Light skinned Muslimah seeking Muslim Doctor: The Jahiliyyah of Muslim Matrimonials
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- 'Light skinned Muslimah seeking Muslim Doctor: The Jahiliyyah of Muslim Matrimonials'
Nauman Ali Khan
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I always tear up when I see someone take shahada, its such a beautiful transition in life.
+RaheelCocksucker Sher okay. enjoy! I'm glad you have found hoy in Islam. hold on tight to your deen. I too am convert. so if you need any advice, let me know. and I'm almost certain it you will do great. about the "take beer" thing, we are actually not allowed to drink alcohol, but that's okay. baby steps, my friend.
+RaheelCocksucker Sher
welllllll that was Aisha's age. and I believe the term is "peace and blessings be upon him", as far as you marrying a six year old. I wouldn't suggest it but at least the maturity levels will be equal. but you really should ask a scholar. hope that answers your question :)
+RaheelCocksucker Sher *wasn't aishas age. it was 9 I think.
+RaheelCocksucker Sher interesting perspective. *peace and blessings be upon him
+RaheelCocksucker Sher development was different in those times.
Without the jokes many people, especially parents would not watch it. They would find it too heavy. I think it is a good talk and the jokes help. It's sunnah to smile. :)
+deezblast thats why you make them watch it. or send it to them. they won't stumble upon it themselves because they probably aren't looking for it.
he makes joke so the people are not going to sleep and they will listen cos
people will feel its fun to listen but they will learn once they started listening to him
They laughing not smiling.
i like his style of lecture, its very humourous at the same time serious topics. after all life is not worth living if you can't have some laughter in your life. and sometimes it is more effective to get through to people, specialy to the younger generations.
This is the first time i watch a talk of this brother and its absolutely amazing, mashaAllah!
Great talk that speaks to both parents and the youth! Allah reward Ustadh Nouman.
You also forgot to mention Afghans. You are so great brother. Keep it up, a lot of Afghan teenage listen to your lectures. May Allah keep you and your family save.
usa gal I think Afghans are far better others. They marry their kids at young age, which is good.
Machallah much love from Algeria 🇩🇿
Funniest lecture ever. Showing it to my parents. If Ustadh Nouman retires, he should join Comedy Central cause he's hilarious lol
+aysha shaikh I completely agree with you!..
I appreciate his approach, showing practical examples/conclusions.
where is the urdu version of this? need to send it to a certain set of parents.
😂
lmao
Nouman Ali Khan - Advice to Desi Parents - Urdu Audio Lecture
Desert Rose hahahahaha. we must tell Nauman
Lol
SuhanAllah. Brother NaumanAli u killed it for IndoPak😀😀😀. May allah protect u frm evil eyes nd grant u even more knowledge nd wisdom. aameen.
Wow bold awesome and practical lecture!!
One of the best lectures on marriage!! Allahumma barik Ustadh!!
Wow... very good speech, well said. Thank you Nouman Ali Khan, you are blessing from Allah. :)
i have done it i have talked to my parents about getting me married as a girl. but i wish i would have found these videos earlier.
Spot on... JazzakAllah khairan for this beautiful lecture
EXCELLENT LECTURE, THANK YOU
When the beautiful sister came up to declare her Shahadah, she smiled at Br. Nouman and he lowered his gaze. That is proper muslim man, Masha Allah.
Jo Hunter he like to talk to his hot fantasy
@@ghddsfhtfdfgtdr2824 Syaitan put more effort on these kind of people...sometimes these people let it win. Sad but hey everyone makes mistakes. Hope he marries soon if he hasn't yet
I just feel so peaceful that ALLAH Azzawajal made me a Muslim, very soothen feel of ALLAH Azzawajal in my heart
Is it just me or does the video keep freezing at random points?
It happens to me too :/
Oh I thought it was my internet!
This hits so close to home. My mother always tells me I need to get a degree first and then I can (maybe) start thinking of marriage.
But seriously, when I finish med school I will be 32. Untill then the free time I have will get less and less, I can´t have any type of serious relationship unless I´m ok with not seeing my husband or children most of the time.
Sure it´s nice to have a medical degree, but for god´s sake I want to be a housewife and not someones boss. So why do I have to put myself through all this first? So many wasted years...
Alhamdulillah Jazakallah khairan Brother Nouman Ali khan your every words are 100%TRUE TRUTH. Alhamdulillah.
JazakAllahuKhair!!!
too funny but desi parents wont change anytime soon!
in Bosnia, we can have open conversations with our parents about marriage, and anything for that matter. We are also still very traditional in many places but thankfully I don't see that we have any serious cultural baggage that can be an obstacle in matters like these.
I agree to your speech. The world is not what it was 100 years ago and people should move on with there narrow minded beliefs and except that there are ethnicities and people that are indeed are different but similarly great as yours. The world would be so boring if we all were attracted to one type of food ,clothing,language, customs,and beauty
Inara Momin
Without some evil cowardly haters who have no courage to open their mouth in public spew their venoms here and I can't even discuss all the beautiful things I've just watched with my family(in Islam ) I mean what are you even doing here and how dare you all keep insulting our beloved Prophet!! your hatred is not going to change the fact that he is the best of creation,the most beloved to God and all the believers.all I say to you is don't watch the video just to go down write insults. if you are a lost,sad and lonely individual who has nothing better in his life and makes him/herself better by doing this which I suspect most haters are May Allah guide you all and give you. the light of Islam and take you out of the darkness you are in.peace.
really great speech! Wish had we had more knowledgeable scholars like him.
i need an urdu version of this. i gotta send this all of my relatives.
If my dad hears i wanna get married he'd be so happy
Awesome , very Helpful advices Brotyer !
It seems like in the Muslim community light fair skin has always been favoured over dark skin
Star Cherry Dude the west has made white skinned people more appealing than darker skinned people. It’s a problem of the whole wide world.
:) love u brither fr the sake of Allah u r doing great job for Allah .. ur helping the youth a lot mashallah ... zazakallah khaaer
Am I the only one watching in 2018 ? 😭😭😭😭😢😢😢
no, i am watching in 2019 :P :P
"Huhh i needa be like him" what we think while listening to him. SubhanAllah, our cool teacher !!
😂😂 Perfect lecture for indo-pak culture
except they still refuse to listen lol
+Awesome Zebra = indain
you did did listen right, alhamdulilah
Nabeel Barhe Not sure what you said but alhamdulilah anyway! 😂
i mean u indian n listen the lecture but you parents wont right?
Nabeel Barhe well my mom being Pakistani, my dad being Indian, they follow culture before religion like every desi parents do but I'm american so I guess being culturally mixed, I'm open to things that culture isn't. I don't follow culture at all. Islam before everything :)
He said nothing at all about African Americans plight in marrying girls of IndoPak, Arab, Syrian or any other girls of different cultures. Of all the people who have difficulty marrying people of different ethnic groups, African Americans seem to experience the most discrimination.
Musa Kenyatta true
Musa Kenyatta many of the boaters from those countries are extremely racist. for example i have a cousin who married an African american and her husband isnt invited to weddings or family gatherings. its sick. and her brother married a white woman and shes always invited.
there are african muslimas or african american muslimas who are interested in marriage. female african muslimas have a hard time too given the fact that the muslim communities racism as well. i mean look at the title. light skinned ummmm is that even relevant? i guess according to indopak people it is. its problematic in that community.
Ikr
Probably because he is talking to the crowd in front of him not the one behind the computer or cell phone screen
The topic he is addressing affects ALL Muslims tho. Therefore, I think he should cover marital discrimination of Muslims within all ethnic groups that exist in America, especially since he was born and raised in this country himself.
what you think is good for you may not be and what you think is bad for you may not be.
This is so accurate.
He's such a good speaker mashallah. And funny too haha
☺️ I am 40, mbbs Dr. But I have not found a man till now.. what I actually mean ...a man who really want me to get married.yes came across with so many who wanted to hang around and those were rejected by me..tawakkal allalah😃
Fouzia Farah, keep praying and making Dua and Insha Allah. Allah will sort you out.
@@active_k1579 insha aa Allah
You should ask if he is interested in marriage.i know it's difficult for girl who has not married before.become rightious establish prayer 5 times a day.aslamyalykum.
Mansha Allah ,this give me a goose pops ❤️❤️
being a Muslim is actually truly being a true human being Shahada is the light of this journey of becoming a true human being loving our ownself by loving others with all Regards and respect. SubhanAllah Alhamdulillah so you get Abundance rewards from ALMIGHTY Allahu Rahmanoor Raheem. It's not easy but it's not impossible if one truly take shahadah in heart and soul.Because Allahu Rahmanoor Raheem bless His kindness to His true believers .Alhamdulillah Aameen.
He should start a sunnah stand up comedy some day 😅
Hahaha along with mufti mink
42 min of knowledge 🙌
MashAllah great talk.
I knew it, you're muslim. XD
Anyone got any contact details for that light-skinned Muslimah?
I once saw an advert for a 'doctor's niece' who was looking for a husband.
Can someone subtitle this with Arabic so I could send it to my mom 😭
you seem to know english well , if your mom is arab you speak arabic too ,,, so move your lazy ass from your phone and translate it yourself ,,,, do smth with your life ,,,
karderr rude boy
the truth hurts huh ,,,,, get up and do smth .... really ,,, whats wrong with you people , doing nothing , feeling lazy , then you get depression out of doing nothing and having everything ,, like those bloody iphones (which are really bloody , cause children in africa die everyday to find cobalt ) ... wtf happened with this planet ? ,,, especially with the muslims ,,, ?
karderr tab shut up
karderr haha
You passed the cultural expiration date XDDD Im still laughing
Something I wondering, just a mental quandary. They say you are free of sins, etc when someone converts to Islam. So if when I took Shahadah, then some crazy person immediately comes in and shot me in the head, or I died of a heart attack, or some freak event, I go to Jannah right?
straight to jannah inshallah.
BUT I will contradict myself by saying that no body on this earth can say weather they will go to heaven of hell no matter how good or how bad they are..Allah will be the judge.
not if ur not sincere unfortuantely :(
Allah also forgives day and night...specially in the last part of the night. If it's forgiveness one seeks..they don't need to get shot...they get a good shot at it every breath they take
Yes. When you take shahada you are like new born baby
cvc If you were sincere when converting, then yes you are like a newborn baby with zero sin. The Islamic position is that such a convert would go straight to heaven.
However, there is another principle in Islam whereby we do not presume to know the exact destination of any person - even if they were a new convert, committed no sins and died straightaway. It's just not something we do.
beautiful advice
Wish i could get this lecture with urdu subs so i can show this video to my mom
parents should watch this...
please translate this to Arabic or Franch for my parents !! i'm suffering ! cause it's a tobbo to say hey you're oppressing me , and in my case i had no childhood or life so yeah
sorry, try through a friend of them exactly how it is, so they know how to put it, or make them feel happy subconsciously for several consecutive things then tell them, or try to have a good opener like is it ok if i tell you something, just like that their attention is multiplied sometimes they say ofcourse, so you tell them slowly just open up, you know your parents from childhood there are times you know that they cant say no, best of luck, mostly what they say is 100 percent right but your unexpectation will make you depressed abit so learn how to cope with it, also sometimes before it get bigs untill you cant think otherwise, just ask them advice then..
awesome lecture,
for some reason this topic always always depresses me i never thought that it would be so difficult to get a wife now a days
Everything or everyone will disappoint u except Allah swt. speaking of getting wife, well its true that its difficult to get a good one nowadays but hey, for some reason quran tells a lot about hur-al-ayn in jannah. :) so become among al-muqarrabun. even if u dont get a good one in this dunya, well that will just pave way for u to get amazing wife in akhirah.cheer up bro! see u in jannah inshaAllah
yes but jannah is a long time away still and a grown man has needs lol
nxph2108 The same goes to men, it is far more difficult to get a good muslim men. So that's the reality as long as you find a women or men who fear Allah and obey Allah, problem solved.
Subhanallah
masha allah...
Thousand likes billion likes Thanku so much
thanks
What's wrong with a guy missing an eye. Not his fault.
his just making an example
Lol he realized and clutched right after like “uhh and he entered the room backwards”
Ma sha Allah.....practical useful important & the list goes on....HOWEVER, WHY ARE MEN WOMEN SITTING NEXT TO EACH OTHER JUST LIKE OTHER RELIGIOUS FORUMS. HOW NICE IT WOULD HAVE BEEN TO SEE STRICT SEGREGATION IN SUCH GATHERING. SHOULD THE CULTURE/COUNTRY DETERMINE SEMINAR DESIGN OR ISLAMIC RULING?
Ilyas Jami I was at that conference and the brothers were on one side and sisters on the other with families in the middle
may god bless you
Arabs also see their children as their retirement plan, but the responsibilities are shared between the children usually, not all on one son.
ماشاالله جزاک الله خیر
مستحيل و انا حي that made laugh to tears come on that was good
welcome to my world , because I'm a syed" Belongs the lineage of RasooluAllah(saw)". I'm obliged to marry a syed .the problem is when a girl like me don't like every syed comes and my parents would like any syed comes. a battle that will never ends. :(
Make a prayer to Allah and put your trust in Allah.
tell your parents if Prophet allowed his daughters to marry hazrat usman then who are they to torture you?
This reply made my day, but sometimes i don't understand how parents do not consider any o these things its like sometimes they loose their ability to think properly and make some illogical decisions, imagine she falls in love with a really pious guy are they gonna say no cause he's not a syed? That would be outrageous
+Abdul Hassan they did refuse many good guys I liked cause they " don't know" and wh are not syed.now I'm forced to marry a guy of their choice and kept saying no but no one accepts it. I will marry a guy I don't like...may Allah take my life soon.
+Abdul Hassan they did refuse many good guys I liked cause they " don't know" and wh are not syed.now I'm forced to marry a guy of their choice and kept saying no but no one accepts it. I will marry a guy I don't like...may Allah take my life soon.
Aminn.
I was taught that "An apple a day keeps the doctor away," but since all the doctors in Manchester are now Muslim, I've found that a bacon sandwich works great!
*****
No.....Undertaker !!!
Hahaha thats a good one 😊😊... Peace be upon you brother...
+Customer Feedback I know... 😊😊😊 my statement is for his joke...
ha ha ha?
Joe Sixpack A bacon sandwich a day seems pretty unhealthy, lucky you have Muslim’s doctors to save you when your arteries are clocked up.
You know what makes me furious?it's is the fact that I can't watch a nice ISLAMIC lecture and go down to comment and
👍👍👍
Once when i was 23, i stood up in front of my Mom and Dad bare footed and said...
I m standing on my feet...do you see that ??? Bcz in Pakistan Parents say first stand on your feet then we will arrange marriage for you.
My father said yes we are seeing...and they are still seeing and i m turning 29 this december. 😡😠😏😖
Tajamal Iqbal that is sad my friend
the background music is very distracting
should the hall not be segregated?
I agree. Seeing these modernized settings makes me mad. Why do they allow this? There's no wisdom behind it.
ISMASHYOUBRO I was at this conference, it was segregated but there was a "family" section in the middle. That's where my fam and I sat. But there was a women's section on the left and a men's section on the right, both were jam-packed
Jazak Allah Khayr on the clarification sister. My only other issue however, is also the lack of partition or divide between the genders as a whole. I wish these conferences would start enforcing these things as they are the Sunnah of the Prophet and his companions. It's a shame that our Islamic conferences are starting to resemble those of the non-Muslims. I hope you understand where I am coming from.
ISMASHYOUBRO why you cant control your sexual urges!?
iconic08 can u? wow!
Brother Nouman.........
How to make my parents see this video?? Any suggestions?
Nouman Ali Khan, the new Jeremy Kyle lol
HYPE INTRO!!!
Please dubbed it into bangla
Please
Kool
This wasn't really much a problem... Least for me. Because I known the the girl for over 20 years now.
Did this lecture become the prelude to divorce.
33Chapter shut the fuck up u turd
31:40 LMAO.
Nothing is true, everything is permitted.
He plays AC, doesn't he?
He refered to AC.
True, but in another video, he also mentions Assassin's Creed. I dunno, maybe he has tried to play it? No harm done.
Who doesn't ? XD
ummiehummie come to peshawar
Interesting. Nice. But the residence, the stage and the decor is kinda like those christian cermonies. I would dig this more if it was less pompous and bombastic. But off course it's more about what he says than the setting, but still, I always was annoyed by those pompous christian lectures or gatherings.
And to those whining that he makes to many jokes are probably the people that think the strictest way is the best way.
It is not.
well said. and about the decor, yeah i wonder!
So all Christians worldwide due this? Why do Muslims feel the need to compare themselves to everything they think Christians do and believe. Also forgetting Christian are in every part of the world and don't have services like that. Statically 80% or more of Christians worldwide are poor and can't afford American things. And even 90% of Churches in America can't afford such things.
Brother why this bothers you so much is clearly Shaytan distracting you. Subhanallah. Everybody make Dua for this Brother he is not in a good place
I don't understand ? Is not the knowledge about who you merry ,and when and where you die in ALLAHS decision ?!
A hadith (not exact quote) explains it well, tie your camel and then ask Allah to look after it. Be practical and choose what you like and ask Allah to make it happen if it is good for you, your religion, your life and akhira, and to keep you away from it if it is not.
it stops buffer
O! O! now you disregard the modus operandi of generations that has been followed and choose to create one because that is the need of the hour. Wow!
MO of people in the muslim world not in the West where he is talking about. The way Sahabah proposed is little like it was in the muslim world.
Nothing is True....Everything is Permitted
h2dude69 let us play Assassin's Creed
Imjoking
Apart from all other things.... the sister who came on stage should have done proper HIJAB..... they need to be taught proper way...
She is not only a convert but her hijab was fine, it is not up to you to discuss her hijab. That is something shared before her and allah the fact she accepted islam in itself is something you should say al hemdillah about instead of commenting on her hijab.
Oh boy! don't we just love picking on people and criticizing... classic and typical
Agreed Alhamdulillah and my point is that the reverts (and we too) need to correct. Lets follow Islam in totality. Lets accept our fault and correct. After all a Muslim is like a mirror for a Muslim. The sister must have by now understood the proper way of doing hijab but till Now on web the whole world is watching so let the sister not fall into sin without her knowledge.
lol why does it matter that shes light skin 😂
Does someone have a pathan mother if you have then you understand me more
What's her name?
30 something muslim wimminz that are doctors and make moar monies than me? Shoogity doogity, where dey at?
Keith Larsen you may want to brush up your spelling before seeking a doctor to marry...
A woman's wealth in Islam belongs to her and NO-ONE has a right to it.
Keith Larsen they won't go near you u stinky donkey
Any one knows old this guy is?
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this is very hard -_-
may Allah bless you brother..but u pull the legs of Pakistanis soooo much
Blackbirdz2000 maybe he's ignorant abt what Pakistan is today but don't hate him for this reason coz he's our br in faith in iman and we should Love and respect each other for this reason may Allah bless you br.t.c and btw am an Indian and pull the legs of Indian Muslims too😂
@Blackbirdz2000 didnt't prophet muhammed pbuh marry women from differnet tribes ??
@Blackbirdz2000 dont speak for pakistanis
10:10 lol
7:14 Good luck marrying one of Nouman Ali Khan's daughters if you're missing an eye?
He didn't mean it that way, and so what if a woman/man refuses someone because they are missing an eye? its their right to be physically at least somewhat attracted to the future spouse.
kowaii So if you're missing an eye, you're not physically attractive?
Peter Piper
It depends on the other person. You may find someone with no eyes period and more deformations to be attractive and you may find them not attractive at all :) so it really does depend. I personally don't know how I would feel, how would you feel?
I'd hope it wouldn't matter. I do know that if I had one eye and already felt unattractive, Khan's video would make me feel worse. Would you agree?
Peter Piper
Yeah I do agree, I really think it was a slip of a tong (or whatever that expression is) from him, that s what sucks about being live and not being able to edit things you say i guess :)
Hahahah u know. hahahaha u know.
Is this lecture even Islamic ?? It's more like cultural differences! The guy is cracking jokes like he's on BBC or something....
Assalamualikum,
Is it MANDATORY, every Islamic Lecture should be serious?
***** Yes, Prophet pbuh use to joke too. There is an old lady that ask prophet if an old lady can enter Jannah, and he said that old people don't enter Jannah, and she went back crying, but prophet send her a Sahabi to explain to her that she will enter Jannah young.
***** The life of Prophet was all dawah, his movements, his silence, his anger, his agreement and even when he plays with children. Let's not point and judge others but point to ourselves.
Joking is sunnah.
Joking too much until you cannot stop laughing is haram.