"I really want someone to talk about vocational discernment with. Just a little chat since I can't always have my spiritual director around." - Me, a person initially attracted to a community a year ago because of their habit, yesterday.
I'm not sure if this will get an answer, but if someone can help it'll be appreciated. I was helped greatly by the Holy spirit in February this year and will be taking the RCIA this year. I am fully devoted, and feel blessed. Now, I have always been drawn to artistic creativity like drawing and music, but also have been writing a Sci fi novel for the past few years. I am a little fearful of the book being a wrong move (in my mind) but I really feal drawn to finishing the story in my heart. It has certain allegorical elements to the Catholic and Abrahamic theology (without me even really knowing at the time). I suppose what I am asking is, should I stop due to being inconsiderate of God or could I be actually fulfilling God's wish for me by continuing? Or am I being completely egotistical in even considering that. Very confused 😕
If there's any video I would recommend to anybody who is discerning their vocation (including myself) then this one would be it. It's incredible how it was only 8 minutes long and yet so full of substance!
I'm attracted to religious life for a variety of reasons. But for me, the Habit only adds to the whole enchilada, if you will. I just totally Love Jesus, and that's my desire for religious Vocation.
🤯 being in a state of grace and patiently waiting… hm. Yes. There it is. How God reveals truth. I like how he talks about feeling the wood of the cross. That’s it. Raw truths are the only way I’ve ever come to know revelations. Never had a lovey dovey moment, other than witnessing the Sacraments, but I have experienced the Spirit working through me when I had no idea how to approach something-when you’re called regardless of your fear-to serve with compassion and it’s the last thing you want to do. That’s when you know you are only the instrument and all glory belongs to God.
I needed to hear this message. I'm discerning if I am being called to the Permanent Diaconate. I need to quit overthinking it and just do it. I need to serve God and the Archdiocese needs dedicated servants.
I love this advice. The wisdom in this video can't be digested in just one watch. I struggle the most with what St. Ignatius of Loyola refers to as the enemy acting like "a licentious lover in wanting to be secret and not revealed." I hide too much of my struggles by habit but I am improving daily. It took courage to take the first step but the results ("proof" of his healing and strength) are indescribably amazing already.
That sounds like it bumps right up against detraction and gossip. Having a lover that wants to be kept secret because they don’t want your family to know that you are seeing them. It is not love but its counterfeit to agree to such demands.
please pray for my discernement process! I am at my final high school year and choosing university in June. I want to serve God's will and need help with making the decision, please pray for me, Brothers and Sisters in Christ!
Hey Fr :) I feel attracted to an active religious order. Not one that focuses on education / service of the poor /third world ministry / diocesan work. All I know is that I feel attracted to an active religious order that focuses on preaching as a charism and a variety of ministries. What religious orders match this that I can look into? Eg: SOLT / Carmelites / Redemptorists? Is the Dominican’s charism of ‘study’ a rigid one or can dominican priests simply spend time choosing their own spiritual reading to nourish them daily? 😁 My own spirituality is: Charismatic, Marian, love adoration, love reading the lives of the saints, and my gifts would be creative ones (writing, drawing, painting, musician). I feel called to priesthood but not in a diocese or enclosed religious order. Something God keeps putting on my heart is to spread the Gospel, specifically to tell everyone how much Jesus loves them.
Best advise that helped me was this: the foundation of a “calling” is not eligibility; the foundation of a “calling” is profound and wild DESIRE. If the foundation of every calling were eligibility then every gorgeous woman should be a model and every strong and fit person should be an athlete and every short person should work for Willy Wonka 🤭😏. In the movie “Rudy” he is the last person in the world anybody would think could play football and certainly no recruiter would give him a second glance. He was short and not very strong or intimidating looking. But that didn’t discourage or crush his unshakable dream to play football for Notre Dame and well….the rest was history. He proved all of the cynics wrong!
In the lands where I hail from, male religious, the mumbaki, only one of the many names for shaman-priests, were (at least many centuries ago, before the Spanish arrived) considered to be married to the goddess Talawen. This is sometimes shortened to the name Tala, the Diwata, or Goddess, of the Stars. Also of history, of magic, and of art. This is very similar I think, to many nuns and female religious of the present day, who consider themselves to be personally married to Jesus, or to God.
Every girl rejects me, im 23 and the fact that girls reject me so much is really taking a toll on me, could it be that God is telling me that marriage is not for me?
Possibly. But who knows? Have you asked him? You're old enough now to start doing some serious soul searching, so go find a quiet place, sit down and ask him! Bring whatever you need with you, a journal, a bible, a book on discernment, whatever! He'll tell you in some way or other, it's not always loud and obvious, it could be quiet and subtle so that you have to be paying attention. But, even if you miss it the first, second, third times etc, he'll keep putting it out there until you hear him and respond (that's actually a token of a genuine vocation call, you some how keep seeing or hearing it over and over as time goes). God doesn't give up on us, even when we've given up trying, but we have to have faith in God's timing as well as in his love for us as individuals. While you're talking to God, and throughout your days, try to consider what you feel drawn to, if marriage is your calling I think you will come to know that in your heart, if being single for God out in the world is for you I think you will feel more drawn toward that, or if religious life or priesthood is your calling then I think you will sense that instead. It also doesn't hurt to try out religious life, most communities have retreats during which you're able to experience religious life for a few days or a week or so, and during which you usually also meet with directors who can assist you in discernment, not only of religious life but of other vocations such as marriage too. Additionally there are people who are trained to help people discern, they are called spiritual directors, life coaches are also able to help in a similar way. You don't need to be a religious or discerning religious life to have someone help you discern your vocation, though if you are called to religious life a spiritual director will be a required part of that journey. Finally, I have heard many talks from people who knew they were called to marriage and one thing I heard over and over from them was that once they knew this, they began to pray for their future spouse. Doing this is not only helpful for your future spouse, but for you as well. It can help you to be patient and watchful as you wait for the right one to come along. And know that Gods only designs for you are for your good, and never for your harm, even though you may go through hard or dark times. If more girls come along and either you or they decide it won't work, then place your trust in God and know that he's still got you in hand, mind, and heart. He never walks away, and he's always patient, always ready to lead you onward so long as you keep trusting in him. Every door that closes is just another one you don't need to consider anymore as you look for the right door, so to speak. In this way, even "negative" answers are still positive and lead you toward Gods will for you. That got long, sorry about that! But I thought you deserved an answer! Much of the above comes from my own experience so far of trying to follow Gods lead in my life. I totally feel for you when you said that it was starting to take a toll. So, I pray for you and hope that you soon find some clarity
@@elizabethw562 hey thank you for such a thoughtful response, honestly I dream of getting married and loving a girl in a Godly way, and having a family etc. But since I see that women are just not into me, wether thats because of looks, or personality, or whatever I just feel so bad and I dont know what to do, Ive talked to God about it but I just dont know
I would recommend reading “To Save A Thousand Souls” which is a book on discerning Diocesan Priesthood. And even if you read if, you might not be called to the priesthood. When I read it, I found myself seeing how God is calling me towards marriage. I’m thankful for the opportunity to discern my secondary vocation, because our primary vocation is a call to holiness, with a group of God seeking young men like myself. I was able to honestly discern the priesthood more after my girlfriend broke up with me about a month ago, but after going to confession, adoration, and praying, He still is calling me towards Married Life😂. One thing I would tell you though, A NOVENA IS NOT A SUPPLEMENT FOR DISCERNMENT! Its not that it’s bad, but when it’s something this big, you will probably need more than 9 days to figure out what you’re doing the rest of your life. Also don’t forget that Marriage is a two way street, both you and your future spouse will need to “click” together, and even if she checks all the boxes, she might not be the one. That’s what happened with my ex-girlfriend and I. So pray for your future spouse as well. I’m sorry if all of this is a bit confusing, I basically just said all the stuff about discernment that came to my head😂
24/06/2121 Hang in there! As a 71yo I can affirm that life is NOT easy. Consider walking in a different path whilst discerning your future. Example living a secular life for a charity, even part time, could be a vocation. The Good Lord will not reject you, if you having a prayerful love for Him and live your Faith as He lived His....even unto death.
If religious are viewed as eschatological signs. And if their vocation is a call to live as it will be when we receive the beatific vision. And if this is the reason they refrain from marriage while taking vows of celibacy. Then why would they need Holy Orders, as none Sacraments will be needed in when we are beatified.
Good video but I disagree when Fr. Pine says that priests aren't married to the Church. Celibate priests act in persona Christi Capitis and take the Church as their spouse, just as Christ did (Ephesians 5: 22-32). The idea of religious being the brides of Christ is well for female religious but not for male, as it implies a same-sex marriage. Recall that the Church is always seen as feminine (eg. Ecclesia, in Latin, a feminine word) and so it makes more sense for a priest to be espoused to the Church.
Your analogy falters on many levels. A bride of Christ is the church, the home which Christ will dwell. Religious brothers and sisters prepare their home to be lived in by Christ like any Holy lay person is called to do with their own homes. You accept the bread as the Body and Blood of Christ in the Eucharist at mass; it is like that mustard seed that grows inside which has been said to be an increase in faith. In the Consecration to St Joseph book by Fr Donald Callaway, he talks about a biological phenomenon where the dna of a child remains with a mother for life. The same works between husband giving his seed to his wife, the child formed from their Union will be with her for life in a bond that is very deep. It is why divorce or annulment is so hard to get rid of and how the Catholic Church has gone to great lengths in the last 2,000 years to make the bond between man and woman the most sacred of all. There will be hardnesses of heart like in the days of Moses, but we have to be firm and fair with our brethren who seek redress from their bonds.
There seems to be an elephant in the room that no one is addressing: the vow of celibacy. Some of us should never become monks or nuns because we wouldn't do well with being celibate our whole lives.
Matt did you club Father Pine over the forehead before this interview?? Be nicer to your guests! Maybe he walked into the corner of a cabinet right before this recording.
How can you follow God if you reject religion and reject Jesus. You’re just doing what you want and saying God is guiding you. The Church exists for a reason and Jesus came for a reason, so you can actually follow God as He wants you to. :)
Would you say to an oncologist that their direction and years of study is worthless because they have never experienced cancer? Likewise, many priests have a ton of training and wisdom in areas that they haven’t personally experienced but they can advise objectively. That’s not to say that there aren’t alternatives advisers on certain matters, like marriage, within the Church that can offer powerful support services because they share a common experience. And often priests or religious will refer people on if they feel they are not best suited to advise. That’s certainly been my experience.
Married with three kids here. I've added maybe 10-15% of practical substance to my body of knowledge on the subject since my wedding. The bulk of the previous total is derived from directing my eyes and ears, with supreme interest, at successful marriages. Even if I didn't know the full truth of marriage before - I can honestly say I haven't had to unlearn any lies.
I was going through another hard time in my life, but this miracle happened to me where I felt the thorn of the flesh and the sexual burning freed and I felt what in love is like ( I’ve never been in love with a woman ) though, I have been a dirty little boy and had a few relationships . I was never in love . That’s the key. I experienced that in love feeling towards the Holy Spirit and towards other priest and religious you want to tell everyone and be giddy about it towards God, the Holy Spirit towards other Clergy and not in a messed up way. I knew I was supposed to be a religious. I had to be a priest, but I made some decisions to harden my heart against God and I feel like some of those decisions although my heart can un harden, I have thrown that away the priest hodd (i.e. I don’t have peace with it anymore )and he wants me to be. A monk. I guess that’s but my sinful choices have done . the top honor, I’ve been able to consecrate the blood and wine. I am now demoted to Monk. I surely don’t wanna follow that. The priest, that was my spiritual Director passed away long ago; I need another very badly please someone on here see the anger in my comments and pray for me or help me
But that’s exactly the problem is the things I enjoy. My HOBBIES. I love mechanical things and I love certain historical things. I am not supposed to have anything unless I need it for survival. That is the healing in peace that I’ve come to know, but I walked away from it because I knew what it was.. I need a spiritual Director badly but all the ones that I’ve known have gotten older and passed away
Hey Fr :) I feel attracted to an active religious order. Not one that focuses on education / service of the poor /third world ministry / diocesan work. All I know is that I feel attracted to an active religious order that focuses on preaching as a charism and a variety of ministries. What religious orders match this that I can look into? Eg: SOLT / Carmelites / Redemptorists? Is the Dominican’s charism of ‘study’ a rigid one or can dominican priests simply spend time choosing their own spiritual reading to nourish them daily? 😁 My own spirituality is: Charismatic, Marian, love adoration, love reading the lives of the saints, and my gifts would be creative ones (writing, drawing, painting, musician). I feel called to priesthood but not in a diocese or enclosed religious order. Something God keeps putting on my heart is to spread the Gospel, specifically to tell everyone how much Jesus loves them.
In the lands where I hail from, male religious, the mumbaki, only one of the many names for shaman-priests, were (at least many centuries ago, before the Spanish arrived) considered to be married to the goddess Talawen. This is sometimes shortened to the name Tala, the Diwata, or Goddess, of the Stars. Also of history, of magic, and of art. This is very similar I think, to many nuns and female religious of the present day, who consider themselves to be personally married to Jesus, or to God.
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"I really want someone to talk about vocational discernment with. Just a little chat since I can't always have my spiritual director around."
- Me, a person initially attracted to a community a year ago because of their habit, yesterday.
ua-cam.com/video/kcvKS5GuWRU/v-deo.html
I'm not sure if this will get an answer, but if someone can help it'll be appreciated.
I was helped greatly by the Holy spirit in February this year and will be taking the RCIA this year. I am fully devoted, and feel blessed. Now, I have always been drawn to artistic creativity like drawing and music, but also have been writing a Sci fi novel for the past few years. I am a little fearful of the book being a wrong move (in my mind) but I really feal drawn to finishing the story in my heart.
It has certain allegorical elements to the Catholic and Abrahamic theology (without me even really knowing at the time).
I suppose what I am asking is, should I stop due to being inconsiderate of God or could I be actually fulfilling God's wish for me by continuing?
Or am I being completely egotistical in even considering that.
Very confused 😕
Me 😅❤️👏🏻
@@golem4892 I say finish it and have a priest look it over.
Fr Pine's explanation starting at like 36 seconds into the video is some of the most informative and wise advice I've ever heard.
I thought the exact same thing! So helpful
He is essentially paraphrasing Thomas Merton, who was paraphrasing Thomas Aquinas.
Love Father Pine's response to being attracted to a religious habit.
Fr. Pine speaks like an angel is directly talking through him.
He speaks that way because that's exactly what's happening!
I think I've watched this clip about 20 times. There is something incredibly refreshing about how Fr. Pine words this advice.
This Father is awesome! God bless him.
Super
If there's any video I would recommend to anybody who is discerning their vocation (including myself) then this one would be it. It's incredible how it was only 8 minutes long and yet so full of substance!
Whoa. Entire books in some of those single sentences.
Fr. Pine is seriously freaking awesome!
Hey, it's me from the past!
I'm attracted to religious life for a variety of reasons. But for me, the Habit only adds to the whole enchilada, if you will. I just totally Love Jesus, and that's my desire for religious Vocation.
This is an awesome chat! Thank you so much! God bless
This man is such a talented speaker, extremely charismatic... I've never seen a priest like that
🤯 being in a state of grace and patiently waiting… hm. Yes. There it is. How God reveals truth. I like how he talks about feeling the wood of the cross. That’s it. Raw truths are the only way I’ve ever come to know revelations. Never had a lovey dovey moment, other than witnessing the Sacraments, but I have experienced the Spirit working through me when I had no idea how to approach something-when you’re called regardless of your fear-to serve with compassion and it’s the last thing you want to do. That’s when you know you are only the instrument and all glory belongs to God.
Five BILLION thumbs up!👍🏼
Cant get enough of Fr. Pine's brilliance.
This is wonderful. I love Fr Pine.
Extremely articulate and wise.
I needed to hear this message. I'm discerning if I am being called to the Permanent Diaconate. I need to quit overthinking it and just do it. I need to serve God and the Archdiocese needs dedicated servants.
Well-timed, enlightening and trustworthy. Thank you both. Thank you, Lord. To all: have a blessed Holy Week.
I can't even describe how amazing this video is
I love this advice. The wisdom in this video can't be digested in just one watch. I struggle the most with what St. Ignatius of Loyola refers to as the enemy acting like "a licentious lover in wanting to be secret and not revealed." I hide too much of my struggles by habit but I am improving daily. It took courage to take the first step but the results ("proof" of his healing and strength) are indescribably amazing already.
That sounds like it bumps right up against detraction and gossip. Having a lover that wants to be kept secret because they don’t want your family to know that you are seeing them. It is not love but its counterfeit to agree to such demands.
Really needed this! I needed the push to do more and have a bit more discipline, to grow and know myself more. But Im starting to know enough, I think
As a man of Christ, I feel he is a big brother, a best friend, a king. Mary is my queen, my spouse.
please pray for my discernement process! I am at my final high school year and choosing university in June. I want to serve God's will and need help with making the decision, please pray for me, Brothers and Sisters in Christ!
He's brilliant!
Fr. Pine is so wise
Beautiful video thanks for sharing
Thanks much for this video.
It's really a wonderfull reflection father. And i am inspired a lot
Very helpful indeed, thank you.
Excellent topic and good advices from fr.Pine,thanks
God bless you, Fr. Pine! 3 Hail Mary's for you
Great video! Thanks Matt Fradd!
Needed this!
Whoa. Amen, Father.
Hey Fr :)
I feel attracted to an active religious order. Not one that focuses on education / service of the poor /third world ministry / diocesan work. All I know is that I feel attracted to an active religious order that focuses on preaching as a charism and a variety of ministries. What religious orders match this that I can look into?
Eg: SOLT / Carmelites / Redemptorists?
Is the Dominican’s charism of ‘study’ a rigid one or can dominican priests simply spend time choosing their own spiritual reading to nourish them daily? 😁
My own spirituality is: Charismatic, Marian, love adoration, love reading the lives of the saints, and my gifts would be creative ones (writing, drawing, painting, musician). I feel called to priesthood but not in a diocese or enclosed religious order.
Something God keeps putting on my heart is to spread the Gospel, specifically to tell everyone how much Jesus loves them.
Best advise that helped me was this: the foundation of a “calling” is not eligibility; the foundation of a “calling” is profound and wild DESIRE. If the foundation of every calling were eligibility then every gorgeous woman should be a model and every strong and fit person should be an athlete and every short person should work for Willy Wonka 🤭😏. In the movie “Rudy” he is the last person in the world anybody would think could play football and certainly no recruiter would give him a second glance. He was short and not very strong or intimidating looking. But that didn’t discourage or crush his unshakable dream to play football for Notre Dame and well….the rest was history. He proved all of the cynics wrong!
In the lands where I hail from, male religious, the mumbaki, only one of the many names for shaman-priests, were (at least many centuries ago, before the Spanish arrived) considered to be married to the goddess Talawen. This is sometimes shortened to the name Tala, the Diwata, or Goddess, of the Stars. Also of history, of magic, and of art. This is very similar I think, to many nuns and female religious of the present day, who consider themselves to be personally married to Jesus, or to God.
It's amazing.
Loved that 👍 Good advice
This was an amazing video. Divinely insightful, but now I feel that I'm far too sinful to be called to religious life
ua-cam.com/video/WyB_P9yEdzk/v-deo.html
1:52 That's literally what I'm doing right now!
Fr Pine is like the Oracle of Vocations.
Why is it that this show snd a couple of others are “not available” when I click the link??
Thank you for having Fr Pine on frequently!
great-souled
Is there any what's app group or broadcast for new clip?
Same tune to sr Madonna Bethany
Married to the lord ❤
This makes sense and makes me sick
I got rejected from a religious order and I'm scared of losing my vocation
Padre Pio chose the Capuchin order because he liked the full beard on a friar that ministered to him and his family.
God told me from childhood what my job is yet its a far from normal job lol a mystic I cant even do anything normal its impossible
THIS is the real life Athelstan!
I was drawn to the Jesuits bc of the cassocks (which are super badass), but then I realized they're the Jesuits....
Every girl rejects me, im 23 and the fact that girls reject me so much is really taking a toll on me, could it be that God is telling me that marriage is not for me?
Possibly. But who knows? Have you asked him? You're old enough now to start doing some serious soul searching, so go find a quiet place, sit down and ask him! Bring whatever you need with you, a journal, a bible, a book on discernment, whatever! He'll tell you in some way or other, it's not always loud and obvious, it could be quiet and subtle so that you have to be paying attention. But, even if you miss it the first, second, third times etc, he'll keep putting it out there until you hear him and respond (that's actually a token of a genuine vocation call, you some how keep seeing or hearing it over and over as time goes). God doesn't give up on us, even when we've given up trying, but we have to have faith in God's timing as well as in his love for us as individuals.
While you're talking to God, and throughout your days, try to consider what you feel drawn to, if marriage is your calling I think you will come to know that in your heart, if being single for God out in the world is for you I think you will feel more drawn toward that, or if religious life or priesthood is your calling then I think you will sense that instead.
It also doesn't hurt to try out religious life, most communities have retreats during which you're able to experience religious life for a few days or a week or so, and during which you usually also meet with directors who can assist you in discernment, not only of religious life but of other vocations such as marriage too. Additionally there are people who are trained to help people discern, they are called spiritual directors, life coaches are also able to help in a similar way. You don't need to be a religious or discerning religious life to have someone help you discern your vocation, though if you are called to religious life a spiritual director will be a required part of that journey.
Finally, I have heard many talks from people who knew they were called to marriage and one thing I heard over and over from them was that once they knew this, they began to pray for their future spouse. Doing this is not only helpful for your future spouse, but for you as well. It can help you to be patient and watchful as you wait for the right one to come along. And know that Gods only designs for you are for your good, and never for your harm, even though you may go through hard or dark times. If more girls come along and either you or they decide it won't work, then place your trust in God and know that he's still got you in hand, mind, and heart. He never walks away, and he's always patient, always ready to lead you onward so long as you keep trusting in him. Every door that closes is just another one you don't need to consider anymore as you look for the right door, so to speak. In this way, even "negative" answers are still positive and lead you toward Gods will for you.
That got long, sorry about that! But I thought you deserved an answer! Much of the above comes from my own experience so far of trying to follow Gods lead in my life. I totally feel for you when you said that it was starting to take a toll. So, I pray for you and hope that you soon find some clarity
@@elizabethw562 hey thank you for such a thoughtful response, honestly I dream of getting married and loving a girl in a Godly way, and having a family etc. But since I see that women are just not into me, wether thats because of looks, or personality, or whatever I just feel so bad and I dont know what to do, Ive talked to God about it but I just dont know
I would recommend reading “To Save A Thousand Souls” which is a book on discerning Diocesan Priesthood. And even if you read if, you might not be called to the priesthood. When I read it, I found myself seeing how God is calling me towards marriage. I’m thankful for the opportunity to discern my secondary vocation, because our primary vocation is a call to holiness, with a group of God seeking young men like myself. I was able to honestly discern the priesthood more after my girlfriend broke up with me about a month ago, but after going to confession, adoration, and praying, He still is calling me towards Married Life😂. One thing I would tell you though, A NOVENA IS NOT A SUPPLEMENT FOR DISCERNMENT! Its not that it’s bad, but when it’s something this big, you will probably need more than 9 days to figure out what you’re doing the rest of your life. Also don’t forget that Marriage is a two way street, both you and your future spouse will need to “click” together, and even if she checks all the boxes, she might not be the one. That’s what happened with my ex-girlfriend and I. So pray for your future spouse as well. I’m sorry if all of this is a bit confusing, I basically just said all the stuff about discernment that came to my head😂
24/06/2121 Hang in there! As a 71yo I can affirm that life is NOT easy. Consider walking in a different path whilst discerning your future. Example living a secular life for a charity, even part time, could be a vocation. The Good Lord will not reject you, if you having a prayerful love for Him and live your Faith as He lived His....even unto death.
If religious are viewed as eschatological signs. And if their vocation is a call to live as it will be when we receive the beatific vision. And if this is the reason they refrain from marriage while taking vows of celibacy. Then why would they need Holy Orders, as none Sacraments will be needed in when we are beatified.
Good video but I disagree when Fr. Pine says that priests aren't married to the Church. Celibate priests act in persona Christi Capitis and take the Church as their spouse, just as Christ did (Ephesians 5: 22-32). The idea of religious being the brides of Christ is well for female religious but not for male, as it implies a same-sex marriage. Recall that the Church is always seen as feminine (eg. Ecclesia, in Latin, a feminine word) and so it makes more sense for a priest to be espoused to the Church.
Marriage musn't be sexual, nor violate celibacy. Ex. the Blessed Mother and St Joseph's marriage. Also, as Matt said, "Read John of the Cross."
Fr. Pine did not say that.
Your analogy falters on many levels. A bride of Christ is the church, the home which Christ will dwell. Religious brothers and sisters prepare their home to be lived in by Christ like any Holy lay person is called to do with their own homes. You accept the bread as the Body and Blood of Christ in the Eucharist at mass; it is like that mustard seed that grows inside which has been said to be an increase in faith. In the Consecration to St Joseph book by Fr Donald Callaway, he talks about a biological phenomenon where the dna of a child remains with a mother for life. The same works between husband giving his seed to his wife, the child formed from their Union will be with her for life in a bond that is very deep. It is why divorce or annulment is so hard to get rid of and how the Catholic Church has gone to great lengths in the last 2,000 years to make the bond between man and woman the most sacred of all. There will be hardnesses of heart like in the days of Moses, but we have to be firm and fair with our brethren who seek redress from their bonds.
There seems to be an elephant in the room that no one is addressing: the vow of celibacy. Some of us should never become monks or nuns because we wouldn't do well with being celibate our whole lives.
Yup, this is something that actually terrifies me
Check out the Rome Boys as we discuss Vocations: ua-cam.com/video/d_1AljjCuM8/v-deo.html
Matt did you club Father Pine over the forehead before this interview?? Be nicer to your guests!
Maybe he walked into the corner of a cabinet right before this recording.
i have no relinship with jesus i have no interest in religan I only follow god
How can you follow God if you reject religion and reject Jesus. You’re just doing what you want and saying God is guiding you. The Church exists for a reason and Jesus came for a reason, so you can actually follow God as He wants you to. :)
@@user-ep8xo1od9o u follow a religan not god one of countless religans that all swear blind they r the one truth when its not
You were never married never had sex an d you can advise other people on marriage
Would you say to an oncologist that their direction and years of study is worthless because they have never experienced cancer?
Likewise, many priests have a ton of training and wisdom in areas that they haven’t personally experienced but they can advise objectively.
That’s not to say that there aren’t alternatives advisers on certain matters, like marriage, within the Church that can offer powerful support services because they share a common experience.
And often priests or religious will refer people on if they feel they are not best suited to advise. That’s certainly been my experience.
Married with three kids here. I've added maybe 10-15% of practical substance to my body of knowledge on the subject since my wedding. The bulk of the previous total is derived from directing my eyes and ears, with supreme interest, at successful marriages. Even if I didn't know the full truth of marriage before - I can honestly say I haven't had to unlearn any lies.
But you would take marriage advice from someone who's been married five times, right?
No one would take general advice from you either, Michael Gallagher, because you are so hard and unfeeling toward simple wisdom.
I was going through another hard time in my life, but this miracle happened to me where I felt the thorn of the flesh and the sexual burning freed and I felt what in love is like ( I’ve never been in love with a woman ) though, I have been a dirty little boy and had a few relationships . I was never in love . That’s the key. I experienced that in love feeling towards the Holy Spirit and towards other priest and religious you want to tell everyone and be giddy about it towards God, the Holy Spirit towards other Clergy and not in a messed up way. I knew I was supposed to be a religious. I had to be a priest, but I made some decisions to harden my heart against God and I feel like some of those decisions although my heart can un harden, I have thrown that away the priest hodd (i.e. I don’t have peace with it anymore )and he wants me to be. A monk. I guess that’s but my sinful choices have done . the top honor, I’ve been able to consecrate the blood and wine. I am now demoted to Monk. I surely don’t wanna follow that. The priest, that was my spiritual Director passed away long ago; I need another very badly please someone on here see the anger in my comments and pray for me or help me
But that’s exactly the problem is the things I enjoy. My HOBBIES. I love mechanical things and I love certain historical things. I am not supposed to have anything unless I need it for survival. That is the healing in peace that I’ve come to know, but I walked away from it because I knew what it was.. I need a spiritual Director badly but all the ones that I’ve known have gotten older and passed away
If you don’t follow your vocation, you’ve wasted 80 years give or take if you’re lucky and then go to hell. Party.🎉🎉
Hey Fr :)
I feel attracted to an active religious order. Not one that focuses on education / service of the poor /third world ministry / diocesan work. All I know is that I feel attracted to an active religious order that focuses on preaching as a charism and a variety of ministries. What religious orders match this that I can look into?
Eg: SOLT / Carmelites / Redemptorists?
Is the Dominican’s charism of ‘study’ a rigid one or can dominican priests simply spend time choosing their own spiritual reading to nourish them daily? 😁
My own spirituality is: Charismatic, Marian, love adoration, love reading the lives of the saints, and my gifts would be creative ones (writing, drawing, painting, musician). I feel called to priesthood but not in a diocese or enclosed religious order.
Something God keeps putting on my heart is to spread the Gospel, specifically to tell everyone how much Jesus loves them.
In the lands where I hail from, male religious, the mumbaki, only one of the many names for shaman-priests, were (at least many centuries ago, before the Spanish arrived) considered to be married to the goddess Talawen. This is sometimes shortened to the name Tala, the Diwata, or Goddess, of the Stars. Also of history, of magic, and of art. This is very similar I think, to many nuns and female religious of the present day, who consider themselves to be personally married to Jesus, or to God.