Coming Out To My Twin Brother
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- Опубліковано 3 лип 2014
- My brother and I finally came out of the closet to eachother and we made a video about it! Hope you like it and be sure to subscribe and comment if you do!
More videos to come!
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Unfortunately Coming Out has not always a positive outcome. So the most important rule for Coming Out is: Come out when you are ready and when you have ressources like friends or places where you are safe in the case of extremely bad reactions.
absolutely man!
But you say in this video to closeted young gay people "If you are in the closet watching this and want to tell someone tell them" and "It gets so much better" and "You never regret it" and "It's never a bad thing" and "It's always good outcome, always positive" and "people are just accepting". Why the hell do you say things like that? Maybe in the majority of Coming Outs this will be the case, but there are also numerous cases in which it will get worse, in which some young gay people may regret it, in which it was a bad thing with a bad, negative outcome when the people they came out to don't accept it. There is a reason why there are many homeless gay teens, you know? So it is not good to tell folks out there that it always would have a good outcome. Especially when parents are religious it might go very bad for gay teens coming out to their parents. I think you both say that it always would have a good outcome, because you both personally made this experience. But it is not good to conclude that it always would have a positive outcome. Just because your parents were accepting it doesn't mean that there are bad parents in this world which would throw out their children if they come out as gay. And if parents react negatively, you need some place away from your parents where you can live. At least make sure that you have this place if you plan to come out and if you are not sure about your parents reaction. Of course, if you already moved out of your parents home and if you are financially independet from them, there might be nothing to fear when coming out, because even in case your parents do not accept you, you have your own place and you are safe financially. I personally don't have contact with my parents anymore, because when they found out that I am gay, my father took a document of mine with which he was able to take all my money from my bank account secretly. I found out some time later, and of course I was shocked and of course I sued him and it went up to court and I got the money back which was a horrible time for me. I don't consider my biological parents to be my social parents anymore. They aren't part of my social family and I don't want to have contact with them anymore. Parents are not always good and accepting.
So true!
+Stefan Kaiser SH!T THATS LONG
This is so important. I took a risk on coming out and my mom was okay but she is definitely still homophobic and even said if I had a gay friend (almost all of them actually) she wouldn't let me have them over.
I could just imagine them sharing a computer and being like "that's not MY gay porn wdf"
Lol.... "I'm not into bears!" hahah
vidhead85 I just died from both of you! Lol
vidhead85
Lmfaooo
LMAOOOOOOO
That's how I knew, my little brother is so not gay... And I am...
I spent half the video guessing which twin was gay and which was straight...and then you're like "I'm gay"..."and I'm gay too"
haha you guys are so adorable :)
Artime Silk Artime Silk No way... I was doing that same thing... And I was going back and forth watching like a hawk and using all the clues they dropped... Why did I suspect of them both because my gut was telling me... They're both gay... I was like well this guy looks like the sensitive type with big beautiful long hair and glasses so u know he's smart but then this guy is super cute and he looks like he takes very good care of that facial hair like it looks perfect maybe too perfect 😉😉... Little did I know my gut was telling... Hey they're both gay dummy... And that Grndr tone is so unique, if u hear that tone then u know they're either gay, bi or questioning... I wanna take the guy on the right on a date... That Adam's apple is sexy, that facial hair is hot and this guy is so handsome
For a couple of seconds I thought that black haired guy was gay and then a few seconds later I thought no they both off
The chance for fraternal twins having the same sexuality is 25% and for identical twins 50%, so sexual orientation is indeed genetical or rather epigenetical (look it up).
It is what it is
I did look it up, but didn't really find those statistics... Where did you get that from?
I cant really remember.... I'll think about it and write back if it comes to my mind
+Xaldin Os .... 1 year later...
+Xaldin Os Who cares?
I can relate. I came out to my twin brother when I was 16. He's straight and I'm gay, and it was one of the most terrifying things I've ever done.
We had bunk beds, and one night I decided randomly that, after 16 years, it was time. I just word vomited that fateful phrase. He said, "I know. I've always known. Shut up and go to sleep."
It was terrifying, but God was is nice that someone knew. Twins know. Twins always know. Haha.
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Fares / Faaris Akremi haha that’s so sweet
Such a brother thing to say "now shut up and go to sleep"
i’m too scared to tell my twin sister that i’m bi but i’m sure she knows already lol
My little one brother is straight and i am not, I wonder how would he react when I'll tell him
"What's that?"
"Candy Crush"
Priceless!!!
Hahaha. I died the second the Grindr "Bdloop!" went off.
You kids are the greatest. I am 57 and wish I had role models like you as a much younger boy/man. My husband of 6 months and I are together for over 25 years now. We as a people, somehow set apart, have made great strides since Stonewall 1969. Kudos and keep up the great work of educating the masses.
I also have a twin...a twister (twin sister) who was born 59 seconds after me. She was breach and the doc pulled her out by her feet. My umbilical cord was wrapped around her throat. The love continues to this day.
I like how the curly hair guy answered a question with just a burp lol
Candy crush omg😂😂
😂fr
Yeah😂
Wow, you guys don't look at all alike. I wouldn't even think you are related but that's nature.
Just womb mates huh?
:D
They're fraternal so...
I have a fraternal twin too, and shes amazing
Kevin Lew womb mates
Kevin Lew i think they look alike... Not identical but If u look closely
:D
It's hard to find funny youtubers with actual acting skills, I loved the scenes and the video overall! Subscribed :D
OMG I saw your coming out video to your parents and I wasn't going to move on from there...BUT so glad I didnt. This video was hilarious and the reenactment scenes were great! Great job guys.
Dont tell your viewers that people are always accepting.
BUT IT DOES GET BETTER
+thelostinspaceguy
Exactly. If your parents, friends, siblings, or anyone you are thinking of coming out to are gay bashers, violent, or you are pretty sure they'll be disappointed in a very negative way, don't say anything until you know you'll be safe-ie have a place to go, or a supportive group with you. Use gut instinct and always have a plan B for if things get ugly.
About *it does get better* it doesn't get better you do.
you get better, and your siuations get better, and the people around you get better at supporting you.
Adam, you're so UMFF!!!!
great camera chemistry...I like how you rolled with it and stayed on it with minimal editing, working through your mission. That makes it more genuine and appealing. VERY attractive siblings! And funnnnnnnnay too! I'd tap dat. LOL
not fair! you both are good looking!
Hehe ikr!
You both are very cute! It is great that you are close to each other. That bond will see you through good and bad times! Thanks for sharing!
This is great! You guys are setting a bar that society needs to take note of. It IS okay and it DOES get better. You really do find out who your friends really are. My parents knew before I told them (actually my brother told them but that's another story!). Good job and keep it up!
At first I wasn't sure if this video was a joke or now. You two don't even look like brothers, yet alone twins. But great video. It's great to have that connection with someone and have a close friend at all times. I wish I was a twin.
You guys are perfect !!! je suis tellement contente de vous avoir trouvé !!! you make my days !!! Love ya, see ya, byyy !!!
i think i sort of made my guy friend come out to me , i was like.. (in half-joking tone) so you had any girlfriends? ... any boyfriends? he was like.. yeah (to the second one) , i was at first afraid to broach the subject but we;d known each other quite some time lalready, honestly for me its no big deal at all. But i was afraid i made him feel 'put on the spot', (maybe he was and i shouldn't have asked that ,just in case it was too soon), but he did say it lifted a weight off his shoulders . i wanna show my support and say that its absolutely alright, that i still wanna play music with him, and i've never judged him. i wanna contribute to an environment where he feels safe, and not obliged to hide things, or be anything other than he is. it feels great to do that for someone .
i think if you are accepting of your loved one being gay , you could say things to make them feel you;ll care for them no matter what , maybe it'll make them feel more ready to come out to you
You shouldn't think that you pressured him. It looks to me that he wanted to tell you, and couldn't find the right chance, until you made that joke and left an open window for him to come out. Coming out is very difficult, so people usually do it only when they're ready
I agree with anokomfan. He wouldn't come out if he didn't want to. A couple of weeks ago in a bar, a colleague asked me a simpler version of the same question "Do you have girlfriend?boyfriend?" . I just replied: "am not in a relationship at the moment", which is true. Still, I believe it was non of her business.
You two are too cute!! ... A delightful story!
I absolutely LOVE you guys!!
Hahahahaha, awesome video!! Love all the subtle jokes :D
This is just too funny, in a good way. And the sister part, man, that had me cracking up. Great video guys!! Have a great day! :-)
That was a good first video! Nice job! And congrats on coming out to each other!
You two guys are just great!!!
I thought you guys would have more subscribers! You're great!
Luke is sooo cute! Omg I think I'm in love hahahhahahah!! I'm in love with the hair!!!
OMG! I just saw all you're videos, amazing guys!
The Grindr alert, lol! GREAT VIDEO!!
Awesomely cool! Both gorgeous guys each on its own way. Loved the "I'm watching sports" part lol
When I first started watching this video, I was like - "oooh, which one is the gay one? Which one came out to the other?" and after about 22 seconds in I concluded that it is definitely the curly-haired one. I didn't realise that this would be a case of them BOTH being gay. After the conversation started though - I guessed it before they said it.
I am a twin (also fraternal - I am a guy who has a twin sister: I'm 18 minutes older) and we aren't that "twinny" or close sadly, not like this. I wish we were closer. My main question to you both is - how old are you? Only one of you needs to reply! :P
Takeme Rightnow i always wished to have a twin. i wanted someone to be super close with. to have fun like everyone else had. but sadly i'm still trying to find that one guy/girl who's going to be my best friend.
You guys seriously look like identical twins but with different skin tones and hair. The bone structure is the same tho... weird :)
Yeah, but they’re fraternal.
ps to all these people questioning, I want to school with fraternal twins. One was blonde with light skin, the other dark hair and skin.
I love all the diversity in the world, it's truly amazing.
Hey, thanks guys. I don't know how I got to your video, but I'm glad I watched it. Would not have thought that you two were twins. Oh, man!
Anyways, cool vlog. Keep them coming, guys. You guys could give your audience quite an interesting & unique perspective. Maybe think of doing Q&A's. Or 'day-in-the-life-of' is always interesting too. Ok, take care. Until next time ...
"Peace"
keep your blooper-type stuff in there! LOL! Fun and funny. Also, what you're doing is important. Thanks for this!
I wanna see more! Great video guys!
Thanks!!
"Is it recording?"
*buuuuuurp*
...this is the first video I'm watching and you have already gained a new subscriber :D
I am so glad to find you two. You guys are so cute and funny!! You two are AWESOME TWINS!!
You're both beautiful, cute, adorable, gorgeous, and cuddly. You're both very strong, good, and noble. I love your channel!!
The bandana twin looks waayy cool :)
This is just great, to be honest. Nice job guys!
My first watch vid of you guys and you guys are awesome!
You guys are my new favorite rabbit hole on the interwebz. Favorites: "watching sports" "candy crush." I think the belch should be spontaneously included in every UA-cam clip!
Awesome video guys. You seem like you really have fun with each other and that is great. Keep making the videos I think you have a future with youtube.
Big Dave
Boys, you NEED to make more vids. They’re awesome!
I really hope you guys make more and ignore all the comment trolls! Some people just want to sent hate because they have nothing better to do,
You guys are awesome and funny cant wait to see more...=]
You guys make a hillarious comedy duo! Thanks
Both so different,,,,,,Both so GORGEOUS...
You guys are awesome. I wish I had had friends like you when I was in my 20s. I hope my kids grow up to be just like you! :)
You two are adorable, and yes, I subscribed! Really amazing how you both are gay. I never would've guessed in a million years, which is awesome! Now, I gotta catch up to your videos. Thanks for making this channel. It's so cool to have guys like you two in the youtube community.
You guys are awesome! I'm absolutely confident you will change lives- WooHoo!
Really like the video bring back memories
Can i just say you guys are AMAZING! Keep up the good work, ur funny and else! :P Cheers from Southamerica
The grindr thing was so funny! :)) lol you guys are awesoooome I hope you get twin boyfriends toooo :)
I have 2 siblings who are twins, one is tall and blond with blue eyes and the other shorter with brown eyes and hair. They don't look alike. It's normal and doesn't mean that they aren't twins.
Wow, for the first part of the video I couldn't decide who I'd prefer to be the one coming out, you are both so adorable. Then when you both came out, all my youtube Christmases came at once.
Wow, this is an incredible storie, I love it! :P
Haha you guys are too cute. New subscriber here. I'm hitting refresh until a new vid pops up lol
You guys are awesome! Subscribed! :)
that was so funny when the twin said, " see ya' sista " I just died laughing .... great video dudes :-)
awesome! what type of camera do you guys use? I LOVE the quality! thanks!
P.S. you guys are both SO cute lol..I have a crush on Adam haha
I miss you guys!! Come back!!
Wow I remember watching this in 2014 right before I came out to my best friend. I can't believe it's been 3 years
Now is 6 years:)
@@randompeople465 Omgggg I’m so old don’t remind me😭
Hey! I'm a fraternal twin, too! Fraternal twin pride! Anyway, great video. Congratulations on coming out to each other. I was so afraid to come out to my twin brother. But, when I finally came out bisexual to him, he came out straight to me. It was awesome!
What I thought was amazing was that they were even related. Until I noticed they have the exactly same smile, so lovely
"it was candy crush" 😂
I just watched the segment where you came out to your parents. At work. I laughed and got misty, but what I really liked was that your dad kept eating his jerk chicken!
You guys are awesome! Keep them videos coming! :)
Your re-enactments are hilarious!!!
I don't know why this was so funny to me. I wish I had gay twin brothers but no I only have one. I still love him
Funny. And you should definitely keep the "Sista !!!" end tab.
You guys rock and funny as hell.
Hi Guy's, Welcome to youtube . I'm glad to have found your channel . Keep up the good work. Connect with other youtubers. The community is a great place to find other like minded people, Oh and lots and lots of trolls but don't let them bother you.
Just find your voices and do what you love and you'll be great. Thanks for sharing.
HAHAHAHAHAHAH "CANDYCRUSH"...... IM GONNA USE THAT ONE FOR SURE!
I SUBSCRIBED. And please plesse this is such an interesting thing like we have lots of BFs channel already having to know a life of a gay twin is gonna be so much fun and i know every other person in the community would love it as well.
You guys are doing great!!! I want to know more about you two. Keep making those videos. I getting ready to move to Tennessee. I'm going to start my UA-cam channel and write a blog... hope you guys can watch...
Love you guys!!!
You two are super adorable
Loved your acted Grindr scene. Haha, so funny :-)
You guys are super funny! God Bless! :)
That they are. Btw, love your username
Damnn dude, that is very fucking interesting actually haha. Can't wait to see more videos from you guys keep it up !!
great video Brampton boy! :D
Discovered you guys a month ago. Now I'm on the journey of watching all your videos :D you guys are HILARIOUS! I'm a straight guy here but I strongly support the gay community and a lot of my friends are coincidentally gay or lesbian :P. Keep up with the videos and kudos from the Philippines xD
1) they are twins... they have the exact same face. exact same height and kinda same build. one just took all the dark pigment and one was left with the light. hence the red hair and pale skin and then the dark hair and dark skin. its actually pretty freaking badass!
2) good for you guys. props for doing this and inspiring other young gay guys out there to feel confident. i dont think its always been a good thing for SOME people but it usually is a freeing and great moment for other people. coming out is hard, but worth it! Keep it up!
Funny as hell! Cheers guys :)
So cute. and so great you can share this too!!!
I know this is wrong but i totally ship you guys.
You guys crack me up 😂 You're like the new 21st century gay version of Bob and Doug McKenzie. You should have a case of beer and loaf of bread in your next video lol
LOVE THESE KIDS!!!
wow they are both good looking(omg adam though). They look really alike, they just have different hair and skin color...subscribed.
omg, the grindr noise. i hate it. that is so awesome.
That's just like me and my sister!!! Lamoo!😂 I'm a fraternal twin and I'm older my one minute and I'm dark skin and she's lighter and I have curly hair and she has straight hair!😭😂 when I came out about being bisexual she was the first I told her and she was very open about it and very supporting.
honestly idk why its so hard to come out to you're family cause in general it shouldnt be hard it should just be like saying you dont like onions on you're taco, its just a preference what you like so why is coming such a big damn deal it should just be like OK well if thats what you like go do you, being gay wont change you're personality or who you are, i had a hard time coming out it was until i was tired of hiding who i was, it was killing me inside not able to tell people and always hiding it to everyone that asked tony why haven't you got a girlfriend so many are always hitting you up and i always made excuses, but once i came out to everyone it felt so good felt good to be free from that huge boulder on my shoulder. Congratz to you guys on coming out, society needs to change not us.
You guys are just simply awesome ^_^
OMG. I love this.
How have I just found you guys
I adore you guys, but that's horrible advice. Some people live in environments where their main source of support, both emotionally and financially, come from brain-washed religious nutjobs who won't think twice about kicking them out to live in the street if they think that's what Jesus wants them to do. A person should come out when they are ready. By ready, I mean if things go worst case scenario, you'd be able to take care of yourself. If your loved ones already know before you can support yourself, they'll let you subconsciously know that it's OK to admit it.
I get what you are saying and I agree for the most part, but I would like to say that not all "religious" people are brain-washed or nutjobs...I don't need to debate it with you, I'm just sayin' ;-) I would like to point out that those closeted teens who may not have support from their closest family members could perhaps contact an "open and affirming church" - Google it if you need to. These are churches that have publicly committed to welcoming LGBTQ people. As you can probably imagine, dealing with those churches is likely to be a positive experience and they will probably have resources to help closeted teens cope with their challenges.
To the twins - I'm so glad your parents were so accepting and supportive and I hope that your positive experiences continue...God bless you and your family ;-)
I find it hilarious how defensive religious people get when a person mentions how horrible some extremists are. -- If I read a story online about some black guy that was killed by a racist white guy, the comment I would leave wouldn't be along the lines of "Well, not ALL white people are racist." That would present me as petty and insecure. It would also tell everyone that I subconsciously think "All white people are racist." That's just what immediate defenses do.
LouisianaCityboi Actually, I'm not being defensive. You would be surprised at how many "mainstream" Evangelical Christians aren't aware that Christian denominations like mine exist - ditto the secular world. I should know, I was raised in a traditional Evangelical home and church and always felt like I was out of sync with the believers around me. I had no idea that churches existed where people didn't interpret Biblical passages as a license to hate or criticize. Imagine my surprise - and relief - to discover other believers who choose to interpret our Savior's central message of "love" in ways that encourage support and compassion for our fellow humans ;-)
Sheila Lundlee Well, maybe when the Christian representation isn't so hateful, people will stop associating Christianity with hatred. I don't know about you, but I would be disgusted with an organization that claimed to speak on my behalf and in actuality reflected nothing of which I believed.
LouisianaCityboi Wow - I have never heard that put so well. I'm impressed.