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- Опубліковано 20 вер 2024
- TikToker Lisa Mia trauma dumps on a barista at a Starbucks drive thru. The video goes viral leading other TikTokers to dig into her past. From that they formed a wild conspiracy.
#florida #Starbucks #traumadump #conspiracy #raywilliamjohnson
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LOL
Not Watching that.
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Hi.
@@OmegaCorsaircry
To be honest, regardless of their relationship, she needs a therapist ASAP. It's still super inappropriate and weird to trauma dump someone who kinda has no choice but to listen while *filming* them.
She doesnt care she wants attention
yeah this is obviously a gross social media thing
There's nothing innapropriatw about being open. It's okay to talk to people about your traumas
@@subswithnovideos-oz4zonot when they aren’t asking to hear it
@@hellothere1853 Exactly
I feel badly for the Starbucks employee. How unfair to her.
I also feel bad for the people behind her having to wait
Imagine ur tryna get a milkshake for breakfast and some lady traumadumps man id be mad asl😢😢😢
That's when you just respond with "ok" and go make the order.
You’ll use asl to show your rage
Cuz theres a typo
@@sc3nes4uce10hopefully you’d have long enough to realize that getting a milkshake for breakfast is super unhealthy and dumb.
Social media doesnt only make people crazy but it also makes them apathetic apparently.
my dumbass read "apathetic" as some sterotypical italian character saying "pathetic"
@@charlie_541ehi sei un astronzo
@@charlie_541 "It'sa me, Apathetic Mario!"
@@charlie_541Ay Marone!
@@charlie_541WHAT 😭
Regardless if this lady lied or not, trauma dumping is still a big issue to do on someone.
No it's not
Yeah fr, like its a freaking starbucks not a therapy session why you doing this here!?
@@zoeylee6534 what do you mean it isn't? Why would i want someone to dump their trauma on me out of manipulation?
a DRIV THRU. this lady is unhinged and just wants views. gross
How does one even react to that? It's socially bad to act like you don't care but also it's very awkward to be in that situation
"Social media has made people crazy". Now this woman has said everything.
It's Not Social Media Itself. It's The Crazy People ON Social Media
its really that social media had given an outlet for crazy people to be seen more frequently
Ma'am this is a Starbucks.
lol🗿
literally💀
Order or leave.
Lol💀
if only it was a Wendy's 💀
Nah but the starbucks venting is crazy
She asked for a venti and she started venting
@@-N-A- mBRUH
she should be called venti karen
I don’t trust people who record themselves crying
At least she knew him, but her actions speak loudly to me. She's not mourning, she's exploiting her loss for sympathy. This actually happens, that she's trying to do a book on her grieving makes it a bit worse because she's obviously having trouble letting go, and has made that her life now.
I felt sorry for the barista. Sometimes you are in that position, but the minute I saw the phone I would have shut it down.
this is so unfair to say, who are you to say she isn’t mourning the man she was engaged to when he was brutally murdered while they were planning to get married? it’s sickening you have 44 upvotes somehow
@@asukalangley3074 what
@@asukalangley3074lol found the girls alt
@@amvjin6760 what
@@amvjin6760 wdym what lol are you illiterate? what i said was pretty clear
Trauma dumping on the working youth for tik-tok clout is wild to me.
She needs therapy that isn’t in front of an audience! She is traumatizing his family repeatedly! And the poor barista!
Therapy is useless. It's trying to make you forget your issues, but then it makes you think of it even more. Useless.
Of course this happens in Florida of all places.
Florida man=Florida woman
@@marbleWRKD Florida Woman far more elusive but far more crazy
Crazy stuff happens everywhere! It just seems that all that crazy comes from florida because of very specific public record laws and ease of reportability. So basically, we just hear all the stuff coming out if Florida while NOT hearing it about anywhere else.
I can see this dude just watching this crazy women try to make people sad and use it for entertainment and just wishing he never met her
@@nikki1400yeah wtf💀
As someone who was married and my husband was murdered, i wasnt in his obituary or at his funeral, nor mentioned in the multiple news reports. Idk why and it tore me up, i had only my marriage and his death certificates as proof when people questioned me.
Some families can be spiteful.
Another thing about this is that the family has stated that there disgusted with her using his death to advertise her books and poems which is what she’s being doing
yeah, no pity for her.
They also said they weren’t together
Great digging into her past for sufficient evidence…Or maybe the “TikTok mob” needs to call her out for Trauma dumping and support her to get Grief Counseling…..
My imagination of her sobbing while holding the camera in a selfish POV just killed me. People weird as hell 💀
none of this proves anything except that they knew each other, which wasn’t really what people were disputing. the problem is that they were not married and the only person we’ve seen say they were engaged is her, and yet she’s presenting it that way in order to sell her book and profit off his death, not to mention trauma dumping on a bunch of underpaid service workers. this woman needs help
Starbucks is expensive, but still way cheaper than a therapist I guess 😅
It's almost worse that they did have a genuine relationship and this is what she's doing with it.
There's an obvious line between grieving and exploitation.
Absolutely
Thank you Ray, for being the one and only sane influencer.
ong, what a goat 🐐
There are a couple more sane influencers out there as well imo.
@@mystery4561name one.
I wonder if she wants free stuff? It's insane! Absolutely insane! I definitely feel bad for any victims of crimes but don't bring it to customer service employees.
Oh probably just looking for sympathy from anyone and maybe thinks she'll get free food.
She’s literally paying for the food of the people behind her.
@@Clippidyclappidy that doesn't make it appropriate
At the beginning I thought that was what she was doing
I thought maybe she thinks that crying for the barista would make them give her the coffee for free
@@trinitylivingston1286Symapthy on what? That wasn't even her husband. Unless she was able to Gaslight herself so badly that she started to belive that it was her actual husband. But that's what therapy is for.
Capitalizing on death is sick & unforgivable.
The worst part is that that Starbucks employee was probably in high school or something
"Let's make my problem, everyone else's problem" this lady is incredibly selfish for thT
i love how Ray just drops random tea like this and makes it entertaining to watch lmao
I don’t think Starbucks employees aren’t paid enough for this
Agreed lol.
"social media is making people crazy" yeah exactly
No, they were, always, crazy. Now, they have an audience.
Bro premiered this like its world cup 26 💀
blud is stupid
fr
Fr
He always does this
That one guy who sings the song
I probably would have started laughing after she said “brutally”. That sounds like she trolling
She literally said "my husband was brutally killed" in the drive thru so casually.
I heard on a TED talk that when you lose someone the relationship doesnt end, it just changes. Maybe she just.doesnt.knoe how to cope with the change
That's still doesn't excuse filming herself while criying to a random stranger in public
Bro the barista be like:can I take your order please
The store employees are there to help you get what you need in a fast and efficient manner. They need to help the next person.
She'd be better making dedicated videos talking about the husband on her own channel and writing blog articles about him, her grievance journey, and feature other people's stories of loved ones that passed away. She could do a podcast too.
There’s something about crying in front a camera that I cant get behind.
I mean, she is still exploiting his death. Not that I personally have a horse in this race as in a way he is supporting her in death - but she does need to get help because this is still kind of gross.
For anyone defending her why would she record it there's no possible believeble reason for her to do so
Especially multiple times. Like bffr
this.
She seems like she's coping with it in a very unhealthy way, she really needs some form of help..
Well yeah but taking advantage of her alleged husbands death might be a bit of a scummy thing to do.
She will be forever alone if she hasn’t healed by now. Cause now she seems psycho.
Ray is like the Batman we need.
Some people need a vast amount of therapy.
she probably needed someone to talk to about how she felt.
she could be the murderer.
If they aren't trauma dumping to the Starbucks barista after I'm gone then I don't want it.
If they were married there would be a public record called a. . . Wait for it. MARRIAGE LICENSE. !
No license, No Marriage. A picture of two people sitting on a couch isn’t a legal marriage.
Shoutout to Ray for showing empathy and not digging any further than he had to, and shoutout to Trinity and service workers everywhere who have to deal with the insane public.
Also regardless of their relationship, it does seem like Trauma Dump Lady is monetizing his death. She's advertising her book on TikTok, not like a normal person but like... well... this. Not cool.
I wonder if the family didn't put her in the obit because she's always been like that and they didnt like her for him, hmmmmmmm
the craziest part was that her "husband" barely knew her
Proof?
What the guy above said
If I was that starbucks employee I'd slowly close the window without breaking eye contact.
“Social media is making people crazy” sums it all up.
How can you feel empathy for someone who uses their husbands death for attention on Tiktok?
Ray needs his own news channel
Social media has made people overly cautious to criticizing people who behave abnormally. This woman says “husband” because she knows that will likely elicit some kind of emotional response she is less likely to get if she said “friend” or “long time partner”. The computer has allowed the people you would have stayed away from in H.S. to find a voice, and new social norms have made people afraid to say when behaviors are problematic.
He so real for not making this long or making anyone out to be bad. He simply a narrator who doesn’t rely too much on other
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Well, everyone handles grief in their own way. I guess she handles it by hyping up a book for more sales, but y'know... it's not the worst thing in the world.
... half of me thought it was gonna turn out that she Florida-woman'd him or something.
you need mental help
That Darkwing Duck shirt is awesome.
Someone please get this woman some help, I'm genuinely concerned. And hope she gets what she needs.
It's just hilarious that she wasn't even his wife 😂
Respect to Ray for uploading everyday!
Society is rotten with all those social media bs and attention seekers...
I understand how she feels. They say time heals all wounds but in reality, it doesn't. 😢
Me, too. 😢
Holding your phone Filming yourself at a drive thru dumping this on an Starbucks employee crying to them though ?
You all are fools here! She is trying to get popular and attention seeking! Disgusting!
That one woman said it best, social media is making some people just plain crazy! If I was at that drivethru I'd have to get my manager to get her moving because I do not need to know, you'll have to call your therapist if you need to film yourself crying.
I worked as a clerk in a hospital maaaannnn i got some wild trauma dump stories😂this was almost normal
thanks for the shout-out ray 🙌
The mob should chill..but you also don't dump on random people like that AND RECORD IT.
So the purple arrow vids have mildly positive endings. I'm here for it!💪🏾🙏🏾
I mean... she's not shy with a camera, so... no photos of the two of them together? Tbh, she sounds like she was his stalker.
Imagine trying to do your job and a random lady starts to trauma dump you while holding a camera and posts your face in tiktok. These people need therapy.
I hope she finds a better way to cope, honestly.
This is what happens when you make victimhood a bankable commodity.
Looks to me like she’s using his death. His family clearly doesn’t like her. You don’t get left out of an obituary on accident and you’re the fiancé.
She's milking the unfortunate event for personal gain. She's a bit of a psychopath
Well I don't get why she talks about it a lot, like she's trying to get attention.
When grief gets bad enough, it's hard to tell.
no she knows what shes doing. shes in a DRIVE THRU. recording other people. no pity on this crazy woman. only thinking of herself.
It’s so incredibly tragic that I need to film myself crying so the entire world knows how mentally ill I truly am
Bottom line is...They were never married & she's looking for attention.
Definitely some attention seeking behaviour like who just constantly posts about their partners murder like that without just seeking pity and attention from people
@@markopolo1271 It's called 'trauma'. Maybe you should experience it.
@@yapflipthegrunt4687does trauma coping include having to film yourself mope in your local drive thru for tiktok?
@@yapflipthegrunt4687It's called doing anything for attention. But birds of a feather.
I’m glad you found evidence they were together, but I still don’t like how she’s allegedly using his death to promote her book
ALLEGEDLY
I mean if the book is about his death what else would you use
umm not your local starbucks drive thru?
I still find it odd, why would the family not mention someone who even had a message in his obituary? She made it seem in that very message that they were at least dating and maybe even engaged. Did the family really not know??
Or did they not like/accept her? I'm sorry...yes, everybody grieves in their own way, but doing this at a starbucks...ON CAMERA...she's got problems.
@@donbluth84 she definitely needs some sort of counseling 😅
"Social media is making people crazy"
Quote of the year
Her friends and family were clearly sick of hearing her crying so she went to a barista instead
*me eating a cheeseburger*
Ray: *taking notes*
That lady's crazy, I'm sorry for your loss, but you don't trauma dump things on to strangers and then record them without their consent, it's obvious that she's doing this for attention and sympathy.
Me who was focused on Ray's Darkwing Duck shirt
I think the family of the young man should step up and tell everyone what happens.
The literal definition of “ma’am, this is a Starbucks”
I wouldn't say she's lying, she's bending the truth more than anything.
Another day, another hour of watching Ray William Johnson
With all the accusations going around, I'm surprised they didn't accuse her of being the murderer 😅
she does seem a little nuts...
It's not her way of grieving, it's just for attention. Normal people don't trauma dump on people like that while filming themselves. She knows exactly what she's doing
"Social media is making people crazy".
Well, not really. Some people are crazy and they use whatever they have or want or need to make their insanity public.
The lady who says social media is making people crazy is a part of the craziness she's talking about😂 that's hilarious
She's doing this for clout😂
People grief in different ways. Not all of it is for supposed "clout".
@@AlidoesArt she literally goes to a drive thru and start recording herself
@@AlidoesArtsis recorded it that's not grief that's being self aware
@vertexvortex5749 Like I said, people grief in different ways. I'm not saying it isn't weird, but I'm also not judging her because I'm not experiencing the loss that she has experienced.
@@sourlab Recording yourself venting to another individual doesn't make it less of a grieving situation.
Is it bad that I immediately started laughing after she said my husband was brutally murdered? 😂
1:22 what is this creature 😅
People think they know everything. When they don't. She needs some mental help but it's nothing to attack her over. Thanks for clearing this up, Ray. You're a gem. Wish this chick happiness in her future.
Bro is trauma dumping on a teen
1:15 why does she look like pennywise 😭
Ray never fails to disappoint no matter what he uploads
Im a Starbucks barista. If someone did this at my window, I would be like, "hey you seem really upset about this, you should talk to a professional as Im not qualified to help you. I hope you find peace" *close window, dont open until she rolls away, with her drink ofc*
Digging into her past may be weird, but she brought that onto herself by being weird.
I feel for people who are dealing with grief. It’s soul crushing. This woman though is playing up her grief for views and likes. She needs therapy for more than one reason.