A radical experiment in empathy: Sam Richards at TEDxPSU

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  • @ivalerie214
    @ivalerie214 9 років тому +163

    I'm lucky to say that I was one of the 725 students who took Sam's class last semester. And for those of you who think that Sam is trying to "manipulate you" into thinking that empathy is the main problem that we have when it comes to war, you're wrong. As with any TED talk, speakers INVITE the audience to listen to their ideas. It's YOUR choice to listen, to engage, to understand, and to share their ideas. Once the speaker has left the stage, it is up to YOU to decide if you want to enlighten yourself with those ideas.

    • @iunlearn
      @iunlearn 8 років тому +7

      Lovely and thoughtful comment.

    • @irenedavo3768
      @irenedavo3768 6 років тому

      Valerie Buenafe please watch video of Jim Nduruchi called Viola re Jigger Victims in Kenya

    • @davecalado
      @davecalado 6 років тому

      That is true, every single thing in internet for us to listen, to watch, to go into to, it's up to us. The TED talks we hear, the ideas we seek for, the life's perspectives we're searching for, are all here. Once again, it's up to you to grab the ideas or just identify with them. Well said Valerie

    • @teddayer6523
      @teddayer6523 6 років тому

      Valerie Buenafe well put. I agree with you. In my job every day i try to prevent my patients to be infjantilzed (the way society leads them to be) so the feel more responsable of their actions.
      As you say Valérie, you don’t need to feel manipulated each time someone says something accurate that you didn’t think of.
      Richards is a marvelous human being.

    • @cyrusterrani9721
      @cyrusterrani9721 6 років тому

      You ARE lucky and right in your assertions. The choice is ours to give or to take in this life. Unfotunately it's not always easy to give with a society that praises the consumption and the self-interest.
      This speach made my cry. And i am a 53 year old experienced MD.

  • @Lydario
    @Lydario 11 років тому +25

    The rage, passion, and concern saturated his voice in a way that no one should be able to deny. He takes all that "be nice" hollow metaphor you learn in school, and really illuminates it in an accessible way. This is powerful!

    • @nomo9344
      @nomo9344 3 роки тому +2

      .....and Marlon Brando had a great performance in Apocalypse Now.

  • @Dali84
    @Dali84 13 років тому +8

    I volunteer to translate this to Arabic because if someone volunteers to add it the video (dunno how to do that).
    I believe we all need to step out of our shoes and have a more open perspective about the world. I'm really pleased to see something that is not a hate message towards us, Arab Muslims. Thanks Clevonamerica for sharing this!

  • @wtfarockfish
    @wtfarockfish 10 років тому +85

    One of the most fascinating TED talks I've seen in a while.

  • @tessh483
    @tessh483 7 років тому +75

    I bet having class with this man's incredible

    • @notbayan
      @notbayan 4 роки тому +2

      it is

    • @AliMalik-lx7xr
      @AliMalik-lx7xr 3 роки тому

      Soc119. Search it. You will find him and his lectures.

    • @chipheuston4064
      @chipheuston4064 3 роки тому

      If you like classes where the professor just talks the whole time and you get quizzed on readings you read for homework and nothing in the class. It's his stage so if you enjoy that, youll enjoy the class.

    • @nomo9344
      @nomo9344 3 роки тому +1

      @@chipheuston4064 ......and a stage is all it is. You, sir, appear to be the kind of person that can see through the nonsense. Think "dramaturgical analysis" from your intro to SOC class. You have restored my faith in the critically thinking student, albeit briefly, as the more posts I read will likely steer me in an opposite direction.

  • @FeelTalks
    @FeelTalks 6 років тому +5

    100%!!! Beautiful talk!!! We need to start seeing ourselves not as merely individuals, but PART of a greater COLLECTIVE. Empathy is what makes us human... Sending love to all who needs it

  • @askewdale
    @askewdale 13 років тому +6

    It's scary that there are people who could give this a thumbs down. That's really worrying. This is a very important video/understanding.

  • @tiyale
    @tiyale 7 років тому +7

    This is very analogous to the militarization of the inner city spaces in the USA. We tell stories of "those people" but rarely do we ever try to understand what its like to be there.

  • @rasoolmuhammad3061
    @rasoolmuhammad3061 7 років тому +6

    Such a brilliant talk with understandable examples, empathy exists in every one of us and I hope we all can increase our empathy to people who we love and who who we don't.

  • @Dagens24
    @Dagens24 13 років тому +3

    I don't see what is so amazing about this lecture. Are people so unempathetical that these view points have never crossed their minds before seeing this lecture? Really?

  • @astaff25
    @astaff25 12 років тому +5

    Sam is anything but typical he actually acts on his beliefs and helps people in other countries. His speeches are just to get people thinking about things they usually don't think about. He would never tell you how you should think but questions you on all your beliefs and thoughts to get you thinking about what you truly believe.

  • @petestrat07
    @petestrat07 11 років тому +9

    This video should be played in schools everywhere. This kind of thinking seems so rare that it's frightening.

  • @nickknauer15
    @nickknauer15 11 років тому +5

    I have him as a professor this semester. Sam Richards is the man!

  • @alijalali55
    @alijalali55 13 років тому +1

    Best way to make things going on around us easy to understand, "Empathy".
    Thanks for your guidance.

  • @CSD221
    @CSD221 10 років тому +20

    Fantastic speech! One of the very best I have seen! Congratulations, Mr. Richards.

  • @haidarjan
    @haidarjan 13 років тому +4

    Thank you for making the pupil more understanding, you make me happy for saying what i thing about the reality of the situation in Iraq
    greetings
    a person from Iraq

  • @nengx9692
    @nengx9692 7 років тому +14

    I'm astounded that this video does not have millions of views.

  • @afroloewe
    @afroloewe 11 років тому +2

    I can't believe this video is already almost 3 years old but only has so few views. What a great talk.

  • @sisaybelay5035
    @sisaybelay5035 4 роки тому +1

    Be empathy is essential part of to be sociologist ,i am from Ethiopian , i would like to add one thing human being cant live alone but some people miss this point. thank you for your sweet speech............ empathy

  • @EamonBurke
    @EamonBurke 9 років тому +1

    My lack of empathy makes one side of these examples as easy to understand as the other. Empathy is the key to curing this problem because the problem is malfunction of empathy to begin with.

  • @lpsftw8572
    @lpsftw8572 7 років тому +16

    this was amazing. I've only been studying sociology for a week and i have learned so much.
    this was amazing because it helped me with empathy.I have autism which makes it hard for me to understand others emotions,so for me to be able to feel empathy from the different perspectives proposed in this video...is just amazing.

  • @aardvarkcustard9696
    @aardvarkcustard9696 11 років тому +3

    The man is doing therapy - getting us to be insightful about our thoughts, beliefs and actions.

  • @iunlearn
    @iunlearn 13 років тому +1

    @dgrove21 I think the point in the first three minutes is that Americans would probably be doing this to the Chinese under those conditions. It's not about a culture but about circumstances. Some 100,000+ civilians have died in these wars and Americans are joyous in the streets, singing, saluting flags, dancing all of the time. As a family member of one of those innocents, I'm sure you'd feel something about all of that celebration. That's the point of the talk.

  • @AshleyWade
    @AshleyWade 11 років тому +3

    I had Sam Richard's for my Soc 001 class. The first day of class he asked people to raise their hands in regards to why they thought we'd gone to war. Oil won out, no contest. He agreed to that. He's well aware that it was for the oil.

  • @BOOMAYHEW
    @BOOMAYHEW 13 років тому +4

    Great lecture. Empathy is a powerful thing.

  • @alinasiddiqui2919
    @alinasiddiqui2919 4 роки тому

    This guy's talk beats every roller coaster ever in human history

  • @verity2007
    @verity2007 11 років тому +3

    Thank you for this video, the message at the end is something we all forget about!
    'Step outside your tiny little world and step inside the tiny little world of somebody else... and suddenly with out realizing it you're seeing the world differently.'

  • @gregsedefian
    @gregsedefian 12 років тому

    This is perhaps one of the most truthful videos that I have ever seen. So unbiased coming from the source is such a fresh breath of air. I, myself don't see anything but the truth & fairness in all people. This video should be mandatory for everyone to take a see & if you have any ounce of love & justice, you will shut your filthy mouth & open your ears & eyes.
    So shut the hell up & listen for once in your life. It might do you good. Since you profess so adamantly of your lover of God.

  • @cuwhenigetthere
    @cuwhenigetthere 12 років тому +1

    I'm an American and this video has been an eye opener for me. I am thankful for this mans work in teaching us all about how we feel as humans as a whole. SHARE THIS VIDEO WITH YOUR FRIENDS I'LL DO THE SAME. So that we can begin to have empathy for one another/ to understand and work towards bettering our world for ourselves and our children, where we can all feel safe and to love, have happiness. Peace my friend :)

  • @donniwaltz1911
    @donniwaltz1911 3 роки тому +1

    if you are a soldier in another country-you are the monster commiting war crimes-if you are a soldier standing in your own country -you are a hero trying to defend against the monster. it's pretty simple.

  • @NadaHassan-xn8gr
    @NadaHassan-xn8gr 4 роки тому +5

    as an Egyptian.. as a muslim.. I want to say Thank you from the bottom of my heart

  • @destr0yed
    @destr0yed 9 років тому

    This little word, empathy, gives chill to my spine. I am trying to reconnect this word to nihilism, passivity and permissive society

  • @Coreacook
    @Coreacook Рік тому

    Sometimes I feel happiness when I listen to beautiful lecture like this

  • @StelenaVD
    @StelenaVD 13 років тому +1

    I wish more people would listen to this guy.

  • @bomeister42
    @bomeister42 10 років тому +10

    Emapthy: something every human needs to learn

    • @alilpup
      @alilpup 4 роки тому

      Spelling: something everyone needs to learn

    • @mathewharrison
      @mathewharrison 4 роки тому

      Not everyone can. The Narcissist for example. They can't change.

  • @Madha74
    @Madha74 14 років тому +1

    THANK YOU SIR FOR UNDERSTANDING AND EXPLAINING OUR POINT OF VIEW

  • @cryofpaine
    @cryofpaine 11 років тому +2

    We've lost the ability to empathize because we're too isolated. We watch only our favorite channels, read only our favorite websites, listen to only our favorite talk shows. We expose ourselves only to those sources of information that already agree with us, and they in turn drag us even farther apart, nudging us with baby steps. You already think x and y, and here's z to think about.
    We need to get people thinking for themselves again. We need to stop isolating ourselves, and start listening.

  • @khalidshehab2669
    @khalidshehab2669 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for allowing me the opportunity to take a minute and challenge myself to “ put myself in other peoples shoes” you’re sharing a very beautiful message and I wish you all the best in spreading the message.
    Best, Khaled

  • @tyniecraft
    @tyniecraft 11 років тому

    This is the greatest Ted Talk of all Ted Talks.

  • @camrow
    @camrow 13 років тому

    It saddens me to see any dislikes for the video.. whether or not you agree with his opinion, it's still an extremely thought-inspiring speech if you ignore the politics and actually make the effort to empathize

  • @chrismcmurtry432
    @chrismcmurtry432 10 років тому +1

    Empathy is the foundation of all ethics

  • @thincouchpotato
    @thincouchpotato 14 років тому

    As a graduate student, I'll probably not be able to his course. But it was a pleasure listening to him at TEDx.

  • @pashun88
    @pashun88 13 років тому +1

    This experiment could be applied to so many conflicts in our world.

  • @IRAQisthe1
    @IRAQisthe1 13 років тому +2

    Thank you for revealing the truth. I truly respect you!!!!!!!!

  • @bluevalentine9
    @bluevalentine9 13 років тому +1

    Best 19 minutes I spent today.

  • @LootFragg
    @LootFragg 13 років тому +2

    I cried when I pictured the freedom fighter hugging his kid telling him not to worry because he will be back, then leaving the house never to return.

  • @luispina8400
    @luispina8400 8 років тому +5

    great talk

  • @faridasessions200
    @faridasessions200 10 років тому

    An awesome way to learn about empathy. You might like this, people!

  • @thankyoumrsg6590
    @thankyoumrsg6590 4 роки тому +2

    i am crying this is so touching! best TED ralk ever ever

  • @MelaneeH
    @MelaneeH 13 років тому

    This is fantastic ! Truth is truth.

  • @ufos22
    @ufos22 11 років тому

    The most important video an American will ever see. 20 minutes to change your life.

  • @madamekipperoni7598
    @madamekipperoni7598 3 роки тому +1

    I absolutely love his passion and tone on this topic

  • @bobcobb3757
    @bobcobb3757 11 років тому +1

    Very good. Empathy is most definitely the basis of understanding. I also believe it is inexorably linked to the "Golden Rule".

  • @mysticsicness
    @mysticsicness 11 років тому

    I can only semi relate to this. I went overseas as an atheist and stayed an atheist throughout my time in the military. While I respected the Taliban, and understood their convictions, I just could not respect their sharia law barbarism. Women deserve a certain amount of respect. They do not deserve to be kidnapped and decimated for not wearing a burqa. They do not deserve to be slaughtered for trying to learn. The Taliban's convictions destroy lives, and must be crushed, changed, or destroyed.

  • @mafiaman2
    @mafiaman2 11 років тому

    Interception of perception is the key to logical sequence and rationality. Understand what that means and you can understand everything

  • @xxxonfx
    @xxxonfx 13 років тому

    awesome talk.. if humans could take this step in every aspect of life, then teh world would be more peaceful to live in

  • @remfanbeforu
    @remfanbeforu 8 років тому +3

    It is true, we have to stop social engineering. We have to stop making assumptions. We need to riser higher and coexist or we are doomed.

  • @hama4994
    @hama4994 4 роки тому +1

    Wow, I am impressed .
    Thank you Dr.Richards.

  • @IhniWinterwind
    @IhniWinterwind 11 років тому

    Everyone should watch this.

  • @LoveyDoveyFam
    @LoveyDoveyFam 13 років тому +1

    You are one of your Kind Sam, Stay Blessed!

  • @ddpsp
    @ddpsp 13 років тому

    This is one of the most thoughtful and insightful talks on the subject I have ever seen. Sam Richards presents his viewpoint with devastating comprehensiveness.

  • @jamesfenton7338
    @jamesfenton7338 7 років тому +1

    I am happy he illustrated this point, if the rolls were reversed and Americans were fighting for freedom, we would see this is a Crusade against innocent people.

  • @blumlu1983
    @blumlu1983 13 років тому

    As a social scientist, I could see where he is coming from. Agreed, the examples are rather extreme, but that was the point! Addressing a gathering in the USA about empathy, what better topic to choose than the Iraq war. But the emotions around it are so strong that I can see why the message did not reach.
    The message is this, "I might not agree with what they are doing, but I UNDERSTAND..."
    Isn't that what empathy is about?

  • @tobeornottobetobeornottobe974
    @tobeornottobetobeornottobe974 10 років тому +3

    I appreciate what this wonderful man said

  • @heykellie
    @heykellie 13 років тому +1

    Amazing lecture, being a Pakistani i can now understand the feelings of Anti American feelings that alot of my countrymen have. I wish things could have been better!

  • @kinhotas
    @kinhotas 10 років тому +1

    Brilliant.... love this guy. Said it all...
    I wish everyone had the spirit of the native americans

  • @Fwtank17
    @Fwtank17 11 років тому +2

    yea..... lets just think about this concept for a moment: The president who initiated the invasion was George bush. George bush happeneds to be very good friends with a man named Dick Chaney( the owner of haliburton). For the someone ignorant of what haiburton has to do with this, i will explain. Haliburton is a weapons company that just so happeneds to be the main supplier for the U.S. military. The war in Iraq made haliburton 39.5 billion.....just giving you a main reason for George's logic

  • @malalimalali3081
    @malalimalali3081 3 роки тому +1

    Never have i ever seen someone straight-forward and truthful as this man!

  • @Elvanius
    @Elvanius 13 років тому +1

    @Tmmz1107
    Hahah I totally agree, I remember attending Dr. Clemente's class and just losing myself to his experiences and stories, it got as far as people just attending his lectures without even finding space to sign in his class, however you have to give Sam Richards some credit hes a phenomenal speaker!

  • @balderdashery1
    @balderdashery1 11 років тому

    There are many people who need to learn to do this. Peace.

  • @ossielmais
    @ossielmais 12 років тому

    this is a very touching speech

  • @birdilby
    @birdilby 13 років тому +1

    His students do not often ask him "what is sociology".

  • @sharkbaitblu
    @sharkbaitblu 10 років тому +14

    Its unfortunate that this is how sociological understanding/empathy to a mass educated privileged group of people in USA need to be spoken too. The necessity of a rudimentary explanation of the impacts of an expensive and humanly hostile foreign policy needs an emotionally empathic demonstration; speaks volumes. I too in Australia gain from our human indifference to the other! Other side of the world, other side of my English, other side of my culture, other side of my privileged protected life. I just want your oil thank you! Empathy...yes. Why know this because we are not immune to these globally sanctioned behaviours of governments/corporations. When we sanction the apparatus of war and money on the other...we lose control on how it can weld its power, influence on us. Be careful what we ask for...always question if that was my experience...what would I do?

    • @DavidRaderII
      @DavidRaderII 10 років тому +3

      CharKi ClaRke As a 30 year old empathetic American, from observation I can tell you most American's believe we have "Free Press" and thus it can be trusted. So most Americans trust the major press organizations and their opinions are controlled by them, because they think the press speak the truth. Trusting the press is deeply ingrained into American society. However, the press lies. The biggest opposing press organizations sometimes have the same narrative and then people think they're telling the truth even more, because they're competitors yet saying the same thing. It must be truth. When confronting people about it, challenging what they so wholeheartedly believe to be true, they shutdown as if it were a religious debate. People often shut down when their truth shakes. People don't want to think about it. They want to think about Football, Baseball, pornography, TV shows and whatever else passes the time away instead of actively being a part of the world. American's minds are controlled by the press, but the press is corrupt.

    • @DavidRaderII
      @DavidRaderII 10 років тому

      This is from my own observation as implied when keeping empathy in core of the conversation. I can probably look up some statistics for you, but as you may know, statistics can be twisted to say whatever you want, so I'm just giving my opinion. I can elaborate more if you wish in regards to age.

    • @larrybelchek
      @larrybelchek 9 років тому

      David Rader II I agree with you about the whole media system in America.
      The one thing I do disagree on, is when you say people often shut down when their truth is shaken.
      Assuming their "truth" comes from the media and you challenge them with the real truth. The logical question is, where are you getting your truth from? What proof do you have that you have the real truth?

    • @Love1isall
      @Love1isall 9 років тому

      Larry jones logical deduction...a skill you might wanna read up on..

    • @larrybelchek
      @larrybelchek 9 років тому

      James Sawyer If one believes he is correct and has the truth and came to his truth by logical deduction, neither proves or disproves anything. It's not a question of what you deduced, it's what can you prove.
      I am an atheists. To me it is a logical deduction, that there is no sprit in the sky. I use what I consider to be logical conclusions as to why I don't believe in a god. In the end though, because I can't not prove there is no god and the believer can not prove there is a god, we both can only claim that we came to our truth through by our logical conclusion.
      You see logical deduction is not prove of anything.
      I know all of this may have been a little heavy for you,but it would be worth your time to read up on it a little bit.

  • @penfro
    @penfro 13 років тому

    When the Americans brought down the statue of Sadam the crowd rejoiced. A LOT of Iraqis despised Sadam and were pleased to see him deposed. There was a LOT of empathy for THOSE people. ALL Shia Iraqis were especially pleased.
    Picture Saddam lamenting the death of one of his murderous henchmen and a US wife lamenting the death of her Saddam-ridding soldier husband, for which one would an Iraqi Kurd have more empathy?
    And I agree that empathy should always be something for which to strive.

  • @cecisota12
    @cecisota12 13 років тому

    I believe this would be the appropriate time for America to see this video...

  • @y00n1x
    @y00n1x 13 років тому

    Not all Americans are "asleep" concerning these matters. Many Americans even soldiers are waking up. Please search for WINTER SOLDIER on you tube to hear soldiers speak the truth about what goes on in Iraq that we don't see or know about. Very powerful!

  • @amanialsheikhaleais6336
    @amanialsheikhaleais6336 11 років тому

    im with him in every word he just said but not only muslim iraqies felt about americans that way .. but christian iraqies too , and im one of them !!

  • @jordycakes15
    @jordycakes15 10 років тому +4

    This is such a great video. I really struggled to feel these different scenarios but when I did it was eye-opening and mind blowing for me! Thank you so much TED

  • @Malath98
    @Malath98 5 років тому +2

    This is the truth

  • @absolince
    @absolince 5 років тому

    If humans are to survive we must do this. This is the way we evolve. Not technology.

  • @cryofpaine
    @cryofpaine 11 років тому

    Everyone who feels strongly about an issue should take the time to try and honestly argue that issue from the opposite viewpoint. To really try and prepare a convincing argument against the view they normally hold. For a few, it might change their mind completely. For others, they might find a few points they agree with and modify their stance. But at the least, hopefully most would be able to at least respect and understand the view, even if they don't agree with it.

  • @WitchMan53
    @WitchMan53 13 років тому

    If everyone had some degree of empathy: We'd ALL be living a lot differently than we do now. Because unless you, yourself were evil, you couldn't abide with it in your presence.

  • @q8holic
    @q8holic 14 років тому

    sam richards is the man!!!! i attended some classes and he really stimulates ur mind and make you see different perspectives of everything!

  • @LV426_Nostromo
    @LV426_Nostromo 3 роки тому +1

    important.

  • @enlighteneveryone
    @enlighteneveryone 12 років тому

    @x13nick13x Yep. It's the perspective of a sociologist. To put your feet into someone else's shoes. It's the truest perspective and experience of empathy.

  • @crudhousefull
    @crudhousefull 12 років тому

    @wretchedyo Agree agree agree. Love that the world's waking up to this

  • @kunstmol
    @kunstmol 9 років тому +7

    America needs enemies to exist in it's current state. Empathy is a dangerous concept as you can see by some of the mudslinging in the comment section below

  • @thankyoumrsg6590
    @thankyoumrsg6590 4 роки тому +2

    GOD BLESS THIS MAN!

  • @colb14ster
    @colb14ster 12 років тому

    I wish people around the world would realize a lot of Americans are empathetic! This is what is so frustrating about reading comments that say "blah blah blah stupid Americans. Everyone hates Americans." Yes, I am an American. Yes, our government does a lot of messed up stuff. BUT, do I have any say in what my government does? Yeah, sure maybe about 0.0000000000000000000000000000000000001%, if even that much. Please, don't miss the point of the video and show empathy toward most Americans too.

  • @UmmahPrime
    @UmmahPrime 13 років тому

    best video i have ever seen.
    16:36 there he should get the last skeptic.

  • @MohammadQaisHatefi
    @MohammadQaisHatefi 7 років тому +1

    Best 20 minutes in my academic life!

  • @bytossen10
    @bytossen10 3 роки тому +1

    Did anyone else cry?

  • @lemon3011
    @lemon3011 13 років тому

    Pleas Americans wake up
    Thanks a lot for this video ... we need more people like you
    Bless you

  • @larryyamada7838
    @larryyamada7838 8 років тому

    Thanks Mitsue, .....too bad most people don't see from this perspective

  • @electrosquish
    @electrosquish 11 років тому

    As an American I find this video deeply inconvenient. Thankfully after being up for over two years, it has less than a quarter of a million views. I shall now watch Gangnam style again, and forget. forget... forget

  • @iunlearn
    @iunlearn 13 років тому

    @yeben Sam Richards fully understands this and it's not the point of the talk. Your final statement is the point of the talk.

  • @iunlearn
    @iunlearn 14 років тому

    @thisisbunk Absolutely. I would totally agree with him/you on that. Empathy is what would drive me to feel obliged to extend rights to others (i.e., Would I want x or y right if I were that person?).

  • @SuperEarther
    @SuperEarther 13 років тому

    @portsanity exactly. the bilderberg group is looking to overthrow the middle east so they can implement their own people so they can get what they want. Its not freedom its globalist enslavement.

  • @ByChoiceMuslim
    @ByChoiceMuslim 13 років тому

    Excellent lecture

  • @alr3od
    @alr3od 13 років тому

    لم أكن اعتقد أن هنالك احد يفهم ما يدور حول هذه الحرب
    كنت اعتقد أنهم فقط يصدقون ما تمليه عليهم وسائل الإعلام أو ما تريد وسائل الإعلام أن يعتقدوا بأنه الصواب
    شكرا لك سام ريتشارد