I totally agree with you but what to do when a girl has been chaste for 28 years of life and wants to marry but does not find any guy who either had been chaste or is chaste. Then it hurts. Especially when you waited for so long for your husband but somehow or other reasons he does not show up and those guys who come they have already had multiple sexual partners. It gets difficult to digest. How to deal with that?
Agree with you Timsy. It is very difficult to find a good match. Earlier days parents, and almost all relatives of a girl used to work really hard to find a nice husband for her. These days girls are left alone, no parent cares for it. Sadly. But still in ISKCON now we are reviving that culture back. If parents don't help, devotee parents will help. So you need to find a devotee community, there they have marriage boards. And devotees who will search for you a suitable husband. Still it is difficult, but it is better than nothing.
This really talks more about sex before marriage than dating. In the US, people almost exclusively find spouses by dating, yet many still don't believe in having sex until they are married. Dating is not necessarily wrong if the couple waits to have sex until they are married. They can take precautions like not meeting alone and they can have their parents involved. In the caption of this video it says, "Oh, You know, I have 2 boyfriends. How many you are having? ...oh I did not count..." Normal people who date don't have multiple boyfriends. Would a boy want to date a girl who's dating someone else?
If you study the Vedic stories of wisdom, you will discover that all stories involving polygamy end up badly... so the lesson is polygamy is a bad idea. Otherwise, Vaisnavism, as far as I understand, never recommends something that is against the local laws unless it is a primordial essential eternal religious principle such as Sankirtan.
***** Prabhupada was happy his father convinced him not to have a second wife. Polygamy is a bad idea for most of the population. Arjuna and Krishna are not to be imitated by we should follow in their footstep through the Guru-parampara system.
***** But now divorce is legal In India so...polygamy and divorce do not mix well together. Think about it, as soon as one of the wives is angry, she will file for divorce and obtain a substantial amount of the husband's wealth.
***** "So I think I have spoken about my own life. You know that I was a married man. So after being married, I did not like my wife. (laughter) Somehow or other, I did not like. I must say she is very faithful, very everything... Everyone praised. But I did not like, somehow or other. So I was preparing for next marriage. Next marriage. Because in India, at that time it was allowed, a man can marry more than one wife. Now the law is there. So my father, he was a saintly person. So he called me one day and said, "My dear boy, you are trying to marry again. I request you don't do that. You do not like your wife. That is a great fortune for you." (laughter) So I gave up that idea of marrying. Yes. So now I am realizing my father's blessing, yes, that if I would have been too much attached to my wife, then I could not have come to this position. That's a fact. So by ethical point of view, from spiritual point of view, to become too much attached to wife is an impediment for spiritual advancement." [Srimad-Bhagavatam Lecture, 1.3.17, Los Angeles, September 22, 1972]
Absolutely right you are amazing though your english struggles ❤ and you said right very difficult controlling because everyone is human commiting mistake is all we do but after learning lesson do not continue
yes a boy is not to control his sex he can regulate it through marrage only not to go ellicit sex .he can make good family to the sociaty. is it very simple.
kaveti fotoshoot i read a quote on facebook that-- "I am not saying that its going to be easy but i am saying that its going to be worthy". hare krishna.
There is always hope. Imagining your selves as a body, is the on I y cause of ignorance. You are the part of that indivisible Brahman, the infinite, the all present, everlasting, omnipotent. If you are that, how could you sin. How can you even think of hope, the moment you experience Brahman, you are free.
Uh umm uh I don't really know what I'm talking about but um uh just saying this to sound like I know but um nobody in Kali Yuga should be dating anyway
The main takeaway - "Joy without responsibility is animal life."
Brilliant!!
as usual I.find a lot of enlightenment in your lectures
Joy without responsibility is animal life, amazing line
yes
every word of yours is practical
we can see all this in society easily
and in ourselves too
wow Didn't knew all this..every young girl and boys should know this.
Very logical explaination for the masses! Hari bol mataji
Grateful for taking the initiative and educating us with such videos. :)
this is the truth hare Krishna
very well explained... Jai shri Krishna
I totally agree with you but what to do when a girl has been chaste for 28 years of life and wants to marry but does not find any guy who either had been chaste or is chaste. Then it hurts. Especially when you waited for so long for your husband but somehow or other reasons he does not show up and those guys who come they have already had multiple sexual partners. It gets difficult to digest. How to deal with that?
I pray for u dea
Agree with you Timsy. It is very difficult to find a good match. Earlier days parents, and almost all relatives of a girl used to work really hard to find a nice husband for her. These days girls are left alone, no parent cares for it. Sadly. But still in ISKCON now we are reviving that culture back. If parents don't help, devotee parents will help. So you need to find a devotee community, there they have marriage boards. And devotees who will search for you a suitable husband. Still it is difficult, but it is better than nothing.
This really talks more about sex before marriage than dating.
In the US, people almost exclusively find spouses by dating, yet many still don't believe in having sex until they are married.
Dating is not necessarily wrong if the couple waits to have sex until they are married. They can take precautions like not meeting alone and they can have their parents involved.
In the caption of this video it says, "Oh, You know, I have 2 boyfriends. How many you are having? ...oh I did not count..."
Normal people who date don't have multiple boyfriends. Would a boy want to date a girl who's dating someone else?
The rule is to do the best you can.
Best is marriage and for those who cannot do that, monogamy is clearly better than promiscuity.
If you study the Vedic stories of wisdom, you will discover that all stories involving polygamy end up badly... so the lesson is polygamy is a bad idea. Otherwise, Vaisnavism, as far as I understand, never recommends something that is against the local laws unless it is a primordial essential eternal religious principle such as Sankirtan.
***** Prabhupada was happy his father convinced him not to have a second wife. Polygamy is a bad idea for most of the population. Arjuna and Krishna are not to be imitated by we should follow in their footstep through the Guru-parampara system.
***** But now divorce is legal In India so...polygamy and divorce do not mix well together. Think about it, as soon as one of the wives is angry, she will file for divorce and obtain a substantial amount of the husband's wealth.
***** "So I think I have spoken about my own life. You know that I was a married man. So after being married, I did not like my wife. (laughter) Somehow or other, I did not like. I must say she is very faithful, very everything... Everyone praised. But I did not like, somehow or other. So I was preparing for next marriage. Next marriage. Because in India, at that time it was allowed, a man can marry more than one wife. Now the law is there. So my father, he was a saintly person. So he called me one day and said, "My dear boy, you are trying to marry again. I request you don't do that. You do not like your wife. That is a great fortune for you." (laughter) So I gave up that idea of marrying. Yes. So now I am realizing my father's blessing, yes, that if I would have been too much attached to my wife, then I could not have come to this position. That's a fact. So by ethical point of view, from spiritual point of view, to become too much attached to wife is an impediment for spiritual advancement."
[Srimad-Bhagavatam Lecture, 1.3.17, Los Angeles, September 22, 1972]
I m speechless..no word to express ur knowledge..u r superb..
Well said dear
Thankyou so much mtg for Guiding us
Hari bool ..🤗🤗. Tysm mataji. dandavat pranam🙌🙌 hare krishna🙏🙏
Shrimad Bhagavatam doesn't say that women's lust is 9 times more then men's, Chanakya Pundit says that.
Yes,womens are more power ful than men
To Mr Damodar R......Vishnu says this to Garuda in Garuda Purana and also confirmed in Srimad Bhagavatam...
Actually Srimad Bhagwatam do says that
Right
Damodar R read Garuda puran
Absolutely right you are amazing though your english struggles ❤ and you said right very difficult controlling because everyone is human commiting mistake is all we do but after learning lesson do not continue
Thanks sis to provide right information
Sooooo wonderful video ❤️❤️❤️ thank you so much for this great information ❤️ hare Krishna mata g 🙏
Wow very nicely explained 👌👌
I owe my respect
Greate Words.Thanks
Very logical video Mataji🙏
Thank u mtji .well explained.
Respect
Very well explained
Hare Krishana
well explained
Hare Krishna 🙏🏼
amazing mtg really inspired
Mataji your voice is so sweet
Hare krishna mam!
Hare Krishna!
Please be with us for much more amazing videos.Hare Krsna.
Hare Krishna....
Great Shastrik view.
Hare Krishna Mathaji
Hare Krishna...!!!
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Very true mam hare krshna
Jai sri ram
Vvv nice mataji
Jai Shri Krishna
Jai Shri Krishna !!!!
Hare Krishna
yes a boy is not to control his sex he can regulate it through marrage only not to go ellicit sex .he can make good family to the sociaty. is it very simple.
kaveti fotoshoot i read a quote on facebook that-- "I am not saying that its going to be easy but i am saying that its going to be worthy". hare krishna.
hare krishna
Is there any hope if I have already had many boyfriends?
Coldwelth Simms
U must go hare Krishna temple iskcon temple you will get your answer as I get.
Go for it
There is always hope. Imagining your selves as a body, is the on I y cause of ignorance. You are the part of that indivisible Brahman, the infinite, the all present, everlasting, omnipotent. If you are that, how could you sin. How can you even think of hope, the moment you experience Brahman, you are free.
what a mean of lust
Uh umm uh I don't really know what I'm talking about but um uh just saying this to sound like I know but um nobody in Kali Yuga should be dating anyway
YES it is ture but we can become a example ....
Hare Krishna
hare krishna
Hare Krishna