The most important lesson that I learned from this interview is to make sure that my child is in a safe environment mentally and emotionally regardless of what is going on between me and his father. 💯
I love how she did the work; it’s a true sentiment on what being emotionally intelligent look like. I love how she’s in control and sound in her self. She came out on top and her spirit is shining through 💕
@@shinobity it does happened they get miserable at the end and cheat on each other too. You can't hurt and destroy a home with kids and end up with everlasting love and peace.
@@shinobity tbh i think people get it they just dont think its karma. People don’t remember the shit they caused others but will gladly play victim when shit is handed to them. They love to say “why me” instead of thinking “maybe I deserved this”.
I loved the honesty about this & her owning that she was hurt. This is where it starts! I’m so glad she grew. This interview was amazing! So proud & happy for you Naja.
My mother would tell me in a heartbeat that she doesn’t like my father and he’d do the same. But when they’re around each other, they’re like 2 high school kids. 😂
God is able and forgives. Swizz Beats and Alicia are still in Adultery and they have to answer to God for that. May God give you strength and heal your hurt. Peace be with you.
Amazing interview! This is something we are struggling with on both sides (myself and my husband had a previous marriage with children before coming together). I would love to hear more and I'm definitely getting the book!
This interview was awesome, Naja! I love the positive responses in regards to coparenting and the example the Mashonda’s setting for those wanting to heal. Thanks for doing this interview!
Bitter has a negative connotation as if you're just mad because you didn't get what you want & it really is about dealing with your pain. Idk that I could do what she did to that extent since their marriage was on the rocks BUT she asked Alicia to step back to give she & her husband a chance to work on their marriage & she said No. I could be civil but close friends/vacationing together that would take awhile if Ever until I was past it & prob. in another good relationship because seeing the ex kissing his new wife while I'm alone would be very hard. I applaud her for putting her son first & for using what's at her disposal to make her money out of this situation so she can be financially secure. I think it's different when both women have kids too since the children are siblings & are together a lot which is good.
Wrong music for this interview. Should've picked an instrumental Neo Soul ballad. But she has a very beautiful and discerning spirit. Definitely his loss. Alicia doesn't compare.
This is a beautiful interview. Congratulations. I like that you are positive. The uptempo electronic background music doesn't fit the vibe. I think for deep interviews like this music should be left out altogether so the focus can be on you and your guest, but if you choose to use music, something soulful can work. Just a thought. Keep up the beautiful work.
I Really like Mashonda.! Mashonda is exceptionally Beautiful a very mature woman ,she has a lot of class and to go through that suffering you know she has to be a woman of God. God bless her, her grandmother who she learned from that was her inspiration and bless her blended family.❣
Friendly suggestion: The music was overbearing and hard to hear the interview. Please either eliminate that or lower the volume for future shows. Thanks It's great that Mashonda did the healing work and is in a better place. I hope she finds true love if she desires that.
Can I just remind everyone He had affairs before Alicia Keys he even had a baby with another woman. At least Alicia isn't denying her wrong doing she's dealing with everyone's backlash. At least Alicia isn't being petty towards her not that she deserves it.
Me and daddy don’t like each other but it has nothing to do with you. We are both going to still love you and take care of you just as we always have but apart from one other. Stop lying and sugar coating and prepare these kids for this gritty, hard-knock life. They discern and know more than we think.
Generational Curse my Sister , May God surround you with the right people who will pray and break the chains of Divorce in your bloodline so you to may have a successful marriage in Jesus name
Alicia Keys & Swiss Beatz were so high conflict but sneaky with it. Wtbs, you have to ignore, bow out gracefully, pray for them every time they come to mind. Ppl always think the BM is bitter. It’s always more to the story. Nobody listens but God so he has to make it so that they see their own faults . God Bless any mother who deals with unnecessary drama from a man & the woman he gets with afterwards.
Two people can be absolutely awesome but just dont vibe, match, have the same values. If ppl understood that abt relationships they wld be able to accept incompatibility and move on and heal.
@aquariusstar7248 very well stated!! 💯.. ppl can't take that pill.. they want to always be in fairy 🧚🏽♀️ tale land .. That doesn't do anyone any favors! Be grateful for what was. Accept what is, & move forward..
Obviously way too mature and woke for Switz! I’m glad she did the shadow work and did the self healing. I just pray she continue to grow and stop vacationing with them and create her a new family!
There is healing, but there is also reality. You know those people have no respect for you and your children, which they proved with their actions. Behavior shows you can have no trust of them, That's irrefutable. You heal for you and your children, but those people clearly showed who they are and that they don't think past their own wants, not caring about what their actions do to anyone, including children, so you stay aware.
R.s how in the hell did they fall for that no good as man. He's a washed out producer he living off alicia keys now that's not what being a man is about
Swizz is worth 65 million, he has his own money. I wouldn’t want to stay with a man that doesn’t want me. If you’re in a relationship you get to change your mind. I want the other person to be happy and if I’m not the one, then move on so that I can do the same. But everyone hating them and Mashonda doesn’t hate them. I don’t understand that. If she’s good now, she’s healed. Let them be. Only God can judge. Stay blessed.
Maybe this is a way to tell people how to become free from negativity. That's always a lesson that needs to be heard. I'm glad she said what she said because that shows growth. The people who stay and thrive on negativity are immature and stagnant in growing
Yes why is it the woman is always the home wrecker when the man stepped out. Alicia didn’t hold a gun to his head? He wanted to leave and they’re MARRIED now. Not shacking up. She’s his wife now. So Mashonda breaking the cycle and genuinely doing what’s right for the kids, but everybody got something to say when at the end of the day the only people that have anything to do with this is them. If they’re happy let them be happy. Damn!
@@oblountj first of all you would be a fool to think swizz is telling the truth. He would try to cover up. But alicia is to blame as well cause she knew and carried on the affair. It takes 2
Why she always talk about Alicia 🤔 Swiss had a other women pregnant in the marriage before alicia the Daughter is now 15 years old. THE MARRIAGE WAS A MESS BEFORE ALICIA. SHE IS NOT REAL WITH HER SELF SORRY 🤷🏻♀️ AND CUZ SHE LOOKS LIKE A LADY DON'T MEAN SHE IS ONE WE DON'T KNOW HER.... BUT I WISH SHE WOULD TALK ABOUT THE OTHER WOMEN SHE BROKE YOUR MARRIAGE NOT ALICIA
The most important lesson that I learned from this interview is to make sure that my child is in a safe environment mentally and emotionally regardless of what is going on between me and his father. 💯
She’s so wise and articulate. I wish she had a podcast.
Articulate and classy are the only way to describe Mashonda. This girl has a beautiful soul. ❣️
She’s a lady - the man who left her is a fool
I love how she did the work; it’s a true sentiment on what being emotionally intelligent look like. I love how she’s in control and sound in her self. She came out on top and her spirit is shining through 💕
She's absolutely stunning
She's calm and she knows karma will come to him. Stay grateful Sistah.
Karma isn't real. Believe it or not people get away with a lot of things unchecked. STOP believing in the bullshit.
@@shinobity why people get petty and vengeful, and use this karma sh*t to live vindictive I'll probably never know.
@@shinobity it does happened they get miserable at the end and cheat on each other too. You can't hurt and destroy a home with kids and end up with everlasting love and peace.
@@shinobity tbh i think people get it they just dont think its karma. People don’t remember the shit they caused others but will gladly play victim when shit is handed to them. They love to say “why me” instead of thinking “maybe I deserved this”.
@@noloyisomaqubela2725 it's been 11 years strong though
I loved the honesty about this & her owning that she was hurt. This is where it starts! I’m so glad she grew. This interview was amazing! So proud & happy for you Naja.
Her transparency is RARE! I pray that she inspires others to heal and live in their truths
I know it was hard leaving her fine self. This woman is drop dead gorgeous in her 40's
My mother would tell me in a heartbeat that she doesn’t like my father and he’d do the same. But when they’re around each other, they’re like 2 high school kids. 😂
So many women need to learn this.
She's soo gorgeous. Just beautiful!!
Wow what an amazingly mature and transparent woman Mashonda is! This was an enlightening and informative baring of Souls🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😇😇😇
Great interview! So positive and helpful 🙌🏽 thank you for doing what you do!
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I like Mashonda. Her story is a proof of how life sucks and vanity of our youth.
Woow that’s nice I wish all women could do that instead of hating one another
I feel so deeply saddened and sorry for her.
Yes she is left to clean up.. while alicia and swizz are without guilt
God is able and forgives. Swizz Beats and Alicia are still in Adultery and they have to answer to God for that. May God give you strength and heal your hurt. Peace be with you.
Yikes, it's easy to forget that, sometimes.
10:19 - 10:42 love this example, also lose the disruptive background music sis ❤️
Amazing interview! This is something we are struggling with on both sides (myself and my husband had a previous marriage with children before coming together). I would love to hear more and I'm definitely getting the book!
Thank you for the compliment! Def more to come! Thank you for subscribing!
Great interview and look inside of how important it is to heal so we can truly blend our families.
Thank you so much! Healing 1st is essential!
This interview was awesome, Naja! I love the positive responses in regards to coparenting and the example the Mashonda’s setting for those wanting to heal. Thanks for doing this interview!
Bitter has a negative connotation as if you're just mad because you didn't get what you want & it really is about dealing with your pain. Idk that I could do what she did to that extent since their marriage was on the rocks BUT she asked Alicia to step back to give she & her husband a chance to work on their marriage & she said No. I could be civil but close friends/vacationing together that would take awhile if Ever until I was past it & prob. in another good relationship because seeing the ex kissing his new wife while I'm alone would be very hard. I applaud her for putting her son first & for using what's at her disposal to make her money out of this situation so she can be financially secure. I think it's different when both women have kids too since the children are siblings & are together a lot which is good.
Alicia and swiss were part of destroying her home bad role models they will suffer too one day
Why this distracting music?
And that there is organic healing. She went through the stages she had to and came out of it with her empathy and dignity intact.
I love her perspective.💕 So graceful and embracing of everything. I love Alicia too. Beautiful women. 💫
Wrong music for this interview. Should've picked an instrumental Neo Soul ballad. But she has a very beautiful and discerning spirit. Definitely his loss. Alicia doesn't compare.
This was wonderful, Naja. Keep up the work!
Thank you!
Good interview.
It will help many to start healing.
This is a beautiful interview. Congratulations. I like that you are positive. The uptempo electronic background music doesn't fit the vibe. I think for deep interviews like this music should be left out altogether so the focus can be on you and your guest, but if you choose to use music, something soulful can work. Just a thought. Keep up the beautiful work.
Wow, I just learned who Mashonda is and I just love her. She seems so real and sincere, whereas I get such fake, manufactured vibes from Alicia
Social media is gift & curse.
🙏Much Happiness to Mashonda!🙏
I cant hear what they saying the music is loud
She is beautiful and intelligent woman
Enjoyed the conversation but the background music ruined it for me
I Really like Mashonda.!
Mashonda is exceptionally Beautiful a very mature woman ,she has a lot of class and to go through that suffering you know she has to be a woman of God.
God bless her, her grandmother who she learned from that was her inspiration and bless her blended family.❣
Awesome! She is lovely, so happy for them all.
Friendly suggestion: The music was overbearing and hard to hear the interview. Please either eliminate that or lower the volume for future shows. Thanks
It's great that Mashonda did the healing work and is in a better place. I hope she finds true love if she desires that.
She’s absolutely beautiful 😍
Did Swizz ever say the two most important words to her: I apologize(?)
Can I just remind everyone He had affairs before Alicia Keys he even had a baby with another woman. At least Alicia isn't denying her wrong doing she's dealing with everyone's backlash. At least Alicia isn't being petty towards her not that she deserves it.
She's Beautiful
I love so much madam mashonda
God bless you 🙏
She knows that he’s a narcissistic and Alicia is his new supply. She knows what Alicia actually is experiencing. And she like girl you good we good.,
What a beautiful woman!!!
Me and daddy don’t like each other but it has nothing to do with you. We are both going to still love you and take care of you just as we always have but apart from one other. Stop lying and sugar coating and prepare these kids for this gritty, hard-knock life. They discern and know more than we think.
Generational Curse my Sister , May God surround you with the right people who will pray and break the chains of Divorce in your bloodline so you to may have a successful marriage in Jesus name
Alicia Keys & Swiss Beatz were so high conflict but sneaky with it. Wtbs, you have to ignore, bow out gracefully, pray for them every time they come to mind. Ppl always think the BM is bitter. It’s always more to the story. Nobody listens but God so he has to make it so that they see their own faults . God Bless any mother who deals with unnecessary drama from a man & the woman he gets with afterwards.
Good stuff. ❤️
Music is distracting though. You don’t need it.
How could he leave this wonderful woman. I guess he answered it himself: he loves spending money (Alicias money).
Swizz has his own money though hun the man is worth 65 million dollars.
Two people can be absolutely awesome but just dont vibe, match, have the same values. If ppl understood that abt relationships they wld be able to accept incompatibility and move on and heal.
@aquariusstar7248 very well stated!! 💯.. ppl can't take that pill.. they want to always be in fairy 🧚🏽♀️ tale land .. That doesn't do anyone any favors! Be grateful for what was. Accept what is, & move forward..
She still looks hurt in the interview
She looks like she is in control of her emotions and her energy
@@Jollyday905 yes seems that way she still hurting
Obviously way too mature and woke for Switz! I’m glad she did the shadow work and did the self healing. I just pray she continue to grow and stop vacationing with them and create her a new family!
There is healing, but there is also reality. You know those people have no respect for you and your children, which they proved with their actions. Behavior shows you can have no trust of them, That's irrefutable. You heal for you and your children, but those people clearly showed who they are and that they don't think past their own wants, not caring about what their actions do to anyone, including children, so you stay aware.
Background music plays too loud. Also should be affect, not effect
It took her two years? It seems like she's on denial you can't never h deal from this 😢
Thats not true, u can indeed heal. U hv to work towards it. It wont be easy but its possible
torshia seales exactly you only dont if you dont want to
You heal but forever changed
Music so distracting from her wise words
Great healing for families.
She's gorgeous
It's generational...♡
Whose here from the shaderoom😭
forgiveeeeeee? aliciaaaaa????? forrr
Carrying on an affair with her husband.
Nice to know Swizz was happy to downgrade. She is amazing.
Damn I would’ve stayed with her lol
At some point she needs to forget about Swizz I'm tired of her whining and her still healing. She needs her own man and her own family
I don’t think she is whining, but I do think she deserves to have her own family.
Mashonda 🤩
Do they even know they hurt her so much
4:52 Awwww
I think she is better looking than Alicia Keys. That woman is fine actually! 🤣 But seriously, you will reap what you sow.
R.s how in the hell did they fall for that no good as man. He's a washed out producer he living off alicia keys now that's not what being a man is about
Swizz is worth 65 million, he has his own money. I wouldn’t want to stay with a man that doesn’t want me. If you’re in a relationship you get to change your mind. I want the other person to be happy and if I’m not the one, then move on so that I can do the same. But everyone hating them and Mashonda doesn’t hate them. I don’t understand that. If she’s good now, she’s healed. Let them be. Only God can judge. Stay blessed.
Moshanda is a wonderful beautiful lady and i think she doing a great job at co-parenting i just don't think Alicia deserve Mashonda as a friend.
✊🏿✊🏿🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
Karmas a b***h because now look at the situation mashonda still getting her money and swiss fell all the way off
💖💖💖💖
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Do u thing love
Why is she still going public with this?
She is promoting her book.
Godismy Rock well first time I ever heard of the story about the whole alica situation
She wants money
Maybe this is a way to tell people how to become free from negativity. That's always a lesson that needs to be heard. I'm glad she said what she said because that shows growth. The people who stay and thrive on negativity are immature and stagnant in growing
Godismy Rock what part bothers you??
She is a dangerous women a big home ,wrecker she aliciah .. its painful the situation..
Swizz says they separated in 2007. He had a whole baby in 2008 with a woman in the U.K. But Alicia’s the home wrecker? How??? Make it make sense!
Yes why is it the woman is always the home wrecker when the man stepped out. Alicia didn’t hold a gun to his head? He wanted to leave and they’re MARRIED now. Not shacking up. She’s his wife now. So Mashonda breaking the cycle and genuinely doing what’s right for the kids, but everybody got something to say when at the end of the day the only people that have anything to do with this is them. If they’re happy let them be happy. Damn!
@@oblountj first of all you would be a fool to think swizz is telling the truth. He would try to cover up. But alicia is to blame as well cause she knew and carried on the affair. It takes 2
Naja look like ne ne leaks wow.
black lives do matter
jody welchs mad hatter
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Why she always talk about Alicia 🤔 Swiss had a other women pregnant in the marriage before alicia the Daughter is now 15 years old. THE MARRIAGE WAS A MESS BEFORE ALICIA. SHE IS NOT REAL WITH HER SELF SORRY 🤷🏻♀️ AND CUZ SHE LOOKS LIKE A LADY DON'T MEAN SHE IS ONE WE DON'T KNOW HER.... BUT I WISH SHE WOULD TALK ABOUT THE OTHER WOMEN SHE BROKE YOUR MARRIAGE NOT ALICIA