Men should pay better attention you know. Moving away from self absorbed into studying the people around you is a good idea. It's getting back to just basic engagement with your peers. We need more of that in our digital world. I think you would be a perfect example of someone who is leading people by example. Your level of charm is like 11/9. You must be just a natural at this because you practice what you preach in a simple yet brilliant way. Keep it up, your really are getting on it.
@@TLH442 that’s the other way around women need to do the studying in the observing. Get over their self absorption in their attitudes and their selfish ambitions we do not tolerate that, at least a mature man does not.
@@TLH442ewe huemans are programmed backwards fixed ribosome waiting for mRNA data programming to copy, paste, and DNA 🧬 y transmit the data given back like parroting parrots 🦜👁️
@@jun4466 Dose seem a bit odd now doesn't it. I'm guessing they truly screwed themselves with Women's Dominance. One thing they have overlooked. Women out Number Men 5 to one. 🌎 Wide ‼️ Now AI Love Dolls & Deluxe Life Sise Barbie Sex Dolls hitting Market. Oh I need a Man ‼️ Well looks like you ran I'm off.. Mail order Brides from Europe Asia & so fourth. Good Looking ones at that. This is going to be fun to Watch 😂🤣😂🤣
At 68 I’m not having a problem with a woman hitting on me. Not many our age do. And I’m not searching. Lost my longtime much younger soulmate to cancer. Now all I have is a large empty home and drive a restored 72 Mercedes and her vehicles. This is not how I thought things would be.
I am 70 in August and lost my wife to cancer 10 weeks ago and the "large empty home" statement was right on target. I am lucky to have some motorsports hobbies and still work a little managing my rentals. Friends have been great and my racing family is keeping my busy.
I just learned to go by body language. When a woman is into you, it's like you have your own personal gravity. She subtly (and sometimes not so subtly) gets closer to your personal space. This is usually accompanied by frequent, but light touching of your arm. Not to mention having a big smile and lots of eye contact. At that point it is up to you to keep her engaged. I really had no game until I was about 30, totally blew a lot of opportunities when I was young. Especially thinking back to college and even high school.
You forgot they should pay as well. Followed by a $10,000 - $100,000 Rolex as an engagement gift (price will depend on her financial situation). After you're married, your life should be golfing with friends, working on yourself, and going on vacations so you can see the world together. Oh, and no prenup, it's a sign she doesn't love you. She has to be in the top 1%.
I have been ignoring women for a few years now.I never seem to like any of them any more. I no longer have any interest in trying to impress a bunch of phonies
@@jeffdemas9521That's NEVER in the history of the world worked on a woman (who wasn't already head over heels). Why would she assume it would work on you?!
No, I have never heard a girl ask any of these questions. In fact, I've never even heard of such a question as "what's a fun fact about you?" In my life experience, I always found women to be as quiet and uncommunicative with me as I typically am with them, in social settings. There were times when I felt I would converse if only the female gave any sign of willingness to converse, which they never did. And the times I made attempts to push my comfort zone by being the first to speak, well those times typically met with rejection, which is why I gave that tactic up. In the end, I never saw any good way for a male and female to be introduced, unless it is by a third party. Sounds pretty bad doesn't it? And it is.
If a woman is interested in me she should say, "I like you and I'm interested in dating you." Either that or drop hints for the next 5 years, which I will promptly ignore. I don't have the patience to try to decode girls' nonsense body language or subtle hints.
Geez, you guys are exhausting you're so lame. You have zero clues about women and less than zero game. Honest to Pete, if you bothered learning ANYTHING, you could hold a conversation with anyone, male or female. 90% of people can't hold up their end of a conversation. Not one woman in a hundred can flirt. If you can make a feeble attempt, women will think you're fascinating. I can't believe how many men are just oblivious and clueless.
1) What's a fun fact about you? 2) What's your favorite food or restaurant? 3) Do you have any hidden talents? 4) What kind of things do you do for fun? 5) Do you work out? You look fit. 6) Do you believe in astrology? If so, what's your sign? 7) BONUS TIP: Mastering the art of reciprocating flirtation
“Have you ever taken a bath with a woman?” was a question I recently had asked of me from an admirer. I responded no but if that’s an invitation you can count me in. We have been developing a subtle sexual tension between us for a couple of weeks now and it is quite refreshing.
On Friday I was totally floored by a much younger woman, I was my usual chatty self, and out of nowhere she asked me " What do you have planned for the weekend"? I knew straight away she was asking me out. So I told her how I was going to spend it with my wife and son.
I got the same q on a Friday & I'm single. However, I had a terribly old car at the time (I love my Camry that I have now), so just replied, "yardwork". If it were today my reply would be, "spending it with you!"
I've noticed one that isn't a question per say but is a sneaky way of asking one. They'll say something like this "I'm sure your girlfriend would like that" or "You girlfriend is probably waiting for you at home" or anything that implies that i have a girlfriend. I've had that one many times and it's a sneaky way of asking if i have one because if i don't, i can say "Oh i don't have a girlfriend" and if you wanna be playful, you can add "not yet" in the end depending if you're comfortable enough in doing so.
I prefer to just say “ I get by…” ; gives you extra time to pursue other topics, and the mystery gets their gears turning like crazy, while putting the topic of $ on the back burner. If she immediately balks, you didn’t want the gold digger anyway…
1. Whats a fun fact about you ? - Never has a girl asked me that. 2. Whats your favorite food? - Never has a girl asked me that. 3. Do you have any hidden talents? - Never has a girl asked me that. 4. What kinds of things do you do for fun? - Never has a girl asked me that. 5. Do you workout? You look fit - Never has a girl asked me that. 6. Do you believe in astrology? - Never has a girl asked me that. But then again I dont expose my self to girls except at work. id prefer to see a video about super extra subtle of verbal and nonverbal questions and signs of a girl who is hitting on or wants attention.. lets say at work or at supermarkets. because thats pretty much the only place where I encounter women these days.
@@averyce2 You've gotta be joking. Thai and Filippinas are not only ugly and dumb and way too emotional to me. But in a sense they are their own separate category of ugly and dumb compared to local Polish women here in Netherlands.... (if its even possible. because I havent seen dumber women than Polish ones). But Ive had my share of experience with Filippinas... they are all into Catholic indoctrination, lame fashion, tampo and absolutely cant relate with me. Mind you... Im a nihilist, a mild aspie, an INFJ to the core, demisexual, sapiosexual. Enjoying only my healthy lifestyle when it comes to fitness... But when it comes to psychology. I enjoy only my depersonalization and derealization. Long detailed dreams, money on my account and long exhausting pointless joy rides at night, through spooky forest roads under the queit stars. I dont need women. Im the happiest when Im on nofap and I just tease and banter with women and then ignore them and then they drool after me and I just run away.. Thats my sport... I dont need anything more than that because its too exhausting, I dont have time or energy, or nerves or purpose or a need to go that way. I prefer reading books by Pythagoras, Accadian, Sumerian, Babylonian and Tibetan ancient scripts instead. I prefer reading occult books, books about demonology and listening to courses about psychology and software development. If only I had more time for all of that and to be able to put it to actual practice and make it profitable. Only thing I need is long long sleep, cash. Someone to unalive Kl4us Schw4b because because of that dirt bag I dont want to live past 2030 and Im actually planing my death. Not only because of dystopian future which is too early for me when I just started living. (and I was a sex dom to my last ex. and she lived half a year in my previous apartment in Croatia... and mind you I just played along because I needed her money.. but I hated sex). But thats all my past... Now Im just living day by day, letting life pass me by. my health deteriorating so much Im no longer able to be an optimal kisser like I used to be. so who cares about women. fck that sh1t. All I need is sleep and metal festivals and lone wolf rides and this great reset to live me alone or Im seriously gonna go the Fizzle B0mb3r route and end my self with a blast. Filippinas u say? are you crazy ? are u that much of a loser ? Passport ? I dont rven have one. Book a plane ? Dude I dont even have a grand. Nor can I afford time off work. Only couple of days off per week. And only women I find smart and attractive are fellow Croatians, Serbian, Bulgarian, Romanian, Greek, Chinese, Russian, German, Italian, French, Latvian, Estonian and Porterhouse. I work with all of them. Except for the local Polish which are dumb and unbelievably shallow and lazy. Which all have lazy, dumb and ugly boyfriends (and funny enough those dumb Polish girls are drooling after me pointlessly), but Im ignoring them like ants. And they have the most annoying language possible, which rots my brain when I hear it! Its the ultimate turn off.. especially when they know zero English and have zero humor. And they are all dressing like bimbos full of makeup and red nails, baseball caps and dorky glasses. Or, the minority of local Dutch girls, who are all extremely fat and potato face with a double chin. Extremely annoyingly giggly, too shallow, too lame and their English is also bad, their logic is laughable, and they are just care free like the people in the Wall-E cartoon and they are farting all the time in public. These Dutch women all have a face like a potato, only their legs are hot but nothing else is good on them. They all have a face and a maxilla like adult babies. They all look the same I cant even differentiate them. So yeah... who needs women... If you need them.. fine... I have other.. otherworldly priorities. If some female wants something from me.. she should simply be clear about it.. slap my ass.. and then I will see if Im in the mood... most probably not. But first I have to scan her face to recognize her nationality, then scan her IQ and her spirit. Because I dont engage just with any spirits. Period.
Yeah, I went to Thailand. Went to a bar, and this Thai girl about 10 years younger than me just jumped on my lap and was basically molesting me, all over me she was, so had to take her back to my place and do it with her. She was crazy for it. Treated like a king over there.
I like the question "What is your astrology sign?" - It's the opportunity to tell that these signs are totally pointless. If she doesn't agree, or at least understand why I think that way, I know I don't need to waste more time.
I have never been asked any of these questions in my life. Except what do you do for a living. But that one is a pretty standard question. Men ask a woman that one for curiosity reasons, women ask it for a financial reason. But back in the day, they were actually curious about what you did for a living.
I had a girl shout "hey I know you" I laughed and said "ya I know me too" I guess it worked as an ice breaker. I had no idea who she was at first. Fun night still.
Those are all things that make perfect sense and seem obvious when you think about it... but the truth is, thinking about the meaning behind a question doesn't come naturally to most people (including me) in the middle of a conversation.
With me, that hardly ever happens. For years I have done everything you were saying in your video. Every relationship I ever had was short lived. Everything I do and say to spark interest to the other person only seems to push that person away. No wonder I'm still single. My Grand mother once said; "Don't ever let your past or troubles get in the way of finding happiness, get out there and chase that skirt!" She had a silly scence of humor. God rest her soul. She was always so kind and loving.
Thirty years ago a girl at work got mildly flirty with me, had many affable conversations. She said she'd love to go see a college football game one day "if anyone would ever ask me" (I go to my alma mater games regularly). So several weeks later I asked, suggesting we could go as friends if she wanted. That mistake...just that invite alone cost me three years of a sexual harassment claim. She didn't win anything but I lost plenty. No thanks, been single all my life. Too much unrighteousness in the world today.
The more relationship self help videos I watch, the more I realize they are unnecessisarilly complicated, they don't last without constant effort and investment, they can evaporate in a moments notice, and I flat out just don't want one.
Happily married for 20yrs and counting. I've been out of the game so long, I came here to learn when to shut down a conversation and walk away. Wedding rings bring 'em in like flys to sugar, and I don't want to accidentaĺly lead anyone on.
I'm 68 years old I don't have any problem meeting and talking to women. I do share a lot of my interest in things that happened in my past I love to have conversations with women. One day I'm sure I'll find my soulmate again
Why don't women just ask, "hey, you want to go out sometime?" Straight and to the point. Even if the guy isn't interested, he will feel flattered and appriciate your confidence. I think i speak for most men in saying that we hate this "subtle hint" type conversation.
Hmm fun fact about me .i really struggle with that one but ,and i dont know if it counts when im flying along through hills and farmland in the dark on my motorcycle on my way home and the roads get windey and a little hairy, an image of toad of toad hall doing exactly the same thing from the television series wind in the willows always flashes through my mind and i end up laughing outrageously inside my helmet .used to watch it when i was a child 🤣🤣🤣in any case even though im only 48 ,i feel like with the exception of myself ,that the ideal of commitment is dead now in this world unfortunately ,but personally I just dont work any other way .if im not emotionaly involved with someone then i just cant go their with a woman (ive tried and made an idiot of myself a long time back ,so i know ).whilst it is a lonely way, im glad of it when i look at the situations i see people get themselves caught up in with women for the sake of momentary fun .
Always enjoy your explanation, I was and still am somewhat shy when it comes to women. But understand them better has helped. I catch a lot flirters in action now then I did.
I'm autistic and unfortunately never pick up on someone interested in me, these social rules cause a lot of anxiety trying to keep conversation going along these lines...
Most young women in my town are a bit more afraid to say anything to me, simply because I am a bit intimidating to them after being in the army in my youth and I have even lost my muscles! I am now almost 56 years old but still get multitudes of longing glimpses from young women
I am 68 and marrIed and I was once asked by a woman what I did for a living. The way I got this woman to walk away and leave me alone was my response. I simply told her that I was on government subsidies. She turned around and left without any further questions. LOL
I don't need to know how to respond. I'm already happily married. But, I'm also notoriously clueless to women trying to hit on me. I think I need to know this so I don't inadvertently lead someone on or get in trouble with my wife. 😂😂
Your wife is probably delighted that you are notoriously clueless to women hitting on you. It shows her that that thought never even crosses your mind.
"All the girls I meet want to talk about astrology. What sign are you under, what do you think about it, are our signs compatible. I'll tell you, all the girls I meet all under the same sign... for rent." - Rodney Dangerfield
I've gotten that. I guess the way I dress and present myself. Somewhere between off duty police officer and CIA, and no I can't divulge what I do for a living😂
What is your job? How much you have in your bank? What kind of house do you have ? Rent or own? What type of car do you have?. ... " Hey Mom, i want you to meet my new girlfriend, i told you she was Special...😂😂😂
Had a few times I can remember when girls flirt with me. My current gf literally, out of nowhere, texted me asking if I was single to which I said yes. Then she asked, "Would you like me to do something about it?", I was a little sidelined by that question that I just said, "LOL if you can find a girl who's interested in me then sure." Later on when we got together she admitted she had a crush on me which is why she always asks if I would be free to join our friends' chatroom.
I don't need any chick to ask me any of those questions. I just know if she likes me. At 68 and married, I still get hit on by younger and older women alike. I can pick up the body language very easily. Even if she acts like she isn't interested, I can tell that she really is. At my age, I've developed a kind of intuition, a sixth sense for these things.
Went past step one was at the restaurant they didn't have the Clam Chowder I wanted, later was suppressed when my friend self-delivered responded with flowers...
I’m obviously a very ‘shut down’ person. No matter how ‘great’ people say I am, I have NEVER had a woman (or girl, for that matter) express this kind of interest in me. After decades of wondering why, I’ve come up with only one reason - I didn’t give out signals that I am (was) available. If you don’t act ‘interested’, girls just aren’t going to pursue you. And really, let’s face, most girls aren’t that aggressive. If they think you are not interested, they will not try to figure out if you might be a potential date. This is probably better advise for WLW.
It's also fun to answer these questions with one word answers preceeded by me like. For the food question you can answer me like food. That can work for the fun fact question.
I know they like me when they say, can I buy you a beer. I never hit on women.It's always the other way around. Just ignore them, they can't stand it. And most of them had their own finances. Got treated like a king, without saying a word. Age 67.1Cav
Oh brother! If she's interested and doesn't just ask to meet for coffee or something, she's immature, insecure and you can expect more of the same non-forthcoming non-direct confusion in a relationship. Nooo thanks!
Plot twist: Joyanima is desperately trying to grab the attention of a handsome but clueless guy who just doesn’t get it at all. Not even with dozens of these videos😉
Thank you so much! I'm a long time viewer and I still can't believe you know what warhammer lol is but you are English😂 but thank you for all your valuable tips. I've been watching for a long time
"What's a fun fact about you?"??? seriously? This is one of the many MANY questions that are on the women's " do not ask me" list. So they get to ask it but it's "lazy" for us to? I call BS right off the bat.
Hello and thank you for your continued content. It has been a big help for me. Question though.... What is a woman shows all of the signs you suggest that she is into me but specifies and emphasizes that we are just friends?
Everytime I watch one of these "how to... with women" videos, I get about a minute in and then remember how much I hate interacting with women and leave the video.
I remember i was busy at work and this co worker of mine asked me like “ are you hitting on me?!” And i was like “ what r u talkin’ abt?!” I didnt waste my time to play! And he said while he smiled at me “ nah forget it!”And i was curious what does he mean! 😂
Have you spotted any of these questions crop up in conversation?
Men should pay better attention you know. Moving away from self absorbed into studying the people around you is a good idea. It's getting back to just basic engagement with your peers. We need more of that in our digital world. I think you would be a perfect example of someone who is leading people by example. Your level of charm is like 11/9. You must be just a natural at this because you practice what you preach in a simple yet brilliant way. Keep it up, your really are getting on it.
Off course not its non verbal talking only i can do that 🙋
@@TLH442 that’s the other way around women need to do the studying in the observing. Get over their self absorption in their attitudes and their selfish ambitions we do not tolerate that, at least a mature man does not.
@@TLH442ewe huemans are programmed backwards fixed ribosome waiting for mRNA data programming to copy, paste, and DNA 🧬 y transmit the data given back like parroting parrots 🦜👁️
@@TLH442ewe huemans rate #1 a 10/dime that is a very minute number 👁️
Just turn around and walk way, you'll save your self a lot of grief.
What's wrong with the questions?
@@SarahR6652 They are just a way for a femtail to find out if he is worth D/graping, if she can con him into geting married later on.
😂😂😂👌
Yea if by grief you mean having sex with a woman
Definitely, I Accept 🤣🙌✨
Those questions are about as fun and natural as a job interview.
And as original.
Just let I'm have a few more Drinks. The ❓❓❓❓ will get more interesting 🤣😂🤣😂
Right? It's likea the fish is trying to give advice how to catch 'em, but it's far better to ask the fishermen.
@@jun4466 Dose seem a bit odd now doesn't it. I'm guessing they truly screwed themselves with Women's Dominance. One thing they have overlooked. Women out Number Men 5 to one. 🌎 Wide ‼️ Now AI Love Dolls & Deluxe Life Sise Barbie Sex Dolls hitting Market. Oh I need a Man ‼️ Well looks like you ran I'm off.. Mail order Brides from Europe Asia & so fourth. Good Looking ones at that. This is going to be fun to Watch 😂🤣😂🤣
A job interview is what dating these days all boil down to. They don't want a man
They want a subservient debt slave.
“What do you do for a living?” - RED FLAG NUMBER ONE!! She wants $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$.
Yep, Your resources are at risk especially in America
I don't totally agree, what a man does for work says a lot about the person and can give her a lot of good info.
@@mac11380 are you female?
@@mac11380good info that your salary range that’s what. Guage her reaction to a joke response, “I’m an undertaker” 😝
A money digger 😱
I will keep this in mind when i emerge from my time machine 100 yrs back when women were traditional.
Told my kids "Find the right mate, and the sky's the limit. Find the wrong one, and you'll wish you were in hell for a vacation ".
At 68 I’m not having a problem with a woman hitting on me. Not many our age do. And I’m not searching. Lost my longtime much younger soulmate to cancer. Now all I have is a large empty home and drive a restored 72 Mercedes and her vehicles. This is not how I thought things would be.
@brucemattingly6476 oh hush up
Get a dog friend, embrace your hobbies, enjoy your time, and remember her.
I am 70 in August and lost my wife to cancer 10 weeks ago and the "large empty home" statement was right on target. I am lucky to have some motorsports hobbies and still work a little managing my rentals. Friends have been great and my racing family is keeping my busy.
@@teamtownridge God bless sir.
@Frank-pe9pk God bless sir.
Who else clicked on the video after seeing thumbnail and then got diissapointed😅
I clicked so I can post a meaningful comment or reply to a comment. I already know who's speaking, no need to assume anything unrealistic.
I just learned to go by body language. When a woman is into you, it's like you have your own personal gravity. She subtly (and sometimes not so subtly) gets closer to your personal space. This is usually accompanied by frequent, but light touching of your arm. Not to mention having a big smile and lots of eye contact. At that point it is up to you to keep her engaged. I really had no game until I was about 30, totally blew a lot of opportunities when I was young. Especially thinking back to college and even high school.
It’s very rare.
Dude same here and the woman turned out to be divorced 😂
I blew a ton of chances by drinking too much on occasion 🤷🏼♂️
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My wife of 45 years followed me everywhere. Her eyes too. I liked her so I returned the same response.
The question I hear all the time is "Will you get out of my sight?"
"why are you talking to me?"
These comments are giving me PTSD 😂
Or the ubiquitous 'I have a boyfriend'
Or the ubiquitous 'I have a boyfriend'
@@Thenogomogo-zo3unin the Special Forces.
We don't really care ,women today are terrible .
You are so right, wish we could go back to the good old day, when most of em just sucked 😅
Theyr moronic users
So true. Girls or women are simply gold diggers now wanting to take advantage of all men for their benefit.
I'd suppose that they just don't care either.
Truth
How about this: if they want a date, maybe it’s time for THEM to ask you. Time to put a little skin on the line.
EXACTLY!
Yep, gender equality not only in selected areas.
You forgot they should pay as well. Followed by a $10,000 - $100,000 Rolex as an engagement gift (price will depend on her financial situation).
After you're married, your life should be golfing with friends, working on yourself, and going on vacations so you can see the world together. Oh, and no prenup, it's a sign she doesn't love you. She has to be in the top 1%.
I have been ignoring women for a few years now.I never seem to like any of them any more. I no longer have any interest in trying to impress a bunch of phonies
My fave is still "Do you have a girlfriend?"
Yep followed by "Why not?"
I hate the "Why not?".
Lol, that happened to me once. I replied no, then she said "want one?", I still said no, and she was just dumbfounded after.
@@jeffdemas9521That's NEVER in the history of the world worked on a woman (who wasn't already head over heels). Why would she assume it would work on you?!
What do you think might happen if you said “no, but I got a couple of sheep.”?
No, I have never heard a girl ask any of these questions. In fact, I've never even heard of such a question as "what's a fun fact about you?" In my life experience, I always found women to be as quiet and uncommunicative with me as I typically am with them, in social settings. There were times when I felt I would converse if only the female gave any sign of willingness to converse, which they never did. And the times I made attempts to push my comfort zone by being the first to speak, well those times typically met with rejection, which is why I gave that tactic up. In the end, I never saw any good way for a male and female to be introduced, unless it is by a third party. Sounds pretty bad doesn't it? And it is.
If a woman is interested in me she should say, "I like you and I'm interested in dating you."
Either that or drop hints for the next 5 years, which I will promptly ignore. I don't have the patience to try to decode girls' nonsense body language or subtle hints.
Fun fact is my boyfriend is going to beat the crap out of you is common
@@protorhinocerator142 facts bro, its fucking exhausting.
Story of my life too
Geez, you guys are exhausting you're so lame. You have zero clues about women and less than zero game.
Honest to Pete, if you bothered learning ANYTHING, you could hold a conversation with anyone, male or female. 90% of people can't hold up their end of a conversation.
Not one woman in a hundred can flirt. If you can make a feeble attempt, women will think you're fascinating. I can't believe how many men are just oblivious and clueless.
The astrology question is a red flag for me.
I identify as a Leo, but the crystals told me to say I'm a Capricorn. Let's just say I'm like Cancer to Virgos.
It shouldn't be. There's merit to it.
@@brianwesley28No there isn't
@@ejscorp Yes, there really is.
Anytime a woman says she is giving something “to the universe”, I shake my head
"I'm married and I don't answer questions about my person... what do you want?!"
Stops that BS dead in its tracks
1) What's a fun fact about you?
2) What's your favorite food or restaurant?
3) Do you have any hidden talents?
4) What kind of things do you do for fun?
5) Do you work out? You look fit.
6) Do you believe in astrology? If so, what's your sign?
7) BONUS TIP: Mastering the art of reciprocating flirtation
thanks
Saved me precious minutes 🫡
I don't know why but I don't get asked number 5
8) How big is it?
9) I mean your bank balance.
U rr a champion
So I've never been hit on 😂
Welcome to the club.
aye bro what kind of food do you like?
@@michaeltran1718 🤣
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lmao
She doesn't realize this is teaching men about red flags and how to avoid danger. Take this to heart and stay safe out there, guys 😅
“Have you ever taken a bath with a woman?” was a question I recently had asked of me from an admirer. I responded no but if that’s an invitation you can count me in. We have been developing a subtle sexual tension between us for a couple of weeks now and it is quite refreshing.
That's a trick question for sure if you ask me.....
“Have you ever taken a bath with a woman?” subtle?
@v2vortex I have with a few of them. On time we were in the tube drinking butter ripple snaps.
WEEKS??? Boy, go get some champagne and tea candles and tell her to bring the bubble bath. Be direct and confident, and it's ON!! Go for it!
Whare I live it is safe to skinny dip at beaches.....better than a bath in some ways. The sun, the beach, and.....
On Friday I was totally floored by a much younger woman, I was my usual chatty self, and out of nowhere she asked me " What do you have planned for the weekend"? I knew straight away she was asking me out. So I told her how I was going to spend it with my wife and son.
LoL, beautiful!
I got the same q on a Friday & I'm single. However, I had a terribly old car at the time (I love my Camry that I have now), so just replied, "yardwork".
If it were today my reply would be, "spending it with you!"
The target audience is junior high and high school
Clueless living in the clouds, yes!
Men are learning to live without commitment to women because that is what we have been told to do.
Women are strong and independent. You go, girl's 😂
If i want affection, i go to Nye County and buy it !!
Cheaper in the long run
I've noticed one that isn't a question per say but is a sneaky way of asking one. They'll say something like this "I'm sure your girlfriend would like that" or "You girlfriend is probably waiting for you at home" or anything that implies that i have a girlfriend. I've had that one many times and it's a sneaky way of asking if i have one because if i don't, i can say "Oh i don't have a girlfriend" and if you wanna be playful, you can add "not yet" in the end depending if you're comfortable enough in doing so.
Being able to know what peoples emotions are doing while talking to them has helped me find a lot of dates when I was dating.
Take it from me the less questions the better end of especially when she ask you what your job is just say your unemployed and see if see stays.
I prefer to just say “ I get by…” ; gives you extra time to pursue other topics, and the mystery gets their gears turning like crazy, while putting the topic of $ on the back burner. If she immediately balks, you didn’t want the gold digger anyway…
Lol😂
"Hey! What kind of car do you drive?"
Out on bail AND unemployed for the win!
1. Whats a fun fact about you ? - Never has a girl asked me that.
2. Whats your favorite food? - Never has a girl asked me that.
3. Do you have any hidden talents? - Never has a girl asked me that.
4. What kinds of things do you do for fun? - Never has a girl asked me that.
5. Do you workout? You look fit - Never has a girl asked me that.
6. Do you believe in astrology? - Never has a girl asked me that.
But then again I dont expose my self to girls except at work.
id prefer to see a video about super extra subtle of verbal and nonverbal questions and signs of a girl who is hitting on or wants attention.. lets say at work or at supermarkets.
because thats pretty much the only place where I encounter women these days.
Bro, you need to step outside your comfort zone and engage. May I suggest getting a passport, and heading to Thailand or the Philippines. \m/
@@averyce2 You've gotta be joking. Thai and Filippinas are not only ugly and dumb and way too emotional to me. But in a sense they are their own separate category of ugly and dumb compared to local Polish women here in Netherlands.... (if its even possible. because I havent seen dumber women than Polish ones). But Ive had my share of experience with Filippinas... they are all into Catholic indoctrination, lame fashion, tampo and absolutely cant relate with me.
Mind you... Im a nihilist, a mild aspie, an INFJ to the core, demisexual, sapiosexual. Enjoying only my healthy lifestyle when it comes to fitness... But when it comes to psychology. I enjoy only my depersonalization and derealization. Long detailed dreams, money on my account and long exhausting pointless joy rides at night, through spooky forest roads under the queit stars. I dont need women. Im the happiest when Im on nofap and I just tease and banter with women and then ignore them and then they drool after me and I just run away.. Thats my sport... I dont need anything more than that because its too exhausting, I dont have time or energy, or nerves or purpose or a need to go that way.
I prefer reading books by Pythagoras, Accadian, Sumerian, Babylonian and Tibetan ancient scripts instead. I prefer reading occult books, books about demonology and listening to courses about psychology and software development.
If only I had more time for all of that and to be able to put it to actual practice and make it profitable.
Only thing I need is long long sleep, cash.
Someone to unalive Kl4us Schw4b because because of that dirt bag I dont want to live past 2030 and Im actually planing my death. Not only because of dystopian future which is too early for me when I just started living. (and I was a sex dom to my last ex. and she lived half a year in my previous apartment in Croatia... and mind you I just played along because I needed her money.. but I hated sex).
But thats all my past... Now Im just living day by day, letting life pass me by.
my health deteriorating so much Im no longer able to be an optimal kisser like I used to be. so who cares about women. fck that sh1t.
All I need is sleep and metal festivals and lone wolf rides and this great reset to live me alone or Im seriously gonna go the Fizzle B0mb3r route and end my self with a blast.
Filippinas u say? are you crazy ? are u that much of a loser ? Passport ? I dont rven have one. Book a plane ? Dude I dont even have a grand. Nor can I afford time off work. Only couple of days off per week.
And only women I find smart and attractive are fellow Croatians, Serbian, Bulgarian, Romanian, Greek, Chinese, Russian, German, Italian, French, Latvian, Estonian and Porterhouse. I work with all of them.
Except for the local Polish which are dumb and unbelievably shallow and lazy.
Which all have lazy, dumb and ugly boyfriends (and funny enough those dumb Polish girls are drooling after me pointlessly), but Im ignoring them like ants. And they have the most annoying language possible, which rots my brain when I hear it! Its the ultimate turn off.. especially when they know zero English and have zero humor. And they are all dressing like bimbos full of makeup and red nails, baseball caps and dorky glasses.
Or, the minority of local Dutch girls, who are all extremely fat and potato face with a double chin. Extremely annoyingly giggly, too shallow, too lame and their English is also bad, their logic is laughable, and they are just care free like the people in the Wall-E cartoon and they are farting all the time in public. These Dutch women all have a face like a potato, only their legs are hot but nothing else is good on them. They all have a face and a maxilla like adult babies.
They all look the same I cant even differentiate them.
So yeah... who needs women...
If you need them.. fine...
I have other.. otherworldly priorities.
If some female wants something from me.. she should simply be clear about it.. slap my ass.. and then I will see if Im in the mood... most probably not.
But first I have to scan her face to recognize her nationality, then scan her IQ and her spirit. Because I dont engage just with any spirits. Period.
We're in the same boat, bruv. The guy above me is right.
Not sure you have to go as far as the Philippines, but the first part is right
Yeah, I went to Thailand. Went to a bar, and this Thai girl about 10 years younger than me just jumped on my lap and was basically molesting me, all over me she was, so had to take her back to my place and do it with her. She was crazy for it. Treated like a king over there.
The last paragraph...
is literally all her other videos. 😆
I like the question "What is your astrology sign?" -
It's the opportunity to tell that these signs are totally pointless.
If she doesn't agree, or at least understand why I think that way,
I know I don't need to waste more time.
Okay, I got it. Nobody has ever hit on me [smiles in Harold].
I usually get open ended questions because they want encourage more conversation, things like "what is wrong with you??"
do i know you?
I have never been asked any of these questions in my life. Except what do you do for a living. But that one is a pretty standard question. Men ask a woman that one for curiosity reasons, women ask it for a financial reason. But back in the day, they were actually curious about what you did for a living.
I had a girl shout "hey I know you" I laughed and said "ya I know me too" I guess it worked as an ice breaker. I had no idea who she was at first. Fun night still.
Those are all things that make perfect sense and seem obvious when you think about it... but the truth is, thinking about the meaning behind a question doesn't come naturally to most people (including me) in the middle of a conversation.
With me, that hardly ever happens. For years I have done everything you were saying in your video. Every relationship I ever had was short lived. Everything I do and say to spark interest to the other person only seems to push that person away. No wonder I'm still single. My Grand mother once said; "Don't ever let your past or troubles get in the way of finding happiness, get out there and chase that skirt!" She had a silly scence of humor. God rest her soul. She was always so kind and loving.
getting these questions from someone you are attracted to is great to hear.
If I would share my opinion on this astrology topic, she would run away 😱
They are dumb if they really believe them.
Thirty years ago a girl at work got mildly flirty with me, had many affable conversations. She said she'd love to go see a college football game one day "if anyone would ever ask me" (I go to my alma mater games regularly). So several weeks later I asked, suggesting we could go as friends if she wanted.
That mistake...just that invite alone cost me three years of a sexual harassment claim. She didn't win anything but I lost plenty.
No thanks, been single all my life. Too much unrighteousness in the world today.
The more relationship self help videos I watch, the more I realize they are unnecessisarilly complicated, they don't last without constant effort and investment, they can evaporate in a moments notice, and I flat out just don't want one.
Happily married for 20yrs and counting. I've been out of the game so long, I came here to learn when to shut down a conversation and walk away. Wedding rings bring 'em in like flys to sugar, and I don't want to accidentaĺly lead anyone on.
I'm 68 years old I don't have any problem meeting and talking to women. I do share a lot of my interest in things that happened in my past I love to have conversations with women. One day I'm sure I'll find my soulmate again
Why don't women just ask, "hey, you want to go out sometime?" Straight and to the point. Even if the guy isn't interested, he will feel flattered and appriciate your confidence. I think i speak for most men in saying that we hate this "subtle hint" type conversation.
I've been asked questions 2 and 4 by women. Most of these were casual conversations that didn't lead to dates😂
Hmm fun fact about me .i really struggle with that one but ,and i dont know if it counts when im flying along through hills and farmland in the dark on my motorcycle on my way home and the roads get windey and a little hairy, an image of toad of toad hall doing exactly the same thing from the television series wind in the willows always flashes through my mind and i end up laughing outrageously inside my helmet .used to watch it when i was a child 🤣🤣🤣in any case even though im only 48 ,i feel like with the exception of myself ,that the ideal of commitment is dead now in this world unfortunately ,but personally I just dont work any other way .if im not emotionaly involved with someone then i just cant go their with a woman (ive tried and made an idiot of myself a long time back ,so i know ).whilst it is a lonely way, im glad of it when i look at the situations i see people get themselves caught up in with women for the sake of momentary fun .
One asked me if I make the bed in the morning. I told her that the girl that stayed over is usually the one making the bed.
Every girl that flirts with me usually ask the same question: could you please leave? That's when I know she is into me
Always enjoy your explanation, I was and still am somewhat shy when it comes to women. But understand them better has helped. I catch a lot flirters in action now then I did.
I am happy to say that I've never been asked any of these questions, so I haven't missed out
I'm autistic and unfortunately never pick up on someone interested in me, these social rules cause a lot of anxiety trying to keep conversation going along these lines...
Most young women in my town are a bit more afraid to say anything to me, simply because I am a bit intimidating to them after being in the army in my youth and I have even lost my muscles! I am now almost 56 years old but still get multitudes of longing glimpses from young women
You do?? Wow, a lot of us guys have never experienced a "longing glimpse" even one time.
@@KpxUrz5745 I know brother I feel for you!
The army? Sure not the leggy?
@@anderstermansen130 talk with when you make sense to me?
@@anderstermansen130 you wait until you experience your first air strike?
Golddigger question: What do you do for living?
Does this lady Joy come from a two parent home or single parent? Makes a big difference
All her advice is in my opinion aimed at 20 somethings, not for old farts like me that has checked out of the dating scene long long ago
They still be looking for a meal ticket, and if/when she finds out she makes more money than him she'll dump him in her cold heartbeat.
I am 68 and marrIed and I was once asked by a woman what I did for a living. The way I got this woman to walk away and leave me alone was my response. I simply told her that I was on government subsidies. She turned around and left without any further questions. LOL
May I ask respectfully how you learned the information that you base your advice on?
Good question
@@suraj8092 And probably the one that will never be answered :)
Riding the carousel, potentially.
I don't need to know how to respond. I'm already happily married. But, I'm also notoriously clueless to women trying to hit on me. I think I need to know this so I don't inadvertently lead someone on or get in trouble with my wife. 😂😂
Your wife is probably delighted that you are notoriously clueless to women hitting on you. It shows her that that thought never even crosses your mind.
Rule #1 everyone is afraid of rejection. Rule #2 push through as far as you can.
If she asks what your sign is, RUN!...
I need to watch that one again, it was very informative.
"All the girls I meet want to talk about astrology. What sign are you under, what do you think about it, are our signs compatible. I'll tell you, all the girls I meet all under the same sign... for rent."
- Rodney Dangerfield
Most of the time its "what do you do for work" to see if u can pay for all her needs
What about a woman that tells you she likes your shirt or outfit ?
For real. I get this a lot. I just respond with something polite and continue on my way.
A girl once asked me "How many people have you killed?"
I've gotten that. I guess the way I dress and present myself. Somewhere between off duty police officer and CIA, and no I can't divulge what I do for a living😂
What is your job? How much you have in your bank? What kind of house do you have ? Rent or own? What type of car do you have?. ... " Hey Mom, i want you to meet my new girlfriend, i told you she was Special...😂😂😂
LoL
To be honest, whenever there is a bonus tip at the end ... I go straight there and skip what's in the middle.
Had a few times I can remember when girls flirt with me. My current gf literally, out of nowhere, texted me asking if I was single to which I said yes. Then she asked, "Would you like me to do something about it?", I was a little sidelined by that question that I just said, "LOL if you can find a girl who's interested in me then sure." Later on when we got together she admitted she had a crush on me which is why she always asks if I would be free to join our friends' chatroom.
Your analysis is spot on. Thanks.
as a guy, it's usually pretty obvious if a girl is hitting on you.
This information might be useful if men were still interested in either approaching or pursuing, and if women were still worth the effort.
They will never be as good as a good mom
The one I keep hearing is "Do you have the time?" How should that be handled?
I don't need any chick to ask me any of those questions. I just know if she likes me. At 68 and married, I still get hit on by younger and older women alike. I can pick up the body language very easily. Even if she acts like she isn't interested, I can tell that she really is. At my age, I've developed a kind of intuition, a sixth sense for these things.
Went past step one was at the restaurant they didn't have the Clam Chowder I wanted, later was suppressed when my friend self-delivered responded with flowers...
Girl: What's a fun fact about you?
Me: Mind your own business.
I’m obviously a very ‘shut down’ person. No matter how ‘great’ people say I am, I have NEVER had a woman (or girl, for that matter) express this kind of interest in me. After decades of wondering why, I’ve come up with only one reason - I didn’t give out signals that I am (was) available. If you don’t act ‘interested’, girls just aren’t going to pursue you. And really, let’s face, most girls aren’t that aggressive. If they think you are not interested, they will not try to figure out if you might be a potential date. This is probably better advise for WLW.
I have been a lone since my love passed on .i think it endlessly in my 60s
Once again endlessly talking around the question ⁉️
It's also fun to answer these questions with one word answers preceeded by me like. For the food question you can answer me like food. That can work for the fun fact question.
I know they like me when they say, can I buy you a beer.
I never hit on women.It's always the other way around. Just ignore them, they can't stand it. And most of them had their own finances.
Got treated like a king, without saying a word.
Age 67.1Cav
Oh brother! If she's interested and doesn't just ask to meet for coffee or something, she's immature, insecure and you can expect more of the same non-forthcoming non-direct confusion in a relationship. Nooo thanks!
Plot twist: Joyanima is desperately trying to grab the attention of a handsome but clueless guy who just doesn’t get it at all. Not even with dozens of these videos😉
well she aint married, taking advice from women is the worst thing in the first place, let alone one that isn't even married.
Basically if your a 5-10 you get asked these kind of questions or something along them lines. If your an 1-4 absolutely no chance whatsoever.
Great insights. Thanks Anna! 👍
When they ask what your favorite color is?
One time I asked a girl if she believed in astrology and she said "yeah, yeah, yeah" and walked away.
Every one of these questions I have been asked all the time
Thank you so much! I'm a long time viewer and I still can't believe you know what warhammer lol is but you are English😂 but thank you for all your valuable tips. I've been watching for a long time
I have never been asked these questions by any one person hitting on me.
Being hit and being hit on are two different things. 😢
"What's a fun fact about you?"??? seriously? This is one of the many MANY questions that are on the women's " do not ask me" list. So they get to ask it but it's "lazy" for us to? I call BS right off the bat.
At 73 yo and retired. NOOO! don't hit on me.
I've never been asked any of those questions by any girl or woman.☹😣😩.
A girl hitting on you is sexual harrassment. If this happens at work, report her to HR.
Anyone asks me those questions...I will be polite...I will answer. But I will never go out with them again. Trying too hard.
Hello and thank you for your continued content. It has been a big help for me. Question though....
What is a woman shows all of the signs you suggest that she is into me but specifies and emphasizes that we are just friends?
72 never married or had kids. I'm quite flattered when a cute young girl hits on me.
Everytime I watch one of these "how to... with women" videos, I get about a minute in and then remember how much I hate interacting with women and leave the video.
Most of the time the problem isn't getting a woman...the major problem is getting a woman that doesn't sleep around with other men
@CameronMJayyou’re naive
I remember i was busy at work and this co worker of mine asked me like “ are you hitting on me?!” And i was like “ what r u talkin’ abt?!” I didnt waste my time to play! And he said while he smiled at me “ nah forget it!”And i was curious what does he mean! 😂