Thank you for sharing with us, sweet Puja, so lovely to see you in nature. It feels like you are really one with the environment, how you move and talk being there, delightful to watch ^^. I so resonate with your thoughts and observations, and I´ve been contemplating this for most of my life. Its striking how many people we are, we all feel lonely around so many people, and how starved most of us are emotionally and connection wise. Yet there are so many material resources around us. For many, I see that what they long for the most is belonging, human connection. It is also what they fear the most (I will include myself, because I notice this pattern within me as well). There is a sense that "I will need to do it all on my own", and deep subconscous fears around giving and recieving support and love, as well as belong to a community. It takes time, patience and conscious deeper work to cultivate trust and capacity to embrace a more community and heart centered way of feeling, thinking and living. It takes time to feel safe, basically. My life vision is to co-create a community tribe with my chosen family, 15-20 app. Living in nature self sustainably, and also participating in a greater regional and global community is what I envision. My vision is that there will be many of these smaller communities, and a communication between them. That is what I see can be the new system of the world. I believe that is what us humans are wired for: to belong to a tribe that is not too small and and to big. There is a need to feel diversity and an abundance of connection, that it is not just with one person or a very few people I can rely on, rather a bigger group. Equally, there is also a need to feel seen and acknowledged and to not just fit in with the crowd of hundreds of people, although that might also be preferable for many people), but my overall sense is that we all need tribe. I believe it will take a long time to gradually shift this consciousness and practical structure in society, and there might be many smaller steps to make before we can get there. But that´s what I believe and what I am working towards in my life. At this point, I am working and healing in my closest friendship, and together we develop new ways of navigating and achieve greater wisdom and understanding through conflict. That is an absolute necessity for building a sustainable community, and its something I feel very passionate about. Before I´ll even start working on the practical solutions, I need to work on myself as a relational being, cultivate trust and connection with my loved ones and over time build that rock solid foundation that will ensure that the community will be based on trust, heart-centerednes and authenticty. Thank you for adressing this, Puja, so important topic to talk about! And nature is the best medicine, healer, advisor and inspiration, totally with you on wanting to camp and spend more time in wilderness
Thank you for sharing with us, sweet Puja, so lovely to see you in nature. It feels like you are really one with the environment, how you move and talk being there, delightful to watch ^^. I so resonate with your thoughts and observations, and I´ve been contemplating this for most of my life. Its striking how many people we are, we all feel lonely around so many people, and how starved most of us are emotionally and connection wise. Yet there are so many material resources around us. For many, I see that what they long for the most is belonging, human connection. It is also what they fear the most (I will include myself, because I notice this pattern within me as well). There is a sense that "I will need to do it all on my own", and deep subconscous fears around giving and recieving support and love, as well as belong to a community. It takes time, patience and conscious deeper work to cultivate trust and capacity to embrace a more community and heart centered way of feeling, thinking and living. It takes time to feel safe, basically. My life vision is to co-create a community tribe with my chosen family, 15-20 app. Living in nature self sustainably, and also participating in a greater regional and global community is what I envision. My vision is that there will be many of these smaller communities, and a communication between them. That is what I see can be the new system of the world. I believe that is what us humans are wired for: to belong to a tribe that is not too small and and to big. There is a need to feel diversity and an abundance of connection, that it is not just with one person or a very few people I can rely on, rather a bigger group. Equally, there is also a need to feel seen and acknowledged and to not just fit in with the crowd of hundreds of people, although that might also be preferable for many people), but my overall sense is that we all need tribe. I believe it will take a long time to gradually shift this consciousness and practical structure in society, and there might be many smaller steps to make before we can get there. But that´s what I believe and what I am working towards in my life.
At this point, I am working and healing in my closest friendship, and together we develop new ways of navigating and achieve greater wisdom and understanding through conflict. That is an absolute necessity for building a sustainable community, and its something I feel very passionate about. Before I´ll even start working on the practical solutions, I need to work on myself as a relational being, cultivate trust and connection with my loved ones and over time build that rock solid foundation that will ensure that the community will be based on trust, heart-centerednes and authenticty.
Thank you for adressing this, Puja, so important topic to talk about! And nature is the best medicine, healer, advisor and inspiration, totally with you on wanting to camp and spend more time in wilderness