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What I love is he didn’t overplay ‘acting white’. Like sometimes these types of videos overplay the ‘persona’ of ‘acting white’. (Usually over playing acting ‘proper’). But the fact this all started from one longish word, true comedy. One person asked me if I ‘knew I was black’ because I read a lot and apparently black people don’t read as much as I do. I was like, wtf?
Even if they were going overboard, our language is too imprecise in a way that hurts us in the long run. I've gotten all variations of "acting white" as praise and criticism. As I think about it more, I find both angles even less acceptable.
That's funny, because I didn't know what manga was until I got introduced by a black friend. Also, I never heard of Raising Cane's... I guess it must be an American only type of thing. I'm pretty sure it doesn't beat Popeyes anyways.
This man just casually made a video that every young black child and young adult that has a vocubulary larger than 3 syllable words needs on speed dial. Summed it up perfectly man, thank you
Being smart in a majority black school as a lightskin sucks, it hurts seeing how illiterate my peeps are, hell i have to tell them " No, France isnt in Asia " and seeing them not know simple words like "Erosion" It hurts man, although I dont get shamed for it, I just want a day where people have the same kind of TYPICAL Intelligence a person would have. US Education has failed.
I genuinely dont understand these types of comments. By saying someone acts white you're just making stereotypes and expectations for how black people should act. Which just makes more trouble for us in the long run.
@@Tefezilla It's a common stereotype that is applied to sections of the poor, but it is used a lot with black ppl. It is good if you don't get the reference
@@sunMMVIII stereotypes are true for a reason. It makes me sad in my neighborhood basically all black people play deafening rap music in their cars, wear sagging pants, speak in gangsta talk, and lots of graffiti everywhere.
@@OneRandomVictory Wow, with those and Miles Morales I genuinely never realized how often black characters are given lightning powers. I don't have a problem with it, because I think lightning powers are some of the best, but like.... Why, though? 😆
I love this. My foster brother made straight A's in school and people said he was acting white. I remember it bothered him a bit. Well, he's an engineer for Alaska Airlines now and makes a very good living for himself and his family. We couldn't be prouder of him. I love you, Rodney.
@@theofrostos1282 he’s trying to prove a point that is relevant to this video. That a smart black man like his bro Rodney shouldn’t have been mocked when he was a young kid bc now he’s doing great things. Why u gotta find an issue in a good, relevant story? See you’re the one that’s making no sense
Right on! I’ve dealt with the same throughout school going into adulthood. Don’t adjust yourself to fit anyone else’s expectations of who they want you to be.
Yo I struggled with this my ENTIRE CHILDHOOD. Now as an adult at almost 30, I still feel a moderate amount of estrangement thanks to trauma but I've been fortunate to have found so many other Black people that think and act like me. There's more than one way to be Black, y'all.
People get mad at me when I say I don't listen to some big musicians like Drake or Beyoncé or Li'l Wayne and I'm like, "... Okay? Not everybody has to like an artist?"
"...Only white people teleport! Black people, we got electricity powers!" Black Lightning, Black Vulcan, Storm, Static Shock, Volt, and the entire village hidden in the Clouds have entered the chat Edit: Yes, I now know that It's just "Static". Multiple people have pointed it out in the replies already guys
I remember the very first time I got told, "you talk white" back when I was in middle school, felt like I got hit by a semi-truck and I remember trying to be more "black" just so I don't get mocked by my own peers. As I got older, I realized how self-destructive that state of mind was and just did what made me happy in the end, now whenever someone says that to me, I immediately cut them out of my life, don't have the time or the patience to entertain that nonsense
@@Medieval1-1 the sad and rather dangerous part is, if anyone, regardless of color, calls it out, you immediately become a target and depending on what type of school you went to, teachers would join in on the campaign. Happened to me twice and to say my parents were pissed would be an understatement. I can go on for eons about this topic but between this video and the comment section, it does warm the soul knowing I'm not the only one who experienced this and is willing to call it out
Yeah. It’s the fact that people like us tend to try to fit in instead of solidifying ourselves as the proper expression of our culture. That’s where people like us go wrong. I’ve never had that problem, but a lot of folks do. Thus making us the minority because we fear being outspoken just to adhere to what it means to be “black” (which in the long run means absolutely nothing. ) Speaking ignorantly wasn’t a black thing. That came from the British who had Hold in the south. Once black ppl were freed we sought out education and the desire to be more astute. Our culture became sophisticated and then we made hip hop popular, ultimately making ignorance and delinquency the predominant representative of our cultural expression.
Been in this camp my entire life. It warms me to see fellow black americans speak with eloquence and diction. I used to get clowned and told that I "Talk white". Getting dissed for speaking basic english? The bar we set for ourselves is so low, like "in hell" low.
It's kinda on both sides too. I'm considered white, even though i'm more native, and had a high chance of being born black. Growing up i was around mostly black groups and the culture. So when i even sound a bit black people accused me of acting black. But it's technically my culture too, how am i acting?
@VorxDargo Half mexican/half white here, and this rings so damn true. Dad stepped out when I was a baby so I have no connection to my white side, I was born and raised in mexican culture. Yet at 26 yrs old I still have to be careful where I decide to speak spanish outside of the home....shits fucked.
For real man. It's ignorant. I'm black and enjoy talking proper, having intelligent conversations, and just learning. With most hood dudes I been around growing up I had countless of ignorant comments being made just because of how properly I spoke. Maybe becuase I want better and looked up to my Dad? It's really sad for real.
This is actually an excellent example of why black students struggle academically. Anytime a black person shows any level of deep thinking or intelligence other black people come in to shut them down. People need to bolster people, not try and dumb them down.
I actually learned about this in my teacher training. So sad...as if there's not already enough obstacles to success in life, we have to create our own. I really hope I can find ways to inspire my black students to reach for the stars free from fear when I have my own classroom one day.
For context, I’m a white dude from Europe and this video and comment section makes me speechless. 100% culture shock. Like, why do people disrespect others and segregate themselves willingly just because of skin pigmentation? I’m sorry for every person that has to deal with this, I hope that this shit someday will be a despicable relic of the past. 🙏
There was this video from 1989, I think you can find it on the reel black UA-cam channel. This man was talking to high schoolers and said that “you can be smart or you can be popular as a young black person, our people won’t let us be both” realest shit I’ve ever heard in my life
Bruv, I felt this! My whole childhood I caught shit for reading a book and doing my homework and speaking in complete sentences. As if being educated was a "Whites Only" thing. Honestly, that crap back then still affects me and my social behaviors now, 30-40 years later.
Dude I am not black but that sounds like toxic behaviour, putting down other black people because they are speaking articulately, focusing on education, liking to read books and shit! Maybe, this plays a part in why there are less black people in tertiary education amongst other factors!
@@psychedelictacos9118 It's not just a black thing, though. "Eggheads" give white people an inferiority complex too. And then there's the racist trope that all Asians are math wizards and are always successful. It's almost like people are people and shouldn't be treated like a representative of their stereotypes. lol
When I was in school there was a black guy in our class named Ben. Dude was one of the top students and because of his name and his grades he was always called “the whitest black dude”.
Bro I relate so much to this, somehow using normal sentences and being polite automatically makes me a white person. Like no, it just shows that my parents raised me right for fucks sake.
Exactly. And saying we act white just creates stereotypes for how we should act. And it just goes back to the glorification of hood and ghetto culture. There's no shame in living that lifestyle because that's how life is treating you, but there's no reason to glorify or actively seek that lifestyle. And saying things like that just contributes to it.
Very relatable. I've never understood it. You don't like black people being stereotyped but you don't want anyone with black skin to act differently than the stereotypes.
I'm not sure if it's part of trying to keep each other down or because they don't act a certain way or dress a certain way. But I have heard somebody say stop talking White I thought it was really messed up that was just the way he talked he didn't sound like a redneck or anyting he was just well spoken had a very good vocabulary and fully enunciated words I can't put my finger on it maybe because I can't even fathom what it was going through their head when they said that
Spot on, bro. I used to get clowned on just because I talked normal and actually did my schoolwork. Now, looking back all those people are failures and I don’t know why I ever wanted to associate with them in the first place
As a Mexican, I feel the same way when an older hispanic person calls me a "coconut" (brown on the outside but white on the inside) for having a degree and having a job as a computer tech. It's like I was suppose to be a highschool dropout and work on cars. I can't help that my mom was intelligent enough to marry someone in the Air Force and had me raised on a military base. It's simple, I'm Mexican because my family is from Mexico.
I gotchu. Had to tell off my mom and auntie for telling my cousin that he should do medical field things being Filipino and i said fuck that he can do what ever he wants. He now does media for a company in Japan 👍🏾
This kinda touched me. Out of three different black groups of friends I tried to be apart of, I left three because I was too white for them. May actually send this to the next one if it happens again. Although, if I think really hard, it may legit be the Raising Cane's.
I’m glad that someone made a video about this, growing up I was always estranged from my family members because I “act white” I never really knew what that meant till later on when I got to high school and my friends said I was the whitest black person they ever met. Those comments really made me feel self conscious so I tried to “act and talk black” but I wasn’t comfortable with cussin or limiting my diction and word choice so now I’m back to being the same old me but I always just say that I was raised in an environment that promotes good speaking skills and pursuing knowledge but I’m still black. I can’t pull a Michael Jackson and change skin color what I’ve got is what I’ve got and I’m happy to be me. So thank you for making a video like this man I appreciate it
Don't sweat it. When you get out of school and into the world you'll see there are many of us "white talking" black people out here. It's really simply being educated but the uneducated fools that make those comments can't seem to figure out that it has nothing to do with color. You'll leave those other kids behind and go on to make something of yourself and they'll still be on the block. Keep doing your thing.
Keep studying kid. I promise that in 20 years, you’ll have a nice a job, a wife and a home. Those who bully you will 99% serve a sentence. Stay true to yourself and become the best version of yourself no matter what the people around you say. Soon enough you’ll be big enough to be able to change the environment. ❤️❤️❤️
I'm white but grew up in a mixed neighborhood and went to a school that was predominantly black. I had a couple very good black friends that would get shunned by their peers for "acting too white" and hanging out with me. It's really fucking sad and made me upset even in grade school because it just further perpetuates these incredibly harmful/racist stereotypes that black people can't be educated or like different music.
@@flixs1353 They who must bully to assert their strength are the weakest people. True strength comes in the form of allies, friendships, and mutual respect. Unless we're talking foreign policy, then a bit of the old ultra-violence typically suffices lol.
@@flixs1353 bro no they shouldn't lol they aren't nerds for hanging put with a white dude, and nerds ingenerally shouldn't be bullied it's been proven time and time again that bullying doesn't make you stronger, especially when there isn't anything wrong with being a nerd This mf deadass said "that's how society should work bullying the weak" thinking he's right, the weak should be helped not bullied
@@flixs1353 you sound like an absolute weirdo trying to sound tough on UA-cam. You’ve had UA-cam for 7 years so you must be a little older. Why you so weird acting cool on UA-cam bud?
@@flixs1353 Hot damn you're so cool I could hear my neighbor orgasm just from me reading your post. This primo alpha male ass pseud can't even hit a punctuation mark but talks like he's bootleg Conan the Barbarian with the "bullying the weak is how society should work". I bet you had lots of the sex bro, you total badass.
Wow this is too accurate, it hurts. I got made fun of so much when I was younger, both by my white and black peers all throughout school. Being told that I “acted white” really affected me and how I interacted with people. I was already shy, and being made fun of for loving to learn and talking properly was very demoralizing….
I wonder if people were punished in the old days for talking like northern whites. Southern whites and blacks sound pretty much alike. Uppity was a word used and comes to mind. I hope you at some point found benefit from being who you are. Unfortunately, the English language is steeped in 'the craft'. In order to say what you mean in the language spoken; one should speak it the way the rules say. Otherwise, you may have trouble getting things to happen the way you want them to. Changing the pronunciations changes the outcome of the 'spell cast' or so it seems. I don't know if accents matter. So, saying what you mean to say according to the rules as well as the words you choose could possibly affect outcome... maybe... at least in some circles. Blessings
This is me exactly. Except it wasn't just peers, it was also friends and family too. There is nothing like almost everyone you know and forced to be around demoralizing you for being yourself.
I've been told I "act white" numerous times because I talk properly and don't only listen to "black people music" and watch "black people shows". I've never even heard those terms before moving to where some of my family lives. They introduced those terms to me. It honestly annoyed me when they said I acted white like what does that even mean? Lol
8 billion people on the planet, 100s of different cultures and races, and I'm supposed to behave in a way that someone else wants me to? No lol that's slave shit. You take a baby from Nigeria and raise it in Toronto, he or she will sound and act like the people in Toronto, not Nigeria.
Taking this even a step further, I've been watching some videos about African nations from after their days of being colonized and a lot of them fail due to stupid in-fighting, your clan isn't as good as my clan, blah, blah. They had the ability to rise up to be better and just squandered it over petty shit, leading to things like dictators and genocide, instead of getting along and being strong together. So fucking stupid and heartbreaking.
When I was a kid and I got super into reading, my mom and grandmother stopped taking me to the library because I was acting white, apparently. I know now that most of my family didn't really want me to succeed. I don't know why; maybe it's because I became an atheist and they are religious. Maybe they were jealous or mad at me because I liked science. But the term 'acting white' really fucked me up as a kid.
I love the meta humor about his whole life being a skit. X,D It also kinda raised a philosophical question about to what degree we do or don't define a person by their actions. It's kinda like when people want to argue someone is a good or bad person but their actions are constantly to the contrary of that. Makes me think of the quote or concept about habits eventually becoming/defining character. And then throughout the video I was absolutely just cracking up and cheering as he went the heck off. That definitely reminds me of myself when I get worked up, LOLLL. The bits about letter limit and also whether his friend is supposed to be the required archetype he must channel were some of my absolute favorite bits. Especially the letter bit, ha. And then that ending? Priceless, LOL.
Yeah its like the saying "Dont judge a book by its cover but by the contents within". Ive never had a problem if someone said i acted different but that was just because i didnt give a dam what others think this is how i am and im not changing for anyone just like how i dont try to change others i might try to change their way of thinking at times but never who they are. And just to be on the safe side im talking about bad thoughts like killing, disparaging others for no reason, basically things that not okay with the law or morally bankrupt.
Come to think of it, the ending was a really nice little nod to the fact that there is an aspect where it kinda makes sense because there are general cultural patterns and differences and stuff that definitely pop up. Heck, you tend to notice that sometimes in Hollywood media where they'll have Black characters but they'll just feel like carbon copies of the White ones, and the way they behave, especially stuff like how parents and children interact, doesn't feel very true to or realistic for Black (Diaspora) American culture. Like kids' getting to mouth off a certain way or do schitt like having food fights. Of course, not all White American parents would tolerate that ish either, trust and believe. 😂😂 But there are still larger patterns you tend to see across different communities. So the restaurant bit was cool to include, because it wouldn't be fair to act like there's NOTHING to any of that. Seriously, even Black people who get labeled as White-acting themselves will look at certain behaviors and be like, "Okay, NAH. WHO RAISED YOUR ALLEGEDLY BLACK AZZ?" XD
@@AhsokaJackson Yeah, it miiiiiight be more ok to say things like this for benign details, but our language is often too imprecise for details/behaviors that feed superiority/inferiority narratives
"I had a dream that my children would be judged not by the color of their skin but by the content of their character" Meanwhile a lot of black people to other black people (according to a lot of comments, I'm not black myself) bruh why aren't you acting more black?
I've been called an Oreo because I... -read literature -articulate myself on a higher level than most Americans -have actual manners -listen to classical music I'm getting very irritated by these stereotypes
@@Robust-d7u same. I’ve been told I sound white before. It sucks man. You’re clowned in the black community for wanting to be a an educated, high class individual. Smh
This video sums up me growing up, and honestly to this day, my life in a nutshell. Because I don't act like certain stereotypes of black men, whether that be speech, interests, style of dress, finding things about certain races attractive, favorite foods, etc., I'm basically always looked at differently, and this has been done so ever since I was a child in Elementary school honestly. I wish I could do more, but this is as much as I can give at the moment..
You could do what the comment above said, you tapped a white girl and maybe play back on them that they would never get a girl from a diff race like you did. Also it largely depends on your neighborhood and area, some are more accepting of other races/likes.
@@2canwin635 you on the same shit. He said raceS, plural. That's Asian, Latino, Indian, middle eastern, Pacific islander...but of course the only thing you could fixate on was those white people you terrified of.
@@2canwin635 The more you talk the stupider you sound. The time you spent typing that dumb shit took longer than it would've to click my name and see my black ass face talking into the camera on my own videos. I've fucked with black, white, Asian and Latino women. I rap and play guitar. Spend time in the hood and go to metal shows, been in trap houses and million dollar homes in gated communities. We need less people like you speaking on behalf of black men, if we had that, the whole crack era would have been avoided.
I love seeing young people pushing back on these stereotypes. I was a kid in late 80s/ early 90s and I got a lot of that crap too. I never doubted my own blackness but was teased for speaking clearly and using "SAT" words. Keep pushing brother. We do not have to be defined by other peoples low expectations of us. If you love to read, and love words, explore that and enjoy that. To hell with the ignorant clowns that demand you dumb yourself down to their level.
The stereotypes are being pushed mostly by our peers though and it's been going on for multiple generations already. And it actually does impact things, it's not like it just stops or can be ignored. I saw a video the other day of a black kid who knew how to DJ Hip hop pretty well, he was like 14-16 years old on the news and he was good. Someone commented "Yeah that's how you empower the community" by what? getting into Rap and hip hop? come on man. Nobody says this about Black Surgeons, lawyers, Scientist, Philosophers, Economist who become known they don't go 'Wow you're really empowering the community" but if it's some hood crap, everybody on it. And what boggles my mind is, let's says, a black kid could have a dream to Snow board for example, his peers and even parents will say "That's some white crap" or push him towards another route instead feeling "Black people don't do that" and then decades later, we will complain 'Why they ain't many black snow boarders" and then say 'it must be racism" No negro it's YOU.
This is partially associated with the concept of “crabs in the barrel”. Where, in case any crab attempts to climb out the hood, others will pull him down out of jealousy and enforcement of self approval.
they don't understand that they'll say I'm tired of everybody think black people can't speak right or we're ignorant then turn around and tell a black person they act white in the same breath make it make sense
I remember I worked with a really nice girl, and she had a high pitch voice and talked very well, and she was helping a customer out and the guy asked her “that’s your real voice?” I’ll just say I guess you could say her voice didn’t match what she looked like, but it was still rude for that guy to do that, and it obviously effected her she got angry about it. It’s the same with people saying white people act black it’s like wait a minute, a white guy could grow up in a black neighborhood with black friends his whole life, that stuff is going to reflect on him as a person that’s a cultural and has to do with environment not he’s trying to be black. It’s such an odd stance to have.
I'm white and from lousiana. Its like people have almost given me a complex that my accent is too strong or if I'm around black people I don't know they will think I'm doing that thing some white people do around black people when they try to connect with them by talking different (or I'll be viewed like the character the other commenter mentioned that say I'm blacker than you are lol. The fact I really love soul music and other parts of black culture adds to that I think) I try not to think too much about it but I've had moments of thinking about taking speech therapy. I feel like people make a lot of assumptions about me based off my voice... Sometimes I even make a conscious decision to speak in like a "phone voice" but then I feel so fake about doing it and like when my real voice comes out again people will think that's my fake voice. Anyway thanks for letting me rant about that lol.
FUCKING THANK YOU! My family is Jamaican and we're first generation...if my parents spoke Jamaica patios in the workplace, they'd fire you on the SPOT for not "speaking proper" in the 80s and 90s in white America, so by extension, my sis and I spoke "proper' in school in such...YEARS of being called white because of it. It's just words! What, you think the police is gonna call me a white man because I know how to flip the dialogue from urban to cooperate? We tryna SURIVE out here man! This black on black shit needs to end.
@@Mona-.- There's nothing wrong with being white. But being called "white" when you aren't can be very alienating. I've been called white for being successful academically, for not impregnating a girl before I turned 20, for having a vocabulary that extends beyond profanities and racial slurs, for holding some conservative values, for being lighter skinned. But white people would never, ever accept me as "white". That doesn't upset me; I don't expect them to. What can be disheartening is being turned away and dismissed by people of my own race and ethnic background simply because I prefer to conduct myself in a particular manner.
@@Mona-.- to add on it creates an idea that Blacks have to act a certain way to be part of the black community which is retard as fuck. If your black your black it's not optional and can be changed because of your personality 💀
Speaking as a creative/artistic person, I've learned that no matter what color, our personality type HATES being put inside a box. I think we are rebellious by nature and we hate when normies try to tell us how to think, act or speak. We don't want to be like you, we just want to be ourselves, and we always find a way to express that.
So many black poets, painters, writers, philosophers, and musicians lost to time. It’s just a mystery to me how the black American community complains about being stereotyped negatively and yet they never preserve or support the best among them.
This is so accurate. I was that kid that would read books religiously growing up so I learned all sorts of words. The amount of times people, even my own family members, who would make fun of me for "acting white" was so damn annoying. I would literally just say worlds like "contemplate" and they would think I thought I was better than them despite me saying multiple times that just because I read a lot does not mean I am automatically smart. One time my uncle interrupted me doing homework to ask what the temperature was outside. I was about two or three degrees off with my guess because I'm not a fucking human thermometer. I just knew it was cold. Man literally sat there, laughed at me then said "see, you are not as smart as you think" and called me a dumbass. Some family members acted surprised when I told them I have self-esteem issues. Because, in their minds, "smart" people can't have low-self esteem and black people can't feel depressed. I will never get these people. edit: removed extra word
"see, you are not as smart as you think". Damn, the level of ignorance in that sentence is just so high. And telling it to your own nephew... I don't know man.
I got second-hand pain just from reading this. People will be jealous of your knowledge and/or intelligence regardless of skin colour, I can tell you that... so many people with inferiority complexes.
I've never understood how anyone- especially another black person- could say I sound white. In my head I always go "so what you're saying is that black people sound uneducated and so when I speak like I actually read and graduated high school that makes me sound like a white person?". For everyone that's ever told someone that, do you not realize you're insulting their/your ethnicity?
@@mildlycurious8333 because the stereotypes in USA go like this: White = literate Black = illiterate Yellow = good at math Brown = good at science Red =
I like how thats true despite all the southern white people that sound exactly like southern black people in the way they articulate themselves. its just racism toward black people, whenever its the same situation, the black version is the negative, and the white version, (hillbilly, redneck sounding), gets ignored, not even mentioned how they dont sound smart at all.
Being a black nerd raised in white suburbia 80s & 90s I swear everyday I was told I act/talk white. Mostly by family members who grew up in differently. This skit was great man and hit home personally! I'm sending this video to all my damn Uncles who got on me for watching Love Hina instead of playing basketball 😂
I was called an "Oreo" (black on the outside white on the inside) by my cousin because I don't like listening to rap and r&b since I personally believe the songs are negative. So this skit really hits home.
So many of us have been there. It’s hard to express, because who can you talk to about it? A white person won’t get it, and you are worried another black person will either shrug you off for worrying or agree with the person who made the comment in the first place.
You're right about that a lot of rap is pretty negative but there is some out there that are the complete opposite, try listening to "Soul of Freedom feat. Cise Star"
I'm mixed, black mother, white father. Grew up in the suburbs listening to metal and punk music. Went to the city one day wearing a metallica tshirt with my mom and had a bunch of thugged out dudes telling my mom I was white washed and she should be ashamed. Shits sad man.
This is something I always thought: why the fuck should you listen to only rap and other subgenres of it just because you're black? It's like, dammit. The number of black people I know who listen to and enjoy metal are counted on their fingers. It's amazing that something as simple as a genre of music creates an environment of problems around a lot of people's lives. It's stupid. Keep enjoying the genres you like, because that's what matters 🤘.
@espguitarist13 I grew up in the hood as a kid my mom black and my dad also black, wrestling is what drew me in to rock music and metal eventually hip-hop and rap became a thing but not until many years later, a good friend of mine opened the door to other types of music such as Linkin Park, Tristania, and Disturbed just to name a few, but have always stuck to who I am I just been told I act "White" or sound "White" which is annoying when we are just trying to be ourselves, it's not our fault if we express it differently than what people want us to be
Also, it would ironic of them considering that Black people invented Rock and Roll which lead to Metal. Black folks, seriously, y'all need own your shit!
I get Oreo comments from strangers but what makes me the most mad is when my family says shit like “you wanna be Asian or something?” Because I’m deep into a lot of anime, kdrama, and Kpop.
Man I feel this.. As a light skinned black man who went to an all white school, all the kids there said I acted white cause I pronounced my words and didn’t dress or “look black.” Later went to an HBCU and half the dudes there said the exact same thing. I swear no one knows what being black even means anymore…
I was in middle school i the 90s... and they did the same shit back then. and I'm not light skinned. Sooooooo yeaaa.. American culture is just very anti-intellectual
imo, if you are african american, you should just consider yourself american. i dont consider myself scottish american. i think its just another way the government is trying to keep poor people fighting.
I actually really appreciate this video because it gave respect to both perspectives in a comedic fashion. Obviously a lot has been through the whole “you talk/act white” due to talking in a proper way (I’m a victim of this). HOWEVER it also acknowledges that there’s things some black ppl do that culturally we do not do which is why some ppl come to that conclusion lol.
"Every black person can't be black." The irony in that line is underrated. (Remember the episode of Fresh Prince when Carlton read the frat brother for saying he wasn't black enough? That was so good.)
@@maxstrike3022 the nigga wears polo shirts N turtle necks , likes only white women Talks as such. So what I’m saying is he is not culturely black jus his skin being black is more than a skin color that’s why it can be that one white person were well Be like “oh he black” “or he get a pass” Jus joking but really not
So relatable, heard too many times black people telling I was acting white or that i was fake black person only because i didnt have the same center of interests
I’ve had friends who felt they didn’t fit in with their families because they didn’t “act black” enough, I’m Hispanic and I’ve had instances where my parents have said I act too American, honestly it gets exhausting, why can’t we be ourselves why do we have to act a certain way you think we should based off the color of our skin, it’s unhealthy and disgusting to exclude your own family because they aren’t like you.
Happens to us white people too. I come from a very country family, but my mother was an English teacher so I spoke proper English and read a lot of books because I loved reading. Now, I can get a twang when I want too but I rarely do. I got mocked for sounding too fancy and using words that were too complicated. People automatically thought I looked down on them because they couldn't use those 'five dollar words' like I could. Man, who the hell cares?! There's nothing wrong with sounding like you have an education! Just because I talk more formally than the people I grew up around does not automatically mean I think I'm better than they are either. Education and intelligence are not the same thing after all.
@@jillbrison5177 Fantastic Jill! But just so you know this kinda comes across in the same energy as a man commenting "but men-" in a comment section on womens issues...just fyi for future reference.
I’m 45 years old, white and grew up in New Orleans. My dad was a school teacher in an elementary school. He would tell me stories from his day. Mind you this was in the late 80s but he said when a new black student would enroll and they were “not black enough” the black students would put the kids through hell. He said it was hard to watch.
I wonder what is the word for this type of behavior is. It is not isolated to just black and white and seems to hit a lot of other races as well. It is like people want to try and hold others back to a stereotype or something. Its like a "Oh your trying to be better then me". I also think there is a self hate part of it as well. I see some of my customers (I work on motorcycles) who tell me about a used bike they purchased and will say "Ohh I got a good deal I got it from a white guy so I know there is nothign wrong with it" I ask them to there face what difference does it make of the seller. Are you implying if you got it from a black person it would be lesser of a vehicle or a higher price?
It's a fact black people act different then white people black people made this stereotype themselves buddy by insulting the way white people act and calling people white boys millions of black people who grew up in slavery and passed there tongue onto the new generation so they act different then white people this is fact don't bring opinion into it your delusional
@Christian Rafiki Perez Kong Nope. It’s self hate passed down through generations. Having your humanity taken away does terrible things to the mind, like taking the hate thrown at you and justifying it. It took me years to realize that when I was called white, it had nothing to do with white people being bad, and everything to do with black people not being good enough. That sentiment isn’t new. It was put in black people centuries ago
I'm glad someone finally spoke on this topic. I'm a mixed person who likes to write. My dad also likes to write and we both like using words like melancholy. As a result were both called white, although neither of us are one. Growing up I've had issues fitting in as a mixed person who acts corny and "white" and I've seen that other mixed people's solution was to act cool or "black". But I am neither, I just like being myself. Skin color is just that you don't have to only act by stereotypes of what your race goes by.
This is one of those topics that enrage me but because I’m white im not allowed to say anything. The number of times I’ve seen my biracial and black baby sisters called coconut, Oreo and other racist crap, is beyond ridiculous. Like they are supposed to be ashamed they speak proper English becuase of their skin color. And of course when o get mad pop off at the mouth……angry racist white guy.
I’ve noticed that mixed people often have insecurities with identity issues and sometimes try to prove their blackness by overcompensating. Sean king, Colin Kaepernick and Jussie Smollet are all trying to be black messiahs, but I have a feeling it’s a projection of an internal struggle they are having. Everyone should love who they are and find peace. Happiness comes from surrounding yourself like minded people who love and accept you for who you are, pretending to be something to find acceptance just builds resentment and misery.
Thanks for this. I'm black and felt ostracized for not acting "black" enough. I was always intimidated when I was around stereotypical black culture because there was NO WAY I could fit in. I don't have it in me, lol! My Mother (I love her and she meant this with love) innocently stated that you can often tell if a man is black or not by the way he walks, and I didn't have that walk, lol. I went to an all white school and wanted so bad to "be black". I tried to change my style of dress to be black. I realized I was idolizing black culture and people in an unhealthy way. I also remember a white guy asking me what my preference in women was and when I said black, he said he didn't think someone like me would be able to date black women. In short, thank GOD I'm finally breaking out of those toxic thought patterns. There will only be one me for all eternity; past, present, and future. So I am learning to love myself because I was created to be just the way I am. Love who you are. You are that way on purpose. Finally; learning to love myself has allowed me to see people more as individuals rather than stereotypes.
Everyone can talk the way they want to. The problem I have is when people accuse me of code switching. I like to make jokes and use accents. Everything I say is with love ,respect and humor. Why should I get accused of code switching if by a black guy that doesn't sound black???
The last sentence is how we end division. See people as individuals, not collectives. We’re all unique and that’s great. Will every person jive with another? No, but if we respect people on an individual level we can part ways in peace. I think there are times when a group is better than an individual, but it must be of voluntary association.
@@johnnygoodman2003 What is "code switching?" Are there people out there who try to shame you for acting differently around different groups of people? That is a thing literally everyone does.
I’m half Colombian and Dominican, and recently I’ve been called white washed just because I have good grades, my skin is “too pale”, or bc I don’t speak Spanish. This really pisses me off and I even start to question myself. I feel as if I have to act or dress a certain way. I even question whether or not I deserve to be in the advanced classes that I worked so hard for just bc of the stereotype that, and I’ve heard “No way Hispanics can be smart” I’m only in middle school, and just when I was starting to become proud of my ethnicity (bc before I wasn’t), I all the sudden get called white washed. Even by some of my friends. But I’m glad I’m not the only one who’s frustrated. I’m so glad that I found this video and I also got a ton of laughs from it, so thank u!!! :)
I am Colombian, it reminds me of when I moved to Bogotá and people were surprised because I was from the coast, but my skin tone was very white, I was an introvert, I did not like music from that region and I was diligent in my studies. Some of the smarter ones got mad at me because I was catching up with them and that wasn't "normal".
Kinda crazy that people consider being well spoken or knowledgeable a white trait. That unintentional mental link has to be a big stumbling block for those who think in that way.
@@ZingoBananaaThats understandable though. Thats like calling someone korean when they're not. Walk up to someone who Chinese and call them Japanese and see what happens 😂. Just don't call someone something their nit because of your own assumptions about something simple.
@@futureelement924 It's not though, because now you're equating calling someone something they're not based on an assumption that might be a misunderstanding to calling someone something they obviously are not as an insult. I'm assuming out of good faith you used the chinese to japanese comparison because it's a rude thing that some westeners just assume or don't care too much about the difference, and not comparing being oblivious to nationality as being the same as using race as an insult. Imagine if white people acted that weird to being called black.
This video is so relatable I remember back in middle school The black kids would always clown me for “acting white” even as a kid I always thought that shit was just dumb
When I was workin at McDonalds, there was a lotta black people I worked with and they all called me white for my name, the way I act, music I like way I talked, etc. You tellin me a nigga has to be a walking stereotype to be black?
I feel this on a spiritual level I listened to metal and read comics/manga I remember being told I could relate well to the white in British literature class
@@kiawilliamson5417 Oh, ok. However, I prefer the term 'actress' when it's a woman. I don't see why we should eliminate that term. 'Actress' simply acknowledges the fact that it's a woman. Let's celebrate her as a woman.
As I read through the comments, I did not realise how many of us dealt with this issue. I've been told my entire life that I sound like a white man for simply being eloquent and smart. This was from both black and white people, but what I will always remember is being told I was white for holding down a job. I believe it was something along the lines of ''look at you going to work in your suit and tie, you are so white.''
Man idk where this stems from or how deep this goes psychologically but it’s crazy seeing how so many of us (particularly in the west) feel the same way. I’m a black 26yr old man from the Bahamas and I too can confirm that being told your “acting/talking white” Is suppose to be some kind of way to embarrass or insult you for doing something educated or “proper” and I find it insane just how much affect that have on all of us mentally
@@dragano556 It’s because most of us black folks have a history as a slave class back when we were in Africa. We have a deep-seated insecurity that’s stretches far past even what we’ve seen in slavery days, and it’s affected so many of us generation after generation of regression and unresolved trauma, some may be beyond help. The sad part is those of us who are removed enough or matured enough to have either abandoned these traumas or avoid them altogether, have to contend with many of our own who haven’t had that opportunity for growth in any way, so when we get compared, others and our own see us as “other”, some black folks see it as a threat as they haven’t got there yet and they are the ones who will mostly make you feel less than or outcast. White people (and some other races) will address you differently, the more ignorant the more they are likely to question your identity, even if privately, only because they mostly don’t know it’s wrong to do so (or they are racist). Then there is the issue with how Black people of other continents and countries view us (especially African’s) which is a whole other bag
I'm not black myself (European-Asian mix, if anyone's curious), but I went to a public middle school that was predominantly black. I never related well to most of my peers, since I came from a relatively privileged background, did well academically, and liked nerdy things (SciAm, video games, Yugioh/MTG, anime, and the works). My friend group back then was extremely small- myself, two Asian kids, a white kid, and a black kid. We would get picked on a lot by our classmates for some reason. The black kid in our group (I'll call him X) was into pretty much all of the same things that I was, and we would spend our lunch periods reading Game Informer (remember that?) together or talking about the latest in tech (smartphones were on the rise, and computer processors were starting to get really good). It always surprised me when the other black kids would tell X that he was acting white, just because he enunciated in a certain way, or liked certain things. I remember once when X said that he didn't like Jordan shoes because they seemed overpriced, and the aesthetic wasn't his style. One of our classmates told X that he wasn't allowed to call himself black anymore because all black people are supposed to like Jordans. X and I used to hang out at the school library during our lunch periods a lot too, and when another of our classmates saw, he laughed and said, "what kind of n__ga goes to the fucking library?" I never really understood why X was belittled by his peers for being polite, well-spoken, and intelligent. And looking down on his interests was terribly rude. His parents were supportive, but his classmates were not, and I never got that. I suppose it doesn't matter much in hindsight xD X and I can laugh at the people who used to bully us. A few of our former classmates are homeless or jobless, and one is in literal prison. Most of them have failed to make anything of themselves. X, meanwhile, is a mechanical engineer, and I'm a doctor. So we won in the end.
I mean, you do have a white skinned, blonde haired avatar... and the name "SHIRO" literally translates to "white" in Japanese... So uh, guessing you're white 😂
As someone who suffered from this in High school, I can most certainly tell that he suffered from this too. The passion in this was so heart felt, it came from someone who lived this experience.
@@yakarotsennin3115 Same here, I couldn't understand it and I was genuinely confused. Its as if the smarter you tried to get the more they thought you were weird. It made me realize this is why the whole culture is so behind.
@@thephilosopher7173 The problem is that sections of the black community are still repressing the larger white society, but in the worst ways possible. MLK would be absolutely ashamed of how little progression the black community has made in terms of growth. Our black culture is like that of a teenager acting out because of overly strict helicopter parents. Our new found culture won't regress just because we've assimilated some aspects of colonialism. If you ask me, it's not assimilation since we're just demonstrating that we can do the same things that they can.
I am Native, but we need to tell people that we "Sound EDUCATED, not WHITE." This is how we hold our own people back, like crabs in a barrel... Trying to drag down anyone rising up or succeeding. Just because I am educated does not mean I have forgotten my culture, I speak my language and a lot of younger Natives can't. Balance between where we come from and being successful in a white made society is something that we all have to do together. Balance. Culture is only enriching if you understand the true value of it. Instead of trying to fit in, be who you are and share that with the people around you. When we all stand together on this, the future will be brighter for everyone and those that come after us. We should lead by example if we really want change. But, that is just my opinion. I am just an Observer.
when i was 15 i told my mother i was depressed , she said "stop talking like a white person" 😠 what does that have to do with skin color ? some people just need to move forward with the time . and i'm not just talking about older generations , many young people today say the most backward stuff , like they were born in the 50's too.
One of my black friends in school was always made fun of because hed read books at recess, and kids always said they way he dressed and talked and acted was "acting white". His father was from Africa and his mother was a psychiatrist I believe. They had very clear expectations for who their children would be, and the kids rarely misbehaved. His sister is Issa Rae. It is absolute poison to discourage black people for being thoughtful, articulate, mild mannered, academically inclined.
It's grimly hilarious that actual Africans would be denounced as race traitors by their American inner city very-distant cousins, for reaching upwards.
This is why I'm glad he made this skit. It shows how many of us there are and we need to set a standard apart from the ignorance that plagues our communities.
I’m mixed(white & black) and during my high school days, people would talk behind my back for acting white when in reality I’m just being myself. I love rock, rap, jpop, kpop, zydeco, country, nightcore, & other genres & my siblings would laugh at me for listening to other genres than just rap. Also I’m sick of people telling me am I white or am I black. I’m both damnit, I’m mixed & I’m proud of it
@@NicoChanMLBcomics LIterally black people INVENTED modern music and dance. Kpop? Hugely based off of black culture. Jpop? Same. Country? Literally invented by black people but some slave owner profited off of it and whitewashed it. But non-black people really love the culture and hate the people, and benefited from it while black people are barely benefited. We gotta stop categorizing some music genres as "white" because there is no such thing. Modern music is black as hell.
So basically them monkeys was being racist because you like something that they personally think all black people shouldn't like? That's why i hate stereotypes, there should be a saying like "I don't see colors I see people" or some shit like dude stereotypes should just be a joke thing, something to be played up not taken seriously like how I said "monkey" did I mean that I think all black people are as smart as a simian, FUCK NO I say the most racist shit alot and I don't mean it whatsoever except as a joke especially to my friend who is also mixed, called my boi a "half person" yesterday and did I mean it?... well maybe a little no anyway he didn't beat my ass because he knew I was joking but dear God if I was in the next town over, sweet jesus I would've been shot by now
My Nigerian friend who I met in college was teased by Black Americans in Middle School for being smart, speaking correct English, dressing normally, etc. His classmates would also disrupt class, get into fights all the time, etc. He quickly realized that the lack of Black American success has nothing to do with race, but parenting/mindset/culture.
This hit home for me. I was told I was acting white because I got good grades in school. I found myself intentionally answering test questions wrong just to fit in. I would get B’s and C’s when I could have easily gotten A’s. I used slang words over proper grammar so I wouldn’t be teased. It’s sad that we make kids with potential outcasts in our schools.
@@meldrickedwards1892 You’re entitled to your opinion. Your situation in school may not have been the same as mine. I still stand by my comment because I lived it.
Sometimes they hit you with the mix up with “it’s the tone of your voice” when you ask them to explain to themselves when they call you that. I’m sorry I didn’t know all niggas had a “black” tone we should all default to. Someone please send me back to my manufacturer so that I can be corrected.
This, exactly. There's obviously people who have that tone and others who don't. And that's okay! This comment also reminds me of a few situations where people got upset at black voice actors for "not sounding black enough". Like, wtf is that supposed to mean?
@@0-Stars-MikiTune- It means that the VA's weren't using enough slang and/or chopped up words for the average viewer to easily code a character as a certain ethnicity. You know, Idiots not being fed enough stereotypical black behavior to feel comfortable with themselves rather than think that it's entirely possible that (shock and gap) black people might be able to form complete words and not talk like a half educated dullard all the time.
@@CryoJnik Yeah. Some of them really do think like that, don't they? "What? A black person not having a stereotypical accent or speech pattern? Blasphemy!"
I went to college and have a good vocabulary. Some of my less educated friends will sometimes mock me for using a word they don’t understand. Same thing as this video
An over-the-top sketch that actually had a resolution. A good one too... With a message that didn't seem forced either. This was pretty good dude. Most exaggerated sketches just keep going and end suddenly after the joke has been beat.
I've had people in school tell me that I was the whitest (also the quietest) black person they knew. I was generally quiet and tried to be respectful. I didn't get in trouble for dress code just by sagging my pants or anything like that, and I wasn't one to cuss or say niga often all the time. Luckily I wasn't really bullied for it, but I did always stick out in my family in terms of how I act and the sorts of media I like.
I was always told I liked "white people music" cause I loved rock and metal. Now I like rap too, so maybe I'm black enough now for those kinds of people.
This video scratched an itch of mine. Thank you. This is something that has always bothered me. People expect me to act one way, and when I don't I'm weird for it. It's so hard to process sometimes.
I'm a black man who loves words and literature. I dealt with this shit ALL my life. Sometimes I'll even want to use a specific word, but will choose a different, more common word if I'm with other blacks or Hispanics.
I'm white but I can kind of understand that cause my narc father was always the type to yell "you think you're smarter than me?!" And he just acted like me being an intelligent person was a huge offence to him. I'll never forget the time I said a word and he said "spell it" as if I only had the right to use a word if I could spell it, and when I spelled it he looked piss 😂 I don't think I've ever shared that story but it's wild to think about how some people want everyone around them to be as stupid as they feel. It's heartbreaking to see black people limit themselves and the fact I've heard this same story from several black people. I just think of all the people who maybe could have been engineers, poets who knows if they weren't brainwashed into self limiting beliefs...and by their own people.
Man I feel this so much. Being Asian/Filipino ethnically and being called a banana [Yellow outside, but White inside] or a Coconut [Brown outside, but White inside] messed with me a lot growing up. Today, I'm proud of how far I come and how far ahead I am in life compared to those who tried to keep me in their box.
@@DrVincentDoom There is also apple for Native Americans and I've heard "coconut" for Aborigine from an Australian drama. People from any historically oppressed communities in general find ways to bring down those in their community for a perceived sense of racial inauthenticity.
All my life ive been told im "the whitest black person ever" and even had my Hispanic/ white friends say they were "blacker than me". No matter how we act as long as our skin is dark we are subject to so much racism and mistreatment and prejudice before we even open our mouths and say a single word. That's something i have to live with everyday and something i cant change so those comments always really got to me😅 at the end of the day tho banger video, i lost it at the electricity powers omg
Be like Naruto... However much you're hirting inside always keep that smile on your face and make people laugh around you because your happiness is just that... YOUR
Don’t act like it’s racism. It’s black people doing it to themselves. All this racism talk about white people directing it to blacks simply isn’t true in the way that the media and many black people would like to think. The culture in black communities is the reason why they have so many problems, you will not be able to look at a single statistic that exists today that shows that in the modern age there is systematic racism in western civilisation. The first step in escaping this victim culture is to accept that and take responsibility rather than blame the white man for all your problems
@@robbiejohnston2023 you're fucking blind if you think that. The civil rights movement was less than a life time ago. Ask yourself why black culture is the way it is. It was societal negligence for centuries. Educate yourself.
As a mexican who doesn't "act mexican" with a black roommate who says people tell him he "doesn't act black", yeah it just feels like it marks you forever as an outsider.
I used to argue & explain myself like this too. But not anymore. If they're content with being dumb all their lives, I just let them. Just don't drag the rest of us down while you're busy putting white folks on a pedestal & belittling yourself especially.
I'm asian (not black) so I can never truly sympathize, but it's always been so weird to me. It's like everyone in the US has this view that black people are not supposed to do anything related to the stereotypes of being smart (and therefore be "dumb"), because the moment they do they're "acting white"? ah yeah ofc my black friend is actually white because he is a timid person who's into science-based content 😐
This hit me to my soul... This entire video, hit every point that annoyed me so much growing up. Speaking properly, listening to different music, not wearing the same type of clothes, not liking the same type of shows and video games, all of that leads to the "acting white" statement. And it just made me feel like an outcast among my own people. For a long time I didn't even have like a group of black friends because of it. It really sucked. But I didn't change and ironically enough a lot of the things I got outcasted for is popular now. So I found my group eventually. Just sucks that people in the black community can really be like this sometimes...
Being told one of my classmates in middle school (also black, also accused of not being black enough) was more black than me because she “talks about pimps and hoes and stuff” is one of my core memories 🥲🫠😂
I remember when I was in middle school, I got bullied for reading. "Look! He's acting white!" I asked what does that mean for other non white kids if reading is exclusive to whites and they just chuckled and chided me. Damn moment felt like a lab experiment.
Man. This takes me back about 5 or 6 years ago. Met this guy online and we got to talking and became friends. A couple years after we meet, he feels the need to let me know he is black. I'm just like "Alright. Is there some reason you wanted to tell me that after all this time?" Dude expected me to be shocked because he loves old DOS games and cartoons. According to him, damn near every person he know irl, including his own mother and sister, call him "not black enough" because of the things he enjoys. Not even as a joke most of the time either. This was the first time I had ever heard of somebody not being "black enough". Now I wonder if every black riend I ever had was going through this too, as they were all huge nerds like me.
they almost certainly did. if i had a dollar for every time i’ve been labeled “the whitest black person i know” just because i enjoy speaking eloquently or not stereotypically black activities, i would be filthy rich haha
@@dewnsie The irony often leaves me speechless. Always been told never to stereotype and that 100% of stereotypes are wrong and based on hate. Yet I frequently hear that kind of talk from people saying things like ". . . not black enough". Mexican friends had the same problem actually not that I think back on it.
@@psycholuigiman it’s really baffling to me especially when a lot of those qualifying traits for “authentic” minority status involve ignorant or self destructive habits. it’s even MORE baffling that those behaviors are often glorified and even fetishized so even if a member of a minority community doesn’t care about his community’s opinion, he’ll still receive comments questioning his authenticity from those OUTSIDE of the minority group! it’s unavoidable
@jamescheddar4896 God. 12% of the population of one country is such an apt descriptor. It really is just the U.S. that seems to do this. Maybe Canada too, but only because Canada is so obsessed with the U.S. at time that they sometimes immitate the U.S.
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Just trying to combat the constant demonetization
do you mean demonisation?
So you're saying black people are ignorant and don't use many words and to have a larger vocabulary is to talk white? Really?
@@joshportie That is literally the exact opposite of what this video is saying bro.
@@joshportie Chill, it's just a joke. Save your rage for Twitter.
So..you want us to give you just the tip? 🌚
What I love is he didn’t overplay ‘acting white’. Like sometimes these types of videos overplay the ‘persona’ of ‘acting white’. (Usually over playing acting ‘proper’). But the fact this all started from one longish word, true comedy. One person asked me if I ‘knew I was black’ because I read a lot and apparently black people don’t read as much as I do. I was like, wtf?
Even if they were going overboard, our language is too imprecise in a way that hurts us in the long run. I've gotten all variations of "acting white" as praise and criticism. As I think about it more, I find both angles even less acceptable.
That's funny, because I didn't know what manga was until I got introduced by a black friend.
Also, I never heard of Raising Cane's... I guess it must be an American only type of thing.
I'm pretty sure it doesn't beat Popeyes anyways.
They don't realize how racist/prejudice they sound when they make statements like that.
“Black isn’t what I am trying to be it what I am”
-Carlton banks
I don't think you used quotations correctly
This man just casually made a video that every young black child and young adult that has a vocubulary larger than 3 syllable words needs on speed dial. Summed it up perfectly man, thank you
"I don't wanna be that black, let's calm down" LOL
I thought u were being racist but then I reread lol. True tho like I get made fun of at school sometimes for using words other than bro and stuff
Bruh fr
Being smart in a majority black school as a lightskin sucks, it hurts seeing how illiterate my peeps are, hell i have to tell them " No, France isnt in Asia " and seeing them not know simple words like "Erosion"
It hurts man, although I dont get shamed for it, I just want a day where people have the same kind of TYPICAL Intelligence a person would have.
US Education has failed.
@Awoke Awoke i as a moxed person have heard "you act too white" too many damn times
Ppl call me white for listening to jazz. JAZZ.
That doesn’t even make sense considering the history of Jazz lmao wtf
@@Jykesonvilleyeah
kendrick is actually white
Bro JAZZ?! That’s like saying a Korean person is white for listening to K Pop
Ignorance is a hell of a drug.
I genuinely dont understand these types of comments. By saying someone acts white you're just making stereotypes and expectations for how black people should act. Which just makes more trouble for us in the long run.
All I'm hearing is facts tbh
Facts
Yeah, so many people must have felt pressure from not acting the way they should apparently. It was so annoying.
fully agreed
Just the difference in growing up in the suburbs that's all. It's just jokes people will go to far once in a whole.✌🏾
“ Actually, can we say dad? Are we allowed to have dads in our lives” This part fucking killed me LMFAO
same
Ok I'm dumb.
Is black people have no dad or something?
@@Tefezilla It's a common stereotype that is applied to sections of the poor, but it is used a lot with black ppl. It is good if you don't get the reference
@@sunMMVIII stereotypes are true for a reason. It makes me sad in my neighborhood basically all black people play deafening rap music in their cars, wear sagging pants, speak in gangsta talk, and lots of graffiti everywhere.
@@BuetifullPersun I'm not finna take this from yoshikage kira from morioh
"I don't want to be that black"
That killed me
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Lmfao same
@Anti Degenerate Funny comment of this degenerate
You can tell this dude is making this rant from the heart. Great delivery.
Black - Ghetto
White - proper speaking
Mixed - "Hello nigga, I would like to inquire about information on my oppositions locations"
This is so freaking underrated
LOL
Im mixed and that sounds right 💀
Lol 😂😂
🤣
"Only white people teleport. Black people have electricity powers." Why is this the best line? 😂
Storm, Static Shock, Black Lightning...
I had to pause the video. Laughed to hard
@@OneRandomVictory miles morales
@@OneRandomVictory The entirety of the Lightning Village in Naruto
@@OneRandomVictory Wow, with those and Miles Morales I genuinely never realized how often black characters are given lightning powers.
I don't have a problem with it, because I think lightning powers are some of the best, but like.... Why, though? 😆
I love this. My foster brother made straight A's in school and people said he was acting white. I remember it bothered him a bit. Well, he's an engineer for Alaska Airlines now and makes a very good living for himself and his family. We couldn't be prouder of him. I love you, Rodney.
he should not worry people like wont be likely to be successful wondering why they work at McDonalds n crap
But Rodney aint in the comments brah
@@IUSTITA my point is texting to him or give him a call whut u doing now makes no sense
How do I awaken him inside of me? ⏸🤣🤣🤣
@@theofrostos1282 he’s trying to prove a point that is relevant to this video. That a smart black man like his bro Rodney shouldn’t have been mocked when he was a young kid bc now he’s doing great things. Why u gotta find an issue in a good, relevant story? See you’re the one that’s making no sense
I've dealt with this my whole life. Keep being yourself and don't force yourself to become someone you're not.
Absolutely stay true to you!
Yo 🔥ua-cam.com/video/rdJ9bsN7JAw/v-deo.html,
Right on! I’ve dealt with the same throughout school going into adulthood. Don’t adjust yourself to fit anyone else’s expectations of who they want you to be.
Same. So annoying
But it becomes frustrating when you 'are' being yourself and it still feels like acting
I can feel the anger coming from him through my screen. This isn’t acting, this is a rant in disguise as a skit.
Justified Anger too
100% he's gotten shit from other black dudes, because of the rather detailed anime content at some point.
I felt that shit too
Yo I struggled with this my ENTIRE CHILDHOOD. Now as an adult at almost 30, I still feel a moderate amount of estrangement thanks to trauma but I've been fortunate to have found so many other Black people that think and act like me. There's more than one way to be Black, y'all.
SAME
@@Cilvanis Man and I also feel ashamed of listening to Jpop/Anime music instead of Hiphop sometimes. Your video helped me man
@@kenshix7902 Keep listening to Jpop man! Im black too and have gotten weird looks but now at 30 I dont even care anymore.
Once you hit 30 you honestly don't give a damn what people think anymore...atleast that's how it was for me.
People get mad at me when I say I don't listen to some big musicians like Drake or Beyoncé or Li'l Wayne and I'm like, "... Okay? Not everybody has to like an artist?"
"...Only white people teleport! Black people, we got electricity powers!" Black Lightning, Black Vulcan, Storm, Static Shock, Volt, and the entire village hidden in the Clouds have entered the chat
Edit: Yes, I now know that It's just "Static". Multiple people have pointed it out in the replies already guys
Miles Morales.
Yeah now that you put it like that, it’s kinda weird. And it has no basis of stereotype either, it just seems like a big strange coincidence.
Movie adaptation Electro
ishowspeed and his speed/lightning/electricity brand logo
This one one had me dieing
I remember the very first time I got told, "you talk white" back when I was in middle school, felt like I got hit by a semi-truck and I remember trying to be more "black" just so I don't get mocked by my own peers. As I got older, I realized how self-destructive that state of mind was and just did what made me happy in the end, now whenever someone says that to me, I immediately cut them out of my life, don't have the time or the patience to entertain that nonsense
Honestly, good for you. Screw people like that. I’m not black obviously, but trust me, it’s unfortunately the same for other races as well.
Yes, I felt that semi-truck feeling in the stomach. That took me back!!
@@Medieval1-1 the sad and rather dangerous part is, if anyone, regardless of color, calls it out, you immediately become a target and depending on what type of school you went to, teachers would join in on the campaign. Happened to me twice and to say my parents were pissed would be an understatement.
I can go on for eons about this topic but between this video and the comment section, it does warm the soul knowing I'm not the only one who experienced this and is willing to call it out
Yeah. It’s the fact that people like us tend to try to fit in instead of solidifying ourselves as the proper expression of our culture. That’s where people like us go wrong. I’ve never had that problem, but a lot of folks do. Thus making us the minority because we fear being outspoken just to adhere to what it means to be “black” (which in the long run means absolutely nothing. )
Speaking ignorantly wasn’t a black thing. That came from the British who had Hold in the south. Once black ppl were freed we sought out education and the desire to be more astute. Our culture became sophisticated and then we made hip hop popular, ultimately making ignorance and delinquency the predominant representative of our cultural expression.
Sorry u went through this. That sucks
Been in this camp my entire life. It warms me to see fellow black americans speak with eloquence and diction. I used to get clowned and told that I "Talk white".
Getting dissed for speaking basic english?
The bar we set for ourselves is so low, like "in hell" low.
It's kinda on both sides too. I'm considered white, even though i'm more native, and had a high chance of being born black. Growing up i was around mostly black groups and the culture. So when i even sound a bit black people accused me of acting black. But it's technically my culture too, how am i acting?
@VorxDargo Half mexican/half white here, and this rings so damn true. Dad stepped out when I was a baby so I have no connection to my white side, I was born and raised in mexican culture. Yet at 26 yrs old I still have to be careful where I decide to speak spanish outside of the home....shits fucked.
@@VorxDargoOOP same with my friend and my bf
Same here. Like a total outcast because we won't conform to their way of thinking. Good for you @marcusfrazier4923 for being your authentic self.
For real man. It's ignorant. I'm black and enjoy talking proper, having intelligent conversations, and just learning. With most hood dudes I been around growing up I had countless of ignorant comments being made just because of how properly I spoke. Maybe becuase I want better and looked up to my Dad? It's really sad for real.
“Being black isn’t what I’m trying to be its what I am.” - Carlton Banks
He was a bootlicker too.
"I'm gonna split like a banana"- also Carlton 😂
@@marioarguello6989 how so?
@@marioarguello6989 explain?...
@@SupportTheArts-yo8ox Watch the show, the first few seasons, when it was good
This is actually an excellent example of why black students struggle academically. Anytime a black person shows any level of deep thinking or intelligence other black people come in to shut them down. People need to bolster people, not try and dumb them down.
We are our own worse enemy
I actually learned about this in my teacher training. So sad...as if there's not already enough obstacles to success in life, we have to create our own. I really hope I can find ways to inspire my black students to reach for the stars free from fear when I have my own classroom one day.
For context, I’m a white dude from Europe and this video and comment section makes me speechless.
100% culture shock.
Like, why do people disrespect others and segregate themselves willingly just because of skin pigmentation?
I’m sorry for every person that has to deal with this, I hope that this shit someday will be a despicable relic of the past. 🙏
@@MuhammedChand Wow, that's unbelievable! I wonder what we can do to counter these self-destructive attitudes.
There was this video from 1989, I think you can find it on the reel black UA-cam channel. This man was talking to high schoolers and said that “you can be smart or you can be popular as a young black person, our people won’t let us be both” realest shit I’ve ever heard in my life
Bruv, I felt this! My whole childhood I caught shit for reading a book and doing my homework and speaking in complete sentences. As if being educated was a "Whites Only" thing.
Honestly, that crap back then still affects me and my social behaviors now, 30-40 years later.
Dude I am not black but that sounds like toxic behaviour, putting down other black people because they are speaking articulately, focusing on education, liking to read books and shit! Maybe, this plays a part in why there are less black people in tertiary education amongst other factors!
Me too, that’s crazy
@@psychedelictacos9118 It's not just a black thing, though. "Eggheads" give white people an inferiority complex too. And then there's the racist trope that all Asians are math wizards and are always successful. It's almost like people are people and shouldn't be treated like a representative of their stereotypes. lol
Same life as me. It's frustrating and makes you feel you don't fit in anywhere.
When I was in school there was a black guy in our class named Ben. Dude was one of the top students and because of his name and his grades he was always called “the whitest black dude”.
as a white person, i can confirm that the days have been very melancholy recently
No
Bro I relate so much to this, somehow using normal sentences and being polite automatically makes me a white person. Like no, it just shows that my parents raised me right for fucks sake.
Exactly. And saying we act white just creates stereotypes for how we should act. And it just goes back to the glorification of hood and ghetto culture. There's no shame in living that lifestyle because that's how life is treating you, but there's no reason to glorify or actively seek that lifestyle. And saying things like that just contributes to it.
Facts I feel this on a spiritual level
FR. I use all those crazy words to extend my vocabulary
All my life I had to deal with this lol
@@goldenexperiencerequiem4501 Me too
Very relatable. I've never understood it. You don't like black people being stereotyped but you don't want anyone with black skin to act differently than the stereotypes.
I'm not sure if it's part of trying to keep each other down or because they don't act a certain way or dress a certain way.
But I have heard somebody say stop talking White
I thought it was really messed up that was just the way he talked he didn't sound like a redneck or anyting he was just well spoken had a very good vocabulary and fully enunciated words
I can't put my finger on it maybe because I can't even fathom what it was going through their head when they said that
They're accusing you of acting a white stereotype so they hardly have any room to demand to be excused from black stereotypes.
Spot on, bro. I used to get clowned on just because I talked normal and actually did my schoolwork. Now, looking back all those people are failures and I don’t know why I ever wanted to associate with them in the first place
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As a Mexican, I feel the same way when an older hispanic person calls me a "coconut" (brown on the outside but white on the inside) for having a degree and having a job as a computer tech. It's like I was suppose to be a highschool dropout and work on cars. I can't help that my mom was intelligent enough to marry someone in the Air Force and had me raised on a military base. It's simple, I'm Mexican because my family is from Mexico.
Well if nothing else, coconut is a pretty damned eloquent slur, really gets the point across
@@troglodyte4207 As an idiot teenager we would call our black friends oreos and asian friends bananas for the same reason.
What?? Lol never heard that one before
Never heard the coconut one. And intelligent enough to date a AF? lol
I gotchu. Had to tell off my mom and auntie for telling my cousin that he should do medical field things being Filipino and i said fuck that he can do what ever he wants. He now does media for a company in Japan 👍🏾
Basically they be saying acting ignorant is black and being smart is white. They basically pouring down themself
Which only makes themselves appear more ignorant, fucking hate that man
It's true though.
they are realists and pretty based
This kinda touched me. Out of three different black groups of friends I tried to be apart of, I left three because I was too white for them. May actually send this to the next one if it happens again. Although, if I think really hard, it may legit be the Raising Cane's.
Why yo tryna act white tho? Act like us bro ya feel me
@@___Anakin.Skywalker "come to the dark side" but literally
@@___Anakin.Skywalker No
@@nicoleraheem1195 why not?was wrong tho? You act like yo own peoples so stop acting like your ancestors slavers ya feel me?
@@___Anakin.Skywalker 🥹
I’m glad that someone made a video about this, growing up I was always estranged from my family members because I “act white” I never really knew what that meant till later on when I got to high school and my friends said I was the whitest black person they ever met. Those comments really made me feel self conscious so I tried to “act and talk black” but I wasn’t comfortable with cussin or limiting my diction and word choice so now I’m back to being the same old me but I always just say that I was raised in an environment that promotes good speaking skills and pursuing knowledge but I’m still black. I can’t pull a Michael Jackson and change skin color what I’ve got is what I’ve got and I’m happy to be me. So thank you for making a video like this man I appreciate it
I completely relate my dude. It's not something you earn, it's something you're born with
Lol, using profanity and limiting your vocabulary to sound black. 🤣🤣If you think that what it means to sound black, then you still sounded white.
Same I don’t like to cuss much either.
Fr cussing isn’t fun at all i need you to be is coherent so we can both come to understanding without having to needlessly argue
Same. "You are not alone." Lmao
As a black kid who strives to get good grades in school, this vid really hit home.
Don't sweat it. When you get out of school and into the world you'll see there are many of us "white talking" black people out here. It's really simply being educated but the uneducated fools that make those comments can't seem to figure out that it has nothing to do with color. You'll leave those other kids behind and go on to make something of yourself and they'll still be on the block. Keep doing your thing.
@@ra2186its kind of weird since this is basicly a US problem. I've seen such comments on media and online but they never made sense.
there is one rule to make it, drop the ghetto accent, try to integrate and assimilate, see yourself as a man, not as a black man, good luck bless.
You must have alot of melancholy days
Keep studying kid. I promise that in 20 years, you’ll have a nice a job, a wife and a home. Those who bully you will 99% serve a sentence. Stay true to yourself and become the best version of yourself no matter what the people around you say. Soon enough you’ll be big enough to be able to change the environment. ❤️❤️❤️
Had a classmate who was a black emo who hated rap music.
Bravo to them, it's a whack genre
When I started college, my best friend was a black punk woman who was in the National Guard. She was cool as fuck.
I also had a classmate who was white and hated rap music.
@@DictionaryKidWho still uses the word whack?
L classmate
When he said “a black person is someone who has black skin” that hit deep, that should be as far as the definition goes
@@Nickel_Eye you're making it deep lol. Black is black at the end of the day, especially to those that hate us.
@@Nickel_Eye Black Africans would be acting "White" according to Black Americans lmao
@@Nickel_Eye so you can’t be culturally black and speak proper? Interesting
I dunno man. Jason Kidd is a blue eyed white skin dude yet he claims to be black
“….whose skin is Black”?! Uh, try again.
I'm white but grew up in a mixed neighborhood and went to a school that was predominantly black. I had a couple very good black friends that would get shunned by their peers for "acting too white" and hanging out with me. It's really fucking sad and made me upset even in grade school because it just further perpetuates these incredibly harmful/racist stereotypes that black people can't be educated or like different music.
@@flixs1353 By that logic we should bully you, you're definitely weak, especially with a mindset like that.
@@flixs1353 They who must bully to assert their strength are the weakest people. True strength comes in the form of allies, friendships, and mutual respect. Unless we're talking foreign policy, then a bit of the old ultra-violence typically suffices lol.
@@flixs1353 bro no they shouldn't lol they aren't nerds for hanging put with a white dude, and nerds ingenerally shouldn't be bullied it's been proven time and time again that bullying doesn't make you stronger, especially when there isn't anything wrong with being a nerd
This mf deadass said "that's how society should work bullying the weak" thinking he's right, the weak should be helped not bullied
@@flixs1353 you sound like an absolute weirdo trying to sound tough on UA-cam. You’ve had UA-cam for 7 years so you must be a little older. Why you so weird acting cool on UA-cam bud?
@@flixs1353 Hot damn you're so cool I could hear my neighbor orgasm just from me reading your post.
This primo alpha male ass pseud can't even hit a punctuation mark but talks like he's bootleg Conan the Barbarian with the "bullying the weak is how society should work". I bet you had lots of the sex bro, you total badass.
Wow this is too accurate, it hurts. I got made fun of so much when I was younger, both by my white and black peers all throughout school. Being told that I “acted white” really affected me and how I interacted with people. I was already shy, and being made fun of for loving to learn and talking properly was very demoralizing….
I wonder if people were punished in the old days for talking like northern whites. Southern whites and blacks sound pretty much alike. Uppity was a word used and comes to mind. I hope you at some point found benefit from being who you are.
Unfortunately, the English language is steeped in 'the craft'. In order to say what you mean in the language spoken; one should speak it the way the rules say. Otherwise, you may have trouble getting things to happen the way you want them to. Changing the pronunciations changes the outcome of the 'spell cast' or so it seems. I don't know if accents matter. So, saying what you mean to say according to the rules as well as the words you choose could possibly affect outcome... maybe... at least in some circles. Blessings
This is me exactly. Except it wasn't just peers, it was also friends and family too. There is nothing like almost everyone you know and forced to be around demoralizing you for being yourself.
Don’t listen to them, you do you dear! You gonna succeed in life, let them talk 🙌🏼💀
Me too. It put me in a MELANCHOLY mood after school lol
Damn u was a loser 😭
I've been told I "act white" numerous times because I talk properly and don't only listen to "black people music" and watch "black people shows". I've never even heard those terms before moving to where some of my family lives. They introduced those terms to me. It honestly annoyed me when they said I acted white like what does that even mean? Lol
Means you sound like you have no soul, has nothing to do with speaking properly
8 billion people on the planet, 100s of different cultures and races, and I'm supposed to behave in a way that someone else wants me to? No lol that's slave shit. You take a baby from Nigeria and raise it in Toronto, he or she will sound and act like the people in Toronto, not Nigeria.
U know what it means don't act like u don't know
@PH03N1X-gm5jt No, he doesn't know what it means.
@PH03N1X-gm5jt so what DOES it mean?
Absolute comedic gold “aint nothing better than listening to black people rap about killing other black people” i really felt that💯
Disturbing thought but sadly, most rap is about that.
Taking this even a step further, I've been watching some videos about African nations from after their days of being colonized and a lot of them fail due to stupid in-fighting, your clan isn't as good as my clan, blah, blah. They had the ability to rise up to be better and just squandered it over petty shit, leading to things like dictators and genocide, instead of getting along and being strong together. So fucking stupid and heartbreaking.
I listen to rap but for God's sake don't glorify these people or the things they do. It hurts more people then it's worth
Then when they get killed it rip.. more like fuck em
@@spasjt most Rap isn't about that. Rap is a very diverse type of music with a variety of different generes
When I was a kid and I got super into reading, my mom and grandmother stopped taking me to the library because I was acting white, apparently.
I know now that most of my family didn't really want me to succeed. I don't know why; maybe it's because I became an atheist and they are religious. Maybe they were jealous or mad at me because I liked science. But the term 'acting white' really fucked me up as a kid.
My mom did the same to me too. Saying I “act white”. Like what, do they want you to grow up ignorant or something?
@@darkpaw1522
If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?
@@Wildestleaf In my 30s. Why?
I'm in my early 30s. I just wanted to know if this was a thing happening to people at a similar age range to me.
I'm never telling my family that I an atheist I guess, though they know I like science.
I love the meta humor about his whole life being a skit. X,D
It also kinda raised a philosophical question about to what degree we do or don't define a person by their actions. It's kinda like when people want to argue someone is a good or bad person but their actions are constantly to the contrary of that. Makes me think of the quote or concept about habits eventually becoming/defining character.
And then throughout the video I was absolutely just cracking up and cheering as he went the heck off. That definitely reminds me of myself when I get worked up, LOLLL. The bits about letter limit and also whether his friend is supposed to be the required archetype he must channel were some of my absolute favorite bits. Especially the letter bit, ha.
And then that ending? Priceless, LOL.
Yeah its like the saying "Dont judge a book by its cover but by the contents within". Ive never had a problem if someone said i acted different but that was just because i didnt give a dam what others think this is how i am and im not changing for anyone just like how i dont try to change others i might try to change their way of thinking at times but never who they are.
And just to be on the safe side im talking about bad thoughts like killing, disparaging others for no reason, basically things that not okay with the law or morally bankrupt.
Come to think of it, the ending was a really nice little nod to the fact that there is an aspect where it kinda makes sense because there are general cultural patterns and differences and stuff that definitely pop up. Heck, you tend to notice that sometimes in Hollywood media where they'll have Black characters but they'll just feel like carbon copies of the White ones, and the way they behave, especially stuff like how parents and children interact, doesn't feel very true to or realistic for Black (Diaspora) American culture. Like kids' getting to mouth off a certain way or do schitt like having food fights. Of course, not all White American parents would tolerate that ish either, trust and believe. 😂😂
But there are still larger patterns you tend to see across different communities. So the restaurant bit was cool to include, because it wouldn't be fair to act like there's NOTHING to any of that. Seriously, even Black people who get labeled as White-acting themselves will look at certain behaviors and be like, "Okay, NAH. WHO RAISED YOUR ALLEGEDLY BLACK AZZ?" XD
@@AhsokaJackson Yeah, it miiiiiight be more ok to say things like this for benign details, but our language is often too imprecise for details/behaviors that feed superiority/inferiority narratives
Yo 🔥ua-cam.com/video/rdJ9bsN7JAw/v-deo.html,
"I had a dream that my children would be judged not by the color of their skin but by the content of their character"
Meanwhile a lot of black people to other black people (according to a lot of comments, I'm not black myself) bruh why aren't you acting more black?
As a black Kid who doesn't use slang and doesn't listen to rap, this hits home.
nah you differrent
@@superthon7762why
I've been called an Oreo because I...
-read literature
-articulate myself on a higher level than most Americans
-have actual manners
-listen to classical music
I'm getting very irritated by these stereotypes
@@Robust-d7u same. I’ve been told I sound white before. It sucks man. You’re clowned in the black community for wanting to be a an educated, high class individual. Smh
@@superthon7762nah you different
This video sums up me growing up, and honestly to this day, my life in a nutshell. Because I don't act like certain stereotypes of black men, whether that be speech, interests, style of dress, finding things about certain races attractive, favorite foods, etc., I'm basically always looked at differently, and this has been done so ever since I was a child in Elementary school honestly.
I wish I could do more, but this is as much as I can give at the moment..
Just say you bagged a white girl bro you don’t gotta tap dance😂
You could do what the comment above said, you tapped a white girl and maybe play back on them that they would never get a girl from a diff race like you did. Also it largely depends on your neighborhood and area, some are more accepting of other races/likes.
@@2canwin635 fr hhahhhahahaha
@@2canwin635 you on the same shit. He said raceS, plural. That's Asian, Latino, Indian, middle eastern, Pacific islander...but of course the only thing you could fixate on was those white people you terrified of.
@@2canwin635 The more you talk the stupider you sound. The time you spent typing that dumb shit took longer than it would've to click my name and see my black ass face talking into the camera on my own videos. I've fucked with black, white, Asian and Latino women. I rap and play guitar. Spend time in the hood and go to metal shows, been in trap houses and million dollar homes in gated communities. We need less people like you speaking on behalf of black men, if we had that, the whole crack era would have been avoided.
"how do you awaken inside of me then pause" got me cryin bro😭
yo and he just kept going lmao
Yo 🔥ua-cam.com/video/rdJ9bsN7JAw/v-deo.html,
😂😂😂😂
That part had me sent
He never said NoHomo after that, and it makes me wonder.
I love seeing young people pushing back on these stereotypes. I was a kid in late 80s/ early 90s and I got a lot of that crap too. I never doubted my own blackness but was teased for speaking clearly and using "SAT" words. Keep pushing brother. We do not have to be defined by other peoples low expectations of us. If you love to read, and love words, explore that and enjoy that. To hell with the ignorant clowns that demand you dumb yourself down to their level.
In the worlds of Carlton "Being black is not something I'm trying to be, it's what I am."
The stereotypes are being pushed mostly by our peers though and it's been going on for multiple generations already. And it actually does impact things, it's not like it just stops or can be ignored. I saw a video the other day of a black kid who knew how to DJ Hip hop pretty well, he was like 14-16 years old on the news and he was good. Someone commented "Yeah that's how you empower the community" by what? getting into Rap and hip hop? come on man. Nobody says this about Black Surgeons, lawyers, Scientist, Philosophers, Economist who become known they don't go 'Wow you're really empowering the community" but if it's some hood crap, everybody on it. And what boggles my mind is, let's says, a black kid could have a dream to Snow board for example, his peers and even parents will say "That's some white crap" or push him towards another route instead feeling "Black people don't do that" and then decades later, we will complain 'Why they ain't many black snow boarders" and then say 'it must be racism" No negro it's YOU.
in Germany the fucking teach us in highschool about black identity and it feels so weird, because it's literally this video.
It’s also messed up to tell a white person that they should stop acting black.
They might just be being themselves.
@@LeeDaTruth001 gg
This is partially associated with the concept of “crabs in the barrel”. Where, in case any crab attempts to climb out the hood, others will pull him down out of jealousy and enforcement of self approval.
Talk white? Why on earth would I want to sound like a redneck.
My brother tells me this all of the time because I speak properly, he’s basically saying all black people act ignorant and don’t speak right.
they don't understand that they'll say I'm tired of everybody think black people can't speak right or we're ignorant then turn around and tell a black person they act white in the same breath make it make sense
Yo 🔥ua-cam.com/video/rdJ9bsN7JAw/v-deo.html,
It’s so annoying
@@_Scarlet1 Yeah man we're dark.
@@_Scarlet1 Naw... how tf u come up with this shit Lmao.
I remember I worked with a really nice girl, and she had a high pitch voice and talked very well, and she was helping a customer out and the guy asked her “that’s your real voice?” I’ll just say I guess you could say her voice didn’t match what she looked like, but it was still rude for that guy to do that, and it obviously effected her she got angry about it. It’s the same with people saying white people act black it’s like wait a minute, a white guy could grow up in a black neighborhood with black friends his whole life, that stuff is going to reflect on him as a person that’s a cultural and has to do with environment not he’s trying to be black. It’s such an odd stance to have.
“I’m blacker than you are.” Real quote from a real movie by a -real- white character who “acted black”.
@@wildfire9280 so your counter is a movie quote and not real life? Or what? I don’t quite understand how this applies to what I said.
@@wildfire9280 as a black man I have met plenty of white people who embodied more black stereotypes than I ever have
I'm white and from lousiana. Its like people have almost given me a complex that my accent is too strong or if I'm around black people I don't know they will think I'm doing that thing some white people do around black people when they try to connect with them by talking different (or I'll be viewed like the character the other commenter mentioned that say I'm blacker than you are lol. The fact I really love soul music and other parts of black culture adds to that I think) I try not to think too much about it but I've had moments of thinking about taking speech therapy. I feel like people make a lot of assumptions about me based off my voice... Sometimes I even make a conscious decision to speak in like a "phone voice" but then I feel so fake about doing it and like when my real voice comes out again people will think that's my fake voice. Anyway thanks for letting me rant about that lol.
@@love-ip7sz Just be you, don't feel guilty just act how you truely feel, it makes you who you are don't change for no-one!😁✌️
FUCKING THANK YOU! My family is Jamaican and we're first generation...if my parents spoke Jamaica patios in the workplace, they'd fire you on the SPOT for not "speaking proper" in the 80s and 90s in white America, so by extension, my sis and I spoke "proper' in school in such...YEARS of being called white because of it. It's just words! What, you think the police is gonna call me a white man because I know how to flip the dialogue from urban to cooperate? We tryna SURIVE out here man! This black on black shit needs to end.
geezus that's super f'd to get fired for not speaking the "right way"
Why is being called white so bad? No offence just curious. I don’t see it as a big problem unless ur being bullied for it
@@Mona-.- There's nothing wrong with being white. But being called "white" when you aren't can be very alienating. I've been called white for being successful academically, for not impregnating a girl before I turned 20, for having a vocabulary that extends beyond profanities and racial slurs, for holding some conservative values, for being lighter skinned. But white people would never, ever accept me as "white". That doesn't upset me; I don't expect them to. What can be disheartening is being turned away and dismissed by people of my own race and ethnic background simply because I prefer to conduct myself in a particular manner.
@@maicoltenjou7572 oh ok. Thanks for explaining
@@Mona-.- to add on it creates an idea that Blacks have to act a certain way to be part of the black community which is retard as fuck. If your black your black it's not optional and can be changed because of your personality 💀
Speaking as a creative/artistic person, I've learned that no matter what color, our personality type HATES being put inside a box. I think we are rebellious by nature and we hate when normies try to tell us how to think, act or speak. We don't want to be like you, we just want to be ourselves, and we always find a way to express that.
I totally respect that.
So many black poets, painters, writers, philosophers, and musicians lost to time. It’s just a mystery to me how the black American community complains about being stereotyped negatively and yet they never preserve or support the best among them.
This is so accurate. I was that kid that would read books religiously growing up so I learned all sorts of words. The amount of times people, even my own family members, who would make fun of me for "acting white" was so damn annoying. I would literally just say worlds like "contemplate" and they would think I thought I was better than them despite me saying multiple times that just because I read a lot does not mean I am automatically smart.
One time my uncle interrupted me doing homework to ask what the temperature was outside. I was about two or three degrees off with my guess because I'm not a fucking human thermometer. I just knew it was cold. Man literally sat there, laughed at me then said "see, you are not as smart as you think" and called me a dumbass. Some family members acted surprised when I told them I have self-esteem issues. Because, in their minds, "smart" people can't have low-self esteem and black people can't feel depressed. I will never get these people.
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Exactly that’s parents for you they can’t fathom the idea of their child having mental or low self esteem issues
"see, you are not as smart as you think". Damn, the level of ignorance in that sentence is just so high. And telling it to your own nephew... I don't know man.
I got second-hand pain just from reading this.
People will be jealous of your knowledge and/or intelligence regardless of skin colour, I can tell you that... so many people with inferiority complexes.
I'd disown my family if they did that ngl
This happens to white people, too.
I've never understood how anyone- especially another black person- could say I sound white. In my head I always go "so what you're saying is that black people sound uneducated and so when I speak like I actually read and graduated high school that makes me sound like a white person?". For everyone that's ever told someone that, do you not realize you're insulting their/your ethnicity?
In some rare cases i had white people tell me that I sound more white than them.
Why don’t you say that then
@@lukethelegend9705 I used to in the beginning but they never listened so I don't bother anymore
But why it must be white tho? Why not Indian or Asian?
@@mildlycurious8333 because the stereotypes in USA go like this:
White = literate
Black = illiterate
Yellow = good at math
Brown = good at science
Red =
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You like how “white” just translates to articulate, with a good vocabulary.
I like how thats true despite all the southern white people that sound exactly like southern black people in the way they articulate themselves. its just racism toward black people, whenever its the same situation, the black version is the negative, and the white version, (hillbilly, redneck sounding), gets ignored, not even mentioned how they dont sound smart at all.
Being a black nerd raised in white suburbia 80s & 90s I swear everyday I was told I act/talk white. Mostly by family members who grew up in differently.
This skit was great man and hit home personally! I'm sending this video to all my damn Uncles who got on me for watching Love Hina instead of playing basketball 😂
Same man its so annoying...
love hina instead of basketball 😭
Bruh LOVE HINA WAS DOPE!
Well, you probably did talk white, though: same accent and inflections that the whites you grew up with used.
@@III-og8dr because I was using words they weren’t taught silly me lol
I was called an "Oreo" (black on the outside white on the inside) by my cousin because I don't like listening to rap and r&b since I personally believe the songs are negative. So this skit really hits home.
So many of us have been there. It’s hard to express, because who can you talk to about it? A white person won’t get it, and you are worried another black person will either shrug you off for worrying or agree with the person who made the comment in the first place.
You're right about that a lot of rap is pretty negative but there is some out there that are the complete opposite, try listening to "Soul of Freedom feat. Cise Star"
@@Teandcrumpets ayyy someone else knows cise starr and uyama! assuming you're into nujabes too?
what do you listen to OP? im curious
@@crappyaccount hell yeah 😎
I'm mixed, black mother, white father. Grew up in the suburbs listening to metal and punk music. Went to the city one day wearing a metallica tshirt with my mom and had a bunch of thugged out dudes telling my mom I was white washed and she should be ashamed. Shits sad man.
This is something I always thought: why the fuck should you listen to only rap and other subgenres of it just because you're black? It's like, dammit. The number of black people I know who listen to and enjoy metal are counted on their fingers. It's amazing that something as simple as a genre of music creates an environment of problems around a lot of people's lives. It's stupid. Keep enjoying the genres you like, because that's what matters 🤘.
wtf man, fuck them, be yourself!
@espguitarist13 I grew up in the hood as a kid my mom black and my dad also black, wrestling is what drew me in to rock music and metal eventually hip-hop and rap became a thing but not until many years later, a good friend of mine opened the door to other types of music such as Linkin Park, Tristania, and Disturbed just to name a few, but have always stuck to who I am I just been told I act "White" or sound "White" which is annoying when we are just trying to be ourselves, it's not our fault if we express it differently than what people want us to be
Also, it would ironic of them considering that Black people invented Rock and Roll which lead to Metal. Black folks, seriously, y'all need own your shit!
😲
I get Oreo comments from strangers but what makes me the most mad is when my family says shit like “you wanna be Asian or something?” Because I’m deep into a lot of anime, kdrama, and Kpop.
REAL FINALLY SOMEONE THAT I RELATE TO
Man I feel this.. As a light skinned black man who went to an all white school, all the kids there said I acted white cause I pronounced my words and didn’t dress or “look black.” Later went to an HBCU and half the dudes there said the exact same thing. I swear no one knows what being black even means anymore…
Too white for black people. Not black enough for white people.
Exactly. It's a narrative that people push that results in division of the people of race.
Whatever white culture tells you is black
I was in middle school i the 90s... and they did the same shit back then. and I'm not light skinned. Sooooooo yeaaa.. American culture is just very anti-intellectual
imo, if you are african american, you should just consider yourself american. i dont consider myself scottish american. i think its just another way the government is trying to keep poor people fighting.
I actually really appreciate this video because it gave respect to both perspectives in a comedic fashion. Obviously a lot has been through the whole “you talk/act white” due to talking in a proper way (I’m a victim of this). HOWEVER it also acknowledges that there’s things some black ppl do that culturally we do not do which is why some ppl come to that conclusion lol.
"Every black person can't be black." The irony in that line is underrated.
(Remember the episode of Fresh Prince when Carlton read the frat brother for saying he wasn't black enough? That was so good.)
There's a lot of people trying to memory hole that episode, out of all the episodes, that one hit me the hardest
@@Setsotama Will meeting his father had me chopping onions, but that Carlton episode was a close 2nd.
Black is a culture n a mindset thou
Not jus a color are y’all serious?
@@maxstrike3022 perfect example thou there not black fr lol will the only black character n that show
@@maxstrike3022 the nigga wears polo shirts
N turtle necks , likes only white women
Talks as such. So what I’m saying is he is not culturely black jus his skin being black is more than a skin color that’s why it can be that one white person were well
Be like “oh he black” “or he get a pass”
Jus joking but really not
So relatable, heard too many times black people telling I was acting white or that i was fake black person only because i didnt have the same center of interests
I’ve had friends who felt they didn’t fit in with their families because they didn’t “act black” enough, I’m Hispanic and I’ve had instances where my parents have said I act too American, honestly it gets exhausting, why can’t we be ourselves why do we have to act a certain way you think we should based off the color of our skin, it’s unhealthy and disgusting to exclude your own family because they aren’t like you.
Happens to us white people too. I come from a very country family, but my mother was an English teacher so I spoke proper English and read a lot of books because I loved reading. Now, I can get a twang when I want too but I rarely do. I got mocked for sounding too fancy and using words that were too complicated. People automatically thought I looked down on them because they couldn't use those 'five dollar words' like I could. Man, who the hell cares?! There's nothing wrong with sounding like you have an education!
Just because I talk more formally than the people I grew up around does not automatically mean I think I'm better than they are either. Education and intelligence are not the same thing after all.
for me its that i look american, not exactly act
It annoys me so much like what am i supposed to do about that?
I'm Indian and have felt that way my entire life.
@@jillbrison5177 Fantastic Jill! But just so you know this kinda comes across in the same energy as a man commenting "but men-" in a comment section on womens issues...just fyi for future reference.
I'd say it sounds racist, but only white people can be racist
I’m 45 years old, white and grew up in New Orleans. My dad was a school teacher in an elementary school. He would tell me stories from his day. Mind you this was in the late 80s but he said when a new black student would enroll and they were “not black enough” the black students would put the kids through hell. He said it was hard to watch.
someone else from my state, that's rare to see in comment sections
I wonder what is the word for this type of behavior is. It is not isolated to just black and white and seems to hit a lot of other races as well. It is like people want to try and hold others back to a stereotype or something. Its like a "Oh your trying to be better then me".
I also think there is a self hate part of it as well.
I see some of my customers (I work on motorcycles) who tell me about a used bike they purchased and will say "Ohh I got a good deal I got it from a white guy so I know there is nothign wrong with it" I ask them to there face what difference does it make of the seller. Are you implying if you got it from a black person it would be lesser of a vehicle or a higher price?
@@jcaashby3 It’s Crab in a Bucket mentality
It's a fact black people act different then white people black people made this stereotype themselves buddy by insulting the way white people act and calling people white boys millions of black people who grew up in slavery and passed there tongue onto the new generation so they act different then white people this is fact don't bring opinion into it your delusional
@Christian Rafiki Perez Kong Nope. It’s self hate passed down through generations. Having your humanity taken away does terrible things to the mind, like taking the hate thrown at you and justifying it. It took me years to realize that when I was called white, it had nothing to do with white people being bad, and everything to do with black people not being good enough. That sentiment isn’t new. It was put in black people centuries ago
I'm glad someone finally spoke on this topic. I'm a mixed person who likes to write. My dad also likes to write and we both like using words like melancholy. As a result were both called white, although neither of us are one. Growing up I've had issues fitting in as a mixed person who acts corny and "white" and I've seen that other mixed people's solution was to act cool or "black". But I am neither, I just like being myself. Skin color is just that you don't have to only act by stereotypes of what your race goes by.
Noce thoughts there. My appreciation
Same. Power to you.
This is one of those topics that enrage me but because I’m white im not allowed to say anything. The number of times I’ve seen my biracial and black baby sisters called coconut, Oreo and other racist crap, is beyond ridiculous. Like they are supposed to be ashamed they speak proper English becuase of their skin color. And of course when o get mad pop off at the mouth……angry racist white guy.
Your daddy white ain’t he
I’ve noticed that mixed people often have insecurities with identity issues and sometimes try to prove their blackness by overcompensating. Sean king, Colin Kaepernick and Jussie Smollet are all trying to be black messiahs, but I have a feeling it’s a projection of an internal struggle they are having.
Everyone should love who they are and find peace. Happiness comes from surrounding yourself like minded people who love and accept you for who you are, pretending to be something to find acceptance just builds resentment and misery.
Good job showing both perspectives and how they can both come to an understanding. Very clever and a positive influence.
Thanks for this. I'm black and felt ostracized for not acting "black" enough. I was always intimidated when I was around stereotypical black culture because there was NO WAY I could fit in. I don't have it in me, lol! My Mother (I love her and she meant this with love) innocently stated that you can often tell if a man is black or not by the way he walks, and I didn't have that walk, lol. I went to an all white school and wanted so bad to "be black". I tried to change my style of dress to be black. I realized I was idolizing black culture and people in an unhealthy way. I also remember a white guy asking me what my preference in women was and when I said black, he said he didn't think someone like me would be able to date black women.
In short, thank GOD I'm finally breaking out of those toxic thought patterns. There will only be one me for all eternity; past, present, and future. So I am learning to love myself because I was created to be just the way I am. Love who you are. You are that way on purpose.
Finally; learning to love myself has allowed me to see people more as individuals rather than stereotypes.
Everyone can talk the way they want to. The problem I have is when people accuse me of code switching. I like to make jokes and use accents. Everything I say is with love ,respect and humor. Why should I get accused of code switching if by a black guy that doesn't sound black???
Glad you're learning to tune those people out man, much love your way
The last sentence is how we end division. See people as individuals, not collectives. We’re all unique and that’s great. Will every person jive with another? No, but if we respect people on an individual level we can part ways in peace.
I think there are times when a group is better than an individual, but it must be of voluntary association.
Nice book
@@johnnygoodman2003 What is "code switching?" Are there people out there who try to shame you for acting differently around different groups of people? That is a thing literally everyone does.
black is what I am. Not something I need to attain ✊🏾
facts black is not a damn personality trait
@@retronerds6884
Facts bro
Nigga is nigga
@@retronerds6884 genius
@@retronerds6884 everything is a personality trait these days
I’m half Colombian and Dominican, and recently I’ve been called white washed just because I have good grades, my skin is “too pale”, or bc I don’t speak Spanish. This really pisses me off and I even start to question myself. I feel as if I have to act or dress a certain way. I even question whether or not I deserve to be in the advanced classes that I worked so hard for just bc of the stereotype that, and I’ve heard “No way Hispanics can be smart” I’m only in middle school, and just when I was starting to become proud of my ethnicity (bc before I wasn’t), I all the sudden get called white washed. Even by some of my friends.
But I’m glad I’m not the only one who’s frustrated. I’m so glad that I found this video and I also got a ton of laughs from it, so thank u!!! :)
wait was it other hispanics saying yall cant be smart bc????? huh????
I am Colombian, it reminds me of when I moved to Bogotá and people were surprised because I was from the coast, but my skin tone was very white, I was an introvert, I did not like music from that region and I was diligent in my studies. Some of the smarter ones got mad at me because I was catching up with them and that wasn't "normal".
Hola amigo, im half dominican aswell :)
(and i can't speak spanish fluently either)
I'm cuban but I'm quiet smart and white so some people are fucking shocked when they find out I was born in Cuba and speak spanish just fine
The weirdest part is how speaking Spanish natively is defined as a racial trait. America is weird, what happens when they realize Spain exists?
Kinda crazy that people consider being well spoken or knowledgeable a white trait. That unintentional mental link has to be a big stumbling block for those who think in that way.
It's also crazy to me that being called "white" is such a massive insult to black people that this video is apparently very relatable
@@ZingoBananaaThats understandable though. Thats like calling someone korean when they're not. Walk up to someone who Chinese and call them Japanese and see what happens 😂. Just don't call someone something their nit because of your own assumptions about something simple.
@@futureelement924 It's not though, because now you're equating calling someone something they're not based on an assumption that might be a misunderstanding to calling someone something they obviously are not as an insult.
I'm assuming out of good faith you used the chinese to japanese comparison because it's a rude thing that some westeners just assume or don't care too much about the difference, and not comparing being oblivious to nationality as being the same as using race as an insult.
Imagine if white people acted that weird to being called black.
This video is so relatable I remember back in middle school The black kids would always clown me for “acting white” even as a kid I always thought that shit was just dumb
When I was workin at McDonalds, there was a lotta black people I worked with and they all called me white for my name, the way I act, music I like way I talked, etc. You tellin me a nigga has to be a walking stereotype to be black?
Dude same. My high interest in science/tech and use of certain "big words" got me the nickname Oreo
I feel this on a spiritual level I listened to metal and read comics/manga I remember being told I could relate well to the white in British literature class
Right and then they get mad when they get stereotyped. You can't have it both ways
And a lot of stereotypes were created or boosted to spread a low opinion of our group
They say that but when someone says something about “acting black” they get offended lol
Love this message. Sick of people labeling skin colors with personality traits. Just be yourself
Bro, you getting way too mad about this, like you just a white man, I dunno what to tell you.. 🤷🏻♀️
@@ITX-EcoClass I can still care even if I'm white. That's saying only black people can care about black issues. Kinda silly if u think about it
@@ITX-EcoClassYou're the one reaching a bit there
@@mazzo-4k I'mma reach for your moms
@@ITX-EcoClasshow bout don’t tell… anything. Don’t tell anyone anything ever. Just stop talking, never open your mouth again. No one cares.
I hate when people say that. My skin color doesn’t dictate my personality traits😂
Bro I relate too much to this vid. This is something my dad and uncles would say outta nowhere when im doing normal shit.
im as white as they come and even my dad and uncles said the same thing to me so dont feel bad bro lol
Racist ass uncles and dad😭😭
The amount of times I’ve been told this is insane. I’m glad this was made.
Uh, what do you mean? You look white to me.
@@moneyguy2008 that’s an actor not the commentor.
@@kiawilliamson5417 Oh, ok. However, I prefer the term 'actress' when it's a woman. I don't see why we should eliminate that term. 'Actress' simply acknowledges the fact that it's a woman. Let's celebrate her as a woman.
@@moneyguy2008 no we won't
@@moneyguy2008I prefer actor for both genders, because I'm not a huge fan of gendering careers
As I read through the comments, I did not realise how many of us dealt with this issue. I've been told my entire life that I sound like a white man for simply being eloquent and smart. This was from both black and white people, but what I will always remember is being told I was white for holding down a job. I believe it was something along the lines of ''look at you going to work in your suit and tie, you are so white.''
bruh tf does that word even mean bruh. ELOQUENT?! SOUNDS ABOUT WHITE
Man idk where this stems from or how deep this goes psychologically but it’s crazy seeing how so many of us (particularly in the west) feel the same way.
I’m a black 26yr old man from the Bahamas and I too can confirm that being told your “acting/talking white” Is suppose to be some kind of way to embarrass or insult you for doing something educated or “proper” and I find it insane just how much affect that have on all of us mentally
@@dragano556 It’s because most of us black folks have a history as a slave class back when we were in Africa. We have a deep-seated insecurity that’s stretches far past even what we’ve seen in slavery days, and it’s affected so many of us generation after generation of regression and unresolved trauma, some may be beyond help. The sad part is those of us who are removed enough or matured enough to have either abandoned these traumas or avoid them altogether, have to contend with many of our own who haven’t had that opportunity for growth in any way, so when we get compared, others and our own see us as “other”, some black folks see it as a threat as they haven’t got there yet and they are the ones who will mostly make you feel less than or outcast. White people (and some other races) will address you differently, the more ignorant the more they are likely to question your identity, even if privately, only because they mostly don’t know it’s wrong to do so (or they are racist).
Then there is the issue with how Black people of other continents and countries view us (especially African’s) which is a whole other bag
Just stop your not the victim your not oppressed the only ones oppresing blacks are themselves
Should have just thanks and moved on lol
I'm not black myself (European-Asian mix, if anyone's curious), but I went to a public middle school that was predominantly black. I never related well to most of my peers, since I came from a relatively privileged background, did well academically, and liked nerdy things (SciAm, video games, Yugioh/MTG, anime, and the works). My friend group back then was extremely small- myself, two Asian kids, a white kid, and a black kid. We would get picked on a lot by our classmates for some reason. The black kid in our group (I'll call him X) was into pretty much all of the same things that I was, and we would spend our lunch periods reading Game Informer (remember that?) together or talking about the latest in tech (smartphones were on the rise, and computer processors were starting to get really good).
It always surprised me when the other black kids would tell X that he was acting white, just because he enunciated in a certain way, or liked certain things. I remember once when X said that he didn't like Jordan shoes because they seemed overpriced, and the aesthetic wasn't his style. One of our classmates told X that he wasn't allowed to call himself black anymore because all black people are supposed to like Jordans. X and I used to hang out at the school library during our lunch periods a lot too, and when another of our classmates saw, he laughed and said, "what kind of n__ga goes to the fucking library?"
I never really understood why X was belittled by his peers for being polite, well-spoken, and intelligent. And looking down on his interests was terribly rude. His parents were supportive, but his classmates were not, and I never got that.
I suppose it doesn't matter much in hindsight xD
X and I can laugh at the people who used to bully us. A few of our former classmates are homeless or jobless, and one is in literal prison. Most of them have failed to make anything of themselves. X, meanwhile, is a mechanical engineer, and I'm a doctor. So we won in the end.
I'm happy that X was still able to grow up happy
When i hear people saying i act white I'm like "wtf does acting white even mean?" I'm just acting like me
Your name is literally "white".
Jokes aside though, agreed.
I mean, you do have a white skinned, blonde haired avatar... and the name "SHIRO" literally translates to "white" in Japanese...
So uh, guessing you're white 😂
The acting in this video felt legit seemless. You can tell these thoughts have been pent up for awhile. I'm all for it, King!!!
As someone who suffered from this in High school, I can most certainly tell that he suffered from this too. The passion in this was so heart felt, it came from someone who lived this experience.
@@yakarotsennin3115 Same here, I couldn't understand it and I was genuinely confused. Its as if the smarter you tried to get the more they thought you were weird. It made me realize this is why the whole culture is so behind.
@@thephilosopher7173 The problem is that sections of the black community are still repressing the larger white society, but in the worst ways possible. MLK would be absolutely ashamed of how little progression the black community has made in terms of growth.
Our black culture is like that of a teenager acting out because of overly strict helicopter parents. Our new found culture won't regress just because we've assimilated some aspects of colonialism. If you ask me, it's not assimilation since we're just demonstrating that we can do the same things that they can.
@@thephilosopher7173 The Boondocks touches on this a bit, and I love it for that
I am Native, but we need to tell people that we "Sound EDUCATED, not WHITE."
This is how we hold our own people back, like crabs in a barrel... Trying to drag down anyone rising up or succeeding.
Just because I am educated does not mean I have forgotten my culture, I speak my language and a lot of younger Natives can't.
Balance between where we come from and being successful in a white made society is something that we all have to do together.
Balance.
Culture is only enriching if you understand the true value of it. Instead of trying to fit in, be who you are and share that with the people around you. When we all stand together on this, the future will be brighter for everyone and those that come after us. We should lead by example if we really want change.
But, that is just my opinion. I am just an Observer.
I love this comment. Like why do we equate being educated or being civil with being white? That kind of thinking is so rotten.
Crab don’t wanna see another crab make it…
Awesome. Whats your language
They don’t want to admit you are EDUCATED so they call you names
@@thorodinson6649 My first language is Lakota, I am North and South American Indigenous.
when i was 15 i told my mother i was depressed , she said "stop talking like a white person"
😠 what does that have to do with skin color ? some people just need to move forward with the time . and i'm not just talking about older generations , many young people today say the most backward stuff , like they were born in the 50's too.
I'm angry for you 😡
One of my black friends in school was always made fun of because hed read books at recess, and kids always said they way he dressed and talked and acted was "acting white". His father was from Africa and his mother was a psychiatrist I believe. They had very clear expectations for who their children would be, and the kids rarely misbehaved. His sister is Issa Rae. It is absolute poison to discourage black people for being thoughtful, articulate, mild mannered, academically inclined.
It's grimly hilarious that actual Africans would be denounced as race traitors by their American inner city very-distant cousins, for reaching upwards.
Ironic that black Africans care more about education, and yet black Americans are the ones telling themselves that doing it isn't black
this sounds like some kind of 1930s germany propaganda perfect society movie
@@titanicisshit1647Tf are you talking about? Everything okay up there?
I mean reading books at recess is kinda weird
I hate how much I relate to this. People are so ignorant 🤦🏽♀️
This is why I'm glad he made this skit. It shows how many of us there are and we need to set a standard apart from the ignorance that plagues our communities.
You are really beautiful, and yeah it's happened to me before too i didn't blow up on em though
If he said Oreo I would have really lost it. Omg my childhood memories 🤣
I’m mixed(white & black) and during my high school days, people would talk behind my back for acting white when in reality I’m just being myself. I love rock, rap, jpop, kpop, zydeco, country, nightcore, & other genres & my siblings would laugh at me for listening to other genres than just rap. Also I’m sick of people telling me am I white or am I black. I’m both damnit, I’m mixed & I’m proud of it
Man you a whigga
Yo, rock was introduced by black people 🤨
@@NicoChanMLBcomics LIterally black people INVENTED modern music and dance.
Kpop? Hugely based off of black culture. Jpop? Same. Country? Literally invented by black people but some slave owner profited off of it and whitewashed it.
But non-black people really love the culture and hate the people, and benefited from it while black people are barely benefited. We gotta stop categorizing some music genres as "white" because there is no such thing. Modern music is black as hell.
So basically them monkeys was being racist because you like something that they personally think all black people shouldn't like? That's why i hate stereotypes, there should be a saying like "I don't see colors I see people" or some shit like dude stereotypes should just be a joke thing, something to be played up not taken seriously like how I said "monkey" did I mean that I think all black people are as smart as a simian, FUCK NO I say the most racist shit alot and I don't mean it whatsoever except as a joke especially to my friend who is also mixed, called my boi a "half person" yesterday and did I mean it?... well maybe a little no anyway he didn't beat my ass because he knew I was joking but dear God if I was in the next town over, sweet jesus I would've been shot by now
My Nigerian friend who I met in college was teased by Black Americans in Middle School for being smart, speaking correct English, dressing normally, etc. His classmates would also disrupt class, get into fights all the time, etc. He quickly realized that the lack of Black American success has nothing to do with race, but parenting/mindset/culture.
"Black people have electricity powers"
That's a certified comic book classic 😂
This hit home for me. I was told I was acting white because I got good grades in school. I found myself intentionally answering test questions wrong just to fit in. I would get B’s and C’s when I could have easily gotten A’s. I used slang words over proper grammar so I wouldn’t be teased. It’s sad that we make kids with potential outcasts in our schools.
That last sentence in your comment is quite a stretch imo.
@@meldrickedwards1892 You’re entitled to your opinion. Your situation in school may not have been the same as mine. I still stand by my comment because I lived it.
@@saminrahman5165 I wasn’t talking about getting teased by white people. Stop peddling in stereotypes.
Kids create outcasts, it's how group psychology works. Doesnt matter the culture.
@@billygoatguy3960 I know what you’re saying is true from personal experiences.
Sometimes they hit you with the mix up with “it’s the tone of your voice” when you ask them to explain to themselves when they call you that.
I’m sorry I didn’t know all niggas had a “black” tone we should all default to. Someone please send me back to my manufacturer so that I can be corrected.
This, exactly. There's obviously people who have that tone and others who don't. And that's okay!
This comment also reminds me of a few situations where people got upset at black voice actors for "not sounding black enough". Like, wtf is that supposed to mean?
facts there's no such thing as talking or acting black
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@@0-Stars-MikiTune- It means that the VA's weren't using enough slang and/or chopped up words for the average viewer to easily code a character as a certain ethnicity. You know, Idiots not being fed enough stereotypical black behavior to feel comfortable with themselves rather than think that it's entirely possible that (shock and gap) black people might be able to form complete words and not talk like a half educated dullard all the time.
@@CryoJnik Yeah. Some of them really do think like that, don't they? "What? A black person not having a stereotypical accent or speech pattern? Blasphemy!"
I actually got told this yesterday…
It’s annoying af 😒
I’ve had this said to me for years
been hearing this shit my whole life
It's annoying af fr
I feel you
I went to college and have a good vocabulary. Some of my less educated friends will sometimes mock me for using a word they don’t understand. Same thing as this video
An over-the-top sketch that actually had a resolution. A good one too... With a message that didn't seem forced either. This was pretty good dude.
Most exaggerated sketches just keep going and end suddenly after the joke has been beat.
I've had people in school tell me that I was the whitest (also the quietest) black person they knew. I was generally quiet and tried to be respectful. I didn't get in trouble for dress code just by sagging my pants or anything like that, and I wasn't one to cuss or say niga often all the time. Luckily I wasn't really bullied for it, but I did always stick out in my family in terms of how I act and the sorts of media I like.
Bro that’s literally me
Don't trip because that's me and my 2 sons. My in laws are educated and our group text thread is interesting.
I was always told I liked "white people music" cause I loved rock and metal. Now I like rap too, so maybe I'm black enough now for those kinds of people.
@@jackmanleblanc2518 that’s funny because rock and roll was started by black people why is that considered a white thing..
I'm right there with you, man! I heard both of those. Still get accused of the quiet part, lol. Now learning to love myself just the way I am.
This video scratched an itch of mine. Thank you. This is something that has always bothered me. People expect me to act one way, and when I don't I'm weird for it. It's so hard to process sometimes.
To relatable as someone who's mixed. Loved it!
I'm a black man who loves words and literature. I dealt with this shit ALL my life. Sometimes I'll even want to use a specific word, but will choose a different, more common word if I'm with other blacks or Hispanics.
Yeah People Sometimes Limit their vocabulary/Bring it Down to Others Levels To Fit In It is not worth it However
@@Sallyman5741 it's a bad habit from my high school days. I don't do it as much anymore because I'm a grown ass man. :V
I'm white but I can kind of understand that cause my narc father was always the type to yell "you think you're smarter than me?!" And he just acted like me being an intelligent person was a huge offence to him. I'll never forget the time I said a word and he said "spell it" as if I only had the right to use a word if I could spell it, and when I spelled it he looked piss 😂 I don't think I've ever shared that story but it's wild to think about how some people want everyone around them to be as stupid as they feel. It's heartbreaking to see black people limit themselves and the fact I've heard this same story from several black people. I just think of all the people who maybe could have been engineers, poets who knows if they weren't brainwashed into self limiting beliefs...and by their own people.
@@love-ip7sz Yeah It's Quite Unfortunate I Just Ignore It
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tall_poppy_syndrome
Man I feel this so much. Being Asian/Filipino ethnically and being called a banana [Yellow outside, but White inside] or a Coconut [Brown outside, but White inside] messed with me a lot growing up. Today, I'm proud of how far I come and how far ahead I am in life compared to those who tried to keep me in their box.
I’ve never even heard of banana being used that way wow that messed up! I thought being called Oreo was special gee
@@DrVincentDoom
There is also apple for Native Americans and I've heard "coconut" for Aborigine from an Australian drama. People from any historically oppressed communities in general find ways to bring down those in their community for a perceived sense of racial inauthenticity.
im such a coconut i cant even deny it anymore 😼😼😼😼😼😼😼😼😼
We are all red inside. Trust me.
All my life ive been told im "the whitest black person ever" and even had my Hispanic/ white friends say they were "blacker than me". No matter how we act as long as our skin is dark we are subject to so much racism and mistreatment and prejudice before we even open our mouths and say a single word. That's something i have to live with everyday and something i cant change so those comments always really got to me😅 at the end of the day tho banger video, i lost it at the electricity powers omg
It's not racism, it's colorism. It's mostly black people acting like this.
I can relate 100% the looks on their face when we open our mouths and speak coherently 😂
Be like Naruto... However much you're hirting inside always keep that smile on your face and make people laugh around you because your happiness is just that... YOUR
Don’t act like it’s racism. It’s black people doing it to themselves. All this racism talk about white people directing it to blacks simply isn’t true in the way that the media and many black people would like to think. The culture in black communities is the reason why they have so many problems, you will not be able to look at a single statistic that exists today that shows that in the modern age there is systematic racism in western civilisation. The first step in escaping this victim culture is to accept that and take responsibility rather than blame the white man for all your problems
@@robbiejohnston2023 you're fucking blind if you think that. The civil rights movement was less than a life time ago. Ask yourself why black culture is the way it is. It was societal negligence for centuries. Educate yourself.
As a mexican who doesn't "act mexican" with a black roommate who says people tell him he "doesn't act black", yeah it just feels like it marks you forever as an outsider.
1:15
“How do I awaken you inside of me then?! PAUSE.” 😂💀
Fucking hilarious and underrated moment
@@rustyAFhe just quoted a part of the video? What's the deal about it calling it "underrated"?
@@sempio6378 cuz i wanted to
I used to argue & explain myself like this too. But not anymore. If they're content with being dumb all their lives, I just let them. Just don't drag the rest of us down while you're busy putting white folks on a pedestal & belittling yourself especially.
The pedestal!
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😂😂
Nigga get off your high horse you have a wattson profile pic what are you talking about
I'm asian (not black) so I can never truly sympathize, but it's always been so weird to me. It's like everyone in the US has this view that black people are not supposed to do anything related to the stereotypes of being smart (and therefore be "dumb"), because the moment they do they're "acting white"? ah yeah ofc my black friend is actually white because he is a timid person who's into science-based content 😐
This hit me to my soul...
This entire video, hit every point that annoyed me so much growing up. Speaking properly, listening to different music, not wearing the same type of clothes, not liking the same type of shows and video games, all of that leads to the "acting white" statement. And it just made me feel like an outcast among my own people. For a long time I didn't even have like a group of black friends because of it. It really sucked. But I didn't change and ironically enough a lot of the things I got outcasted for is popular now. So I found my group eventually. Just sucks that people in the black community can really be like this sometimes...
Being told one of my classmates in middle school (also black, also accused of not being black enough) was more black than me because she “talks about pimps and hoes and stuff” is one of my core memories 🥲🫠😂
lmao man. i can relate with this. Honestly 20+ years later and this shit still resonates with me daily in a weird way.
Haha I remember being told a white boy was blacker than me because he was better at basketball. Middle school was hell fr
I remember when I was in middle school, I got bullied for reading. "Look! He's acting white!" I asked what does that mean for other non white kids if reading is exclusive to whites and they just chuckled and chided me.
Damn moment felt like a lab experiment.
Man. This takes me back about 5 or 6 years ago. Met this guy online and we got to talking and became friends. A couple years after we meet, he feels the need to let me know he is black. I'm just like "Alright. Is there some reason you wanted to tell me that after all this time?" Dude expected me to be shocked because he loves old DOS games and cartoons. According to him, damn near every person he know irl, including his own mother and sister, call him "not black enough" because of the things he enjoys. Not even as a joke most of the time either. This was the first time I had ever heard of somebody not being "black enough". Now I wonder if every black riend I ever had was going through this too, as they were all huge nerds like me.
they almost certainly did. if i had a dollar for every time i’ve been labeled “the whitest black person i know” just because i enjoy speaking eloquently or not stereotypically black activities, i would be filthy rich haha
@@dewnsie The irony often leaves me speechless. Always been told never to stereotype and that 100% of stereotypes are wrong and based on hate. Yet I frequently hear that kind of talk from people saying things like ". . . not black enough". Mexican friends had the same problem actually not that I think back on it.
@@psycholuigiman it’s really baffling to me especially when a lot of those qualifying traits for “authentic” minority status involve ignorant or self destructive habits. it’s even MORE baffling that those behaviors are often glorified and even fetishized so even if a member of a minority community doesn’t care about his community’s opinion, he’ll still receive comments questioning his authenticity from those OUTSIDE of the minority group! it’s unavoidable
@jamescheddar4896 God. 12% of the population of one country is such an apt descriptor. It really is just the U.S. that seems to do this. Maybe Canada too, but only because Canada is so obsessed with the U.S. at time that they sometimes immitate the U.S.
@@psycholuigiman gg
“Black people, we got electricity powers”
Damn that’s a good one, Static Shock was the shit