You are the daughters with a dad. You and your sister need to love him because he has always been there for you girls and your mom. The first wife has never have a husband since he married your mom, and your brothers have never been loved by their dad because of your mom and you kids.
A story from a niam yau child, niam loj is so evil according to her and her mother, the niam yau. Action speaks louder than words. Your father doesn't do anything good for his other children. He only cared about you and your mother. Your mother was stopping him from visiting niam loj. Stop playing victim. Your mother and father treated niam loj so bad but you won't tell us that part, you wanted us to pity your parents by telling us that niam loj phem phem. Let's hear from your half siblings.
You are only defending your dad because your mom is the second wife. Imagine if your dad did it to your mom- you would be upset too. Imagine if you were dried and your husband married a second wife! He only went back to stay with the first wife cause now he’s old and needs his sons. He made his own bed and will have to sleep in it.
I don’t even know why you’re complaining. It must be nice to get love from your dad always being being there for your mom and you! I wouldn’t want him in the end if I was his sons. Don’t blame on the first wife when he broke her heart and live with you guys. He only visited her because the elders said something!!! Stop being selfish like your dad, he didn’t love them now they don’t care. Sorry to give you a reality check!!
When u, the half sister, tries to blast your half brothers on youtube and instead it backfired on you. Lol. We are not as stoopid as u think. Most of us already know how it is with these kind of family dynamics. U don't need to tell us who is the bad one.
You are a daughter with a good heart, regardless of what anyone says you did your part as a child. Oneday your children will care for you the way you cared for your father.
I want to hear niam loj and your step siblings side of the story. I wonder if your husband marries another wife, would you still defend him like you defend your father.
Mi vivncaus aw kuv ntseeg tias koj zaj dabneeg koj tsis hais qhov phem uas koj niam koj txiv nkawv tau ua phem rau niam loj. Txogtxij koj cov nus niam loj yug tsis hlub koj txiv lawm ces, koj txiv yeej tsis hlub lawv. There was so many aspects where u point out about how ur father neglected the niam loj's children. I dint feel sorry for ur dad at all. He sure deserved what he sowed. We as audiences would love to hear from the niam Loj side of the story
Your brothers are not wrong for not wanting to get involved with your dad. From listening to you, your dad loved your mom n your sisters more. I hate the fact that hmong men can't never love both wives and their kids equally. I came from a family that men married multiple wives so I know how it is. Most men who had many wives, he will not receive much love for the kids....family are corrupted
You need to listen to your story with an open-minded and a sympathy heart. Calling niam loj siab phem. Action speaks louder than words. Your father doesn't love niam loj kids. They are not obligated to care for him. Your mother wanted your father 100 %, no sharing when he was young and well. Now she wanted to share with niam loj when he is on diapers. What a joke!
Omg stop bad mouth about niam loj and your step siblings it give me high blood pressure. Wait until your husband have another wife than you will understand.
Your father is a deadbeat dad to niam loj's children. Niam loj didn't txw them, they're nit blind or deaf so they can see and hear what your father. He's their role model, so they love him just the way he loved them.
Los txeeb luag tus txiv, thiab tseem ua niam yau nkaus xwb. Yog koj gus txiv ua li rau Koj no koj ho puas txawj mob siab thiab os. Npam tiag2 thiaj li yug tsis tau tub. Lawv aws, txawm ntiajteb no tsis muaj txiv neej lawm los txhob mus ntxeeb luag tus txiv os. Txhob chim os niam yau Koj twb au niam loj tus txiv lawm ces yuav qhov ko xwb os. Cas tseem coj Koj niam lub qi tsw lwj tuaj hais thiab nawj
Koj yog me nyuam xwb tsis tsim nyog koj yuav tuaj tham niam loj thiab cov tub phem npaum ub npaum no yog koj tham txog koj niam nej phem no mas zoo mloog dua txaj muag dhau lawm os lawv aw
Sister,I feel your love for your dad. I can relate to your story. My dad also had two wives. In the end, he died alone. As a daughter, we wished we could do more for them….life is not fair. Unfortunately, for them, they choose to walk a path that hurts some involved. If you lived and didn’t give proper love to your loved one, one cannot expect it to be given in return. Life is all about learning and growing…😢
No sorry for your dad, I don’t blamed niam loj, niam you los rhuav luag lub neej, niam loj ua tsis taus pojniam rau koj txiv……haha cas muaj tub thiab muaj ntxhais tag es tseem tias thaub tsis tau paum aim. Koj tsis tsimnyog tu siab rau niam loj thiab niam loj cov menyuam…..koj txiv twb tsis hlub lawv, THOV txhob BLAMED niam loj thiab niam LOJ cov menyuam THIAB txhob tias yog NIAM TXW cov menyuam, NOBODY TXW NO BODY they old enough to know right and wrong. Because I lived through that life
You ain't blame his first wife to feel resentment towards you guys, your dad did her wrong. Wouldn't you be mad if your husband went and married a new wife as well. She does not owe you guys anything, so if she is bitter let her.
Koj txiv tej nyiaj los yeej yog koj niam nej noj tag xwb . Niam yau yeej yog tus uas koj txiv tsoob tsoob laus nkoos xwb ne ces cia rau koj niam tu tiag Lau.
I am a niam yau born and this woman sound very biased. I do not dare make my dad suffer, but I can't help if he's suffering. His own choice. My half siblings and I are very closed and I love my stepmom a lot.
Your dad did it to himself. Since you and your sisters received your dad's love, you guys should take care of him. Also, you need to be more sympathetic to your niam loj. She was probably a loving/caring wife until the day your dad broke her by marrying your mom.
I come from a household of my dad marrying two wives, too. My mom being Niam Yau, and I could tell you that a father son relationship is close to non-existent. Of course, dad was around but only having the title of dad only. And with your dad having left niam lob to fend for her kids and herself, of course your half siblings not going to show your dad much love because dude was never around to love them.
Txhob muab lub txim pov rau niam loj os lov txog txij tus niam loj ua tau ib siab lawm ces yeej yog tus txiv coj tsis ncaj es niam loj thiaj li tsis quav ntsej lawm mas es twb yog tsis xav hlub tus niam loj lawm es thiaj li yuav niam yau lawm ces niam yau kuj los hlub los tiam los mos es niam yau twb los kav kiag niag txiv lawm ces niam yau thiab niam yau cov me nyuam kuj hlub los pob yog tus txiv coj ncaj2 ces 2 tug niam yeej sib haum yeej hlub nej txiv mas yus nros yus muab 1 tug pob txha rau 2 tug poj niam sib txeeb ces pab tsis tau thaum kawg ces tsis tau chaw tuag ntag. Koj niam twb txawj mob siab txawj khib thaum uas nej txiv mus tim nej niam loj lawv ces yeej yog tim nej niam xav noj kheej xav tau thaum hluas muaj zog zis thaum nej txiv muaj mob koj niam twb tsis xav tu thiab ne es nej txiv mus tim niam loj lawv los los nej niam twb txhob txwm ua kom nej txiv khib es txhob mus tim niam loj lawv lawm ces qhov no txhais tau tías koj niam yog tus phem tsis yog niam loj lawv phem nawb.
Me ntxhias aw yog yuav hais los mas koj niam yog tus siab phem nawb .thaum hluas nws twb paub nej txiv twb muaj poj niam nws twb txeeb koj niam loj tus txiv yav laus no koj niam twb tsis kam tu koj txiv yuav muab rau niam loj cov tub no tsis yog 2 tsis muaj koj niam lawv no mas lawv tsis kas mas thiaj yog tis lawv os koj niam tseem nyob ne.
Ewww.. Please stop trying to make your mom sound like a good person! Your mom knew that your dad had a wife and still married him! Your mom deserves it! Life lesson for you:” Don't be a second wife”! It's funny how your mom wanted your dad so bad, but when he got sick, she didn't want him at all! Blame only your mom and your dad!
You and your mom need to stop playing victim!! Your step-mom have a right to be upset and does not need to do anything for your dad because she's loved less. Stop making excuses for your mom too!! 🙄
Cia koj tus txiv mus yuav ib tug niam yau thiab mus nrog koj tus niam yau nyob es tseg nej pab niam tub qha qhuav Cia seb koj puas tseem luag ntxhi hlub taus koj tus txiv naw. Yog txog thaum ntawd koj tseem muaj2 siab ua mov rau nws noj, take care nws, thiab hlub nws ces mam li Tham dua. Koj niam loj thiab nws cov menyuam ua yog kawg lawm. Yuav tsum ua li ko es cov niag txiv dev no thiaj tseg txojkev yuav niam loj niam yau
Koj txiv nyuam qhuav mus nyob li ntawv xwb twb khib koj niam lawm na muab hais koj niam tseem phem dua koj niam yog ib tug neeg phem kawg nawb thaum hluas tseem tsoob tau koj niam khwv tau nyiaj rau koj niam nej no ces koj niam thiaj txeeb txeeb kom tau hos thaum laus tsoob tsis taus koj niam nyiaj los khwv tsis tau lawm no ces ho kom mus tom niam loj no tsis ncaj ncees lawm laiv yog kuv los kuv yeej ua ib yam thiab na
You will never understand the pain of the woman who have to share her husband until you live that same life. Can’t blame the niam hlobs kids. Kids can see the difference. If you want love from your children, stick to their mother only. If you choose multiple wives over your children then don’t expect too much love from your kids. And your mother is putting words in your dad’s head. She sweet talk cuz she’s the one who got the husband.
Your mom should take care of your dad in his old years. Your dad loved your mom and your siblings more. How can you say niam loj siab phem? What if your mom was niam loj? Would you still defend your father and mother??? Your father didn’t respect and love niam loj so don’t expect too much. Your dad knowingly did this to himself and did his sons wrong by abandoning them. Koj cem tsis tau niam loj thiab niam loj cov tub. Koj txiv twb hlub koj niam nej. Thaum koj txiv zoo thiab muaj zog twb muab rau koj niam nej non tag ces yav laus ua tsis taus lawm nej kav tsij tu koj txiv nej thiaj tau koob hmoov. Niam loj thiab niam loj cov me nyuam tu los tsis tau koob hmoov vim koj txiv yeej tsis hlub lawv yeej tsis tag koob hmoov rau lawv.
What do you think if your husband married a niamyau? Sometimes, yawmtxiv muaj niamyau ces yawm vauv will do the same. Go back and listen to your story. Your father yeej tsi hlub nismloj and her sons after married your mom.
Take two to tango, he the father can not be that innocent. Where has he been when the children were growing up for not earning any credit or respect from the older children. Seems like he has not done his part as a father.
My mom is the first wife. My dad was never there for us. My father lives with my step mom all his lives and loved step mom children more. The only reason my dad did not divorce my mom was because she gave birth to sons. 2nd wife gave birth to only girls. I don't really care if my dad loves me or not because my love for him is different towards my mom.
You should come out to tell the story of your mom veiling a home wrecker. She did not love your father. She abandoned him. Look at her…ua hluas nkauj after your father died. What a great wife and mother your mother is…lol.
Your father betrayed first mom when he married your mom. You’ll never know, until your hubby cheats on you. You’ll never know because your mom got all the love. You’ll never know because she’s a 2nd wife.
Sister, you should come back to listen to your story here. Listen it from the outsider’s perspective. Your father did it to himself, don’t blame Niam Loj blame your own father. Also, as for love, you and your sisters were on the receiving end, so you don’t understand. Just because he’s the biological father that doesn’t make him a father to Niam Loj kids. You said it yourself, your father was living with you guys and he was only going back and forth between the two wives was because he was told too.
Kuv xav mas it's all your father fault. Vim txoj kev es ntshaw niam yau na. Koj txiv yeej tsis hlub neb niam hlob es koj txiv thiaj li yuav koj niam lawm. Koj niam los yeej tshaw tshaw ua niam yau thiab ab.
ib tus txiv neej yuav niam yau lawm ces yeem coj tsi ncaj neeg li os niam hlob niam yau yeej tsi yog phooj ywg yog yeeb ncuab xwb koj txiv ces yog koj niam yug muaj tub ces sim neej no koj txiv yeej mus tsi txog niam loj lub tsev li os koj txiv ces nyiam qhuav ntsim xwb
I don’t feel sorry at all for your dad. Your tried to justify your dad but everything you say still make your dad worst. A adultery is still a adultery
For those vauv who are mean...think of your own parents. What if your wife did that to you when your parents are ill. Wear their shoes. Sister you did all you can being a daughter. If your spouse was understanding he would be supportive. Your dad is understanding and you did all you can due to the traditional hmong culture. Just know you did all you can and don't let anyone put you down. You are showing your kids to love unconditional.
Your mom sounds more evil and mean than niam loj. Niam loj put up with your mom bs and allow your dad to stay with your mom, but your mom cannot deal with your dad going to stay with niam loj? Niam yau siab me thiab khib txiv tshaij niam loj. Kids can see who loves them and who doesn't.
Your father did this to himself. I don’t blame your half brothers for not caring about your dad. He abandoned them and their mother for your mom. Koj txiv tsis muaj cai hais tias nws yug tau tub tab sis lawv tsis hlub nws. Yog koj txiv hlub nej niam loj thiab nws cov me nyuam ces lawv yeej txawj hlub nws but the fact is he wasn’t there for them. Peb txiv neej hmoob muaj niam loj niam yau vim peb muaj coj poj niam hmoob xws li koj niam ntshaw ntshaw txeeb luag tej txiv. Your mom allowed that to happen. Your mom should take care of your dad til the end because they both did niam loj wrong. I would be like niam loj too if my husband made me the second person in his life. Your dad’s excuse for marrying your mom, the second life is not a good excuse. He should’ve divorced niam loj before he married your mom if he really couldn’t live with her anymore.
Your dad never love niam loj kids there will be no Karam for niam loj kids . The only person who will have Karam will be your dad and your mom with your moms kids .
Txawm yog kuv yog niam loj los kuv yeej yuav ua ib yam li nej tus niam loj. Kuv yuav tsis pub kuv cov menyuam hlub tus txiv ib yam li thiab. I have an idea, cia koj tus txiv mus yuav niam yau es koj mam ua siab loj2 rau koj tus txiv thiab nws tus niam yau mas.
Moral of the story, don’t have two wives! lol. I am a daughter from a niam loj too. We met him after my mom and dad separated for 16 yrs because he stayed back in Thailand with his second wife and kids.
My dad had two wife. My mom is the first wife. My dad didn't love my mom. So i had allot of resentment at my dad. But my mom is nice she keeps telling me to love my dad. My step mom and my dad has no kids together. My step mom came with two kids from her previous marriage. At the end of my dad life i was the one to buried my dad.
So proud of niam hlob! I wished more niam hlobs would have this type of strength!!
Sister, you were so loved, you didn’t see niam hlob and her kids pain. You never suffered. But I’m glad karma got those who deserved it.
If I were the first wife I wouldn’t let my sons love ur dad too 😂. He loves ur mom and ur siblings more than the first wife. That’s what ur dad gets for marrying two wives.
As the saying goes, "You reap what you sow." Your father sowed bitterness and tears when he chose to marry a niamyau so he ended up reaping bitterness and tears in his old age. Your father chose this, everyone else was but a result of his bad life decisions! Don't fault others for not making your father's last years of life happy because he had hurt those others beyond what you can imagine since you were on the receiving end of his love, not his disregard and neglect. I feel badly that the kids always end up resenting each other because of the selfishness of a parent(s). Your father should have divorced his first wife before marrying your mother and that would have been a lot less troublesome for everyone concerned.
You are the daughters with a dad. You and your sister need to love him because he has always been there for you girls and your mom. The first wife has never have a husband since he married your mom, and your brothers have never been loved by their dad because of your mom and you kids.
A story from a niam yau child, niam loj is so evil according to her and her mother, the niam yau. Action speaks louder than words. Your father doesn't do anything good for his other children. He only cared about you and your mother. Your mother was stopping him from visiting niam loj. Stop playing victim. Your mother and father treated niam loj so bad but you won't tell us that part, you wanted us to pity your parents by telling us that niam loj phem phem. Let's hear from your half siblings.
I like to hear from niam hlob cov kids. She made her mom and siblings sounds like angels lol. Can’t blame niam loj os peb tsis tau 😂
Sorry but your dad did it to himself. You wouldn't be able to be nice to your husband too if he marry a second wife.
You are only defending your dad because your mom is the second wife. Imagine if your dad did it to your mom- you would be upset too. Imagine if you were dried and your husband married a second wife! He only went back to stay with the first wife cause now he’s old and needs his sons. He made his own bed and will have to sleep in it.
I was just going to type the same thing. Had it been the other way around, we all know what her story would be 🤣
I don’t even know why you’re complaining. It must be nice to get love from your dad always being being there for your mom and you! I wouldn’t want him in the end if I was his sons. Don’t blame on the first wife when he broke her heart and live with you guys. He only visited her because the elders said something!!! Stop being selfish like your dad, he didn’t love them now they don’t care. Sorry to give you a reality check!!
Sounds like your dad didn’t love your half siblings. You can really blame them. He was not there for them.
When u, the half sister, tries to blast your half brothers on youtube and instead it backfired on you. Lol. We are not as stoopid as u think. Most of us already know how it is with these kind of family dynamics. U don't need to tell us who is the bad one.
You are a daughter with a good heart, regardless of what anyone says you did your part as a child. Oneday your children will care for you the way you cared for your father.
Can't blame your half siblings for not loving and caring for your dad. Your dad didn't love and care for his first wife and her kids.
Well yah can't get mad because you wanted to be the second wife. Ofcourse the first wife would be jealous and hurt. Dont expect too much.
I want to hear niam loj and your step siblings side of the story. I wonder if your husband marries another wife, would you still defend him like you defend your father.
My dad has two wives too. I can’t blame any women nor the kids for not loving their husbands for having more than one wives
Thaum koj txiv zoo, koj niam nej tau koj txiv txoj kev hlub. Thaum koj txiv tsis taus (los tsis zoo), koj niam nej yuav tsum yog tus tu.
Niam yau yeej phem yog Tsis phem yeej ua Tsis tau luag Niam yau period
YES, TXEEB luag txiv tiag2 mas. Cov tub tsis thaj tsob vim yog koj txiv tsis HLUB lawv. NEJ cov niam yau yug yeej ntxub2 niam loj cov menyuam thiab.
Mi vivncaus aw kuv ntseeg tias koj zaj dabneeg koj tsis hais qhov phem uas koj niam koj txiv nkawv tau ua phem rau niam loj. Txogtxij koj cov nus niam loj yug tsis hlub koj txiv lawm ces, koj txiv yeej tsis hlub lawv. There was so many aspects where u point out about how ur father neglected the niam loj's children. I dint feel sorry for ur dad at all. He sure deserved what he sowed. We as audiences would love to hear from the niam Loj side of the story
Your brothers are not wrong for not wanting to get involved with your dad. From listening to you, your dad loved your mom n your sisters more. I hate the fact that hmong men can't never love both wives and their kids equally.
I came from a family that men married multiple wives so I know how it is. Most men who had many wives, he will not receive much love for the kids....family are corrupted
You need to listen to your story with an open-minded and a sympathy heart. Calling niam loj siab phem. Action speaks louder than words. Your father doesn't love niam loj kids. They are not obligated to care for him. Your mother wanted your father 100 %, no sharing when he was young and well. Now she wanted to share with niam loj when he is on diapers. What a joke!
yes, her story makes her so pathetic still defending her parents.
Ikr. Typical niam yau trait. She is already a horrible person for marrying a married man.
Omg stop bad mouth about niam loj and your step siblings it give me high blood pressure. Wait until your husband have another wife than you will understand.
Koj niam loj lawv tu siab tshaj nej lawv 10 phaug
Your father is a deadbeat dad to niam loj's children. Niam loj didn't txw them, they're nit blind or deaf so they can see and hear what your father. He's their role model, so they love him just the way he loved them.
koj niam twb yog tus yeej txhua yam lawm es koj tseem chim rau koj niam koj cov tub thiab na phem zoo los koj niam nej yeej ib txwm tau kev hlub tshaj niam lol lawm o!!
Los txeeb luag tus txiv, thiab tseem ua niam yau nkaus xwb. Yog koj gus txiv ua li rau Koj no koj ho puas txawj mob siab thiab os. Npam tiag2 thiaj li yug tsis tau tub. Lawv aws, txawm ntiajteb no tsis muaj txiv neej lawm los txhob mus ntxeeb luag tus txiv os. Txhob chim os niam yau Koj twb au niam loj tus txiv lawm ces yuav qhov ko xwb os. Cas tseem coj Koj niam lub qi tsw lwj tuaj hais thiab nawj
Koj yog me nyuam xwb tsis tsim nyog koj yuav tuaj tham niam loj thiab cov tub phem npaum ub npaum no yog koj tham txog koj niam nej phem no mas zoo mloog dua txaj muag dhau lawm os lawv aw
If you were first mom's daughter, your story would be very different.
Sister,I feel your love for your dad. I can relate to your story. My dad also had two wives. In the end, he died alone. As a daughter, we wished we could do more for them….life is not fair. Unfortunately, for them, they choose to walk a path that hurts some involved. If you lived and didn’t give proper love to your loved one, one cannot expect it to be given in return. Life is all about learning and growing…😢
Ummmm...i dont feel sorry for your dad. He chose to have two wives so thats his own fault.
Feel bad for your dad and understand your love for your dad, but really he did it to himself from the beginning.
No sorry for your dad, I don’t blamed niam loj, niam you los rhuav luag lub neej, niam loj ua tsis taus pojniam rau koj txiv……haha cas muaj tub thiab muaj ntxhais tag es tseem tias thaub tsis tau paum aim.
Koj tsis tsimnyog tu siab rau niam loj thiab niam loj cov menyuam…..koj txiv twb tsis hlub lawv, THOV txhob BLAMED niam loj thiab niam LOJ cov menyuam THIAB txhob tias yog NIAM TXW cov menyuam, NOBODY TXW NO BODY they old enough to know right and wrong. Because I lived through that life
You ain't blame his first wife to feel resentment towards you guys, your dad did her wrong. Wouldn't you be mad if your husband went and married a new wife as well. She does not owe you guys anything, so if she is bitter let her.
You are a good daughter for trying to take care of your dad. Sadly, he did it to himself.
Not taking sides but only you know the truth cause you can lie thru your teeth but u cannot lie to yourself!!
Koj txiv tej nyiaj los yeej yog koj niam nej noj tag xwb . Niam yau yeej yog tus uas koj txiv tsoob tsoob laus nkoos xwb ne ces cia rau koj niam tu tiag Lau.
I am a niam yau born and this woman sound very biased. I do not dare make my dad suffer, but I can't help if he's suffering. His own choice. My half siblings and I are very closed and I love my stepmom a lot.
Koj tsis rau koj cov nus thiab koj niam loj lawv sab khau Koj tsis yog lawv koj tsis paub os koj cov nus thiab koj niam loj lawv cov niam tub lawv tseem tu siab tshaj Koj txiv lawm os
Niam loj lawv ua yog lawm koj Niam thiaj koj thiaj yog tus phem leej twg Tsis ntsib ces g paub li os mog
Your dad did it to himself. Since you and your sisters received your dad's love, you guys should take care of him. Also, you need to be more sympathetic to your niam loj. She was probably a loving/caring wife until the day your dad broke her by marrying your mom.
I come from a household of my dad marrying two wives, too. My mom being Niam Yau, and I could tell you that a father son relationship is close to non-existent. Of course, dad was around but only having the title of dad only. And with your dad having left niam lob to fend for her kids and herself, of course your half siblings not going to show your dad much love because dude was never around to love them.
Tsis yog niam loj cov tub tsis hlub koj txiv vim yog koj niam txheeb Tau lawv txiv lawn os
Txhob muab lub txim pov rau niam loj os lov txog txij tus niam loj ua tau ib siab lawm ces yeej yog tus txiv coj tsis ncaj es niam loj thiaj li tsis quav ntsej lawm mas es twb yog tsis xav hlub tus niam loj lawm es thiaj li yuav niam yau lawm ces niam yau kuj los hlub los tiam los mos es niam yau twb los kav kiag niag txiv lawm ces niam yau thiab niam yau cov me nyuam kuj hlub los pob yog tus txiv coj ncaj2 ces 2 tug niam yeej sib haum yeej hlub nej txiv mas yus nros yus muab 1 tug pob txha rau 2 tug poj niam sib txeeb ces pab tsis tau thaum kawg ces tsis tau chaw tuag ntag. Koj niam twb txawj mob siab txawj khib thaum uas nej txiv mus tim nej niam loj lawv ces yeej yog tim nej niam xav noj kheej xav tau thaum hluas muaj zog zis thaum nej txiv muaj mob koj niam twb tsis xav tu thiab ne es nej txiv mus tim niam loj lawv los los nej niam twb txhob txwm ua kom nej txiv khib es txhob mus tim niam loj lawv lawm ces qhov no txhais tau tías koj niam yog tus phem tsis yog niam loj lawv phem nawb.
Me ntxhias aw yog yuav hais los mas koj niam yog tus siab phem nawb .thaum hluas nws twb paub nej txiv twb muaj poj niam nws twb txeeb koj niam loj tus txiv yav laus no koj niam twb tsis kam tu koj txiv yuav muab rau niam loj cov tub no tsis yog 2 tsis muaj koj niam lawv no mas lawv tsis kas mas thiaj yog tis lawv os koj niam tseem nyob ne.
The niam loj is too nice. She always says yes.
Ewww.. Please stop trying to make your mom sound like a good person! Your mom knew that your dad had a wife and still married him! Your mom deserves it! Life lesson for you:” Don't be a second wife”!
It's funny how your mom wanted your dad so bad, but when he got sick, she didn't want him at all! Blame only your mom and your dad!
You and your mom need to stop playing victim!! Your step-mom have a right to be upset and does not need to do anything for your dad because she's loved less. Stop making excuses for your mom too!! 🙄
Cia koj tus txiv mus yuav ib tug niam yau thiab mus nrog koj tus niam yau nyob es tseg nej pab niam tub qha qhuav Cia seb koj puas tseem luag ntxhi hlub taus koj tus txiv naw. Yog txog thaum ntawd koj tseem muaj2 siab ua mov rau nws noj, take care nws, thiab hlub nws ces mam li Tham dua. Koj niam loj thiab nws cov menyuam ua yog kawg lawm. Yuav tsum ua li ko es cov niag txiv dev no thiaj tseg txojkev yuav niam loj niam yau
Koj txiv nyuam qhuav mus nyob li ntawv xwb twb khib koj niam lawm na muab hais koj niam tseem phem dua koj niam yog ib tug neeg phem kawg nawb thaum hluas tseem tsoob tau koj niam khwv tau nyiaj rau koj niam nej no ces koj niam thiaj txeeb txeeb kom tau hos thaum laus tsoob tsis taus koj niam nyiaj los khwv tsis tau lawm no ces ho kom mus tom niam loj no tsis ncaj ncees lawm laiv yog kuv los kuv yeej ua ib yam thiab na
You will never understand the pain of the woman who have to share her husband until you live that same life. Can’t blame the niam hlobs kids. Kids can see the difference. If you want love from your children, stick to their mother only. If you choose multiple wives over your children then don’t expect too much love from your kids. And your mother is putting words in your dad’s head. She sweet talk cuz she’s the one who got the husband.
Koj paub txiv neej tsawg dhau lawm....txiv neej ces yog nws hlub tu nws twb ces cov me nyuam ntawm tu niam nws yeej hlub tshaj nawb..
Your mom should take care of your dad in his old years. Your dad loved your mom and your siblings more.
How can you say niam loj siab phem? What if your mom was niam loj? Would you still defend your father and mother??? Your father didn’t respect and love niam loj so don’t expect too much. Your dad knowingly did this to himself and did his sons wrong by abandoning them.
Koj cem tsis tau niam loj thiab niam loj cov tub. Koj txiv twb hlub koj niam nej. Thaum koj txiv zoo thiab muaj zog twb muab rau koj niam nej non tag ces yav laus ua tsis taus lawm nej kav tsij tu koj txiv nej thiaj tau koob hmoov. Niam loj thiab niam loj cov me nyuam tu los tsis tau koob hmoov vim koj txiv yeej tsis hlub lawv yeej tsis tag koob hmoov rau lawv.
What do you think if your husband married a niamyau? Sometimes, yawmtxiv muaj niamyau ces yawm vauv will do the same. Go back and listen to your story. Your father yeej tsi hlub nismloj and her sons after married your mom.
Ua cas koj thiaj hu niam loj siab phem, you wait till your turn how it feels 😅
It’s a lesson to learn not to grab a married man to be yours. It’s never be a happy life. You will always just a concubine, a mistress.
Nyuam qhuav ntxim cov txiv neej yuav niam yau.
Take two to tango, he the father can not be that innocent. Where has he been when the children were growing up for not earning any credit or respect from the older children. Seems like he has not done his part as a father.
AT the begining, yog niam loj lub cev qrhuav qrhuav, yog koj txiv hlub nws tiag tiag ces nws yeej mus nrhiav tshuaj kho nws tus Poj niam os. Siab phem xwb os.
I hope there is a part 2 to this story - niam hlob and her kids 😂
My mom is the first wife. My dad was never there for us. My father lives with my step mom all his lives and loved step mom children more. The only reason my dad did not divorce my mom was because she gave birth to sons. 2nd wife gave birth to only girls. I don't really care if my dad loves me or not because my love for him is different towards my mom.
Ppl like this just plays victim their whole life. Life of Niam hlob Niam yau ain’t ever pretty if so rarely.
I'm upset that tus yawg koob tseem muaj plhus tuaj qrhuab ntuas niam loj thiab nws cov tub hais tias Kom hlub nws txiv, but nws twb tsis pom hais tias leej txiv yeej tsis hlub nws cov tub ne ! Kom nyiag yawg koob mus ntxuav nws ob lub eyes tso nawb ! Shit ! Cov tub txawm hlub los yeej tsis tso koob hmoov ces yeej nkim zog hlub leej txiv thiab os. Nyuam qrhuav ntxim xwb os.
You should come out to tell the story of your mom veiling a home wrecker. She did not love your father. She abandoned him. Look at her…ua hluas nkauj after your father died. What a great wife and mother your mother is…lol.
Your father betrayed first mom when he married your mom. You’ll never know, until your hubby cheats on you. You’ll never know because your mom got all the love. You’ll never know because she’s a 2nd wife.
Cov niam yau ces thau kawg yeej coj lino, vim tseem xav mus yuav txiv tshiab thiab
Sounds like you protect your mom and siblings only
Ib qhov mas nws tsis tshua zoo rau koj xwb vim koj tuaj hais tias niam loj lub siab mas phem phem kawg li....yog niam loj cov me nyuam hnov ces koj thiab lawv yuav muaj ib pluag tsis ntxuag zaub ntag....koj txiv yeej coj tsis ncaj lawv thiaj li tu tu siab nawb....yog koj tu txiv yuav ib tug niam yau, koj yeej yuav tu siab npaum li koj niam loj ntag ho...txhob muab koj niam loj lub qe hais phem phem vim nej tsis paub lawv lub neej hmo ntuj nej paub nruab hnub xwb
Koj txiv kaws ab thaum twg ces cov uas koj txiv yug yeej muaj kev npam thiab koj txiv ob tug niam los nkawm yeej muaj kev npam ib yam nkaus nawb
cov me viv ncau aw peb cov txiv ce yog niam yus txiv nrog yus nyob ces yus lub neej yeej tawg xwb mog
Koj txiv yeej muaj kev txhaum kev khaum. Koj niam mas thiaj li phem tiag tiag li os, nws yeej yuav muaj kev npam xwb. Koj niam loj yeej ua yog lawm, vim nws raug kev txom nyem kev lwj siab ntau tshaj. Koj cov nus los yeej muaj kev tu siab txaus lawm, thiaj li ua tau ib siab tsis hlub koj txiv. Koj yog ib leeg zoo ntxhais kawg li os. Thov kom koj tau txoj kev kaj siab nawb mog.
Txhob tu siab os vim koj txiv siab phem 😅koj tsis rau niam loj nkawm khau es koj tsis paub niam loj mob siab 😂 koj niam kuj paub mob siab lawm thiab 😂😂😂
Sister, you should come back to listen to your story here. Listen it from the outsider’s perspective. Your father did it to himself, don’t blame Niam Loj blame your own father. Also, as for love, you and your sisters were on the receiving end, so you don’t understand. Just because he’s the biological father that doesn’t make him a father to Niam Loj kids. You said it yourself, your father was living with you guys and he was only going back and forth between the two wives was because he was told too.
Kuv xav mas it's all your father fault. Vim txoj kev es ntshaw niam yau na. Koj txiv yeej tsis hlub neb niam hlob es koj txiv thiaj li yuav koj niam lawm. Koj niam los yeej tshaw tshaw ua niam yau thiab ab.
Mi niam yau mi nyuam aw, koj txiv tseg koob hmoov niam yau rau koj lawm ces tsis ntev koj yuav tau niam yau lau 😂 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
ib tus txiv neej yuav niam yau lawm ces yeem coj tsi ncaj neeg li os niam hlob niam yau yeej tsi yog phooj ywg yog yeeb ncuab xwb koj txiv ces yog koj niam yug muaj tub ces sim neej no koj txiv yeej mus tsi txog niam loj lub tsev li os koj txiv ces nyiam qhuav ntsim xwb
This story is unbelievable!
I don’t feel sorry at all for your dad. Your tried to justify your dad but everything you say still make your dad worst. A adultery is still a adultery
For those vauv who are mean...think of your own parents. What if your wife did that to you when your parents are ill. Wear their shoes. Sister you did all you can being a daughter. If your spouse was understanding he would be supportive. Your dad is understanding and you did all you can due to the traditional hmong culture. Just know you did all you can and don't let anyone put you down. You are showing your kids to love unconditional.
Your mom sounds more evil and mean than niam loj. Niam loj put up with your mom bs and allow your dad to stay with your mom, but your mom cannot deal with your dad going to stay with niam loj? Niam yau siab me thiab khib txiv tshaij niam loj.
Kids can see who loves them and who doesn't.
Your father did this to himself. I don’t blame your half brothers for not caring about your dad. He abandoned them and their mother for your mom.
Koj txiv tsis muaj cai hais tias nws yug tau tub tab sis lawv tsis hlub nws. Yog koj txiv hlub nej niam loj thiab nws cov me nyuam ces lawv yeej txawj hlub nws but the fact is he wasn’t there for them.
Peb txiv neej hmoob muaj niam loj niam yau vim peb muaj coj poj niam hmoob xws li koj niam ntshaw ntshaw txeeb luag tej txiv. Your mom allowed that to happen. Your mom should take care of your dad til the end because they both did niam loj wrong. I would be like niam loj too if my husband made me the second person in his life. Your dad’s excuse for marrying your mom, the second life is not a good excuse. He should’ve divorced niam loj before he married your mom if he really couldn’t live with her anymore.
Pab tsis tau koj txiv. He did it for himself. And ues, it's your mom responsibility to take care of your dad.
Mloog thaum pib xwb kuv twb ntshav siab lawm
Your dad never love niam loj kids there will be no Karam for niam loj kids . The only person who will have Karam will be your dad and your mom with your moms kids .
Tej tug txiv neej xav tau niam yau mas phim2 tuag mus
Niam.hlob.niam yau mas tsis zoo.
Tsi txhob tu siab mog cia seb leej twg yog tus yuav tau koob hmoov yav tom ntej no xwb os tus vivncaus aws.
Qhov tias niam loj cev qhuav tsis muaj tseeb os yog qhuav tiag nws tsis khib koj txiv lawm
Wow niam you los yuav luag tug xwb los xav tau txiv kheej.
Tiag tiag niam loj tsis siab phem. Tiam si nws chim dhau lawm es nws thiaj lis cem thiab hais lus twm nej xwb. Tiam sis nej tsis tau taub nws hlub maib xwb os. Nej tsis nkag siab rau nws xwb os. Yog kuv kiag los kuv yeej yuav ua lis niam loj thaj thiab os ! A question rau koj : yog leej twg tsis hlub koj es koj puas yuav hlub nws os ? Yog leej twg tsis Care koj es koj puas yuav mus Care lawv ? Ok. Coj mus Xav nawb.
Txawm yog kuv yog niam loj los kuv yeej yuav ua ib yam li nej tus niam loj. Kuv yuav tsis pub kuv cov menyuam hlub tus txiv ib yam li thiab. I have an idea, cia koj tus txiv mus yuav niam yau es koj mam ua siab loj2 rau koj tus txiv thiab nws tus niam yau mas.
Moral of the story, don’t have two wives! lol. I am a daughter from a niam loj too. We met him after my mom and dad separated for 16 yrs because he stayed back in Thailand with his second wife and kids.
Li kuv xav mas koj txiv tsis hlub sawv daw ncaj nrab na
There are always two sides to a story
Thaum kawg ces koj txiv cov tub yeej yuav npam xwb xwb li nawb
My dad had two wife. My mom is the first wife. My dad didn't love my mom. So i had allot of resentment at my dad. But my mom is nice she keeps telling me to love my dad. My step mom and my dad has no kids together. My step mom came with two kids from her previous marriage. At the end of my dad life i was the one to buried my dad.
Koj txiv foom thaum twg ces cov phev ntawm yeej yuav tau kev npam kom tag lawv lub neej
Why should they care for your dad. He abandoned them long ago
Koj tsis muaj Cai complained txog nej niam loj thiab nws cov tub li nawb.. koj niam tseem tshuav ib txog kev npam thiab ov. Vim koj niam yog tus txiav txoj kev hlub ntawm koj txiv thiab niam loj lawv txoj kev hlub nawb. Yog koj niam zoo2 cas koj niam ho tsis kam koj txiv mus nyob ib nrab tom niam loj thiab hlub thiab pab nta koj cov nus cov poj niam mas.
Koj txiv siab siab phem xav xav tshov coob tus nes. Koj txiv siab txias txias ntshav rau koj niam loj nev. Nyuam qhuav ntxim kawg.