Wow so sad to have a spouse who is ashamed of you and don't appreciate you for whom you are. You shouldn't let her abused you so much emotionally. Leave and find someone who is worthy of you and valued you. Love yourself
How desperate were you to have stayed so long in such a verbally abusive marriage?! Your ex-wife wasn't that rich (nor willing to share her money with you) for you to have suffered such abuse for so long. In a way, you were a bit stupid to have stayed married to her for over four years to the point where her abusive words did a major number to your self-worth and self-esteem! It's good that you finally found your senses and divorced her. People like her are not worth the time or effort because they only care about themselves and optics!
I’ve Notice People Who Are Educated Wants Someone Educated & People Who Aren’t Educated Shouldn’t Be With An Educated Person! This Problem Always Exists!
15 minutes into this story, I thought this story was from my brother-in-law. His life is similar to this dude. His wife disrespects him then cheers him up by buying him stuff and holding his hands. He is a pharmacist and makes more but he still puts up with her. She isn’t hot, she’s just bossy and older. Regardless of degree and salary, people who are abusive will be abusive. Remember you always have a choice to leave a toxic person.
Brother watch out for the woman who talks very very sweet she is not that kind and sweet like you think, I have been there and know the woman u were talking about, and the smart woman she will not let ur money and her money be in the same bank account.
You can o ly blamed yourself brother. You made the decision to stay with her. You should've took her and returned her to her parents after a month. But you stayed and put up with her and continued the verbal abuse and mental abuse and emotional abuse. You also have low self-esteem. You made the choice and decisions to hide your mistreatment and her true character.
Tsis ua cas os. Peb cov pojniam raug nej cem ruam tsis muaj ruam los ntev dhau lawm es ho cia nej mag ib thib thiab nej thiaj paub tias dhuav nej npaum cas
Cas lub ntuj niam muab tu zoo rau tu phem ho tu phem rau tu zoo. Tu siab ua luaj Kuv los cas ntsaw ib tug txawm zoo li cas los tsuag hlub hlub kuv tiam sis cas tsi muaj txoj hmoo li luag
I believe we should change the wedding process, no more pain and suffering just to get married. Make it easy to marry and easy to divorce. That way no pressure on people, that would change a lot of the way people treat each other. Smart people will actually love you and dumb people will actually leave you
There’s nothing wrong with her age or getting married when you’re older, but I think the both of you rush to get married too quickly without getting to know each other. In America, we have the best healthcare to take care of women having children later on. Plus, most people tend to blame women for not being able to have healthy kids when they get older when no one blinks an eye to the fact that sperm quality declines after men hit 30. Take it as a lesson learned to don’t rush into marriage next time.
He should of listen to his mom at the first place! Even at the beginning his mom even said that he shouldn’t marry a smart person because he is not smart! If you are a level 3 try to stay in your level because 90% chances you cannot handle a level 10! Don’t blame all to her too! She probably feels the same too!
He wanted her based on her education, smartness, and her strive for success. Yet when he married her he REFUSED to accommodate to her business ideas... why marry someone if you wont budge in your ways of thinking?? how do you not see how much you guys clashed? She wanted you give you "credit" for helping her she even LIED to her friends about it... that should be an eye opener for you that she expects more from you to help her. or at least verbally support her too same with the woman. she knew how he is. she should have known he was unwilling to change or try anything new. yet she married him anyway dumb people.
Yes men can be abuse too, both physical and mentally. Don't be in this kind of relationship. A women or men should respect their partner if not time to get out before it gets worst. Sorry this happen to you. To me I don't care if he is not really educated or with money, as long as he is capable to provide for me and work. I just need a man who will love me and respect and be loyal to me. Money comes and goes, finding a true partner is hard.
Man marry what they see and they don’t ever want their woman to change. Women marry for the potential and once the man doesn’t change, women become resentful.
I'm the educated one in our marriage and make 4X what my husband makes. I do have to walk on eggshells at times, but he does enjoy the money. When the degree is attained within the marriage, it's easier for the couple to overcome most issues, and the degree is seen as belonging to both.
Too much disappointment for too long can make people lose respect for you. She settled but still loved you enough to believe that she can bring you up. You just choose to stay where you’re at and resent her for wanting more from you.
Even if you're content with your work, you're not single anymore. You want a family but you're not willing to strive for a better paying job. You're not willing to man up. You can still help your wife and work for a few years to make as much money as possible before having kids. You act like you're going to have your health forever and can do what you do forever. I can see it from her side too, she has no respect for you because you can't man up. She basically had to be the husband and the wife in the marriage.
Oyo it’s not like she didn’t know what kind of work you do before u met her. She knows and was willing to want to be with you so it’s her loss. A person who’s cruel is not a smart person. Tseem ruam tshaj ruam thiab os. With her personality it doesn’t matter who she’s with the love will not last. Verbal abuse is just as bad as physical abuse. Being married for over 20+ yrs I wouldn’t dare call my husband stupid ever no matter if we have problems or not. Having respect towards ur significant other is important in the relationship. There’s plenty of fishes in the sea. There’ll be one who’s compatible to you and will love u for who u are. Never tolerate any kinds of abuse ever. Get out before it’s too late! A toxic relationship is no good for anyone!
I haven't really seen hypergamy within my circle. In this story, the woman wants to marry up, but she isn't attractive enough to get with someone better. Usually successful men in that age group get with younger and more attractive women.
Tus kwv tij thov txim kuv yuav hais li no rau koj nawb. Koj rov qab nug koj tus kheej saib koj ruam los koj ntse, ua cas koj tus pojniam cem koj cuag cem dev tsis txuag koj ntsej muag li los koj tseem pheej nyob xyoo dhau xyoo ua tus dabtsi naw.
Neej cov txiv neej uas ntshaw ntshaw cov Poj niam txawj/ntse thiab zoo nkauj os. Pom dej dag lawm los pob? Cov Poj niam dab tuag tabsis siab zoo mas nej twb tsis ntsia. Ntiav nej los nej twb tsis kam yuav. Nyuam qhuav txim xwb. Tsis tas li ntawv, txiv neej tsis sawm zoo. Cov uas yuav tau cov Poj siab zoo mas mag nej muab tsim, muab ntaus, muab tsum rau hauv phem teb, tsis hlub, tsis paub, niaj hnub mus tham Poj laib rau ub rau no, thiab tseem yuav niam yau los es tsis hlub niam loj kiag li. Cia tej tug poj niam zoo li Tus no es lus mos lus tuaj pos, ntse, thiab no taus hais taus los qhuab qhia nej mas nej thiaj li nyob taus. Neej haj cas txawj tu siab thiab os yo. Yog nej muaj siab ntsws thiab ces yuav tsum tau hlub Poj niam nawb. Tiam 21 no, Poj niam tsis ruam lawm os. Xyaum xim os poj niam tsis quaj rau nej tes lawm nawb.
Nyob rau teb chaws USA no mas ib nkawm niam txiv twg lub neej kom nyob ntev los yog ruaj mus ib sim no ces tus txiv yuav tsum muaj kev kawm txawj ntse siab dua tus niam los sis puas yug los ntse dua tus niam. Ob yam no ua rau poj niam hwm nws dua vim poj niam cia siab tias nws tus txiv muaj tswv yim khwv noj haus rau nkawv tsev neeg.
Verbal abuse is just as bad as physical abuse…leave her!!! She has narcissistic personality disorder. Find a woman who will respect and honor you for who you are.
Tos luag hais tsov txaij nraud neeg txaij hauv ces yog zoo li ko tiag peb ua neej nyob yus yuav tau luag yus tsis txhob saib tsis taus luag nawb vim thaum uus tsis tau yuav luag lus luag yeej khwv tau txaus luag noj luag yeej tsis thawj leej twg na cas koj niag pog fake ko nim khav tag npaum li ko cas nws yuav koj esnws ho los thawj koj nrog koj nyob xwb na yog yuav hais ces nws lam muaj lag luam xwb nws tseem pluag tshaj koj es nws tsis txhob khav2 theeb txawm yog coj li ko thiaj ua rawv laus tsis muaj neeg yuav lawv cov nkauj laug mas nej yuav2 nej yuav tau ceev faj tom ntej no nej thiaj li yuav tsis poob tsag nawb.
Cov pojniam/txivneej es thaum nws hais lus lossi tham ib yam dabtsi es nws siv lub suab mos2/ lub siab soob (high pitch) lossi cuab xamlees li no ces yog cov cuav (fake) xwb!
Marriage is all about respecting each other. If there's no respect, there's no point of being together.
In general, men are always after beautiful women, and women are always after capable, smart, wealthy men.
Wow so sad to have a spouse who is ashamed of you and don't appreciate you for whom you are. You shouldn't let her abused you so much emotionally. Leave and find someone who is worthy of you and valued you. Love yourself
How desperate were you to have stayed so long in such a verbally abusive marriage?! Your ex-wife wasn't that rich (nor willing to share her money with you) for you to have suffered such abuse for so long. In a way, you were a bit stupid to have stayed married to her for over four years to the point where her abusive words did a major number to your self-worth and self-esteem! It's good that you finally found your senses and divorced her. People like her are not worth the time or effort because they only care about themselves and optics!
Thaub vim koj xwb, Koj twb tsis hlub koj tus kheej. Es luag yuav ua licas hlub koj.
I’ve Notice People Who Are Educated Wants Someone Educated & People Who Aren’t Educated Shouldn’t Be With An Educated Person! This Problem Always Exists!
15 minutes into this story, I thought this story was from my brother-in-law. His life is similar to this dude. His wife disrespects him then cheers him up by buying him stuff and holding his hands. He is a pharmacist and makes more but he still puts up with her. She isn’t hot, she’s just bossy and older. Regardless of degree and salary, people who are abusive will be abusive. Remember you always have a choice to leave a toxic person.
Brother watch out for the woman who talks very very sweet she is not that kind and sweet like you think, I have been there and know the woman u were talking about, and the smart woman she will not let ur money and her money be in the same bank account.
You can o ly blamed yourself brother. You made the decision to stay with her. You should've took her and returned her to her parents after a month. But you stayed and put up with her and continued the verbal abuse and mental abuse and emotional abuse. You also have low self-esteem. You made the choice and decisions to hide your mistreatment and her true character.
Tsis ua cas os. Peb cov pojniam raug nej cem ruam tsis muaj ruam los ntev dhau lawm es ho cia nej mag ib thib thiab nej thiaj paub tias dhuav nej npaum cas
Cas lub ntuj niam muab tu zoo rau tu phem ho tu phem rau tu zoo. Tu siab ua luaj
Kuv los cas ntsaw ib tug txawm zoo li cas los tsuag hlub hlub kuv tiam sis cas tsi muaj txoj hmoo li luag
I believe we should change the wedding process, no more pain and suffering just to get married. Make it easy to marry and easy to divorce. That way no pressure on people, that would change a lot of the way people treat each other.
Smart people will actually love you and dumb people will actually leave you
There’s nothing wrong with her age or getting married when you’re older, but I think the both of you rush to get married too quickly without getting to know each other. In America, we have the best healthcare to take care of women having children later on. Plus, most people tend to blame women for not being able to have healthy kids when they get older when no one blinks an eye to the fact that sperm quality declines after men hit 30. Take it as a lesson learned to don’t rush into marriage next time.
He should of listen to his mom at the first place! Even at the beginning his mom even said that he shouldn’t marry a smart person because he is not smart!
If you are a level 3 try to stay in your level because 90% chances you cannot handle a level 10! Don’t blame all to her too! She probably feels the same too!
Tuaj mloog koj thiab os
Zoo kawg uas koj dim mas nrog koj zoo siab os cov pojniam siab dub li ko tsis yuav los thiaj tsis lwj siab os
We want to hear your wife side too.
Omg the dying battery voice. Hahahahaha lmao
Cov niam tsev es tsis xav muaj mi nyuam ces yog tib co maum dev xwb nawb lawv aw...
Cov poj niam hmoob es hais lus mos mos ces yeej siab phem li no ntag nawb lawv aw...
Mismatched marriage doesn’t go far…find your match so you both can be at the same level and become successful in life…it is the facts…😩!
This is a lesson for us to learn “not to meet and marry someone on Facebook”. Lol
I know some fake people like this. They’re so good that people who don’t know them personally believe everything they say.
OMG your story relates to mine, can never please that person.
Maum miv tawb me nyuam nas....ua ntej muab me nyuam nas nqo lol😅
Nrog koj zoo siab uas koj dim lawm os brother aw.
Ne, ne, hom tsis mloog koj niam lus os. 😂😂😂. Should have seen the red flag when she doesn't want to bank together or add your name into her account.
He wanted her based on her education, smartness, and her strive for success. Yet when he married her he REFUSED to accommodate to her business ideas... why marry someone if you wont budge in your ways of thinking?? how do you not see how much you guys clashed? She wanted you give you "credit" for helping her she even LIED to her friends about it... that should be an eye opener for you that she expects more from you to help her. or at least verbally support her too
same with the woman. she knew how he is. she should have known he was unwilling to change or try anything new. yet she married him anyway
dumb people.
NEVER let women to get on top because they'll put you down.😂
Most men want women who are beautiful and know how sweet talk. This is what you get. You choose to stay in this toxic relationship as long as you did.
Tsim nyog koj poj niam txhuam lawm tsi paub tham ces teb aw ces mus xwb ma
Yes men can be abuse too, both physical and mentally. Don't be in this kind of relationship. A women or men should respect their partner if not time to get out before it gets worst. Sorry this happen to you. To me I don't care if he is not really educated or with money, as long as he is capable to provide for me and work. I just need a man who will love me and respect and be loyal to me. Money comes and goes, finding a true partner is hard.
Uag! Kablias uas cas koj yuav txawj hais lus qab zib cuag lis Maiv Ntxhoos nev yuam.
Man marry what they see and they don’t ever want their woman to change. Women marry for the potential and once the man doesn’t change, women become resentful.
I'm the educated one in our marriage and make 4X what my husband makes. I do have to walk on eggshells at times, but he does enjoy the money. When the degree is attained within the marriage, it's easier for the couple to overcome most issues, and the degree is seen as belonging to both.
Too much disappointment for too long can make people lose respect for you. She settled but still loved you enough to believe that she can bring you up. You just choose to stay where you’re at and resent her for wanting more from you.
Even if you're content with your work, you're not single anymore. You want a family but you're not willing to strive for a better paying job. You're not willing to man up. You can still help your wife and work for a few years to make as much money as possible before having kids. You act like you're going to have your health forever and can do what you do forever. I can see it from her side too, she has no respect for you because you can't man up. She basically had to be the husband and the wife in the marriage.
Niam neejvam koj mas txawj qog tiag tiag...ua rau kuv 😂😂😂
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Oyo it’s not like she didn’t know what kind of work you do before u met her. She knows and was willing to want to be with you so it’s her loss. A person who’s cruel is not a smart person. Tseem ruam tshaj ruam thiab os. With her personality it doesn’t matter who she’s with the love will not last. Verbal abuse is just as bad as physical abuse. Being married for over 20+ yrs I wouldn’t dare call my husband stupid ever no matter if we have problems or not. Having respect towards ur significant other is important in the relationship. There’s plenty of fishes in the sea. There’ll be one who’s compatible to you and will love u for who u are. Never tolerate any kinds of abuse ever. Get out before it’s too late! A toxic relationship is no good for anyone!
So sad but glad you left her.
Vim kj muab Tao nws khoo kj lawm ne.
Niam lau aw kj ma thj li keej qog lawv cov lus kg li o hh
I haven't really seen hypergamy within my circle. In this story, the woman wants to marry up, but she isn't attractive enough to get with someone better. Usually successful men in that age group get with younger and more attractive women.
At first koj twb paub nws nim hais lus mos lus muag nes. Ho poj niam coj li ko ces kawg koj nyos haus les es.
Women like that one day will regret one day😂😂😂🤣
Tus kwv tij thov txim kuv yuav hais li no rau koj nawb. Koj rov qab nug koj tus kheej saib koj ruam los koj ntse, ua cas koj tus pojniam cem koj cuag cem dev tsis txuag koj ntsej muag li los koj tseem pheej nyob xyoo dhau xyoo ua tus dabtsi naw.
Neej cov txiv neej uas ntshaw ntshaw cov Poj niam txawj/ntse thiab zoo nkauj os. Pom dej dag lawm los pob? Cov Poj niam dab tuag tabsis siab zoo mas nej twb tsis ntsia. Ntiav nej los nej twb tsis kam yuav. Nyuam qhuav txim xwb. Tsis tas li ntawv, txiv neej tsis sawm zoo. Cov uas yuav tau cov Poj siab zoo mas mag nej muab tsim, muab ntaus, muab tsum rau hauv phem teb, tsis hlub, tsis paub, niaj hnub mus tham Poj laib rau ub rau no, thiab tseem yuav niam yau los es tsis hlub niam loj kiag li. Cia tej tug poj niam zoo li Tus no es lus mos lus tuaj pos, ntse, thiab no taus hais taus los qhuab qhia nej mas nej thiaj li nyob taus. Neej haj cas txawj tu siab thiab os yo. Yog nej muaj siab ntsws thiab ces yuav tsum tau hlub Poj niam nawb. Tiam 21 no, Poj niam tsis ruam lawm os. Xyaum xim os poj niam tsis quaj rau nej tes lawm nawb.
I believe she only married you because she was getting old and desperate for a husband. She thought she could change you
Brother, koj tus poj niam coj li kuv tus txiv. Hmag verbal thiab emotional abuse all the time.
Phem zoo yog ua niam txiv es nyias tseem muaj nyias nyiaj es sib phaib thej nuj nqi ces pab tsis tau txhob sib sau.
I believed i heard this story already
99% poj niam hmoob meeka are verbal abuse, thats why majority young hmoob men seeking overseas nowadays.
I got all that from my husband and i have staying with him for over 30 years!! I wish i can have the confidence to leave.
I believed he was too OG and low class , he shouldn't marry her, that's why it happened
Me tub aw koj puas ntseeg hais tias koj ruam no ma, yog koj tsis ruam ces koj yeej tsis yuav nws ntev npaum li no li os lol
Listening to this story, I’m not sure what if fake, the whole story or just the wife.😅😅😅
Tib neeg yeej zoo li ko xwb os
Nyob rau teb chaws USA no mas ib nkawm niam txiv twg lub neej kom nyob ntev los yog ruaj mus ib sim no ces tus txiv yuav tsum muaj kev kawm txawj ntse siab dua tus niam los sis puas yug los ntse dua tus niam. Ob yam no ua rau poj niam hwm nws dua vim poj niam cia siab tias nws tus txiv muaj tswv yim khwv noj haus rau nkawv tsev neeg.
I have fake wife once.
Koj txoj kev xav thiab nws txoj kev xav tsis zoo tib yam xwb, txhua yam neb ua yeej yog ua rau qhov zoo. Yus nyiam li cas ces mus yuav tus zoo li ntawv thiaj phim yus vim neb twb muaj hnub nyoo txaus lawm
Muab xav los, nws yeej tsis phem npaum twg thiab. Tsis yog nws has Koj phem tabsis Kuv pom tau tias ntxawm Koj ruam2 los nws mus txog qhov twg los nws yeej hais tias Koj yog ib tus neeg txawj ntshe thiab pab nws ua lag luam. Yog nws tawm rooj plaws es nws hais koj phem mas Koj thiaj chim meb. Txiv neej cas thiaj li txawj ruam tiag lau
Verbal abuse is just as bad as physical abuse…leave her!!!
She has narcissistic personality disorder. Find a woman who will respect and honor you for who you are.
She is ashamed of you. Good you are out.
Your ex wife is a narcissist! Glad you have got rid off a B, bro.
Let this story be a lesson for you. Dropouts
Calls toxic relationships
It's your own fault for allowing her to act that way, you also need to out match her acting outside for people.
Ib tus nruam ncaj nruam ncees ib tus nruam Tsab ntse.
Your wife is the latter.
Tejzaum koj los yeej ib nyuag hnai zog lawm thiab os. Peb twb tuaj nyob Tebchaws vammeej lawm. Neb twb sib-ntsib hauv Facebook ces txhais tau tias nej kuj yog covneeg tuaj nyob Tebchaws nov ntev lawm thiab. Es cas koj tseem ruam ualuaj li thiab, es tseem mus yuav tau ib tug stranger thiab na? Es thaum neb tseem sibtham ua-nkauj ua-nraug neb thamtxog dabtsi xwb na? Ntshe thamtxog ob-ceg xwb pob? Koj piav zooli koj tsis paub tus pojniam ntawv li as.
Tos luag hais tsov txaij nraud neeg txaij hauv ces yog zoo li ko tiag peb ua neej nyob yus yuav tau luag yus tsis txhob saib tsis taus luag nawb vim thaum uus tsis tau yuav luag lus luag yeej khwv tau txaus luag noj luag yeej tsis thawj leej twg na cas koj niag pog fake ko nim khav tag npaum li ko cas nws yuav koj esnws ho los thawj koj nrog koj nyob xwb na yog yuav hais ces nws lam muaj lag luam xwb nws tseem pluag tshaj koj es nws tsis txhob khav2 theeb txawm yog coj li ko thiaj ua rawv laus tsis muaj neeg yuav lawv cov nkauj laug mas nej yuav2 nej yuav tau ceev faj tom ntej no nej thiaj li yuav tsis poob tsag nawb.
Cas koj nim raug kiag li kiv thiab os yom. Tab sis koj yog txiv neej es koj muab laom hlo tseg. Ho kiv ces yog poj noam es quaj nyob quaj nyob xwb.
Man card------->[] trash.
Cov pojniam/txivneej es thaum nws hais lus lossi tham ib yam dabtsi es nws siv lub suab mos2/ lub siab soob (high pitch) lossi cuab xamlees li no ces yog cov cuav (fake) xwb!