Choosing My Family Over Career | My Journey To More Quality Time
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- Опубліковано 18 вер 2024
- Hello Farm Family. Thank you all for joining us for another upload. The next three months for me (Neco) will be very interesting. I am on paternity leave & will have this time to focus on my family, the homestead, the animals, & all things included...but what if this could be my new reality. In this video we talk about work, being stuck in the hamster wheel, finances, & how we plan to one day escape this cycle in order to best provide for our children which is more than a monetary thing of course.
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Please tell Egypt Rose to always be proud of her name and her heritage. I am 73 years old and my grandmother urged me to be proud of mine and now I realize how right she was. My name, Zelia, is very unusual and can be traced back over 300 years in our family, all I wanted to do as a little girl was change it, but now I love my name and respect all those who carried this name long before I was born.
I am 54 years old. My children have all left home and are having children of their own. Nine years ago we moved my mother-in-law in with us. She passed away two weeks ago. So it is just my wife and I again. The children don’t live around us, so it’s just us. Slowly, we have actually been building a Homestead. We’ve had some moderate success, and we have had some massive failures. But when you mentioned you only had 18 summers with your children. And nine years are already gone with Egypt. I started thinking that at my age I might only have 18 more summers. I am still in the hamster wheel. I have a good job. And as my four-legged buddy comes up to get neck rubs, I realize that when he is gone, I may only have one or two more dogs in my life. This video has touched me deeply. 18 more harvests. I need to make a change in my life. I watch Keeping it Dutch, Fowler Family Farm, and a lot more homesteaders. And with exception to Doug and Stacy, you all still have your children. So, I need to light that fire again to start anew. Thank you for really making me think about what I want out of my next 18 summers.
My children are grown. I cherish each day I got to be home with them. If you can make it work and be home more often, do it. I promise you'll never look back and wish you'd been at work instead.
I think it is a wonderful plan so little Pharaoh does not have to go to daycare. Enjoy your time spent at home with the family. I think it's smart to be figuring out now what you want your life to look like in the future. Thank you for the lovely video.
I don’t think you’re crazy at all for taking time to work your farm full time. This is the perfect way to find out if it’s what you really want to do. From the time I started watching your videos, I’ve been super impressed at how you and Natalie work outside jobs and then come home and work your farm, care for your animals and your children. 🙏🏿❤️
The timing is perfect. Your maternity leave, to get the feel of it. That kiddo's also getting use to and enjoying Daddy being home full time. It'll all work out. God bless y'all 🤗💖💖💖
You will not want to go back to work. All of your children are precious. Enjoy your time with them. I hope you can figure out how to be a full time homesteader. I came over from The Eddy family. I have enjoyed all your videos. I love the music choices on your videos. Best wishes on you adventures .
Hearing your story today made me realize I want to be subscriber to your channel. I haven't done this before because I couldn't afford it, but my son finally went back to work. He lives with me also his two year old he now has full custody of. I can now afford it. I love you guys ❤️🙏. I truly enjoy watching you and your family and the dedication ya'll have to your family 2 leged and 4 leged. Keep up with the great work. Now Neco you can make more videos for us your extended family 🙏❤️🙏.
Wow - that is so amazing. Thank you for sharing your story. It is rare that a father received custody so major congratulations to your son; I can only image the joy in his heart to have custody & to be able to raise his child in a loving home. ❤️❤️
Neco, I did the same thing for years! I was tired of working for the man and making myself sick. The more I did, the more they asked me to do. I did own my own business for 18 years, but I was still working for others. It was the best day of my life when my husband told me to retire. You chose correctly and God will honor your decision! God and Family above all! Nobody ever said, gosh I wish I had worked more hours! Blessings!
Wow!! Thank you so much for sharing your story Jan. That’s exactly how I feel at times. I work very hard & although I love my job, I’m growing their business by millions each year but I’m losing out on more important things not to mention my piece of the pie is disproportionate. Really looking forward to these next 3 months to do all I can to hopefully make it my 100% reality one day soon ❤️❤️
As a mother and a grandmother I totally agree with your decision. I was a single parent and worked full time and attended classes on my lunch break. I did get my BA and raised my 3 children. What I miss the most was the being home more often with them. I say if you and Natalie agree than it is your decision and nobody elses. You both know if it is right and no need for you to ask us. Love Nonni from Massachusetts.
I don’t think you are crazy at all! My daughters are grown now and have children of their own… they say that I instilled a great work ethic in them (I want to scream, I was wrong!)… I see what I missed and what they are missing… if you can have more time with your family… DO IT!!!!!!!! As many people have said, you will NOT regret it! 🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼
I agree 100%
I think what you're doing is great!! I was a stay at home mom until our son entered 5th grade. I never once regretted staying home to be with our son. My husband and I cherished the time we had with our son. On November 28,2016, our son was killed while restoring power. He was a Lineman. We miss our son every day. So make sure you create memories that will last you a lifetime. You never know when God will call you,your spouse, child, or parent home to be with him. If I could hug your neck and Natalie's, I would. You both are blessed to have each other in this crazy world. Whatever you decide to do, know that God is always with you. I am proud of you and what you're willing to do for your family. Go be happy!!
I am so sorry about the loss of your son. So few people realize how valuable and absolutely necessary power can be. My father in law was on a ventilator, they had a gas generator but were running out of fuel a lineman got them enough fuel to last till transportation could arrive. They save lives but it is often over looked but not by those who really need them.
The most important job you will ever have is to raise Godly, grounded, loving, productive children. No money in the world is worth more than the time you spend with your children. You are a wise man Neco.
Jason and Brooke are doing it full time and they are only in their 40's. I don't think it is crazy to want to do this full time. I wish you the best of luck. ❤❤❤
I think you two are making good decisions. I wish more people would think like you. 🙏😊
You will never say “ gee I wish I had worked more” I promise. No success can compensate for failure in the home. One of my favorite sayings. I worked while raising our 7 kids. My husband worked at least two jobs while raising our family. But now with raised kids I do have regrets. Our kids are all raising families of their own and they all are educated great people. But I do have regrets. I missed a lot with my young kids even though I waited to go to work until our youngest was in school. Never live with regrets. You are right have your money work for you.
Great decisions Neco and Natali! Praying you’re successful in this chapter! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Neco & Natalie--
In an advanced psych course I learned how important Dads are to daughters. In order for girls to do well in math, they need to have a caring father in their life to switch on a tiny part of the brain that has to do with math skill. Thank you for your choice to put priority on your relationships with your kids!👍👍
Wow!! Is very interesting. Thank you so for sharing your story ❤️❤️
I love ❤ the bond that Egypt and Thor have! Happy Labor Day!
I think more and more people think the same as you all do Neco and Natalie....... thank you both.
Not crazy at all. You’re a smart man Neco, and Egypt is such a good helper!
That is awesome Neco - if you all can make it work, do it. That is cherished time & memories. It’s wonderful.
God Bless.
"Cat's in the cradle..." make the most of the three months by spending lots of time with those kiddos!
Egypt is so mature and silly. Good combination ❤ She must have excellent parents!
I love the way you said this. I’m a mother that didn’t get enough time with my children. Now that they are adults, they are teaching me how to get off that hamster wheel.
❤ your family
I don’t think you’re crazy to want to do farming and being with your beautiful wife and children full time, kids grow up so fast and you are teaching your girls some great life lessons and compassion for animals and you will come up with a valuable plan so that your farm and animals will become financially sound and hopefully your Channel will help to subsidize some great income as well, so good luck in your future endeavours! 🙏🏻
Listen to these songs. Don’t Blink and She’s Somebody’s Daughter. I think of it when I see your children out in the farm. God Bless. 🙏🏼♥️
I really think you have really figured it out. You've thought it out completely not something on the fly without thinking things out first. Really love this video. Your a loving father and husband. The years go by so fast when you have children. Never miss a moment. I spent my time with my kids and have great memories. You will make it.
You've got a good head on your shoulders Necco. You've got it all figured out and you will do great! God Bless!
You’re the best helper Egypt!! Keep on being you! 💜 Neco & Natalie you’re great parents keep up the great work!
My kids are grown, married, and we have 7 grandchildren. The time with our kids was teaching, going to the zoo, 4H, and trying to do something as a family. I love that I see them making memories on their own with their kids. The time they were at home seems like it flew by. Cherish every day. Egypt loves the animals and teaching her is proving she is a hard worker. Very respectful and loving to her siblings. You both should be very proud of how they are. I love your channel and how your animals have special homes and addresses. More homesteaders are leaving their 9-5 jobs and making their farms more profitable and sustainable. ❤❤❤
Hi Rita 👋🏾 Thank you so much for sharing your story. Very Touching ❤️❤️
Sounds like a good plan for Y'all. Glad that you can be home with the kids and do things on the farm. Love seeing Egypt out with you. She is a beautiful young lady. Hope Y'all have enjoyed your Labor Day. GOD BLESS Y'ALL.
You’re not crazy, you came to your senses!!!! God bless and good luck!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
This really should be a TED Talk my amazing son!! I am so proud of you and the decisions you are making for your family and more importantly, for you. You will not regret it. I am so glad you learned the lesson earlier in life. ❤
NO you are not crazy!!! Go get what you’re looking for. I’m 53 and there’s trips and places that I want to go with my kids, but my body can’t do it. I gave the best years of my life to a job.
It is nice that you are able to be full time with your family. You are right Neco it is valuable to be with your family as much as possible. My dad was always out working and he missed out on so much of my brothers and my life. You can't get that back. Good luck in figuring it out.
Hello Neco, Natalie, Egypt, Sahara, & Baby Pharaoh. Great job at the chores Egypt💖 You are not crazy Neco. I admire Your decision to work at home for now. It’s a full time job taking care of everything from the family to the farm. You are fortunate and very blessed. Beautiful FL sunset🧡💛 Happy Labor Day❣️🇺🇸♥️
Your farm is so neat and clean.
Good for you!!! Kids grow up so fast…lots of memories to cherish. They are gone before you know it!!!
Stay a tight family as long as you can. Im 64, a mom and grandma. Time is flying by!
I just wish I was young enough to do it all over again!!!
Congratulations on the decision to take a new journey. 👏 Listen to that still small voice who directs us. HE will help you achieve your goals. 🙏
Happy Labor Day!! I applaud your decision, and wish you much happiness and sucess. I know that, sometimes the " hamster wheel" can break, and sometimes the hamster gets tired. There are other ways to keep the hamster going!! I am sure you will find what you are looking for, and enjoy watching your children grow up! I wish i could back in time and make the same choice!
Neco,I truely hope you can make a plan that helps you be home with the family.Valuable years are now.The memories and love are so ptecious.❤
I'm so happy you are thinking forward! You are so right, you only have so much time with your kids and then their off to their own lives. My hope for you during this time is that everything you find on your plate is something you love, and not just stuff that randomly lands there! ❤
Yall have planned carefully for years. I, for one, stand with you. Happiness is harder won than money. Excellent choice for the kids especially these days. Love to you all. 💖💖💖💖💖
Happy labor day. The lord has blessed and protected you and your family
Love this video, the conversation, the tone of the conversation, the attention to the decisions for the legacy y’all are working on to leave for your children… I just admire y’all and the consciousness it appears you have with every aspect of your life. I know things come up, but it appears you both think through options and consequences of every decision. Much respect and admiration to you both. Egypt, SJ, and Pharaoh are blessed to have y’all as parents and I am enjoying following y’all’s journey. ❤
Seeing the Dad and daughter bonding over chores, reminds me of my dad and me 50 years ago. Love the video.
I like the way you think, Neco! If Natalie is comfortable with the decision, then there is nothing to explain, honey! Y'all are doing what is right for your family, and everyone has to do what is right for them. Love and blessings from this old Bama girl! I hope to see y'all Saturday!❤❤❤
Happiest Labor Day to you guys…You’re exactly Right, Neco 👏👏👏 The true meaning of life & it’s worth… I just love watching this little Farm Family. You have the Cutest helper 🤩Continued Prayers for Baby Pharaoh 🥰 Until the next one ❤️❤️❤️
I think you are both fully capable, and frugal enough to figure this out. I can’t wait to see the results
Neko, I'm thrilled you are able to take paternity leave. I never thought about splitting. That's genius. I agree about keeping them out of day care for as long as you can. And if you can keep your kids at home until they are talking and can tell you how their day was. I'm all for that. Also as far as incomes go, I can't give you advise on farming but my dad who became a lather (construction), always wished he could go back to farming. They were his best memories, in spite of the hard work. So you're right in your thinking about legacy. Also don't neglect your possibilities for income from merch. I thing you and Natalie are doing great. And you have some pretty great kids too!
Absolutely beautiful sunset ! And i believe you could figure out a way to be home with your family Necco 😊 just keep praying about it and maybe a plan will fall in place 🙏 . Ill be praying for you as well! You have such a gorgeous family ❤
Blessings on all your endeavors. Making the family first is something you will never regret. 🥰🥰
Beautiful sunset,,Beautiful family..Watch all ya videos..Just believe in what you do, God's got the rest....❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
So excited for you!
I applaud you both for doing what's important for the family. My Dad was a carpenter and built homes. He was home by 5pm every night and had weekends off. I had a great childhood. Continue moving forward, and your kids will thank you one day. ❤
You are 100% correct. Figure it out as soon as you can.Sounds like you are on the right track.❤
In my Pastor Dailey voice…”Speak it into existence Neco! God Bless you!!” 😂. It’s already done son, this time next year you will be retired and working on your family legacy full time.
"Nico", Your A Good Man, A Good Daddy, Let "THE LORD", Lead You... 🙏🙏🙏...
No, Neco you are not crazy, more like a wise man to want to spend time with your loved ones. Three weeks ago I retired after 28 yrs as a service Tech to stay home and take care of my 91 yr old dad. He has been living with us 2.5 yrs. The circle continues, he and mom took care of 6 of us now its my turn to take care of him. Took care of mom 6 yrs before the lord took her home.❤ love what you decided to do. No regrets believe me you will not regret it.
❤️❤️ Thank you so much for sharing your story Nicola
You are not crazy, I hope you are able to make it work! I’ll be praying for you all. Much love from Butte Montana
You can never go wrong when you make family a priority! It is a beautiful thing and you have a beautiful family and I love how you do all your chores together with the kids and everything seems to be a family affair! May God bless you all!
I’m 25 and still with my parents! Admire your tenacity, dedication and how you learn new things and share them. Wish I wasn’t in New York or I would travel to the expo to meet y’all! Always support you all no matter what! Just love every moment you share!! Congrats on a whole new path & I want a whole schedule completed of what you plan to do and a rough time frame for each project in 3 days!!! jk lol Egypt you amaze me with your work ethic with every video! Go girl go!
Happy Labour Day Brown family. I think you made a good decision Neco. Nothing better than being home and growing with the family. I would have loved that life but at 74, I can’t go backwards. I wish you all nothing but the best. I feel the same way my kids, could have stayed home forever. Well said Neco. Egypt your a beautiful young lady and a big help for Mom and Dad around the farm. 👍👍❤️❤️🇨🇦
I say go the route of farm life and enjoying your family while you can. I worked at a couple different jobs after high school, had two failed marriages and one daughter I raised on my own while working one job for 18 years. I developed physical problems and ended up on disability. My daughter married and gave me 3 beautiful grandchildren, but her husband's job caused them to move several states away. Now I live in a one bedroom apartment with my 2 kitties and am semi satisfied, but very lonely and miss my family terribly. I wish I could have had the opportunity to have a little piece of farm land and raise goats and chickens. I'm 70 now so that's not possible to do by myself, unless my daughter had some land to start a little farm. Sorry to dump my life on you, but your story touched me and I had to tell you to do what your heart is telling you now so you won't regret it later. Good luck to you and God bless your family. ❤
I really hope you achieve your goal! Love your channel, it’s special.
I watched this episode and don't think you're crazy. In fact, I just turned 69 years old, and I have been at this job working at home for 15-16 years. I want to retire at 70. I just don't want to do this job anymore. If you can do it , do it now! You can always go back to work in, 10- 15 years' time will fly. Kids will be grown. GOD BLESS!! YOU'LL DO THE RIGHT THING FOR YOUR HOMESTEAD!!
Thor is adorable
If you can find a reality for you and your family would be a blessing. I wish I could have been there for both my boys.
No you’re not crazy! Why wait until later to enjoy what you’ve got now. Who knows what LATER might be like?! Most people regret not making changes like you’re doing earlier in life.
Hello Neco! Hi Egypt Rose you pretty girl. This is one of the reasons I enjoy your farm so much, you keep everything so clean! You're not crazy at all! You have to do what you think is the best for your life and makes you happy. Kids grow up so quickly, I feel like I just had mine not long ago and they are 44, 38 & 36 I wish we could turn back time! Never ever have regrets! Best wishes to you all! Take care and God Bless ❤
You are NOT crazy! You kids will only benefit. Best wishes in which ever way you go.
You will never regret time with family
Always choose family first. Your children will be grown before you know it. Thanks for sharing your decision with us
❤️❤️ Thank you for your continued support Patricia
I do pray that you can figure all of your thoughts out , I believe that you all can make this dream come to fruition God Bless your family ❤️❤️🥰🥰
No, you are not crazy. Prayers for you as you figure it out. I have always found that where there's a will, there is a way.
It's great that you traded the stress of a job for a totally different kind of stress on the farm (It's a good type) just to be with family. ENJOY 💖💖👍👍🙏🙏💖💖
Sweetie, you are a smart young man. You can do this, and I hope you keep figuring out how to make your farm work for you while still loving your animals. Yet knowing they can be the source of income to make your dreams come true. I believe in your dreams and will enjoy watching your family make them come true. Time goes by so fast, you said it yourself, make it count for more than "running in that wheel".
I think it’s a wonderful idea. I think I was putting family first is the best way to go at sounds like you guys have talked it through and again you have the tools that you need. I say go for it.👍🏻🙏🏻
Wish you full success on your journey. I feel certain that you will make it. Enjoy the scenery, your family and take time to enjoy the many blessings you have.
The reality is I think if everyone could work on their own time how they wanted to, doing what they loved and still be able to provide a good quality life for their family everyone would jump on it in a second. Hopefully one day it will be like that for everyone.
Egypt your so pretty and a good worker helping your Dad ❤️
Hello Neco watched your video today and you explained your life very clear and hope you reach your goals what an awesome life you have...❤🙏
Egypt is the animal whisperer for sure! Great time for you to have one on one time with the kiddos/animals during Paternity leave, whoohoo! Go with your heart... family first!
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Good evening Nico.
Awesome video and you hit the nail on the head we don't realize how fast time flies by us and then it is gone.
I believe you have your priorities on the right track. Keep following your dreams, it’s worth it.
I hope you get your answer!I had 8 kids and I loved it! Your sunset was magnificent! Lol,Carol and her"bow"😂 Hugs from Missouri 😊❤
Good luck.
You have a beautiful homestead, who could blame you for wanting to spend time enjoying it with your lovely family. Good on ya!
(Btw you keep a very tidy farm, my OCD loves it)
Thanks for sharing
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Glad you can live your dream
Happy Labor Day to you too. 18 summers do go by faster than you know or want!!! Kids grow so fast.Where does the time go??? Money isn't everything!! Family is and always will be. I love your thinking and your family. Enjoy your time!!! Doing something you love is the best advice ever.❤ Time isn't always on our side, so enjoy the time we have. Spend as much time with your family as you can❤❤❤❤ the older you get the more you realize how fast it goes. I sure wish Mom and Dad could have spent more time with us instead of the hamster wheel. I hope you can stay home Neco. Marie and William may have advice selling critters. You can do it!! Your not crazy!! Do it while you're young so you have NO regrets later!!! I have many that can't be changed. The time went by fast!!!❤ Time is time that you can't get back.🫶
Hi Mary - Thank you so so much for your advice & for sharing your story ❤️❤️
Go for it!!!!❤❤
You are so lucky to have this chance to see if your plan will be the best for your family. Wishing you all the best.
Wish the best for your family in all things. ❤️🙏
Blessings.
Enjoy your life. You know what you need. No one else does. Some people can’t live without extravagant toys some can. Only you know what you can live with and without. Just as long as you keep living the Dave Ramsey way you will be fine. Live your life your way and for your family. Love watching your videos.
hugs from pam and john keep it coming we love you all
Walk with God & your family & future is in the best Hands. Keep close even when evil trys to redirect you.
Neco, I'm so happy for you and your family. Your children will cherish you and Mama for what you are doing for them. So much to learn in life. Make it count, I have all faith that you will do it and give the children a happier life with your love, work, knowledge and faith. God Bless you!