Coming Out To Your Doctor | Responding To Comments
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- Опубліковано 25 жов 2024
- We’ve got another juicy episode of responding to your medical comments! Today we talk about how to get taller or maximize your height, whether you should come out with your sexuality to your doctor, what role the frequency of your drinking plays into your ability to get drunk, the truth about chicken pox, cracking your knuckles/neck/back, elder care, radiology, draining your lungs, allergies, and so much more. Got a question you’d like me to answer? Drop it down below and I’ll try to get to it in my next Responding To Comments videos!
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The best question a doctor ever asked me was, "do you have sex with men, women, or a little of both?" I hadn't come out yet, but that question let me know it was safe to do so. And then we didn't waste time with discussions about pregnancy tests and condom use with men. My care was tailored to ME. You would not believe how many doctors discriminate against LGBTQ people, and if you live in an area where you don't have a lot of choice in who your doctor is, it can be scary and dangerous to come out to a doctor.
The fact that this is such a rare case is saddening🥺
And then there’s the people who never had sex or only had sex with one person but is still gay/bi
@@thewriter2634 You know it's not an "argument" right. These reasons are only given because close minded people force lgbtq+ people to legitimize their existence. Guess what, their existence is valid no matter what and not something to be argued about or to be justified.
@@astridonghena9860 *Are these other things I listed legitimized too? Because these meet the same standards.*
It's sad that it's rare. My sister is married to a woman and it happened several times that doctors asked her if she was sexually active (she said yes,) ask her what birth control method she was using (none) and if she actually want to conceive right now (no at the time - her wife is currently pregnant though) and then was lectured for it!
shout out to all the short people out there who clicked on this video
That’s me
5’3 gang?
5'10 gang
Lol i click so fast
Here✋🏼
I accidentally came out as trans to my doc. She's helped me with getting blood draws, called me by my name, her nurses have helped me with my shots... I really appreciate her.
That doctor is awesome I need a doctor like that in my life
I'm so happy for you. 10/10 good doctor for making you feel comfortable.
And 100/10 for being your true self.
how do u "accidentally"
@@eckk8016 bc she's gay 🤣
@Hazy trans: likely referring to transgender: “denoting or relating to a person whose sense of personal identity and gender does not correspond with their birth sex.” (Copied off safari)
I remember how stressed I was to come out to my doctor. I was worrying about the appointment for days. Turns out he's more supportive than my parents which is nice.
Fatherless Behavior
Anything that doesn't suit your opinion is fatherless behavior apparently
@@star5384yeah
Womp womp@@AntiLgbtq767
@@star5384The first reply's whole personality is literally being homophobic idk what you were expecting. it's literally a burner account created when they made this comment to make this comment and it was never used outside of it
I can’t believe he’s 6’3 ... I’ve been imagining him as 5’10 this whole time
@Heather Aurelia He's average where I'm from. I'm 7'1 and it is a nightmare.
@@michaelmay5453 wow, can i ask which country you live in?
Me too! Was just about to comment the same thing, had no CLUE he was properly tall!!
@@michaelmay5453 7’1?? Woah so tall
Lol same
Step 1: Be 5'10'' or 5'11'' tall
Step 2: Say you're 6 foot tall.
Step 3: Repeat until you believe it yourself and get it printed in your passport/visa.
@KSI followed this method
that's like a subliminal lol
This is literally called manifesting
Or yes, a subliminal
@@gboi3500 oh god that was a good one.
Manifesting 101
As a smart introvert, I don't think you understand how much I love radiology.🤭
Right? Sitting in a dark room all day? COUNT ME IN!!! 😂
Mood
This sounds interesting.
Can confirm, my office is nestled in a reading room and it's so dark and quiet and I love it
I could probably do radiology. I already sit in a dark room all day, might as well be paid for it.
Telling your doc you're asexual is usually a fun trip through a physical investigation of what's wrong with you to blood tests to find out why you don't want to bone people to a Very Serious conversation about how you need to see a therapist because sex is vital to a healthy life. Just... love it so much.
I had a very similar experience, my doctor also told me “you’ll grow out of it”….
Oh my god that sounds awful
Like why can’t people just accept it’s a real thing
this is exactly why I'm afraid to tell my docter that I'm ace :/
i haven't had them ask me anything related to that so far though.... but I'm turning 18 next year so they may bring it up. I don't know what I'll say.
@@warriorcatkitty You're in a good place in a sense, because you know you're ace and that there's nothing wrong with you (I didn't have this knowledge back in the day, because no one knew what an asexual was.) It sucks to get pathologized--it's embarassing and uncomfortable and it takes up time you could be using to address your actual medical concerns--but you'll ultimately be okay. Just tell your doc and see how they react. The worst case is that you'll find out your doctor isn't the right fit for you. Best case is they'll be great about it. Probably they'll be somewhere between. ♥ Hang in there.
Refuse the tests. Don't let ANYONE discriminate you. Granted, the first time I heard about asexuality, I was confused too. It was as if someone had told me they don't like food. No sweets, okay. Dislike spicy foods, sure. But... generally don't enjoy eating? However, sex is NOT vital, so your doctor has no right to "investigate" unless you explicitly ask them to do so. I have long since come to realize that asexuality is just as natural, though maybe not as common a variation as homo- and bisexuality. Just tell your doc to pretty please educate themselves first and then start taking care of what parts of your health may be of real concern.
My dad is 6'4", his uncle told him, and he's always stressed to me "stand tall, don't be ashamed of your height". A confident person is attractive no matter your height!
I dunno, I think a confident 3' tall man is still going to have issues....
Knew a family of very tall girls, all 5’10 +, yet they stood tall and wore heels. All looked so elegant and confident. My sister was 5’8 and slouched.
I'm 6'5 and don't care, I'm an actor so I walk all proud cause why not?!?!?!
I don't get why he's ashamed of his 6'4" height
My dad is 6' and my mum is 5'7. I am 5'9, I guess I slept a lot lol
Mike: "Ask a doctor anything!"
Me: Asks question
Mike: "Go see your doctor"
He never said which doctor to ask.
I know it's a joke but asking a doctor like a random one can tell you the problem and when he says go to your doctor he means the doctor who treats you since he dosen't have an appointment to you
He can only do so much without actually seeing u in person sooo
Me: Watches my fortnite montage cause it gud
@@bemusedbandersnatch2069 lmao
My 85 year old grandma loves the Facebook and Messenger apps on her iPad. When I text her, she responds faster than any of my friends or other family members. She's the fastest responder, because she gets so excited ❤️
Nahh she aint a grandma thats a friend, a true bestie
@@overarian yes, she's the best! 💛
Your grandma is awesome make sure to text her often :D
Wholesome gramma check! ✅❤
Your grandma is the one of the most wholesome people I’ve heard of
I'm glad that you're so open and fine with patients being a part of the LGBTQ+ community. It's so nerve-racking and scary coming out to people, and you always have to make sure that it's safe to come out, so when someone's supportive it's really heartwarming and a lot more comfortable being around them. I hate how we have to be so wary. I hate how people despise us.
You’re all delusional 😂
LGB. Trans is a disability people really shouldn't lump them in together
Delusional
@@shaan9687 bro you have a fortnite banner stfu
@@Wanderer5260 🤓
as a bisexual i would feel so comfortable telling this man about my sexuality
I'm a Panromantic Asexual. I totally agree with you.
Same but if my parents were I the room I would deny being lgbt and also feign not knowing what sĕx was cuz that would get me kicked out of the house 🙃 isn't life fun
But yeah seriously I would trust this man with all my secrets
@@silkensampson6665 What is a panromantic asexual?
@@nstorm2415 Panromantic is a romantic orientation: the ability to feel romantic attraction to people regardless of gender. And asexual in my opinion, the definition is lack of sexual attraction.
@@sevastopol7165 ?
Me: sees How to grow taller.
Also me: clicks instantly.
*laughs in 4’11”*
@@constantcantelope2847 not bad
I’m already tall but I wanna be a fooking giant
Same. I’m 6ft but I still feel short around my friends lol
@@rawanhashim3985 😂Are you serious..4'11" isn't bad for you?..well what do you have to say about me?..I am 4'10".
Dr. Mike: Are you gay?
Me: Only for you. I mean... no.
Edit: Thanks for all the likes! 😁
Lol
LMAO
im so confused everyones talking about the video saying how to grow taller and I'm just like... am I seeing things????
Lol 😂
Lmaaao
I feel like coming out to your doctor and talking about with them can also help anyone struggling to tell friends or family that they think are homophobic. sometimes they just need to tell someone cause the feeling builds up
+Avery_is_Here i wanted to say that 2 years ago when i was in hospital because there was a nurse called Danny and i fancied him and wanted to kiss him but he had a boyfriend
"I don't understand the chicken"
Is going to be my senior quote
Who does understand the chicken?!
@@theasexualidiot4803 I don't understand the chicken
@@theasexualidiot4803 Have you ever seen a plucked chicken? I've always understood that to be the origin.
“The enormity of their flat brain, the enormity of their stupidity is just overwhelming. And by the way it’s very easy to hypnotize a chicken and in one or 2 of my films I have actually um…shown that.”- Werner Herzog
@soviet kermit ...you do realize the comment is talking about the question relating to chicken pox, and has nothing to do with anything else?
I've always heard that it's called "Chicken pox" because it looks like a chicken pecked at you thus pocking(pitting) your skin. This explanation may or may not be accurate but it sounds plausible.
I heard it was because when you pluck a chicken's feathers, it raises the skin, thus looking like pox.
in THE NETHERLANDS we actually say chicken skin, because of that (instead of goose bumps) :)
I heard it was because of chicken feather bumps
I heard that it might have originally been called “itching pox,” which later morphed into “chicken” pox just because language is weird.
@@spangelicious837 same
Doctor asks if I'm more interested in men or women
Me, an asexual: Is there a neither option?
Did a form today with that question and there was a NEITHER option!! I was so relieved lol
I told my old doc if I ever decided to have sex, she would probably be the third person I’d tell 😹
You wouldn't get through the first question "are you sexually active?" :D
My doctor didn't even ask me if I was having sex, she just started listing things that needed to happen if I was sexually active and waited for me to contradict her, which I didn't because I was waiting for a question, so she just gave me a look and ordered some tests
@@harshpeter You would just say "no"...
I wish every doctor was as cool as you, I'd feel totally comfortable coming out to you. It's truly shocking how many people nowadays, including some doctors, still judge people's sexuality or gender.
Props to the person who edits this and adds all those little sound effects and animations!
I love ❤️ the sound effects and animation. It makes dr mike video more fun 🤩 and interesting to watch 😎😁
@@keirahealy7082 saaame!!
I'm a simple 5'0 girl
I saw "grow taller"
I clicked
Your only 3 inches taller than me and I’m 14
lmaooo sameeee
Same
@@zeinahany7931 bruh I am 19 this year and only 5'1.. I hate it 😒 my sister whose only 2 year older than me is like 5'7 or maybe 5'8 as well....
Girls are much more cute when they're shorter.
2:40 is when he talks about coming out to your doctor
thank you 🤪
Appreciated ☺️
I hate it when the thumbnail and title makes it sound like its about the subject. When its only a minute about it.
OMG thanks
@@keith2o9 in all fairness, I think he said enough on the subject. There's really not much more he could have said about coming out to your doctor and why it could be very important.
I was 13, came out by writing my mom a letter telling her because i didn't want to say it out koud but was ready to come out. Wrote a letter and handed it to her. I'm now 28. Came out young but it was worth it. This was back in 2007 too. Long time. But it was worth it. If you want to come out or you're ready to, do it at your own pace and how you choose.
Doctor: "So. You... you a lil' fruity?"
Fruity indeed
I laughed so hard i sneezed pls-
Nooo 😭
@Miriam Svenson i’m currently going to uni to be a doctor and as someone who is a lot fruity imma be asking like this all the time 😭😭
🤣
Dr. Mike’s editors are a gift from God. That’s all I gotta say.
TOTALLY AGREED
I remember the first time a doctor asked me about my sexuality. I told them I am bi, and I automatically got a super judgy conversation about how they weren’t sure if I was being honest about only having one partner. “We’ve just seen so much crazy stuff with bisexuals.” Then they made me pay $400 for “mandatory STD screening”. When I asked why, they said it was company policy for bisexual people (or basically anyone who wasn’t straight). Of course, this wasn’t disclosed before my exam with a doctor who was way too rapey to be working with people with vaginas. Since then, I’ve made sure to screen my medical team members before I even set up the first appointment.
Oh, my God. That's horrible. I hope you have a different doctor now. NO doctor should ever treat a patient that way.
@@antonluvs I do, and he’s amazing! He was even willing to let me interview him before the first appointment, and has been very respectful about every part of my identity. I’m glad that I have the confidence to stand up for myself now. Discrimination against the LGBT+ community is still very real, though. To anyone else reading this who is facing that discrimination, know you aren’t alone. Be bold, be kind to yourself, and love your beautiful soul.
Omg! ⋆hugs⋆ I'm glad you've found a better doctor! I hope more people see this OP. It's more common than people think. :(
@@PaperFrogs hey cutie
@@SLIVER-MACE there’s always that one guy smh
Okay, I absolutely love that one of your answers started with the difficulties we have with building robots! Love your channel!
Mike: The best way to get taller is to get enough sleep
Me: Say no more!!
SHORTIES!!!! WE SHALL GO INTO HIBERNATION!!!!
Omg😂😂
Nailed the comment😂
Why Comatose People Don't Became Taller When She/He Wake Up?
LETS GOOOOOO!!!
I sleep like, 12 hours a day! Why am I still only 4’11! 💔
Google actually is responsible for diagnosing my juvenile diabetes. Luckily I found out before it got too serious and I only needed to be hospitalized for a day and I’ve been doing well since
Glad your doing good 😃
What did you google?
That's fantastic! Glad you're doing well.
@@frostincubus4045 their symptoms
Just don’t ever try meth...ever. Please.
i love how dr. mike is so passionate and enthusiastic. it’s so much fun to watch his videos, i always feel a little bit better
Doctor Mike I came out to my Primary Care as genderqueer/nonbinary and asked for a breast reduction. He’s been incredibly supportive and referred me to a local and well respected plastic surgeon. 😊
wait....a breast reduction? he gave you a recommendation for a breast reduction after how many visits?
@@sandygonsalves4646 Please consider that cis people (not trans) also request and are given breast reductions, without seeing a doctor for an incredibly long time (as many people imply that trans individuals need to). If someone wants a change to their body because it's causing pain or discomfort, I do not particularily see the reason its so bad.
@@ev_rlasting There is a thing called Body integrity disorder in which a person can have a strange fixation on wanting a missing limb. Should we then just cut of their arm and leg to alleviate their discomfort?
There is a difference between reducing someone breast / cutting them off due to a physical medical problem, - such as tumours, or spinal cord issues - vs cutting them off due to a mental condition that was likely not extensively explored OR could very well debilitate over time.
I read a story of someone who knew a 16 year old girl who was convinced she was trans. She was approved for a mastectomy after 1-2 visits to the doctor. Weeks after her breasts were removed, she came back to said clinic begging for her breasts back as she realized she wasn't trans. And you REALLY think approving a surgery to take
away breast tissue for a mental condition not properly explored is ethical?
@@sandygonsalves4646 I didn't say that at all, I would appreciate if you didn't put words in my mouth.
Cosmetic breast reductions exist and are accepted in society. Gender criticals only take issue when it involves trans people having autonomy over their own bodies.
For the record your argument's logic implies you don't believe any cosmetic surgery or permanent cosmetic treatment should exist, along with tattoos and other body mods.
You could argue all are caused by body dysmorphia, other self image issues or self harm. But nobody argued that. Because our autonomy is only questioned when we are trans.
Additionally, if you don't have a doctorate yourself (or even if you do- you've never MET this person) I'm confused as to why you immediately assume to "know better" about a patient than their own doctor
@@ev_rlasting "I didn't say that at all, I would appreciate if you didn't put words in my mouth."
I didn't say you did. I said it to illustrate a point.
As to the rest of your comment:
First of all if you're referring to the cutting off of breasts as "cosmetic" , you're only further invalidating it as a medical need. Nice going.
Second, in no way did my comment argue against tattoos or any cosmetic alteration. What I argued against is the practice of mutilating someone's body after they've had only ONE visit to the doctor and no extensive history of therapeutic counseling to support that getting a breast reduction or mastectomy is the best course of action for that individual. Same as you wouldn't cut off a person's arm just cause they asked for it, you don't cut off a person's breasts just cus they asked for it.
" I'm confused as to why you immediately assume to "know better" about a patient than their own doctor"
It doesn't take a being a doctor to know what is ethical and what isn't. The practice of cutting off breasts or doing bottom surgery on someone who had only ONE or TWO visits to the doctor about their GD, is WHOLY unethical.
I wish mike was my doctor, I love his personality, he’s respectful, kind, and seems like a really good person, it’s a shame I can’t have him for my appointments and such, he deserves his place in this world, he’s earned it.
my doctor was the first person that I came out to, his reaction was so accepting and the reason I was able to come out to my friends
That is so sweet. Gotta love your doctor.
Awww happy for you man !!
So happy! If you don’t mind me asking, what did you come out as?
@@boredom2533 would you like to know my sexuality too? 😏
@@boredom2533
Flirt with a random stranger
CHECK
For all y’all that are short (like me) and clicked on this video and said to yourself “How am I going to grow taller” It will be answered at 6:42.
Thanks🙏
Thank You
Would you guys say I’m tall if I’m 5,2ish at 11 y/o
@@davidbustamante7278 yes
@@ninjaboi1312 oh that was fast thanks
i remember around the age of 19-20 i was hesitant to tell my doctors that i was bisexual/pansexual…until i remembered that HIPAA prevents them from telling anyone else 😄
straight or gay
those are the only 2 that exist the rest is made up
hipaa?
@@thatwaterriver3824i forgot what its stands for but its basically a policy that healthcare workers are required to folllow in which they cannot disclose patient information with anyone besides the patient themselves
@@thatwaterriver3824Patient privacy law, prevents medical providers and therapists from disclosing your information to anyone you didn't consent giving it to
@@thatwaterriver3824It is when doctors or anyone in the medical profession can not tell anything about a patient to anyone one else. But I think if a patient is suicidal I think they would need to tell or they give permission to tell others.
Ahh when you're 22 and 4'11 but your 19 yrs old brother is 6 feet tall😭 it hurts 🤣
Same here sis
Short people are cute
@@kamisatoayaka9039 yeah but in a grand scheme of judgmental insecure thoughts I guess we suffer the most
@@madankumarsingh1598 it just you .. just embrace it. Short people lesser getting injury. Tall people can get injury easily. I got kneecap problem and till this day when i jog for 6km .. i felt pain.
@@kamisatoayaka9039 how tall are you then
Dr. Mike: Sleep well, you'll get taller
17 year old me who is 5'1 and sleeps at 10 pm and wakes at 8 am: confused screaming
You have enough sleep.
Sleep at 8 wake up at 8
@@kishan__ch__ or sleep all day every day forever
@@winniethepooh8766 lol
You don't get enough sleep. When i was 15 i was 5'5. What I'll always do was sleep well at night and sleep for hours during the afternoon. And now i regret it! I'm so tall and i don't even play basketball!
Doctor: Are you sexually active?
My ex: No, I usually just lay there.
Poor you
Lmaoooo🤣🤣
And you do the work on behalf of him?
Small pps be like
That sounds concerning
I came out to my doctor (who’s known me my entire life) as trans and he was more supportive, receptive, and helpful than my parents ever tried to be.
Fatherless behavior
@@AntiLgbtq767the fact you dedicated your whole acc to lgbt-
@@AntiLgbtq767 imagine dedicating ur whole acc to hate
@@AntiLgbtq767 Stop projecting yourself honey, we can all see how broken you are
@@AntiLgbtq767 Just come out already. It'll be okay!
6:47- when he talks about height
Sleep enough and exercise
Legend thank you
Ily
god bless
Thank you
I remember when my psychiatrist asked me if I was dating, and I told him I was seeing a girl. He went "Hell yes" and gave me a high five. Maybe he was just happy my depression was getting better lol.
That is kinda awsome ro read about to be honest :)
aww, I would be thrilled to get that reaction from anyone.
Dr Mike: "get enough sleep"
Me: *sleeps for more than 10 hrs and still wonders how I'm still 5'1" *
This is just cruel
You also need calcium to grow ur bones. Protein for muscles.
Milk is the answer, non fat for... idk boring
You can’t grow taller, no matter how much dairy you eat or drink, in the end it’s your genetics that determine your height, sleep can help but anything else eh
@@hannahyolen5686 watch the video, doc mike is taller than both of his parents. So its not just genetics. Even my 2 younger brothesr are taller than any of my family member. Its sleep and nutrients.
@@fynkozari9271 sleep and nutrition can alter your height but overall your genes dictate your height, it doesn’t even matter if your parents are small, it always depends on the genes, plus you don’t have to believe me but it is scientifically proven by health care workers and if you choose not to believe that, than that’s your belief.
Can’t believe I’m only now discovering you now. How I wish I had a Primary Doc like you. Thank You for all this Amazing information!
How to maximize height
"Get enough sleep"
Okay. *throws homework away*
That's one way to understand the message .-.
Lmao😂
Me who gets about 6hrs of sleep-
From what I can tell there is no direct evidence to support it. It's just a guess based on the secretion of a hormone during sleep. Might well be that if you sleep less you get just as tall, but more slowly.
Fun fact : There’s a species of insect named Firebrats that can eat paper
Example : You forgot your worksheet on the table , next morning you see a small bite mark on the paper
Hey y’all! So, I just found out that my grandpa, after radiation and chemotherapy, his cancer went away! I am so thankful for this and he is the 49th person to ever get it. So, it is very rare and he survived. Also, I want to become a pediatrician or a family physician. I am only in middle school but I really want to do that and go to Vanderbilt.
Edit: I love your vids Mike!
That’s great news! I’m very happy for you and your family. Thank you for sharing such great news. ❤️
Even tho were strangers glad to here he survived Im pretty sure were around the same age SO DONT GIVE UP ON YOUR DREAMS (I wanna be a video game devoloper or a artist
Nice!!
Congratulations!!!
Congrats!
I love that the reasoning for not wanting to be a radiologist is because it would be lonely 😂
lol
I kinda feel bad cuz that's what I wanna do
@@DarkKnight_ same
It’s a good reason.
Sounds peaceful lol
Thanks for being so open and enthusiastic about medicine. It's a joy to watch your content.
I'd absolutely see this doctor. He just won my heart by being okay with a gay patient. You wouldn't believe the number of doctors who will either refuse to see me because I'm gay, or make me feel like a bad person because of it.
Me, a sleep deprived insomniac who is 5,7 and one of the tallest in my class:
‘Ha! I beat the system!’
So, you should've been taller. 😆✌️
The genetics-
All the others in your class just sleep even worse or not at all.
I sleep, am 5'7 and am the tallest in my class-
I am literally you.....I am 5"7' and one of the tallest in girls in my class!
We all agree that the edit is amazing and the editor is doing such a flawless job(truly appreciate it)
Me watches Dr. Mike one time, “ Oh this is a cool doctor content creator.” My fifth time watching Dr. Mike, “ CHEST COMPRESSIONS! CHEST COMPRESSIONS! CHEST COMPRESSIONS!”
This is me daily. Like I hear his voice in my head saying "chest compressions" randomly. Its great
Same
Me, watching a medical drama 😂
He can’t not say chest compressions when he react to grey anatomy or the good 😌 doctor
The problem with cell phones for the elderly is that they don't carry them with them the way us younger folks do. I am a caregiver in a senior living facility and all of them have cell phones, but they leave them on the charger unless they go out, so I think having a life alert necklace or bracelet is best in case of a fall in their apartment.
Doctor: “Are you sexually active?”
Me: *Laughs in asexual*
@@deflectyou4460 do you want a serious answer?
I don’t want any. I just don’t see the point of it beyond reproduction, which I wouldn’t worry about due to being gay. Even if I was straight, sex still wouldn’t be on my lists of to do… ever.
@@tlkfanrwbyfan8716 ok, i mean, it feels good
Asexual? Are you an amoeba?
@@deflectyou4460 I don't want any. But i wouldn't say no to someone i care about.
Sincerely, a sex-favourable ace.
(ok tbf i might be demisexual tho, but whatever, the joke still works)
this dude gives out personal comfort and positive vibes
“Stay happy, and healthy”
-Doctor Mike
Edit: Also, “Chest Compressions”
CHEST COMPRESSIONS! 🩺
*CHEST COMPRESSIONS*
CHEST COMPRESSIONS
This is the perfect video that my mom would show me whenever she sees someone taller than me...
just do nothing for hours a day, and your body will be more active... it's so obvious! seriously though? it makes no sense on the surface. lie there unconscious for hours and you will grow?
HELLO!!! I want to spend time with celebrities. Just kidding. GAGAGAGAGA! I only want to spend time with my two girlfriends and record videos for UA-cam with the 3 of us. OH YEAH. Don't hate me for living the best life, dear qsh
I had a therapist, in my first session, ask if the problems I was having with my boyfriend because I'm bisexual- I think he assumed that I was secretly gay.
But no, I've never had problems with my sexuality.
I'm a gay man. I was calling around to find a personal physician a few years ago. I asked an office assistant if the doctor was LGBTQ friendly and the response was, "Why should that matter?! We treat all our clients equally." This was a red flag. The conversations just aren't the same. The office assistant's response sent me right on to the next doctor's listing. I've been very fortunate with public clinics to always get amazing care, but I have gay friends with private doctors who have had sti's misdianosed for weeks due to communication issues.
Me: Literally chose radiology to avoid patient interaction :(
Good for you!
Haha, I know a person who is studying to be a doctor right now and who is very shy. I constantly think to my self that this friend of mine will end up either in radiology or pathology, or just scientific medical research :D
Introvert vs extrovert lmao
I've had counselling and the first doctor wasn't very supportive of my sexuality and I didn't feel comfortable talking to him. I decided to change my doctor and she was really supportive of me and made me feel very comfortable. Talking to her made me feel so much better.
Thank you to all the supportive doctors. Thank you Doctor Mike
Fatherless behavior
@@AntiLgbtq767Homophobic behaviour
dr mike: not radiology because of lack of patient interaction.
me: I want to be a radiologist because I get to stand behind a shield, interact with nobody and pour radiation all over them.
Oooooooo yes I'd love that
Pour radiation 👁👄👁
As good as this joke is, we have to recognize and make it common knowledge that radiography technology nowadays is the safest it has ever been. I oftentimes see many misconceptions about modern radiography techniques people still hold true
My sister offered to pay for my college if I went to nurse school and I can't be a nurse. I have autism and can't handle the bad news or help comfort people like that, and I don't want to be around poop and vomit
you'd be a radiographer then
Loving the stories of supportive drs. I do wanna say that an elderly/disabled alert system is still worth looking into. I fell down the steps at 3am one night and my phone flew out of my hands and for a sec I wasn't able to move. If my dad hadn't heard me, I don't like to think about how long I might've laid there. Or tl;dr "help! I've fallen and can't get up!" could v easily mean unable to get to phone or even have the dexterity to make the call.
My mom (gynecologist/sexologist) and i (just her lgbtq+ kid lmao) were talking about respectful ways to approach the subject of sexuality, and we came up with "do you have penetrative sex or not?", and then asking them to elaborate if necessary. It is the best way we came up with without immediately assuming someone's sexual orientation or gender identity!
this is a great idea! as a medical student i've been thinking about this so thank you for bringing this up
"what is your sexuality?"- also a viable option
yeah, but then you still don't know if the person could be pregnant, rule out certain STDs or whatever. Just straight up ask: What's your sexuality?
Or just ask them what they're sexual preference is. Seems kind of a roundabout way to get to the same answer.
@Anne-Lise Dugas Not all men have the tools necessary for that, and some women do.
I'm polyamorous and I got so many jugment out of that from healthcare professionnal. Everyone consents, everyone stays protected, what more do you want?
They want "nOrMaLcY"
Seriously: the amount of Doctors I have met who believe it is their job to make their patients normal (physically and behaviourally) is soulcrushing.
Most don't care about your personal needs, what is right for you and that you (and your partners) aren't harming anyone.
It's what kept me from going into psychology, because I didn't want to be beholden to a bunch of old farts who think psychology is about "fixing" everything that is unusual about a person.
@@amandaforrester7636 No pressure Luv, but would you be willing to say more on what happened to you? I've never heard anything like that before about the poly community, and I'm interested.
@Rexxy Actually that’s completely wrong, as a medical student myself, doctors are not interested in normalcy, we’re interested in maintaining optimal health for our patients.
The question of your personal needs is irrelevant because in medicine it’s not like retail work, that patient is not always right, in fact most times they’re wrong hence the reason why we’re the doctors and your not. Also psychology is literally a discipline that investigates the human psyche and simultaneously plays a role in treating disorders of the mind. The amount of irrationality in this comment on staggering.
Also to yourself and the original comment, I feel you should do some actual reading into polyamory, because if you did you would realise that from an evolutionary biological standpoint, polyamory is an inherently unstable form of relationships, so much to the point that in every biological system they exist in, all of those systems have incredibly high levels of ultra violence which all stems from these types relationships, and there’s plenty of biological literature on this topic for you to see for yourself.
There’s a reason why natural selection favoured monogamous relationship types because the are completely compatible and suitable in evolutionary terms. It’s the primary reason why polyamory feels unnatural and wrong, because it’s not beneficial to society. It’s just a silly trend today from people simply afraid of committment
@@sophiarobbins7602 Neither of your statements are true. Many doctors do take it upon themselves to make their patients "normal" even if you haven't seen it that doesn't make it untrue. Your other statement is just so wrong evolution clearly supports polyamory in most animal species(or at least mammals) because it has the highest chance of success in yielding offspring and furthering the species. If you don't believe me just look up "What percentage of animals are polyamorous" or something similar and I'm sure you'll get results.
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@@JayBeMeee
So you are saying the doctor is lying to you right now?
Maybe you should "Trust the science."
I came out to my doctor as trans because my family hasn't been great (been 8 years since I came out to them and they haven't come around despite years of several different medical professionals' diagnoses of me having gender dysphoria and validating my lived experience). She said "Yeah, I had an inkling" and asked me what name and pronouns I preferred to go by, as well as told me it would only take a minute after the checkup if I wanted to change my name and recognized gender (separate from where they need to indicate sex, like an additional thing). She was so great about it that I think I might go back to her when I plan to start HRT and surgery.
that's really awesome! and same i have evidence of having gender dysphoria but my family still doesn't believe me or is accepting and i get abused for being trans. i hope it all works out for you though, that's super exciting!
I know your not a doctor, but why are there no trans women? And why does no one want to be a woman anymore? I don’t mean this as an insult or anything but I don’t know any women and every trans person I meet is ftm.
@@moseptyagami606 I'm actually not sure. It definitely is a phenomenon, though, and is something I've noticed as well. I will say I do know quite a few trans women around my age (I'm in college), but I think the ftm and ftn populations definitely vastly outnumber the mtf and mtn populations. Will be interesting to see if any scientific studies come out in the future.
@@tmmyinnit I’m a little confused. Since there’s more men in the world in total, more biological females want to be that?
@@moseptyagami606 trans women exist? never really heard that take if I'm being honest.
they might *appear* to be less common, but it's only because it's more stigmatized and hated for someone to be transitioning to female rather than transitioning to male.
gosh whoever edits these videos make them 10 times more entertaining to watch. good job to whoever you are!
How to maximize your height:
My dad: 6'0
Me at 12: Gonna eat trash food and minimize my height.
Me at 25 and 5'7: Gonna talk to you about my biggest regret in life.
I'm 13... the same as your height
No such thing as "trash food". Either it has the nutrients you need or it does not. Since you're still around, I wager it did.
@@MrCmon113 like chips or soda and stuff
@JUSTIN SHARP that's normal, good thing you're not 5'5-5'1
@@MrCmon113 Not true. There are foods or stuff in food that will mess up your hormones which CAN cause premature growth plate closure or low GH levels.
Your editor is killing it with these videos.
The height one is really funny to me. My mom is 4'11 and my dad is 5'3 and i'm 5'7 I think I've maxed out because I'm already towering over them.
I'm 15 and 5"4 been that way for the past year and a half😂my mom is 5"2 and my dad is 5"10 feel like i stopped growing idk sucks
@@Billyyezzur don’t worry, I bet you will still grow some more. When I was your age I was the exact same height and now I’m 5’11
wait what your parents are whaatttt
LUCKY😭 my mom is 5’2 and my dad is 5’6 and yet I’m only 4’11 💀 but that really is funny.
@@jeremyroberts8822 how old r u now?
This is a super random thought that just popped into my mind and has little to do with the subjects in this video, but I can’t remember the last time I had a truly comforting hug. Like yea I hug my mom, dad and sister, but everyone is so stressed these days! It almost feels like there is no time anymore for real, long, loving and comforting hugs. We live in a world that expects so much of all of us, no one has time to relax. I really miss the feeling of a true hug :(
I came out to my class teacher as transboy and he asked if I would like to tell it my class so I said yes. So I told it my class and they were SOO supportive. Even the class teacher. They are all calling me Lucas! ✨ (not the whole school ofc, only the class and the teacher.)
Update: I'm sorry that I created whatever is happening in the comments about this comment. I didn't wanted to make anybody mad, I just wanted to tell you this message, because it makes me happy. I'm sure I'm not the only one who shares something like this in the comments. A big THANKS for people who are supporting me.
That's so cool, so proud to see some progress and acceptance, especially in classes!
@@majaoajausisj9176 what?
@@RandomDragonEXE thank you
Aww! That’s amazing, I’m starting to have some hope in humanity now. Really proud of you for being so vulnerable, congrats Lucas.
So are you actually biologically trans or did you just want to be trans?
I say that because some people say they are trans but they are not .
Coming out to your doctor can be difficult when you live in a conservative state, and especially if you aren't out to your family. I've told my OBGYN that I'm bisexual because I trusted her and it was important info for something. But most of my other doctors I just wouldn't feel safe telling here in Texas. It is hard to know what your doctor's views are on LGBTQ issues, and even just asking what they think makes it clear that there is a reason you want to know.
Same, I live in Texas and I’m also bi, and I feel uncomfortable talking about it because of how people react.
I have started telling doctors I'm straight because every time I was honest about my sexuality, I was discriminated against.
I told a Dr. he immediately started telling me I probably had HIV or AIDS. I was like “whoa whoa… I told you I’m practically zero active.” He was like. “You can get it even kissing. I feel like we need to do a full STI panel and HIV test”. He was physically bothered by my answer to him. He even kept his hand over his mouth. I was like. Fine. But you are not listening to me. He did an insane battery of tests, blood panels etc etc. everything came back negative of course. And he never called me back to work on my sinus infection. Needless to say. Fk that dude. Yes I’m here in Texas. Sad to see such a young Dr. not know how HIV works. Does he accuse all his patients of HIV when they come in for a bad sinus infection? They all kiss someone, they all have sex. I bet not.
@@k.u.m.a4459 Exactly. I made the mistake of telling a close friend once, and it turned out she was homophobic and I just hadn't known it because we hadn't talked about that topic before. Ruined the friendship and terrified me.
@@Final_Fantasy_Hub I just don't talk about it. As a woman, most of the time they are just asking me if I'm pregnant or could be (even though I have no uterus they keep asking) and not about my sexuality. I'm single right now, which helps.
Doctor Mike: The best way to get taller is to sleep enough.
*Me watching this video at 12 a.m: 👁👄👁
All doctors should definitely be like him 🥹
My dad is 5'10'' my mom is 5'7" my elder brother is 5'10'' but I'm 6', don't worry, you will get tall
Short people at 30: so that was a flipping lie
are you a middle child?
thanks man
what if only child??
Don't give me hope
“such science” 😂😂 “much smart” 😂😂 “very doctor” 😂😂 IM DEAD!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
What does this means....?? I don't know...
@@ItsMe-xn8cd it's a meme - search for the 'doge meme'
“Teach them the basics of technology”
Dr. Mike has never met an old person...
It’s hard for me to even teach my mom to use the remote control for tv ...
@@lovelynfa0472 My dad calls himself a "tech wiz" but couldn't figure out how to turn the tv on. The power button was red and the biggest one on the remote...
@@chickenalpaca0332 To be fair, old people probably have trouble identifying that the symbol on the power button means power.
A few years ago I remember reading a study or just a short story of a 60 year old man that was yelled at by his mom as a kid for cracking his knuckles, because "it will give you arthritis". He cracked his knuckles on one hand but not the other for decades, the hand he cracked didn't have arthritis but the other did. Told my grandma this when she tried to be a Karen to the lady I got a masage from for cracking my toes.
Whenever a doctor asks me if im sexually active I say yes, and when they ask if its possible im pregnant I say no. The amount of times I have to say "I'm gay, my partner is a woman." is rediculous. Not to mention the reactions I get. Some are like "oh yeah that will do it" or "Have you ever been with the opposite sex?" What does that have to do with anything? Its so annoying.
This. Why it’s it so hard to just accept the info you’re given?? I was dating a trans man and had a string of bad uti’s and abdominal pain and issues. It took far too much explaining that: yes, I was dating a man. Yes, I was sexually active. No, there’s no way at all I could be pregnant.
@Margaret Bush Partner was a Trans Man and I am a cis Woman. There were no testes or sperm/semen in our relationship. So, no. No one could have been pregnant.
@@caitlynglambrecht I had a doctor who... I dunno if she didn't write it down and forgot each time I saw or, or straight up didn't believe me, but she kept insisting I needed to be on contraception. Like... no? Pinkie promise not to get pregnant!
Well the question: "Have you ever been with the opposite sex?" is probably just to make sure. I mean abrosexuals are a thing that exists. How'd the doctor know? And they ask that for medical reasons, obviously.
@@caitlynglambrecht Uh but that he was trans is an information the doctor really should be given. Even after (presumably) transitioning, there may still be risks from his leftover female anatomy. Sure those questions are uncomfortable, but the doc has to ask them.
Doctor asks if I'm more into men or women
Me, a pansexual: *yes*
me to everyone: yes
My doc is homophobic so it goes like this
Her: Got a boyfriend?
Me: I have a PARTNER (i think they're enby like me)
Her: A boyfriend?
Me: No a fuckin homeless person from the ditch on the interstate
I truly hate my doctor
since this is a medicak context its more about who you actually have sex with, less about actual identity
@@skaimartinez9447 Homophobic docs r the worst lmao
so bi?
The people who disliked this would probably use essential oil’s instead of chest compressions.
I've coated my lungs with essential oils so that they're hydrophobic now, and the water will just slide right out of my lungs
Doctor mike ruined medical dramas for me with chest compressions 😕 I can’t watch any scene where a patients heart stops without yelling chest compressions to myself.
@@michaelnewton1754 instructions unclear: lungs now have rabies! :D
Lol. Essential oils are just for smells.😉
@@jesuslovesyou4400 and they do smell good
My mom actually does radiology! Her love for medicine rubbed off on me too, and now I never shut up about biology
The first person I came out to, beside my three closest friends actually was my doctor! He is a young man and just took over my old doctor's cabinet when he went into retirement. It was the first time ever that I saw him, and I explained that I had came back here recently cause I just had a break up with my boyfriend. He saw on my file that I had been taking the pill for about 8 years and asked me if I needed a refill or if I wanted to wait for "the next boyfriend". I completely froze and just blurred "Ahem no thanks. Let's just say I don't need it with girls."
And that's the story of how I came out to my doctor.
That doesn’t make sense
@@venicetaylor1448 how dosent it?
@@venicetaylor1448 explain.
“I feed off patient interaction” -Literally every doctor and scientist
Doctor yeah not scientist
@@JonahNelson7 Oh yes scientists as well, trust me, first hand experience. /gen
Also i don't appreciate the call out. /j /s
my doctor gives me a suit with tight ropes and they inject something to my arm, they say I'm crazy and I need medication but I can't understand them or the doctors, and I just laughed it off
@@joda8737
Really? /gen
I wanna be a scientist, like in the medical field, but I also don't know what to expect /also gen
Hi, Mike! Can you react to "What If You Wake Up During Open-Heart Surgery" by however?
Let's give us a thumbs up here, guys!
Thumbs up card here 😜
on that second question that's what I'm actually gonna go into, that is when i get in the program "hopefully" next fall, have to get the pre reqs done first. From watching your videos you have been part of the influence for me to go back to school to further my medical career.
4:01 "Why does the body inflict pain on itself?"
People on their period: hahaha
Sadly true
“Don’t stop bleeeeeedin”
Allergy sufferers: *Initiating self-destruct*
Migraineurs
@@bunnyloverplayz1371 GAHAHAHAHA
I came out to my doctor before my family. Thanks to Covid I didn’t have to do it face to face, which helped. Unfortunately I’m in a different city, and he doesn’t have many resources where he can refer in my city. But he asked for my new name, he asked pronouns, he wanted to know what I wanted to do, if anything, for transition. I was so relieved
How wonderful for you to have an accepting doctor!
When your not even short but for some reason want to grow taller anyways
Same, I’m 5’7 and i just want to be as tall as my sister who’s 5’9. I’m 16, so who knows. Maybe ill squeak out another inch or two
@@shaynabarkan3940 16 gang, also 5'7 is a good height !
I’m 12 and I’m 5’3. I clicked for the same reason. We’re getting 24 hours of sleep today
I'm 12 and I'm 5'4 and I want to make it to 5'8
@@keilamondragon5190 same, I'm supposed to be 5'8 in life, but I'm 13 and 5'4, so idk if I'll reach that height
I have truly enjoyed all of the videos I have watched on your channel, especially the ones with your nephews, but this is the best one yet! Thanks!
Hey, speaking about the expiration date on food (I have a degree on food science), as long as the food smells, tastes, and looks good, you can have it.
Expiration dates are for guaranteeing nutrient content and that they probably won’t spoil before that date.
But if after that date, it’s still good, then you can surely have it and it won’t represent any greater risk for your health than it did before the exp. date. :)
My pediatrician years ago: "So, do you like men, women, or both?"
Very good question. At that point in my life, it was difficult to tell, so I just said, "I don't know."
She nodded, and I told her that I was not sexually active. She explained why she was asking me and what I might want to look out for and that was that. It was really comforting.
in any other situation,id advise you to call the cops lmao
@@sanguinedelight6464?
As a girl who is 17 but 5'1, I clicked THIS VIDEO SOOOO QUICK!!
SAME LMFAI
Not the only one just a tad smaller than you 😂
Sameeee im 18 and 5’2 😂
@@lucia7247 im 22 and like 5 foot nothing 🤣🙈
@@ellewilliams750 How tall? I'm 5 feet 1.75 inches 😊
Keep up the good work! Your videos helped me get through a very tough time in my life.👍
6:43 the reason we all clicked so fast
Thank you
ur a queen
Thanks king
He changed the thumbnail and title so that’s not the reason we all clicked. It’s pride month themed now
"Get Enough Sleep"
Me watching the video at 2:30 AM and having to wake up early tomorrow👁️👄👁️
Same here😂
It’s 4 pm where I’m at
My doctor didn't even blink when i told him I was transgender. He's an awesome doctor.
i’d hope so…
@moldingfries I would hope so. That was over a year ago lmao
@@brandonkinkade1414 Lmaoooo that is funny
Their doctor: 😳😳
As a healthcare professional for 30 years we are blessed to have Dr Mike! We need more just like him
" How many individual strands of hair does a person have normally ? " I have an answer. The normal amount of hair strands is 100,000 at an average. It depends on how fast the hair grows and how old you are. Some have less and some have more , but we all have an average of 100,000 strands of hair.
Does that include body hair?
Only God knows the exact number of hairs on a person's head
@@soldierofgod4210 [citation needed]
@@irrelevant_noob What do you mean?
@@soldierofgod4210 i mean how do you know that, and do you expect others to accept that statement on just your say-so?