Most Important Haircut Tip For Autism

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  • The best thing you can do and the most important part of a haircut for people with extreme sensory issues is to find someone that works well with your child.
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  • @DemiJRA
    @DemiJRA 6 місяців тому +23

    My mother has been a cosmetologist/salon owner for 33 years, she absolutely loves her career. She has 3-4 boys who are on the spectrum and she keeps me updated on all the improvements they've made since she started cutting their hair as toddlers.

  • @mom0410
    @mom0410 6 місяців тому +9

    I agree with Abby. Those sinks mess with your neck. My chiropractor advised me to bring a cushion whenever I go use them or don’t put your head all the way back.

  • @mariposavioleta9007
    @mariposavioleta9007 6 місяців тому +12

    I just love how wonderful the cosmotolgist is with Abby! Just an idea to get her used to the reclining in that chair for hairwashing if you have a recliner or family does try having her try it on there and see how that goes. I think she did wonderful for her first time sitting in the chair

    • @RaechelArgento
      @RaechelArgento 6 місяців тому +2

      Yes!!! This is a great idea to practice. I’m almost 30 and I still have to try SOOOO hard to do the shampoo chair at the salon because I don’t like to lie back or lean back like that. My mom actually taught me to lean forward over the laundry tub (a garden tub might also work to shampoo my hair when I couldnt wash my own for various reasons.
      I never use recliner chairs because they arealso very uncomfortable and give me anxiety but maybe it would have help desensitized me before 30.

    • @mariposavioleta9007
      @mariposavioleta9007 6 місяців тому

      @@RaechelArgento I hope you're able to get something to work. As long as the recliner is not just in the middle of the room I'm best with them for my medical conditions. Up against a wall to help stabilize it so it won't tip and feels so much better to rest

  • @cazb7806
    @cazb7806 6 місяців тому +3

    Great job Abbie on getting your hair cut and how lovely was the hairdresser. Funny all the videos I have watched and until this one never realised what a beautiful colour Abbie's hair is. Well done too Abbie for trying to have your hair washed. Blessings.

  • @Kris-fi7co
    @Kris-fi7co 6 місяців тому +6

    Can we talk about how awesome that cosmetologist is?

  • @melbapierre7547
    @melbapierre7547 6 місяців тому +1

    Love her hair..so so pretty..you go girl..high five🤗🤗❤️💙💚🩷💜💛

  • @ruthsarker3095
    @ruthsarker3095 5 місяців тому

    Awesome job Abby 🎉 trying out the hair wash seat, took me forever to find a barbers that my boy was comfortable in, his barber recently left 😢 so we’ve got a new guy but turns out the new guy is really understanding and was reading my boys non verbal communication so well, by this I mean sensing that he was anxious to begin with and not pushing for too much conversation but also still engaging with him like a 14 yr old and not a little kid 🙌 ❤it’s just awesome when you find people who really understand

  • @laurenl720
    @laurenl720 5 місяців тому

    She did great. ❤ her hair is beautiful.

  • @supersparkley123
    @supersparkley123 6 місяців тому +12

    Abbie you did soooo great trying out that shampoo chair! Your hair looks fabulous! Your YT fam is sooo proud of you, Abbie! 👏🏻🎉💇🏻‍♀️

  • @kellygoldstein3647
    @kellygoldstein3647 6 місяців тому

    The way she yelled at you to hold her water after you wouldn't let her sit in the front 😅 Love that girl ❤

  • @latanyafrancois6108
    @latanyafrancois6108 6 місяців тому +4

    Abby is super sweet and pretty young lady I am disabled person and work with people whom thought me how use UA-cam videos and y'all are amazing family members 😊

  • @rebecawalters467
    @rebecawalters467 6 місяців тому +8

    Oh my goodness her hair is beautiful!! I'm jealous of that hair!! ❤❤

  • @tinamarie7777
    @tinamarie7777 6 місяців тому +1

    What a great job Abbie!!! ♥️☀️♥️

  • @caelainncox5008
    @caelainncox5008 6 місяців тому +1

    Abbie’s haircut looks incredible. She has such gorgeous hair!

  • @katharynmillo8126
    @katharynmillo8126 6 місяців тому +1

    All my Dunks are clean. Hope the ones near you clean up their act!

  • @tiffenytibbs246
    @tiffenytibbs246 6 місяців тому

    Well bless her heart.

  • @JaiJai988
    @JaiJai988 6 місяців тому +1

    One time my friend took me to get a haircut he talked me into getting a hair wash which I was nervous about but it wasn’t that bad. Actually it felt pretty nice.

    • @Cheyenne-vi6fi
      @Cheyenne-vi6fi 6 місяців тому +1

      @@georginacat7667
      Seriously. If you don’t have anything nice to say do not say anything

  • @MommaOsoIrish67
    @MommaOsoIrish67 6 місяців тому +1

    Caitlyn is so great! Very patient and flexible!
    Abbie looked at Villa in the shampoo bowl and said, "Yeah... No." And walked away. Lol

  • @michaelaraymond727
    @michaelaraymond727 6 місяців тому

    Love the spring field armory sticker

  • @LoriBristol
    @LoriBristol 6 місяців тому

    I sure enjoyed the live chat earlier today. ❤😊

  • @tonyabarnett8522
    @tonyabarnett8522 6 місяців тому +1

    Abs has the most beautiful hair ever! She did great trying out the shampoo bowl. I think taking her every so often to help her get acclamated to it will help. I can see her being a diva about it once she gets used to it. I love having my hair washed at the salon!

  • @Dezail
    @Dezail 6 місяців тому

    They make inflatable portable bowls online if you want to practice at home as well. My son HATES water in his face or even the chance of water in his face, so we've been working on that.

  • @Emma-um4cr
    @Emma-um4cr 6 місяців тому

    I’m a stylist with a son with ASD and ADHD , so luckily I do his hair but it wasn’t always easy he can now go the the barbers and sit with his head still

  • @JenniferNavas-ht5px
    @JenniferNavas-ht5px 6 місяців тому

    😂💀🤣❤️"Here, take this water!" As Asa is explaining how Abby was bossing him to take her water" 😂❤❤❤❤
    Daughter like Father, haha? ❤️👑❤️
    She did SOOOOO awesome at the salon too! 💯
    I absolutely adore this family...y'all are amazing 🙏🏼❤️

  • @jillwalls9330
    @jillwalls9330 6 місяців тому +4

    If Abbie has trouble leaning back then how does she do at the dentist?

  • @NickyJohnK219
    @NickyJohnK219 6 місяців тому +2

    I love watching your videos you’re the sweetest, kindest family ever🩵🩷❤️💚🆒💯😎🤩

  • @suzyashby8777
    @suzyashby8777 6 місяців тому

    I can’t wait to get my hair cut. I am not able too til my vertigo dies down. I’m counting down the days 😊

  • @MommaOsoIrish67
    @MommaOsoIrish67 6 місяців тому

    80°!! Holy cow! It's a whopping 29° F here today. Lol!

  • @thesunrisechick6878
    @thesunrisechick6878 6 місяців тому +1

    Abby is so beautiful❤❤❤

  • @christiedawn7663
    @christiedawn7663 6 місяців тому +1

    I wanted to say how uncomfortable those chairs are for me. I always had to brace myself when they got ready to put my head back until the gal put a towel around my neck and then I felt safe. Otherwise I felt completely unsafe and didn't want to wait for it to get done. I hope in the future you'll have luck with the shampoo chair but no worries if you don't because you could be anyone and be uncomfortable.

  • @karinab1485
    @karinab1485 6 місяців тому +6

    The mom is obviously a ball of nerves worried about embarrassing behaviors. At one point I see her exhale with relief the Abby didn’t make a scene. The more often u do it the better she will be. And also u let her get away w way too much

  • @lauriebarrett2567
    @lauriebarrett2567 6 місяців тому

    I like when you all go for walks

  • @indica113
    @indica113 5 місяців тому

    The dunkin/baskin robins here in Troy Al. is filthy too!!!

  • @Carolhealthfan28823
    @Carolhealthfan28823 6 місяців тому +3

    Evening folks

  • @JeanineSpano
    @JeanineSpano 6 місяців тому

    I love that Abbie gave it a try and that you are giving her positive reinforcement for trying! Our autistic son can't do haircuts in a place, I have some special scissors but I don't do a great job. 😂 What a great salon you found!

  • @karenwainright4928
    @karenwainright4928 6 місяців тому +3

    Can you explain how long a video ad needs to be watched for you to get the benefit? And what about when there is 2 in a row? I don't mind helping you by watching the ads, but don't want to watch the whole thing if I don't have to. Thank you so much for sharing your life with us. I'm a pediatric OT and enjoy watching Abbie's progress as well as your family antics!

    • @bam5404
      @bam5404 6 місяців тому

      3-5 secs I believe

    • @Daisy-Girl0021
      @Daisy-Girl0021 6 місяців тому +1

      15 seconds from what I understand...

    • @Cheyenne-vi6fi
      @Cheyenne-vi6fi 6 місяців тому

      15 seconds. 😊

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  6 місяців тому +2

      I really have no idea. I appreciate the support but just watch the videos in a style that you enjoy watching them.

  • @judysanders5184
    @judysanders5184 6 місяців тому +2

    You did so great Abbie!! Her hair looks so beautiful!!

  • @rhondagentry2170
    @rhondagentry2170 6 місяців тому +1

    Abbie has the healthiest looking hair and her natural color is perfection. Beautiful length.❤

  • @hl3818
    @hl3818 6 місяців тому +3

    Abbie looking soooo pretty as always, got beautiful hair ..
    ..❤😊❤😊❤😊..

  • @coyotebait3689
    @coyotebait3689 5 місяців тому

    Hope you reported them to corp office, but probably why they left southern CA years ago.

  • @shannonamerson3682
    @shannonamerson3682 6 місяців тому +1

    I knew exactly what DD you were talking about before you even said Cassat !! We went there about a month ago and everything just looked blah. The one in Cedar Hills is clean, the selection is smaller but it's clean.

  • @BellaRayne
    @BellaRayne 6 місяців тому +2

    Abbie, you did great getting your hair cut, and it looks so pretty. ❤

  • @carriemosley717
    @carriemosley717 6 місяців тому +2

    He looks so beautiful Abbie❤❤

  • @chocolatecoveredants
    @chocolatecoveredants 6 місяців тому +1

    Abbie is such a beautiful young lady. 💜

  • @susanharris1285
    @susanharris1285 6 місяців тому +2

    Does Abby like her hair cute or do you ask her

    • @Daisy-Girl0021
      @Daisy-Girl0021 6 місяців тому

      I've watched for a long time.. I'm sure they have a conversation with her about it..things like that take some preparation.. Sometimes it's more than Abbie wanting or not wanting her hair cut...it's maintenance that everyone does for themselves IMO anyways 💛

  • @Sad_Soul101
    @Sad_Soul101 6 місяців тому +1

    Heyyy!!!! Abbie deserves to travel in the front, look at that gorgeous hair, have to show it to everyone 😂😂❤

  • @jens1856
    @jens1856 6 місяців тому +1

    Abby did Great!! She has beautiful hair 💜💜❤️❤️

  • @jacquelinelee1686
    @jacquelinelee1686 6 місяців тому

    Try the wash with summer and Becca

  • @reddfoxx7362
    @reddfoxx7362 6 місяців тому +1

    Loved the salon visit wonderful idea to just come and get comfortable in the chair, have you ever tried soft bangs to keep her out of her face.

  • @laramaaike3050
    @laramaaike3050 6 місяців тому +2

    The last time I ever been to a hairdresser is maybe 15 years ago. I don't like to let it wash, so I wash it the day before and they just spray water it. Now I cut my own hair, so much easier for me. But for Abbie, maybe one day she will let her hair washed, but it is not really needed. (Only for people who wants to do other stuff with it, color, curls etc) Ps: Abbies hair looks amazing

  • @sandramcglinchey7712
    @sandramcglinchey7712 6 місяців тому

    She did so nicely!

  • @sarahstorr
    @sarahstorr 6 місяців тому +1

    Aw that version of the gingerbread man really is terrible! I used it at school with my class but the gingerbread man is a bit sinister 🤣

    • @sarahstorr
      @sarahstorr 6 місяців тому

      Just curious, could Abbie’s shredded paper be added to your composter?

  • @MelissaMounts
    @MelissaMounts 6 місяців тому +4

    I love your haircut Abby looks beautiful

  • @JaniceTaylor-it3ed
    @JaniceTaylor-it3ed 4 місяці тому

    Hi Abby ❤

  • @karliechardi2229
    @karliechardi2229 6 місяців тому

    Wow Abbies hair grows really quick. Seems like not even a month ago was the layers cut lol. Absolutely beautiful ms Abbie❤ and great job in the shampoo chair!

  • @amyrobles4780
    @amyrobles4780 6 місяців тому

    Beautiful haircut and great job trying new things. ❤

  • @theresahvassman9965
    @theresahvassman9965 6 місяців тому +3

    I remember when you took her years ago she’s come a long long way since then

  • @nicoletteteame509
    @nicoletteteame509 6 місяців тому +4

    Beautiful Abigail beautiful girl family

  • @teriMiller-pq9pj
    @teriMiller-pq9pj 6 місяців тому

    You go girl! You are doing great!

  • @munchocrisps
    @munchocrisps Місяць тому

    Hair wash after an haircut?

  • @kathypriest5640
    @kathypriest5640 6 місяців тому

    Hi guys!! I love Abbie’s new haircut. Super cute!

  • @user-rx8gm8il2d
    @user-rx8gm8il2d 6 місяців тому

    Can you do mio going on the cruise?

  • @Brittany.Anderson
    @Brittany.Anderson 6 місяців тому

    Have you guys ever found a length of hair that she likes?

  • @karenrjackson884
    @karenrjackson884 4 години тому

    2020

  • @bh9844
    @bh9844 6 місяців тому

    The other customer was so sweet.

  • @shannacraft4099
    @shannacraft4099 6 місяців тому +2

    🌸 💙💙💙

  • @terrischultz7122
    @terrischultz7122 6 місяців тому

    Thanks peeps for sharing live on land and on water. You's are awesomeness

  • @melissawright4040
    @melissawright4040 6 місяців тому +1

    I live in a county that has a air force base and sometimes when you are driving on 70 east a plane will be going in for a landing and it will surprise you when not expecting it

  • @kellydornon1788
    @kellydornon1788 6 місяців тому

    Abby you are so beautiful!!!!!

  • @danabelden4492
    @danabelden4492 6 місяців тому

    She does have long hair

  • @uncuttfunk
    @uncuttfunk 6 місяців тому +1

    My 19yo daughter, amazingly similar to Abby, will NOT allow scissors near her head. I’m at a loss.

    • @Cheyenne-vi6fi
      @Cheyenne-vi6fi 6 місяців тому

      What are you talking about??

    • @escott696
      @escott696 6 місяців тому +2

      ​@@Cheyenne-vi6fi umm clearly getting her haircut. As in the THEME of this video

    • @Cheyenne-vi6fi
      @Cheyenne-vi6fi 6 місяців тому

      @@escott696 do not talk to me like that that. Abby isn’t holding scissors. Abbie is 18 Years old! So she can hold scissors and has before. Have the day you deserve!!

  • @marcellamullen4304
    @marcellamullen4304 6 місяців тому

    I am just think that all people go to a hair dressers, Dentist etc , that need to sit on their chairs and lie back, so why not allow them have this as part of their therapy to be able to sit on the chairs to have their hair washed or to open their mouth and lie back in the Dentist too. Loves to you all. FROM ☘☘☘

  • @johnnyguzman2519
    @johnnyguzman2519 6 місяців тому

    i have a random family idea, why ya'll dont go to an inter Miami match?

  • @dandeliondreamer3365
    @dandeliondreamer3365 6 місяців тому

    Great job Ab, you look beautiful ❤

  • @launasimon3853
    @launasimon3853 6 місяців тому +1

    I was wondering, does Abby still ride her bike? Do those things still interest her? Like the bike, the park swings and her hammock?

  • @titanica9983
    @titanica9983 6 місяців тому

    Y’all are hilarious, “it was 80 degrees, not exactly shorts weather”. Whereas the rest of us are like I would have been in shorts 10 degrees earlier

    • @fatheringautism
      @fatheringautism  6 місяців тому +1

      No, the day before it was 80 degrees. It was in the low 60s this day.

  • @monicabrake666
    @monicabrake666 6 місяців тому

    Abbie, you have such beautiful hair!😊

  • @110311DONTWANTCHANNE
    @110311DONTWANTCHANNE 6 місяців тому

    When I go. i take a shower right before and go in wet. especially since covid, i'd rather not have someone breathing over me....and it makes it quicker and cheaper.

  • @Anonymouseduck
    @Anonymouseduck 6 місяців тому

    Abby is quick when it comes to C A N D Y

  • @TheoriginalANGEK439
    @TheoriginalANGEK439 6 місяців тому +1

    Trim. 👍❤️👍

  • @Emma-um4cr
    @Emma-um4cr 6 місяців тому

    Abbie your hair looks lovely now and much thicker with all the wispy end cutoff

  • @pinky-xt1mc
    @pinky-xt1mc 6 місяців тому +1

    Miss Abbie, your haircut is beautiful! 💜

  • @nergla98
    @nergla98 6 місяців тому

    If yall were in Birmingham Alabama. Come to my Starbucks. Will make your drinks right.😊

    • @Cheyenne-vi6fi
      @Cheyenne-vi6fi 6 місяців тому

      They don’t like Starbucks. I have only had one time a Starbucks messed up my drink.
      It was a White Chocolate Mocha Latte or Frappe. They forgot the Mocha part

  • @pinky-xt1mc
    @pinky-xt1mc 6 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing enjoy the rest of your evening! 😘💜👋👍

  • @QueenMFLaurie
    @QueenMFLaurie 6 місяців тому

    Looking beautiful ❤

  • @roshondabowens9809
    @roshondabowens9809 6 місяців тому

    Hi abbie and family,i love abbie haircut its so cute,hope y'all are having a wonderful friday and stay safe out there 🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️

  • @tracyzabelle
    @tracyzabelle 6 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @stephanielangerak5085
    @stephanielangerak5085 6 місяців тому

    I love you’re videos always makes my day go by ❤😊

  • @nicoleraco636
    @nicoleraco636 6 місяців тому

    Nice hair flip Abigail❤

  • @caitlin9150
    @caitlin9150 6 місяців тому

    Proud of you Abbie. I think the shampoo chair one day can be conquered!!

  • @teenawright3640
    @teenawright3640 6 місяців тому

    Beautiful

  • @AngelaPattillo-ov1kx
    @AngelaPattillo-ov1kx 6 місяців тому +1

    I think Abbie would look cute with bangs.

  • @Vereynique
    @Vereynique 6 місяців тому +2

    Did I see a teenage eye roll when she was told she was not going to be riding up-front

  • @shannonhollie119
    @shannonhollie119 6 місяців тому

    Go Abby!!! ❤

  • @carmelscott1706
    @carmelscott1706 6 місяців тому

    You say 80 degrees F. isn't shorts weather? As a born and bred Canadian, I can tell you this, you will find most any Canadian in shorts if the weather is 80 degrees. LOL.

    • @Cheyenne-vi6fi
      @Cheyenne-vi6fi 6 місяців тому +1

      That’s what I’m wondering even 75° is shorts weather

  • @michelleseveney9113
    @michelleseveney9113 6 місяців тому

    Gosh her hair is getting so long!!!❤❤❤

  • @pinky-xt1mc
    @pinky-xt1mc 6 місяців тому

    Hello Abbie and family! 💜👋

  • @sarahdunster1643
    @sarahdunster1643 5 місяців тому

    Mam and dad get abbie going to hair today

  • @russelaugust3391
    @russelaugust3391 6 місяців тому

    Fantastic

  • @AvaGauthier-hn6yo
    @AvaGauthier-hn6yo 6 місяців тому +1

    I know Abby hates haircuts. But she’s come a long way with them. I admire her for her bravery and happiness. I’m sure she expressed on her IPad that she wasn’t enthusiastic about the haircut.