Exactly. Idiots in tbe comments getting offended and projecting bullshit onto him for telling us the truth. Him and sprinkle sprinkle shera tells the truth. I always knew this is how men operate. Women in the comments crying have clearly never been around a man at the same time or in the same room where a hot ass woman he cant take his eyes off of is present. And they cleaely havent been aodund men enough to hear them ooen up and express who they really are. Men are just like this. If they arent cheating on their wives then best believe he has a whole ass crush or work crush he wishes he could be with too
This sounds like a lot of justification for men who feel entitled to sex. This view of sexual relations requires lots of disposable women. It’s a society that willfully abuses women.
@@Sophiecatherina765 I think it’s a misogynistic excuse for poor self control. Women have natural sexual urges too, and hormones that drive us, but because we bear the responsibility of childbirth, we are forced to and expected to have more self control in the eyes of society. If men had more impetus to control themselves, more of them would. Basic human kindness towards women should be enough, but society has taught them to rationalize their behavior because it’s common and allowed.
@@cocomaire No it’s not misogynistic it’s just u can’t accept the truth. Women naturally can have self control easily because we don’t have a males high testosterone. Men and women are not the same stop comparing yourself to a man. It’s not giving a pass to a man’s behaviour it’s just the truth.
@@cocomaireyes!!! I’m glad someone recognizes this for what this is, excuses and lack of self control, not some animalistic “nature” they always use to excuses their misogynistic and disrespectful behaviour
This is my exact response when people ask me if I believe in love at first sight. No, I don’t believe in it. How can you learn me by just seeing me? Is it a nice fantasy? Yes, but it’s not reality. Men can lust you at first sight, they undress you with their eyes and start imagine a future with you… again not without mind fucking with your body first. Once I started reading and teaching myself the things no one taught me. I started asking questions about everything. Now when people say love at first sight. I just laugh to myself in my head… like they’re delusional, let’s see if this last. True love is the rarest act in the world. Rarest!!! Most people don’t take the time to love themselves… and you think they can love you at first sight… LORDT. Grateful to have that knowledge at 24. I’m attractive and my intelligence has save me in so many situations. I simply read, watch patterns and once I learn it I’m like GOT IT.
Also, I’m learning how to not yap about myself. And you’re calling me out but again I’ve done a lot of growth so compassionate with myself. But ohhhh child thank you for this.
Last guy was a wake up call for sure. I’m like damn I thought I was smarter than this and it woke me up to truly learn about men so I know next time better.
you guys are gonna hate him … but take what his saying as facts he’s giving us an insight to a man’s brain. they really do and think like this. DONT GIVE IT UP EVER
Its actually not that far-fetched because sex is another appetite like one would have for food. and even in trending slang people refer to those who are physically attractivr as "a snack"(probably not anymore its kind of dated). But for muslims when fasting in ramadan married couples are not just fasting from food but also sex. ppl dont really talk about that. and its a right for both the husband and the wife to satisfy eachother.
Food is a basic need. Sex is a basic need. Without food you feel hunger, without sex (most ppl) feel a lack of intimacy and connection , two basic needs for humans
I thought men don’t get connection with sex only women do. Men can have sex and have no intimacy feeling with a woman. Men no how to disconnect naturally
@@danijelaleksi7130I really don’t think sex is necessary. Don’t get me wrong, sometimes I really want it but like. Dying after no food for 2 weeks vs I’ve been asexual for a year… I understand it’s a strong strong strong desire for many, but I just wouldn’t say it’s a need. I think some people confuse basic human connection with sex. We need connection absolutely, that doesn’t just come in the form of sex, and for the men and women that it does, well they’re simply toxic.
So 3 months dating really is = 4.5 days 😭😭😭 dating makes so much more sense now. We think they switching up fast, but nope we just seeing how they really are basically on a week basis🤣!!!
That 3 month rule be crucial😂 in a lot of cases, even if someone do wait 3-5 months before sex (dudes will genuinely wait a whole year😗) and it’s no guarantee they’ll actually commit to you. Ladies: if you wanna have sex, please please please make sure that its what you want as well and especially with someone you trust
This actually opened up an entire rabbit hole of why there are so many work husbands and wives and how people start affairs at a job.. You’re spending all of your time with someone at work and only 9 hours a month with your potential partner💀
Yes this is it but also because with all due respect, you're bound to meet your actual type at work. Men don't matty the women they're truly attracted to or their ideal types, they marry the wife material like he stated in the video. The fun girl is the woman he truly wants and desires but most fun girls arent wife material and wont hold the housebold and family down like tjat. This is why men lie and generally frame them not wanting to marry YOU as not wanting to marry in general or have kids in general just for them to go off and marry his ideal type QUICKLY at that right after the break up within 3 months to a year. Most men who have jobs where they interact with the public ib some format or a lot of people in general develop work wives cause the chances are higher of finding a woman hes truly attracted to. Abd yeah at work you get to know the person without the stabdard exhaustion of traditional questuons and aekwardness caus you're pushed into getting to know each other deeper and faster. I had a married man who had a crush on me at work and he treated me like a work wife but had boundaries and didnt take it too far
I totally disagree with you that wives should not worry about the Instagram or fun girl because the guy will grow up and mature. Most men don't and women should not waste any time with a man who is giving attention to other women
He's correct. Men are in neenderthal thinking. They haven't progressed any further than "me want" mentality. The smarter ones figure out that women prefer to hear things that are securing to her so he gets into that "role". It's a means to an end for him, there is no real engagement or connection. It's only about the end goal and thinking that women aren't smart enough to figure this out. Hence, this is what "having game" means. Look at the guys who are very rich. They will show as being able to get the beautiful women and some show off as having multiple. It's acquisition to show power over those guys who can't. It's competition. This guy here telling the truth.
This man is not telling the truth at all. Stop blaming all men for the what the minority do. Men aren’t cavemen and nowadays most men don’t even be having sex often.
@@STARBOY_DW stop using the internet to have the balls to say things you wouldnt say to my face coward. Just because you do not agree does not make it untrue. We've learned things like this in KINDERGARTEN. So maybe YOU need to STOP thinking like a child.
This takes all the magic away. All the fun. Turned off of men forever now. I didn't know they were like this...ugh at least I know so that I can stay away permanently. Thank you so much for what you do 💗
Nah, just use this to your benefit. Now you understand them. You know that this is why men want to devalue us so badly. This tells you why, as women, we have so much power. You can use this to get things from them without giving them what they want. You can use the promise of sex to get them to do things for you.
Magic is real, and it's found in every good respectful relationship. The key to finding a good man is patience. NEVER think "having sex w him will show him how important I think he is". That won't work. Be friends first. Hold back sex for at least 3 months. If he's unwilling to wait, he will start making excuses not to see you, that's dodging a bullet there. But most women mess this part up. When he quits reaching out, THATS when women will sleep w them to keep their attention, and now they've just gotten used because their judgement got clouded. Men loose respect for you if you sleep w them too soon. It it's something he brings up often, he's emotionally immature, stay away. Men can hold back, and if they like you, they will WANT to wait. That's facts.
YES I’ve been graped a few times and it’s so true this you got to be careful because you might think they will respect you during s3x until it actually gets to it and they turn into someone you don’t recognize 😢
I don’t wanna be the fun girl or the wife, both positions seem very undesirable and counterproductive. I wanna be the woman he pays for every minute of my time. 💯
Yes! The only females available to men should be prostitutes or a wife. All this between stuff just hurts and devalues us. Giving them anything else is a waste of our time and resources.
I worked as a waitress for some years, my experience is older men are even more desperate, shameless, horny and have the audacity to think a young or much younger girl might be into them pff. The older the more pathetic they become
This is why i am not pleased until i see anyone's dark side...who are you when you are not kind....that is how i trap them...until i know that am not dating him...i need to know exactly what I am dealing with from the beginning 😂it explains why most found me intimidating. ..i question a lot.
Thank you for informing and teaching women how to be aware and how to read males true intentions. Sadly most of us have horrible stories from dealing with males
Half way through this video I realized how delusional I’ve been for most of my adult life regarding relationships/men 😮. You have opened my eyes for good. The way you break everything down not only makes so much sense but it’s the game I wish I got from my Dad before he died . Thanks
This is so stupid, if he wants to give attention to the fun girl being married and I’m the wife that have morals and respect myself I won’t be with that man anymore, simple as that! And not all men cheats.
Sex is extreme to us too though🤣 that’s what these “sexual liberty” movements been all about. Women want healthy sex😫 it’s about just being honest and not shaming/disrespecting women that actually give you their body.
@@alias4506 we just waiting for the men’s confusion wave to pass😪 It’s hard but I really think it’s getting better! There are more aware men now bc of it all
So pretty much go after the guy that tells you the opposite of everything you want to hear, he’s more of an honest person and will be a better partner long term. My husband told me in the beginning he wasn’t looking for a relationship but I liked him so much I put in the work and effort to make him want to commit to me aka I competed. I would do it all again without a second thought, he’s literally the man of my dreams and I’m blessed to have him in my life.
@@Tashasmith7388This is a great question. A woman is not supposed to be out here working for the relationship. It is the man for he is the hunter. The bible says that he who finds a wife finds a good thing and is blessed with favor not the other way around.
This makes so much sense in why this guy was learning sign language with me ( I am not deaf, but I do work with a lot of individuals who require ASL) just to get to the pineapple 😂😂
@@amiehopkins that’s your interpretation, steal is a metaphor for when you’re desperately in need and have to lie to get something, there’s many ways to steal & bargain.. doesn’t have to be an extreme violent crime. Manipulation is often subtle. Think about if a car salesman is going to homeless then how will they get the sale they need, they’re not going to actually rape the person.
He’s only describing hormonal mechanism . Even women who take those same hormones can experience that same intensity . I’m glad mine are the way they are as a woman..
@@rachelinthelionsden women ovulate and our hormones change constantly but men are brought up socially to be more aggressive and to give in to an animalistic sexual nature while for women it’s the opposite. Not all men are this way but a lot are bc it’s wrongfully normalized in our culture. A lot of this mentality is the same as a sexual abuser the only thing stopping some men is their empathy level.
So it sounds like the simple answer for this is just to know whether the relationship you’re getting into is based on physical gratification or if it’s more than that to begin with, if there’s substance. It’s okay to get into a relationship that starts with mutual attraction & intent for physical desires though, because you know what you’re getting into and it’s mutually agreed upon. Often times the guys catch feelings though.
Btw I think when people say vibes they mean different things, it’s not always superficial. It could mean the way they connect and how they’re compatible with each other’s energy & personality.
Of the 4.5 days of the 3 months spent together, how much of that time is spent texting, talking on the phone on the in between days? If I go on 3 dates w you, but we talk everyday, the math does change the equation. If a guy is talking about "wanting you sooo bad" thats a red flag. Hes emotionally immature, and letting you know what hes about. Ive met a few like that and I was shocked! Lol! (This was years ago) But there is a difference in guys who want sex and men who want a relationship, they both want sex, but the approach is 100% different, and men that seek a relationship are a lot more quiet and let YOU bring that topic up, as a matter of fact, all the good ones didnt talk about ot at all, it was cool of it happened, cool if it didn't, they just enjoy spending time w the other person, they hold back alot more, ifbthe person is too anxious, another red flag.
Would you say that - because the desire in men is so strong that they sometimes go for low quality women - men that do so are of low quality themselves? Is it just part of the nature of men or is it natural for a man to be able to control his desires?
I think bc society “allows” & encourages men’s promiscuity that they act like they cannot control their desires. Women have the same desires if not more, but society has controlled us so we are more likely to deny our desires out of fear of public/private shame.
@@barbaramay9288Most men aren’t like this. A vast majority of men aren’t having sex frequently. You’ve generalized the entirety of a gender based on a minority.
You’re so funnyyyyyy hehehe and Yes it is super super tramautic. You trust him, you love him, and he …i can’t even finish the sentence its too painful. Jordan peterzon said we need marriage because women who get used become Psychopathic and bitter, and i mean… I was definitely upset😭. I am healed now tho💖😊🌸☁️✨ ans Nooooo squirtlet til marriage, but wow!!! Soooooo insightful i love ur content
The Math 3 dates per week Each dinner date is 3 hrs So now 3 times 3 is 9. Seeing you 9hrs per week barely full time job. Now if it was 3 months in each month is 4 weeks. 4 times 3 is 12 which means 12 weeks seeing each other in 3 months 9hr per week time spent tigger. so now 9 times 12 weeks that is 108 hrs you have spent with them. 108hrs divided by 24hrs bc there are that many hrs in a day. This is 4.5 days. This means you have only spent 4.5 days over course of 3 months. Avg work hours is 8 hrs. This means you are working 40 hours per week. 40 times 12 is 480 that is 480 hrs. So now divide it by 24 that means you have spent only 20 days on the job basically. So it’s crazy how we bet our jobs more than relationships.
The dating equation: d is number dates per week h is hrs per date w is wks per month m is number of months so (d times h) times (w times m) all dived by 24. (dh)(wm)/24
This video was so good and the perfect accurate explanation of how men fall in love and I know this for a fact to be so true. Thank you for confirming this for me. I’m new to your channel as of yesterday and I will be watching and taking notes and coming on more live streams when I can catch them.
@@TheAngelChristineI totally agree sex should be after marriage. I’m celibate and been for years and I am waiting until sex after marriage. So I totally agree on that part.
@@JessSoReal yeah, i don't agree with this behavior in the video though! people put way too much importance on sex and lose sight on all the other important aspects of life and a relationship, as if the peak of a relationship is sex. when values and growing old together go beyond that. sex is a cherry on top of a relationship, not the main portion.
@@vriiite pretty sure it wasn't failed or sexless. there's so much pressure on sex. what about love? love is not sex. sex is just a cherry on top. if you are your girl are happy and there's a desire then yall are gonna have sex. i think dudes wanna have sex way more than women
@@jfaustin1742 I asked if he was seeing someone and he said no, but offered no reason. I broke up for a month and returned yesterday. He wanted pineapples and I gave it to him
He could be squirtling a younger model on the sly. Women are told to at aim OLDER only sugar daddies. See Shira7 or what she's called.. brutal but honest
@@bigthangz5489 squirtle sounds like a dude bro name for lady parts, makes me think of urkle, or koopa troopa turtle shells from Mario brothers. No woman would call her parts squirtle, even and especially if she were a lady fountain. Squirtle makes me think of jr high. Cringe Just say bang. Or giving it up. Or even lady parts. Women like vague.
Using that same “LOGIC” with months equivalent to days, dating someone for 1 year would ONLY be 20 days etc.. So with that said, is TIME really a factor is securing anything?? Living life is ALWAYS about taking chances and I would “advise” you to be HONEST with yourself and do what you can HANDLE regardless of the outcome! KNOW THY SELF!
After a year, you still don’t know someone well enough to share your body with them. You’re a man and think you’re entitled to sex just because you want it more than you want your next meal. That’s no indication that you’re safe to have sex with.
Weird guys tell me that theyve cheated and how they mistreated other girls. Thats what i mean by not meeting my equal I get chatty men, they see it as sharing thier stories. i think they feel safe, because they tell me thier stories all the time. They say that they can tell me anything. but they arnt my type 😢 Im not worried about sleeping with the wrong person, im protected and enjoying celibacy now. Just wondering what its like to see eye to eye heart to heart with someone.
Take your emotions out of what he’s saying and realize this is really how most men are!!! Get smarter and don’t let people play in your face.
Literally be putting folks on game cause this is how men view sex to some men sex is just a daily habit which is sad
Exactly. Idiots in tbe comments getting offended and projecting bullshit onto him for telling us the truth. Him and sprinkle sprinkle shera tells the truth. I always knew this is how men operate. Women in the comments crying have clearly never been around a man at the same time or in the same room where a hot ass woman he cant take his eyes off of is present. And they cleaely havent been aodund men enough to hear them ooen up and express who they really are. Men are just like this. If they arent cheating on their wives then best believe he has a whole ass crush or work crush he wishes he could be with too
😂😂😂 No
Nah you dont gotta take your emotions out of it to see it for what it is. And that's coming from a taurus
@@chayo4537 Maybe you don’t but some do to see more clearly.
This sounds like a lot of justification for men who feel entitled to sex. This view of sexual relations requires lots of disposable women. It’s a society that willfully abuses women.
No but they are predators its the way their wired.
@@Sophiecatherina765 I think it’s a misogynistic excuse for poor self control. Women have natural sexual urges too, and hormones that drive us, but because we bear the responsibility of childbirth, we are forced to and expected to have more self control in the eyes of society. If men had more impetus to control themselves, more of them would. Basic human kindness towards women should be enough, but society has taught them to rationalize their behavior because it’s common and allowed.
@@cocomaire No it’s not misogynistic it’s just u can’t accept the truth. Women naturally can have self control easily because we don’t have a males high testosterone. Men and women are not the same stop comparing yourself to a man. It’s not giving a pass to a man’s behaviour it’s just the truth.
@@cocomaireyes!!! I’m glad someone recognizes this for what this is, excuses and lack of self control, not some animalistic “nature” they always use to excuses their misogynistic and disrespectful behaviour
And that’s why a lot of them End up on the Rapist Rosters
This is exactly why men need Jesus, discipline and self control.
Amen😂
Amen :D
Facts
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This is my exact response when people ask me if I believe in love at first sight. No, I don’t believe in it. How can you learn me by just seeing me? Is it a nice fantasy? Yes, but it’s not reality. Men can lust you at first sight, they undress you with their eyes and start imagine a future with you… again not without mind fucking with your body first.
Once I started reading and teaching myself the things no one taught me. I started asking questions about everything. Now when people say love at first sight. I just laugh to myself in my head… like they’re delusional, let’s see if this last.
True love is the rarest act in the world. Rarest!!! Most people don’t take the time to love themselves… and you think they can love you at first sight… LORDT.
Grateful to have that knowledge at 24. I’m attractive and my intelligence has save me in so many situations. I simply read, watch patterns and once I learn it I’m like GOT IT.
Also, I’m learning how to not yap about myself. And you’re calling me out but again I’ve done a lot of growth so compassionate with myself. But ohhhh child thank you for this.
Last guy was a wake up call for sure. I’m like damn I thought I was smarter than this and it woke me up to truly learn about men so I know next time better.
Oh you poor soul, you have no idea
I dont believe in love at first sight either but. I can imagine someone can be instantly attracted to someone. but thats lust not not love.
Me and my felt in love on first sight… we are together since 12 years and got three children. It’s rare but not impossible.
why does this make me feel disgusting
Because it is
It makes me feel enlightened. Its disgusting cause its the brutal truth to how all men operate.
Just stop giving it up. That's when dating is fun ✨
So what if you’re the one who actually wants to find good sex? How would dating not be fun?
Delayed gratification! Very fulfilling.
plus, valuing meaning, purpose, adventure, over a jolt of fun.
Or when it stops hahahhha!!!
@@DanniBbybecause you're not even getting off 😂 men and women don't get off the same.
SERIOUSLY
you guys are gonna hate him … but take what his saying as facts he’s giving us an insight to a man’s brain. they really do and think like this. DONT GIVE IT UP EVER
No most men don’t, a minority of men think and act like this and it’s this minority women steady dealing with. Generalizing this to all men is crazy.
This is why I decided to live my life without them.
Comparing celibacy with starvation is actually fucking insane
Its actually not that far-fetched because sex is another appetite like one would have for food. and even in trending slang people refer to those who are physically attractivr as "a snack"(probably not anymore its kind of dated). But for muslims when fasting in ramadan married couples are not just fasting from food but also sex. ppl dont really talk about that. and its a right for both the husband and the wife to satisfy eachother.
Food is a basic need. Sex is a basic need. Without food you feel hunger, without sex (most ppl) feel a lack of intimacy and connection , two basic needs for humans
I thought men don’t get connection with sex only women do. Men can have sex and have no intimacy feeling with a woman. Men no how to disconnect naturally
@@danijelaleksi7130Since when has anyone needed constant sex to survive? Bffr
@@danijelaleksi7130I really don’t think sex is necessary. Don’t get me wrong, sometimes I really want it but like. Dying after no food for 2 weeks vs I’ve been asexual for a year… I understand it’s a strong strong strong desire for many, but I just wouldn’t say it’s a need. I think some people confuse basic human connection with sex. We need connection absolutely, that doesn’t just come in the form of sex, and for the men and women that it does, well they’re simply toxic.
So 3 months dating really is = 4.5 days 😭😭😭 dating makes so much more sense now. We think they switching up fast, but nope we just seeing how they really are basically on a week basis🤣!!!
That 3 month rule be crucial😂 in a lot of cases, even if someone do wait 3-5 months before sex (dudes will genuinely wait a whole year😗) and it’s no guarantee they’ll actually commit to you. Ladies: if you wanna have sex, please please please make sure that its what you want as well and especially with someone you trust
And thats IF you’re going on 3 dates a week but we know these dudes are NOT taking these chicks out 3x a week. 😂
This actually opened up an entire rabbit hole of why there are so many work husbands and wives and how people start affairs at a job.. You’re spending all of your time with someone at work and only 9 hours a month with your potential partner💀
Yes this is it but also because with all due respect, you're bound to meet your actual type at work. Men don't matty the women they're truly attracted to or their ideal types, they marry the wife material like he stated in the video. The fun girl is the woman he truly wants and desires but most fun girls arent wife material and wont hold the housebold and family down like tjat. This is why men lie and generally frame them not wanting to marry YOU as not wanting to marry in general or have kids in general just for them to go off and marry his ideal type QUICKLY at that right after the break up within 3 months to a year. Most men who have jobs where they interact with the public ib some format or a lot of people in general develop work wives cause the chances are higher of finding a woman hes truly attracted to. Abd yeah at work you get to know the person without the stabdard exhaustion of traditional questuons and aekwardness caus you're pushed into getting to know each other deeper and faster. I had a married man who had a crush on me at work and he treated me like a work wife but had boundaries and didnt take it too far
I totally disagree with you that wives should not worry about the Instagram or fun girl because the guy will grow up and mature. Most men don't and women should not waste any time with a man who is giving attention to other women
Never mind. Ima just stay single/celibate.
Best choice
Frrr
Being single is like flying🎉 i miss it
Yes. Besides when you're single? You have freedom.
@@unapologeticella4540 nice. and yes true.
He's correct. Men are in neenderthal thinking. They haven't progressed any further than "me want" mentality. The smarter ones figure out that women prefer to hear things that are securing to her so he gets into that "role". It's a means to an end for him, there is no real engagement or connection. It's only about the end goal and thinking that women aren't smart enough to figure this out. Hence, this is what "having game" means. Look at the guys who are very rich. They will show as being able to get the beautiful women and some show off as having multiple. It's acquisition to show power over those guys who can't. It's competition. This guy here telling the truth.
This man is not telling the truth at all. Stop blaming all men for the what the minority do. Men aren’t cavemen and nowadays most men don’t even be having sex often.
What country are you commenting from? 😄
He’s not lying. Listen to this man. A lot of guys do things like this.
He is please stop thinking like a kindergartener.
@@STARBOY_DW stop using the internet to have the balls to say things you wouldnt say to my face coward. Just because you do not agree does not make it untrue. We've learned things like this in KINDERGARTEN. So maybe YOU need to STOP thinking like a child.
This takes all the magic away. All the fun. Turned off of men forever now. I didn't know they were like this...ugh at least I know so that I can stay away permanently. Thank you so much for what you do 💗
It’s the way they’re wired they are predators by nature and it’s also down to their high testosterone. Only god can take those things out of a man.
oh yeah life goes on long after the thrill of living is gone rock on
Nah, just use this to your benefit. Now you understand them. You know that this is why men want to devalue us so badly. This tells you why, as women, we have so much power. You can use this to get things from them without giving them what they want. You can use the promise of sex to get them to do things for you.
Magic is real, and it's found in every good respectful relationship.
The key to finding a good man is patience. NEVER think "having sex w him will show him how important I think he is". That won't work.
Be friends first. Hold back sex for at least 3 months. If he's unwilling to wait, he will start making excuses not to see you, that's dodging a bullet there.
But most women mess this part up. When he quits reaching out, THATS when women will sleep w them to keep their attention, and now they've just gotten used because their judgement got clouded.
Men loose respect for you if you sleep w them too soon. It it's something he brings up often, he's emotionally immature, stay away. Men can hold back, and if they like you, they will WANT to wait. That's facts.
@@Rebecca-GLainesHaven’t heard anything more stupid. I wonder if you know how manipulative you sound.
yeah......im gay and still-if dating is like this, we need a great reset cause this ain't it, good ones are rare. good luck y'all
You have no idea how these men are in bed either. They can be aggressive. Stay safe.
YES I’ve been graped a few times and it’s so true this you got to be careful because you might think they will respect you during s3x until it actually gets to it and they turn into someone you don’t recognize 😢
More like barely hitting it and lasting 4 minutes
I don’t wanna be the fun girl or the wife, both positions seem very undesirable and counterproductive. I wanna be the woman he pays for every minute of my time. 💯
Facts💯🌷
Yes! The only females available to men should be prostitutes or a wife. All this between stuff just hurts and devalues us. Giving them anything else is a waste of our time and resources.
Sad thing about it is the fact that it doesn’t even change with age. The older men are just as bad
I worked as a waitress for some years, my experience is older men are even more desperate, shameless, horny and have the audacity to think a young or much younger girl might be into them pff. The older the more pathetic they become
Wow he’s giving away some serious game. Thank you and God will bless you because of this. This will keep us from predators.
"Some guys really do care about you" is insaneeeeee 😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is why i am not pleased until i see anyone's dark side...who are you when you are not kind....that is how i trap them...until i know that am not dating him...i need to know exactly what I am dealing with from the beginning 😂it explains why most found me intimidating. ..i question a lot.
Thank you for informing and teaching women how to be aware and how to read males true intentions. Sadly most of us have horrible stories from dealing with males
Half way through this video I realized how delusional I’ve been for most of my adult life regarding relationships/men 😮. You have opened my eyes for good. The way you break everything down not only makes so much sense but it’s the game I wish I got from my Dad before he died . Thanks
This is so stupid, if he wants to give attention to the fun girl being married and I’m the wife that have morals and respect myself I won’t be with that man anymore, simple as that! And not all men cheats.
Yea I was a bit alarmed when he told us not to worry about men giving attention to other women. If he does that he's out the door idec
I’m a grown woman and listening to this still triggered and upset me. But I did learn some things so thank you.
My rose colored glasses are clear now. Oh my goodness, goodness. 😅
The calculation has me ready to be a nun 😩
Amém sister 😅
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Ikr 🙏🏽
BAHAHAH
Wise words to keep women grounded. Bravo!!!
When he said “4.5 days” 😐 I lost it 😂😂😂🤌🏽 GREAT VIDEO , smart Man ♥️
This shook me to my core 🤣 but knowledge is power..
Sex is extreme to us too though🤣 that’s what these “sexual liberty” movements been all about. Women want healthy sex😫 it’s about just being honest and not shaming/disrespecting women that actually give you their body.
Great video though! 😭🤌🏽
Fr! We also like sex! So exhausting that this is constantly ignored or as if not the case
@@alias4506 we just waiting for the men’s confusion wave to pass😪 It’s hard but I really think it’s getting better! There are more aware men now bc of it all
So pretty much go after the guy that tells you the opposite of everything you want to hear, he’s more of an honest person and will be a better partner long term. My husband told me in the beginning he wasn’t looking for a relationship but I liked him so much I put in the work and effort to make him want to commit to me aka I competed. I would do it all again without a second thought, he’s literally the man of my dreams and I’m blessed to have him in my life.
Gotta love the honest hard truth
But are you the woman of his dreams or did he settle?
That's not important if she is happy @@Tashasmith7388
@@Tashasmith7388This is a great question. A woman is not supposed to be out here working for the relationship. It is the man for he is the hunter. The bible says that he who finds a wife finds a good thing and is blessed with favor not the other way around.
@@Tashasmith7388if they’re working out then so be it lol
This makes so much sense in why this guy was learning sign language with me ( I am not deaf, but I do work with a lot of individuals who require ASL) just to get to the pineapple 😂😂
They’ll almost worship the ground you walk on just to get the pineapple 😅
screamingggg 😂😂😂
@@rachelo8294 I wish I was lying! 🤦🏾♀️😂😂
comparing getting no p*say to STARVING is actually insane
I appreciate your straightforwardness! It is so needed.
organs shutting down bc they’re starving?? but it really isn’t that serious is it
Right and steal? Like stealing sex (r*pe?) No, sorry, that’s a horrible analogy.
@@amiehopkins that’s your interpretation, steal is a metaphor for when you’re desperately in need and have to lie to get something, there’s many ways to steal & bargain.. doesn’t have to be an extreme violent crime. Manipulation is often subtle. Think about if a car salesman is going to homeless then how will they get the sale they need, they’re not going to actually rape the person.
He’s only describing hormonal mechanism . Even women who take those same hormones can experience that same intensity . I’m glad mine are the way they are as a woman..
@@rachelinthelionsden women ovulate and our hormones change constantly but men are brought up socially to be more aggressive and to give in to an animalistic sexual nature while for women it’s the opposite. Not all men are this way but a lot are bc it’s wrongfully normalized in our culture. A lot of this mentality is the same as a sexual abuser the only thing stopping some men is their empathy level.
So it sounds like the simple answer for this is just to know whether the relationship you’re getting into is based on physical gratification or if it’s more than that to begin with, if there’s substance. It’s okay to get into a relationship that starts with mutual attraction & intent for physical desires though, because you know what you’re getting into and it’s mutually agreed upon. Often times the guys catch feelings though.
You're such a young man packed with knowledge. Thanks for sharing your knowledge with us.
Its so much easier to just stay single. i fear being cheated on. love is not worth the risk.
Great point about the time spent with the person who claims to want marriage.
I like how he whispered “now tell me in the chat” 😂😂 This broke it down in a way I never would have considered. 4 and a half days 😂
Btw I think when people say vibes they mean different things, it’s not always superficial. It could mean the way they connect and how they’re compatible with each other’s energy & personality.
Of the 4.5 days of the 3 months spent together, how much of that time is spent texting, talking on the phone on the in between days? If I go on 3 dates w you, but we talk everyday, the math does change the equation.
If a guy is talking about "wanting you sooo bad" thats a red flag. Hes emotionally immature, and letting you know what hes about. Ive met a few like that and I was shocked! Lol! (This was years ago)
But there is a difference in guys who want sex and men who want a relationship, they both want sex, but the approach is 100% different, and men that seek a relationship are a lot more quiet and let YOU bring that topic up, as a matter of fact, all the good ones didnt talk about ot at all, it was cool of it happened, cool if it didn't, they just enjoy spending time w the other person, they hold back alot more, ifbthe person is too anxious, another red flag.
This shyt is spot on 📍 lmaooo it’s wild how accurate it is
This is actually kind of funny 😂😂😂
Would you say that - because the desire in men is so strong that they sometimes go for low quality women - men that do so are of low quality themselves? Is it just part of the nature of men or is it natural for a man to be able to control his desires?
I think bc society “allows” & encourages men’s promiscuity that they act like they cannot control their desires. Women have the same desires if not more, but society has controlled us so we are more likely to deny our desires out of fear of public/private shame.
It’s apart of nature of men they are predators by nature.
I've met a few guys that don't act like manipulative animals before. But just a few.
samee, they’re in the 0.1%
@@barbaramay9288Most men aren’t like this. A vast majority of men aren’t having sex frequently. You’ve generalized the entirety of a gender based on a minority.
Most guys don't act like this but most guys aren't getting laid regularly imo. He's talking abt the men women are attracted to, maybe briefly, for sex
Great advice!!! The big brother some of us never had!!! May God bless you for the work you’re doing 🙏🏽
Damn didn’t know guy eat the Pokémon squirtle
I think that men are called to learn self control. There are these tactics, yes, but they are not justifiable.
"That's still a stranger" ... I'm shaking laughing. These things are common sense. (After some trial and error of course)
You’re so funnyyyyyy hehehe and Yes it is super super tramautic. You trust him, you love him, and he …i can’t even finish the sentence its too painful. Jordan peterzon said we need marriage because women who get used become Psychopathic and bitter, and i mean… I was definitely upset😭. I am healed now tho💖😊🌸☁️✨ ans Nooooo squirtlet til marriage, but wow!!! Soooooo insightful i love ur content
I hate how much sense this entire video makes
You are so intelligent, Thank you for helping us woman out I so appreciate you ☺
I feel called out
Lord!! I been Ray Charles this whole time dating. 😂
The Math
3 dates per week
Each dinner date is 3 hrs
So now 3 times 3 is 9. Seeing you 9hrs per week barely full time job.
Now if it was 3 months in each month is 4 weeks.
4 times 3 is 12 which means 12 weeks seeing each other in 3 months
9hr per week time spent tigger.
so now 9 times 12 weeks that is 108 hrs you have spent with them.
108hrs divided by 24hrs bc there are that many hrs in a day. This is 4.5 days.
This means you have only spent 4.5 days over course of 3 months.
Avg work hours is 8 hrs. This means you are working 40 hours per week. 40 times 12 is 480 that is 480 hrs. So now divide it by 24 that means you have spent only 20 days on the job basically. So it’s crazy how we bet our jobs more than relationships.
The dating equation:
d is number dates per week
h is hrs per date
w is wks per month
m is number of months
so (d times h) times (w times m) all dived by 24. (dh)(wm)/24
This video was so good and the perfect accurate explanation of how men fall in love and I know this for a fact to be so true. Thank you for confirming this for me. I’m new to your channel as of yesterday and I will be watching and taking notes and coming on more live streams when I can catch them.
If a guy is like a guy in this video is, I’d rather stay single 😅. We need to go back to sex after marriage.
@@TheAngelChristineI totally agree sex should be after marriage. I’m celibate and been for years and I am waiting until sex after marriage. So I totally agree on that part.
@@JessSoReal yeah, i don't agree with this behavior in the video though! people put way too much importance on sex and lose sight on all the other important aspects of life and a relationship, as if the peak of a relationship is sex. when values and growing old together go beyond that. sex is a cherry on top of a relationship, not the main portion.
@@TheAngelChristineTo have a failed sexless marriage 😹?
@@vriiite pretty sure it wasn't failed or sexless. there's so much pressure on sex. what about love? love is not sex. sex is just a cherry on top. if you are your girl are happy and there's a desire then yall are gonna have sex. i think dudes wanna have sex way more than women
Hated you and your face first… after watching a few videos I understand how much you’re trying to help. Thanks 👍🏽 subscribed
Great information for young women
This is too much. I'll just be single.
This was both making me giggle & very clear information. Thank you so much 😊
Celibacy is very empowering.
This is a great video. I honestly would have loved to see this information while i was younger. Thanks!
I really want to be your friend Tomisin 😂 you are so funny and always light up my day.
They are strangers…!!! Yes😅
Your comment to view ratios are 👍🏽
😂😂😂 I love the way you broke the math down for us because you know we hate math. Great video though! Subscribed!
Ahaha this is a good video
Yes thats why im bi and i decide just hangout with girls
I kind of knew that all along, but really great to hear that from a guy))
Are you an Aquarius?
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you.....very insightful
Your chanel made my day. Loving it so please continue giving me positive energy!
We could all save a lot of time and stress, of everyone just did a polygraph for the first date
My 67 yo BF has not taken many pineapples in a long time when freely offered. Why?
Does he need assistive devices to consume said pineapples? 🍍
Maybe he feels satisfied with less pineapples
@@jfaustin1742 I asked if he was seeing someone and he said no, but offered no reason. I broke up for a month and returned yesterday. He wanted pineapples and I gave it to him
He could be squirtling a younger model on the sly. Women are told to at aim OLDER only sugar daddies. See Shira7 or what she's called.. brutal but honest
ED
Is he aging?
I'mma go lesbian.
When he said 4.5 days I cackled🤣🤣🤣😭😭🤣
😂hes giving away my secret @10:50
20:38 omg 😂😂😂😂😂😂😅
This is a great video
“Ah the crazy bunch” HAHAHA
Will the next episode be 'how women view sex'? Its a bit underrepresented.. tnx!
Tomisin, you are so well spoken & articulate. Except for the word SQUIRTLE. It turns my stomach.
What word do u recommend he should rather use ?
@@bigthangz5489 squirtle sounds like a dude bro name for lady parts, makes me think of urkle, or koopa troopa turtle shells from Mario brothers. No woman would call her parts squirtle, even and especially if she were a lady fountain. Squirtle makes me think of jr high. Cringe
Just say bang. Or giving it up. Or even lady parts. Women like vague.
Thank you
What if you never had a man switch up and instead they won’t leave you alone afterwards? What does that mean?
I can't 😂 32:06 😂😂😂
That last bit 🙏🏽
what if a woman uses these tactics on men
What tactics and what good would that do for you?
There is already shera sprinkle sprinkle ❤
@ellamrani5327 yes i love her advise shes 💯% right.
Nah bc your so right, thank you🙏
So true ..
Using that same “LOGIC” with months equivalent to days, dating someone for 1 year would ONLY be 20 days etc..
So with that said, is TIME really a factor is securing anything??
Living life is ALWAYS about taking chances and I would “advise” you to be HONEST with yourself and do what you can HANDLE regardless of the outcome! KNOW THY SELF!
After a year, you still don’t know someone well enough to share your body with them. You’re a man and think you’re entitled to sex just because you want it more than you want your next meal. That’s no indication that you’re safe to have sex with.
I’m ngl, that was a terrible analogy that justifies something really really bad
4.5 days is insane
If you spend 4 1/2 days together without sleeping, you’re going to be trauma bonded together forever
18:00 ur so funny HAHHAHAHAA omgggg fr. Hahhaha I love your personality. And wow 4 DAYS!!!!!! EMBARRASSING.
Weird guys tell me that theyve cheated and how they mistreated other girls. Thats what i mean by not meeting my equal I get chatty men, they see it as sharing thier stories. i think they feel safe, because they tell me thier stories all the time. They say that they can tell me anything. but they arnt my type 😢
Im not worried about sleeping with the wrong person, im protected and enjoying celibacy now. Just wondering what its like to see eye to eye heart to heart with someone.
Briliant video!
I thought that a guy speaking of his past relationships is a red flag.
No way 4.5 days is not enough time. This is super clear! SMH please ladies let’s know our worth these guys are pineapples!