Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullah. I love you for the sake of Allah. I would humbly ask to reconsider the thumbnail, those shadow image parts are somehow intimidating...
i had a addiction for porn for almost a decade. What i found out is that it is not about the willpower. Every one of us has enough willpower to overcome it, but don't know how to use that willpower. There will be lies and justifications by shaitan, and you need to understand it and you need to understand that you will survive no matter what and that you have free will. Your priorities may need to change. When you struggle in the way of allah then you will learn more and more and will find a way. iirc i haven't watched porn for ~11 months now
ALHAMDULLILAH my brother can you tell how you feel now and how you feel when you were addicted to pornography I mean to say that I have noticed that sexual pleasure got diminished if we watch porn but If we stop watching it for even 1 month then our natural sexual return is it true
@@khaawarnadeem6038 i seperate into soul mind and body. I understand that my body may have desires i do no associate with, and my mind as well even though you have more controll over your mind than over your body and over your soul you have 100% control. So even when you feel like you have desires you just say this is not from me even if you feel them. When i have temptation i understand my priorities and act acording to them, because i have engrained them in my mind over and over again, because you will often forget your priorities when you have changed them newly. anxiety and depression is no problem since people are not as high as you think and allah is most important and i don't get depressed when i don't watch porn and dont watch it for cope as well, because you get savab and grow when you use the pain for good and allah rewards you if you are grateful and push through the pain so why not just accept it.
@@zaynkhan3431 one thing i noticed is i don't think that much about sexual things anymore and i realized that women are humans just like men. Some bad some disgusting some good. Also i have more control over my mind now because when i stopped accepting the evil stuff in porn, my mind conformed to my own standards that i set so i don't have nearly as many evil thoughts that i don't want to have
@@FinalBoss429 That in and of itself was my goal. I've seen many positive changes in my life it's not just quitting but i also get closer to my deen and start to understand it better.
Not only are we exhorted to stay away from fornication, we are asked to stay away from indecencies explicitly. Alh for the guidance that we have, and should follow
@@khaawarnadeem6038 research about the industry and what goes on behind the scenes and how former actors and actresses expose the industry and also how Islam says always look for the truth
@@khaawarnadeem6038 honestly make yourself busy that you dont have enough time to be sitting around and watching this one helped me to stop with no willpower or difficulty, there are occasional urges but keep making urself busy. also find a partner if you are old and mature enough
Brothers and sisters please make dua for everyone who are suffering through this particular addiction Muslim or not, no one should have to suffer through something evil like this and I wish we could live in a dunya where such things like porn doesn’t exist…
nowdays the pb is not porn , but how our community is making the marriage difficult , and this for their interests . NOWDAYS ITS EASIER TO COMMIT HARAM than follow our own religion . Disgustied really .
Guys it is doable. No matter others say. It is easy. Let that sink in first. We all are just brainwashed by everything. That it is a permenant damage, that you can't escape. All these are rubbish. Believe in Allah. Grow spiritually and spend time in learning and nurturing your good hobbies and skills. Occupy your time with goodness. May Allah bless all with goodness.
@@DamnedTears The biological reality that everybody is talking about is just the surface level information gathered from Google. The researches that have been done are not conclusive of the damages. And there are some showing possible recoveries from the neurological damage. And above all that do not underestimate the potential of Allah he is all capable and most merciful.
If any one is struggling with the addiction. I urge you to read the book ''The easy peasy way to quit porn''. It is free available as pdf. Before you read I have a warning for you "Do not skip chapters".
@@newlearner8701Regarding your invisible reply, I am refering to the biological need of a man and woman as well. How long can you repress the reality? Surely it will cause damage. I mean we are only allowed to do it in a marriage, and even that has become impossible.
Islam needs to find a way to teach sex in a formal and respectful way to prevent people using unrealistic online movies to learn how to have sex because at the end of the day, we are all formed due to our parents having sex.
@@Muhammad45450 early marriage should NEVER be made legal you mentally-sick fool. Women and even the men need to develop physically (puberty) and mentally (education, maturity as you get older and more factors) before understanding what they want in life and who aligns with their personality and ambition. In India/Pakistan and neighbouring countries there's a terrible problem with arranged and forced marriages where in some instances a young undeveloped girl who's yet to build a life for herself marries a man who's old enough to be her grandfather, let alone a father, which is simply wrong and reeks of desperation and immorality.
@@aidygoonerNoone uses it as a learning source. They use it to fulfill their desires. If people married early they would just use their spouses to fulfill their desires wich is the blessed way...
Think of it this way (m@le perspective): you're *literally* getting 0ff of watching OTHER GUYS smashing a wombyn you find attractive, what do you think that does to you in the future when you have your wife (wombyn you're attracted to)?? Think brothers!
And when most young Muslim men are engaged in this they think somehow they're going to get a pure girl. You need to understand that men are a reflection of women and vice versa, if men are watching all this filth, the women in contrast are indulging in other filth like Tabarruj, taking of their clothes, sending n*des and entertaining/seeking validation from multiple men. The whole society won't be able to uphold marriage bc of both sides indulging in corruption and the bad consequences that comes with it. So it's kind of scary that many many Muslims want good spouses that are pure, but they're nothing but black/impure inside. That's who they will attract. We need to wake up!
@@jibril2473marriage aint the answer. Watching porn in your marriage will make your wife lose all love and trust for you. So you need to be able to overcome it regardless
I found a quote that really helped me quit porn, it goes like "When you can't stop you must force it because something is forcing you not to stop" And Ramadan Helped me I haven't watched porn for a long time now.
ياليتنى كنت ترابا.. ياليتنى قدمت لحياتي ياليتني لم أوت كتابيه .. ياليتنى لم اتخذ فلان خليلا ياليتنا اطعنا الله واطعنا الرسولا ياليتنى اتخذت مع الرسول سبيلا ياليتنى كنت معهم فأفوز فوزا عظيما جميعها أمنيات الأموات التي يمكن إدراكها الآن..فلنتداركها ما دمنا احياء قبل فوات الأوان⌛
I’ll add a very important factor that most people miss. It’s a habit and like most habits people have it occurs at a specific place, time or situation. For example alone at home, late in your bed. With every environment you have emotional connection that you instantly link with certain actions. For example if you have an home office and you purely work there, every time you enter it you’ll be able to preform undistracted. Same way if you’ve accustomed yourself to watching corn when you’re in your bed alone change up your situation, go to sleep earlier, leave your door open, whatever. You have to change the environment where your bad actions happen so you don’t subconsciously link that action with that room or situation
Be strong my brothers. Just know that if you manage to quit that addiction then i am certain your iman will skyrocket to a higher degree and Allah will love you even more. I hope the best for those in hardships.
They are everywhere. It's even impossible to watch a movie without getting fake messages like: spicy women are waiting for you. Why would I care about "spicy women" anyway. This is absurd.
Mohammed, it would help if you related this to the idea of "Idle talk" in Islam, if one is fasting and refrains from idle actions, such as watching shows/listening to music/films/games, their dopamine systems arent surging through out the fast, and at the end of the day they will feel less of an urge to bust one.
One month clean without any type of this stuff . I’m telling I tried 5 times and i failed until I really really left it behind me fully . Please guys if you fail try again and again . From experience you well overcome this thing after couple of tries. Alhamdullilah i feel great now may allah bless you all🤍
@@roskobiwan There are multiple studies how music affects your brain and how music can control your emotions and can control your thoughts. Music is haram. It's haram for a reason. God doesn't gain anything by depriving us of something. If he says it's not permissible, then there must be some wisdom behind it. Even a woman's breast is beautiful. Does that mean that you look at it every day? Apologies for the extreme example.
@@alizaka1467so why then do some people sing the quran? im not convinced by the teachings of the quran, i find many contradictions and errors within it, and i am not convinced by the farfetched reasonings that are provided outside the quran for these apparent flaws so as the quran says it cannot be the word of god if i find contradictions in it. Music is beautiful. Music is a universal language. And people who are completely connected to nature see body parts all day every day amongst their tribes. A god who cares about us would not deny a woman the wind through her hair.
Mashallah, well said brother. Another important thing to note is that by watching corn, you're training yourself to get pleasure from watching, not doing the act. May Allah help the whole Ummah to combat this bad addiction.
Try learning about the story of Thaalaba ra, one of the companies of the prophet, every time i get these thoughts I think of his story and feel ashamed of what I was about to do Alhamdulilah. And always pray to Allah. اللهم ثبتنا
I think if you look very deep into it it’s the lifestyle, what you are willing to sacrifice, etc. I still have this problem but I think I get it now. You have to sacrifice. Maybe if you have a female friend, what shows and you are still allowing yourself to get entertained by shows that has the slightest amount of provocative behavior. I think tbh its 99% mental and the physical symptoms comes from your mental stress. When I had depression for 2 months I didn’t look at pornography at all or anything but when I stopped I went back to it. Changes in my mood made me avoid it. So I think changing your mood long term is the way to go about it and الله اعلم
Please make a video about Weed addiction. Many people suffer from this as well and we would love to hear your perspective on this . Jazak Allah Khair for All your efforts hijab. ❤
I have been struglling this ramadan to stop watching ... im trying my best and i wont stop till i build enough willpower to never watch it again , inchalah no one gets addicted to this cause its really a painfull addiction , may allah keep us away from everything thats hurting us in any way , i need your prayers guys ❤
I couldn't agree more with the third point. When you have this addiction you can't do anything else. And everything in life becomes torture. You can literally starve and not go to work because work becomes a truly insufferable form of torture to your addicted mind that you would rather starve Truly the worst mistake I've ever done and the only thing I regret is when I accepted a classmate's suggestion to look into porn in middle school 10 years ago
I stopped watching porn years ago, but i have the tab open in my laptop and other tabs are youtube videos and movies i watch, but yea porn is ruining you mentally and physically it can cause blurry vision anxiety, social anxiety, mood swings, tiredness, etc
@momo976. it's different types of movies ive seen, and all of them have that no matter if its a movie from korea India japan mexico dubai usa afghanistan point is every one of those countries have nudity inappropriate stuff in them war movies biopic movies disease movies tv shows
Movies are part of the same problem. Also the Evil is great in this. It’s fake and not reality for the most part. Also acting is not allowed in Islam unless for educational purposes because one is lying. It’s also a type of possession when you act a voice or a line to mimi a actor or films. You have to understand the inspiration comes from a whisper it’s not actually YOU. Hollywood actors have multiple personas. These individuals are also great at acting because they are energized by the demonic possession which gives them a edge in acting/masquerading they will display excellent oratory skills, emotion, voices with a drop of a hat. Just like Iblis who is the no.1 actor masquerader he appeared as old man, woman, child to our Prophets and people to deceive them.
Salam alaikum. I agree with some other commentors, beating this addiction isnt about willpower. Its more of self reflection and understanding why you ACTUALLY want to watch it. I recommend reading The Freedom Model. Wa alaikum al salam.
It is only with a higher love that you overcome porn. Do regular dhikr and your ruuh will get stronger, just like in Ramadan, but for the rest of the year. Soon frequency drops and stops
The only way to get rid of this problem is raising the consciousness. When you grow in consciousness, the compulsive nature of body and mind become less and less. Then everything that you do in your life becomes a conscious act, not a compulsive act. Then sexuality becomes a choice not a compulsion. Whatever emotions/compulsions happens within you is created by you . First you have to see , what is happening within ourselves. Everything is done by our own mind. When the perception is clear, then the compulsion goes away.
When I was a kid (pre-internet) we always ridiculed those that were keen on dirty magazines. I'm not sure how it became normalised, I suppose it was a tidal wave of opportunity..
Wonderful video as always, Mr.Hijab. A friendly piece of advice, in the future please try to credit the creator for any video you use. Not only is it fair to the creator, but you also show us the name of the video so we can go watch the entirety of it. Since you chose to show us an excerpt from it, it obviously has good information to digest.
The reason why so many people are addicted to pornography isn’t actually to get the feeling of pleasure it provides. Instead, it’s actually to fill in an emptiness they feel inside. It’s not enough to abstain from your addiction, to be sober you need to fill that gap in your heart. And the only way to do that is by learning to truly love and worship Allah. This way you won’t feel an urge to get anything else because your heart already has what it needs and is tranquil.
Assalamu Alaykum brother, I would recommend you to change your thumbnail. May Allah guide all the Muslims around the world to the straight path. Jazakallahu khairan brother for changing the thumbnail.
One thing I've learned from nofap is that you will have to quit everything that leads you to it ( ie media and computers). Honestly the longest I went was 35 days. But I keep trying and tweaking my habbits.."Quitting porn is like quitting everything in this day and age".. even a simple youtube ad lures me into it.. If this is the case with many of you, then we are certainly doomed..
and then these brothers cry that not enough women are marriage material bc they aren't wearing hijabs or they're doing Tabarruj or entertaining multiple men in their DMs...when they are literally watching n*de women at night☠️☠️☠️Men and women are a reflection of eachother and now it makes sense that everyone is complaining about marriage...so many ppl are corrupt and indulging in sins/filth, but they all want good spouses who are pure. Messed up situation. May Allah protect the Muslims for this Fitnah.
I’m not a Muslim, do I like Mohammad hijab not really. I certainly agree with him on this though I had a very bad porn addiction started watching it from a very very young age as a young child all throughout my teens I didn’t realise how bad it was until I listened to ppl with porn addictions and realised damn I’m worse then these guys quit cold turkey after many blips porn ruined my life for many years and a lot of issues stemmed from watching it within a few months of quitting was night and day difference every aspect of my life improved all I can say to those who suffer from it QUIT! Keep yourself busy you ain’t doing anything your more likely to watch it take up hobby’s etc porn sucks the life out of young ppl and adults.
Salam alaikum good video content , but the thumbnail It was not successful, please change it, continue as you were in the beginning and do not change for the worse. Note : I noticed that you changed it, this is good and shows your good intentions, jazak Allah Khairan
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@@H12123Allah Is Allah
hijab finally made a nofap video
Assalamu Alaikum please change thumbnail. Jazak Allah khair
Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullah. I love you for the sake of Allah. I would humbly ask to reconsider the thumbnail, those shadow image parts are somehow intimidating...
It's biggest fitnah in this era. Wallahi.
May Allah protect us
Wallahi, trying to kick this habit is harder than getting a cat out of a tree!
@@Ibro994 may Allah make easier for all of us
@@Ibro994do it slowly if your watching it 7x times a week do 5 one week then 4 then 3 then so on
Ameen
Amin
i had a addiction for porn for almost a decade. What i found out is that it is not about the willpower. Every one of us has enough willpower to overcome it, but don't know how to use that willpower. There will be lies and justifications by shaitan, and you need to understand it and you need to understand that you will survive no matter what and that you have free will. Your priorities may need to change. When you struggle in the way of allah then you will learn more and more and will find a way.
iirc i haven't watched porn for ~11 months now
Why use willpower?
Check a book called the easypeasy method.
You dont need "willpower"
What do u lose by stopping? NOTHING. Instead u win
ALHAMDULLILAH my brother can you tell how you feel now and how you feel when you were addicted to pornography I mean to say that I have noticed that sexual pleasure got diminished if we watch porn but If we stop watching it for even 1 month then our natural sexual return is it true
@@khaawarnadeem6038 i seperate into soul mind and body. I understand that my body may have desires i do no associate with, and my mind as well even though you have more controll over your mind than over your body and over your soul you have 100% control. So even when you feel like you have desires you just say this is not from me even if you feel them. When i have temptation i understand my priorities and act acording to them, because i have engrained them in my mind over and over again, because you will often forget your priorities when you have changed them newly. anxiety and depression is no problem since people are not as high as you think and allah is most important and i don't get depressed when i don't watch porn and dont watch it for cope as well, because you get savab and grow when you use the pain for good and allah rewards you if you are grateful and push through the pain so why not just accept it.
May Allah keep you steadfast brother
@@zaynkhan3431 one thing i noticed is i don't think that much about sexual things anymore and i realized that women are humans just like men. Some bad some disgusting some good. Also i have more control over my mind now because when i stopped accepting the evil stuff in porn, my mind conformed to my own standards that i set so i don't have nearly as many evil thoughts that i don't want to have
Alhamdulilah, It has been 18 months since i quit. I pray the same thing happen to everyone who are trying to quit.
Does after it have adverse affect on your health?
@@zahoorkhan2063none brother. Telling u from personal experience.
AllahhuAkbar
Did you achieve any goals you had in mind but thought porn was holding you back?
@@FinalBoss429 That in and of itself was my goal. I've seen many positive changes in my life it's not just quitting but i also get closer to my deen and start to understand it better.
There is a reason why Allah told us to not even approach it. Its a filth of highest degree. I can relate to it.
Where does Allah tell you to not approach it?
@@thunderous-one When he tells us to stay away from fornication. This type of it counts as well.
Not only are we exhorted to stay away from fornication, we are asked to stay away from indecencies explicitly. Alh for the guidance that we have, and should follow
@@fallasleep9472 what types are there?
@@fallasleep9472 can you give Quran verse please
Had a issue with porn but since I reverted I left it all behind alhamduillah
@@khaawarnadeem6038 research about the industry and what goes on behind the scenes and how former actors and actresses expose the industry and also how Islam says always look for the truth
@@khaawarnadeem6038 honestly make yourself busy that you dont have enough time to be sitting around and watching this one helped me to stop with no willpower or difficulty, there are occasional urges but keep making urself busy. also find a partner if you are old and mature enough
Mashallah May Allah keep you steadfast brother
U simply man up, and stay away from it with determination also praying, working out and occupying your free time.
@@khaawarnadeem6038
*sunan abi dawud 2121* flaming homosexual mupedohammad exercising his addiction to babies
Brothers and sisters please make dua for everyone who are suffering through this particular addiction Muslim or not, no one should have to suffer through something evil like this and I wish we could live in a dunya where such things like porn doesn’t exist…
nowdays the pb is not porn , but how our community is making the marriage difficult , and this for their interests .
NOWDAYS ITS EASIER TO COMMIT HARAM than follow our own religion . Disgustied really .
@@mhm2689 I feel your frustration. Same boat. Boat is sinking fast, and I can't swim.
You said you would turn on your radio everyday at dawn…. YOU SAID YOUD TURN ON YOUR RADIO EVERYDAY AT DAWN AND YOU WERE NOT THERE
Salam Ramadan Mubarak, if we bring back slavery. Porn will not exist
And most of its owners are Jews
21 days clean so far
Keep up brother
Stay strong
Dont ever go back
Astagfurilah
@@samuelrigaud6595 what are u trying to say ?
MashAllah keep going
May ALLAH Protect Our Brother And Sisters To This Fitnah
Amin
Ameen 😢
May ALLAH (swt) protect us all from this Fitnah, ameen.
Ameen
This is not fitnah guys it’s an obvious Sin.
Guys it is doable. No matter others say. It is easy. Let that sink in first. We all are just brainwashed by everything. That it is a permenant damage, that you can't escape. All these are rubbish. Believe in Allah. Grow spiritually and spend time in learning and nurturing your good hobbies and skills. Occupy your time with goodness. May Allah bless all with goodness.
And how do you deal with the biological reality then?
@@DamnedTears The biological reality that everybody is talking about is just the surface level information gathered from Google. The researches that have been done are not conclusive of the damages. And there are some showing possible recoveries from the neurological damage. And above all that do not underestimate the potential of Allah he is all capable and most merciful.
If any one is struggling with the addiction. I urge you to read the book ''The easy peasy way to quit porn''. It is free available as pdf. Before you read I have a warning for you "Do not skip chapters".
@@newlearner8701Regarding your invisible reply, I am refering to the biological need of a man and woman as well. How long can you repress the reality? Surely it will cause damage. I mean we are only allowed to do it in a marriage, and even that has become impossible.
@@DamnedTears get married, or fast to suppress it
Very important topic. An elephant in the room really
Islam needs to find a way to teach sex in a formal and respectful way to prevent people using unrealistic online movies to learn how to have sex because at the end of the day, we are all formed due to our parents having sex.
it will not end until ealry marriage is made legal
@@Muhammad45450 early marriage should NEVER be made legal you mentally-sick fool. Women and even the men need to develop physically (puberty) and mentally (education, maturity as you get older and more factors) before understanding what they want in life and who aligns with their personality and ambition. In India/Pakistan and neighbouring countries there's a terrible problem with arranged and forced marriages where in some instances a young undeveloped girl who's yet to build a life for herself marries a man who's old enough to be her grandfather, let alone a father, which is simply wrong and reeks of desperation and immorality.
@@aidygoonerAre you even a muslim?
@@aidygoonerNoone uses it as a learning source. They use it to fulfill their desires. If people married early they would just use their spouses to fulfill their desires wich is the blessed way...
This has damaged me and many other young Muslims, from a young age till present day young adulthood.
Allah keep us all resilient and strong in imaan.
We need to bring back Early marriage
@@Therebelliousprince001 Yes. The more you delay marriage, the more the society makes marriage difficult, the more fornication spreads
Think of it this way (m@le perspective): you're *literally* getting 0ff of watching OTHER GUYS smashing a wombyn you find attractive, what do you think that does to you in the future when you have your wife (wombyn you're attracted to)?? Think brothers!
And when most young Muslim men are engaged in this they think somehow they're going to get a pure girl. You need to understand that men are a reflection of women and vice versa, if men are watching all this filth, the women in contrast are indulging in other filth like Tabarruj, taking of their clothes, sending n*des and entertaining/seeking validation from multiple men. The whole society won't be able to uphold marriage bc of both sides indulging in corruption and the bad consequences that comes with it. So it's kind of scary that many many Muslims want good spouses that are pure, but they're nothing but black/impure inside. That's who they will attract. We need to wake up!
I needed this. I definitely have this problem. May Allah make it easy for me and make me stronger mentally
Get married brother.
@@jibril2473marriage aint the answer. Watching porn in your marriage will make your wife lose all love and trust for you. So you need to be able to overcome it regardless
@@jibril2473married not a solution
alhumdullilah this Ramadan I have taken it upon myself to get rid of this habit once and for all
You said that last year
Insha’allah brother, keep it up and ignore the whispers of shaytan telling you “you wont be able to do it” or “you have said that before”
Allahuma barik
I found a quote that really helped me quit porn, it goes like
"When you can't stop you must force it because something is forcing you not to stop" And Ramadan Helped me I haven't watched porn for a long time now.
I was addict too much not that much,I keep my self super busy that help me alots
Remove your picture
Not watching sexualized anime characters, and anime in general would most definitely help.
@@i.f.a2132fool have you heard of dragonball?
JazakAllah and much love for Brother Mohammed Hijab from Pakistan
ياليتنى كنت ترابا..
ياليتنى قدمت لحياتي
ياليتني لم أوت كتابيه ..
ياليتنى لم اتخذ فلان خليلا
ياليتنا اطعنا الله واطعنا الرسولا
ياليتنى اتخذت مع الرسول سبيلا
ياليتنى كنت معهم فأفوز فوزا عظيما
جميعها أمنيات الأموات التي يمكن إدراكها الآن..فلنتداركها ما دمنا احياء قبل فوات الأوان⌛
Back from the tour Mashallah brother. RAMDAN Karim!!!
I’ll add a very important factor that most people miss. It’s a habit and like most habits people have it occurs at a specific place, time or situation. For example alone at home, late in your bed.
With every environment you have emotional connection that you instantly link with certain actions. For example if you have an home office and you purely work there, every time you enter it you’ll be able to preform undistracted.
Same way if you’ve accustomed yourself to watching corn when you’re in your bed alone change up your situation, go to sleep earlier, leave your door open, whatever. You have to change the environment where your bad actions happen so you don’t subconsciously link that action with that room or situation
Been reading thru the comments & This is actually a good advice
May Allah accept all of our major and minor efforts this Ramadan, Ameen 🤲
Be strong my brothers. Just know that if you manage to quit that addiction then i am certain your iman will skyrocket to a higher degree and Allah will love you even more. I hope the best for those in hardships.
Thank you brother Hijab for elaborating on these issues and its detriment, much needed as its not really covered or broken down elswhere.
Good man. These are important teachings for the youth of today
Jazak Allah khairan my brother in islam and in egypt
They are everywhere. It's even impossible to watch a movie without getting fake messages like: spicy women are waiting for you.
Why would I care about "spicy women" anyway.
This is absurd.
Use Adblocker.
Doesnt sound like any legal Streaming Service anyway
the male gaze is a foul thing that infects every crevice of our world, to such an extent that it invades even OUR gaze, as females.
vermin creatures.
Use an adblocker lol
😂
They trynna invite you to 🏳️🌈
Mohammed, it would help if you related this to the idea of "Idle talk" in Islam, if one is fasting and refrains from idle actions, such as watching shows/listening to music/films/games, their dopamine systems arent surging through out the fast, and at the end of the day they will feel less of an urge to bust one.
IN SHA ALLAH I WILL QUIT THIS SIN ONCE AND FOR ALL THIS RAMADAN
Amen brother
Inshallah
I'm also working to quit once and for all this Ramadan
MashaAllah brother! Thanks for changing the thumbnail!
Thank you, brother! Ramadan Mubarak!
One month clean without any type of this stuff . I’m telling I tried 5 times and i failed until I really really left it behind me fully . Please guys if you fail try again and again . From experience you well overcome this thing after couple of tries. Alhamdullilah i feel great now may allah bless you all🤍
Welcome brother from Saudi arabia
Very good topics to speak about. Lots of people struggling with this. Inshaallah may Allah help all struggling with this and guide us all. Ameen
À lot of people need to hear this. I hope you make a similar video about music
Music is beautiful.
@@roskobiwan There are multiple studies how music affects your brain and how music can control your emotions and can control your thoughts. Music is haram. It's haram for a reason. God doesn't gain anything by depriving us of something. If he says it's not permissible, then there must be some wisdom behind it. Even a woman's breast is beautiful. Does that mean that you look at it every day? Apologies for the extreme example.
@@alizaka1467so why then do some people sing the quran? im not convinced by the teachings of the quran, i find many contradictions and errors within it, and i am not convinced by the farfetched reasonings that are provided outside the quran for these apparent flaws so as the quran says it cannot be the word of god if i find contradictions in it. Music is beautiful. Music is a universal language. And people who are completely connected to nature see body parts all day every day amongst their tribes. A god who cares about us would not deny a woman the wind through her hair.
@@roskobiwan bro came to a muslim video just to argue lol get a job mate
@@YonikMalik i must be right since all you can do is try to insult me
In’sha’Allah we all have the strength to overcome all the filth. Let’s all make dua for each other 🤲🏼
Thank you brother 🙏 Allah bless you with all the happiness in the world
Well said brother❤
Mashallah, well said brother. Another important thing to note is that by watching corn, you're training yourself to get pleasure from watching, not doing the act. May Allah help the whole Ummah to combat this bad addiction.
We need to bring back Early marriage
Ma’Sha’Allah*
I pray and hope I get rid of this addiction during Ramadan.
Try learning about the story of Thaalaba ra, one of the companies of the prophet, every time i get these thoughts I think of his story and feel ashamed of what I was about to do Alhamdulilah. And always pray to Allah. اللهم ثبتنا
Ramadan Kareem to you too my brother
Thank You Mouhammad Hijab
The problem is much deeper. Will power is only one aspect for resolution.
I think if you look very deep into it it’s the lifestyle, what you are willing to sacrifice, etc. I still have this problem but I think I get it now. You have to sacrifice. Maybe if you have a female friend, what shows and you are still allowing yourself to get entertained by shows that has the slightest amount of provocative behavior. I think tbh its 99% mental and the physical symptoms comes from your mental stress. When I had depression for 2 months I didn’t look at pornography at all or anything but when I stopped I went back to it. Changes in my mood made me avoid it. So I think changing your mood long term is the way to go about it and الله اعلم
Try:
- The Easy peasy method
- the freedom model for addiction
رمضان مبارك صيامكم مقبول يا رب 🤍
Please make a video about Weed addiction. Many people suffer from this as well and we would love to hear your perspective on this .
Jazak Allah Khair for All your efforts hijab. ❤
Crazy thing is weed addiction is strongly tied to porn addiction
@@badoundiaye5624 100%
@@badoundiaye5624hijra is your solution
Im strong now ,thank god.
Jazaak Allahu khairan.
Thank you brother for your concept ❤
I have been struglling this ramadan to stop watching ... im trying my best and i wont stop till i build enough willpower to never watch it again , inchalah no one gets addicted to this cause its really a painfull addiction , may allah keep us away from everything thats hurting us in any way , i need your prayers guys ❤
Ramadan Mubarak.
As a man havent wayched porn for about 4 yrs serious no joke,i just saw the dangerous effects and thought f this aint gone back
You are a real man !
Lie ‼️
@@samuelrigaud6595not everyone is as weak as you
@@d_grimreaper ive witness muslims always supports their brother lies religiously ☝🏾
Please Do More of these Reminders
one of the most IMPORTANT discussions to be had during this age that we live in
I couldn't agree more with the third point. When you have this addiction you can't do anything else. And everything in life becomes torture. You can literally starve and not go to work because work becomes a truly insufferable form of torture to your addicted mind that you would rather starve
Truly the worst mistake I've ever done and the only thing I regret is when I accepted a classmate's suggestion to look into porn in middle school 10 years ago
Wa Alaikum Assalam My Brother
Well thought out explanation!
Important Video Jazakallah khair
Brother I have seen a number of videos of you with the arm band. I hope you are in good health InshaAllah.
Love you brother
This is Helpful.
Alhamdulillah, I have quit this Ramadhan insha-Allah. Its all about will power. May Allah keep us steadfast.
This video was short and sweet
Salam alaykoum, thanks for your content
Ramadan Mubarak
I love Hijab how he’s so firm
My legend Shiekh Mohammed 🤩
وعليكم السلام والرحمه اخي العزيز محمد حجاب، يا ابني النيل.❤️
May Allah protect us
Thank you brother 🤍
Yes everything that you mentioned is 100 procent true.
بارك الله فيك ❤❤❤
I stopped watching porn years ago, but i have the tab open in my laptop and other tabs are youtube videos and movies i watch, but yea porn is ruining you mentally and physically it can cause blurry vision anxiety, social anxiety, mood swings, tiredness, etc
Subhanallah. But don't movies also contain music ? Music is haram for sure. Don't they also contain inappropriately dressed women and corruptions ?
Why do you have tab of porn open? Unless I misunderstood
@momo976. it's different types of movies ive seen, and all of them have that no matter if its a movie from korea India japan mexico dubai usa afghanistan point is every one of those countries have nudity inappropriate stuff in them war movies biopic movies disease movies tv shows
Movies are part of the same problem. Also the Evil is great in this.
It’s fake and not reality for the most part.
Also acting is not allowed in Islam unless for educational purposes because one is lying. It’s also a type of possession when you act a voice or a line to mimi a actor or films. You have to understand the inspiration comes from a whisper it’s not actually YOU.
Hollywood actors have multiple personas.
These individuals are also great at acting because they are energized by the demonic possession which gives them a edge in acting/masquerading they will display excellent oratory skills, emotion, voices with a drop of a hat.
Just like Iblis who is the no.1 actor masquerader he appeared as old man, woman, child to our Prophets and people to deceive them.
That's just rubbish. It doesn't cause blurry vision at all.
Thank you bro don’t even know what state I’m in so lost 😞
Salam alaikum. I agree with some other commentors, beating this addiction isnt about willpower. Its more of self reflection and understanding why you ACTUALLY want to watch it. I recommend reading The Freedom Model. Wa alaikum al salam.
It is only with a higher love that you overcome porn. Do regular dhikr and your ruuh will get stronger, just like in Ramadan, but for the rest of the year. Soon frequency drops and stops
❤ love u brother❤
Ramadan kariim Bro #Mohamed_Hijab ❤ 🤝🇸🇴
pray for me, pray for us!
The only way to get rid of this problem is raising the consciousness. When you grow in consciousness, the compulsive nature of body and mind become less and less. Then everything that you do in your life becomes a conscious act, not a compulsive act. Then sexuality becomes a choice not a compulsion. Whatever emotions/compulsions happens within you is created by you . First you have to see , what is happening within ourselves. Everything is done by our own mind. When the perception is clear, then the compulsion goes away.
When I was a kid (pre-internet) we always ridiculed those that were keen on dirty magazines. I'm not sure how it became normalised, I suppose it was a tidal wave of opportunity..
Much Needed Video ❤
Waalykumu salaam really very long time we did hear from you .❤❤❤❤❤
May Allah protect us from this Fitna.. Ameen
It will never be illegal either because of money.
great video brother
Wonderful video as always, Mr.Hijab. A friendly piece of advice, in the future please try to credit the creator for any video you use. Not only is it fair to the creator, but you also show us the name of the video so we can go watch the entirety of it. Since you chose to show us an excerpt from it, it obviously has good information to digest.
The reason why so many people are addicted to pornography isn’t actually to get the feeling of pleasure it provides. Instead, it’s actually to fill in an emptiness they feel inside. It’s not enough to abstain from your addiction, to be sober you need to fill that gap in your heart. And the only way to do that is by learning to truly love and worship Allah. This way you won’t feel an urge to get anything else because your heart already has what it needs and is tranquil.
If you look at it the whole world is becoming porn!
Brilliantly explained, and I’m not even particularly religious
Jezakellahukeyrn bro
First comment, Ramadan mubarek brothers and sisters
Assalamu Alaykum brother, I would recommend you to change your thumbnail. May Allah guide all the Muslims around the world to the straight path.
Jazakallahu khairan brother for changing the thumbnail.
He did, Alhamdulillah.
@@shifaulkabirswapnil3729 Yes, he did. May Allah bless him and all the Muslims around the world.
@@Stranger7621 Ameen.
Ramadan mubarak brother
JazakAllahu khair
Alhamdulilah for Islam everything that Allah said is haram is extremely harmful
One thing I've learned from nofap is that you will have to quit everything that leads you to it ( ie media and computers). Honestly the longest I went was 35 days. But I keep trying and tweaking my habbits.."Quitting porn is like quitting everything in this day and age".. even a simple youtube ad lures me into it.. If this is the case with many of you, then we are certainly doomed..
and then these brothers cry that not enough women are marriage material bc they aren't wearing hijabs or they're doing Tabarruj or entertaining multiple men in their DMs...when they are literally watching n*de women at night☠️☠️☠️Men and women are a reflection of eachother and now it makes sense that everyone is complaining about marriage...so many ppl are corrupt and indulging in sins/filth, but they all want good spouses who are pure. Messed up situation. May Allah protect the Muslims for this Fitnah.
Ma sha Allah brother
Khair Mubarak ❤
I’m not a Muslim, do I like Mohammad hijab not really. I certainly agree with him on this though I had a very bad porn addiction started watching it from a very very young age as a young child all throughout my teens I didn’t realise how bad it was until I listened to ppl with porn addictions and realised damn I’m worse then these guys quit cold turkey after many blips porn ruined my life for many years and a lot of issues stemmed from watching it within a few months of quitting was night and day difference every aspect of my life improved all I can say to those who suffer from it QUIT! Keep yourself busy you ain’t doing anything your more likely to watch it take up hobby’s etc porn sucks the life out of young ppl and adults.
Good job, I am proud of you
May god guide you (:
It's about lowering the gaze, porn is on the streets too.
facts
Salam alaikum good video content , but the thumbnail It was not successful, please change it, continue as you were in the beginning and do not change for the worse.
Note : I noticed that you changed it, this is good and shows your good intentions, jazak Allah Khairan