Where do you stand on the Girls vs Boys debate? Especially would love to hear from the boys on our channel. If you agree with anything we said in this video then do show your support by liking this video and sharing with your peers and those problematic relatives 😆.. Lots of love 😘
Love you 3s crowd ❤️❤️❤️ aapka video mujhe bohot entertainment deti hai and mama aap jo meme use karte ho uski mai diwani hu Mama ke meme bohot pasand hai mujhe 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
My mother got married at the age of 19,,,,,,,,,what I want to say she didn't even got the opportunity to make her carrier,,,,,,,,,,and I see in her eyes the importance of building up carrier .
Same here.. my mom also got married at the age of 18 and I know she really want to do something in life we're blessed that we're getting such opportunities in life to do!:)
Awesome.. All the best Chetana.. You will surely do great.. But don't take too much pressure of responsibilities as of now.. You are too young for that.. Just keep doing your best.. Thats all that matters.
The fact that there is whole talk going on about what a woman should wear and what she must not simply contradicts the statement ' ladkiyo ki life kitni easy hai'
The more you live ,more you realise , that human beings are not made for comparison... whether its gender , skin colour, caste, percentage, clothing, house, money ............etc .... Guys getting from uu..❤❤
To all my fellow "boys" 🤦🤦 I would just like you to close your eyes and Imagin, "that you are walking down a hallway in your comfortable shorts and literally a 100 people in the hallway are just staring at you", I don't know about you but the level of anxiety I will have, would be enough for me to not step out of my house for Months...And girls have to face this situation almost every single day...just imagin your self in their place for them...have some empathy...!!
This was so so important.The boy is basically judging everyother girl out there on the basis of few Tiktoks he saw(Atleast I think thats the main origin of his gussa😂).The mindset is absolutely baseless.I hope he understands this and becomes a better human.
@@mayanksingh.13 nahi Yaar..even my parents are very conservative, but one thing they can't stand is the thought of me a girl at a home without a paid career..also like they said working in a professional field or working in the house..it's a choice..both can't be neither deprived or forced..same must go for both genders
@@RupeshKumar-tj3rr around 90% girls/women i know are hardworking and want to build their own career. Koi bhi kisi aur ke upar dependent nahi rehna chahta. I'm preparing for jee, and my parents want me to do well. They want to see me being independent, not as a failure jo husband ke paise pe jiye. Aapke thoughts bohot misogny based hai.
To all my seniors in the comment section! You guys are going to rock NEET 2021 and you are going to be in your dream college 🖤🖤 All the best to you guys ! Work hard get it
The fact that they decided to addresss this comment and not brush it away, and also the way they dealt with it with such positivity and matureness is truly applaudable👏👏 Great going guyss♥️♥️
Well we talk about changing society and yet don't even try changing ourselves. If somebody's dress is too short rather than trying to find decency In her styling, try to find decency in the way you look at the person. Period.
I fought with my family and relatives for 10 years just to learn karate. They always used to say 'Sports are for boys'. Personally, like Vidhi, I will also not be okay with marrying a rich guy because financial independence matters a lot to me. I can't even ask money from my father because I don't feel comfortable, let alone asking money from someone else.
Currently , as the doctors are being treated harshly by the society now a days !!!! So I would request 🙏 you MAMA ..... To please address this issue in your upcoming video !!! So that people can understand the efforts of the doctors !!! And it can be a motivation for the future doctors too !!!! 🙏
Such talks are so important in today's world where girls are still misjudged over silly topics like makeup,dress etc whereas in real life girls or any other human has to go through so many things on a daily basis Thank u guyss for such powerful talk❤🙌 Totally agree and More power to u guys😊❤
I never wore shorts in my life because I find it uncomfortable for me but I always took the side of the other who wear it and are not liked by my grandma for wearing it.😀
@@sias3562modesty is subjective. Those who wear shorts are not lacking modesty. It's all about perception, someone finds modesty in covering their whole body.
@@Prachij2607 A woman can be described as modest when she avoids doing or wearing anything that might cause other people to have sexual feelings towards her.
i feel the household work is so underrated...the household work is literally so hard to do..can the guy really do all the work our mothers do. us ladke ko apni ma ka kaam ek din ke liye karna chahiye tha...tab pata chalta kitna mushkil hai..aise mentality ke log kahi nhi jayenge is duniya mein guys u r true influencers..❤
I wish we could make a world where every person irrespective of their gender can live peacefully and happily . This patriarchal society is barrier in the progress of our country . I wish people use their mind to think of new ideas , learn new things, develop skills instead of investing their time in such meaningless things
Me and my mother together watched this video and she told me that my naani used to say " the day when no man will look towards a girl with wrong mindset, that day i will approve my existance" and i really felt that!
The video is so amazing. I agree with everything you guys said. I personally don't like wearing clothes which show alot of skin because of safety and now it's just a habit .I used to get uncomfortable after seeing girls confidently wear them but I ve started to accept the fact everyone can wear what they want. Moonbyul is a South Korean rapper she's kinda conservative so doesn't like wearing exposing attire but ofcourse she's so rich and a part of Korea's famous kpop girl group. Clothes don't define ppl . Also I loved what NIDA said ❤️❤️ In 2021 you can't talk about gold diggers because women now don't even want to get married. Q2han UA-cam channel (fashion influencers) is of 2 twins 30yrs old who don't want to get married and wear whatever they like. Me and sister are following them.
Guys, I’m a guy Im just furious how these people are talking. Kindly Ignore these Humanoid Animals. Im Very disappointed and worried about the future of the country. These guys think so much prematurely it leads me to doubt if they will be able to handle the future. 3’s a Crowd is the most Beautiful and Innocent channel and such allegations are of utter shame for the haters. There is constructive criticism but this is just Dumb Stuff. Plz ignore them. Im so not proud being a Boy as this is shameful. I feel shameful that i was born in this gender. Girls have more struggle to be honest. Vidhi didi, Mami and mama You all are exceptionally beautiful, You guys are my celebrity crushes dont change for these guys. I love you guys. #LiveAndLetLive
Kudos to 3's a crowd team for bringing out a sensitive topic in such a humorous way. You guys gave the message as well as didn't heat up the situation.
I love the quote Brilliant minds talk about Ideas, Average minds talk about events and small mind talk about people how they wear,talk stuff like that.Thanks for the quote it says everything.
That comment from a boy ki ladko pe kitna pressure hota h ladkiyo pr kyo nhi to mn btana chahti hu ki meko to is bat ka bura lgta h ki mere upr aesa pressure kyu nhi h hmpe dhyan hi nhi diya jata jitna bhai ki iit prep. Ke liye diya gya..they spent lakhs of money on him even whwn he didn't wanted to do it bcs he wanted to be in merchant navy which he later joined too.. on the other hand my parents never gave a shit on what i want to be they just asked sometimes that what you want to be but didn't focus in reality ..seriously this is so disgusting that someone is irritated bcs parents are pressurising them nd someone wants to get the attention they want 😂 But yes i'm a fighter nd i will be a docter
I love the fact that you people raised this topic... It was much needed to the indians out there with this mentality... Me as a boy believe thay girls struggles more in this country... To face that mindset of people to tackle all the negativity in this country and to stand out independent is much a tough job to do... Mami is much lucky to have a husband like shivam mama... Even every Indians out there should be like shivam mama to be the best supportive and kind sweet husband.. Much love to you people... Keep making such videos.. ❤❤❤
You are absolutely true. I appreciate you taking time to address this stereotypes in our society. It's really sad listening or seeing when someone in this advanced century still has that mindset. My best friend said to me that one should never judge anyone just bcoz you don't like that. Whenever we see this or hear this we should politely tell that person to evolve his thoughts. Everyone in this world is equal with all having equal opportunities. There's nothing appropriate and inappropriate ... It's just you mindset and your perception. Ppl these days easily manipulate thoughts according to there convenience and that shows how your thought process is. Change these stereotypes and evolve or we are doomed !!
You guys delivered this topic and made everybody understand in most flawless way. I hope this video reaches to every sick mind people and can change them atleast bit. You guys are doing great job🙏🏻❤️.
I absolutely admire how you guys so calmly and optimistically dealt with this. People certainly love to victimise themselves, speaking from personal experiences and those who have fought to break the pre-existing stereotypes (shoutout to all the three of you) need to be respected. This video is so wholesome. And I myself want to develop into a strong independent woman who can look after her family herself. I love Abida's aura, just the way she is. She seems so strong. I don't know how can someone just look at the clothes and not the beautiful persona. It's all in the person's mind and his/her perspective. All someone needs to work on is themselves rather than go rant or hate.
I completely agree...that if u don't like anyone's content then don't watch it...it just simple Instead of doing comparison, criticising someone because u r not satisfied doesn't mean yaar...the first thing is that stop doing judgement yaar and specially in this situation,we need to be positive👍
I love the way you describe everything . I want to say to all boys out there: You don't know what a girl has sacrificed for you so respect them and you should "never judge a book by it's cover" ,besides girls do have so many problems in their life that you can't imagine . They had periods , mood swings and do you know when a girl gets pregnant she goes through so much at the time of delivery and even in entire 9 months when she carries a human being inside her stomach . Because of that pain so many womens die . Besides you should mind your own business and don't interfere in anyone's life before you get to know them .
Its not gender we as an nation(especially as youngsters) need to focus on, instead we need to focus on the value system we build in our mind. especially the open mindedness to keep ourselves in their shoes to understand the situation and to understand magnitude of one's situation. hence think wisely before coming into biased conclusions.
"Our whole country will progress if both boys and girls focus on their future" million dollars line.... ❤️❤️❤️ By one and only our beautiful abida mami...❤️❤️😘😘😘
The one reason why you all deserve so so so much love is that you address today's problems which everyone needs to be aware of. It has been an issue for a long time and it will take some time to end totally but there IS a difference. Great video! Hats off! PS: How can you not call yourselves social media influencers?! This video totally proves you all are!!
In my opinion this girls vs boys debate will never end , even if we want to but no it will never come to an end . btw the video was amazing and we want more videos of mama ji in the center it lokks good :))
You guys deserve a big 👏 applause for taking initiative and making an effort to talk on such a sensitive topic. I am a girl, but still i m not a feminist because I haven't yet understood the idea behind Feminism but one thing I know for sure Feminism doest not mean hating men, and people need to understand this. I believe the idea of Feminism has come into being so that people get comfortable with mami and vidhi wearing shorts if they are comfortable with mama showing his hairy legs😂
Deeply touched by your thoughts ❤️ People will continue to say stuff like tht..but I wanna say just don't let them make you. This is the best reply to them..
If men are allowed to go shirt less every where inside out ...then wt is the problem in a girl wearing a crop top ...... If men can wear shorts... wt is the problem..a girl wearing shorts short dresses n all.... Society: ye Aamir log phente h..hm middle class ye sb nhi phente Shame on the mentality we live in 😔😔😔😔😔
@@bhanupriya8199 poore life they wanna be "middle class" by their own choice and say "shobha nahi deta " and still chase money. I don't understand these people at all man. I mean at first they get offended if someone calls them middle class or poor but they also wanna hold on to their conservative orthodox thinking. Idk if this thing has a solution or not. Why your appearance should tell whether you are amir or middle class???
@@anusha3287 u r rich, poor middle class.... doesn't matter... but what matters is ur thinking..ur mentality.... And if girls talk to abt this to ppl...they say...bigar gye h...pta ni aage kya din dikhayenge ....kuch nhi jo skta inka..... I wish this gets changed....🙏🏻
I wholeheartedly agree with your views. Many guys think they have the pressure of the whole world on their backs. No bro no we are facing the same thing. Also I loved the thing at the end, "Before calling girls gold-diggers ensure that the gold min your house is not from your mother's dowry." Like DAMN BURNNN Love the video. Lots of lovee
The only channel which has notifications on is yours......I generally don't comment.... But I feel so much connected here that's why I can't resist myself to comment.......
I don't believe my mother and father give equal importance and pressure atleast very least but my sister is med student and I will definitely be in med college and I ❤️ them alot
My Mother is as Intelligent as an IAS Officer but she can't be because their father can afford coaching education to his brother only...but that doesn't mean my father didn't faced any,he has been criticized as not so intelligent guy all through childhood....Struggles happen to everyone..you can't judge based on gender..may be some have faced more than others ..but you can't judge because of 'gender'
Mamiji you are so lucky to have a husband like mamaji...as in our society some men and their families have ego problem ...they can't take it if the girl earns more than the boy...this becomes an issue of pride for themm...so I really appreciate this as mamaji has the courage to accept that he earns lesses than mamiji in front of the whole world
9:31 inko pucho koi Kbhi periods aaye h Labour pain ka idea b h thoda bhut I am a boy and I know boys life is rough and tough, so much pressure (future, family , business etc.) but on the other side Girls life is also very complex You know family ,society pressure ( what she is wearing , where she is going, her male friends and all ) Sometimes rejections , household chores everything It's not easy And also it's a 21st century yaar Come on Kapde ldkio k chote nhi Apki soch choti h Raise it✨
This video deserves to be a part of school curriculum! I usually watch this channel because of sheer energy, fun, lighter moments you guys display with so much ease but this one is epic. HATS OFF TO THE TEAM!! Great topic, handled beautifully 😇
this was such an imp issue to speak about . i always felt that suraj barjatya movies were so much loved bcz it portrayed the middle class as it is but that's the problem it should'nt be like that ! anyways eagerly waiting for book giveaway and hoping to get mine this time . fingers crossed!
I agreed to all your points , you guys are so positive , whenever I feel sad I just watch 3s a crowd and it enlightens my mood btw will you guys do more videos with Vidhi's friends ??
8:44 same in my home as well my mom's a high school teacher and my dad's a primary school teacher , my mom earns more than my dad. There seems to be no problem infact my dad proudly says that his wife earns more than him
I thought how much will it take to go through one comment but he wrote an essay, I think this guy is in state of depression. IF the anonymous person is reading this, take a break in life and let things flow, eventually things will turn out good. - keep the good work up 3's a Crowd.
This is so true mami you know what I've toxic siblings my brother beats me kisi bhi chij se like chapal glass I'm the victim of domestic violence by my brother he abuse me alot mere private parts ko lekr bhi meri ek bdi bhen bhi hai vo hmesa conspiracy krti hai ki mai pdh na pau maa papa Also afraid of them because vo kuch bhi kr skte to maa protect me always vo mujhe jada trr room mai lock rhkhti mai pdti hu vo mera dhyan rhkhti hai and mere dono bhai bhen 30 ke age ke hai aur mai 17teen kbhi kbhi na bhut bura lgta jbhi kisi bhai ya bhen ko apne chote Bhai ya bhen ke liye itta pyaar dekhti to but i believe in universe mujhe malum hai mujhe apne goals achive hoge 😊 my parents are with me my mental health was destroyed i was surviving on Anti depressants ....but mai ab chor chuki i do meditation and i try to keep myself happy because my mental health, my happiness, my dreams are important.. mere Bhai bhen ko bs ye chahiye ki mai pdh na sku mere teacher bolte ki vo khud kuch life mai nhi kr pae isiliye chahte hai ki tum bhi na kr pao ...i want to become a vyomnaut ❤️😊 vidhi you're so blessed to have such family keep going thank you 3 as crowd ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I’m so sorry you have to go through this. Sometimes hardships teach us how to value life and you are doing such a tremendous job. Stay focused and make yourself a priority. Your health first, always- both mental and physical. I’m so proud of the way you are dealing with things. Keep fighting the good fight. More power to you girl. 💪🏻
I’m shocked after reading your comment 😶 :( Do tell if you want any kind of help and all the best for your future I’m sure you’ll make our country proud.
this topic literally needed to be addressed!! thank you for doing that. you guys are definitely social media influencers ....spreading positivity and so much more.....hope our family becomes larger and larger . LOVE U GUYS!!!
For starting few minutes I didn't recognise that this was about the hate comments and all .......all of them look super positive and charming that they make through it very smoothly and gently love it 😌☺️
It's your views that matter!! Just because you think you face a lot of problems, that doesn't mean that other person is free of any problems, don't judge each other and NOT AT ALL ON THE BASIS OF GENDER.
Although some misogynistic people are still commenting the same type of things but thank youuuuuuuuu so much for this video guys.... The comment was giving such a negative vibe but you were lifting up my mood immediately ....and the clips at last from those beautiful ladies were also so gooodd ❤️😚
Ohhh my godd...this video was soooo good.. At start m like wow n this emotion reamined till last..11:00 to 12:00 was best, mami is the best..also the last part was too good..also please vidhi di and mami appreciate mama's editing on my behalf coz that too mends the video in a beautiful and especially funny way..when u roasted mama n at the same moment ur cell fell and mama kept karmaisbitch at that specific moment which made me laugh like it was hilarious..it wouldn't be as hilarious as it was coz of that particular meme..all the best n...... U r the bestttttt💖..All my love aise hi aapke acche comments ke liye bhi video banao😜
Todays video was a must! Makeup is a hype and its completely the girls or boys choice whether they want to apply it or not these days men like ankush bahuguna are actually taking one step forward. The problem is like jaise hi tumhara birth hua h na u have been given a list of things ki nhi tum ladki ho tum ye sab karogi n tum ladka ho toh u will do all this and it goes on until u dont see the world or get the exposure once u start exploring u will realise ki why we are so narrow minded. And people just can't accept the change no one is ready to come out of their comfort zone! I really appreciate mami being so independent she had to fight for all of this and she deserves all of it and mama dw no one will judge u...u r too cool and awesome!
I'm an indian I am proud to see that people changes their view in those thinking which isn't some or most of the people disobey and giving some annoying talks but but but today girls are rocking which is very very good broooooooo wakt lagega abhi pura mind set change hone mein logo ka and all the best to vidhi's future
I am the only daughter of parents. Yes, I have so many responsibility towards them. & I will do it. In my state Odisha males are given priority. But I will fulfill their dreams.
Haters will always hate guys...but if you don't let them affect you, they'll ultimately become the ones pushing you to work harder and rise higher!💪🔥. Remember, "Being Yourself and Doing What You Like, is One of The Best Things You Can Do and Ofc, Irrespective of Which Gender You Belong To!" P.s: Woah, did I just make my quote rhyme?😯🤭
This is the mentality of most of the people who don't see the qualities of girls and womens they just think girls and women are for doing so called house chores and simply get married I appreciate your concern about this ❤️ love you 3s a crowd 🤗
The brilliant minds, talk about ideas Average minds talk about events and The small minds talk about the people what they wore and stuff.... """ It's true DAMN true.......... 😌
a great message indeed .Double standards in the society when it comes to women is so toxic and the worst part about it that due to social pressure sometimes the most supporting parents have to put restrictions on their daughters .
Where do you stand on the Girls vs Boys debate? Especially would love to hear from the boys on our channel. If you agree with anything we said in this video then do show your support by liking this video and sharing with your peers and those problematic relatives 😆.. Lots of love 😘
We'll get 6k likes👍
Edit:People who were early only could understand 😅
Ya sure 😀😀😍
Yeah sure
Love you 3s crowd ❤️❤️❤️ aapka video mujhe bohot entertainment deti hai and mama aap jo meme use karte ho uski mai diwani hu
Mama ke meme bohot pasand hai mujhe 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
👍👍👌
"Our whole country will progress ,if BOTH boys and girls focus on their future"
-abida mami
yupppppppppp
@@mrigankabiswas9471 ok..edit krta hu..thanks
@@Rohahannn you are such a sweetheart
@@greenmexicanpizza why😂
@@Rohahannn because you weren't ashamed of correcting wrong spelling, everyone starts fighting lol
My mother got married at the age of 19,,,,,,,,,what I want to say she didn't even got the opportunity to make her carrier,,,,,,,,,,and I see in her eyes the importance of building up carrier .
Yeah Neeru. So many woman go through the same
@@3saCrowd ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤🤍
Same here.. my mom also got married at the age of 18 and I know she really want to do something in life we're blessed that we're getting such opportunities in life to do!:)
@@3saCrowd I bet she is abida 😃
My mother name is also neeru
After this its confirmed- 3's a crowd is definitely a social media influencer group :)
Yes! I agree
Agree to
Makeup is not the problem the mentality is and this needs to be changed.
Mami's personality is at next level ! She is having so mature personality . Love your videos and content too ❤️ 💕
Thank you Kavya 😘... and I hope you keep fighting the good fight. 💪🏻
Mami is very calm and sweet and intelligent..
I'm a girl and i swear i have soo many responsibilities.
P. S- I'm preparing for NEET 22 and I am inspired by u guys😍❤️
Awesome.. All the best Chetana.. You will surely do great.. But don't take too much pressure of responsibilities as of now.. You are too young for that.. Just keep doing your best.. Thats all that matters.
Yesterday the BPSc 64th result came And my mother cracked it as Revenue officer at age of 37 so you see it's all about passion and not gender..
Awesome. Give our regards to her
Wow..Congrats aunty..That awesome❤️❤️❤️❤️
my mausi became a govt employee at the age of 44. :)
congrats to your mom 😍
THANKS GUYS FOR CONSIDERING THIS TOPIC YOUNGSTERS LIKE US NEED TO KNOW AND BE BROAD MINDED !
The fact that there is whole talk going on about what a woman should wear and what she must not simply contradicts the statement ' ladkiyo ki life kitni easy hai'
The more you live ,more you realise , that human beings are not made for comparison... whether its gender , skin colour, caste, percentage, clothing, house, money ............etc ....
Guys getting from uu..❤❤
true
Sahi bola re tune
I am also fan of jannat zubair rahmani ❤️❤️❤️
To all my fellow "boys" 🤦🤦
I would just like you to close your eyes and Imagin, "that you are walking down a hallway in your comfortable shorts and literally a 100 people in the hallway are just staring at you", I don't know about you but the level of anxiety I will have, would be enough for me to not step out of my house for Months...And girls have to face this situation almost every single day...just imagin your self in their place for them...have some empathy...!!
This was so so important.The boy is basically judging everyother girl out there on the basis of few Tiktoks he saw(Atleast I think thats the main origin of his gussa😂).The mindset is absolutely baseless.I hope he understands this and becomes a better human.
Nowadays mentality of some girls is just to not work hard and even girls consider girls are weak... it's a harsh truth
most of the Boys are all great no matter what they do
@@mayanksingh.13 nahi Yaar..even my parents are very conservative, but one thing they can't stand is the thought of me a girl at a home without a paid career..also like they said working in a professional field or working in the house..it's a choice..both can't be neither deprived or forced..same must go for both genders
@@navyaroy7773 I've already talked about it with lots of girls and most of them agreed with me and maybe you are hardworking girls... that's great
@@RupeshKumar-tj3rr around 90% girls/women i know are hardworking and want to build their own career. Koi bhi kisi aur ke upar dependent nahi rehna chahta. I'm preparing for jee, and my parents want me to do well. They want to see me being independent, not as a failure jo husband ke paise pe jiye. Aapke thoughts bohot misogny based hai.
To all my seniors in the comment section! You guys are going to rock NEET 2021 and you are going to be in your dream college 🖤🖤
All the best to you guys ! Work hard get it
“How important it is for us to recognize and celebrate our heroes and she-roes!”
The fact that they decided to addresss this comment and not brush it away, and also the way they dealt with it with such positivity and matureness is truly applaudable👏👏
Great going guyss♥️♥️
Thanks Wonderwoman ❤️
Well we talk about changing society and yet don't even try changing ourselves. If somebody's dress is too short rather than trying to find decency In her styling, try to find decency in the way you look at the person.
Period.
I fought with my family and relatives for 10 years just to learn karate. They always used to say 'Sports are for boys'. Personally, like Vidhi, I will also not be okay with marrying a rich guy because financial independence matters a lot to me. I can't even ask money from my father because I don't feel comfortable, let alone asking money from someone else.
More power to you
Currently , as the doctors are being treated harshly by the society now a days !!!!
So I would request 🙏 you MAMA ..... To please address this issue in your upcoming video !!! So that people can understand the efforts of the doctors !!! And it can be a motivation for the future doctors too !!!!
🙏
We do plan to make a video on this topic sometime in future. Thanks for the suggestion
@@3saCrowd thanks for your concern !!!! 🙏🙏
Such talks are so important in today's world where girls are still misjudged over silly topics like makeup,dress etc whereas in real life girls or any other human has to go through so many things on a daily basis
Thank u guyss for such powerful talk❤🙌
Totally agree and More power to u guys😊❤
Thanks Soma for all the support
@@3saCrowd ❤❤❤
I never wore shorts in my life because I find it uncomfortable for me but I always took the side of the other who wear it and are not liked by my grandma for wearing it.😀
Awesome. Thats the way to do it 😅
Your grandma was teaching modesty. You're lucky you have a grandma. :)
@@sias3562modesty is subjective. Those who wear shorts are not lacking modesty. It's all about perception, someone finds modesty in covering their whole body.
@@Prachij2607 A woman can be described as modest when she avoids doing or wearing anything that might cause other people to have sexual feelings towards her.
@@sias3562 based reply 😎 lol why didn't she replied back hahaah I support what u said
Addressing such issues without holding back makes you guys true influencers,our world needs more of you 🙏🏻
i feel the household work is so underrated...the household work is literally so hard to do..can the guy really do all the work our mothers do.
us ladke ko apni ma ka kaam ek din ke liye karna chahiye tha...tab pata chalta kitna mushkil hai..aise mentality ke log kahi nhi jayenge is duniya mein
guys u r true influencers..❤
You are absolutely right Stuti ❤️
I wish we could make a world where every person irrespective of their gender can live peacefully and happily . This patriarchal society is barrier in the progress of our country . I wish people use their mind to think of new ideas , learn new things, develop skills instead of investing their time in such meaningless things
simply concluding it .... no one is up or down in this world ! god created everyone as such all of us equal and no matter what
Finally I have seen you seriously guys you just make our day😂
Thanks for so much importance Sejal
❤️ always
Me and my mother together watched this video and she told me that my naani used to say " the day when no man will look towards a girl with wrong mindset, that day i will approve my existance" and i really felt that!
Love to your mom and respect to your nani
@@3saCrowd
The video is so amazing. I agree with everything you guys said. I personally don't like wearing clothes which show alot of skin because of safety and now it's just a habit .I used to get uncomfortable after seeing girls confidently wear them but I ve started to accept the fact everyone can wear what they want. Moonbyul is a South Korean rapper she's kinda conservative so doesn't like wearing exposing attire but ofcourse she's so rich and a part of Korea's famous kpop girl group. Clothes don't define ppl . Also I loved what NIDA said ❤️❤️
In 2021 you can't talk about gold diggers because women now don't even want to get married. Q2han UA-cam channel (fashion influencers) is of 2 twins 30yrs old who don't want to get married and wear whatever they like. Me and sister are following them.
Absolutely right
4:44 mama's leg - the reason behind Channel's Success 😂😂
Guys, I’m a guy Im just furious how these people are talking. Kindly Ignore these Humanoid Animals. Im Very disappointed and worried about the future of the country. These guys think so much prematurely it leads me to doubt if they will be able to handle the future. 3’s a Crowd is the most Beautiful and Innocent channel and such allegations are of utter shame for the haters. There is constructive criticism but this is just Dumb Stuff. Plz ignore them. Im so not proud being a Boy as this is shameful. I feel shameful that i was born in this gender. Girls have more struggle to be honest. Vidhi didi, Mami and mama You all are exceptionally beautiful, You guys are my celebrity crushes dont change for these guys. I love you guys. #LiveAndLetLive
"Girls have more struggle to be honest" and what makes you think like that ?
Thanks for saying this. Much love
@@sias3562 systematic and institutionalised misogyny. I can give you stats if you want to prove the same.
@@sias3562 well thats the whole video see it again if girls didn’t have more struggle we wouldn’t have this video and this condition.
@@Aman-qr6wi yes 🙌🏻
Kudos to 3's a crowd team for bringing out a sensitive topic in such a humorous way. You guys gave the message as well as didn't heat up the situation.
Thanks Sriyashree
@@3saCrowd always welcome... waiting for more such videos
Thank you guys for addressing this issue. Abida, you're a personal inspiration for me :)
That really means a lot Swati. -Abida
So glad u addressed this, they're literally just jealous!
This is so amazingly unproblematic and wholesome while still conveying such an important message!
Thanks Arushi ❤️
I love mami's thinking ....❤️ I really want to be like her.
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I love the quote Brilliant minds talk about Ideas, Average minds talk about events and small mind talk about people how they wear,talk stuff like that.Thanks for the quote it says everything.
You points are completely valid " live and let live "
Mama ki editing on mazak and paisa soch smjh kr udana chiye it's jut lit🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is what we want in our society
Tackling our way through NEGATIVITY.....
KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK CROWDS❤️💛💙
Thank you so much Gaurav ❤️
That comment from a boy ki ladko pe kitna pressure hota h ladkiyo pr kyo nhi to mn btana chahti hu ki meko to is bat ka bura lgta h ki mere upr aesa pressure kyu nhi h hmpe dhyan hi nhi diya jata jitna bhai ki iit prep. Ke liye diya gya..they spent lakhs of money on him even whwn he didn't wanted to do it bcs he wanted to be in merchant navy which he later joined too.. on the other hand my parents never gave a shit on what i want to be they just asked sometimes that what you want to be but didn't focus in reality ..seriously this is so disgusting that someone is irritated bcs parents are pressurising them nd someone wants to get the attention they want 😂
But yes i'm a fighter nd i will be a docter
I love the fact that you people raised this topic... It was much needed to the indians out there with this mentality... Me as a boy believe thay girls struggles more in this country... To face that mindset of people to tackle all the negativity in this country and to stand out independent is much a tough job to do...
Mami is much lucky to have a husband like shivam mama... Even every Indians out there should be like shivam mama to be the best supportive and kind sweet husband..
Much love to you people... Keep making such videos.. ❤❤❤
Tum khud boy ho...but tumhari soch kitna positive hai👍👍👍👍👍kash aisa hr bhai,hr husband,hr father....ki soch aisi hoti🙏🙏🙏🙏
You are absolutely true. I appreciate you taking time to address this stereotypes in our society. It's really sad listening or seeing when someone in this advanced century still has that mindset. My best friend said to me that one should never judge anyone just bcoz you don't like that. Whenever we see this or hear this we should politely tell that person to evolve his thoughts. Everyone in this world is equal with all having equal opportunities. There's nothing appropriate and inappropriate ... It's just you mindset and your perception. Ppl these days easily manipulate thoughts according to there convenience and that shows how your thought process is.
Change these stereotypes and evolve or we are doomed !!
Thanks Jainil
You guys delivered this topic and made everybody understand in most flawless way. I hope this video reaches to every sick mind people and can change them atleast bit. You guys are doing great job🙏🏻❤️.
Thanks Anjali ❤️
I absolutely admire how you guys so calmly and optimistically dealt with this. People certainly love to victimise themselves, speaking from personal experiences and those who have fought to break the pre-existing stereotypes (shoutout to all the three of you) need to be respected. This video is so wholesome. And I myself want to develop into a strong independent woman who can look after her family herself. I love Abida's aura, just the way she is. She seems so strong. I don't know how can someone just look at the clothes and not the beautiful persona. It's all in the person's mind and his/her perspective. All someone needs to work on is themselves rather than go rant or hate.
Glad to hear this Gauri. All the best to you
I completely agree...that if u don't like anyone's content then don't watch it...it just simple
Instead of doing comparison, criticising someone because u r not satisfied doesn't mean yaar...the first thing is that stop doing judgement yaar and specially in this situation,we need to be positive👍
I love the way you describe everything . I want to say to all boys out there:
You don't know what a girl has sacrificed for you so respect them and you should "never judge a book by it's cover" ,besides girls do have so many problems in their life that you can't imagine . They had periods , mood swings and do you know when a girl gets pregnant she goes through so much at the time of delivery and even in entire 9 months when she carries a human being inside her stomach . Because of that pain so many womens die . Besides you should mind your own business and don't interfere in anyone's life before you get to know them .
Its not gender we as an nation(especially as youngsters) need to focus on, instead we need to focus on the value system we build in our mind. especially the open mindedness to keep ourselves in their shoes to understand the situation and to understand magnitude of one's situation. hence think wisely before coming into biased conclusions.
4:44 mamaa's leg - the reason behind Channel's Success and Views....This was EPIC 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
You are the persons who lights up ours day with positivity so dont get disheartened.
We all are with you....
I have been watching all your videos since I discovered it! Now I can actually say that you guys are one of my favourite UA-camrs.
Means a lot
"Our whole country will progress if both boys and girls focus on their future" million dollars line.... ❤️❤️❤️ By one and only our beautiful abida mami...❤️❤️😘😘😘
😂😂😂😂😂nice 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 very nice video physics paad ke dimag kharab ho gya tha ab thik hai thoda 😂👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 yayayyayayayayyayayayayayyyayaya 😂😂👍🏻
Awesome
After this its confirmed- 3's a crowd is definitely a social media influencer group ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
Indeed live and let live! In the end the VDs were really good!
There is not a single word where I do not agree. More power to youuu guyss🥰✨
The one reason why you all deserve so so so much love is that you address today's problems which everyone needs to be aware of. It has been an issue for a long time and it will take some time to end totally but there IS a difference.
Great video! Hats off!
PS: How can you not call yourselves social media influencers?! This video totally proves you all are!!
Rant time is my favorite.....😍😍❤ And also i would like one to one interaction more than books kyunki itna padke kahan hi jaana hai😂
In my opinion this girls vs boys debate will never end , even if we want to but no it will never come to an end .
btw the video was amazing and we want more videos of mama ji in the center it lokks good :))
Ha ha. Thanks Devanshi. Point noted
@@3saCrowd :))
Don't let our judgemental society dominate your real self.
You guys deserve a big 👏 applause for taking initiative and making an effort to talk on such a sensitive topic.
I am a girl, but still i m not a feminist because I haven't yet understood the idea behind Feminism but one thing I know for sure Feminism doest not mean hating men, and people need to understand this.
I believe the idea of Feminism has come into being so that people get comfortable with mami and vidhi wearing shorts if they are comfortable with mama showing his hairy legs😂
Thanks Aastha. Feminism is just about equality of gender. So most of us open minded people are feminists (even if we do not know it yet)
You three are the symbol of positivity..More power and happiness to you three..love from Northeast 🤗
Aww. Thanks rubana ❤️
@@3saCrowd most welcome🤗
After my lecture .....I touched on this video .....*speed of light*
Hope you liked it
@@3saCrowd 🤗❤️ obiviously I like ur all videos
Deeply touched by your thoughts ❤️
People will continue to say stuff like tht..but I wanna say just don't let them make you. This is the best reply to them..
If men are allowed to go shirt less every where inside out ...then wt is the problem in a girl wearing a crop top ......
If men can wear shorts... wt is the problem..a girl wearing shorts short dresses n all....
Society: ye Aamir log phente h..hm middle class ye sb nhi phente
Shame on the mentality we live in
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Fir koi agar inke chaakkar me amir ban jaye toh kehte h "paise aagaye toh apne sanskaar bhul gaye, paise dekhke log badal jate h".
@@anusha3287 so true.....and I hv seen mainly parents do not support such cases....hmme Shoba nhi deta ye sb (parents say)
@@bhanupriya8199 poore life they wanna be "middle class" by their own choice and say "shobha nahi deta " and still chase money. I don't understand these people at all man. I mean at first they get offended if someone calls them middle class or poor but they also wanna hold on to their conservative orthodox thinking. Idk if this thing has a solution or not. Why your appearance should tell whether you are amir or middle class???
@@anusha3287 u r rich, poor middle class.... doesn't matter... but what matters is ur thinking..ur mentality....
And if girls talk to abt this to ppl...they say...bigar gye h...pta ni aage kya din dikhayenge ....kuch nhi jo skta inka.....
I wish this gets changed....🙏🏻
@@bhanupriya8199 I only have one solution but again they'll say bigad gaye h. I say in logo se doori banalo even if they are your family.
The best part is that you guys made such a BEAUTIFUL VIDEO from a HATE COMMENT and taught us so much!! YOU GUYS ARE REALLY AWESOME
I wholeheartedly agree with your views. Many guys think they have the pressure of the whole world on their backs. No bro no we are facing the same thing.
Also I loved the thing at the end, "Before calling girls gold-diggers ensure that the gold min your house is not from your mother's dowry."
Like DAMN BURNNN
Love the video.
Lots of lovee
The only channel which has notifications on is yours......I generally don't comment.... But I feel so much connected here that's why I can't resist myself to comment.......
I don't believe my mother and father give equal importance and pressure atleast very least but my sister is med student and I will definitely be in med college and I ❤️ them alot
My Mother is as Intelligent as an IAS Officer but she can't be because their father can afford coaching education to his brother only...but that doesn't mean my father didn't faced any,he has been criticized as not so intelligent guy all through childhood....Struggles happen to everyone..you can't judge based on gender..may be some have faced more than others ..but you can't judge because of 'gender'
Mamiji you are so lucky to have a husband like mamaji...as in our society some men and their families have ego problem ...they can't take it if the girl earns more than the boy...this becomes an issue of pride for themm...so I really appreciate this as mamaji has the courage to accept that he earns lesses than mamiji in front of the whole world
9:31 inko pucho koi
Kbhi periods aaye h
Labour pain ka idea b h thoda bhut
I am a boy and I know boys life is rough and tough, so much pressure (future, family , business etc.) but on the other side
Girls life is also very complex
You know family ,society pressure ( what she is wearing , where she is going, her male friends and all )
Sometimes rejections , household chores everything
It's not easy
And also it's a 21st century yaar
Come on
Kapde ldkio k chote nhi
Apki soch choti h
Raise it✨
This video deserves to be a part of school curriculum! I usually watch this channel because of sheer energy, fun, lighter moments you guys display with so much ease but this one is epic. HATS OFF TO THE TEAM!!
Great topic, handled beautifully 😇
what a perfect way to reply a negative comment! Great impact and positive vibes from 3's a crowd and all the girls in the end :)
loved the video:)
Thabks Nancy
this was such an imp issue to speak about . i always felt that suraj barjatya movies were so much loved bcz it portrayed the middle class as it is but that's the problem it should'nt be like that ! anyways eagerly waiting for book giveaway and hoping to get mine this time . fingers crossed!
Yarrr you gyus are just awsm......
Love you guys 😍😍😍😍😍
I agreed to all your points , you guys are so positive , whenever I feel sad I just watch 3s a crowd and it enlightens my mood btw will you guys do more videos with Vidhi's friends ??
Yes. If and when we get a chance
8:44 same in my home as well my mom's a high school teacher and my dad's a primary school teacher , my mom earns more than my dad. There seems to be no problem infact my dad proudly says that his wife earns more than him
Great
Next Video we want: Mama's childhood in India compared to Mami's childhood in Saudi Arabia.
Thats a nice idea. Lets see.
@@3saCrowd yess yess please vidhi (manao unhe) 😹😹😹😹
@@3saCrowd 😁
I thought how much will it take to go through one comment but he wrote an essay, I think this guy is in state of depression.
IF the anonymous person is reading this, take a break in life and let things flow, eventually things will turn out good.
- keep the good work up 3's a Crowd.
Uh never fail to amaze us ❤️❤️❤️...trio rocks...much love...
This is so true mami you know what I've toxic siblings my brother beats me kisi bhi chij se like chapal glass I'm the victim of domestic violence by my brother he abuse me alot mere private parts ko lekr bhi meri ek bdi bhen bhi hai vo hmesa conspiracy krti hai ki mai pdh na pau maa papa Also afraid of them because vo kuch bhi kr skte to maa protect me always vo mujhe jada trr room mai lock rhkhti mai pdti hu vo mera dhyan rhkhti hai and mere dono bhai bhen 30 ke age ke hai aur mai 17teen kbhi kbhi na bhut bura lgta jbhi kisi bhai ya bhen ko apne chote Bhai ya bhen ke liye itta pyaar dekhti to but i believe in universe mujhe malum hai mujhe apne goals achive hoge 😊 my parents are with me my mental health was destroyed i was surviving on Anti depressants ....but mai ab chor chuki i do meditation and i try to keep myself happy because my mental health, my happiness, my dreams are important.. mere Bhai bhen ko bs ye chahiye ki mai pdh na sku mere teacher bolte ki vo khud kuch life mai nhi kr pae isiliye chahte hai ki tum bhi na kr pao ...i want to become a vyomnaut ❤️😊 vidhi you're so blessed to have such family keep going thank you 3 as crowd ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I’m so sorry you have to go through this. Sometimes hardships teach us how to value life and you are doing such a tremendous job. Stay focused and make yourself a priority. Your health first, always- both mental and physical.
I’m so proud of the way you are dealing with things. Keep fighting the good fight.
More power to you girl. 💪🏻
I’m shocked after reading your comment 😶 :(
Do tell if you want any kind of help and all the best for your future I’m sure you’ll make our country proud.
this topic literally needed to be addressed!! thank you for doing that.
you guys are definitely social media influencers ....spreading positivity and so much more.....hope our family becomes larger and larger .
LOVE U GUYS!!!
Bro I got unsubscribed but I subscribed yt glitch congrats you are going to growing 🤟🏻👍🏻🤟🏻 but still got in recommendations nice
For starting few minutes I didn't recognise that this was about the hate comments and all .......all of them look super positive and charming that they make through it very smoothly and gently love it 😌☺️
They are so sweet. No aggressiveness, only gave the right point in a polite way after seeing all the disrespectful comment.
Mama's giving company by wearing shorts😂😂 love you guys ❤️❤️ yaar be more frequent plz🤗🤗
Yeah. Honestly even once a week is difficult for us as we all are busy with other things. But trying to be as consistent as possible
True ! 😢😢💕
@@3saCrowd anyways love u😘
It's your views that matter!! Just because you think you face a lot of problems, that doesn't mean that other person is free of any problems, don't judge each other and NOT AT ALL ON THE BASIS OF GENDER.
Although some misogynistic people are still commenting the same type of things but thank youuuuuuuuu so much for this video guys.... The comment was giving such a negative vibe but you were lifting up my mood immediately ....and the clips at last from those beautiful ladies were also so gooodd ❤️😚
Thankyou for making this video. That’s it I can’t express my feelings for the videos better. Such things need to be called out.
We literally need to grow up for our better future💜🇮🇳
Ohhh my godd...this video was soooo good.. At start m like wow n this emotion reamined till last..11:00 to 12:00 was best, mami is the best..also the last part was too good..also please vidhi di and mami appreciate mama's editing on my behalf coz that too mends the video in a beautiful and especially funny way..when u roasted mama n at the same moment ur cell fell and mama kept karmaisbitch at that specific moment which made me laugh like it was hilarious..it wouldn't be as hilarious as it was coz of that particular meme..all the best n...... U r the bestttttt💖..All my love aise hi aapke acche comments ke liye bhi video banao😜
Thanks Yash. It means a lot. Lots of love
Your talking session teaches me the life lessons much respect and love to your family.
Todays video was a must!
Makeup is a hype and its completely the girls or boys choice whether they want to apply it or not these days men like ankush bahuguna are actually taking one step forward.
The problem is like jaise hi tumhara birth hua h na u have been given a list of things ki nhi tum ladki ho tum ye sab karogi n tum ladka ho toh u will do all this and it goes on until u dont see the world or get the exposure once u start exploring u will realise ki why we are so narrow
minded.
And people just can't accept the change no one is ready to come out of their comfort zone!
I really appreciate mami being so independent she had to fight for all of this and she deserves all of it and mama dw no one will judge u...u r too cool and awesome!
Aww Preksha.. tysm love
I'm an indian I am proud to see that people changes their view in those thinking which isn't some or most of the people disobey and giving some annoying talks but but but today girls are rocking which is very very good broooooooo wakt lagega abhi pura mind set change hone mein logo ka and all the best to vidhi's future
I am the only daughter of parents. Yes, I have so many responsibility towards them. & I will do it. In my state Odisha males are given priority.
But I will fulfill their dreams.
Haters will always hate guys...but if you don't let them affect you, they'll ultimately become the ones pushing you to work harder and rise higher!💪🔥. Remember, "Being Yourself and Doing What You Like, is One of The Best Things You Can Do and Ofc, Irrespective of Which Gender You Belong To!"
P.s: Woah, did I just make my quote rhyme?😯🤭
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This is the mentality of most of the people who don't see the qualities of girls and womens they just think girls and women are for doing so called house chores and simply get married
I appreciate your concern about this ❤️ love you 3s a crowd 🤗
The brilliant minds, talk about ideas
Average minds talk about events and
The small minds talk about the people what they wore and stuff.... """
It's true DAMN true.......... 😌
a great message indeed .Double standards in the society when it comes to women is so toxic and the worst part about it that due to social pressure sometimes the most supporting parents have to put restrictions on their daughters .
Such an important topic that everyone should know about girls.
Kudos to you raising this topic!