Ladies, don't let your nurturing nature be your downfall. It's a red flag if a man makes you feel sorry for him. That means you will have to be his mom and emotional punching bag.
Yes I agree but he says ask ourselves why a man is single and not married is a red flag but we can’t marry a man that taken though . I get it as I met unmarried older men who were rich and they wouldn’t give your opinion or act like a victim or weak .
Bingo! That's why you don't mess with or fool with anyone (male or female) who don't have anything to lose. They will make you lose everything you have ever worked for. It's just not worth it.
Whooo argumentative, always a debate, always dismissing your emotions, quick to tell you you’re wrong about any and every thing, thinking you’re sleeping with someone else, expecting you to read their mind. I know this spirit all too well in multiple men of my past. God please deliver me from attracting this spirit ever again🙏🏽
What is wrong with you that these kind of men are attracted to you is the question you should be asking your self Maybe you are too nice to the wrong types
My worst experience was with an insecure man - he was the type constantly looking at himself in the mirror, comparing his body to others, constantly pulling his shirt away from his body bc he had a softer chest, would change outfit before date nights if he felt I looked too sexy in comparison, towards the end he’d gotten comfortable verbalizing his insecurities, he was an emotional cheater, did everything he could to humble me - leaving him and his rotten spirit was the most freeing and healing experience of my life so far - once I fully accepted that he wasn’t as righteous as he put on I left and never went back - he still seems unhappy deep down and I’m glad I realized who he was before it was too late
Facts he started comparing me to other women to humble me turned out he was fighting his sexuality and taking it out on me and every other woman he was messing with. And he is very handsome. It's sad
@@WalkingwithChrist97 yeah. I feel like these guys are sexually confused or just evil idk. But they treat women horribly, which leads me to believe it's a sexuality thing too.
@blackingingerpurrin I think emotional cheating can also be when your spouse/partner seeks frequent attention from multiple and random people! They look for people to stroke their ego
@@kourtney2730 so he gay girl he looks in the mirror more than you ..changing outfits more than you in 1 day And comparing his body to other men ..HE GAY
Listen i should have ran for the boarder when my ex's mother told me about her son. Plus, she said, "I'm not worried about your intentions towards my son' but I'm worried his towards you"! Man typing this just gave me the chills! Thank God for Jesus!🙏🏾🙌🏾
WHEW!!!! I also had a mother warn me about her son, and she wasn’t playing either! I was having lunch with her and just shared how much I love her son and want us to work out… she looked at me and said “Be careful what you wish for” dead serious. I was planning to move in with him and my 3 yr old daughter, needless to say I rethought that plan!
" Submission is slavery when you're with a weak man"- Tony G. I know some women do take offense to the word submission. The way Tony explained it that submission is good when a woman is with a true leader. This is a good and powerful message tonight, Amen!🙏🙏🙏
A true confident man is a humble man. Since he is working for God, all his achievements are for the Glory of God. He does not need the validation of man.
Tony is telling the truth! Listen, I started listening 2 years ago and it was hard at first because I was so triggered by the truth. I pushed through though and I have restored my relationship with God. Left a toxic relationship where I was trying so hard and met someone who treats me so good it feels like God himself dropped him at my doorstep. I promise if you get back close to God, you’ll attract everything you desire without trying so hard. It’s hard at first but then life gets so peaceful and easy with consistent obedience.
Yup my ex was an insecure man . Angry over the littlest things. Had abandonment issues where he would constantly worry if I was going to leave him and wanting me to stay , emotionally unstable. Had no purpose and also had dreams of becoming a basketball player in high school and getting drafted to the NBA, dropped out of college but now has no other purpose or other goals he wants to achieve. Very argumentative . I dodged a bullet!
@@Mangamatrix-1 mines is in college now , but he says that if basketball don’t work out he’ll be okay because he knows that he has me and to become a engineer .. your comment has me thinking ..
2:09 This is why I talk to my kids, especially my son like this. I've been traumatised severely by insecure men, and I refuse for one to come out of my home.
This scares me so much as single mom. I hurt for that boys mom and thinking of the pain that baby went through. No child deserved that. It just makes me want to stay single until my kids are out the house so if anything happens it only happens to me😢
@@a.d.b535 I'm just thinking of marriage and living together. I would be scared to even go to sleep. Doesn't make since to build anything if it can't lead to marriage
Rather than live together or get married, take your time to get to know the person. Know that the child is #1. Watch for red flags. If in doubt, back out.
Damn I experienced an insecure man, & I swear I thought he was the most handsome, the most damn near perfect King walking. Once I realized he was unhappy and insecure I said damn I want to heal him and help him but then I realized me being that person recognizing everything in him kinda made me feel like I want him forever … He doesnt want me.. he love bombed me. & then ghosted me. I real life miss him but look you cant keep Pouring into somebody who probably pouring it out behind his back because hes busy with soo many women my out pour doesnt matter. When you deal with a man with that kinda energy it will make you question your self. & thats no good if a man make you self sabotage red flag runnnnn
I’ve recently been through the same situation however, I realize that was a trauma bond that we had. I wanted to save him. I wanted to help him as well, thinking I can heal him, but at the same time I was only hurting myself. He was very mean to me very insecure, but then I came to the realization that me trying to heal him and save him. I’m just a human punching bag.I had to walk away he’s very verbally abusive to me and emotionally. I saw the red flags 🚩 before I even laid down with him. So I hold myself accountable for that.
Dammit Tony you really knocked it out the park with this one! My paternal grandma told my mom not to marry her son! And boy oh boy was she right after 10 years of violence, drugs, foreclosure, moving in with a crackhead while my mom was pregnant with twins and STDS later!
You reminded me of something my mum said about my dad when she met him. He was always complaining about life being unfair to him, his parents neglecting him and the fact that nobody was helping him. You're right, my mum did everything a wife could do. House cleaning, cooking, helping him as much as she could, but it was never enough. When he was younger, he was awkward, a bit ugly, didn't know what to do with his life, with really bad fashion taste. He was physically, emotionally, verbally and financially abusive to my mum and us. He enjoyed going back and forth with my mum, he used to say very offensive things to us, but we were too young to understand. Oh, you've just described my dad. My mum filed for divorce after 17 years of suffering. And now that he is old, he started praising my mum at 79, he's at last recognised that my mum was a good wife. But we know he is not sincere. He's just feeling lonely.
Do we have the same dad?!! He’s all alone if his home health aides aren’t there. Can’t even hardly walk! And my mom in better shape than me and she’s older than me AND my dad. Oh honey - she didn’t even know how old my dad was until after they got married that’s how much he LIESSSSSSSSSS.
I’ve experienced this type of man and was highly deceived. Glad I left and know the signs now. He had me confused overall cause I knew he “loved” me but over time things didn’t make sense. Appreciate these videos to educate us on the tactics and mindset.
Tony you ain't neva lied! I was with a "victim"mentality grown boy cause he was only a man in stature. I'm so glad I broke it off with him 6 years ago... thank Jesus. This dude was my first relationship 12 years after I had been divorced and abstinent. Will not make that mistake again....Nope. Now one thing is for sure ain't no man coming over my kids. I made sure of that. All my children are adults now and I'm glad I didn't have men around my children. I pray for the mom of that poor baby!
“ if he didn’t make it pro,you have to take it slow slow” that was a whole sermon amongst itself! I can’t tell you how many men I have met that did not make it pro or did not level up due to their own stupid actions and were a nightmare.
Lately, it seems like all I have been attracting are bisexual men. I don’t know why that is but the spirit is definitely moving! I pray for double discernment every night and I ask God to remove that spirit away from me. The last man I was dating was very insecure. He loved bombed me, had me meet his parents, he was very argumentative and kept starting arguments out of no where. His best friend was gay. He was doing a lot of things that heterosexual men don’t do. I left the situation and never looked back!
Yesss he told me his best friend was gay to throw me off but they were actually lovers and plotted against me to destroy my life like he did his baby mom 😭
A man living/operating out of ego or a place of desperation is the deadliest known to man. Be safe n keep a guard up ladies even around fathers husbands brothers and any we call loved ones. Doesn’t mean they value us the same❤
I literally lost everything because I made up my mind to be a mother before a provider… The Lord has restored me and we all lived to testify about it. Ladies, we always have a choice, choose wisely.
I agree Tony....you have to really get to know a man and take time with that process. Be careful with men that had sexual trauma growing up...not saying don't date but you better make sure he has worked through that trauma otherwise buckle up.
This! My ex-husband was abused in foster care, then verbally abused by his older cousin after his aunt & uncle adopted him and his siblings. Needless to say, he was a terror. Red flag that I missed: he only did one therapy session for all that trauma. Knowing what I know now, I would have put my track shoes on!
Tony thanks for everything you’re sharing with us. What you’re saying is true. I’ve been with a man you’re speaking of. I eventually divorced him because I couldn’t allow my son and I to endure the torment from that relationship. Recently I came across someone who plays as a victim. Ladies please listen and heed what Tony is saying.
OMG!! I saw this but didn’t get a chance to view it until today!! This is so true!! He is a narcissist and bisexual he just told me after 5 years- didn’t have qualities you could see and showed no signs but he did have these characteristics: argue and go back and forth, tell me my feelings weren’t valid, over 35 years old, not married, hard on women!!… Lord help me through this!!
You hit the nail on the head with the insecure man never feeling fulfilled, always looking for a power thrill. Just relinquished a relationship with God’s provision and protection in order to protect myself and my peace from the insecure man. Wants to do everything but get married even though it was his idea and suggestion from the get go. Focused on the pursuit of money and power within the black community of Atlanta/in the church/in the school system. I’ll pass. God has better! 🥰 The Pharisee spirit is running rampant through these people whom claim to be Christians. Many unfortunately shall hear, “Depart from me for I never knew you.” I choose Jesus because I only want to hear, “Well done, my good and faithful servant.” God tells me the sweetest things when I go into the secret place and seek His Face!
Tony, you KNOW exactly what you are talking about. I divorced this insecure extroverted victim - con artist. God showed me all of this and this video is confirmation. Thank God I'm free from idolatry and this hidden, but "in plain sight" darkness which is an expert at hiding in the church. Lil Ugly is great at separating you from God.... you can't be with lil Ugly without being in idolatry. Point blank. Period.
Here in Texas we call it the Power . Because that spirit desires to have control over somebody else. The ultimate goal of the spirit is to separate then annihilate that person. Enjoying this series God bless
You are so right Mr. Tony!!! And I’ll say even majority of surgeons are married w/family-kids, to your point. I worked closely with Ortho & CV surgeons for decades and majority were married with structured family. So you are right about these average unmarried men!🙏🏽
Mann sayyy everything you said hit home. Left my ex 2 yrs ago and he was very insecure, ran expeditiously with my track shoes on. NOTHING was never enough for this man
Thank you for this series. You have confirmed what I knew. It’s supporting me in maintaining my strength to steer clear of these types of men when I see these issues at the onset. Much appreciated
Thank you!!!! Tony, Excellent, Excellent commentary‼️(( You’re speaking 💯 Facts. I Appreciate you allowing God to use you.., May God continue to bless you and your family! (( Keep going, keep speaking the truth and pulling the wool off of these demonic people…,🤍🤍💫💫🤍🤍
Sir you spoke nothing but the living truth All you spoke of I been a victim of so I know better now when dealing with a real Godly genuine man thank you for this video very much needed ❤👏🏽💯
100% divorcing someone RIGHT NOW with these little ugly qualities. I really wish I had a really good father figure in my life to tell me this message. Thank you Tony 🫶🏽🤎
Same! He recently called due to his brother's death- overdosed🫤 I gave condolence and stated I was already aware that something horrible happened. He asked how in a voice laced with shock! I said you called 🥱... Wished him well though 😊
Bro Tony this was so Heart breaking to hear about the So call Prophet that brutal took that young boy life 💔😢 lord this is so sad , lord Jesus help us to wake up like you said and smell the Folgers in the morning concerning this spirit of Lil Ugly
Good message. Lots of meat regarding spiritual warfare and demonic activity. His face looks like somebody did the cha-cha slide on it was fun-nee.😂😅😂😅😂😅
You're definitely God Warrior keep the faith in God guidance......this was a lesson learned with truth and facts....bless your heart ❤️....you and your family stay strong In God sight🙏❤️❤️🙏
TGissel ( love from Detroit) You drop so many jewls and facts. Love that you be speaking on everything on your platform. Also, you keep it all the real for real.
Much respect and appreciation to you Tony for bringing to the forefront abnormal and dangerous human behavior. I wish I had these teachings 20 years ago before I married my ex. I went through a lot of pain and abuse from an insecure man. Thank God for restoring my life away from him. Ladies please take this advice and learn or it can cause you your life which is taking away more than your PEACE. 🙏🏽
Everything you said was right on! Like every point was spot on about my experience dating an insecure man. It has been painful trying to break this soul tie. I know that I have failed & allowed him back into my life knowing he was hitting on nothing. He is a liar, loser & bum! But, no pain will go in vain. I will help some many women with my experience. With the help of Jesus I will be healed and overcome this battle. I am praying & hope this message helps so many ppl. You can make it through with your faith in Christ ❤
This entire video describes my EX !!! He was definitely Satan’s child ..no matter how much I pray this dude keeps trying to text and contact me but he is BLOCKED.
TONY!!!! Yes, yes and yes. I dated an ex pro football and i think he is extremely deprrssed unfulfilled...he didnt stsy long. And two, yes you cant do both 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Tony i been low key for three years looking at content from you fr and thank you for speaking real truths about things we as women need to know because in today society women is lost outside for everybody devaluing themselves on every level we as women need to take time to learn how to take care of self in healthy ways have boundaries say no I'm not interested in a respectful way its too many folk accepting situations it's too many situationships too many addictionships people male and female thirsty in a hurry to not be alone jumping into coating and wasting valuable time being delusional by avoiding red flags the first sign of anything that make you feel uncomfortable run repent not having self control will cause your judgement to be totally off.
Tony, this is Excellent Vital information. It all sounds reasonable and very truthful! My own brother and Father would give me this great advice. A real man is gentle! Thank you so much!! Again, Excellent!! Keep It Going! I say Absolutely to All you've said! 😊
Tony is leaving no stone unturned. The critical lesson is to Never, Never, Ever Under Any Circumstances leave your child (boy or girl) with a man. There is too much of a risk for horrible life-altering abuse. Thank you Mr. Gaskins
Ladies, don't let your nurturing nature be your downfall. It's a red flag if a man makes you feel sorry for him. That means you will have to be his mom and emotional punching bag.
This!!!!
Yeah thats how I endured abuse. 😢❤
@@Mindsetolympics I’m so sorry to hear that. I pray God will restore you in every area you were hurt. 🙏
Yes I agree but he says ask ourselves why a man is single and not married is a red flag but we can’t marry a man that taken though . I get it as I met unmarried older men who were rich and they wouldn’t give your opinion or act like a victim or weak .
The most dangerous type of man is a man that has nothing to lose.
Bingo! That's why you don't mess with or fool with anyone (male or female) who don't have anything to lose. They will make you lose everything you have ever worked for. It's just not worth it.
You better believe it! Great comment. Sis
Facts I learned not to deal with people who have nothing to lose they want you in the same spot their in
@@devinesent7696 and no God
@@latashafeaginyes indeed
Insecure people are dangerous
Yeap
VERY!!
TG: "When you meet a woe is me man, put your track shoes on..." 🏃♀️ 😂
Thats right
Facts 💯! Unfortunately for me I ended up learning the hard way- listen ladies, RUN!!! Don't look back, just RUN!!!!
Facts TG… speaking from experience.
That's facts tho 💯 NO LIE NO LIE 🙏🏽
Facts!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
It's a scary world. I'd rather be alone than risk my babies getting harmed.
Whooo argumentative, always a debate, always dismissing your emotions, quick to tell you you’re wrong about any and every thing, thinking you’re sleeping with someone else, expecting you to read their mind. I know this spirit all too well in multiple men of my past. God please deliver me from attracting this spirit ever again🙏🏽
@@MercLife100 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💕💕💕💕
Amen and Amen ❤🙏🏾
What is wrong with you that these kind of men are attracted to you is the question you should be asking your self Maybe you are too nice to the wrong types
Yessss expecting you to fix their issues
So true
My worst experience was with an insecure man - he was the type constantly looking at himself in the mirror, comparing his body to others, constantly pulling his shirt away from his body bc he had a softer chest, would change outfit before date nights if he felt I looked too sexy in comparison, towards the end he’d gotten comfortable verbalizing his insecurities, he was an emotional cheater, did everything he could to humble me - leaving him and his rotten spirit was the most freeing and healing experience of my life so far - once I fully accepted that he wasn’t as righteous as he put on I left and never went back - he still seems unhappy deep down and I’m glad I realized who he was before it was too late
What’s an example of him emotional cheating ? is it when a guy tries to compliment other women to make you feel a type of way ?
Facts he started comparing me to other women to humble me turned out he was fighting his sexuality and taking it out on me and every other woman he was messing with. And he is very handsome. It's sad
@@WalkingwithChrist97 yeah. I feel like these guys are sexually confused or just evil idk. But they treat women horribly, which leads me to believe it's a sexuality thing too.
@blackingingerpurrin I think emotional cheating can also be when your spouse/partner seeks frequent attention from multiple and random people! They look for people to stroke their ego
@@kourtney2730 so he gay girl he looks in the mirror more than you ..changing outfits more than you in 1 day
And comparing his body to other men ..HE GAY
Listen i should have ran for the boarder when my ex's mother told me about her son. Plus, she said, "I'm not worried about your intentions towards my son' but I'm worried his towards you"! Man typing this just gave me the chills! Thank God for Jesus!🙏🏾🙌🏾
WHEW!!!! I also had a mother warn me about her son, and she wasn’t playing either! I was having lunch with her and just shared how much I love her son and want us to work out… she looked at me and said “Be careful what you wish for” dead serious. I was planning to move in with him and my 3 yr old daughter, needless to say I rethought that plan!
@@mamat1213 so glad you changed your mind. 🙌🏾
" Submission is slavery when you're with a weak man"- Tony G. I know some women do take offense to the word submission. The way Tony explained it that submission is good when a woman is with a true leader. This is a good and powerful message tonight, Amen!🙏🙏🙏
I totally agree with this and had to learn this first hand. I was in slavery submitted to the wrong man. Tony really knows his stuff!
@@stephaniejoywoodside9942 yes he does!!
@@stephaniejoywoodside9942 same!
Exactly!
"Jesus, be a face!" 😅 27:16
I cried hearing about the child getting hurt. I hate when something bad happens to kids; they can't defend themselves.
A true confident man is a humble man. Since he is working for God, all his achievements are for the Glory of God. He does not need the validation of man.
Wow this is exactly how my ex husband acted. You’re spot on. His mom told me her son was spoiled and arrogant and I didn’t listen.
Dang u should have listened 😒 it's ok we live and learn...sometimes the hard way 😒 u not the only 1 😒
Same here!
Spot on. God keeps using you Tony most girls fathers don't even teach them this stuff.
Because I alot of us had terrible fathers.
Amen
This makes me want to cry. I feel so bad for that little boy 😭😭 my God 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
It was tough to listen to. I’m on my 2 time with this video and I had to fast forward. It is heartbreaking.
@@1moniqueceleste 😔🙏🏾 I understand
The enemy only comes to steal, kill and destroy…Lord help us to be more discerning 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Tony is telling the truth! Listen, I started listening 2 years ago and it was hard at first because I was so triggered by the truth. I pushed through though and I have restored my relationship with God. Left a toxic relationship where I was trying so hard and met someone who treats me so good it feels like God himself dropped him at my doorstep. I promise if you get back close to God, you’ll attract everything you desire without trying so hard. It’s hard at first but then life gets so peaceful and easy with consistent obedience.
Yup my ex was an insecure man . Angry over the littlest things. Had abandonment issues where he would constantly worry if I was going to leave him and wanting me to stay , emotionally unstable. Had no purpose and also had dreams of becoming a basketball player in high school and getting drafted to the NBA, dropped out of college but now has no other purpose or other goals he wants to achieve. Very argumentative . I dodged a bullet!
@@Mangamatrix-1 mines is in college now , but he says that if basketball don’t work out he’ll be okay because he knows that he has me and to become a engineer .. your comment has me thinking ..
You described my ex to a "T" 😔
2:09 This is why I talk to my kids, especially my son like this. I've been traumatised severely by insecure men, and I refuse for one to come out of my home.
This scares me so much as single mom. I hurt for that boys mom and thinking of the pain that baby went through. No child deserved that. It just makes me want to stay single until my kids are out the house so if anything happens it only happens to me😢
Literally
Don't trust any man with your child, even if you think you know him and he seems okay. Not worth the risk, and your child likely won't tell you.
@@a.d.b535 I'm just thinking of marriage and living together. I would be scared to even go to sleep. Doesn't make since to build anything if it can't lead to marriage
Rather than live together or get married, take your time to get to know the person. Know that the child is #1. Watch for red flags. If in doubt, back out.
I completely understand u 🤗
Damn I experienced an insecure man, & I swear I thought he was the most handsome, the most damn near perfect King walking. Once I realized he was unhappy and insecure I said damn I want to heal him and help him but then I realized me being that person recognizing everything in him kinda made me feel like I want him forever … He doesnt want me.. he love bombed me. & then ghosted me. I real life miss him but look you cant keep
Pouring into somebody who probably pouring it out behind his back because hes busy with soo many women my out pour doesnt matter. When you deal with a man with that kinda energy it will make you question your self. & thats no good if a man make you self sabotage red flag runnnnn
I’ve recently been through the same situation however, I realize that was a trauma bond that we had. I wanted to save him. I wanted to help him as well, thinking I can heal him, but at the same time I was only hurting myself. He was very mean to me very insecure, but then I came to the realization that me trying to heal him and save him. I’m just a human punching bag.I had to walk away he’s very verbally abusive to me and emotionally. I saw the red flags 🚩 before I even laid down with him. So I hold myself accountable for that.
He didn't ghost you. God pushed him out your life and locked the door. He'll try to cone back and have a long winded reason. Trust.
Yes sis I thought mine was handsome but once I realized he was insecure and most likely would stay that way I ran and never looked back
Whew girl you said a word! PRAY for strength, I’m telling you it works! Mans rejection is Gods protection ❤
@@MsChristianrShe said what she said, Dang😁
Dammit Tony you really knocked it out the park with this one! My paternal grandma told my mom not to marry her son! And boy oh boy was she right after 10 years of violence, drugs, foreclosure, moving in with a crackhead while my mom was pregnant with twins and STDS later!
💯 what you just described is a vulnerable, possibly covert narcissist & you are absolutely correct. They will destroy every woman they meet.
You reminded me of something my mum said about my dad when she met him. He was always complaining about life being unfair to him, his parents neglecting him and the fact that nobody was helping him. You're right, my mum did everything a wife could do. House cleaning, cooking, helping him as much as she could, but it was never enough. When he was younger, he was awkward, a bit ugly, didn't know what to do with his life, with really bad fashion taste. He was physically, emotionally, verbally and financially abusive to my mum and us. He enjoyed going back and forth with my mum, he used to say very offensive things to us, but we were too young to understand. Oh, you've just described my dad. My mum filed for divorce after 17 years of suffering. And now that he is old, he started praising my mum at 79, he's at last recognised that my mum was a good wife. But we know he is not sincere. He's just feeling lonely.
Do we have the same dad?!! He’s all alone if his home health aides aren’t there. Can’t even hardly walk! And my mom in better shape than me and she’s older than me AND my dad. Oh honey - she didn’t even know how old my dad was until after they got married that’s how much he LIESSSSSSSSSS.
He need Hospice care now smh 🤦
U Ain’t Never Lied!!! Just started!!!
Dang Tony, you got me not wanting to deal with nobodyyyyy 😭
Seriously! I feel it may be wise to stay single and celibate in this day and age
Because we are truly living in the end times!
You can’t give up on dating…unless you really want to. Seeking out someone with good character and is a real responsible adult. Ain’t easy out here….
Good. Take your time. Better to be safe and slow than sorry!
Narcissist 😮😮😮😮😮 is the WORST 😮😮😮😮😮😮😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
I’ve experienced this type of man and was highly deceived. Glad I left and know the signs now. He had me confused overall cause I knew he “loved” me but over time things didn’t make sense. Appreciate these videos to educate us on the tactics and mindset.
Tony you ain't neva lied! I was with a "victim"mentality grown boy cause he was only a man in stature. I'm so glad I broke it off with him 6 years ago... thank Jesus. This dude was my first relationship 12 years after I had been divorced and abstinent. Will not make that mistake again....Nope. Now one thing is for sure ain't no man coming over my kids. I made sure of that. All my children are adults now and I'm glad I didn't have men around my children. I pray for the mom of that poor baby!
“ if he didn’t make it pro,you have to take it slow slow” that was a whole sermon amongst itself! I can’t tell you how many men I have met that did not make it pro or did not level up due to their own stupid actions and were a nightmare.
36:18 "You broke Ain't cha?" 😂😂😂😂😂 SCREAMING!!
Lmaooooooooooo I hollered
@@TheShaniVerse 😭😭😭😭
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lately, it seems like all I have been attracting are bisexual men. I don’t know why that is but the spirit is definitely moving! I pray for double discernment every night and I ask God to remove that spirit away from me. The last man I was dating was very insecure. He loved bombed me, had me meet his parents, he was very argumentative and kept starting arguments out of no where. His best friend was gay. He was doing a lot of things that heterosexual men don’t do. I left the situation and never looked back!
Yesss he told me his best friend was gay to throw me off but they were actually lovers and plotted against me to destroy my life like he did his baby mom 😭
@@WalkingwithChrist97 yes same thing he did. It’s scary out here and I’m honestly afraid to date again.
Continue praying for discernment. However, it’s not necessarily all on you. Homosexuality and narcissism is on the rise.
As a 50 sumn year old woman; I attest to every fact laid out here about this type of man. RUN! As soon as these attributes are detected... 🏃🏾♀️
Tony, the information you are giving is life saving! Praying for continued blessings on you and your family.
Thanks Tony for sticking up for children without a voice!
So sad bless that little boy 😢😢😢
I just watched this Hulu documentary called Betrayal and this exactly what happened. Thank you Tony!
This is very true. I wish that I would have known this six years ago.
Facts!💯
There’s no love greater than a mother’s!! Run!🏃♂️ 🏃♂️🏃♂️
Thanks Tony!!!❤❤❤
A man living/operating out of ego or a place of desperation is the deadliest known to man. Be safe n keep a guard up ladies even around fathers husbands brothers and any we call loved ones. Doesn’t mean they value us the same❤
I literally lost everything because I made up my mind to be a mother before a provider… The Lord has restored me and we all lived to testify about it. Ladies, we always have a choice, choose wisely.
❤Amen
True facts 💯
I agree Tony....you have to really get to know a man and take time with that process. Be careful with men that had sexual trauma growing up...not saying don't date but you better make sure he has worked through that trauma otherwise buckle up.
This! My ex-husband was abused in foster care, then verbally abused by his older cousin after his aunt & uncle adopted him and his siblings. Needless to say, he was a terror. Red flag that I missed: he only did one therapy session for all that trauma. Knowing what I know now, I would have put my track shoes on!
Tony thanks for everything you’re sharing with us. What you’re saying is true.
I’ve been with a man you’re speaking of. I eventually divorced him because I couldn’t allow my son and I to endure the torment from that relationship. Recently I came across someone who plays as a victim. Ladies please listen and heed what Tony is saying.
Insecurities in a man comes in many ways Tony it’s so right
OMG!! I saw this but didn’t get a chance to view it until today!! This is so true!! He is a narcissist and bisexual he just told me after 5 years- didn’t have qualities you could see and showed no signs but he did have these characteristics: argue and go back and forth, tell me my feelings weren’t valid, over 35 years old, not married, hard on women!!… Lord help me through this!!
Every man I have ever been involved with, that did not like Tony’s stance- Every last one was insecure and the relationship failed.
You hit the nail on the head with the insecure man never feeling fulfilled, always looking for a power thrill. Just relinquished a relationship with God’s provision and protection in order to protect myself and my peace from the insecure man. Wants to do everything but get married even though it was his idea and suggestion from the get go. Focused on the pursuit of money and power within the black community of Atlanta/in the church/in the school system. I’ll pass. God has better! 🥰 The Pharisee spirit is running rampant through these people whom claim to be Christians. Many unfortunately shall hear, “Depart from me for I never knew you.” I choose Jesus because I only want to hear, “Well done, my good and faithful servant.” God tells me the sweetest things when I go into the secret place and seek His Face!
Love bomb in the beginning and want to do everything but get married. So true.
That is so right about cameras veing in daycares or wherever your child maybe I agree totally
This is very accurate, I wish I heard this 14 years ago
Tony, you KNOW exactly what you are talking about. I divorced this insecure extroverted victim - con artist. God showed me all of this and this video is confirmation. Thank God I'm free from idolatry and this hidden, but "in plain sight" darkness which is an expert at hiding in the church. Lil Ugly is great at separating you from God.... you can't be with lil Ugly without being in idolatry. Point blank. Period.
@@stephaniejoywoodside9942 AMEN!
Here in Texas we call it the Power . Because that spirit desires to have control over somebody else. The ultimate goal of the spirit is to separate then annihilate that person. Enjoying this series God bless
This is so true. The most dangerous man I’ve dealt with was a man that didn’t go pro because he got in trouble in college.
✨Older men are to be temperate, dignified, sensible, sound in faith, in love, in perseverance. Titus 2:2✨
Great message, Tony!💯
Amen 🙏🏿
I learned sometimes you have to pray for people from a distance. Don't get attached to a man then find out later he was sent from the devil.
Facts!
You are so right Mr. Tony!!!
And I’ll say even majority of surgeons are married w/family-kids, to your point. I worked closely with Ortho & CV surgeons for decades and majority were married with structured family. So you are right about these average unmarried men!🙏🏽
JESUS! JESUS! JESUS!
Mann sayyy everything you said hit home. Left my ex 2 yrs ago and he was very insecure, ran expeditiously with my track shoes on. NOTHING was never enough for this man
Thank you for this series. You have confirmed what I knew. It’s supporting me in maintaining my strength to steer clear of these types of men when I see these issues at the onset. Much appreciated
I think that’s goes back ways an insecure woman is the worst friend we not even going to talk about her dating somebody! 😫
Spirit was trying to slow me down. Guy was POPO , 47, never married. Voice in my Spirit. .hold on to your empathy sis!
Thank you Tony for these teachings.
Love your video I wish I could have seen this fifty years ago. I'm in seventies and at peace with not looking for a man thank you. I'm a fan of yours
"Theres no prophetic barbers" 🤣🤣🤣🤣 dang tony. This was powerful man.
21:35 “let me hit myself again.” 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏾♀️
I hollered ! 😂🤣😆
@@ItsDee1213 ME TOO! I just couldn’t even help it. 🤣 and he was so serious.
I'm about to cry 😂 it's stinging
@@mialynne7614 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
He said “I’m hurting so bad I can’t even hit myself again” 😭🤣🤣🤣
Thank you TG - Such an important message!
Cheating men have two n three phones
This is God given wisdom. Thank You!
Thank you!!!! Tony, Excellent, Excellent commentary‼️(( You’re speaking 💯 Facts. I Appreciate you allowing God to use you.., May God continue to bless you and your family! (( Keep going, keep speaking the truth and pulling the wool off of these demonic people…,🤍🤍💫💫🤍🤍
Blessed evening everyone!
👏🏾 The ACCURACY
Sir you spoke nothing but the living truth
All you spoke of I been a victim of so I know better now when dealing with a real Godly genuine man thank you for this video very much needed ❤👏🏽💯
100% divorcing someone RIGHT NOW with these little ugly qualities. I really wish I had a really good father figure in my life to tell me this message. Thank you Tony 🫶🏽🤎
Tony, I thank you for this word today. It has put so much in perspective. May God continue to be a blessing to you and your family.
Thank you for this video. I needed to hear this.
Same! He recently called due to his brother's death- overdosed🫤
I gave condolence and stated I was already aware that something horrible happened.
He asked how in a voice laced with shock!
I said you called 🥱...
Wished him well though 😊
So very true! Every word!
Teach Sir Gaskins this Sunday
The Holy Spirit was speaking directly through you in this video. 🙏🏽
Bro Tony this was so Heart breaking to hear about the So call Prophet that brutal took that young boy life 💔😢 lord this is so sad , lord Jesus help us to wake up like you said and smell the Folgers in the morning concerning this spirit of Lil Ugly
He speaking 100 percent facts.
I telling you Tony can talk about serious stuff as make you laugh as well. Thank you because this was definitely and eye opener ❤
Good message. Lots of meat regarding spiritual warfare and demonic activity. His face looks like somebody did the cha-cha slide on it was fun-nee.😂😅😂😅😂😅
The Ackee and Saltfish part!! Omg!!😆 Mr Gaskins, you will be fine!!! I promise you!! 😂
😂😂😂😂😂 not going to cry tomorrow. Love how in depth you go
You're definitely God Warrior keep the faith in God guidance......this was a lesson learned with truth and facts....bless your heart ❤️....you and your family stay strong In God sight🙏❤️❤️🙏
I will vote for Tony for President...👏👏👏👏👏
I used to work with doctors too most were married with kids by 25.
VOTE!VOTE!VOTE! Tony
You must honor the ancestors to get the right to VOTE! Please VOTE.
Honor God alone
TGissel ( love from Detroit) You drop so many jewls and facts. Love that you be speaking on everything on your platform. Also, you keep it all the real for real.
Much respect and appreciation to you Tony for bringing to the forefront abnormal and dangerous human behavior.
I wish I had these teachings 20 years ago before I married my ex. I went through a lot of pain and abuse from an insecure man. Thank God for restoring my life away from him. Ladies please take this advice and learn or it can cause you your life which is taking away more than your PEACE. 🙏🏽
Everything you said was right on! Like every point was spot on about my experience dating an insecure man. It has been painful trying to break this soul tie. I know that I have failed & allowed him back into my life knowing he was hitting on nothing. He is a liar, loser & bum! But, no pain will go in vain. I will help some many women with my experience. With the help of Jesus I will be healed and overcome this battle. I am praying & hope this message helps so many ppl. You can make it through with your faith in Christ ❤
Gaskins is not lying!
This entire video describes my EX !!! He was definitely Satan’s child ..no matter how much I pray this dude keeps trying to text and contact me but he is BLOCKED.
I love a good laugh, while getting valuable life lessons. Thank you, Sir.
TONY!!!! Yes, yes and yes. I dated an ex pro football and i think he is extremely deprrssed unfulfilled...he didnt stsy long. And two, yes you cant do both 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Tony i been low key for three years looking at content from you fr and thank you for speaking real truths about things we as women need to know because in today society women is lost outside for everybody devaluing themselves on every level we as women need to take time to learn how to take care of self in healthy ways have boundaries say no I'm not interested in a respectful way its too many folk accepting situations it's too many situationships too many addictionships people male and female thirsty in a hurry to not be alone jumping into coating and wasting valuable time being delusional by avoiding red flags the first sign of anything that make you feel uncomfortable run repent not having self control will cause your judgement to be totally off.
FACTS spoken here!
Speaking truth here
31:17 ughhhhh this guy just told me this to my face I was so CRUSHED because before that I said I love you 😭 😭 wtf I’m thankful for this video
Tony, this is Excellent Vital information. It all sounds reasonable and very truthful! My own brother and Father would give me this great advice. A real man is gentle! Thank you so much!! Again, Excellent!! Keep It Going! I say Absolutely to All you've said! 😊
I typically don't view your messages. But this is one of the most real messages I have seen from you!! Just facts!!
Tony is leaving no stone unturned. The critical lesson is to Never, Never, Ever Under Any Circumstances leave your child (boy or girl) with a man. There is too much of a risk for horrible life-altering abuse.
Thank you Mr. Gaskins