Don’t Get Married Before Watching This! - Tips to Save Years & Your Mental Health!
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- Опубліковано 16 кві 2024
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Stay Alive,dear brother. Love from Bengal 🇧🇩
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I think videos like this focus on a very important topic but I think they miss the most important point. Tawheed and belief in Allah first. Love is nothing if it is not for Allah. So a husband grows to love a wife because of his love for Allah and a wife grows to love her husband because of her love for Allah, likewise with other relations and aspects in life. Any other perspectives might be 100% beneficial in this life and possibly to live happily but the benefit and happiness stops in this life if it is not done for Allah. Many many people got married because of love and many reasons but forgot to marry for the sake of Allah.
Both the spouses may be religious but still not suitable for each other. It’s one of the factor but not the whole reason.
you think that people who get married 'for the sake of Allah' have a good healthy marriage just because their intention is (seemingly) 'for Allah'? boy aren't you wrong lol
the best way is to balance both 🤷
trust me, you can find manyyyyyy marriages that start with 'for the sake of Allah' but it's an ugly marriage. most of them (based on my observation) do not get a divorce because they think it's wrong to do so because their intention is 'for the sake of Allah'🤷 and they suffer in a marriage that's intent for Allah. and they create the next troubled generation 🤷 which more likely are gonna do alll the things that are totally opposite of what their parents are doing. and they definitely gonna view God not in a good way and they will have a hard time to associate love/healthy marriage with God 🤷
@@sarahnovella4971i think what the brother meant by "the sake of Allah" means marrying someone because their Deen and character is pleasing to them, and that they want to raise righteous kids, rather than merely marrying for the sake of keeping oneself chaste. Because marriage is not an obligation, unless one fears zina for himself. So loving for the sake of Allah is marrying someone who reminds you of Allah, and with whom you both can grow closer to Allah and closer to each other as well.
@@sarahnovella4971Actually you didn't understand
May Allah bless our brothers and sisters of ummah with Jannah ❤
Aameen summa Aameen ❤
Married is truly a test of human character especially for the leader.
The last question summed up a lot. Im someone who grew up in a household where it was said that my parents are together just cause of me and my brother and it made me hate myself even more. I would have better left with my mother than my father abusing her.
Saying this, as I'm almost an adult now, I understand the importance of marriage but I also understand the importance of divorce too. Sometimes distance makes things tolerable. Maybe the parents coparenting the child without staying together can be a lot better than stucked in a toxic marriage.
And to each and every problem of life, there needs to be personal values and morals which comes from a faith, I believe, or else it's random cultural and psychologically things someone puts together along the line. Thus it shows the importance of practicing our faith and learning more about Allah's words and how our prophet (pbuh) dealt with situations. I've been watching this channel for more than a year now and I've never commented before but this video made me comment about a bunch of things. May Allah swt reward you guys for the efforts you're putting into spread islam and islamic knowledge+ values. Jazakallahu khairan 🌷
You are a good person. To see a miracle just look in the mirror as you will see someone good despite all that has happened.
@@xiaocassy9724 Good people see good in others. I'm just a human who have sins and flaws, I can say I'm trying to do good for the sake of Allah or else I'm bad according to lot of people too.
You're so kind to say that!!
MashAllah!
Let's keep this halal and speak to her baba, if you want to proceed.
Agree 💯
Pray for me, especially for nikah 😢
May Allah SWT provide you righteous wife
Jazakallah khair ❤
آمين @@mdarshad9458
They know how and what to give to our generation for betterment.... ❤
Light on the Tongue,
Heavy on the Scale (Dhikr)
Prophet Muhammad(ﷺ) Said:
The One Who Say
سُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ وَبِحَمْدِهِ، سُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ العَظِيم
“Subhan-Allahi wa bihamdihi, Subhan-Allahil-Azim”
100 Times
No One Will Be Better Than Him On The Day of Judgement Except Someone Who Said It More Than Him'
[Sahih al Bukhari 6682]
Also in [Sahih Muslim]
Say It At Least 100 Times During The Day
While You'Re Fasting
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Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
start weed!! speaking from personal trauma🚬🍁
And you started an online advertising agency to get rid of the thoughts of her? 😂
Brother Ahmed is not only a Sheikh but also best counseling in marriage!
Jazakallahu khairan 🤝
Don't Skip Do This ❤
Prophet Mohammad (ﷺ) Said
Whoever fasts the month of Ramadan and then follows it with six days of fasting in the month of Shawwal, it will be as if he had fasted for a year.”
Sahih Muslim, 1164) or (2745)
How to fast in Shawwal
1 You can fasted immediately after Eid it's fine.
2 You can fasted them separately still fine.
3 You can fasted them on Monday, Thursday .( Also it's sunnah)
4 You can fast them anytime in Shawwal.
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My brothers and sisters, build yourself up, work on yourself, increase your knowledge and actions, if you were alone, stranded in a forest, who would you be?
As an engineering enthusiast, i really loved the atomic bomb and nuclear energy analogy
It fits perfectly
I would ove to show this video to my daughter when she is of age for Nikah! very well articulated. Keep this video forever
I didn't know, I need this rn.
I just started a relationship like 3 days ago, reunited with old friend, and then yea, we talked, discussed, and found something in each other. We decided to get serious, marriage.
And I'm still learning how to understand myself better, improving before get married. Both of us needs more time to developing ourselves, to be good.
And for that, I trust him. We will see if this can work out. Cause I still don't know the future.
All I can do are praying and improving for a better future.
Thank you for this video, it opened my eyes.
This 20 minute video has more knowledge than a 3 hour podcast. jazakAllah ❤
There is a misconception that women never forget the past. But in reality this a human trait not only in women
Men don't forget too, they keep everything hidden until there is a dispute...tried it, lived it.
This is incredible stuff on one of the most important issues, marriage!!
Make this viral. Everyone should watch this before getting married. Really helpful.
For married couples as well.
Lots of thanks from Kashmir❤
This Man is just mashallah 🥰 and well gifted 😊we need knowledgeable people like you in our society 😢Thank you Brother . May Allah bless you and your family ❤keep sharing your knowledge with us ❤
Wow this is such a good video, very thoughtful about all situations by not even taking anyone’s side, very logic and helpful, since my marriage already ended few years ago, by now I figured it slowly that it wasn’t a healthy marriage from the day one to begin with, and when i noticed my poor children suffering with our daily dramas and struggles then ending it was the only way, I’ll definitely recommend this video to my ppl specially to my kids and I’ll also keep in mind how to behave as a mother and mother in-low with my kids.
Thank you guys, your videos are always very helpful 🫴🏼💐
May Allah swt reward you all with good health in your life and happiness of this and the next world
Thank you. May Allah reward you
This is very important advice
Watching you from Somalia🇸🇴
Very realistic and Islamic approach to a topic many of us face in life but know absolutely nothing about.
One simple advice; never take anything for granted. Once you lose something/someone you'll get to know the value. Have respect evem if you disagree to an extreme extent. Regret is the worst thing at the end of it.
MashaAllah. Learned a lot of things. It was a very important topic. May Allah accept your efforts.
Me watching this when it's just 3 days for my marriage insha Allah
MashaAllah. May Allah make it a source of barakah for you. Any time you face a difficult in communication, think of this:
Soft words soften the hardest or hearts and harsh words harden the softest of hearts.
Then you should ask your spouse to watch this before nikah
May Allah bless your marriage.
May Allah bless your marriage Ameen
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As a woman, this video is so real. This man knows very well what makes the marriage work even from the woman's side. If you want your wife to love you, you need to show her your love first. Like a mirror or in Al-Baqarah: a garment for you as you are for them. No red pills. Just Islamic, rational, emotional and realistic at the same time at the same time. Not married but I have seen marriages and notices the patterns like the man said.
I DON'T HAVE WIFE!
MAY ALLAH GIVE ME GOOD WIFE🤲🤲🤲🤲
Allahuma Ameeen
But are searching though
MashaAllah this brother talks only wisdom . BaarakAllahu
May Allah bless you all in both dunyas,thank you very much
Thank you for this. Really insightful. May Allah bless you.
Such beneficial advices,Allahumma barik brother.
An amazing video. Masha Allah, Allah bless this brother
Great video and very good clarified answers and you're giving clarifying examples as well 😃😃great job
MasyaAllah..
Jazakumullah khairan katsira ❤
Literally every single question was perfectly answered ☺️
Make this video viral!
Everyone should watch this before getting married💍
Masyaa allah! The explanations are so succinct and accurate! Justice is so important in marriage, and the rules of engagement as well. At the end, we want to please Allah and uphold Justice.
Brilliant video ....that has changed my mind set totally
I'm really lucky to hear this advice before marriage
Very useful video from a 22 years old man 😍Jazaum allah khir
Very fruitful video for unmarried and married people equally.❤
Truly good and insightful advice. Insha Allah those preparing for marriage should listen and benefit.
Everyone should watch this before getting married 💍
In 25 minutes you gave concrete answers to a lot of problem which would need a 6 months couple therapy, great video !
Yeah ❤
Practically informative. Thanks
No matter what you do she will always bring up anything that you did that hurt her even the smallest incidents.
What you said are very true including the last one which leads to a never ending or repetitive cycle until the children stop it either by not choosing to live by the same pattern of parents or by not getting married. It’s lucky to get a chance and live a different life while raised in a toxic and abusive environment. It’s more probable that the children from abusive homes will suffer in life.
It’s painful that the children go through the abuse from parents and then suffer in life as well later on.
Masha'Allah Tabarakallah. Very good explanation
Good advices mashaAllah 👍
good work brother thank you ❤
Thank you very much for your efforts and guidance.
Me and my soon ex- husband to be and I have been talking about our ongoing divorce. This video is a gem to all singles out there, so solve the problem during engagement period before marrying someone. I would say that in this video, 100% of my marriage issues are mentioned.
If a woman keeps bringing up a past event, its because the underlying sentiment in the action has come up again packaged in a different form. Its not about the event itself, but the underlying sentiment expressed showing how you view your wife, whether that be done conciously or unconciously.
make duaa for me that Allah will send me a good husband who is sensitive and not neglecting
Beautiful wisdom shared, every person should watch this before marrying.
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Way back then, I always heard this word from my parents': "We're married when we're 24". To this day, the scale of success around here is at what age you're getting married, the earlier the better. Like, it's a race against time and if I can't get married at the designated age, then I'll be considered a failure to both community and family. But, day after day and upon looking towards how I mostly react to something with anger during that age, I feel like it's a sign that told me I'm not emotionally stable yet
May Allah bless you with a heart that can tolerate
Saving this vdo i will see before going to marry ❤
His wife is so lucky ma sha Allah
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صلو على سيدنا محمد صل الله عليه وسلم
Mashallah, Jajakallaho Khair
Alhamdulilah great advice
جزاكم الله خير ❤
Very nice analogy ❤❤
I agree with you 100% after 28 years of marriage
🎉This video is GOLD 👑 for the couples who are about to marry 8:23
Beautiful advice ❤❤
Wonderful content ..very beneficial ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
So much love for this video
Marriage is risky but at the same time not marrying can also be full of regrets 😅
I haven't watched it but I guarantee you After watching I would still say "JUST DON'T GET MARRIED "😊😊
Ilm+Hikmah
Allhumma barik.
A big love from Manipur Muslim India❤❤
I too can talk hours about how to have the best marriage. But when I try in real live with my wife, she sucks the energy out of my soul. The problem is woman don't respect rules and agreements. They say yes and do no and then discust about your reaction, not about their wrongdoing.
Jzk khair, please do VoiceOver in Urdu if possible we really need it, may Allah accept your efforts :)
Assalamualaikum. This video and the previous one helped me a lot. I noticed the subtitle is only English though. I wondered if it is possible to translate to other languages as well?
For example there's Towards Eternity Indonesia 🇮🇩 but not many videos are translated including this one.
Plzz add question segments in your video so we can jump to our interest
Thanks
very knowledgable and wise speaker 👏🏻
Yeah brother
well said.❤❤❤
Brother your such content is stoping me from being married 😅😅😅😅just for fun 😂
Jazakallah Khairan Brother 💝
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Great job 👍
Be patient is the key that will solve all problems, at least thats working for me
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May Allah Guide my wife towards me very soon ,i luv you.....bt i don't knw where r you this time....still unmarried 🤔
May Allah grant u a pious wife
@@fridawsbamba1641 Ameen Thnku
My husband is an amazing man I just wish he would talk about problems/marriage/feelings .......
I like this channel very well ❤❤❤
I also like brother ❤
Hope every body get perfect partner ❤💫
It’s more of like after marriage interview than before marriage
Watching From Kolkata
Watching from Pakistan
Masha Allah you are very knowledgeable
100%
I am that "harmed" child, if only we can turn back time I would prefer a divorced, happy parents.
Rabbana hablana min azwajina wadzuriyyatinna qurrata a'yun waj al na lil muttaqin na imama.
This was the absoluteelly wis3s things I heard of relationships so far. Wish all men realised what the man realised. Could you plzz make a video with same content for men who only speaks arabic??
I think is real
Love this channel
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You guys should call Nauman khan on stage
Assalamu aleykum Brothers. Thank you for the great video. I feel like I am really in need of such videos about marriage and life of muslim family. I am also interested in videos that describe the concept of a man and woman according to the Quran and sunnah of Prophet (p.b.h). That might help me as a man to understand how to measure myself as a good man and how to measure my future wife as a good woman.
Seems like a never ending war...💥💥💥💥💣
Masha Allah, this was a beneficial video. I have a personal question, Is it advised to get engaged before marriage?
Listening and apologizing then just saying you won’t do it again is just words. It’s better than brushing it off, but also won’t last long. Where trust is broken, temporary empathy and words only isn’t enough. Don’t go after a feminine woman just to require the masculine from her, because the masculine would ‘just get over it’ without any resolution, discussion or true change.