How Important Is Age? (Older vs. Younger)
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Age isnt maturity
Maturity is maturity
maturity is age.
+xxExx age is chronological
Alan Webb yes
Facts. Age doesn’t bring wisdom to everybody.
Maturity comes with age.....common knowledge
The thing about girls liking older guys is so accurate. It's typically true that girls are more mature, so that's why girls tend to go for older guys. They can relate to them more
Girls are mature😂😂😂
How do you measure that
I've actually dated ten years in each direction. I truly have no preference, the girls who were 10 years older than me when we dated were pretty much using me as a rebound, they wanted to feel young and I knew I was a short term thing. The girls ive dated who were ten years younger were kind of the same to me...It was just superficial. Everyone of my meaningful relationships have been with people a year or two younger or older than me.
I'm 35 and always end up dating younger girls. I look like I'm in my early 20's so I think it makes it harder for women my age to be into me because they think I'm a kid. That being said, its hard to date young girls. There is a clear mentality difference when I date a 21 year old. I've found 26/27 is a good age because generally people start knowing what they want in life and the partying and childish behavior isn't there...as much.
I don't think you look like early 20s if you're 35
I agree 100%
I rather be with someone my own age, maybe a couple of years older if they still look and act young.....but I have been with guys and in a couple of relationships that the guys were in their 30's and that would be 10 to 15 years younger than me!
These days the guys my age or older, just don't take care of themselves anymore and look a lot older than they are (lots of grey hair, beards, wrinkles, beer bellies, baggage, old fashion standards) and just don't have the fun spirit and stamina to keep up anymore!
I'm older but people always guess much younger, so I can lie and say I'm 10 or 15 yrs younger and people will believe me, some that are younger actually think they are older than me when we first meet!
I am in my 60s and would not look at a woman under 50 y/o.
10-15 years older, they tend to be mature and have their lives together
but some younger guys are mature too, so it depends on the guy
I would never EVER date someone who's younger than me, dunno why but I don't like the thought of being the older one
Reham Beshir Even if you really liked them? Surely age is just a number.
I wouldn't like them in the first place lol, I'v never liked someone who's younger than me
What happens if you didn't know?
I don't know haha, I would probably be turned off lol
Reham Beshir I find that so bizarre. I can understand why a girl would want a mature guy but some 18 year olds are more mature than some 25 year olds.
dude that 37 year old blonde was into you man!!!!
Brad Brendon I think she said 27
Dom Hudson oh! my bad sorry!! :D
No problem bro
+Haseeb Ali lol gottem
If they're into this dipsh!t... they have NO standards.
yafa love ur show💞
When I turned 21 I didn't want to date anyone under 20. I like to go to bars and watch live music a lot and if you weren't 21 or turning 21 anytime soon it was a deal breaker.
I'm 25 now and I'll go four years up or four years down from my age. My mom's 4 years older than my dad so that's where I got my base. Plus I want someone like-minded. I want someone mature enough to talk about world issues and deep topics with, but immature enough to laugh at stupid shit and still go out at 10pm and come home at 3am.
I agree 4 years is a good range that's almost like me. I'd go 4 younger or 5 older..
I wish I would have been older.. Thats ttly me though.
But age doesn't define maturity. I'm just saying that because I'm 19, but the fact people think age is important because it defines knowledge and maturity is beyond me, maturity and knowledge is based upon the person not their age.
BlueLucozade It's not like I dismiss young people's intellect just because they're young. I was a 19yo once, I know how mature and knowledgable that age group can be. I just don't want to *date* anyone from that age group because it's highly unlikely I'd find someone like-minded, who'd want the same things out of life that I want. Who can be immature and mature on the level I find attractive.
Bluecozade Maturity comes with experience. I can assure you that you do not have a huge experience at 19. Do not feel insulted its a fact.
The youngest I will go is 21, the oldest is 30. I am gonna be 26 on the 25th
I'm 26 and open to age but I rather like someone who is more capable of being mature.
It mainly depends on the mindset of the individual. People growing up decades apart, like one who is 40 compared to another being 20 (yeah, big gap there), they really cannot relate on many levels (music, culture, experiences, etc.), typically, so it really doesn't tend to work out. There are exceptions to every rule out there though.
I think that it's best people grow up with each other and stay together at roughly the same age. That is where it's likely the bond will remain strong; they're not strangers to each other then, but feel like life (past and present) partners, not just two strangers who've been through a lot over the last 10-15 years and finally met, yet cannot really relate to them on a deep level. It's just different.
The sooner (high school sweethearts?) you hook up with someone with plans to stay together for life, the better, imo.
Age is too vague of an indicator for me.
I'd rather get to know the person rather than filter them through an age range.
It is a bit of a complicated topic though, considering that society uses age as a measure for particular privileges, or use it as a filter, it kind of does matter in some special cases.
However that's society - not my opinion, my opinion is: Screw age, I don't care how many earth rotations ago you were born, I care about your character, your physical attributes, and your personal life =)
It shouldn't matter so long as the other person is legal. I think people miss out on an amazing person from limiting themselves. "Age is just a number and a number aint nothing but a thang." How a person treats you and if care for them, funk what society has to say about it.
Thanks I Try.
Yafa is so handsome. And he seems like a kind person.
04:09 "I don't want a grandpa or a dad so I'd say 6 years older than me" girl, you're right who wants someone 7 years older who is old enough to be your dad! lmao
lowest i would go: 18. highest i would go: 18
The host has a very good personality
his voice is beauts
the problem here is even if women prefer someone more mature men don't get mature we are just bigger kids
I prefer the around same age, priorities are likely to be somewhat similar in terms of stages in life. wouldn't want to feel like a parent or feel like a child in a relationship
I read somewhere that there is a formula for the youngest you should go in age to still be able to get along......take your age, divide it in half, and add 7
Eg: 50 year old divided by 2 = 25 + 7 = 32 youngest you should go
30 divided by 2 = 15 + 7 = 22 youngest you should go .....etc....
40 divided by 2 = 20 + 7 = 27
60 divided by 2 = 30 + 7 = 37
i'm 19 so at the moment i have a three year limit. if she is beyond three years older then shes too old, if shes below three years younger then shes too young. I'd rather stick to my generation and date people that i can relate to. maybe when i get past 30 years old i will expand the limit.
Basically demeanor ranks higher than actual age. I have the 3 years rule. You can be 3 years older or younger.
Basically someone on the same level as me so we can grow together. Its no fun if they have done all their growing and I have to play catch up.
Haha that blonde girl was digging you Yafa!
Guys definitely usually secretly prefer younger women.When I tell older guys my age they become so much more interested
Great vid. I would date a younger guy(9/10 younger) because I have always been with younger guys, and because I look young myself.
this guy's a geezer
I could go either way, I'm 24 male and would go down to 18 just as long as we connect. Around 30 I would go up to.
That Jacob guy with the long hair was hot as hell
it depends entirely on the individual. there are always exceptions at nearly any age.
Damien Blackthorne 18
I like them a year younger but have to be mature.. or my age. If they are older they have to look young and have the same mentality level as me. :) and of course chemistry is everything.
I dated an older girl, about 6 years older. The major problem was that she was condescending the entire way through, as if my wisdom was less than hers no matter what due to our age gap.
peacebypiece lol
barba negra so mean lol, whyre you laughing. she was great, aside from the occasional attitude, it was a good relationship.
MI wouldn't go for ppl who are younger like 2-3 years, it's weird but if they're mature that's fine 😊
I prefer exact same age.
Im 24 and i prefer women from around 26-35. Too much drama and bullshit with younger women.
well said
For sex, i agree with you.
In a serious relationship and marriage, men must be older.
Read about the -divorce statistics.
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I am 35, for sex i don't care about age, if the girl looks nice.
For serious relationship and marriage, i prefer 27-28
By the way, although i am big and muscular, they tell me i look under 30.
not all younger women are full of drama. you just probably go for the wrong ones that are younger.
ye same
No more than five years younger no more than ten years older for me.
But when I was younger and saw the lord of the rings, then witnessed Hugo Weaving as Elrond, I developed a major crush on him(Elrond)😘.
I'm 18 and would possibly date someone a year younger than me and I've dated someone who is four years older than me and I would possibly date someone up to seven years older then me depending on their personality and maturity level. Though keep in mind most people think I'm around 21 so those difference don't seem like as big a gap as it might to others.
I'd probably rather date someone a few years older. Guys my age just don't have their shit together.
older doesn't always mean more mature in 2yrs younger and 4 yrs older
The more money a man has , the less his age matters.
i'm a girl and i would prefer a guy my age. If i had to choose between older and younger i'd pick older.
nice vox pop
I thought the general rule for dating someone younger than you was to divide your age by 2 and then add 7. So as a 28 year old (28/2=14. 14+7=21) The absolute youngest person I should date would be 21 years old. Although that seems too young to me personally. I think I would go no younger than 24 and no older than 35.
I get asked out by guys 15 years younger than me all the time. When I tell them how old I am, they don't believe me and want to date me anyway, but guys that young aren't looking to settle down, so nope.
Well, how old are you?
39 :)
+A Yo "When I tell them how old I am, they don't believe me and want to date me anyway," blah blah blah lol
You can drink at 18 in the UK
In the EU you can drink at 18. And in asia too.
And in Brazil
and in everywhere else except US
and in Canada
I prefer my age or at the most 5 years older than me. I might date him if he is a year younger than me, depending on maturity level.
I like your videos bro. But just an observation. Use your natural voice. Also no need to over pronounce words.
but the question is..how old is yafa?
Since I'm 17 my max would be around 19-20 and min 15
2:46 words!
as a 15 year old girl I would rather date someone older... not to much older but maybe 2 or 3 years limit. same age is okay too
Dude with red hat and dude with long hair are high af
I would prefer a guy who's older I've actually never been attracted to a guy my age or younger. Maybe because a guy my age or younger are still growing and going through puberty.
I think women misinterpret high testosterone levels in men as "immature", but men are like this for a reason: we are the hunters with high energy. We're not typically into boring stuff like sitting around all calm and 'chatting' about things for hours.
Many guys can do it, yes, but most would probably rather do high energy activities if they could. If you were to look at stereotypes then males are way more into sports activities, mountain climbing, doing pranks and etc. We have to release this energy. We're not in our natural habitat in the wild while in this modern society. The wild is where this energy would be put to good use for hours at a time. In this society, it's way too controlled.
Once people look at how we're naturally supposed to live, in the wild, then the answers will be easier to grasp onto for why men and women think and act a certain way.
My crush is one month older than me😐
Does it matter?
Yafa a majority of these women be totally showing interest towards you…
it doesnt matter what age b/c sex is just sex
uh well i'd want to date someone the same age as me or barley older. like i'm 14 and the oldest i'd date is a 16 year old. wait that sounded bad..
I would rather date someone younger because they are more fun to talk to
I'm 48.To me age doesn't matter.I would date younge ,same ,or older. So long as you are 2 consenting adults and there is an attraction between both of you.Why should it matter?
10 years older
I would never date somebody that was younger than me, I think because I would always have a suspicious mind. Ye I have trust issues lol
yafa is fine
I DATED A 38 YEAR OLD WHEN I WAS 21,
I LIKE OLDER MEN. OR YOUNGER GUYS WHO ARE MATURE
+CaapriceTube same
Older for sure
Valencia Meredith explain
I prefer older girls. I think its better
No it's not idiot.
I would date someone about the same age as me for preference why it's to the point where we would be in similar stages of our life.
*younger I can't type apparently.
if someone is mature and decent their age shouldn't matter smh age obsession is low.
I swear I'm just against every sort of thing 90%! of people have strong opinions on.
Yaya's voice started getting real fake...
Older.
No older than 21
No less than 18 and no more than 58. That's just me lol
Domzaiver are u a boy
Look how she looks at him at 4:50 lol... That's a guaranteed smash if he picked up on it.
I'd rather date someone younger than me, thats just my preference
Older are better
PHILOSOPHICALLY: There is "Chronological Age", defined as your birth date. "Biologic/Physiologic Age" is how old your body and mind actually is. The latter is your true age. If you are 61, feel in your heart and act like a 40 y/o, and really can "Pass" (Physically) for 40s, then you can say you are 40. 40 IS THE NEW 60. Age is a mind set thing. No person should place a boundary on age when it comes to love, or friendship. There is really nothing as "Time" in the Cosmos. Time is man made. The caveat is NOT TO BREAK THE LAW with respect to minors. A 100 year old man can get with a legal age female of 18, if there is SINCERE mutual CONSENT, and attraction. Socially bizarre , yes, but if works for both who cares. If 80-90 y/o rich wealthy men can marry models in their 20s, then an average man in good health should be able to do the same, Somehow, society hypocritically wants to exempt those men based on power, wealth, or influence, which is BS.
PRACTICALLY: If the guy or woman looks good, and they are both very attracted to each other, they should go for it if they're really drawn to one another unless for some extenuating circumstances it is not practical. Sometimes a young woman may want to start a family and would like both parents to be around to see their great grand children together. So she keeps the age difference narrow. If that is not a concern other factors such as family member objections, and threats of isolation, outcast, etc. get in the way. My inclination is a woman over 40-45 can date/marry any man above her age without limit, and down to any age over 18 for sex, and over mid 20s for companionship, depending on what she wants out of the relationship.
Both sides could use the ages of their children, or parents as guidelines to avoid heated/intense criticisms. For sex, any combination of legal ages b/w 18 to 120 should work as long as everybody is on board. For public socializing it's pretty much do wtf you want based on your particular situation. No "One shoe fits all" type of sh*t here.
I'm 19 and the oldest I'd go for would be 41. But I wouldn't dare go out with someone younger than me, even by a year.
Since I'm 48 and my current is 22, ...-YOUNGER!!!!!