I’m older than you, I have more experience, than you, you’re not a psychologist” Is the answer I got from my dad when I mentioned to him something like this. MAN I HATED IT
my parents talking back to me: no sorry son/daughter, i disagree with that. me talking back to my parents: mom, dad, i just cant do it i dont want to! parents: *your free trial of living has ended* I just dont get why does this happen all the time
I had a problem with my husband’s kids ive been dealing with them for a year and i have 4kids i didnt have any problem with my 4kids they are filipino. And my husband’s kids are american the age of kids are 7 and 10 i did a lot of effort. Taking care of them giving them a nice meal thing is they dont listen to me they dont respect me i never even yell at them coz i dont do that to my own kids. His kids back talk to me and when im talking they talked too and i end up crying in my room coz i cant take it anymore their behavior
Thanks a lot for this and many other videos. Your content is very helpful and thought provoking and is really required to be seen by so many people today. All the best and keep up the good work. Thanks
I love them like they are my own but I didn't expect them to love me back all I want is, I want then to listen. I just felt like im their nanny i clean up their rooms and i told to keep their room clean because its totally mess like really messy. But they cant do it and they complained when i told then to clean up.
@@honestdave I think what you need to understand is that most times, parents aren't willing to listen to their kids, because they're *kids.* Even if we try to reason with them, they still tend to shut us out. Parents are the bigger figure, it's only fair that we're afraid to talk to them, especially if they act a certain way towards us. And like this person in the video said, the parents are the ones who are suppose to teach their children how to communicate. If the *parents* can't communicate, *we* can't communicate.
Me: shows this to my parents My parents: *your such a disrespectful brate we work so hard for u in taking away everything u like u can see your friends for a week (hurt full words)* Me: starts to cry My parents: why are u such a baybe go to your room (me still crying but trying to stay quiet) My mom: drags me out house and makes me stay out side for an hour Me: mad at parents My parents: *confused*
I do use yes or no they just. Don’t listen to me just the simple things like lock the door when you leave the house don’t overload the dryer and washing machine or if you see the lawn is 20feet high can you cut it please remind you one is 21 and 18 I’m tried now Im not going to listen to them if they need my help I am just going to look at them or Ignore them as they do me as a mother I feel I am a change person I talk to them try to give respect I don’t won’t to feel like I am nagging them but I’m done now they are just talking me for granted at this point it sad that you have to lose your mind for them to listen not just for kids that’s anybody when they have to get in the real world without me then they going to won’t to listen at that time I am going to be in Jamaica somewhere so all that talking I was doing I hope they listen because I am now tap out 🥱🥱
My parents are Narcissists and there is no working on them
Joe Joe I feel bad for you
Joe joe WHY AM I watching THIS IM ONLY 9 this is torture xD
@@teddy_bearp9958 im 10 and now i also realize that im NOT THE PROBLEM FOR EVEYTHING LIKE MY PARENTS ALWAYS SAY
I’m older than you, I have more experience, than you, you’re not a psychologist” Is the answer I got from my dad when I mentioned to him something like this. MAN I HATED IT
My dad said this to me a few years ago, "you may be younger than me, but you're not smarter than me."
I was 32 back then.
@@TheMadLeprechaun dang
Discipline is not to be too harsh, nor too soft.
my parents talking back to me: no sorry son/daughter, i disagree with that.
me talking back to my parents: mom, dad, i just cant do it i dont want to!
parents: *your free trial of living has ended*
I just dont get why does this happen all the time
My 12 yr old daughter doesnt listen to me because her father has subtly over the years told her not to.
Wow what an eye opener! I think i do all these 7 things!! Thanks a lot
Yes, it is eye-opening we really take a look. Time for an upgrade!!! Thanks for watching Arleen.
I was just thinking the same thing I don't feel to bad since am not only one:)
I had a problem with my husband’s kids ive been dealing with them for a year and i have 4kids i didnt have any problem with my 4kids they are filipino. And my husband’s kids are american the age of kids are 7 and 10 i did a lot of effort. Taking care of them giving them a nice meal thing is they dont listen to me they dont respect me i never even yell at them coz i dont do that to my own kids. His kids back talk to me and when im talking they talked too and i end up crying in my room coz i cant take it anymore their behavior
Thanks a lot for this and many other videos. Your content is very helpful and thought provoking and is really required to be seen by so many people today. All the best and keep up the good work. Thanks
I love them like they are my own but I didn't expect them to love me back all I want is, I want then to listen. I just felt like im their nanny i clean up their rooms and i told to keep their room clean because its totally mess like really messy. But they cant do it and they complained when i told then to clean up.
How do I send this to my mom without actually sending it
Same 💔😀
Why don't you talk to them? This video is about parents communicating with kids but you kids need to communicate with the parents as well.
@@honestdave I think what you need to understand is that most times, parents aren't willing to listen to their kids, because they're *kids.* Even if we try to reason with them, they still tend to shut us out. Parents are the bigger figure, it's only fair that we're afraid to talk to them, especially if they act a certain way towards us. And like this person in the video said, the parents are the ones who are suppose to teach their children how to communicate. If the *parents* can't communicate, *we* can't communicate.
@@Bobo-Nose Fair enough. What we need to do is meet in the middle.
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Try some of the steps I share here. See if they can improve the relationships.
3 Key Elements I am a teacher and I get more love from my students than my own children. All I care for is respect
Thanks. I send this to my clients so they can open their eyes.
This could be for bosses with their staff!
Watches this as a kid.
Same
Me too trying to figure out what's wrong with me and why I won't listen
Same
There should be a video about why parents dont listen to you
Me: shows this to my parents
My parents: *your such a disrespectful brate we work so hard for u in taking away everything u like u can see your friends for a week (hurt full words)*
Me: starts to cry
My parents: why are u such a baybe go to your room (me still crying but trying to stay quiet)
My mom: drags me out house and makes me stay out side for an hour
Me: mad at parents
My parents: *confused*
What is I'm 1 years old I don't want to listen to adults
Can you do a video of how to rise kids ive got a 2, 5, and a 14 year old
He has know clue
i wish my mom saw this
Soooo correct
Thank u 💓
I do use yes or no they just. Don’t listen to me just the simple things like lock the door when you leave the house don’t overload the dryer and washing machine or if you see the lawn is 20feet high can you cut it please remind you one is 21 and 18 I’m tried now Im not going to listen to them if they need my help I am just going to look at them or Ignore them as they do me as a mother I feel I am a change person I talk to them try to give respect I don’t won’t to feel like I am nagging them but I’m done now they are just talking me for granted at this point it sad that you have to lose your mind for them to listen not just for kids that’s anybody when they have to get in the real world without me then they going to won’t to listen at that time I am going to be in Jamaica somewhere so all that talking I was doing I hope they listen because I am now tap out 🥱🥱
Hello
Is it matter if you listen or not they still love you like us I love parents only nice not mean ps you sound like the on dharmann if you have
This is a bunch of b.s