Young Men 18 to 29 { The Weird Thing that Happens In This Age Group!!!}
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- Опубліковано 12 жов 2024
- What is going on young man between 18 and 29. Was going to put out a whole different video for you guys today, thought better about it and said this is the one that you definitely need to hear. Hope this is of some value to you guys. Because it is absolutely true!!!!!!
I was homeless from 17 years old all the way to the age of 30. It's been 5 years since I haven't been homeless on the streets anymore and no one came to save me. My life basically just started and it took me awhile to realize that no one ever gave a damn about me.
Im sorry man life is really unfair, i wish the best 4 u
Somebody cared. That's why you were able to level up. NO ONE CAN DO IT ALONE.
Damn tht long man u could have been working fast food at least n save all your money cuz u didn't have any bills
@@rastarecordsent yea that’s 13 years there is no excuse to be homeless that long only drug abuse or laziness
glad you made it out brother
Thank you man, no words missed. Very true
Im 33 i didnt realize this until i was 30. protect your peace and do what's best for you EARLY.
So ironic I see this as I’m literally about to lose everything I have. I somewhat already knew this but i actually see it now. Lost my job, car, and now my apartment! I’ll bounce back though
that’s the spirit 💪💯
As a 56 year old, young men he speaking facts! Educate yourself (formally & informally)! And as a Black Man you have to be 10x better than your competition, and you automatically have 2 strikes (black, man) against you walking in any job interview! And don't draw any negative on yourself! Learn a skillset, and life will flow little easier for you!
Thks Omega For the comment and the view brother!!!
@@TheOver50Guy Read Think and Grow Rich a Black Choice and Think and Grow Rich and apply the principles, young Black Man. And you will have Fullment!
I really needed to hear this as a 24 yo, I need to get myself back into college and stop playin around with these warehouse jobs i got enough saved up to pay for it but im lazy in the mind. time to do better.
Same here bro worked in different warehouses for 2/3 years, working in construction now and starting plumbing school (at 25 yo) soon and I already have a job lined up because of how hard I work, god is definitely watching over me and I hope he does the same for you goodluck with your journey.
@@meeko9811 Get Motivated Young Man , I'm pulling for You like a Son !
This is an extremely HARSH and unpleasant message, and I am sure there are exceptions to what this man is saying, but it would not be the worst thing for these young men to hear. It may save some of them.
As a retired tradesman this guy is spot on! Real life hits hard boys.
How was trades
I’ve been tryna get into trades. Nobody wants to train you.
Starting plumbing and gas in 2 months at 25, I can’t wait to start!
@@Kal-El207Carpenters , bricklayers, iron workers ,electricians etc. …research the different trades and find the one you think would be right for you . Then call the nearest union hall and ask about an apprenticeship. They will provide training and job placement. Be prepared to work HARD and show up EVERY day. Big money is out there.
This video resonated with me too well. I am 21 years old and didn't realize this until recently. Ever since my highschool graduation i've been nothing but a failure in life. I'm hoping to turn a new leaf and start another chapter for myself in the US Army. I am currently serving right now with a 4 year active duty contract and my goal is to use the army to get my bachelor's degree in Cybersecuriy. Thank you for your message, a lot of us need to hear this sooner.
Thank you for your service Young Man!!!
"Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good."
Amen
We must LOCK IN buddys, thank you 50 year old guy u'r the goat
I knew this already but I really appreciate you telling this to me and other young men. I sincerely the urgency and care in your voice and I am taking it seriously.
As someone who is 26 and never had his dad tell him any of this stuff, i greatly appreciate your wisdom and knowledge that your sharing with younger guys like me.
I wish i had an older role model who told me this stuff back when i was 18, i couldve avoided a lot of problems and heart ache throughout these past few years.
Me and you both Apex. My Dad was definitely in my life, but had to work a lot to support 4 kids. Did the best he could, but a lot of things as far as what I am speaking about now, slipped though the cracks!!!
@smokehousetalks8493 Thanks for the response, yes your right. I wish I knew all the stuff you are talking about earlier in life.
Terrible parents are a product of this bs people should be required to take a test before having kids.
True as a man your value is based on what you can produce. I see guys 25 or so still trying to be cute they havent figured it out yet. When your a kid everyone loves you because your cute when your 18 or more your not cute anymore and society expects you to produce something.
Facts Josh!!!! Thks for the comment and the view!!!
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Thanks OG. Been slowly getting my life together from 18 to 25 and now ready to really ramp it up at 26. 🙏
thanks for telling the truth about this man I've found this out the hard way.... grew up in a family of mostly women ....father and I have no relationship..... I'm one of over 10 kids.... my grandfather was my male role model he had schizophrenia and Parkinson's so certain things he couldn't help me with and was still young at that time he died when I was in high school right before that 18 year sweet spot I was scapegoated by family I tell the truth I'm kind but I've learned that people take it for weakness and that's made me colder and I'm trying to navigate that I'm trying to stay who I am and who I want to be but it IS cold and cruel out here never was like this when I was a kid and I don't think it's just that I'm older something is in the air I can't put my finger on it's just different now and keeps changing everyday but that's another topic....
That is true so true and I can really relate to this. I’m kind and I’m really honest with people. One thing I’ve learned with working, and dealing with people is not everybody is good. If people can find an opportunity to make themselves look good and destroy your reputation they WILL. Not everyone is like that, but from my own experience is don’t trust people based on what they say. Look at people’s actions. That’s what truly will tell you everything you need to know about a person. Be careful out there Jarrell. God bless!
i’ve learned this by life experience, im going to be on my shit since i’m now 20, time is not on our side fr, it’s time to grind💯
Videos like these are why there was an attack on the “family unit” , particularly removing the man of the house. Nobody their to look you in the face and tell you what it really is out this mf early. But, when you have a multi billion dollar prison system , it doesn’t benefit you to attack and remove the men from the home . Thanks OG much love let’s get to it 💯🤝🏿.
This is serious
Respect we did not have dads to tell us this
Great message 👍, I have 4 boys, and i tell them every day.
wish I had a male role model to tell me this when I was 18 no such luck....
i am 28 its a bit "better" in the real world (outside the us) but everything you said is what I've experienced, it took me some time to realize this, people will bring try belittle you and bring you down if you dont comply with them and even if you do you will still get treated like garbage, the only one i trust is God and myself.
God isn't real, but hey, if it helps you cope go for it
Amen Brother. Me and God to. 28. We will pray for this poor fellow Tubby.
@@tubbyrainbow111 Hey bro i was blessed from the start with incredible faith that in the long term actually saved me from serious trouble, but there were moments where i strayed away from the it and at first it was nice but in the end there was only hopelessness, i know you probably won't understand this which is fine everyone has different things to do here, but not believing in God is a sin in itself even if you don't believe in the Bible, you really need to change your view on life it will save you.
I totally agree but these young women are getting dragged at that age too every man and woman for themselves at that age.for real and there on.
Thts true Nate!!!
I am favored. Only God knows how much. I praise Him. I earn $230k every 4 weeks! I now have a big mansion and can afford anything. I also support God's work and the church.
Hello 👋 how do you make such weekly amount?? I'm a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down of myself because of low finance but I still believe in God
Thanks to my co-worker(Alex) who suggested mrs *Elizabeth Regina nelsen*
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Wow! Kind of in shock you mentioned expert Elizabeth Regina Nelsen. What a coincidence😱
I have heard a lot of wonderful things about Elizabeth Regina Nelsen on Fox News yesterday about how she is changing people's lives financially.
I'm 23, thanks for the advice
Thank you sir for speaking and tell the truth on Men today
He’s not lying
Certified CISCO Network Professional? That's what's up... Hope you're buying that POET in the Stock Market.
@@MTXSHO9732vV8SHO Arista stock is hot.
Thank you brother! These young dudes need this for sure
As a 26 yr old, not a shock but a good reminder :)
I'm 22, Trying to get into tech and I'll tell you this. Rejection email after rejection email. I'm fortunate enough to have my parents let me stay with them while I get all of this figured out. I've went months without work but I'm building connections within my field and I'm starting to get somewhere. I know once I get on my own if shit goes sideways you have to roll with the punches and keep going.
I'm 23 and was working for crumbs I got tired of it and stopped now I'm jobless but ik I won't fail me .. while I was work everybody loved me but once there was no more money I confronted them and they act like I was crazy so now wglhen I have bread I don't have bread
Only one teacher in high school gave us this talk. He was a refugee that came to the United States during the Vietnam war. Starting with literally nothing, he became a math teacher and was working on another degree at the time. It was nearly 30 years ago and I still remember him telling us how once we are out of high school no one cares about if we fail or succeed in life. It is absolutely true. Young men need to understand the rules of the game to win. The huge positive is when you go through the struggle and reach the goal of whatever it is you want to do, there is a complete shift in your mentality. You appreciate what you have so much more and develop a maturity that is built around self confidence where you completely do not care what other people will think if you drive some kind of car, wear some type of clothes, or even state your opinion about something. It is one of the rights of passage in life that is hard to explain but you know it when it happens to you.
He is preaching facts real talk
First off college is an option not a choice. Their is no trucency officer if you decide to not goto college after accepting loans or grants. If you take the governments money don't graduate or graduate a judge issues US Marshalls or law enforcement to visit your home for failure to pay back loans. This brother speaking the truth we are expected as grown ass men to be providers that the BIG DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BOYS AND MEN. Tell be patience and wait for the right woman to make children with.
Thank you for the advise man I appreciate it fr
I am a 58 y/o Black man with two sons ages 28 and 30. I have been saying EXACTLY what you said in your video to them since they were in their late teens. I also have lead by example, by always being gainfully employed, and always involved in their lives, despite being divorced from their Mother. I have found that as adulthood has smashed them over the head, they ask me for guidance now, more than they EVER did. They have come to realize that this world is a cold, cruel place that will swallow you up and spit you out, if you don't love yourself enough to protect yourself with integrity and determination. Both of my sons are gainfully employed, have never been incarcerated, and are responsible young men. With no children out of wedlock I will also add. I consider myself fortunate and blessed to have my sons in my life, and I am proud of them.
Good job 👏
Respect sir thank you for being in your sons lives
Thank you Ion for the comment and the view brother!!!!
Excellent video ❤
I’m 27 and you’re right lol
I see zero point In giving when the people who receive tend to spit at your face for the “stuff” you can give. At this point in my life (25 years) I am only concerned with my own personal needs and in what way I can be my best version of myself. Everything else except my family is irrelevant to me. Fuck relationships, women, or so called friends bogging you down.
There's a good chance your Momma don't GAF about you. I'm 57 and I'd say more on it (but I won't). I'm just gonna forget about her and continue my path to $5,000,000. I'm 23% of the way there and if you don't know how much that is, you've got some work to do.
When (and if) Gen Z and younger millenial retire 5m will be chump change
If you retire by 70 with 5m you still be okay, probably more than okay actually.
As for mothers caring about children, yeah it's mixed bunch - all about luck and if you fit their picture of what 'you supposed to be and be doing'.
@@alexandrabellerose3550 you will be more than okay in the grave with that 5 mil
And society doesn’t do anything to help men become valuable.
Very well spoken, this is good advice for people like me who don't take their future seriously.
Never had anyone to teach me this 💯
Even when you proved something as man, sociaty keep to disrespect you and just take what you proved to them without giving you something back. Society treat good only evil men because it scared by them and try to crush the good ones
He’s right, I’m 23, and stuck. It is a real fucking situation💀 Actually I’m not stuck, I’m doing really well. Manifesting if you will!!!
❤❤❤LOVE YOU FOR THE MESSAGE BRO-BUT THE YOUNGSTERS DON'T CARE.
BETWEEN THE GOVT & THEIR SINGLE-PARENT MOTHERS-THE ONLY THING VALUABLE TO THEM IS ATTENTION FOR KILLING THEIR FELLOW, YOUNG BLACK BROTHERS.......
Sometimes young guys get it . I'm 57 and I share wisdom as much as possible . Don't give up on young men , they need Us . At times, they can frustrate Us , Alway's remember , Being a Man , Not just a male , Is Hard Fkng Work . Just Do It !
That's not even a majority of black youth but alr bro
He’s preaching
Thank you for your message OG. I wish you the very best.
I appreciate finding your content O.G,
I appreciate that. More to come!!!
Thank you so much. God bless you
I'm 22, it feels like the past 4 years are calibration. I'm starting to get it, my mom barely cares anymore
I'm 27 but I'm barely starting to get it. I'm studying to get my CDL currently but the past couple years since I was 18, I wasted getting high and trying to impress people who didn't really care about me.
@@justintimeplaya4 yeah that’s the stage I’m breaking out of currently, feels like a right of passage into actual manhood
Swear
I feel you bro. It definitely changes, and gets worse as you get older. So pin your ears back and grind now young brother!!!!
I’m afraid that all ima do is work. I get we have to make our own way in the world but damn I really gotta join the rat race
This is pretty true just turned nineteen and and I barley got a happy bday from my parents
I’m 28 and I can’t definitely agree I see it Frfr
Hey over 500 i wanna share this video with my channel by reacting to it. Would you be okay with this?
I was getting smashed out of my face on alcohol and drugs...im 52 now i advise look after yourself dont mix it with people who are reckless all the time read lots of books or audiobooks listen to debates and lectures especially now as they're free make sure you make money as you can have a place to stay put your feet up after a days work dont stress on everything take your time and enjoy each day keep healthy and fit but don't overdo it make sure to have a good laugh watch comedy whenever you can too iv lots more advice but got to go to work now...take care look after yourselves and good luck...
Awesome Dave. Thanks for the comment and view!!!
@@TheOver50Guy thanks for the help you give out to people..👍
Dam is 32 old to get my life together ?
thank you🙏.
so true man thanks
Thank you
Despite the profanity , you've got some very good content .
You can’t sugar coat everything. Swearing is part of the real world
@@saurus7707 Popularity does not necessarily equal *TRUTH* . The world is wrong about that .
@@saurus7707 Plus , his messages could go even further , and reach a broader audience if he did not curse . I can't recommend the youth or church groups to watch his videos , even if the overall message is good .
Ohh shut up, if you’re soft then go to church where they sell you fairytales. This is reality
I agree, I honestly turned the video off earlier even though it was a good point.
Make a patron
Damn i hate being grown
💯💯💯
Yes sir.
I think that is true for both black women and men
The better looking the female, the more she can keep quiet and hold it down while looking good the greater possibility that she can monetize such assets. Hell... She might even marry a Firefighter or a Cop, she doesn't have to go anywhere near P Diddy to do that.
Nah BW do it to themselves, they don’t know how lucky they are to be females.. they cause their own pain
No, it's just true for black men.
😏 cool broh? im a trucker too, can we talk by voice call?
real
23 ?
Same thing applies
@@wzrdhndrixx7089 yep
Nobody cares is real as an adult male