The True Proverbs 31 Woman
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- Опубліковано 20 вер 2024
- Jesthepilgrim wrote: "My daughter can heal with herbs, cook from scratch, plant a field and harvest it, she can crochet and knit, refurbish furniture, do accounting, make order out of chaos, troubleshoot, sew her own clothing, bake her own bread, make artisan cheese, manage children, clean a home, raise livestock and process it into food...but since she didn't go to college, I guess she isn't educated."
Here is her blog: strangersandpi...
I was a stay at home wife ans mother. I homeschooled my boys and enjoyed learning right along with them. I would never be ashamed of the life I chose to live serving the Lord and my family 😊❤
Sorry, it was suppose to say and not ans- gotta love autocorrect 😅
My 2 year old knows how to sweep, make bread, and crack an egg 😉 I’m proud of that
Praise the Lord for Momma's like you! 2?!? Your babies will be running the house in 5 years! ;)
My eight year old daughter, now nine, was once asked by a dental hygienist what she wanted to be when she grew up to which she replied: "I'm going to be a keeper at home!" My husband later told me about it and I had a huge smile on my face and my heart was beaming with joy!! I have five daughters and they are all being raised this way. And yes, JES is such a blessing!! I have been gleaning encouragement and inspiration from her for years! Her worth is far above rubies!!💗💝🎀🥰❤
Absolutely!A true blesing!
Wow! So encouraging! There is so much to learn!
Good points! For those who are saying they cant do it as they dont have the knowledge or skills and have noone to teach them. If you can read, you can borrow books from the library or do a search on the internet or youtube and learn from there. Theres really no excuse.
The higher reading skills you have,you can do anything.Everything is about understanding what is read.Even a car,airplane,airliner,ship,and even the space schuttle comes with an operators manual.You can do it.
I have an 18 month old. She LOVES to help Mommy clean the house and cook. We plan on homeschooling, and I'm excited to learn right along with her. She is so smart, already!! I pray she lives a life that glorifies the Lord.
Men also need those skills, as these are life skills. Life happens, and men might need to raise their kids alone. Women do need an education, as she may need to work for a bit. These aren’t gendered skills, but rather life skills. Everyone needs to eat and care for themselves.
Amen!
Women need to be great readers and good at math. They don’t need a feminist, humanist, godless higher education that puts them into a mountain of debt..
@@LoriAlexander1980 I worked my own way through undergrad and graduate school. I enjoyed a long professional career and have been happily married for 32 years. We raised two great kids, who are now successful adults. I have retired with a generous pension and know that I can support myself should something happen to my husband. Young women are doing themselves a great disservice by thinking they can rely on a man to take care of them and support them indefinitely. Stuff happens and having an education or job training is vital. If you work hard in high school, you can earn scholarships for college expenses or other post-secondary education. Feminism advocates that society stops prioritizing the male point of view and treating women unjustly. Too bad you don't understand that.
@@LoriAlexander1980 but I am terrible at math.
@@LoriAlexander1980 Or other idleness.
My three year old always wants to help in the kitchen. It’s so sweet. She loves to pretend to be me! It’s such a sobering responsibility knowing little eyes are always on us and also such a blessing. She said she wants to be a mommy and have a huge van 😂 it just warms my heart. Ironically, I write this as I’m taking a little rest and letting the kids watch a Christian cartoon 😬 I’m in my first trimester with our third and needed a little break! Bless you Ms. Lori- thank you for your wisdom!
My little granddaughters LOVE helping me. I am always telling them how good it is to work hard in the home and to do it cheerfully, to do it with a thankful heart. It's so good to teach them from a young age to love and enjoy homemaking.
Lori, thank you so much for sharing this. As I was watching your video I was crocheting, and my four-year-old daughter said to me; "Mama, you do beautiful mom stuff!"She also expressed a desire to "cook food" and "yarn" when she's a grown-up. I'm sure she was half-listening to you as she was painting with watercolors, and I hope the young lady described in your video is exactly what she strives to be.
Yes agree 100. Now my daughter has expressed a desire to do something with in the hairstylist world. So she may go to hair school, but I definitely want her to know how to manage her home first and foremost.
Amazing. Amen. Titus 2:1-5.
I went to college because honestly I was forced to go by my parents. Because they wanted me to have the more opportunities than they ever did. Looking back now, I'm glad I did. I love my job, and I am able to give my children more than I ever had when I was their age. Now I do agree that college can be overrated and it isn't for everyone. And also that so many people get degrees that will never land them a job.
What can you give your children that you never had? Material blessings are fleeting. The true blessings in life are a loving family.
@@LoriAlexander1980 so because I work full time means I don't love my family? I work because I love my family. If I stayed home and relied on my husband's income to pay all of our bills we would be living on the street. I really think you are on point about marriage 100% of the time, but as far as believing all women should stay home is not ideal in 2021. Especially with the high inflation going on. Some families just simply cannot afford it .
@@LoriAlexander1980 so why didn't you stay home with your kids when they were little?
You ask a lot of women, but its all stuff you didn't do yourself.
That Woman in Proverbs 31 does business or enterprise too aside from being a home maker.
@@LoriAlexander1980You need to repent.
You know it’s not a very pretty sign when commercial centers are packed with restaurants which shows lack of women willing to produce quality meals.
Ironically despite more eating out compared to decades ago, kitchens on average are actually larger!
Amen!
Feminism is born of the Jezabel spirit.
@@YourPartnerInCrime read the bible, or google it.
Guess that means I’m a jezabel. Me and all the other sane people who don’t buy this bullshit are gonna go out and enjoy our day.
@@YourPartnerInCrime why are you thanking him for not answering your question and being rude? Your multiple responses to Mike are an example of why what Lori teaches about female submission can so easily lead to abuse.
@@Claire-ui8gr you’re 100% right!
This woman of valor has more 🏀🏀 than most beta pastors out there.
Should we live at our parents house until we find a husband I’m assuming right? What if we don’t find a husband how would we live? Asking because I’m working on sewing now but I worry on what the Christian step would be if no husband comes!:)
Go to God humbly and ask him what you should do. Ask him to lead you plainly. These big questions concerning your life need to be brought before your creator first and foremost.
So true! College was one of my greatest regrets. I came out with a set of skills that I’m not using and lots of debt. Life skills and a relationship with Yah is much more important and it doesn’t get you in debt.
Thank you for teaching women this. May Yahweh bless you!
Also, as a single man that believes in the Bible wholly. It’s hard to find proverb 31 women. Now women just want to be independent and are not compassionate or helpful. And they keep seeking other things.
Blame feminism on all of this. It was a wicked movement from the beginning.
I hate how gossip has become popular even among man ,maybe I shouldn’t call them man lol
I agree with your comments but you put down young women who choose to go to college. My daughter is single and a middle and high school music teacher. She influences young people every day. And what if the “right man” doesn’t come along for her? She is learning to be independent. This does not detract from her faith.
What about buying property? Trading? Making clothes and selling them? It sounds like she did work in the community as well. I’m genuinely interested and seeking. But no one addresses these verses.
All I know is that if you're not going to school you can end up alone with kids if the man is abusive and terrible and all you'll know how to do is bake. There are good Christian colleges!
How can you honestly say that is the proverbs woman when the Bible says she trades in the market and makes great money from it for her to go purchase her own land. You have to know it says that and for some reason are knowingly leaving it out.
Can you talk about how you were sick when your children were young and how you go through that?
Here’s a video I made on this topic:
ua-cam.com/video/JesuJj7UZes/v-deo.html
Thank you Lori for this!
I have a question. If the Daughter gets no education how can they teach their children and their children's, children etc. Would not the future generations just become less and less educated?
By no education, are you speaking about college? Mothers can teach their daughters to read and do math. Then those daughters can learn anything they want!
@@LoriAlexander1980 it's really weird how men go to college less than women so much so that there is actually a gender imbalance in colleges.
I think the reason is men have a rational fear of drowning in debt for something precarious and doesn't gaurentee them anything and would rather just do trades and gain experience in the real world to make themselves have value.
Amen Lori. Thank you for speaking truth !
College is not a requirement to be smart. I did go to college, I have a masters of fine arts. I freelance in commercial illustration. I have zero debit. I paid my tuition without loans because I’m well off. I don’t need to work but I do because I am damn good at my job. I pay someone to do the housework. I don’t want children. I live in 2021 and can do whatever I please. Does that make me wrong? Nope. Evil? Nope. Does it piss off a sky deity? Nope. I live my absolute best life. I’m not a feminist either but do believe in the reality that if someone wants to do something then they should go for it. Regardless of the contents of their pants. If a dude wants me to be a domestic serf then he can go elsewhere. Can’t wonder if the grass is greener if you never show other grass exists. Keep ‘em shackled to the stove and dumb so they don’t back talk. What a wonderful thing to teach children.
Must be hard for you to keep a guy around huh?
@@ImScoobert nope. Pretty easy actually. Many guys are decent reasonable people that aren’t threatened by a female that’s got her life together. What you trying to compensate for??
I teach biblical womanhood to godly women who love the Lord and His ways. It doesn’t sound like it’s something you’re interested in.
Loved your comment!
I am a true believer that if a woman wants to be a housewife, that’s fine and it is as admirable as going to college to get a degree.
It all depends on that woman’s interests and life goals.
The things is, you must find a partner who thinks like you. Someone who supports whatever you want to do. Because then comes the trouble, when the man wants to forbid his partner to work. So folks, please find someone who is on the same page as you.
Greetings!
That "sky deity" you mock seems to live in your head rent free if you have to insert yourself into Christian women's communities and channels just to spout this nonsense.
Education need to be free for everyone not like you have.
Nothing is free in life.
Thank you so much for all of the wisdom you share. Your content has been a blessing to me. I have a 19 month old that I’d like to start on a homeschool curriculum. I’ve looked into sonlight’s curriculum and it doesn’t appear that they have packages for children under 3. Can you provide some guidance for starting a young toddler on a curriculum?
Let your child be a child! Read to them often when they are young. Let them play and move. They don't have the fine motor skills for writing. Begin teaching them when they are five or six.
@@LoriAlexander1980 thank you so much! God bless you!
You might appreciate the book titled Before Five in a Row by Jane Claire Lambert.
Where do we start?
You use the word career because you know the word career is not used in the Bible. There was no careers in the Bible like what we have but woman did work outside the home in the Bible.
My sons would love to find a wife like is described by Jess. Wish we lived near her.
Nice video Lori
I wish I’d learned these wonderful and splendid things whin I was a child, I’m 28 now so sadly its to late for me and I’mblind so it would be hard even tho I’d love to do it, I feel like such a disgrace as a woman.
You can still be a godly woman without doing all of these things. Love others. Do what you can for them. Speak truth in love! You can still have a huge influence for God’s Kingdom on others.
Can I do a list like this, ma’am?
@@LoriAlexander1980 I am 29 and blind. I am single, but live at home. I do not live in a Christian home though.
Hi Rachel. I am blind, too.
@@kaylajames9334 oh wow, rachel isn’t my real name, I’m using a pretend name so I won’t get mocked for my christian beliefs, please don’t think badly of me now that you know this about me.
@@LoriAlexander1980 thank you so much, my real name is hailey Hoopes, I only use the name you see here because I don’t want to be mocked for my christian beliefs, please don’t think badly of me now that you know this about me, I’m the same young lady who follows you on facebook.
Why oh why on Eartg would anybody listen to you!?!
Yeah, I wondered this at first too, but now I know. Many have tasted of the bitter fruit of feminism and no longer want it. They want God’s will for their lives instead!
because she has good values and is a respectable spiritual guide for young women
@@LoriAlexander1980 so you're representing God's will? Pretty sure the bible says woman aren't allowed to do that...
@@LoriAlexander1980 You, your mom, you daughters and nieces all benefit from the work of feminists, whether or not you acknowledge it. I
@@Liv-cd5wc women are allowed to teach other women as well as children. The bible says so but women are not to have authority over a man.