When You Tell a Black Person They Act White

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  • @Cilvanis
    @Cilvanis  2 роки тому +3213

    This video got limited ads, so if you guys enjoyed the video, then leaving a tip with the ‘Super Thanks’ option right below the video would be appreciated 😊
    Just trying to combat the constant demonetization

    • @antwango
      @antwango 2 роки тому +17

      do you mean demonisation?

    • @joshportie
      @joshportie 2 роки тому +8

      So you're saying black people are ignorant and don't use many words and to have a larger vocabulary is to talk white? Really?

    • @KingOfDarknessAndEvil
      @KingOfDarknessAndEvil 2 роки тому +127

      @@joshportie That is literally the exact opposite of what this video is saying bro.

    • @IcespherePlaysGames
      @IcespherePlaysGames 2 роки тому +51

      @@joshportie Chill, it's just a joke. Save your rage for Twitter.

    • @3K2-k3m
      @3K2-k3m 2 роки тому +12

      So..you want us to give you just the tip? 🌚

  • @nuke8191
    @nuke8191 Рік тому +2468

    Ppl call me white for listening to jazz. JAZZ.

    • @Jykesonville
      @Jykesonville Рік тому +676

      That doesn’t even make sense considering the history of Jazz lmao wtf

    • @Star_boy150
      @Star_boy150 9 місяців тому +42

      @@Jykesonvilleyeah

    • @whereammy
      @whereammy 9 місяців тому +29

      kendrick is actually white

    • @ButterflyDivide
      @ButterflyDivide 8 місяців тому +282

      Bro JAZZ?! That’s like saying a Korean person is white for listening to K Pop

    • @apmartini70
      @apmartini70 8 місяців тому +124

      Ignorance is a hell of a drug.

  • @guhbruhmaste4557
    @guhbruhmaste4557 2 роки тому +22535

    I genuinely dont understand these types of comments. By saying someone acts white you're just making stereotypes and expectations for how black people should act. Which just makes more trouble for us in the long run.

    • @Batman-qo6wb
      @Batman-qo6wb 2 роки тому +1489

      All I'm hearing is facts tbh

    • @LoopyLemon775
      @LoopyLemon775 2 роки тому +549

      Facts

    • @mylem6234
      @mylem6234 2 роки тому +1050

      Yeah, so many people must have felt pressure from not acting the way they should apparently. It was so annoying.

    • @juelledaone
      @juelledaone 2 роки тому +168

      fully agreed

    • @fatcatpeople
      @fatcatpeople 2 роки тому +205

      Just the difference in growing up in the suburbs that's all. It's just jokes people will go to far once in a whole.✌🏾

  • @Nadroj97
    @Nadroj97 Рік тому +9157

    This man just casually made a video that every young black child and young adult that has a vocubulary larger than 3 syllable words needs on speed dial. Summed it up perfectly man, thank you

    • @gustavo9758
      @gustavo9758 Рік тому +226

      "I don't wanna be that black, let's calm down" LOL

    • @devss4982
      @devss4982 Рік тому +172

      I thought u were being racist but then I reread lol. True tho like I get made fun of at school sometimes for using words other than bro and stuff

    • @tkdamusicman
      @tkdamusicman Рік тому +8

      Bruh fr

    • @MAHORAGADAOPPSTOPPA
      @MAHORAGADAOPPSTOPPA Рік тому

      Being smart in a majority black school as a lightskin sucks, it hurts seeing how illiterate my peeps are, hell i have to tell them " No, France isnt in Asia " and seeing them not know simple words like "Erosion"
      It hurts man, although I dont get shamed for it, I just want a day where people have the same kind of TYPICAL Intelligence a person would have.
      US Education has failed.

    • @DrtyDan570
      @DrtyDan570 Рік тому +47

      @Awoke Awoke i as a moxed person have heard "you act too white" too many damn times

  • @BrandonWhatTheF
    @BrandonWhatTheF 2 роки тому +3615

    "...Only white people teleport! Black people, we got electricity powers!" Black Lightning, Black Vulcan, Storm, Static Shock, Volt, and the entire village hidden in the Clouds have entered the chat
    Edit: Yes, I now know that It's just "Static". Multiple people have pointed it out in the replies already guys

    • @Decimo10X
      @Decimo10X 2 роки тому +463

      Miles Morales.

    • @blackbeardyman8336
      @blackbeardyman8336 2 роки тому +365

      Yeah now that you put it like that, it’s kinda weird. And it has no basis of stereotype either, it just seems like a big strange coincidence.

    • @neutral4785
      @neutral4785 2 роки тому +267

      Movie adaptation Electro

    • @purp9843
      @purp9843 2 роки тому +100

      ishowspeed and his speed/lightning/electricity brand logo

    • @weslindsey5909
      @weslindsey5909 2 роки тому +20

      This one one had me dieing

  • @TheDawnofVanlife
    @TheDawnofVanlife 2 роки тому +8145

    What I love is he didn’t overplay ‘acting white’. Like sometimes these types of videos overplay the ‘persona’ of ‘acting white’. (Usually over playing acting ‘proper’). But the fact this all started from one longish word, true comedy. One person asked me if I ‘knew I was black’ because I read a lot and apparently black people don’t read as much as I do. I was like, wtf?

    • @sunMMVIII
      @sunMMVIII 2 роки тому +356

      Even if they were going overboard, our language is too imprecise in a way that hurts us in the long run. I've gotten all variations of "acting white" as praise and criticism. As I think about it more, I find both angles even less acceptable.

    • @FilthyFrankenjoyer
      @FilthyFrankenjoyer 2 роки тому +117

      That's funny, because I didn't know what manga was until I got introduced by a black friend.
      Also, I never heard of Raising Cane's... I guess it must be an American only type of thing.
      I'm pretty sure it doesn't beat Popeyes anyways.

    • @sorinnoctis652
      @sorinnoctis652 2 роки тому

      They don't realize how racist/prejudice they sound when they make statements like that.

    • @painvillegaming4119
      @painvillegaming4119 2 роки тому +382

      “Black isn’t what I am trying to be it what I am”
      -Carlton banks

    • @ShurikanBlade
      @ShurikanBlade 2 роки тому +11

      I don't think you used quotations correctly

  • @giullianogrimberg8488
    @giullianogrimberg8488 2 роки тому +5218

    “ Actually, can we say dad? Are we allowed to have dads in our lives” This part fucking killed me LMFAO

    • @sunMMVIII
      @sunMMVIII 2 роки тому +19

      same

    • @Tefezilla
      @Tefezilla 2 роки тому

      Ok I'm dumb.
      Is black people have no dad or something?

    • @sunMMVIII
      @sunMMVIII 2 роки тому +154

      @@Tefezilla It's a common stereotype that is applied to sections of the poor, but it is used a lot with black ppl. It is good if you don't get the reference

    • @BuetifullPersun
      @BuetifullPersun 2 роки тому +94

      @@sunMMVIII stereotypes are true for a reason. It makes me sad in my neighborhood basically all black people play deafening rap music in their cars, wear sagging pants, speak in gangsta talk, and lots of graffiti everywhere.

    • @saucegodsed2890
      @saucegodsed2890 2 роки тому +134

      @@BuetifullPersun I'm not finna take this from yoshikage kira from morioh

  • @Poignant_Ritual
    @Poignant_Ritual 8 місяців тому +559

    You can tell this dude is making this rant from the heart. Great delivery.

  • @christianphillips7695
    @christianphillips7695 Рік тому +665

    Black - Ghetto
    White - proper speaking
    Mixed - "Hello nigga, I would like to inquire about information on my oppositions locations"

  • @IUSTITA
    @IUSTITA 2 роки тому +4315

    I love this. My foster brother made straight A's in school and people said he was acting white. I remember it bothered him a bit. Well, he's an engineer for Alaska Airlines now and makes a very good living for himself and his family. We couldn't be prouder of him. I love you, Rodney.

    • @Xylkamela4ter
      @Xylkamela4ter 2 роки тому +178

      he should not worry people like wont be likely to be successful wondering why they work at McDonalds n crap

    • @theofrostos1282
      @theofrostos1282 2 роки тому +8

      But Rodney aint in the comments brah

    • @theofrostos1282
      @theofrostos1282 2 роки тому +4

      @@IUSTITA my point is texting to him or give him a call whut u doing now makes no sense

    • @homeoftek5844
      @homeoftek5844 2 роки тому +10

      How do I awaken him inside of me? ⏸🤣🤣🤣

    • @squid5097
      @squid5097 2 роки тому +69

      @@theofrostos1282 he’s trying to prove a point that is relevant to this video. That a smart black man like his bro Rodney shouldn’t have been mocked when he was a young kid bc now he’s doing great things. Why u gotta find an issue in a good, relevant story? See you’re the one that’s making no sense

  • @ShadoFoxx
    @ShadoFoxx 2 роки тому +2720

    Yo I struggled with this my ENTIRE CHILDHOOD. Now as an adult at almost 30, I still feel a moderate amount of estrangement thanks to trauma but I've been fortunate to have found so many other Black people that think and act like me. There's more than one way to be Black, y'all.

    • @Cilvanis
      @Cilvanis  2 роки тому +417

      SAME

    • @kenshix7902
      @kenshix7902 2 роки тому +129

      @@Cilvanis Man and I also feel ashamed of listening to Jpop/Anime music instead of Hiphop sometimes. Your video helped me man

    • @mikuko013
      @mikuko013 2 роки тому +96

      @@kenshix7902 Keep listening to Jpop man! Im black too and have gotten weird looks but now at 30 I dont even care anymore.

    • @ligmasphere901
      @ligmasphere901 2 роки тому +54

      Once you hit 30 you honestly don't give a damn what people think anymore...atleast that's how it was for me.

    • @ShadoFoxx
      @ShadoFoxx 2 роки тому +44

      People get mad at me when I say I don't listen to some big musicians like Drake or Beyoncé or Li'l Wayne and I'm like, "... Okay? Not everybody has to like an artist?"

  • @matthewericcuyco7583
    @matthewericcuyco7583 2 роки тому +2197

    "I don't want to be that black"
    That killed me

  • @whatRUtalkinaboutXD
    @whatRUtalkinaboutXD 3 місяці тому +79

    I can feel the anger coming from him through my screen. This isn’t acting, this is a rant in disguise as a skit.

    • @antoninuslarpus7107
      @antoninuslarpus7107 Місяць тому +7

      Justified Anger too

    • @OnlyRoke
      @OnlyRoke Місяць тому +2

      100% he's gotten shit from other black dudes, because of the rather detailed anime content at some point.

  • @wagesofsinn3881
    @wagesofsinn3881 2 роки тому +4594

    This is actually an excellent example of why black students struggle academically. Anytime a black person shows any level of deep thinking or intelligence other black people come in to shut them down. People need to bolster people, not try and dumb them down.

    • @sunset6958
      @sunset6958 2 роки тому +592

      We are our own worse enemy

    • @danielmccloe2237
      @danielmccloe2237 2 роки тому +306

      I actually learned about this in my teacher training. So sad...as if there's not already enough obstacles to success in life, we have to create our own. I really hope I can find ways to inspire my black students to reach for the stars free from fear when I have my own classroom one day.

    • @putyograsseson
      @putyograsseson 2 роки тому +349

      For context, I’m a white dude from Europe and this video and comment section makes me speechless.
      100% culture shock.
      Like, why do people disrespect others and segregate themselves willingly just because of skin pigmentation?
      I’m sorry for every person that has to deal with this, I hope that this shit someday will be a despicable relic of the past. 🙏

    • @danielmccloe2237
      @danielmccloe2237 2 роки тому +67

      @@MuhammedChand Wow, that's unbelievable! I wonder what we can do to counter these self-destructive attitudes.

    • @AlkebulanQueen1027
      @AlkebulanQueen1027 2 роки тому +194

      There was this video from 1989, I think you can find it on the reel black UA-cam channel. This man was talking to high schoolers and said that “you can be smart or you can be popular as a young black person, our people won’t let us be both” realest shit I’ve ever heard in my life

  • @ethanking4954
    @ethanking4954 Рік тому +1800

    Very relatable. I've never understood it. You don't like black people being stereotyped but you don't want anyone with black skin to act differently than the stereotypes.

    • @YouFallenforit
      @YouFallenforit Рік тому

      I'm not sure if it's part of trying to keep each other down or because they don't act a certain way or dress a certain way.
      But I have heard somebody say stop talking White
      I thought it was really messed up that was just the way he talked he didn't sound like a redneck or anyting he was just well spoken had a very good vocabulary and fully enunciated words
      I can't put my finger on it maybe because I can't even fathom what it was going through their head when they said that

    • @cmdrfunk
      @cmdrfunk Рік тому

      They're accusing you of acting a white stereotype so they hardly have any room to demand to be excused from black stereotypes.

    • @Tenrou2
      @Tenrou2 Рік тому +206

      Spot on, bro. I used to get clowned on just because I talked normal and actually did my schoolwork. Now, looking back all those people are failures and I don’t know why I ever wanted to associate with them in the first place

    • @akajay7356
      @akajay7356 Рік тому +10

      🔥🔥💯💯

    • @superbeanx2
      @superbeanx2 11 місяців тому +1

      istg

  • @FlareRDB
    @FlareRDB 2 роки тому +3113

    I've dealt with this my whole life. Keep being yourself and don't force yourself to become someone you're not.

    • @johna6828
      @johna6828 2 роки тому +44

      Absolutely stay true to you!

    • @Ronaldo-eu1nz
      @Ronaldo-eu1nz 2 роки тому

      Yo 🔥ua-cam.com/video/rdJ9bsN7JAw/v-deo.html,

    • @TrainMaster5097
      @TrainMaster5097 2 роки тому +29

      Right on! I’ve dealt with the same throughout school going into adulthood. Don’t adjust yourself to fit anyone else’s expectations of who they want you to be.

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. 2 роки тому +27

      Same. So annoying

    • @vivek_02512
      @vivek_02512 2 роки тому +19

      But it becomes frustrating when you 'are' being yourself and it still feels like acting

  • @YautjaHunter3
    @YautjaHunter3 Рік тому +1083

    I love seeing young people pushing back on these stereotypes. I was a kid in late 80s/ early 90s and I got a lot of that crap too. I never doubted my own blackness but was teased for speaking clearly and using "SAT" words. Keep pushing brother. We do not have to be defined by other peoples low expectations of us. If you love to read, and love words, explore that and enjoy that. To hell with the ignorant clowns that demand you dumb yourself down to their level.

    • @no-cov-jabpureblood4959
      @no-cov-jabpureblood4959 11 місяців тому +62

      In the worlds of Carlton "Being black is not something I'm trying to be, it's what I am."

    • @LeeDaTruth001
      @LeeDaTruth001 11 місяців тому +40

      The stereotypes are being pushed mostly by our peers though and it's been going on for multiple generations already. And it actually does impact things, it's not like it just stops or can be ignored. I saw a video the other day of a black kid who knew how to DJ Hip hop pretty well, he was like 14-16 years old on the news and he was good. Someone commented "Yeah that's how you empower the community" by what? getting into Rap and hip hop? come on man. Nobody says this about Black Surgeons, lawyers, Scientist, Philosophers, Economist who become known they don't go 'Wow you're really empowering the community" but if it's some hood crap, everybody on it. And what boggles my mind is, let's says, a black kid could have a dream to Snow board for example, his peers and even parents will say "That's some white crap" or push him towards another route instead feeling "Black people don't do that" and then decades later, we will complain 'Why they ain't many black snow boarders" and then say 'it must be racism" No negro it's YOU.

    • @lordjjtheradiant1515
      @lordjjtheradiant1515 10 місяців тому +9

      in Germany the fucking teach us in highschool about black identity and it feels so weird, because it's literally this video.

    • @jamescheddar4896
      @jamescheddar4896 9 місяців тому

      It's no different than how white people wouldn't listen to awesome music back in the 30s "because it's black". why go on a hunger strike if no one cares? don't deprive yourself of life out of spite.

    • @SigFigNewton
      @SigFigNewton 8 місяців тому

      It’s also messed up to tell a white person that they should stop acting black.
      They might just be being themselves.

  • @spinjitzumasterfalcon
    @spinjitzumasterfalcon 2 роки тому +15745

    "Only white people teleport. Black people have electricity powers." Why is this the best line? 😂

    • @OneRandomVictory
      @OneRandomVictory 2 роки тому +1719

      Storm, Static Shock, Black Lightning...

    • @lordazala
      @lordazala 2 роки тому +366

      I had to pause the video. Laughed to hard

    • @cameronedwards7870
      @cameronedwards7870 2 роки тому +964

      @@OneRandomVictory miles morales

    • @itsyaboychipsahoy.7989
      @itsyaboychipsahoy.7989 2 роки тому +1056

      @@OneRandomVictory The entirety of the Lightning Village in Naruto

    • @losnfjslefn8857
      @losnfjslefn8857 2 роки тому +727

      @@OneRandomVictory Wow, with those and Miles Morales I genuinely never realized how often black characters are given lightning powers.
      I don't have a problem with it, because I think lightning powers are some of the best, but like.... Why, though? 😆

  • @mylem6234
    @mylem6234 2 роки тому +10413

    Bro I relate so much to this, somehow using normal sentences and being polite automatically makes me a white person. Like no, it just shows that my parents raised me right for fucks sake.

    • @guhbruhmaste4557
      @guhbruhmaste4557 2 роки тому +1394

      Exactly. And saying we act white just creates stereotypes for how we should act. And it just goes back to the glorification of hood and ghetto culture. There's no shame in living that lifestyle because that's how life is treating you, but there's no reason to glorify or actively seek that lifestyle. And saying things like that just contributes to it.

    • @goldenexperiencerequiem4501
      @goldenexperiencerequiem4501 2 роки тому +339

      Facts I feel this on a spiritual level

    • @Square1nes
      @Square1nes 2 роки тому +266

      FR. I use all those crazy words to extend my vocabulary

    • @johna6828
      @johna6828 2 роки тому +161

      All my life I had to deal with this lol

    • @mylem6234
      @mylem6234 2 роки тому +39

      @@goldenexperiencerequiem4501 Me too

  • @Setsotama
    @Setsotama 2 роки тому +2809

    I remember the very first time I got told, "you talk white" back when I was in middle school, felt like I got hit by a semi-truck and I remember trying to be more "black" just so I don't get mocked by my own peers. As I got older, I realized how self-destructive that state of mind was and just did what made me happy in the end, now whenever someone says that to me, I immediately cut them out of my life, don't have the time or the patience to entertain that nonsense

    • @kurtlauer2005
      @kurtlauer2005 2 роки тому +143

      Honestly, good for you. Screw people like that. I’m not black obviously, but trust me, it’s unfortunately the same for other races as well.

    • @EothainaEllery
      @EothainaEllery 2 роки тому +51

      Yes, I felt that semi-truck feeling in the stomach. That took me back!!

    • @Setsotama
      @Setsotama 2 роки тому +49

      @@Medieval1-1 the sad and rather dangerous part is, if anyone, regardless of color, calls it out, you immediately become a target and depending on what type of school you went to, teachers would join in on the campaign. Happened to me twice and to say my parents were pissed would be an understatement.
      I can go on for eons about this topic but between this video and the comment section, it does warm the soul knowing I'm not the only one who experienced this and is willing to call it out

    • @ceelothatmane9421
      @ceelothatmane9421 2 роки тому +30

      Yeah. It’s the fact that people like us tend to try to fit in instead of solidifying ourselves as the proper expression of our culture. That’s where people like us go wrong. I’ve never had that problem, but a lot of folks do. Thus making us the minority because we fear being outspoken just to adhere to what it means to be “black” (which in the long run means absolutely nothing. )
      Speaking ignorantly wasn’t a black thing. That came from the British who had Hold in the south. Once black ppl were freed we sought out education and the desire to be more astute. Our culture became sophisticated and then we made hip hop popular, ultimately making ignorance and delinquency the predominant representative of our cultural expression.

    • @Imabeatyouman
      @Imabeatyouman 2 роки тому +3

      Sorry u went through this. That sucks

  • @kaimckai
    @kaimckai Рік тому +129

    Basically they be saying acting ignorant is black and being smart is white. They basically pouring down themself

    • @Robust-d7u
      @Robust-d7u 2 місяці тому

      Which only makes themselves appear more ignorant, fucking hate that man

    • @danschneider8996
      @danschneider8996 Місяць тому +2

      It's true though.

    • @hassentrh2118
      @hassentrh2118 Місяць тому

      they are realists and pretty based

  • @kevinhenry4047
    @kevinhenry4047 Рік тому +726

    “Being black isn’t what I’m trying to be its what I am.” - Carlton Banks

  • @ChristopherCricketWallace
    @ChristopherCricketWallace 2 роки тому +2568

    Bruv, I felt this! My whole childhood I caught shit for reading a book and doing my homework and speaking in complete sentences. As if being educated was a "Whites Only" thing.
    Honestly, that crap back then still affects me and my social behaviors now, 30-40 years later.

    • @psychedelictacos9118
      @psychedelictacos9118 2 роки тому +136

      Dude I am not black but that sounds like toxic behaviour, putting down other black people because they are speaking articulately, focusing on education, liking to read books and shit! Maybe, this plays a part in why there are less black people in tertiary education amongst other factors!

    • @Beautifullybroken868
      @Beautifullybroken868 2 роки тому +7

      Me too, that’s crazy

    • @RokkitGrrl
      @RokkitGrrl 2 роки тому

      @@psychedelictacos9118 It's not just a black thing, though. "Eggheads" give white people an inferiority complex too. And then there's the racist trope that all Asians are math wizards and are always successful. It's almost like people are people and shouldn't be treated like a representative of their stereotypes. lol

    • @genorem
      @genorem 2 роки тому +33

      Same life as me. It's frustrating and makes you feel you don't fit in anywhere.

    • @bradyblankenship9182
      @bradyblankenship9182 2 роки тому +66

      When I was in school there was a black guy in our class named Ben. Dude was one of the top students and because of his name and his grades he was always called “the whitest black dude”.

  • @dropthefbomb07
    @dropthefbomb07 2 роки тому +2746

    As a Mexican, I feel the same way when an older hispanic person calls me a "coconut" (brown on the outside but white on the inside) for having a degree and having a job as a computer tech. It's like I was suppose to be a highschool dropout and work on cars. I can't help that my mom was intelligent enough to marry someone in the Air Force and had me raised on a military base. It's simple, I'm Mexican because my family is from Mexico.

    • @troglodyte4207
      @troglodyte4207 2 роки тому +209

      Well if nothing else, coconut is a pretty damned eloquent slur, really gets the point across

    • @dropthefbomb07
      @dropthefbomb07 2 роки тому +12

      @@troglodyte4207 As an idiot teenager we would call our black friends oreos and asian friends bananas for the same reason.

    • @decoraven825
      @decoraven825 2 роки тому +61

      What?? Lol never heard that one before

    • @Jonny-xj7hj
      @Jonny-xj7hj 2 роки тому +46

      Never heard the coconut one. And intelligent enough to date a AF? lol

    • @itsmistersmoke
      @itsmistersmoke 2 роки тому +106

      I gotchu. Had to tell off my mom and auntie for telling my cousin that he should do medical field things being Filipino and i said fuck that he can do what ever he wants. He now does media for a company in Japan 👍🏾

  • @marcusfrazier4923
    @marcusfrazier4923 Рік тому +486

    Been in this camp my entire life. It warms me to see fellow black americans speak with eloquence and diction. I used to get clowned and told that I "Talk white".
    Getting dissed for speaking basic english?
    The bar we set for ourselves is so low, like "in hell" low.

    • @VorxDargo
      @VorxDargo Рік тому +28

      It's kinda on both sides too. I'm considered white, even though i'm more native, and had a high chance of being born black. Growing up i was around mostly black groups and the culture. So when i even sound a bit black people accused me of acting black. But it's technically my culture too, how am i acting?

    • @takuame7
      @takuame7 8 місяців тому +9

      ​@VorxDargo Half mexican/half white here, and this rings so damn true. Dad stepped out when I was a baby so I have no connection to my white side, I was born and raised in mexican culture. Yet at 26 yrs old I still have to be careful where I decide to speak spanish outside of the home....shits fucked.

    • @ADesolateAngel
      @ADesolateAngel 8 місяців тому +3

      ​@@VorxDargoOOP same with my friend and my bf

    • @jbtube73
      @jbtube73 7 місяців тому +5

      Same here. Like a total outcast because we won't conform to their way of thinking. Good for you @marcusfrazier4923 for being your authentic self.

    • @Casual_Talk
      @Casual_Talk 7 місяців тому +16

      For real man. It's ignorant. I'm black and enjoy talking proper, having intelligent conversations, and just learning. With most hood dudes I been around growing up I had countless of ignorant comments being made just because of how properly I spoke. Maybe becuase I want better and looked up to my Dad? It's really sad for real.

  • @ninjanate5018
    @ninjanate5018 Рік тому +2271

    As a black kid who strives to get good grades in school, this vid really hit home.

    • @ra2186
      @ra2186 Рік тому +218

      Don't sweat it. When you get out of school and into the world you'll see there are many of us "white talking" black people out here. It's really simply being educated but the uneducated fools that make those comments can't seem to figure out that it has nothing to do with color. You'll leave those other kids behind and go on to make something of yourself and they'll still be on the block. Keep doing your thing.

    • @mentos93
      @mentos93 Рік тому +51

      ​@@ra2186its kind of weird since this is basicly a US problem. I've seen such comments on media and online but they never made sense.

    • @azteka6103
      @azteka6103 Рік тому +49

      there is one rule to make it, drop the ghetto accent, try to integrate and assimilate, see yourself as a man, not as a black man, good luck bless.

    • @homeoftek5844
      @homeoftek5844 Рік тому +7

      You must have alot of melancholy days

    • @JelenaMarkovic-xt3kd
      @JelenaMarkovic-xt3kd Рік тому +9

      Keep studying kid. I promise that in 20 years, you’ll have a nice a job, a wife and a home. Those who bully you will 99% serve a sentence. Stay true to yourself and become the best version of yourself no matter what the people around you say. Soon enough you’ll be big enough to be able to change the environment. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @uri-yahu
    @uri-yahu 2 роки тому +1402

    Absolute comedic gold “aint nothing better than listening to black people rap about killing other black people” i really felt that💯

    • @spasjt
      @spasjt 2 роки тому +149

      Disturbing thought but sadly, most rap is about that.

    • @BewareTheLilyOfTheValley
      @BewareTheLilyOfTheValley 2 роки тому +77

      Taking this even a step further, I've been watching some videos about African nations from after their days of being colonized and a lot of them fail due to stupid in-fighting, your clan isn't as good as my clan, blah, blah. They had the ability to rise up to be better and just squandered it over petty shit, leading to things like dictators and genocide, instead of getting along and being strong together. So fucking stupid and heartbreaking.

    • @Bam_Bizzler
      @Bam_Bizzler 2 роки тому +35

      I listen to rap but for God's sake don't glorify these people or the things they do. It hurts more people then it's worth

    • @Jdbreal299
      @Jdbreal299 2 роки тому

      Then when they get killed it rip.. more like fuck em

    • @JoeDirtisawsome
      @JoeDirtisawsome 2 роки тому +6

      @@spasjt most Rap isn't about that. Rap is a very diverse type of music with a variety of different generes

  • @SB-ki3jw
    @SB-ki3jw 2 роки тому +720

    When he said “a black person is someone who has black skin” that hit deep, that should be as far as the definition goes

    • @belletaunde102
      @belletaunde102 2 роки тому

      @@Nickel_Eye you're making it deep lol. Black is black at the end of the day, especially to those that hate us.

    • @veritasabsoluta4285
      @veritasabsoluta4285 2 роки тому

      @@Nickel_Eye Black Africans would be acting "White" according to Black Americans lmao

    • @chris1013151
      @chris1013151 2 роки тому +65

      @@Nickel_Eye so you can’t be culturally black and speak proper? Interesting

    • @RunawayYe
      @RunawayYe 2 роки тому +1

      I dunno man. Jason Kidd is a blue eyed white skin dude yet he claims to be black

    • @r.lewisblake7793
      @r.lewisblake7793 2 роки тому

      “….whose skin is Black”?! Uh, try again.

  • @lonnisplace1459
    @lonnisplace1459 10 місяців тому +253

    I've been told I "act white" numerous times because I talk properly and don't only listen to "black people music" and watch "black people shows". I've never even heard those terms before moving to where some of my family lives. They introduced those terms to me. It honestly annoyed me when they said I acted white like what does that even mean? Lol

    • @DONTASKMESHKT
      @DONTASKMESHKT 7 місяців тому

      Means you sound like you have no soul, has nothing to do with speaking properly

    • @kevinleewilliams5119
      @kevinleewilliams5119 7 місяців тому

      8 billion people on the planet, 100s of different cultures and races, and I'm supposed to behave in a way that someone else wants me to? No lol that's slave shit. You take a baby from Nigeria and raise it in Toronto, he or she will sound and act like the people in Toronto, not Nigeria.

    • @PH03N1X-gm5jt
      @PH03N1X-gm5jt 3 місяці тому +1

      U know what it means don't act like u don't know

    • @Vida-jj4on
      @Vida-jj4on 3 місяці тому +10

      ​@PH03N1X-gm5jt No, he doesn't know what it means.

    • @michelleraborn6886
      @michelleraborn6886 2 місяці тому

      ​@PH03N1X-gm5jt so what DOES it mean?

  • @liviousgameplay1755
    @liviousgameplay1755 Рік тому +2623

    This kinda touched me. Out of three different black groups of friends I tried to be apart of, I left three because I was too white for them. May actually send this to the next one if it happens again. Although, if I think really hard, it may legit be the Raising Cane's.

    • @___Anakin.Skywalker
      @___Anakin.Skywalker Рік тому +43

      Why yo tryna act white tho? Act like us bro ya feel me

    • @agent2ez
      @agent2ez Рік тому +362

      @@___Anakin.Skywalker "come to the dark side" but literally

    • @nicoleraheem1195
      @nicoleraheem1195 Рік тому +30

      @@___Anakin.Skywalker No

    • @___Anakin.Skywalker
      @___Anakin.Skywalker Рік тому

      @@nicoleraheem1195 why not?was wrong tho? You act like yo own peoples so stop acting like your ancestors slavers ya feel me?

    • @nicoleraheem1195
      @nicoleraheem1195 Рік тому

      @@___Anakin.Skywalker 🥹

  • @Wildestleaf
    @Wildestleaf Рік тому +5352

    When I was a kid and I got super into reading, my mom and grandmother stopped taking me to the library because I was acting white, apparently.
    I know now that most of my family didn't really want me to succeed. I don't know why; maybe it's because I became an atheist and they are religious. Maybe they were jealous or mad at me because I liked science. But the term 'acting white' really fucked me up as a kid.

    • @darkpaw1522
      @darkpaw1522 Рік тому +720

      My mom did the same to me too. Saying I “act white”. Like what, do they want you to grow up ignorant or something?

    • @Wildestleaf
      @Wildestleaf Рік тому +83

      @@darkpaw1522
      If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?

    • @darkpaw1522
      @darkpaw1522 Рік тому +203

      @@Wildestleaf In my 30s. Why?

    • @Wildestleaf
      @Wildestleaf Рік тому +337

      I'm in my early 30s. I just wanted to know if this was a thing happening to people at a similar age range to me.

    • @moleedaboi
      @moleedaboi Рік тому +112

      I'm never telling my family that I an atheist I guess, though they know I like science.

  • @christopherjohnson3155
    @christopherjohnson3155 2 роки тому +2197

    I’m glad that someone made a video about this, growing up I was always estranged from my family members because I “act white” I never really knew what that meant till later on when I got to high school and my friends said I was the whitest black person they ever met. Those comments really made me feel self conscious so I tried to “act and talk black” but I wasn’t comfortable with cussin or limiting my diction and word choice so now I’m back to being the same old me but I always just say that I was raised in an environment that promotes good speaking skills and pursuing knowledge but I’m still black. I can’t pull a Michael Jackson and change skin color what I’ve got is what I’ve got and I’m happy to be me. So thank you for making a video like this man I appreciate it

    • @johna6828
      @johna6828 2 роки тому +115

      I completely relate my dude. It's not something you earn, it's something you're born with

    • @C-Handle
      @C-Handle 2 роки тому

      Lol, using profanity and limiting your vocabulary to sound black. 🤣🤣If you think that what it means to sound black, then you still sounded white.

    • @furymonger5395
      @furymonger5395 2 роки тому +62

      Same I don’t like to cuss much either.

    • @justaguywithagoodphoto4801
      @justaguywithagoodphoto4801 2 роки тому +70

      Fr cussing isn’t fun at all i need you to be is coherent so we can both come to understanding without having to needlessly argue

    • @yaoi4evandnevayuri
      @yaoi4evandnevayuri 2 роки тому +6

      Same. "You are not alone." Lmao

  • @Natbotjuice
    @Natbotjuice Рік тому +59

    as a white person, i can confirm that the days have been very melancholy recently

  • @KaeBae_
    @KaeBae_ 2 роки тому +984

    Wow this is too accurate, it hurts. I got made fun of so much when I was younger, both by my white and black peers all throughout school. Being told that I “acted white” really affected me and how I interacted with people. I was already shy, and being made fun of for loving to learn and talking properly was very demoralizing….

    • @StaRwaka
      @StaRwaka 2 роки тому +37

      I wonder if people were punished in the old days for talking like northern whites. Southern whites and blacks sound pretty much alike. Uppity was a word used and comes to mind. I hope you at some point found benefit from being who you are.
      Unfortunately, the English language is steeped in 'the craft'. In order to say what you mean in the language spoken; one should speak it the way the rules say. Otherwise, you may have trouble getting things to happen the way you want them to. Changing the pronunciations changes the outcome of the 'spell cast' or so it seems. I don't know if accents matter. So, saying what you mean to say according to the rules as well as the words you choose could possibly affect outcome... maybe... at least in some circles. Blessings

    • @Christine-pg3cu
      @Christine-pg3cu 2 роки тому +26

      This is me exactly. Except it wasn't just peers, it was also friends and family too. There is nothing like almost everyone you know and forced to be around demoralizing you for being yourself.

    • @yamibakura16
      @yamibakura16 2 роки тому +29

      Don’t listen to them, you do you dear! You gonna succeed in life, let them talk 🙌🏼💀

    • @homeoftek5844
      @homeoftek5844 Рік тому +22

      Me too. It put me in a MELANCHOLY mood after school lol

    • @sssurreal
      @sssurreal Рік тому

      Damn u was a loser 😭

  • @iivvrryy
    @iivvrryy Рік тому +2417

    I'm white but grew up in a mixed neighborhood and went to a school that was predominantly black. I had a couple very good black friends that would get shunned by their peers for "acting too white" and hanging out with me. It's really fucking sad and made me upset even in grade school because it just further perpetuates these incredibly harmful/racist stereotypes that black people can't be educated or like different music.

    • @AriesZero
      @AriesZero Рік тому +3

      @@flixs1353 By that logic we should bully you, you're definitely weak, especially with a mindset like that.

    • @danielhill8178
      @danielhill8178 Рік тому

      @@flixs1353 They who must bully to assert their strength are the weakest people. True strength comes in the form of allies, friendships, and mutual respect. Unless we're talking foreign policy, then a bit of the old ultra-violence typically suffices lol.

    • @spookson5679
      @spookson5679 Рік тому +1

      @@flixs1353 bro no they shouldn't lol they aren't nerds for hanging put with a white dude, and nerds ingenerally shouldn't be bullied it's been proven time and time again that bullying doesn't make you stronger, especially when there isn't anything wrong with being a nerd
      This mf deadass said "that's how society should work bullying the weak" thinking he's right, the weak should be helped not bullied

    • @Michorida
      @Michorida Рік тому +1

      @@flixs1353 you sound like an absolute weirdo trying to sound tough on UA-cam. You’ve had UA-cam for 7 years so you must be a little older. Why you so weird acting cool on UA-cam bud?

    • @morenojames5868
      @morenojames5868 Рік тому

      @@flixs1353 Hot damn you're so cool I could hear my neighbor orgasm just from me reading your post.
      This primo alpha male ass pseud can't even hit a punctuation mark but talks like he's bootleg Conan the Barbarian with the "bullying the weak is how society should work". I bet you had lots of the sex bro, you total badass.

  • @Davidscomix
    @Davidscomix 2 роки тому +640

    My brother tells me this all of the time because I speak properly, he’s basically saying all black people act ignorant and don’t speak right.

    • @retronerds6884
      @retronerds6884 2 роки тому

      they don't understand that they'll say I'm tired of everybody think black people can't speak right or we're ignorant then turn around and tell a black person they act white in the same breath make it make sense

    • @Ronaldo-eu1nz
      @Ronaldo-eu1nz 2 роки тому

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    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. 2 роки тому +33

      It’s so annoying

    • @dhnyl
      @dhnyl 2 роки тому +35

      @@_Scarlet1 out of pocket

    • @theace228
      @theace228 2 роки тому +60

      @@_Scarlet1 Yeah man we're dark.

  • @kayele
    @kayele 8 місяців тому +58

    Speaking as a creative/artistic person, I've learned that no matter what color, our personality type HATES being put inside a box. I think we are rebellious by nature and we hate when normies try to tell us how to think, act or speak. We don't want to be like you, we just want to be ourselves, and we always find a way to express that.

    • @jbtube73
      @jbtube73 7 місяців тому +4

      I totally respect that.

    • @ilikepancakes2368
      @ilikepancakes2368 2 місяці тому +5

      So many black poets, painters, writers, philosophers, and musicians lost to time. It’s just a mystery to me how the black American community complains about being stereotyped negatively and yet they never preserve or support the best among them.

  • @eternaltwilight7430
    @eternaltwilight7430 2 роки тому +1299

    I've never understood how anyone- especially another black person- could say I sound white. In my head I always go "so what you're saying is that black people sound uneducated and so when I speak like I actually read and graduated high school that makes me sound like a white person?". For everyone that's ever told someone that, do you not realize you're insulting their/your ethnicity?

    • @noxflo897
      @noxflo897 2 роки тому +86

      In some rare cases i had white people tell me that I sound more white than them.

    • @lukethelegend9705
      @lukethelegend9705 2 роки тому +5

      Why don’t you say that then

    • @eternaltwilight7430
      @eternaltwilight7430 2 роки тому +78

      @@lukethelegend9705 I used to in the beginning but they never listened so I don't bother anymore

    • @mildlycurious8333
      @mildlycurious8333 2 роки тому +9

      But why it must be white tho? Why not Indian or Asian?

    • @kiraoshiro9251
      @kiraoshiro9251 2 роки тому +95

      @@mildlycurious8333 because the stereotypes in USA go like this:
      White = literate
      Black = illiterate
      Yellow = good at math
      Brown = good at science
      Red =

  • @snowballstail
    @snowballstail Рік тому +1373

    I was called an "Oreo" (black on the outside white on the inside) by my cousin because I don't like listening to rap and r&b since I personally believe the songs are negative. So this skit really hits home.

    • @Dragonsking4
      @Dragonsking4 Рік тому +126

      So many of us have been there. It’s hard to express, because who can you talk to about it? A white person won’t get it, and you are worried another black person will either shrug you off for worrying or agree with the person who made the comment in the first place.

    • @Teandcrumpets
      @Teandcrumpets Рік тому +85

      You're right about that a lot of rap is pretty negative but there is some out there that are the complete opposite, try listening to "Soul of Freedom feat. Cise Star"

    • @crappyaccount
      @crappyaccount Рік тому +19

      @@Teandcrumpets ayyy someone else knows cise starr and uyama! assuming you're into nujabes too?

    • @crappyaccount
      @crappyaccount Рік тому +11

      what do you listen to OP? im curious

    • @Teandcrumpets
      @Teandcrumpets Рік тому +5

      @@crappyaccount hell yeah 😎

  • @cephalacog
    @cephalacog 2 роки тому +342

    When I was workin at McDonalds, there was a lotta black people I worked with and they all called me white for my name, the way I act, music I like way I talked, etc. You tellin me a nigga has to be a walking stereotype to be black?

    • @johna6828
      @johna6828 2 роки тому +74

      Dude same. My high interest in science/tech and use of certain "big words" got me the nickname Oreo

    • @retronerds6884
      @retronerds6884 2 роки тому +35

      I feel this on a spiritual level I listened to metal and read comics/manga I remember being told I could relate well to the white in British literature class

    • @UltimateDude10
      @UltimateDude10 2 роки тому +46

      Right and then they get mad when they get stereotyped. You can't have it both ways

    • @sunMMVIII
      @sunMMVIII 2 роки тому +9

      And a lot of stereotypes were created or boosted to spread a low opinion of our group

    • @edi6722
      @edi6722 2 роки тому +12

      They say that but when someone says something about “acting black” they get offended lol

  • @jasherbelton3039
    @jasherbelton3039 Рік тому +90

    As a black Kid who doesn't use slang and doesn't listen to rap, this hits home.

    • @superthon7762
      @superthon7762 Рік тому +1

      nah you differrent

    • @evilpuck6100
      @evilpuck6100 6 місяців тому

      ​@@superthon7762why

    • @Robust-d7u
      @Robust-d7u 4 місяці тому +18

      I've been called an Oreo because I...
      -read literature
      -articulate myself on a higher level than most Americans
      -have actual manners
      -listen to classical music
      I'm getting very irritated by these stereotypes

    • @jasherbelton3039
      @jasherbelton3039 4 місяці тому

      @@Robust-d7u same. I’ve been told I sound white before. It sucks man. You’re clowned in the black community for wanting to be a an educated, high class individual. Smh

    • @Bruhface0019
      @Bruhface0019 3 місяці тому +1

      @@superthon7762nah you different

  • @espguitarist13
    @espguitarist13 Рік тому +216

    I'm mixed, black mother, white father. Grew up in the suburbs listening to metal and punk music. Went to the city one day wearing a metallica tshirt with my mom and had a bunch of thugged out dudes telling my mom I was white washed and she should be ashamed. Shits sad man.

    • @Kvnzzzo
      @Kvnzzzo Рік тому +47

      This is something I always thought: why the fuck should you listen to only rap and other subgenres of it just because you're black? It's like, dammit. The number of black people I know who listen to and enjoy metal are counted on their fingers. It's amazing that something as simple as a genre of music creates an environment of problems around a lot of people's lives. It's stupid. Keep enjoying the genres you like, because that's what matters 🤘.

    • @cyber_robot889
      @cyber_robot889 Рік тому

      wtf man, fuck them, be yourself!

    • @Era_Of_Xon
      @Era_Of_Xon Рік тому +10

      @espguitarist13 I grew up in the hood as a kid my mom black and my dad also black, wrestling is what drew me in to rock music and metal eventually hip-hop and rap became a thing but not until many years later, a good friend of mine opened the door to other types of music such as Linkin Park, Tristania, and Disturbed just to name a few, but have always stuck to who I am I just been told I act "White" or sound "White" which is annoying when we are just trying to be ourselves, it's not our fault if we express it differently than what people want us to be

    • @Malyt538
      @Malyt538 Рік тому +12

      Funny thing is we literally made those genres of music 😂

    • @aganib4506
      @aganib4506 Рік тому +9

      Also, it would ironic of them considering that Black people invented Rock and Roll which lead to Metal. Black folks, seriously, y'all need own your shit!

  • @bl0c297
    @bl0c297 2 роки тому +597

    "how do you awaken inside of me then pause" got me cryin bro😭

    • @kalligraphii
      @kalligraphii 2 роки тому +15

      yo and he just kept going lmao

    • @Ronaldo-eu1nz
      @Ronaldo-eu1nz 2 роки тому

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    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. 2 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @yosh-9999
      @yosh-9999 2 роки тому +2

      That part had me sent

    • @thealph1191
      @thealph1191 2 роки тому +1

      He never said NoHomo after that, and it makes me wonder.

  • @justingabriel1765
    @justingabriel1765 Рік тому +723

    I remember I worked with a really nice girl, and she had a high pitch voice and talked very well, and she was helping a customer out and the guy asked her “that’s your real voice?” I’ll just say I guess you could say her voice didn’t match what she looked like, but it was still rude for that guy to do that, and it obviously effected her she got angry about it. It’s the same with people saying white people act black it’s like wait a minute, a white guy could grow up in a black neighborhood with black friends his whole life, that stuff is going to reflect on him as a person that’s a cultural and has to do with environment not he’s trying to be black. It’s such an odd stance to have.

    • @wildfire9280
      @wildfire9280 Рік тому +7

      “I’m blacker than you are.” Real quote from a real movie by a -real- white character who “acted black”.

    • @justingabriel1765
      @justingabriel1765 Рік тому +68

      @@wildfire9280 so your counter is a movie quote and not real life? Or what? I don’t quite understand how this applies to what I said.

    • @supershadowfan2000
      @supershadowfan2000 Рік тому +50

      @@wildfire9280 as a black man I have met plenty of white people who embodied more black stereotypes than I ever have

    • @love-ip7sz
      @love-ip7sz Рік тому +27

      I'm white and from lousiana. Its like people have almost given me a complex that my accent is too strong or if I'm around black people I don't know they will think I'm doing that thing some white people do around black people when they try to connect with them by talking different (or I'll be viewed like the character the other commenter mentioned that say I'm blacker than you are lol. The fact I really love soul music and other parts of black culture adds to that I think) I try not to think too much about it but I've had moments of thinking about taking speech therapy. I feel like people make a lot of assumptions about me based off my voice... Sometimes I even make a conscious decision to speak in like a "phone voice" but then I feel so fake about doing it and like when my real voice comes out again people will think that's my fake voice. Anyway thanks for letting me rant about that lol.

    • @jamiecurran3544
      @jamiecurran3544 Рік тому +16

      @@love-ip7sz Just be you, don't feel guilty just act how you truely feel, it makes you who you are don't change for no-one!😁✌️

  • @Snow248.
    @Snow248. Рік тому +21

    Kinda crazy that people consider being well spoken or knowledgeable a white trait. That unintentional mental link has to be a big stumbling block for those who think in that way.

    • @ZingoBananaa
      @ZingoBananaa Рік тому +2

      It's also crazy to me that being called "white" is such a massive insult to black people that this video is apparently very relatable

    • @futureelement924
      @futureelement924 Рік тому +1

      ​@@ZingoBananaaThats understandable though. Thats like calling someone korean when they're not. Walk up to someone who Chinese and call them Japanese and see what happens 😂. Just don't call someone something their nit because of your own assumptions about something simple.

    • @ZingoBananaa
      @ZingoBananaa Рік тому

      @@futureelement924 It's not though, because now you're equating calling someone something they're not based on an assumption that might be a misunderstanding to calling someone something they obviously are not as an insult.
      I'm assuming out of good faith you used the chinese to japanese comparison because it's a rude thing that some westeners just assume or don't care too much about the difference, and not comparing being oblivious to nationality as being the same as using race as an insult.
      Imagine if white people acted that weird to being called black.

  • @jaybutler24
    @jaybutler24 2 роки тому +411

    Being a black nerd raised in white suburbia 80s & 90s I swear everyday I was told I act/talk white. Mostly by family members who grew up in differently.
    This skit was great man and hit home personally! I'm sending this video to all my damn Uncles who got on me for watching Love Hina instead of playing basketball 😂

    • @Zunfei
      @Zunfei 2 роки тому +7

      Same man its so annoying...

    • @krxxc.kk6
      @krxxc.kk6 2 роки тому +5

      love hina instead of basketball 😭

    • @snazzydrew
      @snazzydrew 2 роки тому +7

      Bruh LOVE HINA WAS DOPE!

    • @III-og8dr
      @III-og8dr 2 роки тому +1

      Well, you probably did talk white, though: same accent and inflections that the whites you grew up with used.

    • @Zunfei
      @Zunfei 2 роки тому +5

      @@III-og8dr because I was using words they weren’t taught silly me lol

  • @themaggattack
    @themaggattack 2 роки тому +229

    "Every black person can't be black." The irony in that line is underrated.
    (Remember the episode of Fresh Prince when Carlton read the frat brother for saying he wasn't black enough? That was so good.)

    • @Setsotama
      @Setsotama 2 роки тому +10

      There's a lot of people trying to memory hole that episode, out of all the episodes, that one hit me the hardest

    • @maxstrike3022
      @maxstrike3022 2 роки тому +8

      @@Setsotama Will meeting his father had me chopping onions, but that Carlton episode was a close 2nd.

    • @TRU.tv.
      @TRU.tv. 2 роки тому +1

      Black is a culture n a mindset thou
      Not jus a color are y’all serious?

    • @TRU.tv.
      @TRU.tv. 2 роки тому

      @@maxstrike3022 perfect example thou there not black fr lol will the only black character n that show

    • @TRU.tv.
      @TRU.tv. 2 роки тому

      @@maxstrike3022 the nigga wears polo shirts
      N turtle necks , likes only white women
      Talks as such. So what I’m saying is he is not culturely black jus his skin being black is more than a skin color that’s why it can be that one white person were well
      Be like “oh he black” “or he get a pass”
      Jus joking but really not

  • @LEcoolJ8
    @LEcoolJ8 2 роки тому +272

    Man I feel this.. As a light skinned black man who went to an all white school, all the kids there said I acted white cause I pronounced my words and didn’t dress or “look black.” Later went to an HBCU and half the dudes there said the exact same thing. I swear no one knows what being black even means anymore…

    • @JonCom3dy
      @JonCom3dy 2 роки тому

      Too white for black people. Not black enough for white people.

    • @ClashSupreme
      @ClashSupreme 2 роки тому +1

      Exactly. It's a narrative that people push that results in division of the people of race.

    • @melvindunn2234
      @melvindunn2234 2 роки тому

      Whatever white culture tells you is black

    • @lordblazer
      @lordblazer 2 роки тому +22

      I was in middle school i the 90s... and they did the same shit back then. and I'm not light skinned. Sooooooo yeaaa.. American culture is just very anti-intellectual

    • @brandonr2188
      @brandonr2188 2 роки тому +14

      imo, if you are african american, you should just consider yourself american. i dont consider myself scottish american. i think its just another way the government is trying to keep poor people fighting.

  • @GoodAnon22
    @GoodAnon22 11 місяців тому +197

    Had a classmate who was a black emo who hated rap music.

    • @DictionaryKid
      @DictionaryKid 11 місяців тому +49

      Bravo to them, it's a whack genre

    • @IndigoVagrant
      @IndigoVagrant 7 місяців тому +38

      When I started college, my best friend was a black punk woman who was in the National Guard. She was cool as fuck.

    • @SSADO-
      @SSADO- 5 місяців тому +6

      I also had a classmate who was white and hated rap music.

    • @TheNotSoRandomDude
      @TheNotSoRandomDude 4 місяці тому +7

      @@DictionaryKidWho still uses the word whack?

    • @IDK-p6d8c
      @IDK-p6d8c 4 місяці тому +4

      L classmate

  • @animeAJproductions
    @animeAJproductions 2 роки тому +501

    Cilvanis: You think my life is a joke? You think I'm acting?
    Cilvanis' fans: Yes, yes we did.

    • @Ronaldo-eu1nz
      @Ronaldo-eu1nz 2 роки тому +1

      Yo 🔥ua-cam.com/video/rdJ9bsN7JAw/v-deo.html,

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. 2 роки тому +3

      😭😭😭😭

    • @Dr._Bo
      @Dr._Bo 2 роки тому +1

      👌🏾

  • @AhsokaJackson
    @AhsokaJackson 2 роки тому +635

    I love the meta humor about his whole life being a skit. X,D
    It also kinda raised a philosophical question about to what degree we do or don't define a person by their actions. It's kinda like when people want to argue someone is a good or bad person but their actions are constantly to the contrary of that. Makes me think of the quote or concept about habits eventually becoming/defining character.
    And then throughout the video I was absolutely just cracking up and cheering as he went the heck off. That definitely reminds me of myself when I get worked up, LOLLL. The bits about letter limit and also whether his friend is supposed to be the required archetype he must channel were some of my absolute favorite bits. Especially the letter bit, ha.
    And then that ending? Priceless, LOL.

    • @Tm-dy2bp
      @Tm-dy2bp 2 роки тому +8

      Yeah its like the saying "Dont judge a book by its cover but by the contents within". Ive never had a problem if someone said i acted different but that was just because i didnt give a dam what others think this is how i am and im not changing for anyone just like how i dont try to change others i might try to change their way of thinking at times but never who they are.
      And just to be on the safe side im talking about bad thoughts like killing, disparaging others for no reason, basically things that not okay with the law or morally bankrupt.

    • @AhsokaJackson
      @AhsokaJackson 2 роки тому +8

      Come to think of it, the ending was a really nice little nod to the fact that there is an aspect where it kinda makes sense because there are general cultural patterns and differences and stuff that definitely pop up. Heck, you tend to notice that sometimes in Hollywood media where they'll have Black characters but they'll just feel like carbon copies of the White ones, and the way they behave, especially stuff like how parents and children interact, doesn't feel very true to or realistic for Black (Diaspora) American culture. Like kids' getting to mouth off a certain way or do schitt like having food fights. Of course, not all White American parents would tolerate that ish either, trust and believe. 😂😂
      But there are still larger patterns you tend to see across different communities. So the restaurant bit was cool to include, because it wouldn't be fair to act like there's NOTHING to any of that. Seriously, even Black people who get labeled as White-acting themselves will look at certain behaviors and be like, "Okay, NAH. WHO RAISED YOUR ALLEGEDLY BLACK AZZ?" XD

    • @sunMMVIII
      @sunMMVIII 2 роки тому +1

      @@AhsokaJackson Yeah, it miiiiiight be more ok to say things like this for benign details, but our language is often too imprecise for details/behaviors that feed superiority/inferiority narratives

    • @Ronaldo-eu1nz
      @Ronaldo-eu1nz 2 роки тому

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    • @polidon1577
      @polidon1577 2 роки тому

      "I had a dream that my children would be judged not by the color of their skin but by the content of their character"
      Meanwhile a lot of black people to other black people (according to a lot of comments, I'm not black myself) bruh why aren't you acting more black?

  • @mrm64
    @mrm64 2 роки тому +760

    FUCKING THANK YOU! My family is Jamaican and we're first generation...if my parents spoke Jamaica patios in the workplace, they'd fire you on the SPOT for not "speaking proper" in the 80s and 90s in white America, so by extension, my sis and I spoke "proper' in school in such...YEARS of being called white because of it. It's just words! What, you think the police is gonna call me a white man because I know how to flip the dialogue from urban to cooperate? We tryna SURIVE out here man! This black on black shit needs to end.

    • @KaiserMazoku
      @KaiserMazoku 2 роки тому +33

      geezus that's super f'd to get fired for not speaking the "right way"

    • @Mona-.-
      @Mona-.- 2 роки тому +5

      Why is being called white so bad? No offence just curious. I don’t see it as a big problem unless ur being bullied for it

    • @Ronaldo-eu1nz
      @Ronaldo-eu1nz 2 роки тому

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    • @maicoltenjou7572
      @maicoltenjou7572 2 роки тому +107

      ​@@Mona-.- There's nothing wrong with being white. But being called "white" when you aren't can be very alienating. I've been called white for being successful academically, for not impregnating a girl before I turned 20, for having a vocabulary that extends beyond profanities and racial slurs, for holding some conservative values, for being lighter skinned. But white people would never, ever accept me as "white". That doesn't upset me; I don't expect them to. What can be disheartening is being turned away and dismissed by people of my own race and ethnic background simply because I prefer to conduct myself in a particular manner.

    • @Mona-.-
      @Mona-.- 2 роки тому +21

      @@maicoltenjou7572 oh ok. Thanks for explaining

  • @abraham2217
    @abraham2217 Рік тому +92

    This is partially associated with the concept of “crabs in the barrel”. Where, in case any crab attempts to climb out the hood, others will pull him down out of jealousy and enforcement of self approval.

    • @kevinleewilliams5119
      @kevinleewilliams5119 7 місяців тому

      Talk white? Why on earth would I want to sound like a redneck.

  • @kelpieblakemore
    @kelpieblakemore 2 роки тому +637

    This is so accurate. I was that kid that would read books religiously growing up so I learned all sorts of words. The amount of times people, even my own family members, who would make fun of me for "acting white" was so damn annoying. I would literally just say worlds like "contemplate" and they would think I thought I was better than them despite me saying multiple times that just because I read a lot does not mean I am automatically smart.
    One time my uncle interrupted me doing homework to ask what the temperature was outside. I was about two or three degrees off with my guess because I'm not a fucking human thermometer. I just knew it was cold. Man literally sat there, laughed at me then said "see, you are not as smart as you think" and called me a dumbass. Some family members acted surprised when I told them I have self-esteem issues. Because, in their minds, "smart" people can't have low-self esteem and black people can't feel depressed. I will never get these people.
    edit: removed extra word

    • @DragonBlack199
      @DragonBlack199 2 роки тому

      Exactly that’s parents for you they can’t fathom the idea of their child having mental or low self esteem issues

    • @DanishTroll87
      @DanishTroll87 2 роки тому +127

      "see, you are not as smart as you think". Damn, the level of ignorance in that sentence is just so high. And telling it to your own nephew... I don't know man.

    • @HighAdmiral
      @HighAdmiral 2 роки тому +82

      I got second-hand pain just from reading this.
      People will be jealous of your knowledge and/or intelligence regardless of skin colour, I can tell you that... so many people with inferiority complexes.

    • @doctahjonez
      @doctahjonez 2 роки тому +37

      I'd disown my family if they did that ngl

    • @atomicfro
      @atomicfro 2 роки тому +12

      This happens to white people, too.

  • @NEWORLEANSYAT
    @NEWORLEANSYAT 2 роки тому +412

    I’m 45 years old, white and grew up in New Orleans. My dad was a school teacher in an elementary school. He would tell me stories from his day. Mind you this was in the late 80s but he said when a new black student would enroll and they were “not black enough” the black students would put the kids through hell. He said it was hard to watch.

    • @crappyaccount
      @crappyaccount Рік тому +35

      someone else from my state, that's rare to see in comment sections

    • @jcaashby3
      @jcaashby3 Рік тому +34

      I wonder what is the word for this type of behavior is. It is not isolated to just black and white and seems to hit a lot of other races as well. It is like people want to try and hold others back to a stereotype or something. Its like a "Oh your trying to be better then me".
      I also think there is a self hate part of it as well.
      I see some of my customers (I work on motorcycles) who tell me about a used bike they purchased and will say "Ohh I got a good deal I got it from a white guy so I know there is nothign wrong with it" I ask them to there face what difference does it make of the seller. Are you implying if you got it from a black person it would be lesser of a vehicle or a higher price?

    • @citymorgue8462
      @citymorgue8462 Рік тому +10

      @@jcaashby3 It’s Crab in a Bucket mentality

    • @flixs1353
      @flixs1353 Рік тому

      It's a fact black people act different then white people black people made this stereotype themselves buddy by insulting the way white people act and calling people white boys millions of black people who grew up in slavery and passed there tongue onto the new generation so they act different then white people this is fact don't bring opinion into it your delusional

    • @jollyrancherchick
      @jollyrancherchick Рік тому +1

      @Christian Rafiki Perez Kong Nope. It’s self hate passed down through generations. Having your humanity taken away does terrible things to the mind, like taking the hate thrown at you and justifying it. It took me years to realize that when I was called white, it had nothing to do with white people being bad, and everything to do with black people not being good enough. That sentiment isn’t new. It was put in black people centuries ago

  • @SparkySharky
    @SparkySharky 2 роки тому +428

    I’ve had friends who felt they didn’t fit in with their families because they didn’t “act black” enough, I’m Hispanic and I’ve had instances where my parents have said I act too American, honestly it gets exhausting, why can’t we be ourselves why do we have to act a certain way you think we should based off the color of our skin, it’s unhealthy and disgusting to exclude your own family because they aren’t like you.

    • @jillbrison5177
      @jillbrison5177 2 роки тому +45

      Happens to us white people too. I come from a very country family, but my mother was an English teacher so I spoke proper English and read a lot of books because I loved reading. Now, I can get a twang when I want too but I rarely do. I got mocked for sounding too fancy and using words that were too complicated. People automatically thought I looked down on them because they couldn't use those 'five dollar words' like I could. Man, who the hell cares?! There's nothing wrong with sounding like you have an education!
      Just because I talk more formally than the people I grew up around does not automatically mean I think I'm better than they are either. Education and intelligence are not the same thing after all.

    • @croissora
      @croissora 2 роки тому +2

      for me its that i look american, not exactly act
      It annoys me so much like what am i supposed to do about that?

    • @BSingh18
      @BSingh18 2 роки тому +6

      I'm Indian and have felt that way my entire life.

    • @hanabanana7041
      @hanabanana7041 2 роки тому

      @@jillbrison5177 Fantastic Jill! But just so you know this kinda comes across in the same energy as a man commenting "but men-" in a comment section on womens issues...just fyi for future reference.

    • @chaosXP3RT
      @chaosXP3RT 2 роки тому

      I'd say it sounds racist, but only white people can be racist

  • @ruriva4931
    @ruriva4931 11 місяців тому +20

    I get Oreo comments from strangers but what makes me the most mad is when my family says shit like “you wanna be Asian or something?” Because I’m deep into a lot of anime, kdrama, and Kpop.

  • @ivanhouston12
    @ivanhouston12 2 роки тому +605

    Thanks for this. I'm black and felt ostracized for not acting "black" enough. I was always intimidated when I was around stereotypical black culture because there was NO WAY I could fit in. I don't have it in me, lol! My Mother (I love her and she meant this with love) innocently stated that you can often tell if a man is black or not by the way he walks, and I didn't have that walk, lol. I went to an all white school and wanted so bad to "be black". I tried to change my style of dress to be black. I realized I was idolizing black culture and people in an unhealthy way. I also remember a white guy asking me what my preference in women was and when I said black, he said he didn't think someone like me would be able to date black women.
    In short, thank GOD I'm finally breaking out of those toxic thought patterns. There will only be one me for all eternity; past, present, and future. So I am learning to love myself because I was created to be just the way I am. Love who you are. You are that way on purpose.
    Finally; learning to love myself has allowed me to see people more as individuals rather than stereotypes.

    • @johnnygoodman2003
      @johnnygoodman2003 2 роки тому +20

      Everyone can talk the way they want to. The problem I have is when people accuse me of code switching. I like to make jokes and use accents. Everything I say is with love ,respect and humor. Why should I get accused of code switching if by a black guy that doesn't sound black???

    • @dracojoule
      @dracojoule 2 роки тому +20

      Glad you're learning to tune those people out man, much love your way

    • @AllYourBaseAreBelongToU5
      @AllYourBaseAreBelongToU5 2 роки тому +19

      The last sentence is how we end division. See people as individuals, not collectives. We’re all unique and that’s great. Will every person jive with another? No, but if we respect people on an individual level we can part ways in peace.
      I think there are times when a group is better than an individual, but it must be of voluntary association.

    • @homeoftek5844
      @homeoftek5844 2 роки тому +2

      Nice book

    • @CrizzyEyes
      @CrizzyEyes 2 роки тому +6

      @@johnnygoodman2003 What is "code switching?" Are there people out there who try to shame you for acting differently around different groups of people? That is a thing literally everyone does.

  • @mariaacosta8920
    @mariaacosta8920 Рік тому +1672

    I’m half Colombian and Dominican, and recently I’ve been called white washed just because I have good grades, my skin is “too pale”, or bc I don’t speak Spanish. This really pisses me off and I even start to question myself. I feel as if I have to act or dress a certain way. I even question whether or not I deserve to be in the advanced classes that I worked so hard for just bc of the stereotype that, and I’ve heard “No way Hispanics can be smart” I’m only in middle school, and just when I was starting to become proud of my ethnicity (bc before I wasn’t), I all the sudden get called white washed. Even by some of my friends.
    But I’m glad I’m not the only one who’s frustrated. I’m so glad that I found this video and I also got a ton of laughs from it, so thank u!!! :)

    • @crappyaccount
      @crappyaccount Рік тому +70

      wait was it other hispanics saying yall cant be smart bc????? huh????

    • @hicehamer1337
      @hicehamer1337 Рік тому +65

      I am Colombian, it reminds me of when I moved to Bogotá and people were surprised because I was from the coast, but my skin tone was very white, I was an introvert, I did not like music from that region and I was diligent in my studies. Some of the smarter ones got mad at me because I was catching up with them and that wasn't "normal".

    • @gleqy
      @gleqy Рік тому +25

      Hola amigo, im half dominican aswell :)
      (and i can't speak spanish fluently either)

    • @erngaming
      @erngaming Рік тому +29

      I'm cuban but I'm quiet smart and white so some people are fucking shocked when they find out I was born in Cuba and speak spanish just fine

    • @ajoajoajoaj
      @ajoajoajoaj Рік тому +68

      The weirdest part is how speaking Spanish natively is defined as a racial trait. America is weird, what happens when they realize Spain exists?

  • @CosmicAli_TheObserver
    @CosmicAli_TheObserver Рік тому +1924

    I am Native, but we need to tell people that we "Sound EDUCATED, not WHITE."
    This is how we hold our own people back, like crabs in a barrel... Trying to drag down anyone rising up or succeeding.
    Just because I am educated does not mean I have forgotten my culture, I speak my language and a lot of younger Natives can't.
    Balance between where we come from and being successful in a white made society is something that we all have to do together.
    Balance.
    Culture is only enriching if you understand the true value of it. Instead of trying to fit in, be who you are and share that with the people around you. When we all stand together on this, the future will be brighter for everyone and those that come after us. We should lead by example if we really want change.
    But, that is just my opinion. I am just an Observer.

    • @marlon2698-m
      @marlon2698-m Рік тому +141

      I love this comment. Like why do we equate being educated or being civil with being white? That kind of thinking is so rotten.

    • @sleepshouter5017
      @sleepshouter5017 Рік тому +40

      Crab don’t wanna see another crab make it…

    • @thorodinson6649
      @thorodinson6649 Рік тому +5

      Awesome. Whats your language

    • @blxxkstxx6139
      @blxxkstxx6139 Рік тому +33

      They don’t want to admit you are EDUCATED so they call you names

    • @CosmicAli_TheObserver
      @CosmicAli_TheObserver Рік тому +26

      @@thorodinson6649 My first language is Lakota, I am North and South American Indigenous.

  • @eglantinepapeau1582
    @eglantinepapeau1582 Рік тому +30

    when i was 15 i told my mother i was depressed , she said "stop talking like a white person"
    😠 what does that have to do with skin color ? some people just need to move forward with the time . and i'm not just talking about older generations , many young people today say the most backward stuff , like they were born in the 50's too.

  • @crossover0909
    @crossover0909 Рік тому +277

    This video is so relatable I remember back in middle school The black kids would always clown me for “acting white” even as a kid I always thought that shit was just dumb

  • @CW-rh4jz
    @CW-rh4jz 2 роки тому +647

    As I read through the comments, I did not realise how many of us dealt with this issue. I've been told my entire life that I sound like a white man for simply being eloquent and smart. This was from both black and white people, but what I will always remember is being told I was white for holding down a job. I believe it was something along the lines of ''look at you going to work in your suit and tie, you are so white.''

    • @yonisbadar2129
      @yonisbadar2129 2 роки тому +57

      bruh tf does that word even mean bruh. ELOQUENT?! SOUNDS ABOUT WHITE

    • @dragano556
      @dragano556 2 роки тому +59

      Man idk where this stems from or how deep this goes psychologically but it’s crazy seeing how so many of us (particularly in the west) feel the same way.
      I’m a black 26yr old man from the Bahamas and I too can confirm that being told your “acting/talking white” Is suppose to be some kind of way to embarrass or insult you for doing something educated or “proper” and I find it insane just how much affect that have on all of us mentally

    • @djandjb1
      @djandjb1 2 роки тому +21

      @@dragano556 It’s because most of us black folks have a history as a slave class back when we were in Africa. We have a deep-seated insecurity that’s stretches far past even what we’ve seen in slavery days, and it’s affected so many of us generation after generation of regression and unresolved trauma, some may be beyond help. The sad part is those of us who are removed enough or matured enough to have either abandoned these traumas or avoid them altogether, have to contend with many of our own who haven’t had that opportunity for growth in any way, so when we get compared, others and our own see us as “other”, some black folks see it as a threat as they haven’t got there yet and they are the ones who will mostly make you feel less than or outcast. White people (and some other races) will address you differently, the more ignorant the more they are likely to question your identity, even if privately, only because they mostly don’t know it’s wrong to do so (or they are racist).
      Then there is the issue with how Black people of other continents and countries view us (especially African’s) which is a whole other bag

    • @wileyriley9638
      @wileyriley9638 2 роки тому +4

      Just stop your not the victim your not oppressed the only ones oppresing blacks are themselves

    • @codyrockarano5220
      @codyrockarano5220 2 роки тому +1

      Should have just thanks and moved on lol

  • @SeanMania213
    @SeanMania213 2 роки тому +239

    black is what I am. Not something I need to attain ✊🏾

  • @softailspringer9915
    @softailspringer9915 4 місяці тому +11

    I went to college and have a good vocabulary. Some of my less educated friends will sometimes mock me for using a word they don’t understand. Same thing as this video

  • @westcoastogee585
    @westcoastogee585 Рік тому +207

    One of my black friends in school was always made fun of because hed read books at recess, and kids always said they way he dressed and talked and acted was "acting white". His father was from Africa and his mother was a psychiatrist I believe. They had very clear expectations for who their children would be, and the kids rarely misbehaved. His sister is Issa Rae. It is absolute poison to discourage black people for being thoughtful, articulate, mild mannered, academically inclined.

    • @o00nemesis00o
      @o00nemesis00o Рік тому

      It's grimly hilarious that actual Africans would be denounced as race traitors by their American inner city very-distant cousins, for reaching upwards.

    • @flyingstapler1241
      @flyingstapler1241 11 місяців тому

      Ironic that black Africans care more about education, and yet black Americans are the ones telling themselves that doing it isn't black

    • @titanicisshit1647
      @titanicisshit1647 8 місяців тому +2

      this sounds like some kind of 1930s germany propaganda perfect society movie

    • @littlemoth4956
      @littlemoth4956 8 місяців тому +21

      @@titanicisshit1647Tf are you talking about? Everything okay up there?

    • @mdtisthebest6249
      @mdtisthebest6249 7 місяців тому

      I mean reading books at recess is kinda weird

  • @abunchofthighs3807
    @abunchofthighs3807 2 роки тому +627

    I’ve had the same problems my entire 22 year life. My mom was military so I moved a lot and lived at a lot of diverse areas where there was a majority of one ethnicity. Typically the education available in those areas was better as a whole, so I learned a lot especially with grammar and proper sentences. The problems happened when I started going to more predominantly black schools. They would hear the way I talked, they would see how I held myself up dress wise, and even notice how I never said niga even though I was black and they would bully tf outta me for it. Hell even in my last years of HS sooo many people mainly black would call me an Oreo, or that I talked white like I’m sorry speaking properly equaled white in their eyes. Shit was and still is terrible sometimes when I meet new people and they automatically have stereotypes built into their from what they’ve seen on social media. Like sorry I’m not some ghetto black guy that sags his paints, and calls people niga every 10 seconds. Don’t even get me started with the music. I listen to everything but rap(some) and country. Mainly anime openings and I get roasted to high hell for that shit🤦🏾

    • @mochacup1868
      @mochacup1868 2 роки тому +66

      You know...it reminds me of my Asian friends talking about being called a "banana" like they are white inside but appear Asian
      These kind of degrading and limiting nicknames drive me crazy, why create special words just to belittle people even more and make them feel like if they do not 90% conform to a group of people then they are not "really Asian" or "really Black" it's so dumb
      A person can be many things at the same time, objectovely a person is entity greater than social markers, even when we are raised a certain way, at a point its still within our choice to be ourselves and act a certain way
      They can be Black the way they want and Asian the way they want and White the way they want...it just goes back to being respected and giving respect regardless of their ethnicity amojng others
      Shouldn't be that complicated to be yourself
      Edit : English rookie mistakes

    • @BubblesChika
      @BubblesChika 2 роки тому +1

      @@mochacup1868 Exactly. A white UA-camr I used to watch gets abused by fools, rudely accusing him of "trying to be black" just because he cusses and uses London slang words like bruv in his videos. Like, no, bitch. That's the way a LONDON ROADMAN talks. Please stop stereotyping and generalizing us into your vague, narrowminded idea of how think a "proper black person" would act.

    • @L16htW4rr10r
      @L16htW4rr10r 2 роки тому +2

      That's really suck... :,(

    • @keshi5541
      @keshi5541 2 роки тому +18

      It really is frustrating. When they expect you to act like a stereotype because your black.

    • @spec2sso578
      @spec2sso578 2 роки тому +14

      Anime openings are literally the best thing ever, and i'm black so don't listen to these ppl they're problamatic, my group of friends wouldn't roast me for listening to music that came from the heavens

  • @Ugenesis2010
    @Ugenesis2010 2 роки тому +222

    I actually really appreciate this video because it gave respect to both perspectives in a comedic fashion. Obviously a lot has been through the whole “you talk/act white” due to talking in a proper way (I’m a victim of this). HOWEVER it also acknowledges that there’s things some black ppl do that culturally we do not do which is why some ppl come to that conclusion lol.

  • @benliftin4awhile
    @benliftin4awhile 11 місяців тому +63

    You like how “white” just translates to articulate, with a good vocabulary.

    • @kevinleewilliams5119
      @kevinleewilliams5119 7 місяців тому

      I like how thats true despite all the southern white people that sound exactly like southern black people in the way they articulate themselves. its just racism toward black people, whenever its the same situation, the black version is the negative, and the white version, (hillbilly, redneck sounding), gets ignored, not even mentioned how they dont sound smart at all.

  • @sugen747
    @sugen747 2 роки тому +259

    Sometimes they hit you with the mix up with “it’s the tone of your voice” when you ask them to explain to themselves when they call you that.
    I’m sorry I didn’t know all niggas had a “black” tone we should all default to. Someone please send me back to my manufacturer so that I can be corrected.

    • @0-Stars-MikiTune-
      @0-Stars-MikiTune- 2 роки тому +36

      This, exactly. There's obviously people who have that tone and others who don't. And that's okay!
      This comment also reminds me of a few situations where people got upset at black voice actors for "not sounding black enough". Like, wtf is that supposed to mean?

    • @retronerds6884
      @retronerds6884 2 роки тому +21

      facts there's no such thing as talking or acting black

    • @Ronaldo-eu1nz
      @Ronaldo-eu1nz 2 роки тому

      Yo 🔥ua-cam.com/video/rdJ9bsN7JAw/v-deo.html,

    • @CryoJnik
      @CryoJnik 2 роки тому

      @@0-Stars-MikiTune- It means that the VA's weren't using enough slang and/or chopped up words for the average viewer to easily code a character as a certain ethnicity. You know, Idiots not being fed enough stereotypical black behavior to feel comfortable with themselves rather than think that it's entirely possible that (shock and gap) black people might be able to form complete words and not talk like a half educated dullard all the time.

    • @0-Stars-MikiTune-
      @0-Stars-MikiTune- 2 роки тому +12

      @@CryoJnik Yeah. Some of them really do think like that, don't they? "What? A black person not having a stereotypical accent or speech pattern? Blasphemy!"

  • @SHIRO_111
    @SHIRO_111 2 роки тому +88

    When i hear people saying i act white I'm like "wtf does acting white even mean?" I'm just acting like me

    • @bigboss6145
      @bigboss6145 2 роки тому +16

      Your name is literally "white".
      Jokes aside though, agreed.

    • @corey2232
      @corey2232 2 роки тому

      I mean, you do have a white skinned, blonde haired avatar... and the name "SHIRO" literally translates to "white" in Japanese...
      So uh, guessing you're white 😂

  • @pisces363
    @pisces363 2 роки тому +285

    This hit home for me. I was told I was acting white because I got good grades in school. I found myself intentionally answering test questions wrong just to fit in. I would get B’s and C’s when I could have easily gotten A’s. I used slang words over proper grammar so I wouldn’t be teased. It’s sad that we make kids with potential outcasts in our schools.

    • @meldrickedwards1892
      @meldrickedwards1892 Рік тому +2

      That last sentence in your comment is quite a stretch imo.

    • @pisces363
      @pisces363 Рік тому +49

      @@meldrickedwards1892 You’re entitled to your opinion. Your situation in school may not have been the same as mine. I still stand by my comment because I lived it.

    • @pisces363
      @pisces363 Рік тому +24

      @@saminrahman5165 I wasn’t talking about getting teased by white people. Stop peddling in stereotypes.

    • @billygoatguy3960
      @billygoatguy3960 Рік тому +1

      Kids create outcasts, it's how group psychology works. Doesnt matter the culture.

    • @pisces363
      @pisces363 Рік тому +8

      @@billygoatguy3960 I know what you’re saying is true from personal experiences.

  • @KlaviceGavin
    @KlaviceGavin 5 місяців тому +4

    Never change dude, you're doing God's work. Its sad that black people are still to this day, expected to be JUST jazz musicians, hip hop artists, or comedians. A lot of the black people I've talked to are the antithesis of this stereotype. As a white person, I couldn't even imagine the frustration and ridicule black people go through, but I can imagine it isn't fun. Just be you, and to everyone else remember, if someone says you act like a different ethnicity, just link them to this guy's video.

  • @thenewbee5850
    @thenewbee5850 2 роки тому +663

    I'm glad someone finally spoke on this topic. I'm a mixed person who likes to write. My dad also likes to write and we both like using words like melancholy. As a result were both called white, although neither of us are one. Growing up I've had issues fitting in as a mixed person who acts corny and "white" and I've seen that other mixed people's solution was to act cool or "black". But I am neither, I just like being myself. Skin color is just that you don't have to only act by stereotypes of what your race goes by.

    • @bdi_vd3677
      @bdi_vd3677 2 роки тому +6

      Noce thoughts there. My appreciation

    • @maxattacks25
      @maxattacks25 2 роки тому +2

      Same. Power to you.

    • @bertellijustin6376
      @bertellijustin6376 2 роки тому

      This is one of those topics that enrage me but because I’m white im not allowed to say anything. The number of times I’ve seen my biracial and black baby sisters called coconut, Oreo and other racist crap, is beyond ridiculous. Like they are supposed to be ashamed they speak proper English becuase of their skin color. And of course when o get mad pop off at the mouth……angry racist white guy.

    • @kingdre7492
      @kingdre7492 2 роки тому

      Your daddy white ain’t he

    • @danparish1344
      @danparish1344 2 роки тому +1

      I’ve noticed that mixed people often have insecurities with identity issues and sometimes try to prove their blackness by overcompensating. Sean king, Colin Kaepernick and Jussie Smollet are all trying to be black messiahs, but I have a feeling it’s a projection of an internal struggle they are having.
      Everyone should love who they are and find peace. Happiness comes from surrounding yourself like minded people who love and accept you for who you are, pretending to be something to find acceptance just builds resentment and misery.

  • @IAMA1
    @IAMA1 2 роки тому +144

    The acting in this video felt legit seemless. You can tell these thoughts have been pent up for awhile. I'm all for it, King!!!

    • @yakarotsennin3115
      @yakarotsennin3115 2 роки тому +10

      As someone who suffered from this in High school, I can most certainly tell that he suffered from this too. The passion in this was so heart felt, it came from someone who lived this experience.

    • @thephilosopher7173
      @thephilosopher7173 2 роки тому +2

      @@yakarotsennin3115 Same here, I couldn't understand it and I was genuinely confused. Its as if the smarter you tried to get the more they thought you were weird. It made me realize this is why the whole culture is so behind.

    • @yakarotsennin3115
      @yakarotsennin3115 2 роки тому

      @@thephilosopher7173 The problem is that sections of the black community are still repressing the larger white society, but in the worst ways possible. MLK would be absolutely ashamed of how little progression the black community has made in terms of growth.
      Our black culture is like that of a teenager acting out because of overly strict helicopter parents. Our new found culture won't regress just because we've assimilated some aspects of colonialism. If you ask me, it's not assimilation since we're just demonstrating that we can do the same things that they can.

    • @Xenowave
      @Xenowave 2 роки тому

      @@thephilosopher7173 The Boondocks touches on this a bit, and I love it for that

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. 2 роки тому +113

    I hate how much I relate to this. People are so ignorant 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @thephilosopher7173
      @thephilosopher7173 2 роки тому +10

      This is why I'm glad he made this skit. It shows how many of us there are and we need to set a standard apart from the ignorance that plagues our communities.

    • @barelyhyumananomaly3125
      @barelyhyumananomaly3125 2 роки тому +2

      You are really beautiful, and yeah it's happened to me before too i didn't blow up on em though

    • @shaycat13
      @shaycat13 2 роки тому +1

      If he said Oreo I would have really lost it. Omg my childhood memories 🤣

  • @kiamoore806
    @kiamoore806 2 місяці тому +3

    Touched my Oreo soul. The way I got dragged. I went to private school. 😢😂

  • @100Beef
    @100Beef Рік тому +189

    Love this message. Sick of people labeling skin colors with personality traits. Just be yourself

    • @ITX-EcoClass
      @ITX-EcoClass Рік тому +4

      Bro, you getting way too mad about this, like you just a white man, I dunno what to tell you.. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @100Beef
      @100Beef Рік тому

      @@ITX-EcoClass I can still care even if I'm white. That's saying only black people can care about black issues. Kinda silly if u think about it

    • @mazzo-4k
      @mazzo-4k 11 місяців тому +8

      ​@@ITX-EcoClassYou're the one reaching a bit there

    • @ITX-EcoClass
      @ITX-EcoClass 11 місяців тому +1

      @@mazzo-4k I'mma reach for your moms

    • @neroidius6915
      @neroidius6915 10 місяців тому

      @@ITX-EcoClasshow bout don’t tell… anything. Don’t tell anyone anything ever. Just stop talking, never open your mouth again. No one cares.

  • @mechasenpai951
    @mechasenpai951 2 роки тому +137

    I’m mixed(white & black) and during my high school days, people would talk behind my back for acting white when in reality I’m just being myself. I love rock, rap, jpop, kpop, zydeco, country, nightcore, & other genres & my siblings would laugh at me for listening to other genres than just rap. Also I’m sick of people telling me am I white or am I black. I’m both damnit, I’m mixed & I’m proud of it

    • @z1u512
      @z1u512 Рік тому

      Man you a whigga

    • @NicoChanMLBcomics
      @NicoChanMLBcomics Рік тому +5

      Yo, rock was introduced by black people 🤨

    • @cybergalacticnova
      @cybergalacticnova Рік тому

      @@NicoChanMLBcomics LIterally black people INVENTED modern music and dance.
      Kpop? Hugely based off of black culture. Jpop? Same. Country? Literally invented by black people but some slave owner profited off of it and whitewashed it.
      But non-black people really love the culture and hate the people, and benefited from it while black people are barely benefited. We gotta stop categorizing some music genres as "white" because there is no such thing. Modern music is black as hell.

    • @wwalton
      @wwalton Рік тому +4

      So basically them monkeys was being racist because you like something that they personally think all black people shouldn't like? That's why i hate stereotypes, there should be a saying like "I don't see colors I see people" or some shit like dude stereotypes should just be a joke thing, something to be played up not taken seriously like how I said "monkey" did I mean that I think all black people are as smart as a simian, FUCK NO I say the most racist shit alot and I don't mean it whatsoever except as a joke especially to my friend who is also mixed, called my boi a "half person" yesterday and did I mean it?... well maybe a little no anyway he didn't beat my ass because he knew I was joking but dear God if I was in the next town over, sweet jesus I would've been shot by now

    • @bryant475
      @bryant475 Рік тому +6

      My Nigerian friend who I met in college was teased by Black Americans in Middle School for being smart, speaking correct English, dressing normally, etc. His classmates would also disrupt class, get into fights all the time, etc. He quickly realized that the lack of Black American success has nothing to do with race, but parenting/mindset/culture.

  • @YoshiTheOreo
    @YoshiTheOreo 2 роки тому +63

    I remember when I was in middle school, I got bullied for reading. "Look! He's acting white!" I asked what does that mean for other non white kids if reading is exclusive to whites and they just chuckled and chided me.
    Damn moment felt like a lab experiment.

  • @Mistful_0
    @Mistful_0 10 місяців тому +15

    So relatable, heard too many times black people telling I was acting white or that i was fake black person only because i didnt have the same center of interests

  • @xPhoenix_
    @xPhoenix_ Рік тому +397

    Bro I relate too much to this vid. This is something my dad and uncles would say outta nowhere when im doing normal shit.

    • @DiftingWinters-cj6fs
      @DiftingWinters-cj6fs Рік тому +2

      im as white as they come and even my dad and uncles said the same thing to me so dont feel bad bro lol

    • @Braydensbricks
      @Braydensbricks Рік тому

      Racist ass uncles and dad😭😭

  • @Mullet-ZubazPants
    @Mullet-ZubazPants 2 роки тому +42

    In the 90's I worked with this black guy, who you'd never accuse of acting white. But he loved metal. He was even a drummer in a metal band. White people always asking him "you like metal?" They were puzzled, but curious. But it was black people who seemed the most hostile to him liking metal, he said

    • @CoercedJab
      @CoercedJab 2 роки тому +1

      Exactly. Yet mainstream narrative continues to demonize white people and erase them from future culture (even the POTUS has seen all the “biracial ads”

    • @SonnyMeadows
      @SonnyMeadows 2 роки тому +3

      I'm that closet metalhead.lol. The irony is we literally invented rock!!! Plus mohawks, gauged ears, body mods are all traditional African cultural 🤘🏿 🎸

  • @sracha19
    @sracha19 9 місяців тому +16

    Being told one of my classmates in middle school (also black, also accused of not being black enough) was more black than me because she “talks about pimps and hoes and stuff” is one of my core memories 🥲🫠😂

    • @dannydust8356
      @dannydust8356 9 місяців тому +1

      lmao man. i can relate with this. Honestly 20+ years later and this shit still resonates with me daily in a weird way.

    • @chc2650
      @chc2650 5 місяців тому +2

      Haha I remember being told a white boy was blacker than me because he was better at basketball. Middle school was hell fr

  • @Iridiumcosmos
    @Iridiumcosmos 2 роки тому +199

    The amount of times I’ve been told this is insane. I’m glad this was made.

    • @moneyguy2008
      @moneyguy2008 2 роки тому

      Uh, what do you mean? You look white to me.

    • @kiawilliamson5417
      @kiawilliamson5417 Рік тому +8

      @@moneyguy2008 that’s an actor not the commentor.

    • @moneyguy2008
      @moneyguy2008 Рік тому

      @@kiawilliamson5417 Oh, ok. However, I prefer the term 'actress' when it's a woman. I don't see why we should eliminate that term. 'Actress' simply acknowledges the fact that it's a woman. Let's celebrate her as a woman.

    • @illsubtoeveryonethatsubsto4606
      @illsubtoeveryonethatsubsto4606 Рік тому

      @@moneyguy2008 no we won't

    • @DidntHappensry
      @DidntHappensry Рік тому +3

      @@moneyguy2008I prefer actor for both genders, because I'm not a huge fan of gendering careers

  • @clarencejohnson8964
    @clarencejohnson8964 2 роки тому +123

    All my life ive been told im "the whitest black person ever" and even had my Hispanic/ white friends say they were "blacker than me". No matter how we act as long as our skin is dark we are subject to so much racism and mistreatment and prejudice before we even open our mouths and say a single word. That's something i have to live with everyday and something i cant change so those comments always really got to me😅 at the end of the day tho banger video, i lost it at the electricity powers omg

    • @carloscosta6234
      @carloscosta6234 2 роки тому +9

      It's not racism, it's colorism. It's mostly black people acting like this.

    • @acsilver2777
      @acsilver2777 2 роки тому +1

      I can relate 100% the looks on their face when we open our mouths and speak coherently 😂

    • @khullaasaand
      @khullaasaand 2 роки тому +1

      Be like Naruto... However much you're hirting inside always keep that smile on your face and make people laugh around you because your happiness is just that... YOUR

    • @robbiejohnston2023
      @robbiejohnston2023 2 роки тому

      Don’t act like it’s racism. It’s black people doing it to themselves. All this racism talk about white people directing it to blacks simply isn’t true in the way that the media and many black people would like to think. The culture in black communities is the reason why they have so many problems, you will not be able to look at a single statistic that exists today that shows that in the modern age there is systematic racism in western civilisation. The first step in escaping this victim culture is to accept that and take responsibility rather than blame the white man for all your problems

    • @acsilver2777
      @acsilver2777 2 роки тому

      @@robbiejohnston2023 you're fucking blind if you think that. The civil rights movement was less than a life time ago. Ask yourself why black culture is the way it is. It was societal negligence for centuries. Educate yourself.

  • @LegendaryDorkKnight
    @LegendaryDorkKnight Рік тому +251

    I'm a black man who loves words and literature. I dealt with this shit ALL my life. Sometimes I'll even want to use a specific word, but will choose a different, more common word if I'm with other blacks or Hispanics.

    • @Sallyman5741
      @Sallyman5741 Рік тому +18

      Yeah People Sometimes Limit their vocabulary/Bring it Down to Others Levels To Fit In It is not worth it However

    • @LegendaryDorkKnight
      @LegendaryDorkKnight Рік тому +29

      @@Sallyman5741 it's a bad habit from my high school days. I don't do it as much anymore because I'm a grown ass man. :V

    • @love-ip7sz
      @love-ip7sz Рік тому +27

      I'm white but I can kind of understand that cause my narc father was always the type to yell "you think you're smarter than me?!" And he just acted like me being an intelligent person was a huge offence to him. I'll never forget the time I said a word and he said "spell it" as if I only had the right to use a word if I could spell it, and when I spelled it he looked piss 😂 I don't think I've ever shared that story but it's wild to think about how some people want everyone around them to be as stupid as they feel. It's heartbreaking to see black people limit themselves and the fact I've heard this same story from several black people. I just think of all the people who maybe could have been engineers, poets who knows if they weren't brainwashed into self limiting beliefs...and by their own people.

    • @Sallyman5741
      @Sallyman5741 Рік тому +4

      @@love-ip7sz Yeah It's Quite Unfortunate I Just Ignore It

    • @remobothic
      @remobothic Рік тому +1

      en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tall_poppy_syndrome

  • @ctl6985
    @ctl6985 Рік тому +12

    Man I used to hate hearing this. Frustrated me to no end. It's basically saying that anything remotely educated isn't black

  • @DAKmyname
    @DAKmyname 2 роки тому +72

    "This day has been sort of melancholy" like damn bro even if you don't get the word your homie's still feeling sad. I'm white, have no chill, and black kids growing up used to call me beige because I stood out from other white kids. Associating behaviors with skin color is lowkey racist

    • @sacrap8011
      @sacrap8011 2 роки тому

      "but black people can't be racist"

    • @jujubrow.9876
      @jujubrow.9876 2 роки тому

      Fr

    • @RolaiEckolo
      @RolaiEckolo 2 роки тому +1

      This is an example of when encouraging solidarity without second thoughts backfires, where the people who "act black" are proud of it, but inadvertently set a racialized standard of behavior on other black people, often ostracizing members of their own communities as they grow up (where before, they could've contributed), so now none of them even want to see those people anymore, much less return to help and build it up.
      Meanwhile, people who fit the mold and "act black" are socially promoted and praised. And they go on to do the same thing with all the other... "oreos" or whatever the fuck they'll call them in 60 years when it's still the same shit different day.
      Just really sad, man. Never even knew this was a thing till I got older.

  • @RekkaKien3
    @RekkaKien3 2 роки тому +347

    I used to argue & explain myself like this too. But not anymore. If they're content with being dumb all their lives, I just let them. Just don't drag the rest of us down while you're busy putting white folks on a pedestal & belittling yourself especially.

    • @sunMMVIII
      @sunMMVIII 2 роки тому +18

      The pedestal!

    • @Ronaldo-eu1nz
      @Ronaldo-eu1nz 2 роки тому

      Yo 🔥ua-cam.com/video/rdJ9bsN7JAw/v-deo.html,

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. 2 роки тому +3

      😂😂

    • @KenthhAgain
      @KenthhAgain 2 роки тому

      Nigga get off your high horse you have a wattson profile pic what are you talking about

    • @ElsaChan597
      @ElsaChan597 2 роки тому +1

      I'm asian (not black) so I can never truly sympathize, but it's always been so weird to me. It's like everyone in the US has this view that black people are not supposed to do anything related to the stereotypes of being smart (and therefore be "dumb"), because the moment they do they're "acting white"? ah yeah ofc my black friend is actually white because he is a timid person who's into science-based content 😐

  • @ubeltheukiki
    @ubeltheukiki 2 роки тому +167

    I've had people in school tell me that I was the whitest (also the quietest) black person they knew. I was generally quiet and tried to be respectful. I didn't get in trouble for dress code just by sagging my pants or anything like that, and I wasn't one to cuss or say niga often all the time. Luckily I wasn't really bullied for it, but I did always stick out in my family in terms of how I act and the sorts of media I like.

    • @SirMonty_
      @SirMonty_ 2 роки тому +6

      Bro that’s literally me

    • @jaycesmith7899
      @jaycesmith7899 2 роки тому +5

      Don't trip because that's me and my 2 sons. My in laws are educated and our group text thread is interesting.

    • @jackmanleblanc2518
      @jackmanleblanc2518 2 роки тому +8

      I was always told I liked "white people music" cause I loved rock and metal. Now I like rap too, so maybe I'm black enough now for those kinds of people.

    • @productionscrub8476
      @productionscrub8476 2 роки тому +8

      @@jackmanleblanc2518 that’s funny because rock and roll was started by black people why is that considered a white thing..

    • @ivanhouston12
      @ivanhouston12 2 роки тому +1

      I'm right there with you, man! I heard both of those. Still get accused of the quiet part, lol. Now learning to love myself just the way I am.

  • @falkyrie5228
    @falkyrie5228 8 місяців тому +9

    "Black people have electricity powers"
    That's a certified comic book classic 😂

  • @PolluxTerminus
    @PolluxTerminus Рік тому +130

    Man I feel this so much. Being Asian/Filipino ethnically and being called a banana [Yellow outside, but White inside] or a Coconut [Brown outside, but White inside] messed with me a lot growing up. Today, I'm proud of how far I come and how far ahead I am in life compared to those who tried to keep me in their box.

    • @DrVincentDoom
      @DrVincentDoom Рік тому +20

      I’ve never even heard of banana being used that way wow that messed up! I thought being called Oreo was special gee

    • @ajoajoajoaj
      @ajoajoajoaj Рік тому +13

      @@DrVincentDoom
      There is also apple for Native Americans and I've heard "coconut" for Aborigine from an Australian drama. People from any historically oppressed communities in general find ways to bring down those in their community for a perceived sense of racial inauthenticity.

    • @4_mirlyy
      @4_mirlyy Рік тому

      im such a coconut i cant even deny it anymore 😼😼😼😼😼😼😼😼😼

    • @god-son-love
      @god-son-love Рік тому +2

      We are all red inside. Trust me.

  • @jergarmar
    @jergarmar 2 роки тому +113

    I work in computer programming, and at both my current and previous job, I had one black co-worker. And as I got to know them, they each separately told me almost exactly the same thing, basically: "Yeah, whether at work or at home... it's hard to fit in."
    It's frustrating to not have any advice or explanation to offer, to help them out. I certainly know what's it's like to "not fit in", but this... is obviously on another level.
    But... I was tempted... TEMPTED... to tell the 2nd guy: "Hey, I know this one other black programmer... you guys should hang out!" 😆

    • @uhm6577
      @uhm6577 2 роки тому +4

      Invite them both out somewhere...

  • @ajmakesjokes
    @ajmakesjokes 2 роки тому +137

    I actually got told this yesterday…

  • @arthropod-doctor
    @arthropod-doctor Рік тому +98

    I'm not black myself (European-Asian mix, if anyone's curious), but I went to a public middle school that was predominantly black. I never related well to most of my peers, since I came from a relatively privileged background, did well academically, and liked nerdy things (SciAm, video games, Yugioh/MTG, anime, and the works). My friend group back then was extremely small- myself, two Asian kids, a white kid, and a black kid. We would get picked on a lot by our classmates for some reason. The black kid in our group (I'll call him X) was into pretty much all of the same things that I was, and we would spend our lunch periods reading Game Informer (remember that?) together or talking about the latest in tech (smartphones were on the rise, and computer processors were starting to get really good).
    It always surprised me when the other black kids would tell X that he was acting white, just because he enunciated in a certain way, or liked certain things. I remember once when X said that he didn't like Jordan shoes because they seemed overpriced, and the aesthetic wasn't his style. One of our classmates told X that he wasn't allowed to call himself black anymore because all black people are supposed to like Jordans. X and I used to hang out at the school library during our lunch periods a lot too, and when another of our classmates saw, he laughed and said, "what kind of n__ga goes to the fucking library?"
    I never really understood why X was belittled by his peers for being polite, well-spoken, and intelligent. And looking down on his interests was terribly rude. His parents were supportive, but his classmates were not, and I never got that.
    I suppose it doesn't matter much in hindsight xD
    X and I can laugh at the people who used to bully us. A few of our former classmates are homeless or jobless, and one is in literal prison. Most of them have failed to make anything of themselves. X, meanwhile, is a mechanical engineer, and I'm a doctor. So we won in the end.

  • @Shmyrk
    @Shmyrk 2 роки тому +167

    1:15
    “How do I awaken you inside of me then?! PAUSE.” 😂💀

    • @rustyAF
      @rustyAF Рік тому +8

      Fucking hilarious and underrated moment

  • @mrjuanderfuI
    @mrjuanderfuI 2 роки тому +145

    An over-the-top sketch that actually had a resolution. A good one too... With a message that didn't seem forced either. This was pretty good dude.
    Most exaggerated sketches just keep going and end suddenly after the joke has been beat.

  • @ramenix_977
    @ramenix_977 Рік тому +57

    I remember my father and sometimes my mum always telling me when I was around 8-11 you want to be white so bad” or “stop acting white” for talking ‘white’ and wanting to read all the time. It actually fucked me up that I eventually stopped talking

    • @diazcastro7331
      @diazcastro7331 Рік тому +8

      He is horrible father

    • @phantom_mist1726
      @phantom_mist1726 10 місяців тому +8

      That’s terrible, your parents should WANT you to be successful. I couldn’t imagine someone telling their child this smh.

    • @HatakeUchiha
      @HatakeUchiha 8 місяців тому +1

      Growing up from middle to high school I've also had people told me I "talked white", thanks to that I rarely spoke for years, severely harming my chances on making friends and relationships. Sorry to hear about your parents.

    • @misterlexx2721
      @misterlexx2721 5 місяців тому +1

      In the Caribbean, the culture is different. Poor black blue collar parents want their children to have the best education and be much better than them in life. In my country Jamaica, The Cosby Show used to show on the main TV station once a week in the 80s and early 90s. It was always good highlight that there were decent Black American professionals raising decent children. The Huxtables were that family.

  • @SGOODYGANG
    @SGOODYGANG 7 місяців тому +3

    My people call me “White Boy” because of my vocabulary , music and the way I carry myself. I have to check them often. I felt this whole video.