I know so well about still born. It happened to me. My baby started moving really fast, after she stopped. I never felt her moving again. I was eight months. So, the next day I went to the doctor. They couldn't find a heart beat. I didn't believe them. I just wanted to go home. Which I did. Start having pain, so I go to the hospital. I still couldn't believe it. I didn't even look at her. I hate to this day I didn't. That was 33yrs. ago. After that nothing but boys, three. Which I love with all my heart. Her name was, Erica Latrice McGhee. But I miss her so much. Wondering what it would be like if she was here. My Mom said she was beautiful with a head full of hair. 😇
Hello, I just came across this video, 5 years after the fact. I was shocked when I heard that this was filmed only 6 months after her loss! And she was using the *past tense* in talking about her grief (7:05)! ... Then she said "I don't know how to feel now." My goodness, she was still *grieving,* obviously! Most people (should) know that a terrible loss like this can and likely will take much longer than this! *Everyone, PLEASE do NOT put "time limits" on someone's grief!* It's very sad, it seems like this woman had the underlying expectation that she should be "over it" by then. I wonder whether she was able to be much more patient with herself during the months and years after this. I hope those around her have been supportive and validating her feelings during this challenging time, hopefully progressing towards healing! 🙏💙
Thank you for sharing. I know your bravery in this grieving process will touch and inspire me and others. Don't ever feel that you must grieve in a certain way as long as you allow yourself to heal. I have lost 2 of my 8 pregnancies and prayed that God would bless me by allowing me to see how those babies changed my path for the better. My best friend had suffered from multiple miscarriages and she had very gently told me that had been her prayer for her little ones. It gave me something to focus on. I know the first loss showed me how precious each and every life is and inspired me to have more children than I could have ever imagined. my second loss proved to me that I wasn't ready to stop at 4 children. We have a total of 6 children with us here. I know I see in my other children how those 2 changed me for the better.
Thank you for sharing your story but I think when a mom tells a doctor that she has not felt her baby move much even if they find a hart beat they should automatically do a stress test and an ultrasound because the cord could be wrapped around baby or the fluids could be low, so any mom out there never think your worrying to much the first thought that something is not right please go to the doctor and insist an ultrasound because this is not right so many moms don’t get to take their baby home, I’m a mom of five and this has never happened to me but it just breaks my hart for all the moms that go through this, I’m so so sorry for every one of you
Nicole it's very hard to feel the labour pain when we know, not going see a live 23 wk baby. Today we are waiting for 27 hours in hospital see not a live baby. I didn't know what words to say to wife Vandana.
I am so sorry this happened to your family. For reasons unknown there was a problem with your child's health. That is why God/Jesus created Heaven to offer us love, and peace without any kind of pain for Eternity. God/Jesus has your child. God bless you, and yours forever... AMEN... Also on your journey of life you always carry your children in your heart, and memories. You do what ever you feel concerning your children. If you want to talk about your children daily then do it. There is no time limit on how you grieve. You might never stop the grieving process. Time helps us coupe with a death, and that is about it. We never forget. God/Jesus does' love us all, and trust in God/Jesus you will see your child again. There is a after life, and it is in Heaven.
I related a lot to your story regarding having to deliver a baby that isn't alive.Been there
I know so well about still born. It happened to me. My baby started moving really fast, after she stopped. I never felt her moving again. I was eight months. So, the next day I went to the doctor. They couldn't find a heart beat. I didn't believe them. I just wanted to go home. Which I did. Start having pain, so I go to the hospital. I still couldn't believe it. I didn't even look at her. I hate to this day I didn't. That was 33yrs. ago. After that nothing but boys, three. Which I love with all my heart. Her name was, Erica Latrice McGhee. But I miss her so much. Wondering what it would be like if she was here. My Mom said she was beautiful with a head full of hair. 😇
Shirley Pruitt I am sorry for your loss 💔
Oh Mama. What a tremendous loss, how unimaginable. You spoke to eloquently despite your grief. ❤️
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Hello, I just came across this video, 5 years after the fact. I was shocked when I heard that this was filmed only 6 months after her loss! And she was using the *past tense* in talking about her grief (7:05)! ... Then she said "I don't know how to feel now." My goodness, she was still *grieving,* obviously!
Most people (should) know that a terrible loss like this can and likely will take much longer than this!
*Everyone, PLEASE do NOT put "time limits" on someone's grief!* It's very sad, it seems like this woman had the underlying expectation that she should be "over it" by then. I wonder whether she was able to be much more patient with herself during the months and years after this. I hope those around her have been supportive and validating her feelings during this challenging time, hopefully progressing towards healing! 🙏💙
Thank you for sharing. I know your bravery in this grieving process will touch and inspire me and others. Don't ever feel that you must grieve in a certain way as long as you allow yourself to heal. I have lost 2 of my 8 pregnancies and prayed that God would bless me by allowing me to see how those babies changed my path for the better. My best friend had suffered from multiple miscarriages and she had very gently told me that had been her prayer for her little ones. It gave me something to focus on. I know the first loss showed me how precious each and every life is and inspired me to have more children than I could have ever imagined. my second loss proved to me that I wasn't ready to stop at 4 children. We have a total of 6 children with us here. I know I see in my other children how those 2 changed me for the better.
Thank you for sharing your story but I think when a mom tells a doctor that she has not felt her baby move much even if they find a hart beat they should automatically do a stress test and an ultrasound because the cord could be wrapped around baby or the fluids could be low, so any mom out there never think your worrying to much the first thought that something is not right please go to the doctor and insist an ultrasound because this is not right so many moms don’t get to take their baby home, I’m a mom of five and this has never happened to me but it just breaks my hart for all the moms that go through this, I’m so so sorry for every one of you
thank you for sharing your story.
So sorry for your loss, God bless you🙏🙏🙏
So sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry for your loss ;0(
So sorry for your loss and your family. Your very strong. God bless you.
So sad for you and your loss :(
God Bless you and comfort to you and your family 🙏🏻❤️
I am so sorry the loss of your baby
So sorry 💔 God bless you and your family. You are strong momma. Prayer's.
Good bless you, you Will meet her un thé heaven. Love
God Bless you
Nicole it's very hard to feel the labour pain when we know, not going see a live 23 wk baby. Today we are waiting for 27 hours in hospital see not a live baby. I didn't know what words to say to wife Vandana.
I am so sorry this happened to your family. For reasons unknown there was a problem with your child's health. That is why God/Jesus created Heaven to offer us love, and peace without any kind of pain for Eternity. God/Jesus has your child. God bless you, and yours forever... AMEN... Also on your journey of life you always carry your children in your heart, and memories. You do what ever you feel concerning your children. If you want to talk about your children daily then do it. There is no time limit on how you grieve. You might never stop the grieving process. Time helps us coupe with a death, and that is about it. We never forget. God/Jesus does' love us all, and trust in God/Jesus you will see your child again. There is a after life, and it is in Heaven.
The first thing she saw was Jesus when she opened her eyes :-)
I hate when doctors are thruo enough. it's okay hugs
They shouldn't have made her be in labor for 2 full days..seriously medical field
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