I have experienced this. point is amidst all of it there's some mutual similarity component which probably we don't get in another type of woman. that's another reason we look for similar comfort zone. and that automatically dictates the subsequent choice. so it's not all the time a PTSD or Stockholm syndrome sort of thing. only with trial and error we can find or settle with someone relatively more stable.
I just watched this video. Was seeing a woman for the past two months. She said we have everything in common, and she likes me. Suddenly this week, she is dumping me. And she told me this on my birthday. I don't know what to do, I feel tired of this entire process.
@kimberlynhill I really don't know what to tell her, I had a thought running in my mind that she found someone else. She told me she doesn't have peace of mind, I don't know what that even means, because we used to have constructive conversations during this period.
@@melvinmathew6806 When you say you were having constructive conversations what were those topics of discussions? Peace of mind sounds like there was some trigger that happened that she freaked out and ran. I have been in your shoes and its quite irritating and also waste of emotional energy. Then there is a chance that some person caused that Spark and they went for the shiny. Just keep doing the work within and find value in other things and this person was not worth your energy.
I'm AFRAID to get back into another relationship. I'm 70. I've had three relationships in my entire life. (two marriages) I now think I'm possibly not relationship material 🤷♂️ I've been or felt let down, especially in my last 13 year marriage. I gave. I didn't get. I've been on my own for 5 years. I'm ok. I'm rarely lonely. I miss body contact, intimacy, and closeness. I just don't trust women - or myself anymore. I don't think I've got enough energy to pour into any woman in the hope of finding happiness for the rest of my days. I think it's not worth it 😎
I work construction, I’m never around women period , this is the case for most guys I know , we are tradesmen , make great $ , can fix anything and have great humor just no women in our day to day lives
Dating is much easier for women. Women have a lot of options. I got a lot of rejection or just no replies to messages when online dating. I found it very difficult to get a date. I don’t think I am an unattractive guy. Im just not what women like.
I agree with everything Kimberly. I’ve been healing myself looking at what attracts me to the women that create drama. I stopped getting intimate so quickly and I tell every woman I let’s go slow. Get to know me and let me get to know you. Women agree until they understand I’m talking slow. I love this because it helps me to see who that person is without any blinders. Sex and intimacy definitely hinder one’s ability to see or admit flags.
Women are like clay, the form she is in currently isn’t that important as she will form in to how she needs to be for you (as you will also sculpt her as well). As the sculpture, you need to make sure you have the right clay (ie values, character, etc).
Are you finding this happening to you? 👇🏼
Video is on point.. thanks i needed this.. plus you are gorgeous ❤❤
I have experienced this. point is amidst all of it there's some mutual similarity component which probably we don't get in another type of woman. that's another reason we look for similar comfort zone. and that automatically dictates the subsequent choice. so it's not all the time a PTSD or Stockholm syndrome sort of thing. only with trial and error we can find or settle with someone relatively more stable.
I have always been "accused" of being married (whether in a relationship or not)
All I could say in response is, "Do I really look that broken?" 😅
We can do all these things and do the work and have standards; but how do we find ones that have done the work that we are doing also?
Great information. Thank you.
Most welcome!
100% accurate, thanks
I just watched this video. Was seeing a woman for the past two months. She said we have everything in common, and she likes me. Suddenly this week, she is dumping me. And she told me this on my birthday. I don't know what to do, I feel tired of this entire process.
Oh what! That’s awful 😞
@kimberlynhill I really don't know what to tell her, I had a thought running in my mind that she found someone else. She told me she doesn't have peace of mind, I don't know what that even means, because we used to have constructive conversations during this period.
@@melvinmathew6806 When you say you were having constructive conversations what were those topics of discussions? Peace of mind sounds like there was some trigger that happened that she freaked out and ran. I have been in your shoes and its quite irritating and also waste of emotional energy. Then there is a chance that some person caused that Spark and they went for the shiny. Just keep doing the work within and find value in other things and this person was not worth your energy.
I'm AFRAID to get back into another relationship. I'm 70. I've had three relationships in my entire life. (two marriages) I now think I'm possibly not relationship material 🤷♂️ I've been or felt let down, especially in my last 13 year marriage. I gave. I didn't get.
I've been on my own for 5 years. I'm ok. I'm rarely lonely. I miss body contact, intimacy, and closeness. I just don't trust women - or myself anymore. I don't think I've got enough energy to pour into any woman in the hope of finding happiness for the rest of my days. I think it's not worth it 😎
I work construction, I’m never around women period , this is the case for most guys I know , we are tradesmen , make great $ , can fix anything and have great humor just no women in our day to day lives
Great skills to have!
Dating is much easier for women. Women have a lot of options. I got a lot of rejection or just no replies to messages when online dating. I found it very difficult to get a date. I don’t think I am an unattractive guy. Im just not what women like.
I agree with everything Kimberly.
I’ve been healing myself looking at what attracts me to the women that create drama.
I stopped getting intimate so quickly and I tell every woman I let’s go slow. Get to know me and let me get to know you.
Women agree until they understand I’m talking slow.
I love this because it helps me to see who that person is without any blinders. Sex and intimacy definitely hinder one’s ability to see or admit flags.
They do and I like this approach you’re taking. Thank you for tuning in!
After 50 years of dead end relationships, I found that it is better to be alone, than WISH that I was alone. MGTOW!
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Women are like clay, the form she is in currently isn’t that important as she will form in to how she needs to be for you (as you will also sculpt her as well). As the sculpture, you need to make sure you have the right clay (ie values, character, etc).
Dammit, girl! I'm in my 40s and my mindset lately has been I can't be picky anymore and I have to take what I can get... 🤯
Hmm..I hear you...nobody wants to "settle" but we need to be realistic with dating these days!