WHEN COMPETING FOR a MAN GOES WRONG + MY THOUGHTS ON THE CARLEE RUSSELL STORY

Поділитися
Вставка
  • Опубліковано 2 лип 2024
  • PLEASE LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE!
    COPYRIGHT DISCLAIMER:Under Section 107 of the copyright act 1976, allowance is made for fair use for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, scholarship, and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. All information not proven as fact should be considered alleged or opinion. Clips, videos, images/photos, audio, links and/or excerpts are used for review/COMMENTARY purposes under the rights of U.S. Code Title 17 § 107 - Limitations on exclusive rights: FAIR USE.
    FAIR USE is a legal doctrine that says you can reuse copyright-protected material under certain circumstances without getting permission from the copyright owner. No copyright infringement intended. All rights and credit go directly to its respective owners.
    Support this channel:cash app:$VeronicaV211
    Paypal:Augusthillspublishing@mail.com
    My Podcast:anchor.fm/veronica-vonn
    Thank You for Watching!
    #Dating #BW #HighStandard #Relationships #selflove #levelup #datingChristian #hypogamy
    Join this channel to get access to perks:
    / @veronicav
  • Розваги

КОМЕНТАРІ • 31

  • @gloriajose3088
    @gloriajose3088 11 місяців тому +33

    Carlee did this to HERSELF, she doesn’t represent BW, MOVE ON BW. She owes an apology to the police though, for their work she did not need..

  • @marciawade9101
    @marciawade9101 11 місяців тому +44

    Ain't no way!
    I've ALWAYS told old boyfriends, that if another female wants you, and you go/are interested, you were NEVER mine to begin with. As a matter of fact, she can have you, because I DO NOT fight over men or compete with other women for men, because, chances are, he ain't SH** anyways, so I'm not missing a thing! Never have, never will!
    NOPE, NOPE, NOPE!

    • @felicagary5432
      @felicagary5432 11 місяців тому +1

      PREACH PREACH PREACH the gospel truth 🙏👏👏🙏🙏👏

  • @fromthebottom1112
    @fromthebottom1112 11 місяців тому +13

    Walked in on my dude sleeping with another woman. He heard the his bedroom door open (always was a light sleeper) and turned his face to see me standing in the doorway. I made sure not to wake the sleeping beauty (lol) threw up a peace sign. Closed the door. And haven't spoken nor reached out since. Moved completely on with my life... This was exactly one year ago. I would not everrrrrrrrrr. He's all yours baby girl😂 (&trust, better her than me...) *& Furthermore if you guys is with a stripper he's not playing with your feelings. He is literally playing with the stripper...

  • @CoachLove
    @CoachLove 11 місяців тому +27

    I ain't throwing my life away for no bm! Carlee really messed this up with how bw aren't even looked for when they go missing and to pull this STUNT with her parents! Pathetic!

    • @CoachLove
      @CoachLove 11 місяців тому +11

      Correction, any man...

    • @liesdamnliesandstatsweird1934
      @liesdamnliesandstatsweird1934 11 місяців тому +15

      #CoachLove I wouldn't throw my life away for a man of ANY race.🤔

    • @liesdamnliesandstatsweird1934
      @liesdamnliesandstatsweird1934 11 місяців тому +5

      @@CoachLove Good for you, sis!!!🙌🏾💁🏾‍♀️

    • @alicia7737
      @alicia7737 11 місяців тому +3

      I understand what you were saying here. The scarcity mindset in the BC has resulted in us being especially competitive when it comes to BW/BM relationships. As a result, women often go to extreme lengths to “keep” a man, including physically assaulting other BW.

  • @missdowntoearth6968
    @missdowntoearth6968 11 місяців тому +25

    I really hate that for Carlee, I hate she didn’t speak with a counselor instead of causing unnecessary drama to herself and family . I was recently in a situation, where the guy I was dating.. was also dating another woman.. I did not approach the other woman.. my issue was with him . He lied over and over that nothing was going on. It was clear something was going on between the two. I walked away from the situation and didn’t look back..when I did, my sleep pattern was better and so was my appetite.

    • @zerotolerance2026
      @zerotolerance2026 11 місяців тому +11

      You made the right decision!
      Having a man is not a flex….more like a liability.

    • @missdowntoearth6968
      @missdowntoearth6968 11 місяців тому +5

      @@zerotolerance2026 I agree. Thank you

  • @zerotolerance2026
    @zerotolerance2026 11 місяців тому +14

    When you have to compete for a man, you already lost.
    Chile….smh

  • @islandgirl8067
    @islandgirl8067 11 місяців тому +27

    Carlee was crazy to destroy her life for a man that obviously doesn't want to be with her. He deleted her from his social media. I really don't understand women like this, if you have to compete for a man, then he's not worth your time.

  • @LearnAsYouGo.
    @LearnAsYouGo. 11 місяців тому +18

    I would never do something as crazy as what Carlee did but I do remember being very stupid & thirsty for love when I was a few years younger than her. I know that she will look back on her decisions regarding this man with extreme regret but by then it’ll be too late, she’s caused serious & irreparable damage to her life/reputation over this stupid man.

  • @poelomokgotho8127
    @poelomokgotho8127 11 місяців тому +12

    This is an L for her

  • @novowsnovaginabreedouttheb227
    @novowsnovaginabreedouttheb227 11 місяців тому +3

    I love how you broke this down 🍾🥂🙏🏾 because I’m so tired of women blaming their relationship fail on another person who’s not in a relationship with them 🤦🏾‍♀️ you can’t shame someone into self respect! And expecting her to have it for the sake of your relationship is WILD your dude is supposed to respect you in that way not anyone else!!!

  • @msmewiththat7532
    @msmewiththat7532 11 місяців тому +4

    Veronica, I heard you mentioned the women putting the onus on the other woman and what they do to do it.
    Aside from coming on jobs, frequent harrasive calling, becoming violent, stalking as far as competiting, I have known some women going out of their way hiring root workers to attack women over a loser man. Can't make this up.
    I have even heard of and know a man who hired a worker to target a woman for not wanting to fight with his wife over him and mind you, he was the reason why his wife running down multiple women to include sitting outside complexes to let the other woman know he's married.
    Sad times. However, I do understand why some women just opt to be single.

  • @novowsnovaginabreedouttheb227
    @novowsnovaginabreedouttheb227 11 місяців тому +8

    And all while going after the other woman where is he? He’s out with ANOTHER woman 😂😂😂😂 and you will be going after every woman he deals with for the duration of the relationship because he wants to do him and you cannot stop him! Shut up and deal or shut up and leave but do NOT embarrass yourself trying to stop a man out of what he wants cause you’re only going to hurt yourself cause clearly he doesn’t care 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @marciawade9101
      @marciawade9101 11 місяців тому +1

      Shut up and deal or shut up and leave.
      👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @smartanajones4u
    @smartanajones4u 11 місяців тому +5

    Some men self esteem is so low that they want women to fight and degrade each other over them because that’s the only way they feel validated and valued. Sick but true

  • @turquoisepearls4817
    @turquoisepearls4817 11 місяців тому +3

    It really saddens me that a woman would actually think that if only this other woman leaves him alone, then he will be all mine. Even if she does…he’s just going to find another willing participant.

    • @marciawade9101
      @marciawade9101 11 місяців тому +1

      Yep, because he's trash 🗑️. 🤷

  • @alicia7737
    @alicia7737 11 місяців тому +3

    Say it again!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @UCanHaveHim
    @UCanHaveHim 11 місяців тому +2

    Race identified BW 😒

  • @n.a.7373
    @n.a.7373 11 місяців тому

    She needs criminal charges so these girls understand, these men are gonna do what they want (especially a well established dude with degrees/career) she ruined her own name chasing a man and downgrading a sx worker. This is why I respect SX workers because whether the masses like it or not , men love them and shaming them won’t change that idc how much degrees we have, they’re still women.

  • @meep_murp8758
    @meep_murp8758 11 місяців тому +7

    Destroying your life over a man that doesn't even like you... embarrassing 🫣🫣🤭

    • @alicia7737
      @alicia7737 11 місяців тому +2

      This!!! Beautiful young lady too! The black community must do better in building our young ladies up because this situation is just plain embarrassing. 😢